Confidence. . 1' MUM alt. an WENT our AMI] mum) semen: BETTIE]. This actually happened to me 2 weeks ago, a year and 8 months of saying "You're beautiful." turning her response from "I'm not pretty" to &q
x

Comments(98):

[ 98 comments ]
What do you think? Give us your opinion. Anonymous comments allowed.
#45 - TehFunnyMan (09/04/2013) [-]
"My girlfriend left me because I was too amazing to her and did nothing wrong."
User avatar #68 to #45 - masterboll (09/04/2013) [-]
im not trying to bring you down but i think that was an excuse to make you feel better
#78 to #45 - scottsummers (09/04/2013) [-]
Maybe she's been hurt in the past by some guy? Or maybe she lied to you and left you so that she can go ride Darius Negrophallus' D and have his babies.
#26 - iamthenoodles (09/04/2013) [-]
too relevant
#73 to #26 - musichead (09/04/2013) [-]
Woah there, Mr. Bear!
#13 - Superhell ONLINE (09/04/2013) [-]
This actually happened to me 2 weeks ago, a year and 8 months of saying "You're beautiful." turning her response from "I'm not pretty" to "I believe you, someone I love wouldn't lie to me".   
   
But then she just left me because she felt like it.   
   
 I got to a point where I was seriously considering ways to propose to her, and she giving me ideas for it and telling me we'd get to our 80s together was the most I desired from life.   
 I actually loved her.
This actually happened to me 2 weeks ago, a year and 8 months of saying "You're beautiful." turning her response from "I'm not pretty" to "I believe you, someone I love wouldn't lie to me".

But then she just left me because she felt like it.

I got to a point where I was seriously considering ways to propose to her, and she giving me ideas for it and telling me we'd get to our 80s together was the most I desired from life.
I actually loved her.
User avatar #37 to #13 - somebee (09/04/2013) [-]
BUTT, we can move on. Find someone else. If there is ONE type of person that I hate with all my heart, it's people who pretend to like you, then just backstab like the ***** they are. Don't let her destroy your feelings. you can find someone else, maybe someone even better. This goes out to all FJers who were backstabbed, including me. Communities help each other out.
User avatar #41 to #13 - zhaffy (09/04/2013) [-]
Sauce of anime?
User avatar #63 to #41 - somexotherxguy ONLINE (09/04/2013) [-]
it is either "to aru majutsu no index" or "to aru kagaku no railgun" but from looking at the art style it looks more like to aru kagaku no railgun
User avatar #64 to #63 - zhaffy (09/04/2013) [-]
thanks man.
User avatar #54 to #41 - goldenfairy (09/04/2013) [-]
Could be "Toaru Majutsu no Index". There's more than 1 anime with that character.
User avatar #65 to #54 - zhaffy (09/04/2013) [-]
thanks man
#43 to #13 - demencialmx (09/04/2013) [-]
those feels ! ... Sorry man, i wish you the best.
User avatar #55 to #13 - hawaiianhappysauce (09/04/2013) [-]
Hmm... it seems like both of you went to college and she wanted to live the free life. This is extremely common. Also, you are an idiot for wanting to get married around late teens.
#93 to #13 - anon (09/04/2013) [-]
Pretty much the girl of my dreams got a boyfriend not too long ago. We're both bipolar so when she was feeling **** I was there for her. And while she is the reason I'm still alive, with her insinuations that we had a future together, I'm not sure that's a good thing though.
I had however prepared to reject her if she would've asked her out, she's very succesful in life while I spend literally about 23 hours/day in my bed. I wouldn't want her to be with me. But it still hurts that she isn't.
Rant over.
#17 to #13 - anon (09/04/2013) [-]
Im sorry to hear that. I hope you live a happy life - even without her.
User avatar #18 to #13 - kingzter (09/04/2013) [-]
Stay strong, friend. You are a good guy and deserve a happy life and that is what you will get.
User avatar #31 to #13 - samsaysbai (09/04/2013) [-]
I know how you feel. I was dating a girl for 11 months and I loved her more than anything in the world. I would always compliment her and she would always blush and she started to believe me. Soon we actually became comfortable enough to sneak me in and sleep over at her house (We're 17 and 18) and one time when her parents were on vacation we fell asleep at her house on accident and I remember asking her at like 2 o'clock in the morning if it was okay for me to be here and she said it was okay. Then a week later her parents found out about how I slept over and she broke up with me because of it... This happened back in march.. We'll be happy one day I know it. Good luck my brother stay strong
User avatar #35 to #13 - somebee (09/04/2013) [-]
Okay, ********* thread now.

Something similar happened to me. She was pretty much everything I wanted in my dreams. We were together for half a year at least I think. (note I was a lonely faggot with no friends at all) and for the first time I was truly happy and though I found someone. Then she just left. No words, just stopped talking to me. I respected her and she just left. My feels were all over the place. she was basically my only friend :c
i probably just annoyed everyone now
#36 to #35 - jeezloxxy (09/04/2013) [-]
Don't worry my nigro, it gets better. Just as the guy said, learn to live without her. Chances are, if she truly left you without even thinking twice about it, she never really deserved you. Don't let other people's mistakes prevent you from enjoying your life and moving on. We all learn from our experiences.
Heads up, lil' nig, you can do it.
#38 to #13 - kuroking (09/04/2013) [-]
so sad...sorry man.
so sad...sorry man.
User avatar #62 to #13 - soflyy (09/04/2013) [-]
I don't want to give you the "plenty of fish in the sea" speech, but I home time heals your heart quickly so you don't suffer any more.
+1
#95 to #13 - toneboi **User deleted account** has deleted their comment [-]
#19 to #13 - LovegoodJuggalo (09/04/2013) [-]
I fell in love with a girl, my literal dream girl, right down to her name. We were inseparable. Without doubt the love of my life, (and after going through my highschool/postHS years with 3 "Love of my lifes", I can assure you, this girl topped them all). She talked non stop about our future together. Then left without a second thought. Not even a glance over her shoulder. She was gone... Depression kicked in. My body and mind shut down for 3 months before I finally got the courage to try and move on.... Its been 8 months almost to the day, and I never got over her. I just learned to live without her.. I'm here to tell you it gets better. Hang in there.
User avatar #23 to #19 - tenibrae (09/04/2013) [-]
Can you look in the mirror and say you gave it your all? Can you say you are a good man, who never lied to/cheated on her? Can you go to bed, content with the human being you are?
If you answered YES, then that is all that matters. You are not responsible for the choices others make. You cannot take every ******* problem on your shoulders. Be happy with who you are. No one can ever take that away.

-V
#44 to #23 - tippidyt (09/04/2013) [-]
Dude that's some inspiring 			****		. Thanks a lot!
Dude that's some inspiring **** . Thanks a lot!
#71 to #19 - seizure (09/04/2013) [-]
Its going to be okay lil ***** you can do it
#94 to #19 - opsbuttbuddy (09/04/2013) [-]
I hate reading stuff like this it makes me remember a similar fate
#20 - stagger (09/04/2013) [-]
Complimenting me is not going to make me think I should go out and find someone more attractive, it's going to make me appreciate the person giving me the compliments even more.   
   
That's just my logic maybe.    
   
Then again I have been dumped for more vacuous things.
Complimenting me is not going to make me think I should go out and find someone more attractive, it's going to make me appreciate the person giving me the compliments even more.

That's just my logic maybe.

Then again I have been dumped for more vacuous things.


User avatar #21 to #20 - tenibrae (09/04/2013) [-]
I treated my 2 serious ex gfs like queens, and after about 2 years (each) they have this sense of entitlement that says that I OWE them that treatment, and they can sleep with anyone else bc I will always be like that. Neither of them thought I would ever leave. They were treated that way because I loved/respected them. When they lost my respect, they lost me. Two months single next week :/
User avatar #22 to #21 - stagger (09/04/2013) [-]
Damn. Well if they always got the princess treatment, and started to just expect it they were bitches. It goes both ways.
I've been dumped for not smoking weed, and another guy called and broke up with me four times after I got a restraining order, then he'd call and say he forgives me. We were never actually dating though...
But good for you, for not sticking around and letting them walk on you. There is never a reason to cheat. My very first "puppy love" I was with for two and a half years, I knew he was cheating on me, I'd even given a girl a ride home when I came home to that. I got numb to it and just kept thinking as long as he's still with me, I'm winning against the bitches he's cheating on me with. Walking away takes strength, you're strong.
User avatar #24 to #22 - tenibrae (09/04/2013) [-]
What keeps me strong is that I can look myself in the eyes and say that I gave it my all, and did everything right. I am proud of who I am, and no one on this planet can ever take that away from me.
User avatar #25 to #24 - stagger (09/04/2013) [-]
There you have it. Just reading this, I'm proud of you too.
User avatar #29 to #25 - tenibrae (09/04/2013) [-]
The downside is that now I have to learn to flirt all over again >_>
User avatar #30 to #29 - stagger (09/04/2013) [-]
That's true. Haha. I'm nine kinds of awkward now because I feel like my reactions are too personal because I'm used to flirting with a significant other, and not someone I'm just getting to know.
You'll get back in the swing of it. My best friend likes to go to the bar and flirt here and there with randoms just to give himself confidence.
User avatar #32 to #30 - tenibrae (09/04/2013) [-]
I'm the only straight male at work, so I'm getting the flirtation experience lol
And it's easier for me to talk to women at book stores, the conversations are more intelligible/audible.
#27 to #20 - anon (09/04/2013) [-]
my ex left me cause I treated her so well, she didn't think she was good enough for me.
Sounds like ******** , I wish it was.
User avatar #28 to #27 - stagger (09/04/2013) [-]
Well that's her loss I suppose. I think you need to have self-love in order to love someone else.
#60 to #53 - classygentleman (09/04/2013) [-]
Twice.    
   
I AM THE KING OF LESBIANS.
Twice.

I AM THE KING OF LESBIANS.
User avatar #88 to #60 - astrozombies **User deleted account** (09/04/2013) [-]
**** happened to me twice too. Feels nice seeing someone else that knows what its like.
#15 - haxorman (09/04/2013) [-]
thats why you got to smack a bitch once and a while
thats why you got to smack a bitch once and a while
User avatar #58 to #15 - wunderlichh (09/04/2013) [-]
And then all the white knights will gather against you
#98 to #15 - Superhell ONLINE (09/04/2013) [-]
Sauce?   
   
 Plz
Sauce?

Plz
#7 - snakefire (09/04/2013) [-]
This happened to me.
User avatar #8 to #7 - guiguito (09/04/2013) [-]
but you ghey
#14 to #7 - Superhell ONLINE (09/04/2013) [-]
I feel your pain...   
   
 God I 			*******		 do.
I feel your pain...

God I ******* do.
#10 to #9 - snakefire (09/04/2013) [-]
I could post a picture of myself.
I could post a picture of myself.
#11 to #10 - bostpost (09/04/2013) [-]
Ugly or not, my motto's still the same
#76 - melancholytea (09/04/2013) [-]
Story Time!
So, I'm on the other end of this. I'm female, this happened in highschool.

Start dating this guy, pretty chunky but without the fat maybe a 6/10
We meet in a D&D group, he's pretty awkward but whatever, **** it, let's date.
Spend the next year together helping him lose weight.
While he's getting in shape, everyone keeps asking me why I'm dating this loser
Suddenly he is skinny and 9/10. Show choir sluts go nuts over him.
Turn around and he's ******* two other girls behind my back.
Dump his ass, find new boyfriend.

Fastforward 7 years, he's married to a drug addicted slut with three kids already (all different dads) and they have a baby that's not his. Got kicked out of the airforce, ****** delivery job at Papa Johns. He called me up, begging for us to be together.
Says no one else has ever treated him right, no one has ever ****** as well, ect ect.

Best day of my life when I got to tell him to suck it up and take the hand he got dealt.
#77 to #76 - melancholytea (09/04/2013) [-]
Bonus points - He called me late one night to bitch about his wife and while we were on the phone she glassed him with a heavy ashtray. It does my heart good. She thought he was cheating on her with me until I told her everything. And that I told him to stay with her.

User avatar #80 to #77 - leal (09/04/2013) [-]
Fascinating
#79 to #77 - vrthbvyfa (09/04/2013) [-]
That's how most humans are, greedy. Other girls started liking him and he got ambitious. The bastard deserves it all but it was a human mistake. Even now he probably only wants you back because his life is 			******		; if you did then the moment after you took him back and things started getting better he would do the same thing again.   
   
lol, that's how most humans are though :/
That's how most humans are, greedy. Other girls started liking him and he got ambitious. The bastard deserves it all but it was a human mistake. Even now he probably only wants you back because his life is ****** ; if you did then the moment after you took him back and things started getting better he would do the same thing again.

lol, that's how most humans are though :/
#87 to #79 - melancholytea (09/04/2013) [-]
I wouldn't touch him again with a ten foot pole anyway. He's ****** around a LOT since then, and besides that I'm married now. I've got a handsome husband who's in the USMC. We were friends for 8 years before we started dating and my life is pretty freaking awesome all things considered.
User avatar #89 to #87 - vrthbvyfa (09/04/2013) [-]
Oh **** he is married AND she is having a child that isn't his, he needs to divorce her before she gives birth or he will have to pay child support for the rest of his life.

Oh yeah it's awesome that you found someone who seems good.
#99 to #89 - melancholytea (09/04/2013) [-]
They already had the kid. He refuses to believe that the kid is someone else's but he wasn't around when she got pregnant. And she was ****** some dude instead of paying for her drugs. Real good mom skills there. Four kids now, three in social services and she's 21 years old.

I told him that she's going to lose her **** and take that kid and just leave him. She's already done it before, I don't know why he thinks he's different.
#40 - Xavage (09/04/2013) [-]
I tend to do the same, but if my girlfriend was going to leave me over something like that then I might as well not bother with such a woman.
#82 - drows (09/04/2013) [-]
Last time I talked to my ex, she told me:
Thanks for making me a better person.
#83 to #82 - chokinandtokin ONLINE (09/04/2013) [-]
yfw
yfw
#84 to #83 - drows (09/04/2013) [-]
Pretty much yes.
User avatar #72 - weenieandthebutt (09/04/2013) [-]
It's kinda sad how some women see guys as stepping stones to bridge the gap as soon as they find another guy who's supposedly better.....
#75 to #72 - anon (09/04/2013) [-]
*all women
User avatar #70 - DisTurbdKanYE (09/04/2013) [-]
**** u for describing my life ass hole mofo!
User avatar #5 - lusir (09/03/2013) [-]
damn it....even BLB got a girlfriend?..
User avatar #2 - henryfordthegod (09/03/2013) [-]
Or your not even your girlfriend's friend
#59 - vincento (09/04/2013) [-]
"The only reason I got dumped was because I was too nice"

-everyone in the comment section
#61 to #59 - vincento (09/04/2013) [-]
Well that's kinda ironic
#51 - dagold (09/04/2013) [-]
That happened to me once, her exact words were "I had no confidence in myself when we started dating. But now that you've helped me get more confident, I feel like I can get someone better."

Jokes on her, considering she recently messaged me about how big of a mistake it was because the new guy treated her like **** and it ruined her confidence again XD We didn't have the perfect relationship, but it was a hell of a lot better than what she has now and that makes me feel better.
User avatar #74 - psychopsychedelic (09/04/2013) [-]
Ha, all these guys are talking about how they treated their girlfriends like princesses.

My last girlfriend, a little over two years ago, and I had a similar thing going. I tried treating her like a princess, but I ran out of money. Things just kinda fell apart and she started treating me like **** . I was too dumb to notice at the time, but things fell apart pretty quickly. Looking back now I know things weren't good, but it doesn't change much. I can honestly say there are times when I miss her but you know how that goes. I'm a total idiot when it comes to women, kinda why I haven't had one since.
#66 - anon (09/04/2013) [-]
This is sad and all... but it's even more sad when even Bad Luck Brian got a girlfriend.
I'm worse than Bad Luck Brian.
**** ....
+1
#50 - inczi has deleted their comment [-]
#33 - wootzortuhuar (09/04/2013) [-]
Too relatable, OP. My last ex broke up with me for a similar reason a day before our 2 year mark.



Plot twist, she'd been a lesbian before me, and is (tenuously) back to it now. I don't know how to feel about that.
#56 to #33 - hawaiianhappysauce (09/04/2013) [-]
So... you made her change sides?
[ 98 comments ]
Leave a comment
 Friends (0)