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- so if i'm understanding correctly, youre saying i should accen…
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I'm going to answer in bullet points because I hate missing any part of a certain question.
+ It's better to be yourself but to understand that there is a time and place for certain attitudes as well as behaviors. I have a friend who is consistently 100 % himself and his lack of tact would turn a lot of people off from him. There is a reason that many people talk about how they're different once they're comfortable with someone.
+ Don't be confident just put yourself in a position to be comfortable. Don't be a jerk but instead be hardened towards the negativity that you will undoubtedly receive; if you bend over backwards it sets a bad precedent but that doesn't mean you have to be mean. Instead, temper your desire to do every nice little thing that you can think of.
+ Dress nicely isn't as big of a deal to our generation. Instead, it's just making sure that your clothes fit in a flattering way and don't have rips or stains in them. Don't smell bad because you don't wash your clothes haha.
+ You're not going to pretend to be something you're not for the rest of your life. My best example I can give you is that I love Manga and Comic Books. However, that's not information that my friends or people I begin dating typically learn until much later. There's just some things that don't need to be shared until you feel safe doing so. Have fun with it man. Experiment, approach each date differently.
Dressing nicely is subjective. You need to feel comfortable and just look alright - Correct fitting clothes, a sense of style behind the clothes.
You don't need to be a dick to get girls, but don't be so beta that you're afraid to say things. Being yourself has to have a flow when you're talking, don't stumble on your words or mess up a punchline etc.
Confidence is key but it comes in various different forms. I'm sure if you're on a topic you're genuinely interested in and know quite a bit about, you'll be able to show that excitement and continue a conversation easily. You need to be like that when you're talking about other things you may/may not be interested in - Show you're interested in them and what you're saying, but don't look clingy/attached, keep a bit of distance sometimes - In the sense of treating them like a normal person with your intentions already clear.
There's a really good book called The Game by Neil Strauss, give it a go my dude
so not being confident is part of your personality?
also not being a bit of a jerk?
you do know that doesnt mean you have to be an asshole, just that you gotta be a bit playful
so at the end of the day you are stuck up with a low self esteem. is this who you see yourself as?
also the clothing bit, noone forces you to buy expensive clothes. you dont have to spend thousands to look good. hell I always buy the cheapest stuff I can find and I look good.
How much do you want a girl?
You should always try to be yourself but you should always change for the better. You should be what other want you to be, unless of course it really is what best for you.
Saying i'm just happy being myself take confidence but it might also be a delusion one tells themselve in order to be comfortable with mediocrity. You mentioned something about getting girls. Well the ability to attract a girl prove you have success in at least one manly area. Whether it be confidence, independence, success, fitness ect. We kind of just lump it into being manly or able to pick up girls.
Anyways, you need to look at yourself honestly. If you hear these suggestions to change often then others may be seeing things that you don't. I listen to a seminar once about refinement. "A young man who wants to attract a mate must look in the mirror
Then he must shave and press his clothes."
What about you is worth appreciating? If all you have going or you is that your a nice guy then i got some bad news.
so if i'm understanding correctly, youre saying i should accentuate my good characteristics and change the ones that need improvement? that makes sense, my one issue really is a lack of confidence and since that has pretty much become part of my personality i just cant really see it changing, i know it's a beta thing to say but i really am a nice guy, i'm decent looking, and i can be interesting and funny when i want to, i just need to work on the confidence thing because approaching girls on my own is completely out of character for me. either way, thanks for the reply
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i just read your thing, and i just want to assure you that it is completely natural to be concerned about your body image
i dont know much about BMI or what a person your age and height and body type should weigh, but i know that you can make your body better and you can love it.
do some exercises, if you feel pain then work around it, dont let it discourage you. you wont see any results for a few weeks, even when you're working hard, but i promise you that if you take care of your body, push yourself, and reward yourself with healthy food, you will get better.
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