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#36266 - anon (08/04/2012) [-]
Here's a social/relationship thing for you bored people to answer:

How many relationships you have been in:
Spilt 10 points between how important looks and personality are (e.g. I think looks matter for 3.5 of the 10 and personality matters for 6.5 of the 10):
On a scale from 1-10, how much does being over weight when it comes to attraction matter to you (1 being it doesn't bother you at all and you would gladly be in a relationship with a bigger person if they had a good personality and you were attracted to them, 10 being the opposite, you could never be attracted to someone who is overweight):

It looks more like a survey but I thought I may as well find out about peoples views on relationships since it's the social board.

User avatar #36450 to #36266 - KobraKidd (08/05/2012) [-]
Looks: 4 Personality: 6
I suppose 4 would be about right, if I'm attracted to the person and they have a good personality then I can deal with some chub, but then again I guess it depends on how overweight the person is, haha.
User avatar #36404 to #36266 - Thefirstpedobear (08/05/2012) [-]
Looks : 2 Personality : 8
User avatar #36399 to #36266 - indiaan (08/05/2012) [-]
Looks are important, ever heard of love on first sight? That's completely based on looks + if there is no physical attraction to begin with people won't get to talking, if people won't get to talking then their personality won't come out. BUT! In the long run personality will matter more, no one is crazy enough to spend a lifetime with someone her or she can't stand just becuase they're hot.

So initially looks are important but only in the first (few) conversations. I'm not going to grade them becuase they aren't coherent factors that one can base attraction on.

Oh yeah:
2 serious relationships, and a shitton of bad dates becuase of a lack of personality

Also fatty's welcome, I'm more about personal hygiene than body fat count. Long as a woman can keep herself clean I can be physically attracted to her.
User avatar #36379 to #36266 - AnonsForSure (08/05/2012) [-]
User avatar #36360 to #36266 - dalemc (08/05/2012) [-]
Quite a few, one serious one for 3 years.
Personality- 8
Looks Let friends shave my hair at mad party, so 4 just now, maybe 5 when i got my hair, Don't really rate myself to be honest ha..
User avatar #36359 to #36266 - anonmos (08/05/2012) [-]
Personality- 8
Looks- 4
User avatar #36361 to #36359 - dalemc (08/05/2012) [-]
Sure i have seen your picture on This board before, you're at least a 7 in looks ha :D
User avatar #36362 to #36361 - anonmos (08/05/2012) [-]
This is about how much looks matter to me in other people.
User avatar #36364 to #36362 - dalemc (08/05/2012) [-]
Aw yeah, my ex who i went out with for 3 years was about a 4, If a girl has a good sense of humor, and is a nice person, that's all that matters really.
User avatar #36365 to #36364 - anonmos (08/05/2012) [-]
User avatar #36367 to #36365 - dalemc (08/05/2012) [-]
Where i'm from, Too many girls care about what people think, So you don't know what they're actually like cause they act different all the time, which is annoying.
User avatar #36368 to #36367 - anonmos (08/05/2012) [-]
Yeah, i have friends like that, it's weird and kinda sad.
User avatar #36369 to #36368 - dalemc (08/05/2012) [-]
In Scotland, alot of the girls are sluts ha, lose their virginity by 13, theres lots of underage pregnant girls over here ha.
User avatar #36370 to #36369 - anonmos (08/05/2012) [-]
Girls in Finland arent sluts like that. Just dumb.
User avatar #36371 to #36370 - dalemc (08/05/2012) [-]
You from Helsinki by any chance?
User avatar #36372 to #36371 - anonmos (08/05/2012) [-]
No. Why?
User avatar #36373 to #36372 - dalemc (08/05/2012) [-]
I was gonna go there on Wednesday, the football team I support Celtic are playing them in the Champions league. But i got a fitness test for the army thursday so i couldn't go, was looking forward to it aswell.
User avatar #36374 to #36373 - anonmos (08/05/2012) [-]
Oh, sounds like fun. Personally i don't really like Helsinki. It's too big and noisy.
User avatar #36375 to #36374 - dalemc (08/05/2012) [-]
I know what you mean, I live near Edinburgh but in a small town on the other side of the bridge in a county called Fife. It's like a completely different world haha.
User avatar #36376 to #36375 - anonmos (08/05/2012) [-]
Well my town isnt very small. Smaller than Helsinki though and so on.
User avatar #36377 to #36376 - dalemc (08/05/2012) [-]
Well my towns about 10000 people, but that's quite small compared to others. Is the population in Finland about 4 million? I think it's that or i'm getting it mixed up with Croatia.
User avatar #36378 to #36377 - anonmos (08/05/2012) [-]
5 million-ish. Dunno how many people live in my town, but it's juuuuuust right. I love this place.
User avatar #36381 to #36378 - dalemc (08/05/2012) [-]
That's about the same as Scotland. I wish we could break of from Britan and be Independent. But we have all the oil so Goverment would let it happen. I hate being called British ha. So what's the weather in Finland like just now, trying to be social ha.
User avatar #36384 to #36381 - anonmos (08/05/2012) [-]
Well looks like we reached the comment limit. Have fun at the pub and stuff.
User avatar #36386 to #36384 - dalemc (08/05/2012) [-]
Yeah the conversation was going stale. Thanks have fun with whatever you're doing.
User avatar #36382 to #36381 - anonmos (08/05/2012) [-]
Well that was roughly off topic.
It's sunny, warm and nice here.
User avatar #36383 to #36382 - dalemc (08/05/2012) [-]
Ha yeah i know just bored. It's dull here as per. Going to a pub quiz later with some mates so that should be good. :D
#36380 to #36378 - anon (08/05/2012) [-]
User avatar #36385 to #36380 - dalemc (08/05/2012) [-]
Haha Anon, you made me laugh.
#36345 to #36266 - anon (08/05/2012) [-]
looks 3 personalty 3
i just want somebody to love me.....
#36344 to #36266 - TheseChocodiles (08/05/2012) [-]
Nothing substantial
Looks - 3/4 Personality - 9

User avatar #36337 to #36266 - Noah (08/05/2012) [-]
Looks: 4 Personality: 6
I can think chubby girls are attractive but not too much... so 5?
User avatar #36336 to #36266 - syrenthra (08/05/2012) [-]
Gender: Male
How many relationships you have been in:0
Virgin?: Yes
Looks 4/10
Personality 6/10
I'd say like 3 for the weight, I'm fat and I accept it and I think a girl who is a little chubby is cute, but I would prefer to have a good personality and an alright body to a perfect body and a bad personality for a long-term relationship.
User avatar #36335 to #36266 - fjcookie (08/05/2012) [-]
Gender: Female
Age: 15
How many relationships have you been in: 5
Virgin?: no, sadly.
Looks: 4-ish
Personality: 8
Weight: 5
User avatar #36290 to #36266 - hadrian (08/05/2012) [-]
-current one (and hopefully last one), 2 serious long-term, several non-serious short-term
-Not a virgin
-looks/personality = 4/6 looks are important but personality is more-so.
-5. If only a little overweight, it doesn't matter to me, but obese is a deal breaker. I like a little padding to hold onto (and absorb some of the impact when the sex gets rough) but there's definitely a limit.
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User avatar #36284 to #36266 - unceunceunceasdf (08/05/2012) [-]
Gender: Female
Age: 14
Relationships: 2
Virgin: Yes
Looks and personality: 6ish and 3. I'm a shy awkward loner.
Weight: 3 or 4
User avatar #36272 to #36266 - chaosforce (08/05/2012) [-]
Gender: Male
Age: 19
relationships: 7+ all 5months or more
Virgin: no
looks:personality: 4 looks 6 personality
weight: 5

User avatar #36270 to #36266 - loveyameanish (08/05/2012) [-]
Alright, I'll bite, you prying little Anon scamp, you ;)

-4 legit relationships, a few more stupid teen relationships.
-I think I'll stick with your ratio; Looks 3.5 - Personality 6.5. I'm not shallow when it comes to looks, I actually despise pretty boys who are really into themselves, but I also don't think I could TOTALLY disregard looks, it's important to have a physical attraction, otherwise it's just friendship.
-I'd say about a 3. Again, appearance is important in the sense that there has to be some form of attraction, but a chubby guy wouldn't be a deal-breaker for me. HOWEVER, being so overweight that it's a danger to one's health just shows that they aren't taking care of themselves (subject to exceptions, obviously), and if someone can't look after themselves they're not gonna know how to take care of others.

SHEEEIIIT, that was longer than anticipated.
User avatar #36271 to #36270 - loveyameanish (08/05/2012) [-]
Oh, also, virgin; No.
#36269 to #36266 - MrMeatStick (08/05/2012) [-]
Gender: Male   
Age: 17   
How many relationships have you been in: 2   
Virgin?: No   
Looks: 3   
Personality: 7   
Weight: 7
Gender: Male
Age: 17
How many relationships have you been in: 2
Virgin?: No
Looks: 3
Personality: 7
Weight: 7
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#36331 to #36267 - jacie (08/05/2012) [-]
Gender: Male
Age: 17
How many relationships have you been in: 3
Virgin: Yes
Looks: 2
Weight: 8

After being in a couple of relationships with good looking girls, I realized that looks don't amount to shit. A lot of good looking people I know are complete jackasses and I despise them because of that. We live in a society that pretty much teaches us that if you're good looking, the world is yours, you're perfect, don't change yourself, and those girls really absorbed that and lived that to the fullest. Don't immediately go for her looks, and get to know who she really is, cause you might get surprised half way through the relationship. As for weight? Weight doesn't really matter to me. Personally I like a girl with a bit of extra on her, it's interesting to me. It's a huge plus if she wears glasses, but you don't always get that. If you took the time to read this, what I'm trying to get across is don't let a persons outward appearance fool you, that includes their immediate personality and their looks. Get to completely know them to the best of your ability and then date the person. If you're too caught up in your infatuation, you wont pick up on all the bad and you might regret it later on.
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