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#218250 - I thank you for your advice. Unfortunately I'm gonna …  [+] (1 reply) 10/02/2016 on Advice - love advice,... 0
#218258 - rokkai (10/02/2016) [-]
"I don't want to fall in love with the idea of having someone who cares about me."

this hits way too close to home for me.
im currently in a relationship because she was into me. i like her but i think i like being loved more.

i guess "maybe it's going to be alright" means it won't be alright.
#218248 - And what I need is ways to get over her without actually havin…  [+] (3 replies) 10/02/2016 on Advice - love advice,... 0
#218249 - braveblue (10/02/2016) [-]
She's likely a bitch man, you're better off without her, but me saying that won't make you feel better.

Just general advice, you probably won't get over her until you've been in some more relationships. If you find someone really nice, you'll be golden, love's pretty hard to replace, you can't just replace it so easily and get over someone. I know this firsthand, took a long time to get over first girlfriend, Two years, I met someone who was identical personality and voice wise and they pretty much reminded me of her and I thought, well I'm not missing much since Its not like I was treated very nicely or my feelings weren't thought of too by my Ex.

A month after I got over her, I met someone else, someone who really cares a lot about me, someone who has cried over me when my ex didn't really show any real feelings about me like that, or she was just one of those tough nuts to crack when it came to her emotions, anyways, I pretty much got over her, when I realized how I dodged a bullet, and I didn't want someone in my life who was gonna just drop everything and abandon me, even when they didn't really even like spare my feelings at all.

So what i'm saying is, you have to find your own way to get over someone, usually time and not hearing/seeing her helps, finding someone else that cares and loves you more than what she did could work. It's a personal problem, you really can't just ask someone a complicated question that only you can really answer. You'll get over her eventually, that's something that is definite.
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#218250 - stillfreeman (10/02/2016) [-]
I thank you for your advice.

Unfortunately I'm gonna be seeing her a lot over the next year. I don't want to get into a relationship just for the sake of getting over her. I don't want to fall in love with the idea of having someone who cares about me. I want to actually fall in love with that someone.

Anyway, I've got friends, I've got hobbies, but after the break up, I haven't had a lot of interaction with either of the two (or is it neither? English isn't my native tongue, forgive me).

I need new ways to waste my time. This is my last year in college and it's pretty empty. Previous years kept me busy due to my major's demands. She really did pick the worst time to leave me.

But at least I have no one to please but myself for the time being. I've been binge-watching a lot, cooking, listening to music, playing video games, guitar, working out. None of these actually made me forget about her. It's the way she replaced me that really got to me.
Thanks a lot anyway, I'll just take as much time as I need, and hope for the best.
#218258 - rokkai (10/02/2016) [-]
"I don't want to fall in love with the idea of having someone who cares about me."

this hits way too close to home for me.
im currently in a relationship because she was into me. i like her but i think i like being loved more.

i guess "maybe it's going to be alright" means it won't be alright.
#218244 - She did the breaking up. It's been over for a month but I foun…  [+] (6 replies) 10/02/2016 on Advice - love advice,... 0
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#218245 - braveblue (10/02/2016) [-]
Sounds like what happened with my Sister, she dated him for 5yrs but my sister was the bitch that broke up with her boyfriend and found a dirtbag not even a month later.

Probably fell out of love with you and just stopped caring and loving you, wanted out because she probably already had someone else lined up or she was attracted to or something. Thats what happened in my sisters case. If that happens, i'd say good riddance to your ex. She probably wasn't a good person in her heart at all if shes just gonna move on so easily. She probably just had the guts to finally break up with you maybe.

Anyways, if you're looking for something long term, good luck man, If she was acting all distant before she broke up with you, then the whole falling out of love thing probably did happen, if you were like a good guy, and her relationship with this person fails, don't let her back in your life, its not worth it no matter what don't do it. If she did it once, it's likely she'll do it again.

I'm assuming you guys started dating in late highschool and early college or something along those lines, but i'd wager highschool.

Anyways what's your problem?
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#218248 - stillfreeman (10/02/2016) [-]
And what I need is ways to get over her without actually having to bring someone else into my misery. I don't want revenge and I wish her luck in everything she does.
#218249 - braveblue (10/02/2016) [-]
She's likely a bitch man, you're better off without her, but me saying that won't make you feel better.

Just general advice, you probably won't get over her until you've been in some more relationships. If you find someone really nice, you'll be golden, love's pretty hard to replace, you can't just replace it so easily and get over someone. I know this firsthand, took a long time to get over first girlfriend, Two years, I met someone who was identical personality and voice wise and they pretty much reminded me of her and I thought, well I'm not missing much since Its not like I was treated very nicely or my feelings weren't thought of too by my Ex.

A month after I got over her, I met someone else, someone who really cares a lot about me, someone who has cried over me when my ex didn't really show any real feelings about me like that, or she was just one of those tough nuts to crack when it came to her emotions, anyways, I pretty much got over her, when I realized how I dodged a bullet, and I didn't want someone in my life who was gonna just drop everything and abandon me, even when they didn't really even like spare my feelings at all.

So what i'm saying is, you have to find your own way to get over someone, usually time and not hearing/seeing her helps, finding someone else that cares and loves you more than what she did could work. It's a personal problem, you really can't just ask someone a complicated question that only you can really answer. You'll get over her eventually, that's something that is definite.
User avatar
#218250 - stillfreeman (10/02/2016) [-]
I thank you for your advice.

Unfortunately I'm gonna be seeing her a lot over the next year. I don't want to get into a relationship just for the sake of getting over her. I don't want to fall in love with the idea of having someone who cares about me. I want to actually fall in love with that someone.

Anyway, I've got friends, I've got hobbies, but after the break up, I haven't had a lot of interaction with either of the two (or is it neither? English isn't my native tongue, forgive me).

I need new ways to waste my time. This is my last year in college and it's pretty empty. Previous years kept me busy due to my major's demands. She really did pick the worst time to leave me.

But at least I have no one to please but myself for the time being. I've been binge-watching a lot, cooking, listening to music, playing video games, guitar, working out. None of these actually made me forget about her. It's the way she replaced me that really got to me.
Thanks a lot anyway, I'll just take as much time as I need, and hope for the best.
#218258 - rokkai (10/02/2016) [-]
"I don't want to fall in love with the idea of having someone who cares about me."

this hits way too close to home for me.
im currently in a relationship because she was into me. i like her but i think i like being loved more.

i guess "maybe it's going to be alright" means it won't be alright.
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#218247 - stillfreeman (10/02/2016) [-]
She did fall out of love, and it was obvious. I did all I could to make this relationship work. It was my first relationship, and it started in early college. However it wasn't HER first relationship. I'd say I'm a good guy. Everyone I know thinks so too. I just really feel fucking worthless because of how fast she got over me.
#218242 - Broke up with girlfriend of 4 years. Help.  [+] (8 replies) 10/02/2016 on Advice - love advice,... 0
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#218243 - braveblue (10/02/2016) [-]
You broke up with her or she broke up with you?
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#218244 - stillfreeman (10/02/2016) [-]
She did the breaking up. It's been over for a month but I found out she found someone new.
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#218245 - braveblue (10/02/2016) [-]
Sounds like what happened with my Sister, she dated him for 5yrs but my sister was the bitch that broke up with her boyfriend and found a dirtbag not even a month later.

Probably fell out of love with you and just stopped caring and loving you, wanted out because she probably already had someone else lined up or she was attracted to or something. Thats what happened in my sisters case. If that happens, i'd say good riddance to your ex. She probably wasn't a good person in her heart at all if shes just gonna move on so easily. She probably just had the guts to finally break up with you maybe.

Anyways, if you're looking for something long term, good luck man, If she was acting all distant before she broke up with you, then the whole falling out of love thing probably did happen, if you were like a good guy, and her relationship with this person fails, don't let her back in your life, its not worth it no matter what don't do it. If she did it once, it's likely she'll do it again.

I'm assuming you guys started dating in late highschool and early college or something along those lines, but i'd wager highschool.

Anyways what's your problem?
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#218248 - stillfreeman (10/02/2016) [-]
And what I need is ways to get over her without actually having to bring someone else into my misery. I don't want revenge and I wish her luck in everything she does.
#218249 - braveblue (10/02/2016) [-]
She's likely a bitch man, you're better off without her, but me saying that won't make you feel better.

Just general advice, you probably won't get over her until you've been in some more relationships. If you find someone really nice, you'll be golden, love's pretty hard to replace, you can't just replace it so easily and get over someone. I know this firsthand, took a long time to get over first girlfriend, Two years, I met someone who was identical personality and voice wise and they pretty much reminded me of her and I thought, well I'm not missing much since Its not like I was treated very nicely or my feelings weren't thought of too by my Ex.

A month after I got over her, I met someone else, someone who really cares a lot about me, someone who has cried over me when my ex didn't really show any real feelings about me like that, or she was just one of those tough nuts to crack when it came to her emotions, anyways, I pretty much got over her, when I realized how I dodged a bullet, and I didn't want someone in my life who was gonna just drop everything and abandon me, even when they didn't really even like spare my feelings at all.

So what i'm saying is, you have to find your own way to get over someone, usually time and not hearing/seeing her helps, finding someone else that cares and loves you more than what she did could work. It's a personal problem, you really can't just ask someone a complicated question that only you can really answer. You'll get over her eventually, that's something that is definite.
User avatar
#218250 - stillfreeman (10/02/2016) [-]
I thank you for your advice.

Unfortunately I'm gonna be seeing her a lot over the next year. I don't want to get into a relationship just for the sake of getting over her. I don't want to fall in love with the idea of having someone who cares about me. I want to actually fall in love with that someone.

Anyway, I've got friends, I've got hobbies, but after the break up, I haven't had a lot of interaction with either of the two (or is it neither? English isn't my native tongue, forgive me).

I need new ways to waste my time. This is my last year in college and it's pretty empty. Previous years kept me busy due to my major's demands. She really did pick the worst time to leave me.

But at least I have no one to please but myself for the time being. I've been binge-watching a lot, cooking, listening to music, playing video games, guitar, working out. None of these actually made me forget about her. It's the way she replaced me that really got to me.
Thanks a lot anyway, I'll just take as much time as I need, and hope for the best.
#218258 - rokkai (10/02/2016) [-]
"I don't want to fall in love with the idea of having someone who cares about me."

this hits way too close to home for me.
im currently in a relationship because she was into me. i like her but i think i like being loved more.

i guess "maybe it's going to be alright" means it won't be alright.
User avatar
#218247 - stillfreeman (10/02/2016) [-]
She did fall out of love, and it was obvious. I did all I could to make this relationship work. It was my first relationship, and it started in early college. However it wasn't HER first relationship. I'd say I'm a good guy. Everyone I know thinks so too. I just really feel fucking worthless because of how fast she got over me.
#158457 - Currently, my favorite bands are Half Moon Run and Daughter. I…  [+] (2 replies) 09/22/2015 on Music - new music, hip hop... 0
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#158504 - nimba (09/23/2015) [-]
I feel ya. Try Sonny and the Sunsets or Fink or Hozier
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#158463 - flamingpie (09/22/2015) [-]
Big fan of daughter, not huge into the genre itself, the only thing I can recommend that is similar is Lauren Mann and the Fairly Odd Folk, they're pretty small, but you can listen to them here laurenmannmusic.com/media/#!listen Enjoy!
#32664 - Hello FJ, I took a huge liking to movies with plots contai…  [+] (7 replies) 08/11/2015 on Television - cartoon... +1
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#32700 - herecomesjohnny (08/12/2015) [-]
read Bradbury's A Sound of Thunder, that's one of the bigger sources on the matter
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#32672 - thedudeistheman (08/11/2015) [-]
Primer
Twelve Monkeys
Looper
Parallels
eXistenZ
Donnie Darko
Inception (Kinda)

The Adjustment Bureau doesn't really have a twist though. I don't remember Source Code having a twist either.
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#32685 - stillfreeman (08/12/2015) [-]
I know the adjustment bureau didn't have a twist but the concept was great, a bit sloppy with the execution but still, I liked the movie.
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#32681 - dorkledumbs (08/12/2015) [-]
Twist in Source Code was that he was dead the whole time and was never meant to save the train, only find the identity of the bomber so people in the real world could stop the next bombing.
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#32684 - thedudeistheman (08/12/2015) [-]
Oh yeah.
#32666 - dorkledumbs (08/11/2015) [-]
If you're feeling brave, Primer.
#32665 - hetmartino (08/11/2015) [-]
Twelve monkeys
Looper
Memento (not really time travelling but still, creative with the chronology of the scenes)