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#35 - stijnverheye
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i dont mind being lonely or not having much friends , but i just want that one person i can spend eternity with
i dont mind being lonely or not having much friends , but i just want that one person i can spend eternity with


#70 to #35 - anon id: bcf35425
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Awww. Same, bro. Er, sis?
#74 to #35 - anon id: 209a610b
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Can you tell me where that gif is from?
User avatar #124 to #74 - dervishofwin
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Katawa Soujo - Hanako Route
#193 to #35 - anon id: 9f2e0609
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sounds like something either those 'just girl things' posts or faggots would say.
#258 to #35 - xbonezbreaker
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Godammit, and to think I cam on here to put myself in a better mood, to take my mind off things
Godammit, and to think I cam on here to put myself in a better mood, to take my mind off things
User avatar #292 to #35 - dickherber
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www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ppoo1EJ-Vrc

Thought the gif was from this....
User avatar #218 to #35 - galvasted
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I feel this way everyday. Then someone comes along and you believe that it may work but you get attached to a lost hope in the end only to repeat the cycle until one day hopefully.
User avatar #259 to #218 - xbonezbreaker
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Unfortunately people don't just 'come along'. You have to go out of your comfort zone to meet new people
#260 to #35 - clockworkphysicist
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Oh god Hanako ;_;
#315 to #35 - psicosis
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every one of us are waiting for her my friend
but the thing isn't just wait, the thing is look for her
User avatar #325 to #315 - masdercheef
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"A great love is a lot like a good memory. When it’s there, and you know it’s there, but it’s just out of your reach, it can be all that you think about. You can focus on it, and try to force it, but the more you do, the more you seem to push it away. But if you’re patient, and you hold still, then maybe… Just maybe… It will come to you"
User avatar #323 to #315 - mikaelkid
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You never look, it happens unexpectedly, and if you are looking, it won't last long because you'll both be like "you're cute," and it'd move fast.


You have to meet that person and not even think about liking them and just be friends first... then let the rest do itself!
User avatar #318 to #35 - vatra
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I'll drink to that.
#72 to #35 - achselschweiss
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I feel you, man.
I feel you, man.
#73 to #35 - shaddowmarshal
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whats this from? i kinda wana see it to know that feel
User avatar #84 to #73 - pppqrt
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Katawa Shoujo, Hanako route
#83 to #73 - anon id: 62a0b16a
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Katawa Shoujo, a visual novel.
#86 to #83 - shaddowmarshal
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interesting, i recently started it, now im gonna have to really push through, and thank you kind citizen
User avatar #223 to #86 - hhanako
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good luck, hanako's route is the feeliest of them all, and you will feel like a coimplete cunt if you accidentally get her bad ending.
#52 to #35 - hhanako
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but she may never come...
User avatar #53 to #52 - stijnverheye
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but she may come

until then i will enjoy the other aspects from life
User avatar #78 to #52 - kandeh
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Good things tend to sneak up on us when we least expect it. Chin up. She's a lot closer than you'd think.
#130 to #78 - hhanako
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you're taking this far too seriously
User avatar #279 to #130 - kandeh
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I tend to over think everything, and usually end up missing the mark. It's a curse, really.

My apologies.
User avatar #280 to #279 - hhanako
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no prob mate, it's cool
#209 to #130 - anon id: b6f57a01
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Stop spamming this ****
User avatar #221 to #209 - hhanako
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what ****?
User avatar #119 to #52 - garymotherfingoak
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that's just a videogame. even if they are not a lover, everyone finds someone special, in this life or the next.
#37 to #35 - hipsophobadon
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sounds so gay, but i feel ya bro
#38 to #37 - stijnverheye
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gay ? , i was talking about that one girl that never will judge me for my actions and loves me for who i am

and will always be there despite the situation
#62 to #38 - subzeromk
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#102 to #38 - lolibear
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I think those standards are way to high. No one is that perfect, and love is a two-way street. Don't look for a girl that will always accept you, look for one that is willing to try.
User avatar #114 to #102 - stijnverheye
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i know its good to be true , but i can still hope . Same karakteristics is my main goal
#4 - forestfires
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samurai jack is best jack
#19 to #4 - morkoelorko
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doubt
doubt
#20 to #19 - TheTurnbull
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His name is Kyle Gas, not jack, stupid
#120 to #20 - morkoelorko
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Well, ****...i will accept my fate by my ignorance.
User avatar #240 to #4 - chewieisthebest
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I don't know I kinda like apple jacks there ***** awesome
#65 to #4 - theplankof
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He's a close second
User avatar #97 to #65 - nefarian
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Jak =/= Jack
#105 to #4 - epicburana
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How many oscars have you won?
How many oscars have you won?
User avatar #177 to #4 - spysappinmysasha
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I am one of those peole who hated Samurai Jack.

Sorry, it was just too western for me. I really dont like the animation style for western cartoons. I cant take it seriously.
#106 to #4 - rakoom
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Also best samurai.
#82 to #4 - kyrozor
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Keep telling yourself that, lad.
#192 to #82 - buckoman
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Amateurs.
#32 to #4 - burgemeester
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#104 - antoniospaghettio
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At least he has a huge cock.
User avatar #162 to #104 - darrensankari
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Aaaaand there went all the feels.
#1 - sierraoneoneseven
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I could never keep the promise
I could never keep the promise
#24 to #1 - anon id: 45e124ce
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Well that's because it was in the script.
#44 to #1 - anon id: bc057b3c
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gayest Halo so far
#311 to #1 - anon id: 94ef2cd2
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meh, real chicks are better anyways.
y'all crying to a computer from a fictional videogame.
#314 to #311 - sierraoneoneseven
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you are an idiot
#299 to #1 - abachonk
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#205 to #1 - BroadSword
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#25 to #1 - sanctussvindex
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******* ****... there goes my day...
******* ****... there goes my day...
#5 - snakefire
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And yet somehow I make everyone angry despite my efforts, and still remain lonely.
#226 to #5 - anon id: bb80a365
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Stop being a pushover and make yourself happy before others then.
#313 to #5 - anon id: 94ef2cd2
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then quit being a bitch and do something about it.
#68 to #5 - adamks
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My advice. Stop trying. Help your friends, but help yourself before that.
User avatar #7 to #5 - defensive
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Don't be lonely, you still have cats.
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User avatar #27 - blacktitan
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You know, this really hurts. Me and my family, we are always so kind to everyone, specially our friends. But we are always getting tricked. My mother and father have been entering and investing in different partnerships, even with their friends, and they've spend more money than they had on it, but in the end, they've always been tricked or betrayed. Same thing goes for me. I always spend more than i got for my friends, but in the end.. there's nothing good, no good outcomes, at least not much. But I've been raised this way and it's hard to change you're heart. Don't be too kind in our dirty world, there are no good outcomes, at least not often!

Me myself. There's a girl in my class, i like her a lot. But you know what?? My best friend likes her too. What I've been doing's I've tried to be a bit mean to her(it's not easy), specially around him, you maybe ask why. Because I though that she maybe see me as a bad person (she knows that i like her) compared to him. No one knows about this except FJ. The thing is that I know that i will gain nothing but sadness from this for my self, but i want to see my bro smile. But now after some months he says that he's not interested anymore. Now I've only gained sadness.

But always remember that what your heart says isn't always true. It's true that you do good things even when you know that you won't gain anything, and I do that. I do things for people, even when i don't have enough for my self. I sacrifice myself for other, and that'g good too, but only if you know your limit, and my problem's that I always cross my limit. Don't be like me, try to change yourself while you have the chance!
User avatar #61 to #27 - brettyoke
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A normal guy would jokingly compete with his friend for the girl. I'ts highschool/college, it doesn't matter that much who wins anyway. Well, maybe a bit in college, in that case, run that bastard over.
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#289 to #27 - anon id: 27bfcd5f
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Dude you gotta take some for yourself and stop bein' a pussy. Assert yourself, man.
User avatar #312 to #27 - Sunburn
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blacktitan, I know exactly where you're coming from as far as the acting like a bad guy to make your friend more appealing to a member of the opposite sex.

Do not do it. When your friend and the girl finds out what you're doing, it will backfire. "What you think you're better than me?" Is one of the many lines that unfolds from this. Make yourself happy first, then your friend.
#46 to #27 - gerfgrof
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your face when first paragraph. but seriously, i feel for you man, its a tough world, i hope you feel better.
User avatar #329 to #27 - lolothundah
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You know bro, I feel you. I've been doing the exact same thing as you do to everyone else. I try to be there for all of my friends and family without expecting anything in return. I've always been quiet and I've never asked too much. I just set my goals a little believable. I'm always that friend wherein you can just ask "Hey, are you doing anything, i'm kinda alone" and I'll rush to be with them. I'm the kind of guy that wouldn't want anyone to be alone.

I guess is because so far in my life I've been alone. I've never experienced people saying "Aww man I really missed ya" or ask if I'm doing anything special. There were a few but they easily got carried away with other things. I"ve never received a hug from anyone except from my mom (well the other day I got a hug from a friend because I attended her 18th bday) I've never received or heard anyone ask me "How's it going" or "what's up?". I always end up going home alone; Stay in my room and draw/sing/use the computer all day. And everytime my "group" of friends would hang out they would leave me out and say "oh man sorry we forgot about you."

But I always make sure that my friends or anyone else never have to be alone. I text them if they're free or maybe we could go home together so they wouldn't face the **** I face.

I always say that I'm alright but in truth it kinda hurts. I've already accepted my fate to be like this, to be the person that would always be there for everyone even if no one is there for me. Even if I want something, I know I can't get it so I try and make the best of what I have.

(although I promise myself to become a Storyboard Artist/Creative Director/Story Producer/Musician/CEO of my own company/etc)

All I ask now is too meet that someone who would ask how my day goes, would go out of their way to spend time with me and the likes. Just to meet this perfect girl (I codenamed her K.A.T.E) would make everything feel great for me.

that's all I ask and for my dreams to come true


#36 to #27 - mieka
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I feel for you. I'm so sorry...
#49 to #27 - birdmancheifton
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respect for sharing that
Sometimes I feel similar, like giving everything to make others happy and sacrificing, but when i start feeling lonely, the best cure is comedy.
"Laughter is the best Medicine, the cool thing is you can't OD and the refills are free"
User avatar #188 to #27 - rhetoricalfunny
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I think you just need to take some ******* happiness for yourself. You've given enough, certainly more than some will in their entire goddamn lives. You can't please everyone, and certainly not alone.

Live for yourself bro
#195 to #27 - evilpowersjr
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You know what man? Your blinded from your actual motives by your simple moral logic. Being nice? Its easy, and easy to justify. You get to go around helping people doing something that can only be perceived as correct and moral. But the real reason you do this is to prevent your self development.

Its hard to grow a backbone and go out and do it yourself. Think about building a tree house alone. Seems pretty hard doesn't it? now think about doing it with some friends. Seems easier right? Seems even if it was done for your friend, it would be so astronomically easier you could run out and do it. now think about running out and building your own. No ******* Way. And that's how come your a nice guy and put others first. growing a set and being a real man requires boldness strength. character. I bet you shudder at the thought of these values.

But not all is lost! With this realization in hand you can see the reason why your stepped on is because in your "niceness" you become totally dishonest with yourself and with others. And people can feel that more than you know. You look sniveling and weak. possibly ever an ass kisser. by stepping up to the plate, you will gain respect and dignity.

if you go after that girl, and tell your friend she was yours first and **** off, it will be the start of an amazing revolution in your life. If you don't, or start to make excuses on why you shouldn't, get used to being lonely. Because nobody is going to put that pussy in your hand for you.

That queasy feeling you get looking across the room? It goes away eventually. But pussying out again and again will only lead to the same feeling.

Why do I know this? Why do I care? because I thought very similar to you once and now I'm Alpha as **** with my pick of women and all the sick skills one could dream of. And I'm still a nice guy.
#71 to #27 - firstresponder
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the best thing you can be in this world is kind. follow your dreams... if that girl doesn't show that she likes you back then she's not the right one. Plenty of fish in the sea. Hmm, what are some other cliched cheesy sayings. Cheer up though
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#41 - buriedstpatrick
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Can we stop this **** already?
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i think the person who made this was intentionally blending it in the background
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#76 - wanicochil
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What hurts the most for me is that I had friends once, I had a lot of friends that I talked to heaps, and then they just stopped talking to me, one by one throughout the years, I tried to continue talking but eventually it felt that I was making all the effort and they put in none, so I stopped, and my last two friends, **** it made me cry when I learnt that they didn't want me around anymore, they were my two best friends, I had been planning on going out for my 18th for months, and they said they would come, and us 3 would go out to the city or something, and finally the light came around and they never came, they didn't respond all night to my texts and the next day I get a text from one of them saying "Sorry, I went out with some friends" and the other didn't even respond

I did nothing but good, at least I think I did.. and now I sit at home every day, trying to drown out my loneliness with internet, it works majority of the time, but I wonder how long I can actually keep this up
User avatar #77 to #76 - wanicochil
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The light?

Finally the night came*
#185 to #76 - trivdiego
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thats pretty ****** sad mate. but your pals here at FJ would never do that
User avatar #281 to #76 - alexforce
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It's not always so bad, I don't wanna like...say that oh it's easy, cause it's not. I had my best friend since I was 13 years old just plain out say that she didn't wanna be friends with me anymore, it was by far the angriest I've ever felt in my life, I did nothing but support her through anything that she decided to do, and yet in the end, I'm the one who just got left alone..now that's not to say I don't have other friends...but it really hurt, 6 years of friendship ended in an instant.

I could let this get me down more than it does, but as time progressed, I formed stronger bonds with the ones who actually stuck by me, I would rather have a small amount of good friends than a lot of fickle friends any day.

I'm really sorry that this happened to you, the same thing happened to me after High School...and I relate ENTIRELY to what you meant by saying that you felt like you were the only one putting any effort to keep in contact, it makes you wonder if you ever meant anything to them at all. Keep your head up though, because through anything, you gotta keep your sense of humor.
User avatar #90 to #76 - largeheadphones
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This is me right now...I try to talk to my old friends, they just don't care anymore.
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User avatar #144 to #76 - happypancake
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Hey man. This really got to me. This has been happening to me to a certain extent all my life, and the situation you described is one of my biggest fears. Hopefully I've formed some friendships that can the test of time, but I really can't be sure. All I can do for now is to be comfortable with me, and hopefully I'll be able to use the friends I have now to help me with that for now. Who know
Sorry for the ramble. In any case, I think it's useful to remind yourself that people and feelings and situations change, and sometimes it's not really anyone's fault (really does depend though)
All I can really do for now is offer my friendship. I am by no means perfect, and my availability isn't always consistent, but I've been told I'm a good listener and my advice is solid. Who knows. Inbox me your Skype and I'll chat to you once the stress in my life dies down a little (hopefully not too far in the future!)
I can't promise that I'll always be the most fun to talk to (going through a rough patch at the moment), but I'll do my best to be a good friend.
User avatar #115 to #76 - satrenkotheone
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I tried that... doesn't work for that long.
#121 to #115 - wanicochil
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Yea, it's kinda been diminishing recently   
   
At least the floor loves me
Yea, it's kinda been diminishing recently

At least the floor loves me
#123 to #121 - satrenkotheone
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Hah... wish I could hug you.

My desperate hunt for identity and safety as well as escaping Norway and how thing is here has led me to... well I'm doing a lot to become someone else... or just someone at all.

I have friends here... but I don't think they want anything to do with the emotional side of me.
User avatar #147 to #123 - happypancake
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Hey, if you want to talk about that stuff, feel free to inbox me.
User avatar #148 to #147 - satrenkotheone
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I might.
#95 to #76 - lordumpalumpa
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Sorry to hear this, we could exchange skype contacts and write eachother, well it´s not like talking to a real person, but I guess everyone has to start little
#96 to #95 - lordumpalumpa
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Oh **** i hate these emoticons and didn´t know if you write ":" and ")" together it would make this, jesus fking christ
#108 to #96 - wanicochil
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Yea that sounds good, inbox me your skype if you want
Yea that sounds good, inbox me your skype if you want
#159 to #108 - xheavymetalx
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I can't stop watching this... the adorable-ness is ******* mesmerizing ._.
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#134 to #76 - xheavymetalx
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I know that feel, sorta. I've been in a similar situation but I haven't been completely alone - I have a few friends that I chill with once in a while, but very few that I can actually trust and rely on.

Here's my tip to you, and it's a tip that has made me feel better recently - Just say "**** everyone else" and use this as motivation to focus on yourself. Improve yourself as a person, since evidently your so called 'friends don't care. That's not implying that you're a bad person, because you sound like you have good intentions, but take the opportunity to do **** you wouldn't normally do... for yourself. Instead of just internetting every day, work out and get buff as ****. Read a bunch of books and relate to the characters. Reading can help you learn a LOT about yourself, and it's the perfect activity to be done in solitude. Learn a new skill and get really good at it. Hell, maybe start writing or make music.

From what I've learned, when people desert you, the best thing you can do is to busy yourself with... well, yourself. That way you don't NEED the company of other people that much. Otherwise, you end up getting dependent on them.... and it just makes you feel worse. And then when you do find some people that enjoy your company, you'll have a bunch of friends AND add all the other cool ****. That's coming from personal experience. That is all. (Holy **** that was long)
User avatar #146 to #134 - happypancake
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^ this ************ right here knows what he's talking about. Sound advice, friendo
#141 to #134 - wanicochil
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That's kinda the thing though, I know it's weak willed but all my life to motivate myself I've depending on other people   
   
Doing good in school was to impress my intellectual friend   
   
Working out was to impress girls   
   
I'm a person that needs to impress other people with what I'm doing to motivate myself, and I hate it about me but I can't seem to fix it no matter what I do   
   
I guess I could potentially start reading and learning something, I might actually give that a go when I'm not 19 hours sleep deprived, you actually did raise my spirits a bit, thanks
That's kinda the thing though, I know it's weak willed but all my life to motivate myself I've depending on other people

Doing good in school was to impress my intellectual friend

Working out was to impress girls

I'm a person that needs to impress other people with what I'm doing to motivate myself, and I hate it about me but I can't seem to fix it no matter what I do

I guess I could potentially start reading and learning something, I might actually give that a go when I'm not 19 hours sleep deprived, you actually did raise my spirits a bit, thanks
#155 to #141 - xheavymetalx
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That's how I used to feel too. For a period of time I used to be depressed as **** 24/7 and I would be on the internet for hours on end because I didn't have friends I could talk to, and I was so socially awkward I couldn't meet new people. I felt like my purpose in life was to appeal to other people and I was apparently failing at that, so what was the purpose of my life?

But... one day.... that ALL changed. At one point I took a step back and realized that I have so much more potential than this. And SO DO YOU. Within days, I completely changed my attitude and image around 180 degrees. I got a ton of ************** clothes, started talking to people I didn't know, reinvented how I looked, and did whatever it took to uplift myself as a person, which included filling my alone time with productive activities. Eventually, there came a point where people started having mad crushes on me and new people I met actually ended up becoming good friends. And I didn't even try to impress them. I simply impressed myself. There's a saying that goes "The only person you should try to be better than is the man you were yesterday". I still live my life by that quote.

And it all started with a sudden change in attitude. Maybe your day isn't today. Maybe it isn't even tomorrow. Maybe it's because you just flat out refuse to believe me. But one day, I know these words will come back to you and you'll realize that you too have it in you. Untill then, stay strong, my good man, and always think of what I said. Also, if you ever need someone to talk to, just hit me up. I find that meeting new people is always an interesting experience, in any case.
User avatar #158 to #155 - wanicochil
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I do believe you and I've had this thought for a long time now, but the only thing that is keeping me back is how much of a laughing stock I would be to my family (And extended family) if I did any drastic changes to my personality/appearance, and I don't want to go through that
#173 to #158 - soloparasiempre
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i used to think that too about my family and especially my friends, but the truth is they won't care all that much. they might makes some jokes, tease you a bit, but you just have to smile and joke it off. at least that how it was in my case. the awkwardness you'll feel at the beginning is worth the way you'll feel when you and everybody else gets used to it... that, of course, is if you change for the better.
good luck! here's an inspirational image for you
#166 to #158 - xheavymetalx
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I think that dwelling too much on the opinions of others, even your family, holds you back. If you're afraid of them supposedly making you a laughingstock, you'll never make progress. It's important to take their advice into account, but negative feedback only keeps you down. At one point, it becomes a "go for broke" situation. Either you take the leap of faith, or you stay on the ground because you're scared something might happen.

Pic related. Since it seems you like anime. I have so many ******* pics that I don't know what to do with.
User avatar #189 to #158 - trivdiego
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I was a loser in middle school. I just didn't get stuff like how to talk to people in a way that would make them like you. I got really nervous around the popular kids and I was really insecure. what I did was take a step back, and identify the problems. I saw the way other people acted to make friends, and I started acting that way too. I'm not saying I got all YOLO and **** but I did stuff that I wouldn't normally do in order to make friends. People are attracted to you mainly by how much confidence they feel you have. If you at in a manner that suggests extreme confidence (not arroganc, however) then others will be likely to respond positively
#98 to #76 - kietzu
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You need a hug.
I want to hug you.
#103 to #98 - wanicochil
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A hug would kinda be nice right now
#107 to #103 - kietzu
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Ok. Let's see...
This is all I got. Sorry.
#171 - Fiction
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#163 - kingkamikazi
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That has to be Samurai Jack
#174 to #163 - anon id: 05c49b78
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I recognize the huge cock.
#164 to #163 - spazzin
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Naw man, that's Scobby Doo