Effect of Feminism 10. .. You know they make young women (as in under 30) see a therapist before getting their tubes tied, too? All you have to do is do the sessions and have them write  Effect of Feminism 10 You know they make young women (as in under 30) see a therapist before getting their tubes tied too? All you have to do is the sessions and them write
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#5 - lolabunny
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(06/21/2013) [-]
You know they make young women (as in under 30) see a therapist before getting their tubes tied, too? All you have to do is do the sessions and have them write a reference confirming that you're not under some temporary insanity then they'll give you your vasectomy. It's basic medical practice for optional major operations.
#8 to #5 - kikisu
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(06/22/2013) [-]
No they don't. My mom had my older brother and they pretty much refused to let her have her tubes tied. Then she had me and they again refused to let her have them tied. Then when she had my little brother my father forced them to let her get them tied.
#12 to #8 - CallMeCrisco
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(06/22/2013) [-]
I have never heard of that happening. Ever. (Outside of someone having contraindications, obviously)
#13 to #12 - kikisu
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(06/22/2013) [-]
They fed her bs about how she should still have more kids, she was about 24 when she had me. They even told her one time "what if one of them dies and you want to have another to replace it."
#14 to #13 - CallMeCrisco
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(06/22/2013) [-]
Did she try, say, going to a different doctor? I cannot imagine the second would do the same. Unless it's the 1930's and I just wasn't aware we jumped back in time...
#15 to #14 - kikisu
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(06/22/2013) [-]
She didn't, she just forgot about it after the first time I guess. My mother wasn't exactly smart.
#27 to #15 - MakiChan
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(06/22/2013) [-]
they usually say no or you shouldn't do it if under 25 unless theres a special reason like a medical thing that they have to do it for. my firend had the same issue but she decided she may want another one later.
#16 to #15 - CallMeCrisco
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(06/22/2013) [-]
Bless her heart...
#25 to #12 - MakiChan
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(06/22/2013) [-]
if youre under 25 they usually deny it like that because youre so young and may want another child in future. they also say to wait till you had a 2nd kid or youre over 25. my fiend was 23 when she had her first and wanted them tied and they said they usually don't do it under 25 unless for special circumstances. my friend decided that she will have another sometime in future after 4 yours since her first.
#10 to #5 - anon
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(06/22/2013) [-]
That makes sense. I thought they usually didn't since a vasectomy is reversible (usually), while tying your tubes isn't.
#19 to #10 - superpats
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(06/22/2013) [-]
you've got that backwards. You can untie tubes but you can't uncut the vas deferens. Like how you can untangle a garden hose but once you cut it, you'd have to get a new one.
#22 to #19 - fukyu
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(06/22/2013) [-]
#23 to #22 - superpats
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(06/22/2013) [-]
touche. I was just going on the info i remembered from Sex Ed in 6th grade, haha.
#24 to #23 - fukyu
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(06/22/2013) [-]
if you're like me then that was a very long time ago, well over a decade, almost 2 decades.
#30 to #19 - charagrin
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(06/22/2013) [-]
I am 23 and have a vasectomy, they do not "cut" anything except the skin to get to the lines themselves. Then they just pin them with a pressure clip. Mine is 100% reversible and would take 30 minutes.
#49 to #10 - trishmay
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(06/22/2013) [-]
You can reverse having your tubes tied. Sometimes, it's not even effective. My girlfriend's mom had 4 daughters, got her tubes tied when her last two (twins) were born, and a few months later she was pregnant again.
#26 to #10 - anon
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(06/22/2013) [-]
you can get a vasectomy reversed, my father did
#39 to #26 - anon
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(06/22/2013) [-]
"since a vasectomy is reversible"
What part of that did you not understand?
#55 to #5 - KillinTime
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(06/22/2013) [-]
but it's not a major operation for a man, it's routine stuff and easily reversible unlike for women, which is more invasive.
#6 to #5 - teranin [OP] ONLINE
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(06/21/2013) [-]
I guess that makes this post kind of a moot point.  Good to know, I will alter my opinions on this accordingly.
I guess that makes this post kind of a moot point. Good to know, I will alter my opinions on this accordingly.
#35 - thedumbledore
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(06/22/2013) [-]
This has absolutely jack **** to do with 'X/Y gender rights', it's to do with a ****** doctor forcing their personal belief on someone. I know it's already been said that it's part of proper medical procedure to have counselling, but OP implied in the picture that he was flat out told 'no' and made to feel insane for wanting one.

Stop going 'waaa da feminists' to every bad thing that happens. The last one of these put up was the exact same, a ****** that happened being attributed to the 'effects of feminism'.
#42 to #35 - iateapenguin
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(06/22/2013) [-]
The claims made in the "Cambridge needs feminism" campaign that was so big were just as irrelevant to gender issues.

"I need feminism because some guy just harassed me" - well ****, that's the guy's fault, don't stick it on all males!
#43 to #42 - thedumbledore
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(06/22/2013) [-]
I never really saw much of that, most of what I did see was laughably bad. There are some real issues out there for both genders, no doubt, but I think large scale 'campaigns' to do with gender rights tend attract the fanatic.
#48 to #42 - trishmay
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(06/22/2013) [-]
The reason that men harassing women counts as a need for feminism is because from age 14 girls know that ANY man can be a predator. I get that not every man is to blame for one harassment issue, however, the fact that men are allowed to speak to women however they wish and women are too afraid to reply is society's problem.

TL;DR - All men need to treat women nicer, and women will probably lay off with the feminazi bs.
#59 to #48 - quiescat
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(06/22/2013) [-]
but then we get are nuts cut off for treating them different as thats me being a chauvinistic pig

just thought your tldr was funny at least in the contest of feminazis < i use that word to effect so its distinguished from the rest of feminism
#40 - fishinyourface
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(06/22/2013) [-]
#31 - slimeywaffles
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(06/22/2013) [-]
These posts aren't even "effect(s)" of feminism.
#32 to #31 - quiescat
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(06/22/2013) [-]
too true
#9 - kikisu
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(06/22/2013) [-]
I need men's rights because I can't do half the **** men can, so I like that they get paid more.
#11 to #9 - kikisu
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(06/22/2013) [-]
I also ******* hate it when I go on a date with a guy who gets upset if I pay for anything.
#18 to #11 - mikkotheraichu
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(06/22/2013) [-]
As a girl, you must learn to tread carefully through man's internet land.

For instance, if it sounds like you're trying to get a man to say, "Wow you sound awesome I wish I could make sweet rotisserie love with you," don't say it. Because we all know you don't want to make that with anyone ever. Don't be that girl.
#33 to #18 - quiescat
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(06/22/2013) [-]
frankly they sound like a bad troll.. to me
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#28 to #21 - travismackie
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(06/22/2013) [-]
Comment on the wrong content somehow? That happened to me too a while ago.
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#45 to #11 - ivoryhammer
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(06/22/2013) [-]
On a first date I'd rather pay or at least split the bill, I feel like a dick if someone that isn't my family pays for me.
#52 to #9 - neoexdeath ONLINE
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(06/22/2013) [-]
By the sacred bylaws of the internet, I must request, nay...demand, that you expose your breasts, or submit to being escorted to the exit posthaste.
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#54 - anon
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(06/22/2013) [-]
To be fair it's stupid to get a vasectomy young because your a retarded kid who's like "lol bachelor 4 life, never had kids" But when your older, the chances are high that you'll want a kid or two. Yeah vasectomies can be undone, but that's money down the drain
#57 to #54 - bgskamikaze
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(06/22/2013) [-]
Then it sucks for you. you lost money but if a guy wants to have a vasectomy then he should have every right to have a goddamn vasectomy
#53 - lamarsmithgot
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(06/22/2013) [-]
I feel like he left out 90% of the story...

I have a feeling it's a good story too
#37 - toncheky
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(06/22/2013) [-]
Even though I see nor elation to feminism, I must say that someone denying you to have your tubes tied is ********.
#38 to #37 - commenteer
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(06/22/2013) [-]
That's the point of it. Women can't be denied that, but men can be denied a vasectomy.
#41 to #38 - toncheky
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(06/22/2013) [-]
Really? Well, then, **** it. I agree fully.
#60 to #41 - lolabunny
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(06/22/2013) [-]
Women can be and usually are refused procedures that affect fertility, especially if they are young or have no/few children. Unless you have a genuine medical reason for needing it, are considered quite old (like late thirties) or already have plenty of kids doctors will usually ask for her to undergo psychological evaluation because if they perform such a potentially life altering surgery and it turns out she was was mentally incompetent, they could face serious consequences similar to malpractice. Even with a clean bill of mental health some doctors will try to avoid it.
It's actually easier for a man to get a vasectomy than a woman her tubes tied, because for a woman the procedure is much more invasive.
It has nothing to do with feminism, it is standard medical practice for most.
#47 to #38 - thedumbledore
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(06/22/2013) [-]
Actually, they can be denied it if doctors don't wish to perform it, especially so for younger women. Women under 25 are often told they can not have the procedure, and are offered the alternatives.
#58 - bithcwits
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(06/22/2013) [-]
This has **** all to do with feminism
#4 - thewebspinner
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(06/21/2013) [-]
I'm not bitching but this guy has said he's "well over 18"
Let's face it the dude isn't 19 yet or he would have said despite being: 19, 20, 21...
Having a vasectomy is an important decision and one you could easily come to regret,
people change over the years and no matter how unlikely you may think it is you might want kids one day.
There are other methods of contraception for men such as
a) wear a ******* condom (only method that prevents against std' so wear a skin you idiot)
b) injection
c) funnyjunk
#7 to #4 - anon
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(06/22/2013) [-]
They can be reversed.
#17 to #7 - anon
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(06/22/2013) [-]
Not easily, you'll have a long-ass recovery period, and there's no guarantee the reversal will be successful after all the hassle. You clearly don't know your ****, do you?
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