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User avatar #2 - ingabenwetrust (07/18/2013) [-]
+1 for the group effort
#3 - grandtheftkoala **User deleted account** (07/18/2013) [-]
related
#5 - pocketpotato (07/18/2013) [-]
Yeah, she seems like real catch.
User avatar #11 - skysailor (07/18/2013) [-]
I'm going to drown in a sea of red thumbs for this, but it needs to be said.

Friendzone is there for a reason. If you are not romantically in love/like with someone, you won't want to be with them. Sometimes, you can meet amazing people you love who are nice, fun, and care about you, but you just aren't in love with them. It happens. It's not about being good enough, it's about being the right one for the right person.
#27 to #11 - John Cena (07/19/2013) [-]
But a friendship can blossom to love. It's strange though.

I've known a girl for approximately two years now, and we've become the closest of friends. We look out for one another. We've also had some really deep talks, about all manner of things, from sex to relationships, and a few times we've asked ourselves, "Could we be together?". We've both said we love each other. A lot. But, we don't think being together is a good idea, we don't think we'd get along as well if we were an item.

If you see the friendzone as an obstacle, adjust your priorities. Women aren't a challenge, love cannot be forced, it can happen naturally within minutes or within years, but it's rare it'll ever be forced. I've had both year long blossomings and love at first sight. The only difference is, with blossomings, you get to know the person a lot more first, and can judge whether anything more is a good idea.
#41 to #11 - thatguyinthecorner (07/19/2013) [-]
<- People in the friendzone
<- People in the friendzone
User avatar #50 to #11 - koobzacc (07/19/2013) [-]
I want to thumb you for being right, but i want to red you for actually saying something as awful as "I'm going to drown in a sea of red thumbs for this, but it needs to be said. "
#69 to #11 - poniesfuckedmeover (07/19/2013) [-]
Reading this made me both happy... yet sad.
User avatar #106 to #11 - fattycattyman (07/19/2013) [-]
I will probably be dorwned in red thumbs for this but, it pisses me off when girls COMPLAIN about not ever finding any nice guys, or guys who care. I couldn't care less about the friendzone but if they do have someone like that and they complain about it constantly then it pisses me off.
User avatar #121 to #11 - shockjumpin (07/19/2013) [-]
It's true, just because somebody is super nice and cool doesn't mean you have to like them. You fall in like who you fall in like with, people don't really get to choose. Often enough it's because people don't really see these "nice guys" as relationship material. A lot of nice guys come off as somebody who lacks a lot of personality of their own.

It's somebody who will listen to something everybody says and just nod their head. You have you add something to a conversation, you can't just be like "I'm so sorry to hear that." I know this stuff because I used to be like that. For a long, long, long time I would treat girls like they're some sort of godly goal, something that I need to have one of my own and the way to do that was to just smile and nod.

Of course, in the last couple years I've realized what a total dolt I was and started seeing people as people. As such, I've started to become a lot more personable and people actually want to talk to me. I've had more interesting conversations and I've had quite a few girls interested in me since I stopped being an automaton.

tl;dr Be your own person. Treat girls like they're a person, not an objective. You'll be happier for it.
#18 to #11 - John Cena (07/18/2013) [-]
Its not about being good enough, its about not being attractive enough*

fixed
#91 to #18 - John Cena (07/19/2013) [-]
actually, the science behind the friendzone (check out Vsauce for more in-depth explanation, with more facts and points about the friendzone)[light-gray][light-gray] is more of a "I like you, but lets get primitive in this bitch. You have to prove you love me, and show you are an acceptable mate." Basically, they like you, but something about you isn't right, your unhealthy in some way, or your personality may be a little sassy or seem fake. And of course, sometimes, its simply the way it is, and she doesn't like you. Either way, their is science behind it, and its probably been happening since humans established a "friend, best friend, lover/mate" as a way for girls to test guys. On that note, it isn't uncommon for guys to friendzone girls, but we're mostly horny adolescences, so why be extremely picky, eh?
User avatar #43 to #11 - nsfwbrowserv (07/19/2013) [-]
The only problem is when someone complains about there being no guys that would care about her, when there are guys who would. You make a good point, but if someone's so desperate they have to complain on facebook then they should consider one of the guys they think of as just friends. Instead she just complains instead of actually doing anything.
User avatar #100 to #11 - rhiaanor (07/19/2013) [-]
actually it doesn't exist in the first palce
#17 to #11 - John Cena (07/18/2013) [-]
It did not have to be said, it's been said a million times over and over and it's said every time a friend zone post comes uo. Check yourself, fag.
User avatar #72 to #11 - pennydragon ONLINE (07/19/2013) [-]
You're correct. Nonetheless one can feel sad about some one they like not liking them back in that way. It's also still a valid point to be grown ups and talk about it. Like so:

FZed: "You want x, y, and z. I've always had those."
Crush: "I'm just not into you in that way. I just like you as a friend."
FZed: "Oh I see...I think being a friend with you after rejection would make me uncomfortable right now. Well you complained about wanting x, but you aren't interested in giving me a chance so I must be really not to your liking. I accept that. That's your choice. I'm saddened and I think you made a mistake, but that's your choice. I will just have to be that much better for whoever I'm with in the future."
#113 to #11 - damnchinks (07/19/2013) [-]
But yet, there's a problem with your theory.
There's no such thing as a "friendzone". Friends who become love interests happens all around. You can never just not like someone. There always has to be a reason on why you would not go out with them. Either not good enough looking, don't like their character, they're your sister, etc.
User avatar #115 to #113 - jajathezombie (07/19/2013) [-]
If you won't go out with your sister, can I have her?
#19 to #11 - milkinmapockets ONLINE (07/18/2013) [-]
I'm going to probably drown in a sea of red thumbs for this, but why is it that whenever someone says "I'm going to down in a sea of red thumbs" they get risen to heaven in a cloud of green thumbs?
#23 to #19 - John Cena (07/18/2013) [-]
throwing out a public opinion disguised as a personal amidment, people go ******* crazy over sharing the same opinion = thumbs. Skysailor, you make me sick.
#44 - iridium ONLINE (07/19/2013) [-]
"There is no such thing as a Friend Zone. It's called being a little bitch."
User avatar #70 to #44 - usernamecannotload (07/19/2013) [-]
Which episode is that from?
User avatar #71 to #70 - iridium ONLINE (07/19/2013) [-]
I HATE HIGH SCHOOL is the episode.
#73 to #71 - usernamecannotload (07/19/2013) [-]
Thank you, take a compliment.
Thank you, take a compliment.
User avatar #89 to #73 - tossed (07/19/2013) [-]
i like you
User avatar #103 to #44 - hydraetis (07/19/2013) [-]
One of the girls I was friends with had a huge crush on me, and I was planning on asking her out but then she just spontaneously lost interest in ever dating me or even being friends.

I have no idea what the **** happened.
#49 to #44 - imonaboatman (07/19/2013) [-]
Filthy Frank is 			*******		 hilarious.
Filthy Frank is ******* hilarious.
#116 to #49 - carlsaganrealness (07/19/2013) [-]
he certainly is
he certainly is
User avatar #38 - youarenotspecial (07/19/2013) [-]
I seriously don't get guys with the "friendzone" logic. I mean, seriously, if a girl thought that every guy who was merely kind to her wanted to **** her, she'd be delusional.
And listening to a girl because you want other things is the opposite of caring. Especially if you are dishonest about it all.
User avatar #33 - mulk (07/19/2013) [-]
little friendzone escape story cuz of me not being able to put up with her ****

>be me
>having this cute neighbourgirl since i was 6
>never really thought about gf, friend meant nothing
>suddenly puberty
>suddenly tits
>interest peaking
>IYKWIM.jpeg
>ask her out
>spend lots of time with her
>she is usually shy
>didnt realise she had no interest in me
side note: im not beta, but she had the pokerface of the century so i didnt realise she had no interest
>suddenly
>she has a bf
>treats me like air
>months later
>get my drivers license license
>she calls me up
>surprised
>asks me to dinner
>real happy and ****
User avatar #34 to #33 - mulk (07/19/2013) [-]
>drive up in my car
>all slick and suited
>drive up
>ring housebell
>say hi to family (already knew them from before)
>see her
>dat ass
>bow chicka wow wow
>open car door for her
>bout to drive off
>wait she yells
>"my bf has to finish dressing"
turns out i had agreed to drive them to the movies, cuz he didnt have his license and she was too dumb to get hers
> ask her to check where he is at
>she gets out of car
> goes inside
>i drive off
>next day calls me up
User avatar #35 to #34 - mulk (07/19/2013) [-]
>where did you go? we missed the movie cuz of you! you sack of **** ! you only care about yourself! how could you do this to me...
>insert endless, stupid rant here
>hang up
>she calls back, minutes later
>did you just hang up on me?
> i dont know, did it sound like this?
>hang up again
i laugh everytime
honestly guys, dont be someones bitch like i was. just run and leave and find your own gf. its been 8 years now and im happily engaged, i havent heard a word from her and honestly
good riddance
#65 to #35 - sirhyde (07/19/2013) [-]
Great story man, She got what she deserved.
Great story man, She got what she deserved.
User avatar #29 - enkmaster ONLINE (07/19/2013) [-]
The "friendzone" is where guys who dont know when to give up and move on end up. Seriously, if she doesnt catch on either be up front and ask her out or move the **** on with your life.
#79 to #29 - Kaalevv (07/19/2013) [-]
Friendzone is not where guys go when they are rejected is when she begins to take advantage of the fact the he likes her or vice versa
#59 to #29 - blanketandpillow (07/19/2013) [-]
If you stop being friends with a girl because she doesn't want to date you, then you weren't much of a friend in teh first place
User avatar #60 to #59 - enkmaster ONLINE (07/19/2013) [-]
Thats more or less all the friendzone is. Being a girls friend with the end purpose of dating her.
#24 - John Cena (07/18/2013) [-]
i personally don't believe that it's the other person that puts you in the friendzone, but rather it is you that puts yourself in the friendzone. if you act like a friend, she's gonna treat you like a friend.
#62 to #24 - larknok (07/19/2013) [-]
A very wise woman once told me that for every friendship women have with men, there is a window where the girl has a crush on the guy. If the guy strikes at the proper time, you can guarantee you won't end up in the FZ.
User avatar #21 - omnomnominator (07/18/2013) [-]
Generally, the guys in the 'friendzone' who complain go for girls who are either extremely selfish, or look like they should be in a glamour magazine. If you go for someone who makes you feel good about yourself and who you have an amazing time with, you'll find that those type of girls do go for 'nice guys'. But if you're just showering an attractive girl with empty compliments in hopes that they'll take their clothes off, you're not a nice guy, you're just a wanker who thinks that women are vending machines.
User avatar #74 - nightmaren (07/19/2013) [-]
Obviously they don't care how she feels if they're berating her for turning them down.
#110 - hystericalparoxysm (07/19/2013) [-]
If you act like you want to be friends with a girl, she will friend zone you. Not only that but even if you don't mislead her and you let her know your intentions up front she's not obligated to become your girlfriend/romantic interest/			****		 buddy just because you like her.
If you act like you want to be friends with a girl, she will friend zone you. Not only that but even if you don't mislead her and you let her know your intentions up front she's not obligated to become your girlfriend/romantic interest/ **** buddy just because you like her.
#83 - John Cena (07/19/2013) [-]
"I'm such a nice guy, I don't understand why I can't get a girlfriend."

"That ******* bitch friendzoned me."

Huge loss for her.
#88 - Lintutu (07/19/2013) [-]
It's ridiculous how often i get to post this
User avatar #78 - Hawke (07/19/2013) [-]
How many 'friend zoned' guys does it take to change a light bulb?

None. They'll just compliment it and get pissed when it won't screw.
#28 - CollinTB (07/19/2013) [-]
Shooting out compliments to upset girls won't &quot;get you out of the friendzone.&quot; Girls are aware that nearly every male who speaks to them ultimately wants to 			****		 the 			****		 out of them, and if they're not interested then they probably think you're gross, and feeding them praise won't change it. Find a girl who actually likes you instead of praying on the weak like a 			*******		 vulture following a wounded animal.    
   
Tl;dr the friendzone is only a thing if you act like an autistic faggot, girls like confidence.
Shooting out compliments to upset girls won't "get you out of the friendzone." Girls are aware that nearly every male who speaks to them ultimately wants to **** the **** out of them, and if they're not interested then they probably think you're gross, and feeding them praise won't change it. Find a girl who actually likes you instead of praying on the weak like a ******* vulture following a wounded animal.

Tl;dr the friendzone is only a thing if you act like an autistic faggot, girls like confidence.
User avatar #104 to #28 - hydraetis (07/19/2013) [-]
For me I get friendzoned by all the single girls I know, while the ones that are already dating someone show interest. I have no choice but to be that asshole that goes around stealing everyone's girlfriends.
User avatar #119 to #28 - jajathezombie (07/19/2013) [-]
Either that or lower your standards. Fat girls need love too.
#15 - skullnigga (07/18/2013) [-]
yes, because every girl you have been nice to is inclined to lay down and beg for sex
#12 - lolfire (07/18/2013) [-]
You know why you're in the friendzone ?    
   
Because you act like a friend.    
   
   
&quot;Oh but I'm so nice to her and we talk every night...&quot; wahh wahh wahh, cut the 			********		.    
Act like a man, not a bitch. Sure, have female friends, but if you want something more then tell her, don't expect her to know. If she doesn't respond well, then leave it because if you want to be romantically involved with someone and they don't the friendship will never, ever work.    
Just walk away, find someone else and start over.    
   
Don't sit on the internet and bitch about how girls never go for the good guys.
You know why you're in the friendzone ?

Because you act like a friend.


"Oh but I'm so nice to her and we talk every night..." wahh wahh wahh, cut the ******** .
Act like a man, not a bitch. Sure, have female friends, but if you want something more then tell her, don't expect her to know. If she doesn't respond well, then leave it because if you want to be romantically involved with someone and they don't the friendship will never, ever work.
Just walk away, find someone else and start over.

Don't sit on the internet and bitch about how girls never go for the good guys.
#97 to #12 - firecrotchq (07/19/2013) [-]
this man speaks the truth, i was friend zoned by this girl, and have been for just over a year now, ( even though she is my bestfriend) i said **** chasing her, now we just talk.) Then i started to talk to this other chick and straight up told her i liked her, didnt ******* shower her in affection but still was pretty nice, and after a few weeks she broke up with her faggy ass boyfriend (seriously this kid was such i tool), and now i have a girlfriend

TL;DR dont bath girl in affection, be straight up, get pussy.
User avatar #114 to #12 - savvasp (07/19/2013) [-]
Couldn't care less about what you said all I want is the sauce of the gif
#128 to #12 - ceegeh (07/19/2013) [-]
Well, i like to be in the friendzone, because i secretly laugh at them when they break up and have those rivers of tears running down their chops. That's exactly why i protect myself from getting out of the friendzone, because if you stay in the friendzone, its really funny.

am i evil?
User avatar #37 to #12 - parishailsatan (07/19/2013) [-]
Agreed. Most of my friends are female and I never really had any romantic feelings for them, they're cool to hang out with but never really seen it going anywhere else. Hell, one of my friends even tried hitting on me but I wasn't interested. I finally found a girl that was right for me but I still keep close connections with the rest of my friends. /rant
#45 to #12 - John Cena (07/19/2013) [-]
You.
I like you.
User avatar #111 - vanoreo (07/19/2013) [-]
Friendzone doesn't exist

But people have a huge misunderstanding as to what a relationship should be

It shouldn't be about attaining an attractive person of the opposite sex to coerce into a bed


It should be about finding someone you like as a person a ton
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