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#30 - Same thing. 3 years (my first and only relationship, to make i…  [+] (2 new replies) 9 hours ago on Daniel Radcliffe +3
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#59 - manofparody (4 hours ago) [-]
Well, 4 months after our breakup..

I lost 70 lbs, I've changed completely for the better, and everyone thinks I'm an amazing person now..

I sent her a message after 3 months of no contact. She saw it and completely ignored it.

The pain will never go away. I have no answers and no closure, and she still loved me when we broke up.
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#32 - ciacheczko (8 hours ago) [-]
Don't think too much about it. First relationship is always like that. A mental trap that makes you think this is the best what you could have gotten. Trap that makes you think "what if I will never feel the same thing with anyone else?" "what if it will feel lackluster because of different kisses, different hugs".

Absolutely not. None of these will be a real issue. Believe me. The more you will look back the more you will realise how many things were shit. If her breakup came to you by surprise, you likely just didn't have the capacity to see certain things. And I don't mean it in any offensive way. I had the same thing. My first bf's change of mind about our relationship seemed so surprising, so out of nowhere.

But I got over him, I grew up mentally and later, looking back, I gradually saw more and more how much he lied, how big of a selfish wimp he was, and how many things that I was clueless about back then are now a bright red light whenever I see them in a person I just met. Especially a person who says stuff like "things changed" is likely a self-centered asshole. It may not seem like it, but it often is true.

Pretty sure whenever someone tells you the "change" bullshit, it's actually all about them getting bored of a regular relationships and wanting to get someone more exciting. Because unstable little children are too hooked to these overrated "butterflies in stomach" thing, and run towards every asshole that makes them feel a slight nudge in their bellies. Fuck them, they are not worth of any grief.

It's not worth to have a crisis about something like that. The fact that it was your first and only relationship is the only reason why you're taking it so hard. It will get better. In fact, getting into some rather non-commital relationship afterwards is the best way to recover. Just meet up with somone you fancy in some way, and see what happens. Trust me on that one.
#37 - I guess that's why you're supposed to follow more than one of … 22 hours ago on the raises your creativity 0
#36 - ...and and reddit, and 4chan, and this place. All have bad hab… 22 hours ago on the raises your creativity 0
#36 - As far as ships go, this one is actually appropriate and could… 06/28/2016 on Sandy cheeks +1
#67 - Oh god just the way she cries out "my eyes" 06/23/2016 on My Favorite WebMs and MP4s... +3
#70 - tbh I can't imagine someone as bitter as you're coming off to …  [+] (1 new reply) 06/22/2016 on GreenTeaNeko 0
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#71 - satanicllladvocacy (06/22/2016) [-]
so what? im not responsible for your lack of imagination
#33 - It's not thaaat forced, since the two heros synergism with eac… 06/17/2016 on Tattoo -6
#110 - The official Overwatch twitter reply was vague, saying it was … 06/17/2016 on Comfortable 0
#25 - Well I think it was one of the top posts on r/overwatch, and i… 06/14/2016 on Time to shine +3
#29 - That's fair. I found the over the top acting to be fun myself … 06/12/2016 on /pol/ on Inglorious Basterds +1

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