Beating the Friend Zone. Ok, so with all the posts on friend zone, i thought that this oldie would be helpful Not mine. friend zone
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#4 - alkonius (02/18/2013) [-]
Got to step 5 for about a year and a half and then she met someone else and got married. I think I did something wrong
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#5 - majbuzzkill ONLINE (02/18/2013) [-]
#149 to #5 - tbells (02/19/2013) [-]
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#59 - anon (02/18/2013) [-]
If you're a girl in the friendzone, he doesn't want to see your tits.
User avatar #217 to #59 - mondominiman (02/19/2013) [-]
Even when i had a girlfriend it would have been awesome to see the tits of some of my friends who were girls. Tits are tits no matter who they belong to.
User avatar #229 to #217 - McFuckUp (02/19/2013) [-]
He meant girls who are friendzoned are probably in the zone because of how unattractive they are.
Which is why it's ironic when unattractive beta males complain about every girl not falling all over themselves to **** them.
#61 to #59 - insanefreak (02/18/2013) [-]
True. Once a girl manages to befriend a guy (I know one such case), she can share his dressing room, change inside his room, share the shower (showering together that is), and whatever, without him ever noticing the fact that she is a girl (she's an 8/10).

Then again.. We do frequently suspect him of having hit his head as a child, so that might be related.
#1 - romeodark (02/18/2013) [-]
have done it.... have worked......... didn't last tho but still had sex
have done it.... have worked......... didn't last tho but still had sex
User avatar #7 to #1 - danniegurl (02/18/2013) [-]
and that's why girls don't want to date friends, because then that happens and it messes up the friendship.
#20 to #7 - romeodark (02/18/2013) [-]
life is about risks and not to be a coward, so give a good guy a chance!
User avatar #24 to #20 - danniegurl (02/18/2013) [-]
well see, i was actually in the friend zone, and i didn't want to say anything at risk of the friendship. then i found out he didn't like anyone/ didn't want a gf at the time, so i forced myself to get over him. i just recently got a bf.
User avatar #21 to #7 - hirollin (02/18/2013) [-]
could always wait till marriage.
User avatar #25 to #21 - danniegurl (02/18/2013) [-]
i am waiting until marriage. but even without sex, things can get messed up.
User avatar #26 to #25 - hirollin (02/18/2013) [-]
A girl who chooses to wait? Just restored my faith a little bit. I'd say give it a month or two at least. I imagine the person would know whether or not he/she is attracted to their best friend or not. Out of all the successful relationships I'v seen they usually started out as friends and eventually grew attracted to each other.
If you want to give me examples of other issues I'd be happy to hear them. I'm kind of curious now.
User avatar #32 to #26 - danniegurl (02/18/2013) [-]
when i replied, i actually thought you were the guy down ther, so sorry if my reply didn't make sense.
User avatar #34 to #32 - hirollin (02/18/2013) [-]
sall good
User avatar #27 to #26 - danniegurl (02/18/2013) [-]
yeah, we've been good friends since last year.
i liked him since about the 3rd quarter of 11th grade.
i have almost a whole day of classes with him every other day.
so i don't think that's happening.
he basically is one of those guys who's mature enough to know he's not ready to date. like he believes until you like yourself, you can't love anyone else, and he doesn't feel that he does.

but i'm giving my ex bf a second chance right now.
i actually have said a few things recently about waiting until marriage, it seems like the issue keeps coming up lately (you could refer to my status even, lol)
User avatar #29 to #27 - hirollin (02/18/2013) [-]
Well, just about every married person I have ever met has said they wished they had waited until marriage. Can't say I have met many married people who did wait for marriage, but the ones that did didn't seem upset or regretful or anything. They seemed like wel.. two happy best friends.

The hard part is finding a person, any person, who is waiting till marriage. The statistics are very depressing. After 19 around 50% females and 40% of males have already have sex, and as one can imagine it increases as age goes on. Either way, doesn't mean a girl should settle. There are more virgin guys than girls in the developed world, so if you are being pressured then you shouldn't have too much of a problem dumping your ex and finding someone who appreciates you and what you are doing.
User avatar #31 to #29 - danniegurl (02/18/2013) [-]
no, i just got with him and he's not pressuring me.
and i'm kind of surprised more girls than guys have lost it.
i hope he wont pressure me, and he knows that i want to wait, so maybe he wont.
but i haven't really asked him much about it. he might even consider it a mistake, i don't know.
but i'm willing to give him a chance.
#100 - arstya (02/18/2013) [-]
Or maybe just move on, and don't **** up the friendship you have.
#155 to #100 - anon (02/19/2013) [-]
Men and women can never be friends. Watch "When Harry Met Sally"
#113 - anonymoose (02/18/2013) [-]
Are you ******* serious? This is essentially saying "Be a pussy then be a dick to her". If she doesn't like you, acting like a total ******* cunt and ignoring her will do **** all.

Be a nice guy and if she likes you then she'll say yes. If she doesn't, then too ******* bad. Move on, not every girl in the world will like you.

Mind games do **** all and that's why you all get friend zoned. You act like relationships are this trivia game where if you choose the right options then everything will work out all the time 100% of the time.
#168 to #113 - awfulwaffles (02/19/2013) [-]
You do understand that almost all girls want what they can't have. You be a dick to them, they wonder why and try to figure you out. And all of a sudden, you are the one that's in control. It obviously isn't as simple as " dude be a dick she will like you".
#180 to #168 - anonymoose (02/19/2013) [-]
Playing mind games to try and get girls will get you no where. Being yourself will get you somewhere.
User avatar #116 to #113 - pianoasis (02/19/2013) [-]
I think the joke was in the last line of text, I'm sure OP is that big of a faggot
User avatar #78 - srskate ONLINE (02/18/2013) [-]
For men:
1. make sure that you even lift
#54 - trojandetected (02/18/2013) [-]
**trojandetected rolled a random image posted in comment #2839222 at Item Collecting Game ** ******* idiots if she liked you, you would not be in friend-zone just because you are ugly or socially awkward does not make you a nice guy im not saying i am im just saying friend-zone is the polite way to be rejected if she said flat out no you think she is a slut facebook whore.
Dont embarrass yourself go for a girl who fells how you do for her.
There is always one but you are to blind to see.
#56 to #54 - sonda **User deleted account** (02/18/2013) [-]
THANK YOU
User avatar #184 - pwoneill (02/19/2013) [-]
or she could just totally loose interest and then you wont have a friend or a gf.....ive done this...thrice.....its not fool proof.
#187 to #184 - laserkirby (02/19/2013) [-]
Nothing is foolproof.
#150 - SenorButtPlug (02/19/2013) [-]
Yeah guys, if you're sick of her not seeing how nice of a guy you are, hold your friendship hostage until she sucks your dick.
User avatar #151 to #150 - Kingsteveooo (02/19/2013) [-]
Your name is quite fitting for you I see
#153 to #151 - SenorButtPlug (02/19/2013) [-]
What's that supposed to mean? You wanna fight? I'll 			*******		 fight you bro.
What's that supposed to mean? You wanna fight? I'll ******* fight you bro.
#156 to #153 - Kingsteveooo (02/19/2013) [-]
Ooh an internet fight. I can't think of a sensible idea.
Ooh an internet fight. I can't think of a sensible idea.
#160 to #157 - Kingsteveooo (02/19/2013) [-]
Is how we do
Is how we do
User avatar #159 to #150 - ffx (02/19/2013) [-]
Hey! Minus rather make some sort of use out of such a useless thing.
#174 - tacblack (02/19/2013) [-]
Ok hold the 			****		 up.   
   
If you basically tell her that you don't want to be best friends because you want a relationship, you're basically saying that you were only friends with her because you wanted to 			****		. Why else would you want to be in a relationship? This will fail with any girl that has some 			*******		 self confidence or any girl that has some 			*******		 sense.   
   
MFW when ensuing butthurt
Ok hold the **** up.

If you basically tell her that you don't want to be best friends because you want a relationship, you're basically saying that you were only friends with her because you wanted to **** . Why else would you want to be in a relationship? This will fail with any girl that has some ******* self confidence or any girl that has some ******* sense.

MFW when ensuing butthurt
#177 to #174 - Elemental (02/19/2013) [-]
No man, it's how you present it. You have to say that you can't stand being that close to her with out being more than just friends. Mind you this will only work if you are really close and she does value that much.
#181 to #174 - isconfuzzled (02/19/2013) [-]
I don't really see how that's saying that at all.
User avatar #214 to #174 - peanutbuttersmack (02/19/2013) [-]
Being in a relationship doesn't mean ******* . Its emotions, knowing that person loves you the same way and won't go running off with another guy because you have no commitment to being in an actual relationship.
#186 to #174 - anon (02/19/2013) [-]
You could also be in a relationship for the emotional reasons. It's better to go through **** together, with someone that you love and trust, than to do it alone. It's not always about ******* . Maybe that's why you're alone you neckbearded faggot.
#197 to #186 - tacblack (02/19/2013) [-]
I never said you couldn't be in a relationship for emotional reasons asshole. However that's one thing you can have with any friend. Being in a relationship implies some sort of intimacy whether it be kissing or ******* . So that's what you're implying when you say you want to be in a relationship.
#127 - Visual (02/19/2013) [-]
Or, you know, having a friend who happens to be a girl isn't a bad thing? Just because guys are hard-wired to want sex more frequently than girls isn't an excuse to bone every girl you meet and have no friends.

I can have a close best female friend who is literally my best friend, I can talk about stupid "guy talk" to her and she understands and she talks about stupid "chick talk" to me and I understand.

Then we both go off and find other people to date because she isn't into me and I understand (and she already knows that I'm not actively looking for sex with her but if she wanted to, I would be fine and she doesn't mind that I think that)


TL;DR **** you, OP.
#45 - texasbarbie (02/18/2013) [-]
>Show him your tits   
>implying tits are big   
What if the tits are Keira Neightley's size?   
Meaning FLAT??
>Show him your tits
>implying tits are big
What if the tits are Keira Neightley's size?
Meaning FLAT??
User avatar #53 to #45 - unklebourbon (02/18/2013) [-]
How the **** did you misspell "Knightley" as "Neightley"
#47 to #45 - sonda **User deleted account** (02/18/2013) [-]
I like small tits
#48 to #47 - texasbarbie (02/18/2013) [-]
Yeah man but NO tits?   
I mean what are you going to SQUEEZE?   
Her ribs???
Yeah man but NO tits?
I mean what are you going to SQUEEZE?
Her ribs???
#49 to #48 - sonda **User deleted account** (02/18/2013) [-]
I suppose I don't MIND flat. I wouldn't squeeze anything.
#50 to #49 - texasbarbie (02/18/2013) [-]
Ok i know likes vary from person to person...BUT HOW CAN YOU NOT WANT AT LEAST SOME TITS ON A WOMAN???
#52 to #50 - sonda **User deleted account** (02/18/2013) [-]
I dunno, man. I'd LIKE some tits, but they're not needed. I guess I'm just laid back like that.
User avatar #69 to #52 - DerfVader (02/18/2013) [-]
After you see a skinny guy with his shirt off, you tend to think of flat-chested women as boys...and it's a turn off, needless to say. Idk how anyone could not feel the same.
User avatar #67 to #47 - thatonetyler (02/18/2013) [-]
same here buddy, same here!
User avatar #75 to #35 - lawlzeeful (02/18/2013) [-]
I feel like this doesn't only constitute to nice guys. But maybe it's just me (like always).
User avatar #179 to #35 - IncarceratedNinja (02/19/2013) [-]
worth the ******* read.
#62 to #35 - monsieurtimeywimey (02/18/2013) [-]
For everyone who TL;DR'ed
For everyone who TL;DR'ed
#97 to #35 - leredspy (02/18/2013) [-]
Also, lifting helps.
Also, lifting helps.
#148 - sachonebeef (02/19/2013) [-]
Friendzone is a lie. If a girl isn't interested she will not start liking you because you are nice to her. Grow a spine and deal with rejection like any other man would.

At least they're rejecting you nicely by putting you in the so called "friendzone"
#193 to #148 - laserkirby (02/19/2013) [-]
Then I prefer a "I don't like you and I would never go out with you"-comment instead of spending lots of time trying to win her over and to hear "Let's just be friends, ok?".
#144 - mnan (02/19/2013) [-]
This seems a little idealistic. If she's not into, she's not into you. Not talking to her will probably just force her to get new friends.
This seems a little idealistic. If she's not into, she's not into you. Not talking to her will probably just force her to get new friends.
User avatar #161 to #144 - simplelife (02/19/2013) [-]
Some girls don't know a guy is interested in them, because they never acted on it. But once they get into that "friend zone", it's a little difficult because in most women's minds, they don't want to risk losing you because of relationship problems and would rather just remain friends. So...in some cases, yes, she's just not interested at all. But in most cases...guy just never makes a move.
User avatar #182 to #161 - mnan (02/19/2013) [-]
I totally get that. My point was simply that it's all sitautional, and that more often then not, if a girl doesn't like you, it's not for lack of trying. If you try harder, good on you. If you sever all contact in an attempt to make her miss you, you might be kidding yourself.
User avatar #98 - jimli (02/18/2013) [-]
"Don't be a dick..."

If you do this, you're a dick.
#206 - critique (02/19/2013) [-]
Do people actually believe this works?
reasons why this list is ******** :
1) She has other friends who actually support her and don't treat her like ****
2) She'll move on, even when you can't, because she realizes you were just trying to use her.
3) If she isn't attracted to you, then you might as well just get over it, because it's never going to happen. You can't force anybody to be attracted to you if the chemistry isn't there.

4) If you're an unattractive girl, NOBODY wants to see your tits OR the rest of you.

If all you want is to get laid then hire a goddamn hooker and stop treating your friends like **** .
User avatar #204 - thatevanguy (02/19/2013) [-]
I recently escaped the Family Zone.... That right, the FAMILY ZONE


I honestly have no idea what the **** happened, or how I did it, I'm still in shock....
#224 to #204 - xlthegamelx (02/19/2013) [-]
The **** bro? Explain please.
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