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|#341 - I understand, but a lot of FJer's are probably lying or at lea…||01/16/2014 on Master of Romance II||0|
|#316 - It's 4chan, so it's probably not a true story anyway. Good on … [+] (2 new replies)||01/16/2014 on Master of Romance II||0|
#341 - Deeticky (01/16/2014) [-]
I understand, but a lot of FJer's are probably lying or at least exaggerating.I suppose a few of them could be truthful, but those are usually the ones that describe how much it messed them up. Having volunteered working with teens who have mental health issues, I can tell you that losing your virginity that early tends to reveal some underlying problem. The vast majority of sexually active kids under 15 are from poor households and tend to not have a strong family structure.
Also, I'm sure by now you've realized that most people on websites like this and 4chan are guys. A lot are desperate for female attention. One thing to understand about the average guy's stance on virginity vs. the average girl's is that guys tend to see it as something to lose of and girls tend to see it as something to protect. Whether that is due to society or just testosterone, I'm not sure. What it ends up meaning is that there are a few guys who will go around having sex with as many girls as they can. The girls are only prizes to them. They are very good at manipulation and pretend to seek actual relationships. They tend to be loud and confident. They also tend to not spend much time on the internet. On the other hand, there really aren't many girls who act like those guys. What this leads to is women, on average losing their virginity earlier than men because many of them are losing it to the same few guys. (Not as a rule, but on average.)
There are a lot of guys who become kind of bitter about this. They feel that as virgins, they are failures. Most of them spend time on the internet and they'll express this bitterness in different ways. Many tend to claim that they're "nice guys", and some are, but there are also quite a few who just want sex, and use the "nice guy" thing as an excuse. Some will lash out at women. That's where you see a lot of the internet's misogyny coming from. That's why I'm saying good on you. Show the guys on the internet that not all women are the same.
|#41 - Yeah, as an American, I can say I don't really like the direct… [+] (1 new reply)||01/16/2014 on Margarita Anyone?||+1|
|#281 - Yeah, crazy girls definitely exist. Trust me on that. [+] (1 new reply)||01/16/2014 on Master of romance||0|
|#279 - I don't think so. but they're quite a few of those on 4chan. T…||01/16/2014 on Master of romance||0|
|#139 - Thumb for you because you're being reasonable in your argument…||01/16/2014 on I never thought about this||+1|
|#55 - The other guy is likely not holding on to the trigger. A commo… [+] (1 new reply)||01/15/2014 on Disarmed||0|
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|#51 - Worth watching? Yes. In my experience, even people who don't n… [+] (1 new reply)||01/13/2014 on Attack On Hyrule||0|
|#191 - Just a typo, eh? That's good. You seem real intelligent, so I … [+] (1 new reply)||01/13/2014 on Magic exists||+1|
|#168 - Your punctuation is really good. You're nearly perfect. Here's… [+] (3 new replies)||01/13/2014 on Magic exists||0|
|#156 - Well... **** .||01/13/2014 on Fun Facts #1||0|
|#75 - Yeah, Colonel Komarov's story is indeed sad, but is all too co… [+] (3 new replies)||01/12/2014 on Fun Facts #1||+1|
|#109 - Ok. Thank you for being polite as well. I disagree with your o…||01/11/2014 on Don't mess with me||0|
|#470 - I had...Issues trying to get the comment to come out correctly…||01/11/2014 on Faith in humanity somewhat...||0|
|#389 - Just gonna clarify something for all y'all. A femin… [+] (11 new replies)||01/11/2014 on Faith in humanity somewhat...||+1|
#411 - victorianfancyman (01/11/2014) [-]
Fortunately that isn't true. Remember that the US is a huge country. As a nation, our feminist movement is very similar if not the same as that of any other western nation. On a smaller scale, one loud, asshole feminist can ruin the concept of feminism for everyone else.
The problem with feminism is one that stretches beyond borders. By definition, feminism is fundamentally flawed as it draws on the concept of a "patriarchy" and inherently male dominated society to shift this society's privileges towards women alone. The problem here is that men still retain our expectations and gender roles. Historically men have always been expected to be the bread bearers, the drafted fathers, and the heavy lifters in general. Feminism ignores these, seeking a twisted version of what they would like to call gender equality without acknowledging the disadvantages men put up with as well- as if gender issues are only a problem for women. Most feminists don't understand this below the surface meaning of feminism, and in truth, their views are more aligned with those of a gender equalist rather than a feminist.
#417 - thepenname (01/11/2014) [-]
"By definition" doesn't work when there are a ton of different definitions. Lots of "feminists" don't believe men's privileges should be women's instead. And going to the end of your comment, whether you say "gender equalist" or "feminist," you're still just making reductive labels. See my separate comment above for more on that.
Men do not have the same expectations and gender roles as they used to do. Yes, historically men were the bread winners ("bearers," dude?), but now more and more women are entering the workforce and it's not uncommon for both parents to have full-time jobs. Are there still more men in the workforce than women? Probably. But the qualities that made men more suitable for certain tasks are being made obsolete. Obviously we don't need to be physical specimens to work an office job and although soldiers are still incredible athletes, there are fewer and fewer roles that require the natural upper-body strength of men. I'm aware that there are still some, but fewer than there used to be. I do agree that there are unequal expectations for men as far as their roles in society just as there are for women. However, this disparity is being mitigated on both ends. A lot of is due to technology as it renders obsolete those characteristics that made one gender suitable for one task over the other gender.
#420 - thepenname (01/11/2014) [-]
There are totally people in real life who discuss feminism and plenty of other subjects without proper knowledge or temperament.
You know people on the Internet are just people in real life sitting at computers, right? And that those people do also talk in real life?
I'll admit people are less inhibited on the Internet though.
What I hate is when people automatically devalue discourse as a matter of it simply occurring on the Internet. "Don't start an Internet fight" and "I'm not going to argue over the Internet" are phrases you often hear. If there's a subject at hand and people willing to talk about it, what's wrong with a debate? If they aren't arguing well, that's not necessarily the Internet's fault, it's an issue of their education or knowledge or temperament or anything else that affects the quality of one's discourse.
But that last paragraph is more a tangent than a direct response to your comment.
#399 - TheseChocodiles (01/11/2014) [-]
Thank you, I was going to write a big comment but you pretty much hit it on the nail. I am a feminist, as a girl I think it's hard not to be because every girl has experienced sexism, it may have benefited them so they choose not to highlight it and maybe rightfully so, as there is such a thing as positive discrimination.
I wish people would stop seeing feminism as a bad thing, it has a lot of shitty people who brand it as such but essentially, if you respect women, you are a feminist, no ifs or buts about it.
#412 - ruebezahl (01/11/2014) [-]
Actually, I doubt that every girl has experienced sexism. Otherwise, you would not see retarded content like this one. I think some girls grow up in really protected environments, get everything they need from their protective parents, go to a good school where all teachers are constantly eager to promote tolerance and equality, etc. So then they think they don't need feminism, because hey, look, there's nothing in the world that they can't deal with!
Only when they leave their protective cocoon and go out into the world and realize how differently women are treated from men, that's when they realize how fucking naive they were.
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|#99 - I actually liked them all, not for story or anything, but as a…||01/11/2014 on opinions kill people||0|
|#134 - I don't think he ever said that all black women act the same. … [+] (3 new replies)||01/11/2014 on black man||+2|
|#190 - She just wants a big tip. No, the other kind of tip.||01/11/2014 on mom||+1|
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