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#25 - pewdieman
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#224 to #25 - ismet
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#226 to #25 - ismet
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#29 to #25 - phunkyzilla
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(10/08/2012) [-]
Oh god that's good ****
#33 - Gypsybob
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(10/08/2012) [-]
It just needs to be said:

Sex against your will is rape.

Sex that you have and then later regret is NOT rape. Some women just don't learn.
#202 to #33 - siridontcare
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(10/09/2012) [-]
if two drunk people get together and have sex. The man is drunk. and the girl is drunk. Who is the rapist?
#220 to #202 - brettyoke
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(10/09/2012) [-]
Nobody unless one of them doesn't give conesnt for sexual intercourse to take place. If one of them says "no" one time, it's considered rape by law.
#227 to #220 - siridontcare
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(10/09/2012) [-]
in a court of law who will be the rapist? and if your drunk you tend to forget those details.
#229 to #227 - brettyoke
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(10/09/2012) [-]
If nobody knows, why would they even take it to court?
#231 to #229 - siridontcare
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(10/09/2012) [-]
cuz if the girl doesnt remember she will call rape
#236 to #231 - brettyoke
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(10/09/2012) [-]
Then if she can't prove it, he's innocent. Welcome to the "innocent until proven guilty" court system. MURICA
#18 - messerschmidto ONLINE
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#87 to #18 - snipster
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(10/08/2012) [-]
"Bite the staircase" makes me think of the curb stomp scene in American History X
#84 - alucord
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(10/08/2012) [-]
Your first rapist may not have known he was one.

But I do
#111 - musicality
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(10/08/2012) [-]
Why was she flirting with someone at a party when she had a boyfriend in the first place.
#128 to #111 - heartlesschaos
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Because there is nothing wrong with flirting. I am naturally flirty and yet I know that if I was put in a situation where my flirting was taking a person too high, I let them know about it. I flirt with all my friends I think are cute and I let them know that I think they are beautiful. But I also tell them that no matter how beautiful they are, I still choose my GF over them. They respect that. I also enjoy that my flirting gives my friends a good feeling and confidence. They smile and they laugh and it might be my selfish desire to keep them happy even though I reject all of them. Flirting is fine. You are attracted to someone and that is fine. The trick is to know your limits and don't push your flirting to a point that only you and your significant other should share.
Because there is nothing wrong with flirting. I am naturally flirty and yet I know that if I was put in a situation where my flirting was taking a person too high, I let them know about it. I flirt with all my friends I think are cute and I let them know that I think they are beautiful. But I also tell them that no matter how beautiful they are, I still choose my GF over them. They respect that. I also enjoy that my flirting gives my friends a good feeling and confidence. They smile and they laugh and it might be my selfish desire to keep them happy even though I reject all of them. Flirting is fine. You are attracted to someone and that is fine. The trick is to know your limits and don't push your flirting to a point that only you and your significant other should share.
#138 to #128 - mattymc
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(10/09/2012) [-]
flirting among friends is harmless. flirting with strangers is a risk factor, and that appears to be the context of the post
#147 to #138 - heartlesschaos
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(10/09/2012) [-]
There is no evidence to state that the so called "rapist" wasn't a friend. And regardless of if it's a friend or not, The same point stands. All your friends where all strangers at some point in your life and maybe you started out being friends from a little flirting.
#154 to #147 - mattymc
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(10/09/2012) [-]
Are you in college?
#163 to #154 - heartlesschaos
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(10/09/2012) [-]
Starting this year. Working to save money till then.
#169 to #163 - mattymc
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(10/09/2012) [-]
College girls plus college guys plus all the alcohol you can guzzle leads to bad decisions, whatr was consensual at 3am may seem like a huge mistake the next day, however the question remains, is it worth ruining someones life so you can save face and not be known as a slut? im not discounting malicious rape, but situations like these are hardly cut and dry and panicky college kids may not consider the ramifications of their actions or indescretions
#218 to #169 - heartlesschaos
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(10/09/2012) [-]
Awesome reply. I gift to you my green thumb. I guess I wouldn't know the feeling since I have the taste of alcohol, I never got into it. It seems like a really good thing. Keeps me sane and out of trouble.
Awesome reply. I gift to you my green thumb. I guess I wouldn't know the feeling since I have the taste of alcohol, I never got into it. It seems like a really good thing. Keeps me sane and out of trouble.
#287 to #218 - mattymc
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(10/09/2012) [-]
thanks, civilized discourse is always preferable to a flame war...iv done my fair share of stuff in college thus far and managed to stay basically clean, it really boils down to knowing and trusting yourself to recognize when a situation could be trouble
#181 to #169 - sonicserver
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(10/09/2012) [-]
from another college student
#249 to #128 - gritsreborn **User deleted account**
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#258 to #249 - heartlesschaos
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Yeah. I feel it's awkward to try to pretend you don't feel any sexual attraction to someone. I'd rather just come up and say it (in a non disrespectful manner) then to just hide it away like its a crime against nature to find someone beautiful or attractive. I do enjoy your input though. I thank you for being an adult about it and not rage out like "OH you don't follow my opinion so you are wrong!". Regardless of which however, I do like your opinion a lot though, simply because I know that in the end it also comes down to mine (being faithful). Thought it follows a different set of rules in the beginning and middle.
Yeah. I feel it's awkward to try to pretend you don't feel any sexual attraction to someone. I'd rather just come up and say it (in a non disrespectful manner) then to just hide it away like its a crime against nature to find someone beautiful or attractive. I do enjoy your input though. I thank you for being an adult about it and not rage out like "OH you don't follow my opinion so you are wrong!". Regardless of which however, I do like your opinion a lot though, simply because I know that in the end it also comes down to mine (being faithful). Thought it follows a different set of rules in the beginning and middle.
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#115 to #111 - gritsreborn **User deleted account**
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#121 to #111 - abotu
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(10/09/2012) [-]
Because when you're drinking alcohol your inhibitions are lowered and your sex drive tends to increase.
#124 to #121 - musicality
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(10/09/2012) [-]
Ah well, that makes sense I suppose.
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#131 to #111 - AnomynousUser
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(10/09/2012) [-]
Because she's a woman and innocent and she didn't mean it and she should get treated special because all men are pigs and that guy should have stopped himself from raping an innocent girl who didn't know better!
But wait, after this we have to treat them equally! Equality! We can't think differently of them than others, even if all men are pigs!


...or she's a slut who cheated on her bf and can't take responsibility for being a drunk bitch who deserved more than to be spat on.
#161 to #131 - xascarletskyx
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(10/09/2012) [-]
i don't know why the hell you got thumbed down for that i found it amusing and a great stab towards feminists. +1 to you, sir
#199 to #161 - AnomynousUser
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(10/09/2012) [-]
Thank you for that... I was also confused when I saw -3 thumbs...

I am 100% for equality, but I hate feminists.
#248 to #199 - anon
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(10/09/2012) [-]
Being a feminist means that you believe in gender equality. You're thinking of radical feminists. Them bitches is crazy.
#276 to #248 - AnomynousUser
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(10/09/2012) [-]
I'm thinking of the "new feminists" when I say that... the ones who want more rights for themselves, not equal rights.

Equalists are much more appreciable.
#90 - alucord
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#23 - helenwheels
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(10/08/2012) [-]
you guys..you guys, what if...and this is crazy...but what if she was passed out and was ****** while unconscious?
yes, that is considered rape.
#28 to #23 - tanneresbueno
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(10/08/2012) [-]
What if she raped him and can't remember doing it?
What if she's not the victim?
What if the square root of two was rational?
What if a cats testicles are in its tail?
#239 to #28 - helenwheels
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(10/09/2012) [-]
I like how your saying what I said was an absolutely ridiculous scenario.
#243 to #239 - tanneresbueno
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(10/09/2012) [-]
I'm just saying that this whole rape thing can swing both ways. None of you have any clue what the truth is so why assume things on either side?
#244 to #243 - helenwheels
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(10/09/2012) [-]
sure it CAN.
that is all.
#247 to #244 - tanneresbueno
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(10/09/2012) [-]
If a man is drunk and a woman is drunk and they both agree to sex in their drunken state and they sexed, who raped who?
#250 to #247 - helenwheels
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(10/09/2012) [-]
no one.
#257 to #250 - tanneresbueno
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(10/09/2012) [-]
So maybe, just maybe, he was just as drunk as she was. Maybe she blacked out and can't remember what really happened or what led to the sex. Maybe buffalo are Satan's pets (but he leaves them on Earth to start ****). Maybe Zooey Deschanel secretly wants my bod just as much as I want hers.
This is Funnyjunk, not a place to argue but to look at funny junk.
inb4 no ***** given.
#286 to #257 - helenwheels
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(10/09/2012) [-]
dude, I was suggesting she was passed out. Totally different. I'm not denying he was drunk, but when both party's are drunk and awake they can consent.
#117 to #23 - natedimes
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Yeah but that's not the point here. When it comes to sex happening under the influence of any substance, the male has no say in the matter which is wrong. Same thing goes for abortion. I mean come on, she actually wrote " You taught him it wasn't his fault I drank to much..." Wtf is that?! Where does that logic come from?    
   
She might not be a feminist, but this is the sort of thing that makes it hard to take feminism seriously.
Yeah but that's not the point here. When it comes to sex happening under the influence of any substance, the male has no say in the matter which is wrong. Same thing goes for abortion. I mean come on, she actually wrote " You taught him it wasn't his fault I drank to much..." Wtf is that?! Where does that logic come from?

She might not be a feminist, but this is the sort of thing that makes it hard to take feminism seriously.
#238 to #117 - helenwheels
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What do you mean? his say is whether he's going to **** the passed out girl or not.

When it comes to abortion the male has a say in the matter until it leaves his body, I thought about this a lot, it maybe unfair that whatever happens with his genetic martial is entirely up to someone else, but the fact of the matter is, is that as long as she has it, its hers and therefore its up to her what happens with it.

The logic behind that statement is often cases like this one have have gotten off easy due to the fact she was drunk and passed out, which isn't right.
#290 to #238 - natedimes
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Sorry I think you missed what I was getting at. What I was trying to say is that the woman thinks she can hold no responsibility for the fact that she couldn't control her alcohol intake.

If a man was drunk off his head and raped the girl while she was seemingly more sober, would he be allowed to justify his actions with the same statement?
#293 to #290 - helenwheels
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(10/09/2012) [-]
What? okay, this is a complicated social issue, I don't think we're talking about the same parts of it. But the fact that a girl drank to much and passed out does not justify rape, I'm not saying consensual sex while drunk(even if only one party is drunk) is rape, you may regret it when you're not drunk, but if consent was given its not rape. What I was saying is that she passed out, and he ****** her while unconscious that would be rape.

I don't understand what you mean by that statement , again, I think you're misunderstanding me. But if a man was passed out on the stair case and girl came by and ****** him. Then yes, it would be rape.
#223 - puccypirateisback **User deleted account**
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#75 - thatsmevictory
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(10/08/2012) [-]
Better pack up your ********* gear before heading below, folks.
#4 - sketchysketchist
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(10/08/2012) [-]
If a girl has sex while drunk she should know she needs to limit her alcohol intake or at least have a friend to keep an eye on her and make sure she doesn't do something she'll regret.
If a guy's drunk and has sex with a drunk girl, he isn't a rapist.
If he's sober and see's she really drunk and shouldn't be messing with anybody, he should try to take responsibility for her safety.
But if she won't stop trying to get on his dick, well it's not his fault if he takes advantage.