Anon Brings His Gf Home

#6 - anon id: 65295945

Reply+35

(08/22/2017)[-]

Parents are ******* idiots sometimes.

>be me, very shy beta 14+ year old
>barely can look a girl in eye
>so live girl-less
>pretty fulfilling life, I am very crative and constructive and have ******* of friends I spend time with
>parents sometimes hint that I can bring girls home, or, haha, a boy
>refute that statement, but later realized parents thoguth I was gay.
>like, ******* ****... wtf?
>my weird youth made me very non-sexual publicly, and I was very shy waaaay into my 20's. Maybe instead of assuming someone is gay, you, as a parent, should rather notice that your ******* shild is shy for some reason?
I can name like 5-6 occasions that ****** me up a little and made me into what I was.

Thank Jupiter at about 24 literally decided that - **** this, I am not a sad cunt - and started lifting, doing sports and after some time clubbing with or without friends. Joined all the hobbies I wanted (yeah.. btw all betas - having spare money helps a lot.
so get a job ASAP!!!!!!! hobbies make you into a better man, but all of them cost somehing in money and time).
Got first girl and then I was just swimming in pussy like crazy and completely lost any shyness. I am much more outgoing than even my "social" friends (yet not crazy. I mean I literally do cool interesting stuff that is extremely attractive to others, and girls love the smart yet badass).
So it feels rather good to be ripped, strong, funny, smart and have great leadership skills.

So here's my advice to all beta losers - do sports A LOT, work and study A LOT, look deep inside yourself what is your favorite thing - make it your hobby, job and business. And never be afraid to fail.

#11 to #6 - anon id: 991e53c6

Reply+2

(08/22/2017)[-]

Can relate to thee anon.
Was a complete ****** shy bitch, and had mother "hint" to me that i might be gay.

One day i eventually just got fed up with her, after i had a girlfriend and she started to think i only dated her because "i wanted to convince my mother i wasnt gay".

Eventually i just said **** it, decided to go for a factory job for a summer, and ended up not being **** anymore.

Get a job in a factory if you like them boys. It's fullfilling, plenty of jobs (specially as welders), mostly alright people (exept maybe a bit grumpy because their kids are ****, you'll get used to it) and good pay.

If any of you guys got "decision anxiety" about high school or uni or whatever, go for factories. They rock.

Unless you dislike the idea of factories of course. Then do something else.

#12 to #6 - anon id: 4fed5c4c

Reply0

(08/22/2017)[-]

This guy knows what the **** is up, work on yourself guys, do what you enjoy and socialize, we're all gonna make it

#8 - sociocat#422 on commentsRank#422

Reply+7

(08/22/2017)[-]

my parents never wanted me to be gay
im bisexual and my dad always says "man you are a handsome boy you will be fending the girls off with a stick" he makes sure to only imply ill ever be with girls
one day I asked if he would be ok with it if I was gay and all he said was "you arnt gay"
I have a feeling he will be dissapointed in me in the future

#10 to #8 - mrwrong

Reply+1

(08/22/2017)[-]

Every child disappoints their parents.

#13 to #10 - anon id: 98ba738f

Reply+1

(08/22/2017)[-]

LOL!!!!! So true.......

I wish were dead....

#14 to #13 - mrwrong

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(08/23/2017)[-]

By what metric are you judging your worth that you'd even think that?

The notion that we're 'all good at something' isn't just some obvious truism, but an invitation to judge yourself according to your greatest value. I mean, Einstein can be made to feel like **** if he judges himself according to his value as a basketball player.

If you really feel that way, you've got to reassess why your evaluation of your parents matters to you 'cause if it ACTUALLY DID, you'd do what you could to please them - and you would. Most parents just want you to try hard anyway.

So the better question might be why you're keen to torture yourself a standard you don't actually have, if that's what's actually going on here.

#1 - rampaginkumquat

Reply+3

(08/22/2017)[-]

********, who showers before getting in a pool?

#2 to #1 - monykers

Reply+5

(08/22/2017)[-]

I think it's habit from going to public pools? I always rinse off before getting in. I really don't know why i do it either.

#3 to #2 - rampaginkumquat

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(08/22/2017)[-]

Hmm never heard of that, i always rinse off after going in the pool so i dont have any chlorine left on my skin.

#4 to #3 - monykers

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(08/22/2017)[-]

Sometimes apartment pool rules will ask for you to not wear lotions or oils before getting in. I think it's more of a courtesy thing. Which is kinda silly because the pool is more sanitary than a shower *shrug* I also rinse off the chlorine afterwards too, but that's because it can be harmful for your skin.

#7 to #4 - anon id: e37c6789

Reply+6

(08/22/2017)[-]

It's not a courtesy, the pool is sanitary because you keep it that way by artificial means: mainly chlorine and pH control. The more external agents you put into the water, the quicker the conditions change so the water is not so sanitary.
That's why avoiding creams and oils and rinsing sweat off before going into the pool facilitates the job of keeping the water at good levels so it's sanitary.
Source: I worked for years as a machinist at a pool.

#5 to #4 - rampaginkumquat

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(08/22/2017)[-]

Yeah that makes sense, some people are allergic to certain lotions or oils so you wouldnt want it in the water just to be safe.

#9 to #1 - kirinokousaka

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(08/22/2017)[-]

i do

every public pool in my city has it posted that you have to shower before and after leaving the pool. the lifeguards will even stop you if you try to leave the locker room without showering first

#15 - deathmaggot

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(09/03/2017)[-]

Oh I hated my parents saying that. I finally told them that I just don't get relationships and that I prefer just being alone. And dudes, there is nothing wrong with that.