Sounds good, except that I lack balls big enough to stop talking to her, she's like a best friend to me now.. There is someone who likes me, but she's two years younger then me and I don't really think that I can get feelings for her.. She's pretty but I feel like her personality is to different from mine + the part where I'm not over my ex. I hope this all works out, I think too much and get jelly really fast... So I can't stand the thought of her going out to party etc. :\

Hey we are in the same boat, I can't stand the tough of my ex having sex with someone else or kissing him or what ever, its killing me a little every day to think about it. But even if its hard you need to remove her from facebook and stuff, my only real friend is my ex, and when she updates her status that she is going to a party with that and that guy or girl, I just break down. Even tho you don't feel it now, it will be easier if you don't see or talk to her. With her around you will always have this feeling that it might work out again. And that part about the second girl like you is the same as me, im 20 and she is 18, but she is more of the type that parties a lot and have had a few one night stands, and im scared to go in a relationship with her since im not the guy who parties every weekend and I could never have a one night stand. I need feeling for a girl first. If you don't have any feeling for her now then its pretty hard to get feelings later to, but you could give it a shoot, what do you have to lose? If it doesn't work then it doesn't work. But then when you are "done" with her you might be over you ex cause you have seen that there are other girls out there that can be just as good.

I don't know why your girlfriend left you, but if a girl leaves you she is not the one anyway, a girl who loves you enough would never even think about leaving you and would do anything to make you happy, maybe this younger girl is a girl like that? what do I know, but I say give it a shoot, your ex will not give a damn about you when she find a new guy so why should you give a damn about her?

Oh sorry, forgot to log in. Anyway, thanks for your time, you seem to be in the exact same situation with the exact same way of thinking as I do. So really, thank you. (Although I'm not gonna manage to get "rid" of her quite yet, as she is my only real friend too.)

I think many people are in the same situation as us, I would do any think to have my ex back since I love her more then life, but sometimes things don't work out as intended. The feeling are the same for everyone going trough a break up, that and a death of a friend/family can be one of the worst feelings in the world. Only thing that can heal it is time and some help. If you don't wanna get rid of her I understand that very well, It was a tough choice for me to but I know it will be the right one in time, even tho im damn lonely that she is not around anymore. But I like to believe that things happen for a reason and that there is something better out there.
I appreciate that you liked my replies, I may not have been much help but at least you know that there are more people that feel the same way as you do and have the same problems. Take care buddy, hopes everything works out just fine, you seem like a nice guys so don't worry about your ex, you will find someone better then her.