what if you found out your partner have been sending sexual pics to others to check if they're atractive to you

I actually just want to be friends with this girl without any sexual intentions.

Your point is valid but also strange. See, I have said that, i'd be miserable if i ever lost her friendship. That doesn't mean my mind doesn't go to sexual things, but they are far from the priority. I could go my whole life without anything sexual happening between me and her and be happy.

Either way, well played my friend

Actually is me.

... I have plenty of attractive friends who I don't see this way at all.

I guess I'm just not a dweeb. :/

So if you were single and they were too and they offered sex you'd say no?

Lol. Yeah, actually.

I have plenty of (hot) chick friends who try to get with me at every other party and I usually ignore them or I might make out with them for a bit but I'll stop before anything else.

It's called college. and I'm an attractive guy.

It being college and you being attractive has nothing to do with it. Simple self control is all it is. Though good for you you're able to turn them down. I know I wouldn't.

Joke.
you don't see it.

*AHEM*

I have plenty of attractive friends who I don't have any sexual intentions towards.

Or maybe I don't need sex and I'd rather spend my time doing other more productive things.

*****, I got a big-ass story of my love life on my profile, if you wanna question my sexual orientation.

It makes me sad that so many people agree with you.

What if they are fat and ugly?

Well.. 99% of the time i would agree with this, but sometimes i play different online games with girls i know in my team.. Some of them arent that hot and i still want to be friends with them because i enjoy playing with them

Actually, I've been friends with a girl I met in Elementary school and I have no sexual intentions whatsoever.

I actually have quite a few female friends that I have no sexual intentions toward.

no, they aren't. I just like them in a purely platonic way

^lesbian detected

Actually i got a friend who is a girl, and i would rather keep my friendship with her than try to have sex with her and possibly ruin it..

I am not interested in sex at all asexual and I think this all the time.

I am the 1%


Get it..cause...only 1% of the population is ase-...aahh nvm

I really think you need to find another term for your sexual preference.

Why?

But in the social sense it does. Many words we use today had a completely different meaning before.
Asexuality may not be entirely new, but it is still lesser known and as time goes on people will understand it better.

When I was younger and people would call someone a "hoe" all I could think of was gardening and assumed they were a gardener. As time progressed I learned the meaning and accepted it.

actually, never mind. that is the correct term.
that used to be the definition, but as "asexuality" has increased, that term was used for having no sexuality as well.

yeah, "asexual" in the literal definition means you reproduce by yourself.
idk what the real term would be. i'll have to google it.

Yeah, I understand it's one of those "for lack of a better term" Kind of titles, but when you think about it, it's just wrong. I mean there's terms specifically for people who would indiscriminately have sex with a man, then a rooster, but not for people who feel no desire for sex.

Being asexual disqualifies you from conversations about sex automatically

You would be surprised how often people ask me about sex though. I was once even threatened that they would beat me, tie me up, and pay some girl to **** me so I would stop "being a bitch".

Yeah, that sounds like something I would say. I don't even understand how one would function without a sex drive.

The same as anyone else.
To me, thinking you NEED sex is pathetic.
I am also anti-sexual and am personally disgusted by sex but I understand why people want it.
Also I view it as masturbation with a foreign object.

"masturbation with a foreign object"
never considered it that way,
I like it. have my thumb!

Gotta think outside the box.

have you ever had sex?

Nope, and I hope I never do.

"Oh but sheep you don't know until you have it"
Well I don't know if dog tastes good until I taste it but that isn't going to happen anytime soon either.

in case you were wondering that is how the next two comments would go usually that is why I put one in quotations, it would be your response followed by mine

I'm not saying "need"

But, ultimately, the desire to have sex is what fuels a species so to not have desire for it is just odd, not just from a social perspective but from an evolutionary perspective as well.

Not in present day times.
The desire was important back in the day when there were oh so little people. But today we have billions, to feel the need to create more is only necessary for a few million of us to continue to thrive as a species.
That same argument has been used against gay sex as well.
But for each person they only need to pump out 1 child and some pump out 2 or more so it evens out.

Oh, I'm not arguing against it. Just wondering how that would get written into genetic code when anyone who has it would not procreate.

Being asexual doesn't mean you WON'T procreate, it just means you don't feel the need to have sex for pleasure. I would probably have sex if I actually felt an attraction to someone and wanted a child. But that is it.

>"I am also anti-sexual and am personally disgusted by sex but I understand why people want it. "

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