What should i do

#5 - anon id: 7b6b07e2

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(08/24/2017)[-]

Heartless though it may be, sounds like you'd be opening Pandora's box to let them live there. Ultimately You have to do whats best for your family. Perhaps you can help them some other way? Finding them a job and their own housing? I'd imagine there are some state or church resources you can look into. Low income subsisted housing, drug/ mental health treatment, that sort of thing. Best luck man.

#8 to #5 - meaexus

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(08/24/2017)[-]

Churches. For someone just trying to get back on their feet point them towards a church, or even speak to someone on their behalf.
Letting (mostly) unknown people into your home isn't the greatest idea, especially if you have children

#9 - xdiabolicx#4 on commentsRank#4

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(08/24/2017)[-]

God damn I love the screaming, bond black dude with a fear of crustaceans meme.

#11 - bakinboy

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(08/25/2017)[-]

It's better to endure the **** your wife is going to give you
than to endure the ******** that is inevitable if they move in with you

#4 - smashingsaxon

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(08/24/2017)[-]

Absolutely not.

#10 - zoloop#448 on commentsRank#448

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(08/24/2017)[-]

You really, really don't want to let people into your house unless you've known them for 10+ years. And even then, they'll still drive you nuts. Feel free to help them in any way that won't obstruct your lifestyle, but do not take them into your own house unless you know everything about them.

#15 - savedstuff#276 on contentRank#276

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(08/25/2017)[-]

All you can do is what you think is right. I think you have very logic well thought out points.

#13 - lyrion

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(08/25/2017)[-]

If you feel its the right thing to do then you should take the proper precautions. What you need to do is install some home cams if you are comfortable with that. Just don't leave them open to anyone and change default admin passwords. If you need help picking cams just let me know and i can help. Basically what you would want to get though is something that you can set that will save to a NAS drive or one that saves to a cloud and activate themselves on motion detection.

This is coming from someone that has knowledge with cams and has friends that have great knowledge with setting them up themselves. Gotta help out others in these troubling times.

#14 to #13 - lyrion

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(08/25/2017)[-]

My last supervisor has bought cams that are easily set up and has installed them on a rental property and has all doors and major areas setup in a fashion where he can control everything by only himself and as setup to see who comes in what doors and to have footage in case anything happened in the house.

#16 to #14 - cthulhudreams#59 on commentsRank#59 [OP]

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(08/25/2017)[-]

That's illeagal, landlords (im assuming that what he is) cant spy on their tenants....

#18 to #16 - lyrion

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(08/26/2017)[-]

They can't spy that would be correct but they wouldn't be tennants #1 and you could put them up in the common areas and your own rooms and that would be perfectly legal #2

#12 - leaguer

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(08/25/2017)[-]

Help them if you can, some people can be impulsive with their money and lose it, or are riddled with debt and were dumbasses and paid it with more debt and are broke because of that.

That said, i wouldn't house people i don't trust in my house, "he won't be there unless i'm there" basically means "this deal holds for a couple of weeks after slowly deteriorating into nothing and you'll be seeing him in his underpants drinking your beer on your couch"

tl;dr help them if you can, but don't give them straight out money or let them in your house. You can treat them to food and/or clothes and stuff, but that's pretty much it.

ps. not enough info to say anything else, are they broke broke, or just homeless?
why isn't she(girl) with her husband at the shelter?
how does she own her car if she's really broke?
how did they turn homeless?
how did she get fired(implying fired because ex-boss who is homeless)?

implying you can find satisfying answers to points above, you may be comfrotable in letting them in your house, but make sure you know enough first.

#7 - Maroon#250 on commentsRank#250

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(08/24/2017)[-]

If you don't want to, don't. On top of all the other things you mentioned, they're homeless and the only people they can turn to is a previous employee and her husband? No family willing to help them? No long-term friends? They'll pay for their own food but not the increased utilities in extra people living in the house?

People have a knack for getting too comfortable when being given something for nothing. In no time they're gonna treat your house like they're the ones doing you a favor and seem like they're not actually putting much effort in ******* off out of your house.

Why should you have to be uncomfortable in your own house for two people you don't really know and wouldn't do the same for you regardless of claims to the contrary .

#6 - naafi

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(08/24/2017)[-]

If you let them in then set up nanny cams everywhere. You're gonna get scammed, nerd