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#190 - pyrusd (12/17/2014) [-]
This actually is the closest to a good explanation to all of this. But to me, still lacking.
You find yourself needing to protect something. Find the one you love and care for them and show you can keep them. I have ZERO clues as to how that is masculine. I would 100% PREFER it if more women were like that because honestly I look down my nose at most women for how sheepish they are. I love girls who weightlift, who have that drive and determination, that sense of strength. But I don't view that as "being a man" or "masculine" in nature. That's just being a strong human and again, I wish that across both genders. People are WAY too weak and soft these days.
Now, same with the womanly things you mentioned. Being a housewife and settling down.....of which no one makes anyone do. Others say things like "that's engrained." Really? Uh....again, as a male. I would love to find my one love and settle down with them and have a family with them. Well that's a female thing.....uh...ok? This is why none of this makes any sense. Well women are housewives....BUT they don't need to be. Men are strong and protective...BUT they don't need to be. So...we can be whatever we want. That's fine, but that doesn't address the issues of "My body doesn't match how I feel."
You said before I'll never understand it. Well as a fellow human that has empathy, I should damn well be able to understand it, if explained properly. It seems that all of these gender roles and issues are what trans folks are obsessed with. I don't know who assigned any roles to you or when they did but I'm sorry they did. I've lived how I've wanted to my whole life and never cared about what others thought so no idea where these rules and regs are coming from that you guys all want to follow. I've switched roles and haven't felt any more or less masculine because again....don't know what it means to feel masculine. Every other feeling under the sun I've got a good grasp on. Feeling like a dude...it's never happened.
#193 - anahbell (12/17/2014) [-]
And that's the thing, we all have differing views on what makes a man a man or what's masculine and feminine so we'll never completely see eye to eye. Empathy and being in the position yourself are two very very different things. And no, you shouldn't be able to understand it wholly.. it was explain properly. You think that the people explaining it are at fault when maybe it's you either asking too far or not being able to process it yourself. We'll explain all we can but if you can't make the connection that's on you.
Some trans folks are obsessed with this kind of stuff and love making a huge deal out of it and want nothing but attention, but the rest of us just want peace. And you know.. a good way to kind of explain is using some of your words.. okay you said you don't know what it feels like to be a man.. because you are.. and there are no real defining feelings for that.. that's also how I feel and why it's so difficult to explain it. It just feels.. normal. It's not that I 'feel like a man'.. it's just that I feel 'normal', that I feel like me and there are no words to explain it.. it just IS... and then you look down and see that your body doesn't match how you see yourself in your head and that's when you realize somethings wrong. It doesn't match up and you don't know why. Then everyone denies you, tells you you're wrong.. going to hell.. that if you can't explain it.. you're lying... you're looking for attention, when in reality.. dude I just want to be happy.
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#182 - pyrusd (12/17/2014) [-]
Again, if I don't get something it's because you haven't explained it properly. In the many cases I've discussed, just as you have to, none of that makes any sense whatsoever.
You're trying to match things up...which means things don't line up. Ok....what doesn't line up? To me, it's 100% based on gender and genitalia. So if you're saying you have female parts, then you're female. But apparently "inside" you're not. Ok...again, what does that mean? How do you feel? You feel like a man.....What does that mean? I'm male...100%, have a penis, love women and so on. But I have no idea what this "feels like a man" means even though I am one.
Not once have I ever been, wow I feel like a woman today. Not once have I ever gone, wow I feel like a man today. Based on what you ended with, that anyone can be a man, then apparently being strong and successful is manly and that....all women should be manly? Since they're inherently inferior because they are not presenting themselves strong and successfully?
#187 - anahbell (12/17/2014) [-]
I've explained it as properly as possible. What's in my head doesn't match what's in my pants. And 'feeling like a man' isn't something that's just one defining thing.. it's different with each person. You will literally NEVER understand it unless you're in our shoes so telling us 'you're wrong because you didn't explain it right'.. isn't correct. We've explained it as far as we can without you being us. And for us it's not like one day I feel like a woman and the next like a man. It's literally every day of our lives that we are that one specific gender but then look down and realize our shell is not what the rest of us is.
And no, I never said they're not strong and successful, I'm just saying that a penis doesn't make a man. It's his integrity and how he IS. I'm also not saying a woman can't have their own level of integrity and what-not either. It's literally just a label for us both. Women just want to be women and men just want to be men, this goes for trans people as well because we are what we are.. our shells just got a little messed up when we were born.
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