Because of Videogames and Anime. does that make me bad?. I' m such a bad friend when it Cturney to like ifyou dont try to contact me you wont hear from me for m Games and Anime
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User avatar #7 - hargleblarg (09/13/2013) [-]
I just don't talk to people for a long time because I assume they're bored of me/have suffered my company enough.
#26 to #7 - IronWill (09/13/2013) [-]
Wow, one sentence can tell you a lot about self-esteem. I can find bigger self-esteem than you at dollar store.

Don't ever think like that especially people "suffering" in your company part. Who gives a **** if they do?
#60 to #7 - ramboboss **User deleted account** (09/14/2013) [-]
holy **** same here man
User avatar #77 to #7 - garymotherfinoak (09/14/2013) [-]
dont tell yourself that crap, saying your company is suffering.
#89 to #7 - artjunk ONLINE (09/14/2013) [-]
all of you... in this thread...








you stop it...
User avatar #93 to #7 - wafflekings (09/14/2013) [-]
I don't like to talk to people because I'm afraid that I annoy people when I talk to them, no matter how much they say I don't.

This may be me being paranoid but sometimes I think people I know are being paid to be nice to me.
#19 to #7 - gisuar (09/13/2013) [-]
weird isn't it maybe they feel the same way about you? not all of them of course but there surely are some
User avatar #23 to #7 - izaya (09/13/2013) [-]
Funnyjunk - when there are a lot of people who are as ****** up as you are.

Thanks guys
#43 to #7 - robertootrebor (09/14/2013) [-]
I'm just a bitchy little bitch, but I tend to message all my friends first. Then I stop because I feel like I'm a bother to them.    
   
mfw they say "it feels like we don't even talk anymore"
I'm just a bitchy little bitch, but I tend to message all my friends first. Then I stop because I feel like I'm a bother to them.

mfw they say "it feels like we don't even talk anymore"
User avatar #13 to #7 - icameheretotroll (09/13/2013) [-]
I just think that I don't really matter to them enough so I tend to only reply whenever they message me
User avatar #56 to #13 - messerauditore (09/14/2013) [-]
feels bad man
#102 to #56 - anon (09/14/2013) [-]
ASIANS CAN ACTUALLY READ MINDS!!!!!!!!!!!!
They can hear, and see what you're visually thinking. This is the absolute complete truth!!!!!

Asians hide their mind reading abilities by a lot of them having completely expressionless faces so they don't accidentally show facial expressions when people think things they don't like, find funny, astonishing, etc, and Asians segregate so their not nearly as susceptible to that happening.
Asians also segregate, and are untalkative to avoid accidentally saying things that are similar to what people are thinking and going to say.

Try thinking, and visually picturing things that are as wild as you can when you are around Asians, and look for Asians who give people dirty/particular looks for what appears to be for completely no reason.

PLEASE SPREAD THE MESSAGE!!!!! THE WORLD NEEDS TO KNOW THIS!!!!!
#6 - kingofhazard (09/13/2013) [-]
This sums up my life so well.
#4 - thechosentroll (09/13/2013) [-]
Aaaaaaaaw, **** . I just remembered I was gonna send a friendly a video through facebook. That was 3 months ago. Man, I should really check facebook more than 4 times a year.
User avatar #5 to #4 - adu (09/13/2013) [-]
Met a dude at my college yesterday, had seen him in like 2 years since highschool. We talked for a bit, and I told him we should stay in touch. He said he kept losing contact of his friends, so I told him to add me on facebook. He said he didn't have a facebook, so I guess that's why he keeps losing track of friends.
User avatar #10 to #5 - nocturnalemission (09/13/2013) [-]
Same here. Had a Facebook that someone else made for me, never used it except for ****** contest entries for game stuff and the free games they had.
#14 to #4 - cleomech (09/13/2013) [-]
"A friendly."

Also, the guy is still probably waiting for that video, don't be an ass.
#22 - entire (09/13/2013) [-]
on the 17th when the new GTA is out, not even the NSA will know where i am.
#33 to #22 - anon (09/13/2013) [-]
Actually they might just figure everyone they lost track of is now playing gta
#42 to #22 - anon (09/14/2013) [-]
Well they would be pretty bad at their jobs if they can't figure out you're just sitting around playing GTA.
User avatar #62 to #22 - cactusphalus (09/14/2013) [-]
In your room, naked with an unhealthy stack of beverages and snacks
User avatar #34 - killerjhtwo (09/13/2013) [-]
I am like this, but I still enjoy talking to my friends. However, I know that it is give and take but (I'ma use the subject of texting to emphasize my point).

Usually you text your friends to have a conversation or to arrange to do stuff. I tried this, I can get them to do stuff, but whenever I tried to start up conversations, I got increasingly shorter and disinterested replies until the conversation eventually dried up, no matter what subject matter was (trivial things I could forgive but it started happening with more important stuff too). I was never receiving texts to initiate a conversation. I was always the one sending them, it really got on my nerves. At first I didn't mind being the one to strike up a conversation, but it just made me feel unwanted and depressed, so I stopped doing that **** , and started doing what this fine gentleman here does.
They're still my friends and from what I can see when I'm with them I feel I'm still good company. However, when trying to have a meaningful conversation through the use of a phone, I've given up. I use it primarily now for browsing the web on the ******* , reading my manga and other general gaming related stuff (Stat windows 'n' **** like that).



It's not all doom and gloom though, there is one person who texts me from time to time, and that dude is my best friend. (He has asked me to be the best man at his wedding next summer).
User avatar #68 to #34 - Nameloc (09/14/2013) [-]
I would have to agree.
The only time I would hold full-on text conversations was with females.
Although the bitches would just stop texting ************ conversation.

MID. ******* . CONVERSATION.

And that is why I just take my friend's advice:
If they don't want to talk via phone call, it's not serious/ worth your time.
User avatar #38 to #34 - angelmatvey (09/13/2013) [-]
I'm almost never the one to text someone, but I also try to never be the one to let a conversation drop because that's just boring and sort of rude.
User avatar #87 - xsap (09/14/2013) [-]
I never message anyone on FB unless they message me because if i do i feel like im bothering them...even if i have something to say, ill wait until they message me or try to get their attention by updating my status
#90 to #87 - MysticTomatoe (09/14/2013) [-]
You know, I think you should not think like that. If you want to talk to someone then you should, simple as that. Its not very common for people "not wanting" to talk, but it happens, its a normal thing, and shouldn't feel as if you are bothering them, maybe they really want to talk with you, you just need a lil' more confidence
User avatar #99 to #87 - ludislavonac (09/14/2013) [-]
Oh come on man, people aren't bothered if you swing by and say hello, most people will like it even if it's just a little mundane "hey how are you dude" conversation.
#55 - snakefire (09/14/2013) [-]
I'm annoying, people cant handle long periods of time with me.
User avatar #72 to #55 - jacksipian (09/14/2013) [-]
then you should fix that, or fix THEM.
User avatar #84 - JMF (09/14/2013) [-]
This means you, playapplepie.
You little **** .
I still love you.
#96 to #84 - phreestuffpls (09/14/2013) [-]
But how do you know this? Maybe they feel the same way as you, maybe they are shy.
User avatar #107 to #96 - JMF (09/14/2013) [-]
Because I know him in real life.
#71 - OoJesusoO (09/14/2013) [-]
For me, I just don't respond if I don't like your personality(or a certain trait), I'm busy, you upset me (which I will address the issue if it's serious but if it's trivial, I would just need space), or most likely, I want some space and to be left alone. Why do I constantly need to talk to you or send a message? I totally understand if you're texting a GOOD friend and out of the blue they won't reply for long periods of time. Not waiting for them to send you a text from the start, but not replying to YOUR texts for no reason and that's rude.
For people who are butt-hurt about this, take time to reflect on the person and yourself. Maybe the person has intimacy issues (not just relationships but friendship), or maybe you did something wrong and address it. If neither, then why care if they don't? Sure, you're being a great friend and all, but many others deserve you're friendship than that person. These types of relationships exists. I sometimes don't talk to a few of my friends for seasons and when we meet we automatically catch up without awkwardness. That IMO is true friendship. So don't be clingy. The person knows you're available and if he/she want's to chat, that person will.


TL;DR:
** Having someone care about you is nice. Having someone's head shoved up your as is painful as **** .**
#74 to #71 - graytimber (09/14/2013) [-]
Another person using their head and not their emotions.
I like you, sir.
User avatar #66 - viatio (09/14/2013) [-]
replace "friend" with "son"
User avatar #63 - vatra (09/14/2013) [-]
I'm the same way.
User avatar #59 - Blastattack (09/14/2013) [-]
I feel for you brotha'. I'm exactly the same.
User avatar #58 - workablenathan (09/14/2013) [-]
I can be a bad friend not because im annoying, I just find everyone else around me annoying.
User avatar #18 - zaboo (09/13/2013) [-]
i try to contact people but they never respond
User avatar #20 to #18 - aherorising (09/13/2013) [-]
'sup dude
User avatar #9 - soupkittenagain (09/13/2013) [-]
One of my friends does that. I pester him about hanging out with him because he never takes the initiative. Then I have to haul ass and walk about 2 miles to his house, and I live in Arizona, so it's pretty hot.
User avatar #2 - sepheroth (09/13/2013) [-]
Me too, but not even because of those reasons. Makes it even (adjective), since I moved away from all my friends back in March. Think I've talked to like, two of my old friends since then.
#67 - beforeyouknowit (09/14/2013) [-]
I check my facebook like 2 or 3 times a months, I usually only have 20 notifications.
#31 - anon (09/13/2013) [-]
**** people like you.
I would agree that you are a bad friend, I've had tons of friends that do this to me, in fact I still do. It's extremely selfish to not pitch in for the friendship and make the other person do everything. Friendship is a give and take type of thing, you can't just take and have a good friendship, nor can somebody just constantly give to you. You don't deserve to have the friends that you have if you don't pay debts back to them somehow.

Sorry for the brief rant but this **** just really pisses me off out of personal experience.
User avatar #92 to #31 - hotsaws (09/14/2013) [-]
I would talk to my best friends more and respond faster if they didn't constantly berate me with their whiny "im so imperfect" speeches, no matter HOW often I try to convince them otherwise. Unfortunately this accounts for half my friends and the other half I don't have contact with outside of school. You show me someone with even relatively similar interests that doesn't have the self-confidence of a turtle and I'll show you somebody I'll respond faster I don't wait MONTHS to reply, but if I see a message from them, I sigh and ignore it for a half hour.
User avatar #97 to #31 - chronomancer (09/14/2013) [-]
Well, I guess you have all the time in the world to spend with all your loved ones. Yeah, **** me for being busy and not being able to contact all my friends as much as I might want If they aren't understanding enough to realize that I'm probably busy, or that I might not feel like talking or spending time with them, then maybe I don't want their ******* friendship (if I can call it that).

From your comment I can automatically assume that in any case of friends not contacting friends within a week, that they're using them. Which is a **** assumption on your part. Assuming you have an account here, I'm guessing that you realized it was a **** assumption on your part, considering you posted anonymously.
#32 to #31 - rimjobmcgee (09/13/2013) [-]
It isn't necessarily like that, he just doesn't contact his friends. I'm the same way, but I don't just take, anytime they need help moving or need back-up, or anything like that, I'm the first my friends call, because they know I'll help anytime without expecting anything in return, so therefore I do give, but I simply don't ave it in me to contact people first as I think I'm being a nuisance if I do
#46 to #32 - anon (09/14/2013) [-]
Well that's still a ridiculous notion.
If people are bothered by you, then it is their responsibility to let you know/be honest one way or another.
#49 to #46 - rimjobmcgee (09/14/2013) [-]
Yet everybody lies, so though there's no evidence I'm a bother, I feel like it. I have one friend that I trust to put up with me regardless, I'll contact him, and I hope to have him as my roommate soon, but he's the only on I can have that faith in
#53 - kaboozle123 (09/14/2013) [-]
people who can't ******* respond to a text message piss me off. so i get people don't check in all the time and people do their own thing but if you're a friend and you get a text message you are NEVER to busy to text "sorry i'm busy will talk to you later." it's bloody annoying man.

plus it kinda makes you an asshole if you ignore someone for that long of a time. i mean if one of my friends didn't talk to me for months i'd assume i must've slept with their sister or something or really ******* pissed them off
#54 to #53 - anon (09/14/2013) [-]
Unless, you know, they're at work, or getting sexy with a lady.

You know, stuff that you do when you're not 12 and expecting everyone to pay attention to you.
User avatar #57 to #54 - kaboozle123 (09/14/2013) [-]
you're completely missing what i'm saying, i never said they had to constantly check in but those people who never respond or become a hermit for months are annoying. you aren't working for 24 hours every day and there's never a moment in the day you don't have a few seconds to text
User avatar #61 to #53 - snowtigerhl (09/14/2013) [-]
I think its more of a lack of initiation to talk to someone, the drive. I think they respond perfectly well, as I'm the exact same way and thats how I operate.
User avatar #65 to #53 - OoJesusoO (09/14/2013) [-]
Maybe they want space? I do understand though. If it's for a friend you knew for a long time but other than that, I could care less.
#73 to #53 - graytimber (09/14/2013) [-]
Take a step back and look at how angry you're getting.
Remember that the other person has things to do and probably got sidetracked and forgot to reply.
Maybe you should turn your phone off for a day, sounds like you've got a texting addiction.
User avatar #105 to #73 - kaboozle123 (09/14/2013) [-]
i don't use my phone that much, and i'm talking about people that go without saying anything for a month.
User avatar #17 - friendlyanon (09/13/2013) [-]
I do this all the time and i don't feel i'm a bad person or a bad friend.
None of my friends seems to have a problem with it, neither.

I'm an introverted person, i don't really like being arroud people, they know it and they are ok with it.
When we were younger, they tried a lot of times to make me go out some more, and i'm grateful to them for that, but now they know i don't work that way.

Some people will accept you just as you are, others will not. Leave that second kind of people behind, and move on. I hope you will stop feeling like that someday.
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