Why I always stay single. >tfw no gf.. Before this turn out to be one of those pathetic self-pity beta comment section, I want you to think of an actual reason why you would need a gf, if you can't b feels single men
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#1 - dingbox
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(05/10/2013) [-]
Before this turn out to be one of those pathetic self-pity beta comment section, I want you to think of an actual reason why you would need a gf, if you can't be happy without one, you're just gonna be even more miserable with one..
#4 to #1 - hhanako
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(05/11/2013) [-]
because it gives you somebody to share your life with, sometimes that's all you need.
#5 to #4 - thecharliesheen
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(05/11/2013) [-]
That's assuming all goes right in the relationship.
Sometimes, and mostly at this age (I assume you're the typical funnyjunk age) it just makes things more difficult because both men and women at that age are ******* insane.
#6 to #5 - hhanako
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(05/11/2013) [-]
i've seen even an slightly unstable relationship make somebody fix tghemselves
#7 to #6 - thecharliesheen
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(05/11/2013) [-]
If it takes someone else for you to fix yourself, than you have deeper rooted issues. You should never need someone else to better yourself. Plus, other people aren't always permanent. What happens when they leave and you're left with yourself again? Do you turn into a wreck again?
Point being, fix yourself for yourself. Not for anyone else.
#8 to #7 - hhanako
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(05/11/2013) [-]
well the person that i knew remained the same as he was when he was in a relationship even after the relationship ended
#9 to #8 - thecharliesheen
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(05/11/2013) [-]
Then all he needed was a motivational push, not someone.
Look, you can't NEED someone. Other people have separate lives, and usually theirs is more important. If yours conflicts with theirs, you can bet your ass that you're out. If you need someone to make yourself happy, you will never be happy.
#10 to #9 - hhanako
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(05/11/2013) [-]
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so you're saying that if you're not happy on your own, and somebody else makes you happy, that you will never be happy?
#11 to #10 - thecharliesheen
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(05/11/2013) [-]
Yes, because that person could easily leave. You can be happier with someone in your life, but if you become unhappy and depressed without them (minus the normal grieving period), you probably won't be happy. It's always better to be self-reliant.
#32 to #11 - daragon
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(05/11/2013) [-]
I agree with most of what you say, but you really sound like a person who've been hurt enough times to become cold... I'm perfectly happy by myself to, but that doesn't mean i couldn't be happier if i was in a relationship.
I agree with most of what you say, but you really sound like a person who've been hurt enough times to become cold... I'm perfectly happy by myself to, but that doesn't mean i couldn't be happier if i was in a relationship.
#37 to #32 - thecharliesheen
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(05/11/2013) [-]
Nope, I've been in a happy relationship for 6 years now with the same person. Now, granted him and I have had our fallouts from time to time, so does every couple. Like I said, another person can GREATLY enhance your happiness, and you should enjoy it and cherish it.. However, there is always a chance that something will happen. I'm not saying "**** relationships, you're better on your own!", but I am saying that you should always be able to create your own happiness if no one else can.

You basically reiterated my point. You should be happy in a relationship,, but you can be happy on your own too.
#50 to #37 - daragon
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(05/11/2013) [-]
Oh, fair enough then, guess my concern was on needed ;D
#42 to #1 - marstan
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(05/11/2013) [-]
#2 - kandcool
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(05/10/2013) [-]
situation with the girl i like =\
#22 to #2 - roflnaut
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(05/11/2013) [-]
Dude just talk to her. Nobody likes a pussy, and you sure as hell are acting like one if you are afraid to even talk to her.
Just grow some balls and talk to her, women like men with confidence, but don't make it weird by discussing your vintage lunchbox collection or whatnot. Just have simple conversations.
#19 to #2 - hemming
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(05/11/2013) [-]
******* text her, it's better to take the risk than do nothing. By doing nothing, nothing will surely happen.
#39 to #19 - stallwallwriter
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(05/11/2013) [-]
Wow, you've really inspired me to talk to someone I'm interested in.
Just power through your fears.
The hemming way.
#3 to #2 - hhanako
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(05/11/2013) [-]
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#23 to #3 - killerdoxa
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(05/11/2013) [-]
just do it it better to get told no then to do nothing it's hard i know but do it she may even say yes
#34 to #23 - hhanako
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(05/11/2013) [-]
no, she said no. she said she was under a lot of stress and didn't want a relationship with anybody and doesn't feel the same about me.
#14 - arcticvenom ONLINE
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(05/11/2013) [-]
fear of rejection is worse than rejection
#16 to #14 - cjasper
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(05/11/2013) [-]
I beg to differ. In year 12 I asked a girl to the school dance she rejected me... not only that she told everyone about it and how she shut me down I was the laughing stock till I graduated.
#20 to #16 - goryheadstump
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(05/11/2013) [-]
Life is significantly easier to live when you don't give a **** about what people think/say/do. She rejects you? **** her. They laugh at you? **** 'em. Still got your friends, right? If not, they laugh along with the others, **** 'em, they're not true friends.

"...Those who mind, don't matter, and those who matter, don't mind." - Dr. ************* Seuss
#21 to #20 - cjasper
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(05/11/2013) [-]
Yea I have adopted that attitude since high school, my friends stuck by me but they still give me **** but I don't care that's why I have fj.
#17 to #16 - arcticvenom ONLINE
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(05/11/2013) [-]
damn you countering my random quote
#18 to #17 - cjasper
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(05/11/2013) [-]
i'm sorry
#12 - Sinless
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(05/11/2013) [-]
#25 - drhoffable
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(05/11/2013) [-]
grow a pair and call her
#33 - mattkingg **User deleted account**
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(05/11/2013) [-]
Mfw i confessed to the girl i like today and she said yes
Mfw i confessed to the girl i like today and she said yes
#51 to #33 - chiktikkavaspaus
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(05/11/2013) [-]
Congrats. I'm about to do that tonight. Wish me luck.
Congrats. I'm about to do that tonight. Wish me luck.
#35 to #33 - Menko
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(05/11/2013) [-]
Congratulations :D
#36 to #33 - tigerrish
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(05/11/2013) [-]
Mfw I confessed to the girl I like and it turns out she's a lesbian.
#15 - cjasper
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(05/11/2013) [-]
#44 - callan
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(05/11/2013) [-]
As is said in "Gran Torino" --You know why you're single? 'Cause you're a pussy. That's why."
#27 - anon
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(05/11/2013) [-]
Except I did the opposite, girl I liked called me, too pussy to answer :(.
#29 to #27 - lolwtfme
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(05/11/2013) [-]
Thats even more beta
#45 to #29 - highhopes
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(05/11/2013) [-]
More like Theta.
#52 - pinguuu
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(05/11/2013) [-]
Better to tell her than doing nothing, think it's now or never.