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> hey anon, wanna give your opinion?
User avatar #79 - tvfreakuk
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(08/19/2012) [-]
How I was punished?
Sent to my room, no TV, no allowance. I was then told what I did wrong, and why it was wrong.
You don't need to smack your children to get them to understand.
I know sometimes children turn out alright if they may have been spanked or whatever... But a lot of the time it can really **** a person up when there parents hit them.
All I know is, my mam tried to give a relationship of "mutual respect" in which she would actually explain things to me rather than that ******** "Because I'm your mam" and "Because I said"
She gave the same treatment to my brother, but he turned into a lazy douche that would beat me up when I was little.
My mam threw him out, and weeks later brought him back from our grandma's... He learnt his lesson from that.
User avatar #98 to #79 - amissingmouse
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(08/19/2012) [-]
I would've preferred just to have a spanking rather than what I got...:(
#80 to #79 - drroxxo
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(08/19/2012) [-]
beat your children or they turn into self righteous pussies like this guy lol
#100 to #80 - foxranger
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(08/19/2012) [-]
self righteous pussies? Your a moron, probably one that really didn't get hit that often, Just enough to make you feel like a man. Kindly go **** yourself cause you dont know what your talking about.
#81 to #80 - tvfreakuk
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(08/19/2012) [-]
Oh, I'm self-righteous?
What about OP? He makes it out like because he had it worse that he is better than the random children out there who get punished in that way (But hey, I'm just saying that's how it seems just from what I read... Not that it is actually that)
So sorry that I believe in supporting a child with a more stable environment, without corporal punishment.
And if you read my comment, you would see that I said my brother would beat me up.
I was black and blue for weeks, hiding them with long sleeves and **** so my mam wouldn't see. She eventually saw, and kicked my brother out.
I'm just saying that because of my experience I will never hit my children. I know what it feels like. It feels awful, and not because "Oh, that was a negative response, I won't do it again" more of a "Holy **** I'm so scared wtf is going on?" sort of feeling.