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#474 - Womens Study Major (03/12/2012) [-]
girl of my dreams, Marissa Petitto.
found out shes a witness
did a bit of reaserach, nothing seriouse on her religion
ask her out
heart broken
Jehovas cant date out side religion, and not untill they are ready to be married,
now she hates me because i "direspected her"

funnyjunk, please kill me.
#475 to #474 - dshfdgf (03/12/2012) [-]
dude, just go up to her and apologise. unless she is a heartless wench, she will most likely forgive you.
#476 to #475 - Womens Study Major (03/12/2012) [-]
she isnisits she isnt mad at me, but this is one of those times you just KNOW, she treats me differently, cant hold a conversation anymore, and rarley looks me in the eye. but i can never stop loving her, its not like im falunting it around either, for all she knows, ive dropped it

#478 to #476 - dshfdgf (03/12/2012) [-]
In my opinion, the best thing you can do is sit down and talk to her properly. find yourself some nice quiet place, and just talk. dont keep any secrets. dont lie to each other. if you can do this, and she agrees with you, then you may know why she is treating you different.
heck, it may just be something completely unrelated.
(also, i know them feels. except the other way around)
#481 to #478 - Womens Study Major (03/12/2012) [-]
iv'e done that. in fact, i had her friends help me, she would'nt talk to me alone, so i talked to all her friends, we all went to a mall togethor, and her best friend juliana helped me get her into a position that it would be just her and i. we talked, and the whole time she insisted she was not mad at me, i didint tell her i still had feeligns for her, and she pretends to be nicer to me, but Justin ( MY best friend) tells me how she hates me, how differently she acts when shes around me. its so aggravating... i love her, and she hates me, its far worse than friend zone

and i dont know if i can ever fix it
#483 to #481 - dshfdgf (03/12/2012) [-]
Emotions are a tricky thing. No one can ever see into what another is thinking or feeling. It is possible to nag her until she says, but then she really will hate you. I guess you could try and 'restart' the friendship. just try and get into her good books again, try to make it so that she is comfortable around you. Eventually (by which i mean it could take months, or even years, im sorry), you may be able to ask of her how she thinks of you.
And i assume that you are not going to be a Jehovah's Witness any time soon, and she won't abandon her faith?
#486 to #483 - Womens Study Major (03/12/2012) [-]
no, she loves being a witness, she used to tell me all about it ( way to include the relationship parts Marissa -_-) and im an atheist.
ive talked to others extensivley on this, they have said things such as " imagine you do get married, what if you want kids, how will you raise them, in your belief or hers "
obviously i want to say hers, but thinking deep on it, its a dificult question to answer, and there are many others, will i try to make her drop religion? will i join her? will i go to mettings with her?
i asked her out 2 months ago. and i already told you the impovment ive made, the fake friendship she gives me since that mall incident, frankly, its much worse than her open hate, because now it seeths inside her
#491 to #486 - dshfdgf (03/12/2012) [-]
How far will you go and what will you do to please her?
Thats what it really boils down to.
could you spend the rest of your life going to meetings when you dont believe a word of what you're hearing, just to please her? could you live with yourself if you made her give up her faith? do you think that the two of you can reach a compromise?
#490 to #486 - opisafaggotsauce (03/12/2012) [-]
ok, i made an acc so i wouldent be annonymouse, bad name ya ya ill fix it later

#492 to #490 - dshfdgf (03/12/2012) [-]
oops, i already replied to anon...
#493 to #492 - opisafaggotsauce (03/12/2012) [-]
the thing is she wont listen to things i say, and yes, i am willing to sit down at meetings, and just listen, if its what it takes, ill do it. but she refuses to talk to me about anything of honest importance, she just shrugs me off.
#495 to #493 - dshfdgf (03/12/2012) [-]
I really dont know what to say...
If she doesnt believe you, then it is her loss...
it is rare to see such a strong devotion in a man, especially in the time we live in today. I can respect that.
If you ever need to chat, feel free to find me on FJ, or you can add me on facebook if you want
http://www.facebook.com/bobert.brony (in case you're wondering, i hit the name changing limit)
#496 to #495 - opisafaggotsauce (03/12/2012) [-]
ya ive met people who hit the limit at utterlly... interesting... things :)

honestly, thank you for your advice and time, im not going to give up on her, i just cant, hopefully with time, when she "passes the blossom of youth " ( as witnesses say ) and can start dating, i can make another attempt ( you aperantly pass the blossom of youth ( for witnesses ) after eighteen ( check ) and moved out of parents house ( not check ))
#497 to #496 - dshfdgf (03/12/2012) [-]
I dont know about the moving out of parent's house part, but i would assume that the eighteen years old part is because we believe that you should only date if you are more or less ready to get married. and since you need to be eighteen to get married, we have to wait a while...
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