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#7 - charagrin
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(09/25/2013) [-]
I am not trying to be an ass, but I am trying to understand HOW an average female can force an average man into sex without use of drugs/booze. Some of those hit me, others just made me question logic.
#431 to #7 - Loopholes
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(09/26/2013) [-]
Not all men and stronger than all women.
Also threats, black mail, intimidation.
#432 to #7 - insertbrony
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(09/26/2013) [-]
males can rape other males?
#30 to #7 - theguythatisnotyou
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(09/25/2013) [-]
Erections are purely biological. They mean next to nothing, but most guys don't know this so it could go something like this.

"See? You have a boner that means it isn't rape because you want it."
#125 to #30 - rosietheamazon
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(09/26/2013) [-]
it is so ******* difficult to explain that to stupid people.
#33 to #30 - charagrin
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(09/26/2013) [-]
I wasn't speaking of that, that is a well known argument. But how would the average female FORCE the male into the act when generally speaking, he could easily overpower her and just walk away.
#36 to #33 - grandlordchicken
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(09/26/2013) [-]
Speaking as a guy, I know plenty of females my age that could overpower me. Just because your a guy doesn't mean you are physically strong, and just because your a girl doesn't mean you are physically weaker. Girls might on average start out weaker than guys but with exercise, training, slight gene differences, fortune, and misfortune that can easily change.
#37 to #36 - charagrin
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(09/26/2013) [-]
I highly suggest reading the posts where again and again I said 'AVERAGE FEMALE" and "AVERAGE MALE". There are always exceptions to the rule, they are however exceptions and thus do not apply to an argument of averages.
#41 to #37 - grandlordchicken
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(09/26/2013) [-]
You also forgot to account for the fact that most of these people were not the same age, and many of them were not forced through physical means. Additional why does average matter? The average person is not raped, you are most likely not to be raped, rape is an outlier.
#328 to #37 - toosexyforyou
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(09/26/2013) [-]
If you can't think of how a woman could force a boy to have sex with her, then you're just stupid.
#182 to #37 - folkflunky
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(09/26/2013) [-]
If I had any family that is vulnerable (ex: a little sister) and a girl who was raping me said "If you tell anybody I'll kill your sister" I'll probably just shut the **** up to protect my sister.
#39 to #33 - chubbybastard
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(09/26/2013) [-]
Well through fear of public humiliation, like "if you don't I'll tell everyone you're gay" or something like that. Also a lot of these were talking about when they were kids like 10 and under
#40 to #39 - charagrin
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(09/26/2013) [-]
Right? This is why I don't normally try and ask a legitimate question or point on FJ. People can't read. Obviously, I was talking about the idea of male rape itself as a whole as evidenced by literally every single comment me and other people were making. Saying "man" time and time again, and not "boy" kind of gives it away.
#290 to #40 - darshian
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(09/26/2013) [-]
If you look again, most people are saying Male/Female not man/boy or lady/girl
#51 to #33 - cdarthvader
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(09/26/2013) [-]
i'm guessing, sleeping pills or some such.
#57 to #7 - neoexdeath ONLINE
Reply 0
(09/26/2013) [-]
By tricking them into a designated raping area where it becomes legitimate rape.

Or, yknow, blackmail, being stronger, drugs, while they're sleeping, tying them down, stuff like that.
#135 to #7 - anon
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(09/26/2013) [-]
Yeah, some of them seemed like they weren't really rape, just something they went along with, but didn't really want We don't have enough detail to really know though. As harsh as it may sound, not having the courage to say no is not the same thing as being raped. Rape has a legal meaning that we shouldn't bend based on how a person feels about what happened.
#633 to #135 - sanguinesolitude
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(09/26/2013) [-]
rape can be through coercion or threat as well as force. So if a police officer threatens to arrest you if you dont have sex with him, or a boss knows you have no savings and threatens to fire you, that can be considered rape as well.
#178 to #7 - semilunarknight
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(09/26/2013) [-]
I don't know man, maybe it's one of those times when you won't understand until the situation occurs. Maybe the males just have a zero tolerance for force against women(in my country you're pretty much ****** if you so much as push a woman), maybe they're afraid that the woman will say that they got raped by them. I think it's best to assume that when you have an average male and average female(as in both physical and mentally stable states) this probably won't happen, and if it does I'm sure there isn't a single reason it occurred.
#277 to #7 - anon
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(09/26/2013) [-]
my ex raped me
the normal sex i was okay with, obviously
but some times she'd take her dildo and rape me ananlly with it, with me telling her no, and that was not okay
she forced me to, and because i was relying on her for a place to stay at the time i couldnt really do anything about it
#630 to #7 - sanguinesolitude
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(09/26/2013) [-]
also threats and manipulation. For example, "if you dont do this I will slam my face into the wall and then call the police and tell them you raped and beat me"
#674 to #7 - pottslande
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(09/29/2013) [-]
Adding to the other things mentioned here, just like with man on woman rape, I'd imagine the dude might sometimes just freeze. It's sadly a common thing for people put in such extreme situations, resulting from a crossing over of flight/fight. In that case, it doesn't matter who the stronger one is.
#683 to #7 - firereadyaim
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(10/01/2013) [-]
I'd like to take a moment to point out that stats show most cases of a parent molesting a kid is usually mother on son.
#684 to #683 - charagrin
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(10/01/2013) [-]
I would like to take a moment to point out where I said "average woman can force an average man. No mention of mothers, children, ostriches, or purple limos were mentioned.
#685 to #684 - firereadyaim
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(10/01/2013) [-]
ya my comment was a little off topic
#231 to #7 - hellsjester
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(09/26/2013) [-]
guys can get involuntary boners...... we are guys trust me when i say this it doesn't take much to get it hard.... if a guy says no then they mean no. not ohhh but your all hard ima **** you any way. not every guy is a sex crazy douchenozle
#22 to #7 - pandamoncia [OP]
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(09/25/2013) [-]
A lot of these cases happended when they where young. But I can definitely see your point.


Taking sexual advantage of older males may seem off the edge.
But I can only assume it's when the female is either physically stronger, or she has found a way to mentally manipulating the other person
#66 to #7 - firereadyaim
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(09/26/2013) [-]
cohersion(i hope thats how its spelled so i dont look stupid). example "what are you gay?" "if you dont ill tell everyone you raped me" "wow you must be a faggot if you dont want to do it with me" these are extreme examples but mostly things along the lines of that. its usually not physically forced
#75 to #66 - weinerdick
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(09/26/2013) [-]
coercion
#363 to #66 - yetiyitties
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(09/26/2013) [-]
That is taking advantage of someone, not rape, "what are you gay"? sounds more like bullying and "wow you must be a faggot if you don't want to do it with me" sounds like a lame insult. If you have sex with her because of that then you're a faggot who care about what people say and you secretly did want to **** her, that's not ******* rape.
I could see if she threatened to kill a younger sibling or one of your children, or if she drugs you and ties you up and feeds you nothing but viagra. But let's be honest, FJ is full of autistic retards who would love being ****** by a woman for once. Or a man, since half of FJ is bi or something.
I could also see if it was being said to a closet gay guy who had anti gay parents and friends by a woman. Like "If you don't **** me I'm telling everyone you're a faggot and gay."

Men are more likely to be raped by other men than by women. Women are more likely to be raped by men. Do you see a pattern here? Men are the reason why this world is ******, and if you whine and say that women on men rape is the worst thing in the world you either have mommy issues of your fedora is on too tight. Oppinion and rant over.
#682 to #363 - firereadyaim
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(10/01/2013) [-]
whoa dude
#175 to #66 - bigrog
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(09/26/2013) [-]
thats not rape because they still chose to do it. All that is is being a weak willed bitch.
#263 to #175 - mcdonaldscupinc
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(09/26/2013) [-]
coercion is not consent.
#479 to #263 - bigrog
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(09/26/2013) [-]
by that logic then anyone one who fell into bed because of a cheap pick up line was raped. In you were physically forced or under the threat of violence, blackmail, ect. it wasn't raped. If an insult got you into bed then its your own damn fault.
#644 to #479 - mcdonaldscupinc
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(09/26/2013) [-]
No that is not the logic behind it at all? if you fall for a cheap pick up line its not coercion its concent. If they are "you must be gay if you dont **** me right now" "oh come on dont be a prude you want this" or talked into thinking you should do it but you dont want to, its coercion. Coercion is not nearly as bad as rape but its far from consent.
#646 to #644 - bigrog
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(09/26/2013) [-]
If you chose to **** them and nothing was stopping them from not ******* them then it's consent whether you "wanted" to or not. If you didn't want to then you shouldn't have. It was their own fault for being a pushover. By that logic every women to banged their boyfriend because he wouldn't stop asking didn't give consent.
#370 to #7 - whatevsnicktrololo
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(09/26/2013) [-]
How can somebody be raped by his ******* girlfriend? I mean, why would you say no if you are already with her? ****, if I like you, feel free to abuse my anus hole as long as you wish. My turds do it every time after a dish of dry food.
#281 to #7 - kewwu
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(09/26/2013) [-]
I happen to know of an intance where my friends sister raped a man,she was 12 and the man was 23 or so.
#333 to #281 - toensix
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(09/26/2013) [-]
Alright I'm completely on board with the "Women can rape men" thing. But now you've made me real curious. You don't happen to know or be willing to tell how that happend do you?
#353 to #333 - kewwu
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(09/26/2013) [-]
well the girl really liked the dude so she i dunno if she injected him with something or got him really drunk but the dude was pretty wasted,dud apparently didn't know anything had happened but the girl started bragging that she scored a 23 year old etc.Also no charges were made cause the girl confessed the crime.(also the girl is kill now but that's another story)
#445 to #353 - iastro
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(09/26/2013) [-]
she's dead? explain
#450 to #445 - kewwu
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(09/26/2013) [-]
quick recap.Found a guy>abused her>she got away>missed the dude>went back to him>he and his siter killed her.
#477 to #450 - toensix
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(09/26/2013) [-]
You made this story even weirder then it was.
#472 to #450 - imofcnotharveydent
Reply 0
(09/26/2013) [-]
wut
wut
#587 to #7 - anon
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(09/26/2013) [-]
This CAN happen. I was raped by a girl I didn't like who was visiting my friend at my house. I was asleep and when I woke up she was already on me. Now she has a daughter and claims she is mine. I feel bad for not knowing if she is mine or not but I didn't ask for it. The little girl doesn't deserve that. **** like that happens more than anyone knows. I just wish it would stop.
#215 to #7 - anon
Reply 0
(09/26/2013) [-]
If she has certain tools there are other entry points
#534 to #7 - kikkilinu
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(09/26/2013) [-]
She hit my sides on my ribs, and that pretty much winded me and caused me to black out (I have pigeon chest. My ribs move around quite a bit) and that's how she did it.
#158 to #7 - gormless
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(09/26/2013) [-]
Men can rape men too.
#509 to #7 - mymissiondaytwo
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(09/26/2013) [-]
There is the case where the guy doesn't lift and the girl does.
#70 to #7 - cubanwhiteman
Reply 0
(09/26/2013) [-]
Not always a woman.
#507 to #7 - fukkendragonite
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(09/26/2013) [-]
Rohypnol and Viagra combo.
#508 to #507 - fukkendragonite
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(09/26/2013) [-]
my bad, didn't see the 'without drugs/booze' part
#10 to #7 - rollinquads
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(09/25/2013) [-]
i mean alot of these are from when they were younger. Not to mention you could be confused at the age of 18 or so (Part of your body wants it but your mind doesn't kind of thing), so part of you might allow it at the time and not realize that it was rape
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#16 to #13 - rollinquads
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(09/25/2013) [-]
trust me man, i agree that the whole "if a woman and a men are both drunk and have sex, and then both don't want it in the morning, then the guy raped the girl" but you can still feel sort of ****** up after an encounter. Did a lot of these people get charged for their "crimes"? probably not, because in the justice system giving in is not a valid call for rape (as you stated) but on a personal level people could feel violated, regardless of the legality of the situation.
#34 to #16 - LewdFlapjack
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(09/26/2013) [-]
you AGREE with that ********? lol. idiot.
#35 to #34 - rollinquads
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(09/26/2013) [-]
i meant disagree haha... what i actually meant was i agree that the whole"yadda yadd" is ********.... my baad on the confusion
#179 to #35 - LewdFlapjack
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(09/26/2013) [-]
Ah my bad, I get a bit annoyed when i hear that ****** drunk argument.
#44 to #13 - organiclead
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(09/26/2013) [-]
That's starting to get into some grey area. Most people would agree that having sex because someone threatened you is considered rape. Verbal threats are just as effective as physical ones if you actually believe them.
#435 to #7 - incognitoad
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(09/26/2013) [-]
Who said anything about averages?
#12 to #7 - godtherapist
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(09/25/2013) [-]
Coercion. Threat. Waiting until they're asleep.

Rape doesn't have to be physically forced.
#63 to #12 - jaypaul
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(09/26/2013) [-]
I don't believe your username can ever be more inappropriate.
#76 to #63 - godtherapist
Reply +11
(09/26/2013) [-]
My wife goes by GodRapedMe. Is that more inappropriate?
#269 to #76 - thedarkestrogue
Reply +5
(09/26/2013) [-]
.....that is beautiful.
#124 to #12 - zachislame
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(09/26/2013) [-]
Or if the guy defends himself physically there's the possibility the girl will threaten to turn the tables and say he raper her. Guess who's going to win that one.
#617 to #12 - FightClub
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(09/26/2013) [-]
you would know, god
#614 to #12 - anon
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(09/26/2013) [-]
think he's more talking about the physical logistics, soft objects and what not..
#615 to #614 - godtherapist
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(09/26/2013) [-]
Erections are physiological not psychological.
#520 to #12 - lemleet
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(09/26/2013) [-]
i like how your name is god the rapist
#525 to #12 - infinitezero
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#531 to #525 - godtherapist
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(09/26/2013) [-]
laugh harder
#535 to #531 - infinitezero
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#538 to #535 - godtherapist
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(09/26/2013) [-]
Sorry, but that is not how burden of proof works. I didn't make a claim, YOU did, it is up to YOU to prove that the majority of rape cases are through psychical overpowering.
#547 to #538 - infinitezero
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#548 to #547 - godtherapist
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(09/26/2013) [-]
You are just saying things. No evidence given at all. I can say things too:

110% of living people will go to the moon.

See? Complete lie, didn't stop me from typing it.
#557 to #548 - infinitezero
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#575 to #557 - godtherapist
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(09/26/2013) [-]
"Law enforcement agencies in 1995
made an estimated 34,650 arrests for
forcible rape and 94,500 arrests for
other sex offenses (figure 8). The
volume of arrests for rape and sex
offenses peaked in 1991 at 148,120."


"34,650 forcible rape
94,500 other sex offenses"

Majority?
#582 to #575 - infinitezero
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#592 to #582 - godtherapist
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(09/26/2013) [-]
You have still yet to offer evidence to your claim, that the majority of rapes are committed by force.

You say to me that the "other sex offences" could be comprised of any group or percentage possible, you're right, but that also means it could be comprised mostly of rape by coercion. There is just no way to tell.

Oh but I would like to show you this:

"The highest rate of forcible rape recorded by law enforcement agencies
since 1976 was in 1992  84 per
100,000 women or about 1 forcible
rape for every 1,200 women  and
by 1995 the rate had decreased
more than 14%. "

BUT It doesn't matter because this whole study it a big pile of ******** away:

"Forcible rape in the UCR program is
limited to incidents involving female
victims. "

Yes, let us take a page from a study that literally says that men can not be forcibly raped. No wonder the percentage for female rape victims is so high.
#629 to #592 - infinitezero
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#648 to #629 - godtherapist
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(09/26/2013) [-]
Yes I do, because unlike you I can understand that NEITHER side wins when using falsely made "statistics". Even if I were to "win" and convince you of my side it would be wrong because it would have been done under false pretenses. I happen to have morals. Do you?
#652 to #648 - infinitezero
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#653 to #652 - godtherapist
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(09/26/2013) [-]
So you are saying that rape is not wrong.
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#118 to #12 - flnonymousfive **User deleted account**
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(09/26/2013) [-]
wait.... WHAT?

if a female were to say this, this exact comment, FJ would have a masculist fit. like... a temper tantrum.

i'm not saying i totally disagree with you, but man... c'mon FJ... really?
#459 to #118 - uruguayan
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(09/26/2013) [-]
It's pretty well agreed upon that those constitute as rape.
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#43 to #15 - organiclead
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(09/26/2013) [-]
I know this is serious, but I find it funny that someone with the user name "godtherapist" seems to understand how consent works better than half the guys I know.
#47 to #43 - godtherapist
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(09/26/2013) [-]
Gotta know the rules if you're going to play the game.
#184 to #47 - scotlandhome
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#634 to #43 - sanguinesolitude
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(09/26/2013) [-]
maybe he just helps god with his post-partum depression
#97 - ultracombo
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(09/26/2013) [-]
Okay, this is a very serious topic. The fact that male rape victims exist, but are ignored by the public is terrible.   
   
...But I don't think I'll ever get as good an opportunity to use this gif than right now.   
   
Sorry.
Okay, this is a very serious topic. The fact that male rape victims exist, but are ignored by the public is terrible.

...But I don't think I'll ever get as good an opportunity to use this gif than right now.

Sorry.
#447 to #97 - voltism
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(09/26/2013) [-]
I find it funny the comment above this is someone being downvoted into oblivion for making a rape joke but here it is upvoted to infinity. FJ has a real strange set of standards.
#621 to #447 - sanguinesolitude
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(09/26/2013) [-]
he at least cushioned the joke by being a decent person.
#638 to #621 - oodlesandoodles ONLINE
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(09/26/2013) [-]
No, what he did was see an opportunity that he couldn't resist but at the same time, was too much of a coward to fully commit to, therefore rendering the "joke" even less funny that it could've been. Saying something funny on posts like these is risky, but you can't have it both ways. You either make the joke, or you move on.
#639 to #638 - sanguinesolitude
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(09/26/2013) [-]
i dont know I think making the joke but acknowledging your humanity is acceptable when its a sensitive issue. Just making a rape joke when people are actually being raped is pretty awful.
#641 to #639 - oodlesandoodles ONLINE
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(09/26/2013) [-]
If you have to apologize for doing something before you even do it, then it's not worth doing
#643 to #641 - sanguinesolitude
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(09/26/2013) [-]
maybe. I appreciate the acknowledgement of it being wrong in this case since otherwise you look like a dick. But i agree not saying it would have likely been better
#645 to #643 - oodlesandoodles ONLINE
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(09/26/2013) [-]
I guess, the real issue here is that I don't think the guy is really sorry he made the joke, but rather he was just worried he would get thumbed down if he didn't "cushion the joke" as you put it. Whenever I say something, whether it be stupid, intelligent, ill timed, or well timed, I stand by it and accept the consequences whatever they may be.
#651 to #645 - sanguinesolitude
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(09/26/2013) [-]
same. Ive generated redthumbstorms before. But that's usually because i have an unpopular opinion, not because I am being an ass. (though i suppose that does happen too)
#108 to #97 - Keleth
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(09/26/2013) [-]
dear god your terrible, but i laughed so ******* hard. Thank you for that.
#129 to #97 - tenthdivine
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(09/26/2013) [-]
Honestly I'm so glad you lightened the mood because this ******* post was HORRIBLE.

not horrible as in a bad post, horrible as in agh these feels
#251 to #97 - fitta
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(09/26/2013) [-]
lel
#26 - wizzerdofaus
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(09/25/2013) [-]
Getting raped was a real pain in the ass.
#45 to #26 - nerdgasm
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(09/26/2013) [-]
die in a fire
#339 to #26 - huecubed
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(09/26/2013) [-]
This would have got thumbs up last week or... yesterday. FJ is so temperamental
#81 to #26 - mypenisismoist
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(09/26/2013) [-]
Ya'know what, I was raped when I was a kid, but I still find this ******* hilarious.
#98 to #26 - mydogizmexican
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(09/26/2013) [-]
I give you a thumb, sure its was a p dark joke but hell, theres no need for hate
#106 to #26 - SrslyWtf
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(09/26/2013) [-]
hahahaha, I give you a thumb, and good for you to going down with your ship
#192 to #26 - azteh
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(09/26/2013) [-]
I know I shouldn't laugh, but I'm going to hell anyways
I know I shouldn't laugh, but I'm going to hell anyways
#112 to #26 - wizzerdofaus
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(09/26/2013) [-]
**** it, i'm taking the red like a man
#506 to #112 - newforomador
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#32 to #26 - arsenymous
Reply +171
(09/26/2013) [-]
If you make rape jokes on this page, you're gunna have a bad time.
#307 to #32 - toggme
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(09/26/2013) [-]
Don't be so butthurt dude
Don't be so butthurt dude
#658 to #307 - arsenymous
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(09/27/2013) [-]
I just got home and i didn't really expect this to be a top comment... srryz
#105 - peanutbitter
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(09/26/2013) [-]
I think it's interesting that the same people that joke about rape all the time on this site are bitching about it when it's guys
I think it's interesting that the same people that joke about rape all the time on this site are bitching about it when it's guys
#17 - amberleafwoohoo
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(09/25/2013) [-]
indian guy with grey coat, glasses, bow tie, message in two halves:

i dont understand..?
#18 to #17 - azurenai
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(09/25/2013) [-]
Top half is what his "girlfriend" said before she raped him, second half is what she said afterwards...

and that was the *first* time.
#19 to #18 - amberleafwoohoo
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(09/25/2013) [-]
but she was like 'see, youre beautiful'

idk if im totally misenterpreting this or what
#20 to #19 - azurenai
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(09/25/2013) [-]
She's basically enforcing the feeling of "No-one else will want you. I'm the only one that will love you"...

it's mental abuse to go along with the physical of the rape
#21 to #20 - amberleafwoohoo
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(09/25/2013) [-]
ohhhhhhhh she was just saying those things not really meaning them i get it now, right?
#23 to #21 - azurenai
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(09/25/2013) [-]
pretty much.

She's in a position of power and making him dependent on her.
#24 to #23 - amberleafwoohoo
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(09/25/2013) [-]
to make him feel like **** wow thats horrible
#46 to #24 - nerdgasm
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(09/26/2013) [-]
very good explanation, thank you.
#27 to #17 - AbsentMinded
Reply +41
(09/25/2013) [-]
He got raped by his girlfriend.
#28 to #27 - amberleafwoohoo
Reply 0
(09/25/2013) [-]
Yes.
#29 to #28 - AbsentMinded
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(09/25/2013) [-]
How the ****?
#342 - wajaa
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(09/26/2013) [-]
Rape jokes: if people don't laugh, force them.
Rape jokes: if people don't laugh, force them.
#649 to #342 - guanyu
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(09/26/2013) [-]
#347 to #342 - imoriginalposter
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(09/26/2013) [-]
I chuckled, Good job man
#42 - habanaro
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(09/26/2013) [-]
Feminism was born out of a need for equality for women. There is still this need, but what so so many feminists think is that this need is now equatable to male need for equality and protection. There is an existing ideology for women to go to for help-- men have no such thing. The closest thing we have is 'masculinism' which really only seems to exist on the internet and more comes across as a douchey response to 3rd wave feminism.
When people say that men can't be raped they're doing the same thing as people who call all women liars about rape: suppressing a need for help.
I wish that at some point in societies future we can see that all people need equality and protection.
Pic Related-- It's an attitude like this that helped some of these men go so long without saying anything.
#288 to #42 - usernameiswitty
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(09/26/2013) [-]
I can see where you're coming from with what you are saying but I feel the need to say something about your opinion on feminism. Yes, feminism was born out of a need for equality for women and that was its initial focus but true feminists champion the rights of men just as much as women. They believe in complete equality, no matter whether its a woman or a man. I don't mean to be rude, I just don't think people don't quite understand what feminism is and seem to think that feminists focus on women's rights.
#487 to #288 - habanaro
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(09/26/2013) [-]
I think that's true about real feminism. Unfortunately there's a huge following of third wave feminism which often underplays the need for EQUALITY and instead focuses on women as the only victims. It's not what feminism was, or should be, but it's a sad reality that speaks with a very loud voice. Thus why so many people on FJ seem to hate 'feminists' in general.
#49 to #42 - nerdgasm
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(09/26/2013) [-]
very good statement. It's fun to see that the people on this site are retards (like me and many others) but are still intellectually and socially aware of problems like this
#50 to #42 - habanaro
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(09/26/2013) [-]
***NOT equatable.
#4 - flickie
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(09/25/2013) [-]
It's this kind of thing that always hits me hard. Innocence, to live without guilt, is so rare. Most people only have it once. Some never do. People think they can fix these things with cultural awareness and profiling and education and rehabilitation. Because people know how ******* wrong it is.

But it's not like that. There's always the forlorn, inconsolable knowing that what's right and wrong doesn't matter. That this kind of thing will always happen. Childhoods, lives, will always be stolen. Innocence will always be lost.

I'm a nurturer by nature. I can't even begin to imagine what goes through the minds of predators. But I know the world doesn't care like I do. There's a feeling in my gut that my caring is delusional, I know I can't fix these problems or make them go away.

But I know how much they can **** lives up. Even if it's subtle, and you can try to convince yourself that you're over them, there's still that watermark over everything you do.

There's no catharsis. No absolution. You carry it like luggage, always. And on nights like these, when you remember, it tears you up inside.
#54 - neoexdeath ONLINE
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(09/26/2013) [-]
Obviously, the solution here is to find their rapists, and rape the **** out of them. Thus securing the balance of Karma.
#121 to #54 - rosietheamazon
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(09/26/2013) [-]
doesn't exactly break the cycle of abuse begets abuse but it'll do.
#5 - houseofbrick
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(09/25/2013) [-]
"No, you're my boyfriend and this is happening. ::lock clicks::"
- my girlfriend, in her dorm room 30 miles from my home.
#191 to #5 - folkflunky
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(09/26/2013) [-]
Wait. I don't understand. Exterm- I mean, explain.
#259 to #191 - deathchain
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(09/26/2013) [-]
The guy was at his girlfirned's dorm room, which was 30 miles from his own residence. She decided it was time to ****, he decided it wasn't. She overruled his decision, locked the door, and forced him.

I hope I interpreted that right.
#283 to #259 - houseofbrick
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(09/26/2013) [-]
Kinda, yeah.
It was more of a pressure thing and less of a "force" thing, though. I didn't want to have to call my Mom and explain to her why I needed a lift and all the time having my girlfriend fuming next to me bitching at me for how much of a pussy I am. I did say no about a thousand times before I caved because I didn't want to lose my virginity to someone who was kind of a violent bitch. Also, she was 18, I was 16 (legal in my state)
#635 to #283 - sanguinesolitude
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(09/26/2013) [-]
I am not defending her in any way. But why would you be with her if you werent attracted to her physically? Like if you didnt want to have sex with her and she did, why would you be going out with her.

obviously this situation was still wrong, but like... just dont date her.
#661 to #635 - houseofbrick
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(09/27/2013) [-]
I felt that she was the best I could do and I'm a bit of a hopeless romantic and will swoon over almost anyone of the opposite sex if they show me enough attention.
#669 to #661 - sanguinesolitude
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(09/27/2013) [-]
thats fair. Still kinda sad, but fair.
#637 to #259 - folkflunky
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(09/26/2013) [-]
It's not that. I don't know if he's quoting someone or he actually had to go through that.
#550 to #5 - wardylocks
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(09/26/2013) [-]
thats ******* awful man, ive been in the same position myself ;_;
in my boyfriends bed, hes 18 and im 16 -
'if you dont have sex with me ill break up with you'

dude, you're awesome and youll find girls 1000x better than her, i promise it