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|#293 - Bail, he's a selfish douchebag and there's too many bros out t… [+] (1 new reply)||07/22/2014 on Feels thread, open your hearts||+22|
|#30 - Boyfriend sounds like a bitch. Take the good job and tell him … [+] (25 new replies)||07/22/2014 on Feels thread, open your hearts||+256|
#1356 - anonymous (07/22/2014) [-]
I agree. He should be supportive and happy about the better job opportunity you got, rather than force you to give it up. Essentially, if he is forcing you to give it up, he doesn't deserve you.
#1293 - anonymous (07/22/2014) [-]
no ur a bitch
#930 - anonymous (07/22/2014) [-]
im with this guy, however, you sais he has made sacrifices for you, before i call him whiney can you say what these sacrifices were if you dont mind?
#246 - poppies (07/22/2014) [-]
Update.. I called him and he said he would come with me if there was a guarentee of a job for him too (you can go to Japan on a tourist visa and get a job whilst there but it's risky, and he'd be wasting $2000 if he had to go back home and start from scratch), he's selling his cars and giving up his job here to go to the one in Okaya, and pointed out to me that I'm not giving up much at all.
He basically implied if I leave him for this job then it means I don't really love him. I want this job badly but I do love him. But he's also said that I don't make him very happy so what's the point in staying in a relationship that's unhappy?
He said he'd made a lot of sacrifices and compromises for me, such as finding us an apartment in TN for when I came here when he could have been doing "other shit".
I feel guilty but.. I dont know what to do. I think I'm staying with him out of guilt and feeling obligated to more than anything. Would leaving him make me a horrible person?
#2508 - mistafishy (07/23/2014) [-]
It might not be any of our business to know the details, but just do what feels right.
#2477 - poppies (07/23/2014) [-]
I know. I feel really trapped, if I left him I'd just feel guilty. I feel like I owe him. I'm really considering just saying "fuck it all", I've been contemplating suicide for a while now and I know how easy it would be. I've spent hours on end thinking about how to do it. Sometimes it feels like that is the only way out.
#1649 - hoponthefeelstrain (07/23/2014) [-]
he's trying to guilt you into staying and also throwing up old arguments in your face (the unhappiness and him always doing stuff for you). If those were real issues he would have brought them up sooner. Also if he's unhappy again, why stay in a relationship like that? he said it himself.
#1007 - olioh (07/22/2014) [-]
he seems to try to guilt trip you pretty bad, but imho go for the job, you are young, and those opportunities are rare, us filthy men come and go, and from your comments i really recommend the job it will hurt at first but remember, men come and go, my english is pretty bad : <
#1465 - anonymous (07/22/2014) [-]
Or shitposting cuntwhistles, but they're the minority in this thread.
#544 - KoeSavant (07/22/2014) [-]
Tell him that you're going to do what you want to do and if HE really loved you he wouldnt make such a big deal out of it. I've given up so much for my girlfriend but i NEVEr mention any of it because i want her to be happy. I would get fucked in the ass by an elephant before calling her selfish for wanting to follow her dreams. Tell him that yeah you're selfish but at least you're not a dick about it and smear him in shit. You shouldnt be with guys who make you feel like you owe them on purpose.
#275 - anonymous (07/22/2014) [-]
Someone making you feel like you're terrible for wanting success isn't a person you should be with at all. Think of how hypocritical his saying you're selfish is. Someone who really loves you will live your success vicariously and be with you the whole time pushing you on. If need be leave him. Someone hindering your life, really, truly isn't worth it.
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