Why I always stay single. >tfw no gf.. Before this turn out to be one of those pathetic self-pity beta comment section, I want you to think of an actual reason why you would need a gf, if you can't b feels single men
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User avatar #14 - arcticvenom ONLINE (05/11/2013) [-]
fear of rejection is worse than rejection
User avatar #16 to #14 - cjasper (05/11/2013) [-]
I beg to differ. In year 12 I asked a girl to the school dance she rejected me... not only that she told everyone about it and how she shut me down I was the laughing stock till I graduated.
#20 to #16 - goryheadstump (05/11/2013) [-]
Life is significantly easier to live when you don't give a **** about what people think/say/do. She rejects you? **** her. They laugh at you? **** 'em. Still got your friends, right? If not, they laugh along with the others, **** 'em, they're not true friends.

"...Those who mind, don't matter, and those who matter, don't mind." - Dr. ************* Seuss
User avatar #21 to #20 - cjasper (05/11/2013) [-]
Yea I have adopted that attitude since high school, my friends stuck by me but they still give me **** but I don't care that's why I have fj.
User avatar #17 to #16 - arcticvenom ONLINE (05/11/2013) [-]
damn you countering my random quote
User avatar #18 to #17 - cjasper (05/11/2013) [-]
i'm sorry
#1 - dingbox (05/10/2013) [-]
Before this turn out to be one of those pathetic self-pity beta comment section, I want you to think of an actual reason why you would need a gf, if you can't be happy without one, you're just gonna be even more miserable with one..
User avatar #4 to #1 - hhanako (05/11/2013) [-]
because it gives you somebody to share your life with, sometimes that's all you need.
User avatar #5 to #4 - thecharliesheen (05/11/2013) [-]
That's assuming all goes right in the relationship.
Sometimes, and mostly at this age (I assume you're the typical funnyjunk age) it just makes things more difficult because both men and women at that age are ******* insane.
User avatar #6 to #5 - hhanako (05/11/2013) [-]
i've seen even an slightly unstable relationship make somebody fix tghemselves
User avatar #7 to #6 - thecharliesheen (05/11/2013) [-]
If it takes someone else for you to fix yourself, than you have deeper rooted issues. You should never need someone else to better yourself. Plus, other people aren't always permanent. What happens when they leave and you're left with yourself again? Do you turn into a wreck again?
Point being, fix yourself for yourself. Not for anyone else.
User avatar #8 to #7 - hhanako (05/11/2013) [-]
well the person that i knew remained the same as he was when he was in a relationship even after the relationship ended
User avatar #9 to #8 - thecharliesheen (05/11/2013) [-]
Then all he needed was a motivational push, not someone.
Look, you can't NEED someone. Other people have separate lives, and usually theirs is more important. If yours conflicts with theirs, you can bet your ass that you're out. If you need someone to make yourself happy, you will never be happy.
#10 to #9 - hhanako (05/11/2013) [-]
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so you're saying that if you're not happy on your own, and somebody else makes you happy, that you will never be happy?
User avatar #11 to #10 - thecharliesheen (05/11/2013) [-]
Yes, because that person could easily leave. You can be happier with someone in your life, but if you become unhappy and depressed without them (minus the normal grieving period), you probably won't be happy. It's always better to be self-reliant.
#32 to #11 - daragon (05/11/2013) [-]
I agree with most of what you say, but you really sound like a person who've been hurt enough times to become cold... I'm perfectly happy by myself to, but that doesn't mean i couldn't be happier if i was in a relationship.
I agree with most of what you say, but you really sound like a person who've been hurt enough times to become cold... I'm perfectly happy by myself to, but that doesn't mean i couldn't be happier if i was in a relationship.
User avatar #37 to #32 - thecharliesheen (05/11/2013) [-]
Nope, I've been in a happy relationship for 6 years now with the same person. Now, granted him and I have had our fallouts from time to time, so does every couple. Like I said, another person can GREATLY enhance your happiness, and you should enjoy it and cherish it.. However, there is always a chance that something will happen. I'm not saying " **** relationships, you're better on your own!", but I am saying that you should always be able to create your own happiness if no one else can.

You basically reiterated my point. You should be happy in a relationship,, but you can be happy on your own too.
User avatar #50 to #37 - daragon (05/11/2013) [-]
Oh, fair enough then, guess my concern was on needed ;D
#25 - drhoffable (05/11/2013) [-]
grow a pair and call her
#33 - mattkingg **User deleted account** (05/11/2013) [-]
Mfw i confessed to the girl i like today and she said yes
Mfw i confessed to the girl i like today and she said yes
#51 to #33 - chiktikkavaspaus (05/11/2013) [-]
Congrats. I'm about to do that tonight. Wish me luck.
Congrats. I'm about to do that tonight. Wish me luck.
User avatar #35 to #33 - Menko (05/11/2013) [-]
Congratulations :D
#36 to #33 - tigerrish (05/11/2013) [-]
Mfw I confessed to the girl I like and it turns out she's a lesbian.
User avatar #44 - callan (05/11/2013) [-]
As is said in "Gran Torino" --You know why you're single? 'Cause you're a pussy. That's why."
#2 - kandcool (05/10/2013) [-]
situation with the girl i like =\
User avatar #22 to #2 - roflnaut (05/11/2013) [-]
Dude just talk to her. Nobody likes a pussy, and you sure as hell are acting like one if you are afraid to even talk to her.
Just grow some balls and talk to her, women like men with confidence, but don't make it weird by discussing your vintage lunchbox collection or whatnot. Just have simple conversations.
#19 to #2 - hemming (05/11/2013) [-]
******* text her, it's better to take the risk than do nothing. By doing nothing, nothing will surely happen.
User avatar #39 to #19 - stallwallwriter (05/11/2013) [-]
Wow, you've really inspired me to talk to someone I'm interested in.
Just power through your fears.
The hemming way.
#3 to #2 - hhanako (05/11/2013) [-]
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#23 to #3 - killerdoxa (05/11/2013) [-]
just do it it better to get told no then to do nothing it's hard i know but do it she may even say yes
User avatar #34 to #23 - hhanako (05/11/2013) [-]
no, she said no. she said she was under a lot of stress and didn't want a relationship with anybody and doesn't feel the same about me.
#24 - nigletstrikesback (05/11/2013) [-]
all these betas. When are you going to realize that girls aren't "special"? She doesn't wanna text you/talk to you? find someone else. There's millions of people just like her that will be all over you if you grow a sack for once
#26 to #24 - anon (05/11/2013) [-]
What about the betas who dont go outside much, not good with meeting, or getting to know others, the general idea of a beta, we dont know many women, but by god when we do find one she seems the be the only one in the world that we know, though... i dont totally agree with this post, you're right that they're not "higher" or more "special" than us, but we betas fear the things listed in the 3rd panel, because, we don't have anyone else.
User avatar #38 to #26 - angelmatvey (05/11/2013) [-]
It's still better to try and fail than to not try at all. I'd have a lot more respect for a guy that I rejected than a guy who never even asked.
#48 to #38 - anon (05/11/2013) [-]
Same anon here, and yeah.. i dunno if i made my belief clear there, sorry if i failed, but i was speaking for "beta as **** " guys, so, you dont need to convince me, im beta.. but.. not god awful and id atleast try O.o
#49 to #48 - angelmatvey (05/11/2013) [-]
Oh okay, sorry, didn't mean to sound like I was lecturing you or anything. It just bugs me when people refuse to act because they're nervous, mostly because it's a personal flaw of mine and don't like seeing other people be idiots too.
User avatar #55 - pipedt (06/05/2013) [-]
I can say I have never been beta, I'm not scared of women at all and had my plenty share of pussy. But I'm the guy on this repost right now.Yesterday, my girlfriend, the one I got in love with at first sight, the only one I have ever loved told me she wasn't sure how she felt about me. Se told me she needed time to think and that it wasn't fair for me to be with someone that doesn't put 100% into a relationship. That if we stay together, it would all be a lie. I feel like **** , because i've done that to a lot of girls that I really never cared about, i've told them those exact words. Obviously lies, I just didn't want them to feel so bad...Now I know how I made those girls feel, I feel like a ******* monster and it disgusts me. I wish I had the guts to talk to her, to go to her house right now and do everything to change her mind. But I'm to scared to see her, and see myself within her. I'm too scared to see that the only woman I've ever fall in love is just a female version of myself.
User avatar #54 - Schwarzenegger (05/24/2013) [-]
I was talking to this girl on and off for almost 2 years. Then she finally told me she liked me. I was ecstatic. We talked for a couple more days then she got distant and cold. She finally told me why. Apparently, we don't have much in common and we never have anything to talk about. Even though we talked about a lot of stuff before. Wtf. But anyway, I'm done talking to her. I still want her, she's a really good girl. Hard to find one like her these days...I was supposed to take her fishing today. :\ But whatever...maybe sometime on down the road I'll try again. If it's meant to be, it'll happen. But one thing's certain: I'm not gonna put my life on hold for her. I don't care how good she is, no one's worth that.
User avatar #53 - severepwner (05/17/2013) [-]
Not to long ago, I texted a girl I liked this message, thanks to my friend for helping me write it.
"Hey Anon I know that you said no when I asked you out. And I promise that I won't bother you about this anymore. I just need an answer. Is there a chance that we'll be together?" If no, then I'll lay the matter to rest and we will continue on. I just need a straightforward answer, because I've been thinking way too much. No matter what I'm still you're friend.
I still haven't gotten a response yet.
#52 - pinguuu ONLINE (05/11/2013) [-]
Better to tell her than doing nothing, think it's now or never.
User avatar #47 - grrphc (05/11/2013) [-]
Huh.
What a surprise. gay **** on FunnyJunk again.
#46 - PedoBearFTW (05/11/2013) [-]
As terrible as it sounds, you can get over rejection. Sometimes I regret never telling the guys I've liked how I felt, but the ones I got rejected by, we got past it and everything is okay now. Something great can come out of it, you never know unless you try.
As terrible as it sounds, you can get over rejection. Sometimes I regret never telling the guys I've liked how I felt, but the ones I got rejected by, we got past it and everything is okay now. Something great can come out of it, you never know unless you try.
#43 - recentstoner (05/11/2013) [-]
>Be 17
>In a relationship for 8 months
>girl is all I want
>cute, although kinda chubby, but nothing wrong with that
>find out she's been sexting 3 guys in the last few months
>1 Ex, 1 of my long time friends, and 1 random dude
>dump her on the spot
>As she leaves, raise my fist in the air and yell "FREEDOM!"
>buy weed
>buy cigarettes
>good night

>next day
>only wanna talk to her
>miss her
>But at the same time I hate her
>Talk to her on Facebook
>Say some pretty awful things
>feel bad but I stand by it
>get high again
>epic realization
>"I'm a Ninja of The Night, man, bitches ain't got **** on me."

>mfw when it still sucks that she's gone.
User avatar #40 - wargeneralwest (05/11/2013) [-]
I had that fear about talking to this girl I liked a lot, but i eventually just said ' **** it' i'm gonna ask her out. so i did and now we've been going out for over 2 weeks and i'm no longer forever alone :D
#30 - iamphoenix (05/11/2013) [-]
I'd have feels, but if you're so terrified of rejection that you never even try, your pain is your fault. Because it isn't that girls don't like nice guys. It's that girls don't like wusses.
#27 - anon (05/11/2013) [-]
Except I did the opposite, girl I liked called me, too pussy to answer :(.
User avatar #29 to #27 - lolwtfme (05/11/2013) [-]
Thats even more beta
User avatar #45 to #29 - highhopes (05/11/2013) [-]
More like Theta.
User avatar #13 - Hashenmier (05/11/2013) [-]
yeah, I'm that way with my girlfriend. At least online. In person, all is well, but the minute I have to hit an enter key to start a conversation, its much the same as this post. Once a beta, always a beta
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