Because of Videogames and Anime. does that make me bad?. I' m such a bad friend when it Cturney to like ifyou dont try to contact me you wont hear from me for m Games and Anime
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User avatar #7 - hargleblarg (09/13/2013) [+] (11 replies)
I just don't talk to people for a long time because I assume they're bored of me/have suffered my company enough.
#6 - kingofhazard (09/13/2013) [-]
This sums up my life so well.
#4 - thechosentroll (09/13/2013) [+] (3 replies)
Aaaaaaaaw, **** . I just remembered I was gonna send a friendly a video through facebook. That was 3 months ago. Man, I should really check facebook more than 4 times a year.
#22 - entire (09/13/2013) [+] (3 replies)
on the 17th when the new GTA is out, not even the NSA will know where i am.
User avatar #34 - killerjhtwo ONLINE (09/13/2013) [+] (2 replies)
I am like this, but I still enjoy talking to my friends. However, I know that it is give and take but (I'ma use the subject of texting to emphasize my point).

Usually you text your friends to have a conversation or to arrange to do stuff. I tried this, I can get them to do stuff, but whenever I tried to start up conversations, I got increasingly shorter and disinterested replies until the conversation eventually dried up, no matter what subject matter was (trivial things I could forgive but it started happening with more important stuff too). I was never receiving texts to initiate a conversation. I was always the one sending them, it really got on my nerves. At first I didn't mind being the one to strike up a conversation, but it just made me feel unwanted and depressed, so I stopped doing that **** , and started doing what this fine gentleman here does.
They're still my friends and from what I can see when I'm with them I feel I'm still good company. However, when trying to have a meaningful conversation through the use of a phone, I've given up. I use it primarily now for browsing the web on the ******* , reading my manga and other general gaming related stuff (Stat windows 'n' **** like that).

It's not all doom and gloom though, there is one person who texts me from time to time, and that dude is my best friend. (He has asked me to be the best man at his wedding next summer).
User avatar #87 - xsap (09/14/2013) [+] (2 replies)
I never message anyone on FB unless they message me because if i do i feel like im bothering them...even if i have something to say, ill wait until they message me or try to get their attention by updating my status
#55 - snakefire (09/14/2013) [+] (1 reply)
I'm annoying, people cant handle long periods of time with me.
User avatar #84 - JMF (09/14/2013) [+] (3 replies)
This means you, playapplepie.
You little **** .
I still love you.
#71 - OoJesusoO (09/14/2013) [+] (1 reply)
For me, I just don't respond if I don't like your personality(or a certain trait), I'm busy, you upset me (which I will address the issue if it's serious but if it's trivial, I would just need space), or most likely, I want some space and to be left alone. Why do I constantly need to talk to you or send a message? I totally understand if you're texting a GOOD friend and out of the blue they won't reply for long periods of time. Not waiting for them to send you a text from the start, but not replying to YOUR texts for no reason and that's rude.
For people who are butt-hurt about this, take time to reflect on the person and yourself. Maybe the person has intimacy issues (not just relationships but friendship), or maybe you did something wrong and address it. If neither, then why care if they don't? Sure, you're being a great friend and all, but many others deserve you're friendship than that person. These types of relationships exists. I sometimes don't talk to a few of my friends for seasons and when we meet we automatically catch up without awkwardness. That IMO is true friendship. So don't be clingy. The person knows you're available and if he/she want's to chat, that person will.

** Having someone care about you is nice. Having someone's head shoved up your as is painful as **** .**
#67 - beforeyouknowit (09/14/2013) [-]
I check my facebook like 2 or 3 times a months, I usually only have 20 notifications.
User avatar #66 - viatio (09/14/2013) [-]
replace "friend" with "son"
User avatar #63 - vatra (09/14/2013) [-]
I'm the same way.
User avatar #59 - Blastattack ONLINE (09/14/2013) [-]
I feel for you brotha'. I'm exactly the same.
User avatar #58 - workablenathan (09/14/2013) [-]
I can be a bad friend not because im annoying, I just find everyone else around me annoying.
#53 - kaboozle123 (09/14/2013) [+] (6 replies)
people who can't ******* respond to a text message piss me off. so i get people don't check in all the time and people do their own thing but if you're a friend and you get a text message you are NEVER to busy to text "sorry i'm busy will talk to you later." it's bloody annoying man.

plus it kinda makes you an asshole if you ignore someone for that long of a time. i mean if one of my friends didn't talk to me for months i'd assume i must've slept with their sister or something or really ******* pissed them off
User avatar #57 to #54 - kaboozle123 (09/14/2013) [-]
you're completely missing what i'm saying, i never said they had to constantly check in but those people who never respond or become a hermit for months are annoying. you aren't working for 24 hours every day and there's never a moment in the day you don't have a few seconds to text
#31 - Ken M (09/13/2013) [+] (5 replies)
**** people like you.
I would agree that you are a bad friend, I've had tons of friends that do this to me, in fact I still do. It's extremely selfish to not pitch in for the friendship and make the other person do everything. Friendship is a give and take type of thing, you can't just take and have a good friendship, nor can somebody just constantly give to you. You don't deserve to have the friends that you have if you don't pay debts back to them somehow.

Sorry for the brief rant but this **** just really pisses me off out of personal experience.
#32 to #31 - rimjobmcgee (09/13/2013) [-]
It isn't necessarily like that, he just doesn't contact his friends. I'm the same way, but I don't just take, anytime they need help moving or need back-up, or anything like that, I'm the first my friends call, because they know I'll help anytime without expecting anything in return, so therefore I do give, but I simply don't ave it in me to contact people first as I think I'm being a nuisance if I do
User avatar #18 - zaboo (09/13/2013) [+] (1 reply)
i try to contact people but they never respond
User avatar #15 - blasthardcheese (09/13/2013) [+] (3 replies)
This post seems extremely relevant...
User avatar #108 to #15 - nonnotitiapono (09/16/2013) [-]
i try and hit you up when i can, im busy now and then. such as this weekend. i just got back from a trip to beckett. whatve you been up to?
User avatar #9 - soupkittenagain (09/13/2013) [-]
One of my friends does that. I pester him about hanging out with him because he never takes the initiative. Then I have to haul ass and walk about 2 miles to his house, and I live in Arizona, so it's pretty hot.
User avatar #2 - sepheroth ONLINE (09/13/2013) [-]
Me too, but not even because of those reasons. Makes it even (adjective), since I moved away from all my friends back in March. Think I've talked to like, two of my old friends since then.
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