I need advice guys
I live and work for my mum's company ( in b4 incel faggot) but because we are not UK citizens I have had to leave the country for a few months for my visa to be approved. I've found out that not only did she unlock my room but she went in and rearranged my things, included materials for my 2nd job worth several thousand pounds, without my consent or taking care to keep them all together. When I asked that she respect my privacy and property, this not being the first time its happened, she flipped out and called me ungrateful after all the work she's putting into getting my visa ok'd. Every single time I bring this up I get brushed off immediately. I can't move out as I don't have the reserves to support myself and, by law, I have to remaining with my employer for 5 years. I.e her.
Am I the arsehole here? I know she's putting so much work into it, but what right does she have to violate my privacy when she is essentially my land lord to whom I pay rent. Should I put up with it or save up and gtfo first chance i get or deal with it