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|#174 - and here's the video because my comment was too large. If you…||12/14/2014 on TL;DR||0|
|#173 - I don't know where you grew up, but where I'm from I was beate…||12/14/2014 on TL;DR||0|
|#171 - It's a different thing to have deep dark secrets and a differe… [+] (3 new replies)||12/14/2014 on TL;DR||0|
#172 - Daeiros (12/14/2014) [-]
I don't bother telling people about what I do in my bedroom unless I plan on inviting them to join me there. I don't really see a need to be in everyone's face with your identity like some people are. No matter what your sexuality is, if that is a primary portion of your personality, then you have a shit personality. Get some hobbies and interests and try to relate to people on common ground instead of flaunting how different you are and then wondering why nobody likes you.
I understand that things are much harder for gays, especially if they are dating someone, it isn't quite as easy to just not mention it, and I'm not saying that you should try to sneak around and hide who you are. Just don't run around shouting it from the rooftops and expect not to attract some negative attention.
#173 - problematique (12/14/2014) [-]
I don't know where you grew up, but where I'm from I was beaten, as a teenager because people had the NOTION that I was gay, hell I myself hadn't even invest the time to contemplate my sexuality. Now I'm a student so I've moved to the big city. Things are different but still in my country lgbt+ people can't marry, get beaten in the street, get kicked out of coffee shops for kissing or showing affection, get yelled at the bus and so on. We lack basic respect and human rights by the law, so I can understand why people sometimes go around shoving it in other people's throats.
Also I just want to clarify that telling people that you're anything other than straight is not telling them what you do in your bed. My boyfriend is scared of walking down the road with me holding my hand. People come up to me and say "We get it you're gay (even tho I'm not!), you don't have to shove it down our throat. It's simple, if they walk down the road holding their, opposite sex, mate's hand, why can't I? Why does MY affection indicate what I do in my bed?
Society really is not mature to fully accept and understand what not being part of the norm is. Again, I can only talk about my country tho because it's where I grew up, so things might be different where you are. But I experience homophobia on a daily basis (which is really funny, because I don't classify myself as gay, as I said. But as soon as people see you with a person of the same sex, they rush to conclusions, so which one has the urge for labels, really?)
In order for you to be thinking like that, I honestly hope you didn't have to experience any kind of discrimination throughout your life. But for me, even tho I identify as a queer person (in case you need some enlightment that means I don't see myself as a man or a woman, but just as a person, I think that gender is a social construct) it's a daily struggle to prove I'm not an elephant. Here, watch this video, it explains perfectly what I'm trying to put across.
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|#73 - your comment need to be stickied damn it||11/19/2014 on Don't tell me what to do!||0|
|#5 - hahaha where did this come from xd||11/19/2014 on problematique's profile||0|
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