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#151 - gramernazi ONLINE (04/06/2014) [-]
**gramernazi rolled image** Why I need feminism
**gramernazi rolled image** Why I need feminism
#202 to #151 - mydreams (04/06/2014) [-]
**mydreams rolled image** Why feminism needs you!
**mydreams rolled image** Why feminism needs you!
#336 to #202 - Rascal (04/06/2014) [-]
*mharti
#158 to #151 - laughingcarrot (04/06/2014) [-]
That's perfect.
#183 to #49 - Rascal (04/06/2014) [-]
jesus christ.... i used to laugh at the feminism posts... but seriously, this community's obsessive love of hating feminism is bleeding over into "anything insulting to ''feminism' deserves my approval" most of the female's in the world ARE NOT the man hating bull dykes u would think they are reading this crap on the front page, every f-n day, women will f uck u. u just have to do something besides bich about them on the internet. this should not be the top of the list. ive never been more embarrassed to like funny junk. if u approve of this pathetically low quality content, u are doing something wrong with ur life. eat s hit and die u fuking losers. or go outside and talk to women, u'd be surprised what anything more then 0 confidence will do for u in the real world... fuking neckbeards.
User avatar #191 to #183 - ztron (04/06/2014) [-]
..but that actually happen in avatar dude
#229 to #183 - Rascal (04/06/2014) [-]
Listen ************ : feminism and women are two different things. I want to remind you that again, ************ , feminism and women are two different things. Did you get that yet? Here, let me repeat it: feminism and women are two different things.

I also want to point out that you are complaining about generalizations, then proceed to generalize all the men on this site. You, ************ , are a hypocrite. Take your shaming language and blow it out your ass.
#185 to #183 - Rascal (04/06/2014) [-]
found the feminist
User avatar #1 - imalamp (04/05/2014) [-]
**imalamp rolled comment #8374308 ** :
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why I need feminism
#74 - theruse (04/06/2014) [-]
**theruse rolled image** Why I need feminism.
#40 - kriml (04/06/2014) [-]
Just tell the woman to stop attracting you
Just tell the woman to stop attracting you
User avatar #148 to #40 - tazzerz (04/06/2014) [-]
That's oppressing her!
User avatar #51 to #40 - toncheky ONLINE (04/06/2014) [-]
Blame her for being attractive... GENIUS.
#54 to #40 - Rascal (04/06/2014) [-]
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#106 to #54 - ryles (04/06/2014) [-]
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User avatar #218 to #54 - mnmzg (04/06/2014) [-]
one of the smoothest gifs just got smoother
#97 - dehnoobshow ONLINE (04/06/2014) [-]
My main interest is, where did the feminism we know even start? When did everything start going downhill? When it was created, it was a noble group who wanted equality. Now we have a group of hardcore lesbians that want domination.   
I need to study this.
My main interest is, where did the feminism we know even start? When did everything start going downhill? When it was created, it was a noble group who wanted equality. Now we have a group of hardcore lesbians that want domination.
I need to study this.
User avatar #112 to #97 - timmywankenobi (04/06/2014) [-]
1975, you're welcome.
User avatar #237 to #97 - jnw (04/06/2014) [-]
iv been saying this for years
#331 to #97 - serotonin (04/06/2014) [-]
Actually it got started after world wars. with men out of factories and in battles women were starting to make in to work force and  capitalism was fast to exploit this new idea. More workers, less you have to pay - supply and demand. Also you could charge more for realestate. Now you have 2 people paying of for house instead of 1.
Actually it got started after world wars. with men out of factories and in battles women were starting to make in to work force and capitalism was fast to exploit this new idea. More workers, less you have to pay - supply and demand. Also you could charge more for realestate. Now you have 2 people paying of for house instead of 1.
User avatar #332 to #331 - dehnoobshow ONLINE (04/06/2014) [-]
I was asking where did it go downhill, not when feminism began, but when it became man-hating.
#333 to #332 - serotonin (04/06/2014) [-]
I became aware that I missread a second after I posted. Anyhow noble group that was manipulated. But how it went down hill....I can put up few theories   
1- They actually got what they wanted but organisations wanted to stay relevant (someone i comments said something similar)   
2 - Feminism gave room for traumatised and agressive women to express their hate.They could not get much attention when feminism fought for their original objectives.but when femin. got what they wanted this more agressive ones had room to propagate their agenda.   
3 (variation of theory n2)- Original feminism created envioremant where this new wave could express them selfs.There always were manhating lesbians but they could do nothing in society of old.   
4- combination of these 3.   
5 - original feminists were replaced by alien invaders
I became aware that I missread a second after I posted. Anyhow noble group that was manipulated. But how it went down hill....I can put up few theories
1- They actually got what they wanted but organisations wanted to stay relevant (someone i comments said something similar)
2 - Feminism gave room for traumatised and agressive women to express their hate.They could not get much attention when feminism fought for their original objectives.but when femin. got what they wanted this more agressive ones had room to propagate their agenda.
3 (variation of theory n2)- Original feminism created envioremant where this new wave could express them selfs.There always were manhating lesbians but they could do nothing in society of old.
4- combination of these 3.
5 - original feminists were replaced by alien invaders



User avatar #334 to #333 - dehnoobshow ONLINE (04/06/2014) [-]
The fifth theory is quite possible, as no man has any history of any sexual encounters with them.
User avatar #128 to #97 - lordgeneral (04/06/2014) [-]
"hardcore lesbians that want domination"

there's no need to study it. the thing you're looking for is 'mental illness'
#135 to #128 - dehnoobshow ONLINE (04/06/2014) [-]
You don't count, you have PTSD.
You are blinded by it.
#139 to #137 - dehnoobshow ONLINE (04/06/2014) [-]
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#143 to #142 - dehnoobshow ONLINE (04/06/2014) [-]
flat chest is best chest.
flat chest is best chest.
User avatar #144 to #143 - lordgeneral (04/06/2014) [-]
agreed
User avatar #316 to #135 - jmmora (04/06/2014) [-]
PTSD? pretty thick strong dick?
User avatar #328 to #316 - lordgeneral (04/06/2014) [-]
post traumatic stress disorder. ******* what
User avatar #327 to #316 - lordgeneral (04/06/2014) [-]
while I have that too - there's proof - it stands for PTSD
User avatar #326 to #316 - dehnoobshow ONLINE (04/06/2014) [-]
this is an issue only lordgeneral can explain, but I'll give you what I understand:
**** happens that leave mental scars that whenever something reminds you of said **** , your mind re-lives it. That situation is more commonly found in victims of child abuse and/or rape. But our senpai here is different.
User avatar #329 to #326 - lordgeneral (04/06/2014) [-]
your senpai has noticed you
User avatar #101 to #97 - jacklane (04/06/2014) [-]
Feminist are so ******* stuck up, that they demanded a new paradigm in sociology.
#134 to #101 - Rascal (04/06/2014) [-]
they are people that are trying to get respect.
User avatar #145 to #134 - jacklane (04/06/2014) [-]
They demand respect instead of earning it.
User avatar #146 to #145 - lordgeneral (04/06/2014) [-]
they're not trying to demand respect. They're trying to force the world to conform to their own specific image. In the pecking order of feminism, if someone with more influence than you does not like you, you will be attacked by other feminists
#155 to #145 - sytheris (04/06/2014) [-]
Should they earn respect by enslaving others or just oppressing them? The Feminist movement at its ideal core is akin to the Civil Rights movement.
#171 to #155 - Rascal (04/06/2014) [-]
At its original core, yes, but not the core now. Feminism is merely ******** nowadays.
#173 to #171 - sytheris (04/06/2014) [-]
I know a couple quite vocal feminists who would disagree with you, but no point arguing about it.
#213 to #97 - bronybox (04/06/2014) [-]
******* . Feminists. WTF.
#56 - weenieandthebutt (04/06/2014) [-]
There was an article on Jezebel which stated that 'gay privilege' is a thing because women who go to gay bars don't get any attention and a place that's supposedly meant to be a safe-space for gay people are apparently meant to cater to women. Feminists hate it when they get hit on constantly in clubs and they get pissed off when they get ignored in gay bars.
User avatar #108 to #56 - darkangeloffire (04/06/2014) [-]
Wait. Are we talking about Gay bars for guys or lesbian bars? If it's gay bars for guys then they have absolutely no right to complain.
#138 to #114 - darkangeloffire (04/06/2014) [-]
Okay that article was long and boring as **** . The guy won't shut up. Id' have more to say but I gotta go cleanse my brain. TF2, here I come.
#206 to #114 - xxdremisterxx ONLINE (04/06/2014) [-]
Tl Dr



He does have some valid points though, so you cant right him off as an idiot.
#19 - ttubkcid (04/06/2014) [-]
A lot of people, both feminists and not feminists alike, seem to not understand what "objectifying" means.   
   
Finding a woman sexually attractive means that you're sexually attracted by her.   
   
Objectifying women is , for example, when all the female characters in a videogame are bland, uninteresting and borderline retarded and their entire personality consists of boobs and ass, as opposed to male characters who are fleshed out, interesting and diverse people, like some mass produced RPGs for neckbeards do.   
   
Of course, there are some people who won't accept that they have the sexual attractiveness of my grandma's decomposed pussy and that call everyone that doesn't find them sexy "shallow", but you can't reason with these people.
A lot of people, both feminists and not feminists alike, seem to not understand what "objectifying" means.

Finding a woman sexually attractive means that you're sexually attracted by her.

Objectifying women is , for example, when all the female characters in a videogame are bland, uninteresting and borderline retarded and their entire personality consists of boobs and ass, as opposed to male characters who are fleshed out, interesting and diverse people, like some mass produced RPGs for neckbeards do.

Of course, there are some people who won't accept that they have the sexual attractiveness of my grandma's decomposed pussy and that call everyone that doesn't find them sexy "shallow", but you can't reason with these people.
User avatar #21 to #19 - exd (04/06/2014) [-]
should have used that puffin
User avatar #75 to #19 - chimpaflimp ONLINE (04/06/2014) [-]
I was expecting dickbutt with that GIF. Oh, how the times have changed.
#96 to #19 - Rascal (04/06/2014) [-]
I don't get it... how is it shallow to not be attracted to someone?

I thought being shallow meant caring more about sex than a meaningful relationship... doesn't a lack of attraction imply being interested in neither??
#38 to #19 - doktorwhat (04/06/2014) [-]
your example is a mixture of stereotyping and target-group marketing. Males traditionally play video games more than females, and males are largely sexually interested in women and associate themselves largely with strong, well-rounded male characters. The same goes for women: women largely are sexually attracted to men and associate with strong, well-rounded female characters. That is why soap opera have traditionally been dominated by strong female characters (both bad and good) and the male actors are more or less eye-candy and the love interest of the female characters intended to spark fanciful thoughts in female viewers.

Objectification of women would be a man who treats every woman he sees like she is an object: for sale, for his use only, and disposable or trade-able after use. There are plenty of men out there that are like that, but by and large they are not. Some Middle-Eastern cultures still generally treat women like that (men can own female concubines and trade them, and the families of males must pay a large dowry to "purchase" the marriage of another family's daughter for their son). But in Western society we really don't see that. We see individuals who have an unhealthy view of females, but we also see populations of females who have unhealthy views of males, or of other females, or males of males, or people of animals, or Caucasions of Africans.... you see what I'm getting at?

Informing oneself is the first step. Jumping on the feminist or anti-feminist bandwagon is not a good idea.
User avatar #24 to #19 - krobeles ONLINE (04/06/2014) [-]
I wouldn't even say that the display of females in video games, is a sign of objectification. Its more a sign of lazy writing, if you ask me. If a character isn't important to the plot, be it male or female, their character is going to get less developement. Couple that with the fact that the vast majority of game developers, writers and such, are male, and thus have a much easier time writing semi-believable male characters, you get a situation in which every the vast majority of characters are male, and the few females that do up, unless fundamentally important to the plot of the story, are reduced to a very simplified, allmost caricature-esque depiction of females.

**Tl;Dr* It has little to nothing to do with objectification, and more to do with lazy writing.
#26 to #24 - ttubkcid (04/06/2014) [-]
I agree with you, but you can make flat characters and still have them be diverse. The problem is that you have a wide range of unimportant male characters, but most of the women look like spineless contortionists with basketballs glued to their chests, like in the picture provided. (talking about the poorly made games, not about all the games, of course).
All in all they don't make such a big difference, since serious game companies usually know what actual humans look like, but it just looks plain silly.
User avatar #238 to #26 - BigDoktor (04/06/2014) [-]
That isn't a game, that's just spam
User avatar #31 to #26 - krobeles ONLINE (04/06/2014) [-]
As i said, its about the writers not knowing how to write believable female characters, so they stick with whatever limited range of characters they feel confortable with.
Many of those games are soft-core porn anyway. Mostly from Japan, where stuff like that isn't even considered wrong in the slightest.

I think taking into account the visual depiction of the females, is quite defunct. Have you seen the male characters? Every single one of them are muscle bound actionmen, with sholders broader than my arms are long, and biceps bigger than their heads. Video games are hardly faithful to the real world. I should either ask 100% realism (which i dont find to preferable for entirely differentl reasons) or we should just drop the issue of how they're visually depicted altogether. So long as they dont skip around in fetish suits and chains, i dont see an issue. Again, they might do this in fringe Japanese titles, but we really cant regulate what the Japanese do. Its their own thing.
#43 to #26 - Rascal (04/06/2014) [-]
Final Fantasy XIII. Horrible game series, fantastic woman protagonist who doesn't have huge titties.
#61 to #43 - syswolf (04/06/2014) [-]
...BAHAHAHAHAHAHHA, Lightning is one of the most blandest video game protagonists I have ever come across in a long time! This is just too ******* funny!
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#50 - josieabby (04/06/2014) [-]
In case anyone was wondering this is S06 E16. AND it has Ron as his alter ego, the smooth jazz sax player, Duke Silver.
In case anyone was wondering this is S06 E16. AND it has Ron as his alter ego, the smooth jazz sax player, Duke Silver.
#203 - shiim (04/06/2014) [-]
**shiim rolled image** mfw feminism
#205 to #203 - speedywrestler (04/06/2014) [-]
wow. well done
User avatar #207 to #203 - lostminder (04/06/2014) [-]
best roll ever
#212 to #203 - guanyu (04/06/2014) [-]
That's the most cheeky roll I've ever seen.
That's the most cheeky roll I've ever seen.
#65 - alimais (04/06/2014) [-]
Today`s feminism is like a radical religion.
I would rather say true heroins of feminism are the women in Afghanistan who recently voted despite death threats from the Taliban and not those faggy hypocritical SJW.

Declare War on Feminism: The Body, Sex & Rape Why Rape Is Sincerely Hilarious
#119 to #65 - thelastelephant ONLINE (04/06/2014) [-]
>Not avoided by members of the opposite gender

#251 to #65 - dsrtpnk (04/06/2014) [-]
"Today`s feminism is like a radical religion."   
   
Agree with you 100%.
"Today`s feminism is like a radical religion."

Agree with you 100%.
User avatar #292 to #65 - jnw (04/06/2014) [-]
dam that 2nd vid is deep
User avatar #315 to #65 - whereistherumgone (04/06/2014) [-]
Any statistic to do with chance and probability isn't a privilege - almost by definition. Which is over half the points on this list. Not to mention a load of the points are also only beneficial in opinion or are down to official data and ignores all cases that haven't been recorded. Whoever made this wasn't quite smart enough to pull it off.
#320 to #65 - stallioncock (04/06/2014) [-]
Women really have cheaper healthcare? I thought if you have a female in your healthcare plan, the costs go up quite a bit because of **** like pregnancies.
#193 to #65 - jazzytheferret (04/06/2014) [-]
I remember when I had my Ex brought up on domestic abuse charges. I had over a dozen lacerations on my face that were quite deep do to her razor like nails, a broken nose and a scratch in my eyeball. I did not lift a single hand to her during this and even tried to leave the situation. After she continued to follow me I simply restrained her and called the police. After handcuffing ME and placing me in the back of the squad car they and the ambulance attended to her. After realizing there were no injuries and that the blood on her was all mine, they took pictures of both of us and did a bare minimum to treat my injuries. ( I was also billed for the ambulance and not her)
She was not arrested and when the jury trial came, it was over within 20 minutes and she was released with no conviction. I can almost guarantee that if I had defended myself any more than restraining her or even left a bruise, I would have been arrested right then and there and been convicted.
#147 - ianosity ONLINE (04/06/2014) [-]
You cunts can't find real women to love you because you are too obsessed with SWAG and not CLASS. I'll have you know I have made sweet tender love to hundreds of women simply with one tip of my Fedora. My current girlfriend and I stay up all night swapping My Little Pony Fanfics and feeding each other Doritos and we tenderly share our Diet Mountain Dew 2 liter bottles. This is love my friends. Hell we even fight a lot over who best pony is (obviously ************ ) but at the end of the night we still LARP under the sheets. Stay classy my beta friends.
#235 to #147 - thebrownydestroyer **User deleted account** (04/06/2014) [-]
brilliant
brilliant
#160 to #147 - chrisauh (04/06/2014) [-]
Sometimes when I poop, I use the shaping attachment from my old Play Doh fun set. I place it on my anus, and make poops in different shapes. There's nothing strange about that at all. I'm an American, living in America, and if I want to have poops shaped like stars, I have every right to. The founding fathers would have wanted it that way.
#186 - animexplain (04/06/2014) [-]
**animexplain rolled image** MFW
User avatar #190 to #186 - soupkittenagain (04/06/2014) [-]
Good roll, I guess.
#120 - cheastnut (04/06/2014) [-]
UNPOPULAR OPINION: (i probably haven't put enough thought into how i should say this but) there was once a time when feminism was called for like back in the 80's when sexism was popular and a legitimate deal. the only place something like that has in modern society is for third world countries and other underdeveloped cultures. the complaints they come up with now, trying o defend homosexuality like it matters to them, is just fools desperately trying to remain relevant. there are actually places in the world where women are murder for just speaking their opinion or not wearing the "right" cloths that is what I believe deserves getting upset about not because I like to take a peep down you cleavage when I think you're not looking.
UNPOPULAR OPINION: (i probably haven't put enough thought into how i should say this but) there was once a time when feminism was called for like back in the 80's when sexism was popular and a legitimate deal. the only place something like that has in modern society is for third world countries and other underdeveloped cultures. the complaints they come up with now, trying o defend homosexuality like it matters to them, is just fools desperately trying to remain relevant. there are actually places in the world where women are murder for just speaking their opinion or not wearing the "right" cloths that is what I believe deserves getting upset about not because I like to take a peep down you cleavage when I think you're not looking.
User avatar #121 to #120 - timmywankenobi (04/06/2014) [-]
80's ?? try the 60's my friend .
User avatar #123 to #121 - cheastnut (04/06/2014) [-]
that's a big negative there dude court cases were still being cheated and unbalanced because of race and sex right up till the 90's actually even some today
User avatar #125 to #123 - GamerMandrew (04/06/2014) [-]
Rather than feminism, I feel there needs to be a bit more gender equality on both sides. Sure, there are a few things wrong with women, there's still the crippling double standards that negatively affect both sides. That's what I think we need to work on.
#154 to #125 - sytheris (04/06/2014) [-]
genuine feminism IS equality. Most of the **** posted on FJ is excessively skewed towards extreme feminism that is significantly less moderated. The 'movement' is hardly a unified belief front.
User avatar #210 to #123 - timmywankenobi (04/06/2014) [-]
I can assure you in the late 80's and 90's the only real discriminating against women in court were sexual harassment cases because people though a lot of women were over reacting.
User avatar #330 to #120 - serotonin (04/06/2014) [-]
it is not unpopular opinion. its logilac opinion...but some times those two are one and the same (but not in this case I belive)
User avatar #170 to #120 - psyachu (04/06/2014) [-]
I think your opinion is only unpopular to feminists. Otherwise, most people would probably agree with you.
#132 to #120 - leglesslegolegolas (04/06/2014) [-]
If you do some research, you'll find that women are actually way more privileged than men in the US. They're at least taken seriously when they report domestic abuse.
User avatar #168 to #132 - psyachu (04/06/2014) [-]
Try looking into child custody. Women seem to be a LOT more privileged than men, even though both can take care of a child just as well as the other (though with different methods).
User avatar #177 to #168 - leglesslegolegolas (04/06/2014) [-]
Some airlines don't allow men to be seated next to children, because men are pedophiles. That one's pretty silly to me.
User avatar #182 to #177 - psyachu (04/06/2014) [-]
That IS pretty silly. There's a lot of female teachers that got nailed for pedophilia, too. Maybe we need a Menist movement (male version of feminists).
User avatar #188 to #182 - leglesslegolegolas (04/06/2014) [-]
A menist movement would be considered highly sexist, because it's not in favor of women.
User avatar #52 - kaboomz ONLINE (04/06/2014) [-]
i need feminism to expose the most retarded women so i can avoid dating them
#58 - weenieandthebutt (04/06/2014) [-]
how much ammo would it take to kill this abomination
User avatar #66 to #58 - economic (04/06/2014) [-]
As much is needed to removed the majority of Jewish cunts giving them hundreds of millions of Euros and dollars.
#69 to #66 - weenieandthebutt (04/06/2014) [-]
Would throwing a penny cake in the oven work?
#78 to #58 - thirsteternum (04/06/2014) [-]
just a little piece of lettuce.
User avatar #59 to #58 - kaywalsk (04/06/2014) [-]
It's women like this woman right here that are the problem. How many men do you think she finds attractive that are equally over-weight?
#64 to #59 - weenieandthebutt (04/06/2014) [-]
They spout their ******** 'body-positivity' rhetoric, yet they still expect their ideal Prince Charming and will accept nothing less.
#166 to #64 - hopskotch (04/06/2014) [-]
Oh my lord.

"No strings, just a good time"

>Have to be SINGLE

User avatar #194 to #59 - quasatranquility (04/06/2014) [-]
I don't think her problem is if people are attracted to her or not. I think her problem is that people feel like they need to let her know that they think she's an ugly, fatass, stranded whale, instead of minding their own business.

It's okay to not find fat people attractive, but ******* keep it to yourselves.
User avatar #198 to #194 - kaywalsk (04/06/2014) [-]
While I agree that people should keep it to themselves, I also think people need to learn to be a little bit more psychologically resilient. You can not, and never will be able to change how people behave, there's no amount of feminism that can change that.

Besides, it's not just heavy women that get psychologically abused. It happens to the extremely skinny people with high metabolisms, be them male or female. It happens to over-weight males, it happens to people because of the color of their skin.


All you can do is just ******* deal with it.
User avatar #201 to #198 - quasatranquility (04/06/2014) [-]
You know, I just wrote a ******** of text but managed to get rid of it all. So I'll keep it short.

None of my friends look at fat people with disgust, or treat them differently because of it. That it's biological is ******** .

The topic at hand was sexism and weight. Skinny and males do not get as harassed as fat and women.

People are depressed and committing suicide because of this, so we're not gonna "deal with it". Because it's not that simple.
User avatar #247 to #201 - kaywalsk (04/06/2014) [-]
The point isn't that skinny and males don't get harassed as much, it's that they also get harassed.

I never said that it's biological. I believe people are just raised that way.

I personally don't look at overweight people in disgust either, if someone feels comfortable and happy that way, then they have every right to look the way they do.

To think that any organization or group of people can fix other people being mean is just idealistic and stupid. It would be much easier for someone who doesn't like being made fun of for being fat to start exercising and lose some weight.

You aren't giving me an argument, all you're doing at this point is putting words in my mouth and making up assumed facts.

As for "we're not gonna deal with it, because it's not that simple" From where I sitting, that looks like the simplest solution there is.
User avatar #260 to #247 - quasatranquility (04/06/2014) [-]
Well no **** .

If they're raised that way, they can change.

Good.

I'm not saying one organization can or will, now you're the one making assumptions. I'm saying maybe we all can try to do something about it and not accept people being assholes. And you're basically saying people shouldn't live the way that makes them happy if people are mocking them. AND you're making it sound easy.

Well I'm not the only one.

"From where I sitting". That's where the problem is, thank you. Seeing it from only your own perspective will do you no good, of course it looks easy to you. But you're not them, you can NEVER speak for someone else. "You just gotta.." or "it's easy" are ******** . What's easy for you might not be easy for someone else.

If I'm understanding you correctly, you're saying we should let assholes keep being sexist and racist, and generally dick-wads and everyone else should just adapt to them. If my further assumptions are correct, this is because you're not a part of the group who would have to adapt to these assholes, so you have no idea how it is to be in their position. Please do tell me if I'm wrong.
User avatar #273 to #260 - kaywalsk (04/06/2014) [-]
I'm 6 feet tall, 2 years ago I weighed nearly 300 pounds. Today I weight 198 pounds. I didn't like the way I felt, so I did something about it. I feel great now, and wish I would have done something about MY weight problem much sooner.

I'm absolutely suggesting that if someone is comfortable and happy with the way they look and feel, be it fat or skinny. That's great and they should stay that way. If someone is truly happy and content with their body, what someone else says about it doesn't matter.

If someone calling you a fat ass hurts your feelings, do something about it, go outside and start jogging, eventually you'll want to start running and in time you'll solved the problem. It seriously is that easy.

I wasn't suggesting people adapt, or get used to how ****** people act. I'm suggesting that you don't let what someone else thinks of you dictate how happy you are.

You cannot change every asshole in the world. You can't even change every asshole in your city. It will never happen, there are always going to be assholes.
User avatar #278 to #273 - quasatranquility (04/06/2014) [-]
Good for you. I seriously mean it. But I CANNOT STRESS how important it is for you to understand that what is a cakewalk for you might be nearly impossible for someone else! And It's not that EASY to just not let what others say bother you, because at some level we all want to be accepted. Words can ******* hurt. And it can be HARD to not let it get to you. In fact, many eats because they're depressed, so assholes just makes them wanna eat more. And I'm not saying we should get rid of all the assholes, gl hf. But should we ACCEPT their behavior? No. Definitely not.

So basically, just because it was easy for you doesn't it mean it's easy for anyone else. And we should not accept harmful behavior from people.
User avatar #285 to #278 - kaywalsk (04/06/2014) [-]
I can confirm that I am 100% human being. Just like everyone else. I never ever said it was easy for me, it takes some effort. If I could do it, every single other person can do it too.

What do you propose happens then? How do you do anything about it? You said you can't change every asshole. You also say that to think everyone just ignores what other people say about them is impossible. What then? What should be done about it?
User avatar #294 to #285 - quasatranquility (04/06/2014) [-]
Are you not listening to me? Of course it's possible, but it is NOT as easy as you think for others. I knew a guy who took his own life because of bullying, and abusive parents. What a ******* loser, huh? He should've just pulled himself together and not cared about it, just manned up and dealt with it. You're ignorant. So very ignorant. Even if you've gone through the same thing as someone else, you can never know how he/she feels. Because you're not them.

Well for starters, how about we do something about this society so we don't raise people to be assholes. How about we maybe do something about it when we see someone being an asshole? Standing up for others, you know? Oh and did I say it was impossible? I said it was hard. Now you're the one making assumptions.
User avatar #339 to #294 - kaywalsk (04/07/2014) [-]
I'm sorry, you're just too naive. Survival of the fittest, I guess.
User avatar #341 to #339 - quasatranquility (04/07/2014) [-]
I might be naive, but I'd rather be naive than ignorant and pessimistic like you. Besides, people have misinterpreted the term 'Survival of the fittest'. It doesn't imply standing alone because you're superior, it means adapting and helping each other out, because that's the most efficient way to survive. To co-operate.

If you were in another position than you are right now, you wouldn't be speaking the way you do. I pity you, you poor soul.
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#167 to #59 - hopskotch (04/06/2014) [-]
Amen brother. Those double standards.
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