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#216560 - profkitty
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(3 hours ago) [-]
Moved into a new house, went to hook up the dryer, it won't plug because the outlet has no ground hole but the dryer does, is this an easy wiring fix or can I just snip of the ground? What would the dangers of taking off the ground be?
#216557 - terriblytreble
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(3 hours ago) [-]
In a marching band where rehearsals require we wear plain white t-shirts. They're allowed to have designs. What's some funny shit I could write?
Hint: I'm fat.
Some shit I've done already:
"110% MUSCLE"
"2FAT2FLY" with a Superman logo in the middle.
"I talk about fight club."
#216558 to #216557 - shamzizzle
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(3 hours ago) [-]
I blew up the WTC and all I got was this T-shirt.
#216561 to #216558 - terriblytreble
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(3 hours ago) [-]
I like it.
But it has to be at least mildly appropriate.
#216562 to #216561 - shamzizzle
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(3 hours ago) [-]
Healthy enough to open a pickle jar
#216563 to #216562 - shamzizzle
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(3 hours ago) [-]
Bee Movie
#216564 to #216563 - shamzizzle
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(3 hours ago) [-]
I love Emilia
#216565 to #216564 - shamzizzle
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(2 hours ago) [-]
I'd rather be in a casket
#216566 to #216565 - shamzizzle
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(2 hours ago) [-]
What do you play by the way?
#216567 to #216566 - terriblytreble
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(2 hours ago) [-]
Trumpet and skin flute.
#216554 - Churd ONLINE
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(3 hours ago) [-]
Should I buy it? it's a lot of money.
#216556 to #216554 - shamzizzle
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(3 hours ago) [-]
If you really want it and can take the financial hit from purchasing it then go ahead.

*but before you buy it really think about how much you will be using it and how much enjoyment you will get from it and whether or not the cost is worth that enjoyment.
#216551 - mrskulldude
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(5 hours ago) [-]
How do I know if a qt is into me?
#216555 to #216551 - Churd ONLINE
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(3 hours ago) [-]
ask her
#216559 to #216555 - mrskulldude
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(3 hours ago) [-]
nigga i'd poop myself
#216536 - heeveejeevees
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(6 hours ago) [-]
Ive been lifting for almost a year now,im glad to say I finally made it out of the obese scale. Height is 5'8 and 1/2 (manlet) and current weight is 87kg with 24% bodyfat. Im still pretty meaty but hey, I havent stop. Now I have a lot of stretch marks on my belly, do girls find that disgusting?
#216541 to #216536 - endorphinsrage
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(6 hours ago) [-]
Once you get to the point in which you want. 5"8 will get you farther than most. Just go to a more hispanic/asian place. They are smaller.
#216542 to #216541 - heeveejeevees
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(6 hours ago) [-]
I live in the philippines so 97% are Asians.
#216546 to #216542 - endorphinsrage
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(6 hours ago) [-]
Girls love a 5"8 man in the Philipines
#216545 to #216542 - endorphinsrage
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(6 hours ago) [-]
Oh good, my girlfriend's mother was from the Philippines. Yeah dude, I'm not sure about penis size. But the stretch marks, would you be able to post them.

Here's a site which I recently found. blog.menscience.com/how-to-get-rid-of-stretch-marks/

I have no idea if it's reliable but by the looks it seems true.
#216547 to #216545 - heeveejeevees
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(5 hours ago) [-]
Don't get me started on penis size ._.

And I guess this is how you look at my stretch marks. Its kinda awkward, can't get a good shot
#216548 to #216547 - endorphinsrage
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(5 hours ago) [-]
One thing you should do is go on Fit to ask. And really women don't care too much about it. As long as you make it look good, I'd say you look great right now but you will definitely want to continue on your workouts until you have a more toned self.

As long as your wang isn't below 5 inches I am sure most wont care.
My girlfriend is 5 feet tall and I myself have a 7 in right now and we can't really go more than twice without lube. Don't worry about sex though, alot more than just a penis goes into it.
#216534 - canyou
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(7 hours ago) [-]
So, my textbook for school is taking forever to ship in the mail. Anyone know any online resources for free digital copies of textbook? It's fine if it's illegal.
#216535 to #216534 - thenamlessguy
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(7 hours ago) [-]
Posting this a lot lately. Guess it's that time of year

Try using this:
docs.google.com/document/d/1bvkx9P7lMc0KaDrCEJyS2-NQ_tZ_bN4Asuhnsmtghts/edit?pli=1
#216526 - notred ONLINE
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(10 hours ago) [-]
I don't really get it, but I'm suicidal.

I have a healthy sex life, a few friends, a stable job, my own apartment, going to school, yet I want to blow my brains out.

I'm going to the doctor soon to get some anti-depressants.

Anyone just wanna talk?
#216538 to #216526 - hamshef
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(6 hours ago) [-]
When I feel a bit depressed I like to try something new. Usually a new hobby. I'm pretty bad at drawing but for a time I just opened up MSPaint and followed along to Bob Ross's The Joy Of Painting videos, and his mood was always relaxed and comforting and that really helped me calm down. Another thing I'm currently doing is trying to build a small dam for a small stream near my house(I live in the woods). If all goes well I'll build a water wheel for it and use that to power a rock tumbling machine it basically is a bucket that spins around and smooths out rocks and if you polish them after they look really nice .
tl;dr trying some new hobby can keep you interested in life, and this might not apply to everyone as depression can affect people differently but hopefully you can give this a try if your interested. Please don't leave cause there's just so much you can do in life, you just have to get creative and find something you enjoy.
#216540 to #216538 - hamshef
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(6 hours ago) [-]
Just noticed my tl;dr is practically as long as the paragraph above it, sorry bout that I just ramble on sometimes
#216530 to #216526 - canyou
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(7 hours ago) [-]
What part of your life feels lacking? It's okay if you can't come up wit a rational answer. Part of the problem with depressive thoughts is that they're irrational and hard to explain.
#216531 to #216530 - notred ONLINE
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(7 hours ago) [-]
I'm not sure. I have my nightmares and I think it's affecting my mental health.
#216533 to #216531 - canyou
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(7 hours ago) [-]
Oh yeah man, bad sleep will wreck you. Maybe a temporary solution would be to find some way to get more restful, peaceful sleep.
#216528 to #216526 - drastronomy
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(9 hours ago) [-]
Shoot, faggot. I know some remedies
#216518 - anon
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(11 hours ago) [-]
Im 23 and have super right foreskin, its only retracted twice in my life which was excruciating. The head of the penis is as site and sensitive to being touched than my eyeball if not way more.
Sex would be impossible without a circumcision but that'd leave the head exposed which in my dry pants would hurt like a dry sandy towel being pressed on your open eyes.
I dont know what ti do, its one of the things depressing me and although I've never had one, i dont want to bother getting in romantic situations if my donger aint no good.
#216532 to #216518 - canyou
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(7 hours ago) [-]
Maybe the best solution is circumcision with some type of treatment for the dryness?
#216522 to #216518 - rurik
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(11 hours ago) [-]
Go to the doctor and get a salve to stretch your skin with. Or prescription-free alternatives.

You can loosen and expand it a bit. There are also more alternatives to complete circumcion.
#216527 to #216522 - anon
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(9 hours ago) [-]
No luck, its such an extreme case that circumcision is the only option im told :/
#216529 to #216527 - rurik
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(8 hours ago) [-]
aw man, that sucks.
Are you done growing?

Mine was very tight for a long while, but I jacked off when it was warm and with salves so I can pull the skin back without feeling pain.
#216508 - bemymaster
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(15 hours ago) [-]
How do i overcome bitterness? Anyone got and tricks on how to change my mindset?
#216524 to #216508 - rurik
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(10 hours ago) [-]
Choose happiness. It takes time to change your thought patterns and behaviours, but it's possible.

Read one of these to get a sense of the idea of choosing your emotional state.
www.goodreads.com/book/show/10348559-att-v-lja-gl-dje
www.goodreads.com/book/show/598007.No_Chance_Encounter
#216519 to #216508 - samoaspider
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(11 hours ago) [-]
I've found easiest way out drinking. Get a cider or something, chug whole bottle down when alone and listen to some music while shitposting on internet
#216523 to #216519 - rurik
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(11 hours ago) [-]
That's called alcoholism.
#216525 to #216523 - samoaspider
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(10 hours ago) [-]
GIF
its what South Park suggested in one of the episodes
#216517 to #216508 - SOUL CRUSHER
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(11 hours ago) [-]
Just find way to help people. Nother like in a super hero way but try to find ways to give a service to someone everyday. Especially someone you are upset with.
#216513 to #216508 - sugoi ONLINE
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(15 hours ago) [-]
By doing something else so you forget about the thing making you bitter.
#216515 to #216513 - bemymaster
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(14 hours ago) [-]
i try to do that, then i get mad at myself for not being in touch with my feelings aka constant self loathing. I really really want to get over all the stupid shit i've done but i just can't. I'm bitter about other people mistaking me for someone who's tough and emotionless when i'm really sensitive and touchy. I know it's not their fault, because i don't like to expose myself to others.
#216549 to #216515 - hamshef
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(5 hours ago) [-]
I think I've fallen into a similar boat as you. I've been feeling pretty bitter that I'm not as outwardly socialable as other people. And with the news and politics I've felt even more miserable about humanity and the future.
One thing that I've done to help is to stay away from/ignore news channels and political posts that hit the front page now every day it seems . Sure people might tell me that I'm out of the loop but it's usually the same depressing stuff anyway and it would only trouble me more to try to follow along Many Americans including my parents seem pissed that I refuse to register to vote in this election but I'm just too disgusted in how politics is run to bother with this election . In order to further help fight my bitterness ive surprisingly found that reading/listening to world of Warcraft lore has worked because I see heros try to beat all odds to protect what they love and uphold honor, even if it means sacrificing everything. it kind of gives me a glimmer of hope that things might go well in the end if we stand together. Which brings me to my next point that if you want to improve yourself or society you have to contribute your part, even if it seems small and insignificant. There's this one YouTuber I love watching called Cr1TiKaL (also known as penguinz0) who is really inspiring because he claims to fight back corruption by donating all his YouTube profits to charity. If you at least try to contribute to helping society in some way it makes you feel less bitter about yourself because you'll have less reason to feel bitter. Even something as small as me watching his videos helps contribute because it helps make him money to give to charity.
If your looking for something more like a personal self esteem booster like me because I'm too introverted to do something big in public, just try a simple hobby that produces a tangible result. Something like art or building a shelf, something that produces an end result that you can look back on and feel proud of. I hope this helps.
Tl;dr putting yourself around positive things helps you feel less bitter about yourself/life
#216552 to #216549 - bemymaster
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(4 hours ago) [-]
I too like to listen to lore, although TES lore because i find the "good and evil" deities and their powers inspiring and it's one of those things that makes me calm down during a long day.

Politics just make me super depressed these days, but it wasn't always like that. I was normally very interested in politics, it's just one of those things i easily found myself to enjoy learning about. I was in a youth party council for some years, also participated in the european youth parliament debates but the whole thing is just bullshit. EYP is bullshit.

It's funny that i started this thread earlier today and for some reason i had a breakdown this evening, and sobbed more than i've done in years. I think i've just had enough with keeping things to myself and letting people make me upset to point where i begin to tear up daily. I'm systematically removing so called friends in my life which only bring me down and are never there for me. I know that i care too much whether i'll make someone upset or not, and therefore refrain from saying anything to defend myself against constant verbal abuse. My self esteem varies but overall it's very low. I can be out in public and with others, but i find small talk and all that very boring so my only friends are the ones i have left after i graduated. I only need the real friends i have right now so it doesn't matter much to me really. I like to do things for others are help others out, it gives purpose to my otherwise boring and meaningless everyday life. I've had very little self respect for many years and i contemplate suicide alot. Much of my lack of self respect used to come from me not accepting that i'm gay. It still hurts, but at least i don't hate myself for not being straight.

So idk if i'll become less bitter, i can only cry in my own company or else i feel weak. I easily get anxiety attacks and suffer from ongoing depression (i do have happy days/weeks). I know i should've been seeking my psychiatrist for months now but it's a difficult because i know i'll start crying once he asks me out about things and i don't want that to happen.

My biggest hope is to get a job so that i can feel a joy of achieving something and being productive, it's the one thing i want the most. Like you said, something to look back on and be proud of. It's really all i need at the moment.

#216507 - bouazizforever
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(15 hours ago) [-]
Unrelated
Can u delete your account on this site? How to do it?
Thanks
#216514 to #216507 - sugoi ONLINE
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(15 hours ago) [-]
No you cannot, that feature was removed a few years ago.