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|#183398 - Appending what the guy below said, the Ong Bak movies starring…||05/03/2015 on Advice - love advice,...||0|
|#183397 - Get a job if you don't have one and go to college. It sounds c…||05/03/2015 on Advice - love advice,...||+1|
|#183386 - Good luck! [+] (4 new replies)||05/03/2015 on Advice - love advice,...||+1|
|#30418 - In short, fix your diet, start strength training, and increase…||05/02/2015 on Fitness - muscle and...||+1|
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|#183305 - Well, that's natural. You're interested in this girl, and you … [+] (6 new replies)||05/02/2015 on Advice - love advice,...||+1|
|#183298 - Somebody once said that the first thing that goes through your…||05/01/2015 on Advice - love advice,...||0|
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#183302 - ilikethisusername (05/02/2015) [-]
but the thing is i'm nervous to hang out with her. as i said, i'm nervous to be just around with her. i see her in the hallways and she wouldn't notice me sometimes and i would just get nervous out of no where.
when i'm with her, i don't know what i'm going to say and that scares me. i mean what if she finds me boring? she already once told me i'm a mellow type of person (she said in an insulting way) and i'm guessing she said that to mean as if i'm too soft or too boring or lame, i don't even know.
when i was with her at the dinner party, i was still very quiet and didn't know what to say. when i smoke weed, i like to just relax and chill and not talk at all, that's the type of person i am. i am a chill person, not very talkative but someone who just likes to let go of everything and relax.
#183305 - Zarke (05/02/2015) [-]
Well, that's natural. You're interested in this girl, and you don't want to screw up. It'll get easier once you've had your toes in the water a few times with her. I get that you're worried, and it's understandable why. You don't want to screw up, but you gotta realize that it's going to go one way or the other. If you take the dive, either she'll like you or she won't. If you don't, you're just going to chase yourself around with "what if, what if?"s.
Don't worry about her saying you're "mellow" or that you like to chill out and not say much and she's a bit... boisterous, let's say. People with different dispositions can gel well together, and you shouldn't worry about bending yourself to fit the type of person you think she's into. That's just being fake. The girls I've dated didn't give me a shot because I'm a chill guy as well. They gave me a shot because I showed them parts of me that work with me being chill (my particular sense of humour; an affectionate, fun-loving side; and... raw animal magnetism? I have no clue what happened with that last one), rounding out who I am as a person. You're not just a laid-back guy, which is good. Nobody likes just a laid-back person, and if they do, their standards are way too low for it to be a healthy relationship. You've got other traits and habits and whatever special, sticky sauce makes us unique as people, and those are what'll win her or anybody else over rather than one generic "envelope" trait.
Try to think about a few things you'd want to talk about before-hand. Once conversations get going, those nerves should fall away a bit. Who knows? Maybe she'll lead the discussion and you just have to riff off that.
|#30379 - I'm not looking for such an intense cut, and I do want to get …||05/01/2015 on Fitness - muscle and...||0|
|#30345 - ****, that sounds good. Thanks man! [+] (2 new replies)||04/30/2015 on Fitness - muscle and...||0|
#30355 - nanako (05/01/2015) [-]
This is imo the best way to lose weight fast. a very low calorie diet will cause you to lose some strength too, but if you had hardly any to begin with, it won't really be an issue.
A protein shake alone is a pretty decent meal