If only this were true. dont look at me.. "If only this were true" Why? Are you really that desperate for sex? tags
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#47 - snodder (05/19/2013) [-]
Or you can just try being confident for a change. It really is better than being nice and then start to whine when you don't have the balls to tell a girl that you like her. Nice girls are ignored too, while the "hot" girls are attracting boys towards them just like in this gif. And i know tons of people write this in comments, but clearly it doesn't come through peoples' thick skulls. Semi-butthurt/			***************		 done   
   
TLDR; The girls you are friendzoned by are probably like in this gif, while nice girls are ignored, just like you "nice guys".
Or you can just try being confident for a change. It really is better than being nice and then start to whine when you don't have the balls to tell a girl that you like her. Nice girls are ignored too, while the "hot" girls are attracting boys towards them just like in this gif. And i know tons of people write this in comments, but clearly it doesn't come through peoples' thick skulls. Semi-butthurt/ *************** done

TLDR; The girls you are friendzoned by are probably like in this gif, while nice girls are ignored, just like you "nice guys".
User avatar #57 to #47 - luiselvergas (05/19/2013) [-]
amen sometimes i am in the mood for a bitch not a nice girl i completely agree with you
User avatar #324 to #47 - kjeks (05/20/2013) [-]
I'm not judging your personal preferences, but I'd rather not date a laser-ass baboon
User avatar #14 - TheFreak (05/19/2013) [-]
Guys, I am going to tell you something now that will make your lives much less complicated. If you want a romantic relationship with a girl, you must make this clear to her within the first week. Seven days is more than enough time for a girl to decide whether or not you are sexually compatible with her, at least enough to risk dating. If she is already in a relationship (and by the way, you should try to find this out early as possible) don't even bother. It's not fair to her, you, or her boyfriend.
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#271 to #14 - anon (05/20/2013) [-]
on the average it takes a female 5 minutes to decide if she wants to sleep with you. first impressions are huge.
#30 to #14 - hopskotch (05/19/2013) [-]
I agree with this to some extent. Like, 80% of what this comment says is true. I feel like you can still keep that "reserve" in, but don't force it. Remember, if she leaves him for you, she can do the same to you. But if it legit naturally doesn't work out, it never hurts to have been a good friend during that time.
#56 - flingwing (05/19/2013) [-]
being nice to a girl will make her want to be your friend, being funny and making a girl laugh will make her want to hang out with you, but being honest, confident, flirty and complementary will make her want to date you. and i dont mean complementary as in "hey i like your shirt" i mean complementary in a way that will make her blush. "that blouse really brings out your figure, you should show it off more often".

everyone should be nice to each other, not just people you wanna bang. hold the door open for strangers and tell your friends they have a nice butt
#65 to #56 - anon (05/19/2013) [-]
wizard
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#61 to #56 - anon (05/19/2013) [-]
will you marry me
User avatar #62 to #61 - flingwing (05/19/2013) [-]
yes
User avatar #64 to #56 - krobeles (05/19/2013) [-]
"Tell your friends they have a nice butt"

Yeah. Thats not going to make me look gay, at all.
Either that, or my female friends will think i'm trying to get them into bed, which could have both negative and posetive outcomes...
User avatar #66 to #64 - flingwing (05/19/2013) [-]
i was joking on that last part, mate. but if one of my friends told me i had a nice butt, depending on who it was id either be flattered, creeped out or a little turned on
User avatar #67 to #66 - krobeles (05/19/2013) [-]
Yeah. It all depends. Generally though, I'de say its a risky thing to be doing.
I think i have only 1 or perhaps 2 female friends where that would be taken as just a friendly remark.
User avatar #68 to #67 - flingwing (05/19/2013) [-]
yeah which is why i was mostly joking
#28 - hopskotch (05/19/2013) [-]
The biggest problem that men like OP have is that there is alpha-nice and beta-nice. Alpha nice is being nice just to be nice. Beta nice makes up roughly 70% of nice guys, who are only nice because they desire the attention of women.

Bitches I'm nice to you because I ******* feel like it. And that drives them crazy.
#31 to #28 - xviiijorja (05/19/2013) [-]
You make my girlhood tremble
#32 to #31 - hopskotch (05/19/2013) [-]
You better keep that in check woman, I only feel like it.
User avatar #33 to #32 - xviiijorja (05/19/2013) [-]
Oh yes, treat me mean, keep me keen
#35 to #33 - hopskotch (05/19/2013) [-]
BUT DON"T ENJOY TOO MUCH.
#34 to #33 - hopskotch (05/19/2013) [-]
And while you wait enjoy this lovely song, brought to you by Adventure Time. www.youtube.com/watch?v=6AxHLNy7ApE
#36 to #34 - xviiijorja (05/19/2013) [-]
Is that your pre-sex hold music? It works for me. I've got Cosmo here too for some tips.
#39 to #36 - hopskotch (05/19/2013) [-]
Just wait until you see my final form.
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#25 - ataeru (05/19/2013) [-]
"If only this were true"   
   
Why? Are you really that desperate for sex?
"If only this were true"

Why? Are you really that desperate for sex?
#169 to #25 - anon (05/20/2013) [-]
yes
#222 to #25 - anon (05/20/2013) [-]
yes
#330 to #25 - anon (05/20/2013) [-]
Well, at least he's allowing her the time to accumulate 8 stamps. Dude coulda' been hoping to cash in after like 3 or even 2 stamps!
User avatar #88 to #25 - kanpai (05/20/2013) [-]
yes....
#84 to #25 - hollyisthebest (05/20/2013) [-]
Dude. I would drag my balls through a mile of broken glass and hand sanitizer on a Monday morning to hear a girl fart through a one way radio.
#59 - helenwheels (05/19/2013) [-]
Try this, instead of being so desperate all the time, just be you. There are a countless amount of different people the world who all like different things and there are countless who would want you. And countless more who wont. Just be you and keep trying.
#63 to #59 - anon (05/19/2013) [-]
for 15 years I've been myself still nothing.....
User avatar #69 to #63 - helenwheels (05/20/2013) [-]
Wow, 15 whole years, you must be one experienced wise creature, who knows all and sees all.
I'm sure if you look you'll find someone to put up with your bitching.
#72 to #59 - sketchysketchist (05/20/2013) [-]
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Find me a woman who's totally cool with being in an open relationship where either of us can have sex and short-term relationships with other people until we're sure we're perfect with each other and decide to get married, but even then it's totally cool if one of us bangs someone else every now and then as long as we keep V.D. and pregnancies at bay. While not minding that we're not into all the same things and we can individually go out whenever no obligations hold us back.

That, or a girl who wouldn't mind skipping valentine's day and spending all the money we saved from expensive crap and dying roses at the local pharmacy buying all the candies that are now on sale at %20 off.

Can't find her can you? Didn't think so.
#96 to #72 - crystalia (05/20/2013) [-]
There are women who do prefer open relationships and begin frugal. You would have to look in the right places such as sex clubs or bars(where people who enjoy promiscuity tend to hang out). If you want someone like you who wants the same things, look in places you like to go. Bookstores, hobby shops, you favourite restaurants...You'll meet similar people that way. However, it will take years, decades sometimes. They aren't just going to suddenly appear in your lap. Life and love do not work that way.

You can be yourself and not put up with a girl who is the exact opposite of you. But sometimes, to get what you want in life, you have to put with some crappy things. To have sex every single day, you may have to put up with some bitchy chicks until you find your perfect girl. If you can live without sex every day while waiting to find that girl then you don't have to put up with it, but you have to put up with no sex. Even then, your perfect girl may have flaws. She'll follow your open relationship rules and frugal ideals, but maybe she'll restrict your diet or hate your political views. If these are things you can look past then great, but perfection doesn't really exist. There will always be some sort of flaw with either of you that can cause problems. A perfect relationship means you can overcome these flaws and love each other despite them. It's sucky, but that's how life works.

Either way, I wish you luck in finding your specific person. It's hard but you'll get there some day.
#167 to #96 - sketchysketchist (05/20/2013) [-]
**sketchysketchist rolled a random image posted in comment #149 at This turns you gay **
I know all that stuff, I was just ******** around with a concept I believe no woman really has or anyone at all because everyone just needs/wants one special person in their life.

Truthfully, I don't care much about getting any girl at the moment, mostly because I have nothing to offer in a relationship and that's what any relationship is about.
Being nice or having something in common isn't enough. Especially if you have no job to have money to take care of bills and such, take her out and treat her every now and then. Or lack any talent that helps her out like cooking, cleaning, and fixing so you can be a stay at home husband while she works.
It's taking half the responsibility of the relationship. She's not your mom with benefits.
Her having something in common and being "perfect" is just the cherry on top.
And I repay you **** with one of my own.
#172 to #167 - crystalia (05/20/2013) [-]
Wonderful!  Love the picture btw. I'm glad to see that you understand how it's a halfsies sort of thing. Very few people grasp that concept. I understand taking yourself out of the game for a while, it makes sense. I might have to do that one of these days. Learn to cook, get a job that pays(Hard work at an unpaid internship is getting me nowhere)... Only time will tell. Have a wonderful evening and good luck to you, kind sir!
Wonderful! Love the picture btw. I'm glad to see that you understand how it's a halfsies sort of thing. Very few people grasp that concept. I understand taking yourself out of the game for a while, it makes sense. I might have to do that one of these days. Learn to cook, get a job that pays(Hard work at an unpaid internship is getting me nowhere)... Only time will tell. Have a wonderful evening and good luck to you, kind sir!
#197 to #172 - sketchysketchist (05/20/2013) [-]
**sketchysketchist rolled a random image posted in comment #5 at yes...YES...YEEESSSS! **
My rolls suck, I tell people to **** off, the roll says they're awesome. I tell them I agreed and the roll calls them a faggot. : /

It's because the moment it's brought up, people start complaining about how it's messed up that no one can just love you for who you are and only love you for money, when in reality if you have a job and money you're a hardworker who's good with money while having no job makes you a useless bum.
I didn't take myself out of the game because I was never in, though to be fair I was only eligible for the past 2-4 years, but I chose to stay out knowing the consequences pretty early and because I'm still pretty young.
Being the type to hate people, I realized a lot of the hot/cute girls I wanted who were taken immediately showed that they were really stupid, dependent, and/or got pregnant in a year. I don't want to deal with that. So I'm guessing if I wait, the only ones left will be smart, reasonable, independent and worth the time.
Learning to do anything requires little effort, you basically treat it like one of those Lab projects you'd do in high/middle school, except you keep doing it until you do it right. Plus it makes people want to hang out with you more because everyone can use a driver, cook, repair man, carpenter, tech savvy, guy who can speak at least 2 languages.
An unpaid internship may help you out if they hire you for being so loyal, or you can use those you work for as a reference when applying to real jobs especially if your job opens doors. You could probably ask your boss about that and see if he can set you up. Good luck though.
Have a good evening as well. And enjoy this next roll.
#249 to #197 - crystalia (05/20/2013) [-]
We should talk like this more often, lol. I know I'm in the internship for a reason, and I am still quite young, but it's frustrating to need money and work so hard but not get paid at the end. I'll have a conversation with my boss about a paid extension next month when my time is up.  I'm glad to see you acknowledge the whole skills thing. I just need to motivate myself to learn to cook... I love food but kitchens don't love me. So much fire... T.T   
   
Also, I adore that image, it's freaking Benedict Cumberbatch. Great roll! Have my cutest gif.
We should talk like this more often, lol. I know I'm in the internship for a reason, and I am still quite young, but it's frustrating to need money and work so hard but not get paid at the end. I'll have a conversation with my boss about a paid extension next month when my time is up. I'm glad to see you acknowledge the whole skills thing. I just need to motivate myself to learn to cook... I love food but kitchens don't love me. So much fire... T.T

Also, I adore that image, it's freaking Benedict Cumberbatch. Great roll! Have my cutest gif.
User avatar #286 to #249 - sketchysketchist (05/20/2013) [-]
Yes we should.
Good luck.
The sooner you get to it, the sooner you get used to the heat.

Never heard of him. But I like the floating hedgehog.
User avatar #250 to #249 - roll (05/20/2013) [-]
hi
User avatar #43 - herpaderpasaur (05/19/2013) [-]
I'm not nice to girls because I want them to have sex with me, I'm nice to girls because they're people and it's not realistic to expect every attractive woman I know to be interested in me
#103 to #43 - crystalia (05/20/2013) [-]
This world needs more people like you.
Image sort of related and adorable.
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User avatar #196 to #177 - mookiez (05/20/2013) [-]
I'm a really nice guy, but I expect sex in return, well, because. I'm a ******* virgin. 11 more years and I will be a wizard.
User avatar #201 to #196 - pixy (05/20/2013) [-]
Then that's why you are being nice, since you "expect" something in return. Sex isn't just a "reward"...it's a sharing of yourself which is extremely intimate.
User avatar #215 to #201 - mookiez (05/20/2013) [-]
I'm a nice person in general. I'm never around woman anyway because I'm such a shy douche bag. And I don't mean the whole knight nice constant compliments. More like I have manners nice. But I will argue and fight if I must. And I don't expect anything in return. I want a relationship more than sex. I would rather cuddle. But I want to lose my v card with someone I love. I just made the above statement saying I'm to old to be a virgin.
User avatar #219 to #215 - pixy (05/20/2013) [-]
OOOOH..Ok. my bad.
User avatar #224 to #219 - mookiez (05/20/2013) [-]
Guess I didn't clarify. Might be why everyone is thumbing me down. Oh well. I have the levels. But I'm the strange dude that wants to cuddle more than sex. Guess I'm a rare breed.
User avatar #228 to #224 - pixy (05/20/2013) [-]
worth preserving I thinks
User avatar #233 to #228 - mookiez (05/20/2013) [-]
Everyone tells me that. I think I will. I've waited this long I can wait longer. And Not such a horndog any more from being a prepube years ago. But I'm hoping in a couple months when I finish my college and shove off to the army I will find a woman that is interested in my type of stuff. Then I won't talk to her and squeal like a dolphin.
User avatar #236 to #233 - pixy (05/20/2013) [-]
Good luck!!!
User avatar #238 to #236 - mookiez (05/20/2013) [-]
Thanks!
User avatar #198 to #196 - markertemp (05/20/2013) [-]
Join the club.
#178 to #177 - creepyunclebob (05/20/2013) [-]
That's the point the comic made, but they were funny and you were ranting.
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#182 to #181 - creepyunclebob (05/20/2013) [-]
Yeah, it annoys me too. I'm honestly glad to see people bitching about this instead of the usual bitching about women that you see on FJ.
User avatar #191 to #177 - ilcecchino (05/20/2013) [-]
i am a nice guy. and i agree cause i never complain when i don't get sex. i do it cause i genuinly want to see the other person be happy. i am not looking for sex. i'm looking for love. i could care less about sex. and i don't complain when they don't love me. but it sill hurts like a ************ . i can't MAKE someone love me. so i deal and move on
User avatar #79 - delphine (05/20/2013) [-]
See, I've learned: It's the guys who are convinced they are good guys that you have to watch out for. No guy sees himself as an asshole or a douche bag. Just acting nice because you want a girl to notice you, or if they are nice the woman somehow owes them sex...that's not being nice. That's being manipulative.

It's the guys who are aware of their natural tendency to objectify women, and are honest about it, and earnestly try to overcome that tendency to treat women honorably... those are the guys who earn my respect.
User avatar #85 to #79 - PieSoldier (05/20/2013) [-]
******* thank you! Finally, someone else who gets it!
#102 - weenieandthebutt (05/20/2013) [-]
Am I the only one around here who's nice to everyone regardless of gender or level of attractiveness?
Sure, I may go that slight extra mile for a girl I like or even a hot girl but I'm not going to be this lecherous manipulative bastard where I'd get her to become obliged to sex. If she likes me, awesome! If she doesn't, friendship's always cool.
User avatar #174 to #102 - raynagrimm (05/20/2013) [-]
i try to be nice untill they give me a reason to to stop
#121 to #102 - ironstrike (05/20/2013) [-]
**ironstrike rolled a random image posted in comment #2106745 at Friendly **

How dare you be a decent human being, you asshole.

User avatar #170 to #121 - malhaloc (05/20/2013) [-]
That's a strangely fitting pic. Good roll.
User avatar #20 - wardylocks (05/19/2013) [-]
This is a sarcastic Illustration.. Just because you're being 'nice' to a girl doesn't suddenly mean that you deserve sex.
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User avatar #127 to #70 - wardylocks (05/20/2013) [-]
Oh wow, a rape joke. This is why you are in fact a waste of skin. Go and **** yourself.
User avatar #160 to #127 - mayormilkman (05/20/2013) [-]
lolwut
User avatar #179 to #160 - wardylocks (05/20/2013) [-]
restart said 'I don't need permission' or some ****
#49 to #20 - Xepheros (05/19/2013) [-]
Exactly. It's quite the opposite -- if the possibility of sex is the reason you're acting like a "nice guy", you probably aren't a nice guy. I really can't stand this ridiculous sense of entitlement these people have.
User avatar #128 to #49 - wardylocks (05/20/2013) [-]
didn't expect an positive feedback to this post - but yes, so true.
#166 - theseventhalias (05/20/2013) [-]
I hate fake nice guys..they make guys who are actually nice look bad..
User avatar #363 to #166 - mayormilkman (05/20/2013) [-]
You're bi?
User avatar #364 to #363 - theseventhalias (05/20/2013) [-]
who's asking?
User avatar #365 to #364 - mayormilkman (05/20/2013) [-]
Me.
User avatar #366 to #365 - theseventhalias (05/20/2013) [-]
why are you asking?
User avatar #367 to #366 - mayormilkman (05/20/2013) [-]
Because of that "traps" post you made a week ago.
#368 to #367 - theseventhalias (05/20/2013) [-]
...how the hell do you remember that
User avatar #369 to #368 - mayormilkman (05/20/2013) [-]
That wasn't too long ago.
User avatar #370 to #369 - theseventhalias (05/20/2013) [-]
www.funnyjunk.com/funny_pictures/4589308/Traps/1#1

good point, six days ago.

And yes, I am bi.
User avatar #371 to #370 - mayormilkman (05/20/2013) [-]
I have a feeling you're one of those people who were "tricked" by the traps, then you found that you liked them anyway, and now you're bisexual.
User avatar #372 to #371 - theseventhalias (05/20/2013) [-]
nope. I have always liked them. Traps are not the only guys I am into, my ex boyfriend wasn't a trap.

I didn't even know what a trap was, actually, during my first relationship with another guy. wasn't until later on that I discovered they existed, and how sexy they were. I, actually, have both the proper body and face to become a trap if I wanted to.:3
User avatar #373 to #372 - mayormilkman (05/20/2013) [-]
Mmmmkay. I know I'm just straight.
User avatar #374 to #373 - theseventhalias (05/20/2013) [-]
okay.
#171 to #166 - comanderspy (05/20/2013) [-]
beta as ****

not that im not one
#180 to #171 - theseventhalias (05/20/2013) [-]
if you have to be a douche to be alpha, then I never want to be alpha.
#184 to #180 - comanderspy (05/20/2013) [-]
alpha does not mean being a douche, alpha means owning the **** . own the conversations, the activites, women, etc... i said that your comment was pretty beta because you are probably one of those nice guys (nothing bad with that!) but you are just blaming others for your lack of initiative, and, or balls.

if you really feel like "ughh, look at this jerk, taking all them gurlz n' ***** !" then become that guy, but in your own style, no need to be a dick, just be 'yourself' its easier (you might actually over do it on being a dick and **** it all up, happened to me)
User avatar #192 to #184 - theseventhalias (05/20/2013) [-]
I don't feel that way about girls, though. I don't want to 'own the girls'. Things like one night stands and relationships just for sex disgust me. I view relationships as being something mainly love based, sex is only an bonus. It's all about love and caring for one another, and that is how it should always be.

The person who I am is a nice, caring person. The guys who pretend to be nice for sex piss me off because they are not actually being nice, they have ulterior motives. They aren't being nice because it is the right thing to do. They are doing it to get into a girl's pants.
#204 to #192 - comanderspy (05/20/2013) [-]
hey, i never meant 'own women' as in ' you are my bitch, do what i want, 			****		 me now' kind of thing. i hate those kind of people too, but dont you ever, at least in the slightest, get overwhelmed, or 'intimidated' by women, or their reactions? i meant, to own those feelings they make you feel or whatever, but anyways i agree with you, they 'spending time, love wubb' part of the relationship should be the best, and sex should be a pretty awesome bonus, most young guys seem to miss this part until their mid 20's
hey, i never meant 'own women' as in ' you are my bitch, do what i want, **** me now' kind of thing. i hate those kind of people too, but dont you ever, at least in the slightest, get overwhelmed, or 'intimidated' by women, or their reactions? i meant, to own those feelings they make you feel or whatever, but anyways i agree with you, they 'spending time, love wubb' part of the relationship should be the best, and sex should be a pretty awesome bonus, most young guys seem to miss this part until their mid 20's
#210 to #204 - theseventhalias (05/20/2013) [-]
i'm 16, and i'v always thought that way.
User avatar #221 to #210 - comanderspy (05/20/2013) [-]
im 18, and so have i for ever... its just weird how people mature at different rates, sometimes i feel like i missed out on the whole puberty thing (at least the emotional part) i have never felt like a revel asshole that wants piercings, tats and to say ' **** you mom, get out of my room... UGHH you dont understand!'
User avatar #183 to #180 - theseventhalias (05/20/2013) [-]
I should no have used the same character as a reaction
#188 to #183 - comanderspy (05/20/2013) [-]
why not, i think its pretty cool to stay 'in character' i wish i had a bunch of pictures of the same character (other than pones or spiderman, for some reason it de-rails threads or something)
why not, i think its pretty cool to stay 'in character' i wish i had a bunch of pictures of the same character (other than pones or spiderman, for some reason it de-rails threads or something)
#162 - bariummanisback (05/20/2013) [-]
If you expect something in return for being a nice guy, you're not a nice guy
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User avatar #246 - lightninghedgehog (05/20/2013) [-]
i too wish we lived in a world where the phrase "hot diggity" was used frequently
User avatar #148 - vanoreo (05/20/2013) [-]
but sex isn't what I want

I want cuddles and a loving personality

call me a fag, but that's more worthwhile
User avatar #155 to #148 - henryfordthegod (05/20/2013) [-]
but is that worthwhile
User avatar #205 to #148 - mookiez (05/20/2013) [-]
I'm the same way, even though I'm a 19 year old virgin. I still want a relationship over sex. What is the point of ******* if you don't love the person. I have only had one girlfirend and I never once asked for sex. Never got any either by the time we broke up and we dated for 6 months.
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#163 to #154 - eighthzeus (05/20/2013) [-]
Like beef,pork,or chicken. mmmmm
User avatar #157 to #148 - malhaloc (05/20/2013) [-]
THANK YOU! I never got those guys who's sole purpose in life was to sleep with as many girls as possible. I had a friend who, until I straight up told him I give no ***** , everyday when he saw you would start bragging about all the girls he met and how many of them he ****** and blah blah blah. He's a real frat boy wannabe.
#161 - janagirlff (05/20/2013) [-]
I've always had other women tell me it's the 'nice guys' you have to be careful with. Not the ones that actually nice, but the ones that constantly whine about how they don't understand why women don't like them, how nice guys don't get women, how they always act so nice etc. But I always believed in giving everyone an unbiased chance. For the past year 1/2 I've been with an amazing guy who I love very much. One weekend he and a few friends visited and he introduced me to his one friend who we'll call K.    
   
Now K was a very unhappy person who tended to focus on how unhappy he was. He was very depressed and stuck in a rut of to woe is me. I am looking to become a therapist after college and have good skills when it comes to making people feel better, so my boyfriend has me chat with the guy a bit and he starts texting me when he's feeling sad which is quite often. A reoccurring cause of this is because this girl he likes is with someone and K was totally convinced she belonged with him.    
   
So for about a month and a half i try to console him when I can and offer support/ encouragement. Both my boyfriend and I spend a lot of time trying to make K feel better & see the good things in life. Sure at times he seems to be a 'oh my life sucks & its everyones fault but mine' type of person, but hey, who am I to judge? So one night he texts me he is seriously down & I reply with a few ways he can get his mind taken off it, feel better, etc. He then tells me he has a question to ask thats a little weird & I say shoot. K says he hops I won't be weird about it or tell anyone & then says that he would sure feel a lot better if I sent him a pic of me in my underwear.    
I was livid & felt used. Not only did I feel disrespected as a woman for being reduced to that but furious that he had been such a 			******		 friend to my bf who had done a lot for the little dick. Never texted him again & am still weary of self proclaimed 'nice guys'.    
TL;DR Nice guys arent always nice
I've always had other women tell me it's the 'nice guys' you have to be careful with. Not the ones that actually nice, but the ones that constantly whine about how they don't understand why women don't like them, how nice guys don't get women, how they always act so nice etc. But I always believed in giving everyone an unbiased chance. For the past year 1/2 I've been with an amazing guy who I love very much. One weekend he and a few friends visited and he introduced me to his one friend who we'll call K.

Now K was a very unhappy person who tended to focus on how unhappy he was. He was very depressed and stuck in a rut of to woe is me. I am looking to become a therapist after college and have good skills when it comes to making people feel better, so my boyfriend has me chat with the guy a bit and he starts texting me when he's feeling sad which is quite often. A reoccurring cause of this is because this girl he likes is with someone and K was totally convinced she belonged with him.

So for about a month and a half i try to console him when I can and offer support/ encouragement. Both my boyfriend and I spend a lot of time trying to make K feel better & see the good things in life. Sure at times he seems to be a 'oh my life sucks & its everyones fault but mine' type of person, but hey, who am I to judge? So one night he texts me he is seriously down & I reply with a few ways he can get his mind taken off it, feel better, etc. He then tells me he has a question to ask thats a little weird & I say shoot. K says he hops I won't be weird about it or tell anyone & then says that he would sure feel a lot better if I sent him a pic of me in my underwear.
I was livid & felt used. Not only did I feel disrespected as a woman for being reduced to that but furious that he had been such a ****** friend to my bf who had done a lot for the little dick. Never texted him again & am still weary of self proclaimed 'nice guys'.
TL;DR Nice guys arent always nice
#81 - achingandachong **User deleted account** (05/20/2013) [-]
#293 - harrytheheadcrab (05/20/2013) [-]
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If you are expecting to get laid just by being a nice guy you're doing it wrong.
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