Do Nothing. I am tired now so I will cease my bombardment of this channel with my various baww pictures.. for now.... Okay, FJ you need to man the up. I was like this once, and I was really interested in this girl. I wanted to have a relationship with her but at the time she di Do Nothing I am tired now so will cease my bombardment of this channel with various baww pictures for Okay FJ you need to man the up was like once and really interested in girl wanted have a relationship her but at time she di
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#13 - anon
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#14 to #13 - zigzagderpaderp
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#42 - SuperMadKoala
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(06/11/2012) [-]
Okay, FJ you need to man the **** up.   
   
I was like this once, and I was really interested in this girl. I wanted to have a relationship with her but at the time she didn't like me back, nor did she even know that I liked her. I was afraid to make any advances because of the exacts reasons stated above, however I decided to make a change with myself.   
   
It wasn't really the best way to start but I began talking to her on Facebook. We were friends at the time but weren't very close at all.    
   
So, we talked and she seemed to like talking to me as she was rarely on Facebook but she would be on a lot more and she would begin talking to me first sometimes, this was such a confidence boost so it helped my case entirely. After talking on Facebook only I got her number and we would text which would be a lot easier and then one day I wanted to make another advance in the step to making her my girlfriend. I asked her if she would like to just go out for a walk together and even though she seemed as if it was odd that I asked her to go out she said "yes".   
   
We went out three different times and we had a good laugh even though sometimes it could get awkward as we had nothing to say, but it was going well. On our third time out it was a cold night and we decided to sit near a wall where we were sheltered by the wind. I was right in the corner and after a bit of a chat about being cold she snuggled up right up to me. This was the moment of truth. I decided to put my arm round her and she put her arm over me and held me close. We kept talking and then it was time for her to go home so we started to walk until we got outside of her house. I decided then to ask her if she'd be my girlfriend and she said "I hoped you would ask that soon, of course I will".   
   
So now i am still with this girl and I think she is my first love and I hope she will be my only love as I don't want to be with any else as she has made such an impact on my life.   
   
TL;DR Don't be afraid to talk to someone.
Okay, FJ you need to man the **** up.

I was like this once, and I was really interested in this girl. I wanted to have a relationship with her but at the time she didn't like me back, nor did she even know that I liked her. I was afraid to make any advances because of the exacts reasons stated above, however I decided to make a change with myself.

It wasn't really the best way to start but I began talking to her on Facebook. We were friends at the time but weren't very close at all.

So, we talked and she seemed to like talking to me as she was rarely on Facebook but she would be on a lot more and she would begin talking to me first sometimes, this was such a confidence boost so it helped my case entirely. After talking on Facebook only I got her number and we would text which would be a lot easier and then one day I wanted to make another advance in the step to making her my girlfriend. I asked her if she would like to just go out for a walk together and even though she seemed as if it was odd that I asked her to go out she said "yes".

We went out three different times and we had a good laugh even though sometimes it could get awkward as we had nothing to say, but it was going well. On our third time out it was a cold night and we decided to sit near a wall where we were sheltered by the wind. I was right in the corner and after a bit of a chat about being cold she snuggled up right up to me. This was the moment of truth. I decided to put my arm round her and she put her arm over me and held me close. We kept talking and then it was time for her to go home so we started to walk until we got outside of her house. I decided then to ask her if she'd be my girlfriend and she said "I hoped you would ask that soon, of course I will".

So now i am still with this girl and I think she is my first love and I hope she will be my only love as I don't want to be with any else as she has made such an impact on my life.

TL;DR Don't be afraid to talk to someone.
#55 to #42 - anon
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(06/11/2012) [-]
This...... This shall be my life goal..... exact situation but at the start....
#60 to #55 - SuperMadKoala
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Glad I could inspire you man!
#115 to #42 - mcpandabear
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#158 to #42 - aussiepixel
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(06/11/2012) [-]
Hey bro, I can relate to everything you just said......

....But I don't socialise much, and upon getting a girlfriend, it turns out she's a "slut" and moves on from guy to guy.
This is really depressing and its ****** me over man, I hope things work out for you.
#159 to #158 - SuperMadKoala
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If the girls you're going for are all sluts then maybe you're looking at the wrong type of girl...
#160 to #159 - aussiepixel
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(06/11/2012) [-]
This chick is basically my first girlfriend, but yeah. I know what you mean.
#161 to #160 - SuperMadKoala
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I've never been in a situation like that, but i'd say that it would be best if you just left her alone, take a break off from having a girlfriend, meet new people and DO NOT be afraid to socialize, even though it'll seem hard at first you'll get into the swing of things and it'll boost your confidence and self esteem a boat load if you begin to find it easier to talk to people. Then you'll find someone better than this "slut" and you'll be much happier for it.
#162 to #42 - lolothundah
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Well The only thing I wish I had the same amount of confidence as you. I'm current;y facing what you've faced. College started and I met this girl who I thought was just a random face but turns out to be pretty awesome. Now I just keep quiet every time I'm near her, waiting for her to start the topic

I don't know if it's just a crush or something else, But I'm just afraid of the next steps. Maybe it's too early...
#164 to #162 - SuperMadKoala
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If you know she's pretty awesome I imagine you know a few things that she's into. Try not to be too awkward and just act natural and ask her or talk to her about what she likes, then it's up to you to build the confidence to ask her out or just really talk to her, it may seem hard at first but trust me you won't regret it, you may get rejected but don't feel down, your confidence will grow and then you'll be able to talk to other girls more.
#76 to #42 - bariothguy
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(06/11/2012) [-]
Finally someone not whining about being friendzoned. That's the way to go bro!
#125 to #42 - megazman
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(06/11/2012) [-]
YES!!! Listen to this man!   
 I too took the simple step of just starting a conversation, and it was the best decision of my life. My story isn't as interesting to read so I wont bore you, but I have been dating the love of my life for the past year now because I just said "hello". After years of wishing I could muster up the courage to talk to her, and hating myself for not doing it, I finally did.   
And you know what FJ, even if it doesn't work out, you'll gain self respect confidence in yourself for taking that step, and you wont have to sit alone thinking of what might have been. Plus that only makes it easier the next time you want to talk to "that" girl.   
   
Thank you SuperMadKoala for saying what FJ needed to hear.   
(also **** yea Flanders)
YES!!! Listen to this man!
I too took the simple step of just starting a conversation, and it was the best decision of my life. My story isn't as interesting to read so I wont bore you, but I have been dating the love of my life for the past year now because I just said "hello". After years of wishing I could muster up the courage to talk to her, and hating myself for not doing it, I finally did.
And you know what FJ, even if it doesn't work out, you'll gain self respect confidence in yourself for taking that step, and you wont have to sit alone thinking of what might have been. Plus that only makes it easier the next time you want to talk to "that" girl.

Thank you SuperMadKoala for saying what FJ needed to hear.
(also **** yea Flanders)
#50 to #42 - hotchquz
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(06/11/2012) [-]
OH THE FEELS.
#100 - zombiesaremean
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(06/11/2012) [-]
So there's this girl. I sat next to her in band. She played the tuba and i played the baritone. We would talk during class but we weren't really all that close. I asked for her phone number and she gave it to me. We started texting and pretty soon were texting literally as soon as school ends up until we both go to bed. This goes on for about 6 months and I just keep falling more madly in love with this girl with each passing day. Band camp comes and since we are both low brass we spend a lot of time together. Like literally all day and we still text when we get home. Band camp is about four weeks and I've been spending the whole time trying to work up the courage to ask her out. Finally on the last day i asked her out and she seemed a little surprised. It worried me because her answer was along the lines of "yeah sure....ok" like she didn't want to hurt my feelings by saying no. We've been dating for about three years now and we're crazy in love. I'm thinking of popping the question soon.
#110 to #100 - anon
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I needed to hear a girl story with a happy ending, thankyou.
#128 to #100 - megazman
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Best of luck Bro! I'm sure she'll say yes.
Best of luck Bro! I'm sure she'll say yes.
#150 to #100 - tomorrowistoday
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(06/11/2012) [-]
Oh God the feels. I also have a band memory of a girl, she is a trombone player and I'm a french horn player, we sit next to each other and we get alot of time to talk to each other at lunch and in class. About half way through the year I got her phone number and for the rest of the year we would just talk and laugh. About two or three weeks ago my class went on a field trip to New York. We talk alot on the bus and on our tours in the city we were in the same tour group and had an amazing time. On the last night me class was in the city we got a boat tour on the Hudson river with dancing and all that stuff which was one of the best nights of my life. The next day everything changed. When my friend, his friend and I were in the hotel room he was talking about how this one guy we knew hooked up with this one girl and then began to say he was surprised me and the girl I like didn't hook up. He told me that she told some of her friends that she liked me a little. This got me very excited and I told the two of them that I also like her. The three of us then went to her hotel room to hang out with her and her friends. She then left the room to go get something to drink and my friend told everyone in the room that I had a crush on her and I just couldn't handle the feels going on inside me so I just left the room. About an hour later when we were getting on the bus people were trying to get her to sit next to me on the bus but she just said no and for the hole 16 hours we were on the bus (We're from Canada) she didn't say a word to me. The first day back at school I say her in the halls and said hi but she just looked away and kept walking. It has been at least to weeks and she wasn't talked to me and now this pic op has provided just describes how I feel so much.
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#127 to #100 - animepost
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Congratulations! I'm sure she'll say yes :D   
You're quite the inspiration !
Congratulations! I'm sure she'll say yes :D
You're quite the inspiration !
#129 to #100 - Visual
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You...you BROKE THE FRIENDZONE?!?   
   
ALL MY RESPECT.
You...you BROKE THE FRIENDZONE?!?

ALL MY RESPECT.
#131 to #100 - howdoaccount
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congrats good sir, its a shame that everybody else doesnt have the same willpower to ask someone out as you, and the luck you have
congrats good sir, its a shame that everybody else doesnt have the same willpower to ask someone out as you, and the luck you have
#106 to #100 - oddtabbycat
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That is really ******* cute.
#108 to #100 - launch
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I'm so glad that had a happy ending, or else i wouldn't be able to handle the amount of feels...
#103 to #100 - WakaTakaBang
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Ahh, band romance.
#27 - ShaunG
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If that's the case, I challenge every person who reads this comment to pick up their phone and text her. Or him.   
   
Trying to be politically correct.   
   
Just do it.
If that's the case, I challenge every person who reads this comment to pick up their phone and text her. Or him.

Trying to be politically correct.

Just do it.
#151 to #27 - yomommabinshoppin
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Her parents are strict, so shes probably asleep.
What do I do
#152 to #151 - ShaunG
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Do it anyway. She's going to receive it one way or another.
#153 to #152 - yomommabinshoppin
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But it's rude to just go and wake a person up at 23 minutes to midnight
#156 to #153 - ShaunG
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She might wake up, she might not.

Either way, if you're honest and respectful, she will be pleased.
#48 to #27 - stripeygreenhat
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I had to do a double take on the image.
#66 to #27 - haydn
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Texts girl of dreams



Restraining order
#40 to #27 - kinglobster
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implying i have anyone's number
#32 to #27 - vaskaduzea
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i texted a girl long time ago asking her out, she simply said no. i mean i know most of guys fear of rejection but is it really worse than living your life questioning what would she say? you most say "she is going to say no anyways, why try" i knew that girl was going to say no but i tried because if i expect a rejection and get it i won't feel as bad.
Do it guys, seriously just do it, and don't think of her being creeped out. if she DOES feel creeped out then don't care about her, if she is creeped out by a guy that likes her and would probably be nice to her and be there for her then she ain't worth it my *****.
#5 - seminolefan
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**seminolefan rolled a random image posted in comment #5680401 at FJ Pony Thread ** That feel describes my entire life...
#51 - stripeygreenhat
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I feel really bad right now.   
   
I called my crush to ask them if they wanted to go to the movies with me and I got their voicemail, so I left a message.   
   
That was a couple of days ago and I wished they'd call back, even if they were rejecting me, just to give me closure. Now I'm just sitting around wondering if they didn't get the message and if I should try to call again OR that they did and it would be weird of me to keep calling like a stalker or something.   
   
It's giving me anxiety.
I feel really bad right now.

I called my crush to ask them if they wanted to go to the movies with me and I got their voicemail, so I left a message.

That was a couple of days ago and I wished they'd call back, even if they were rejecting me, just to give me closure. Now I'm just sitting around wondering if they didn't get the message and if I should try to call again OR that they did and it would be weird of me to keep calling like a stalker or something.

It's giving me anxiety.
#72 to #51 - SrslyWtf
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(06/11/2012) [-]
lets see a photo of you so we can judge
#75 to #72 - stripeygreenhat
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(06/11/2012) [-]
Haha no.

But I'm not a terribly unattractive person. I'm about average.
#77 to #75 - SrslyWtf
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(06/11/2012) [-]
out of 10 how would you rate yourself

10 being super model and 1 being downz.
Im like an 8, 8 1/2
#81 to #77 - stripeygreenhat
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I don't know, 6 I guess. But I don't think that should matter anyway. Personality content should be the basis for judging relationships.
#83 to #81 - SrslyWtf
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(06/11/2012) [-]
Mhmmm, keep telling yourself that
#57 to #51 - aurelianopeachdoor
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Call again pussy
#61 to #57 - stripeygreenhat
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(06/11/2012) [-]
How long should I wait?
#63 to #61 - aurelianopeachdoor
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2 days have passed already, unless you don't know the girl at all there is nothing wrong with you calling her twice over the spawn of 2 days. Call her, show her that you matter to her.
#65 to #63 - stripeygreenhat
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I don't know them very well. I just sat in the same biology class with her, and from that I know she's really smart and seems nice. I got her number from Facebook.
#120 to #65 - Nails
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Oh man sorry to say this but please dont call her back because if you don't know her very well, she won't trust you. Smart, nice girls are like that. They want to be nice, but they're also shy if a guy they dont know is very candid with them. Get to know her first and I'm sure she'll respond to you. :)
#124 to #120 - stripeygreenhat
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Thanks. I'll try approaching her next semester.
#67 to #65 - aurelianopeachdoor
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Te worst she can do is say that she doesn't know you to which you can reply by stating that you want to know her better. But if you're still nervous ask her at school.
#68 to #67 - stripeygreenhat
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(06/11/2012) [-]
Alright. Thank you for your input.
#69 to #68 - aurelianopeachdoor
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Welcome
#19 - BaloogaWhale
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OP, you know me.
#84 - qazzuiop
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(06/11/2012) [-]
I can relate this to my current situation with this one girl so much...
#107 to #84 - henrybritboy
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same here :/ those feels man
#71 - bariothguy
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#15 - bruisedtoblue
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**bruisedtoblue rolled a random image posted in comment #1628 at JUST KILL ME NOAW!! PLEASE!! ** My crush's face when I contact him in any way, shape, or form.
#16 to #15 - lolkill
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**lolkill rolled a random image posted in comment #58 at Colorblind ** my crushes face when