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#215649 - zoobydooby
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(22 minutes ago) [-]
Are there any girls out there that aren't huge dickheads?
#215650 to #215649 - ltbeanie ONLINE
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(1 minute ago) [-]
Yeah, like literally millions of girls you've never even met before could fit that criteria.
#215645 - yatush ONLINE
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(1 hour ago) [-]
So in the past year, my sister became fat.

i am actualy very worried for her, because she went from being unhealthy and thin to extremly unhealthy and fat.
when she's not at work, she's home in her room, with her bf, watching videos on youtube.
they do nothing, she eats and she eats some more, her whole room smells and looks like shit.
she doesn't move an inch, never goes outside unless she has to, and the sad thing is that she doesn't even see it, shes thinks she's about the same weight she was, when she clearly has the fupa of papa ethan himself.

My siblings and parents insist on not intervening, as they are worried she'd develope an eating disorder. I try to tell them that what is happening to her now is an eating disorder, and we need to help her change her ways.

I refrain from acting alone because i do not want to anger my family, but i just can't see her go like this, at this rate she'll die at age 40 from a heart attack.

I try and do the shopping whenever i can, so that i can control the unhealthy things we bring into our house, but i am leaving for my own apartment in 10 days, and i know my family isn't going to do anything.

i come to you, friends, for advice on what to do. i've tried to reason with my family countless times, in vain.
#215651 to #215645 - anon
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(25 seconds ago) [-]
Unfortunately, the kind of weight loss she needs is something she has to manage in her own. You can't control everything she eats, she needs to be responsible for herself. However, she doesn't sound like the type of person to take her own health seriously, so you need to convince her. You need to get your parents on your side and sit your sister down to make her understand that her weight isn't okay.
#215643 - anon
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(6 hours ago) [-]
TFW you realise you've always been "the guy" that is always left out in every friend group you ever had and you gave it all to the so called friends (nice, always willing to help and give up girls that liked you but your friend liked them so you never pursued) and they abandon you and all stop talking to you and forget about you. I'm 21 now and I literally haven't had someone who wanted to hangout with me since i was 12 when I moved away. I've always been the worst case scenario option since then and even then you could tell they didn't want to be there.
#215644 to #215643 - rokkai ONLINE
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(5 hours ago) [-]
change your acts. im not saying completely change how you act because that's how you get with wrong people. just be more confident speak fluently and decisively. there are many things that you can do to improve your self confidence look 'em up. and don't expect to be the head of a group just try to be a part of it. for example im 23 and im still extremely close with my high school friends. and i know im nobody's best friend there but im one of them you know. im not the first person to call but they're always there for me and im always there for them.    
you can do it lil nigga.
change your acts. im not saying completely change how you act because that's how you get with wrong people. just be more confident speak fluently and decisively. there are many things that you can do to improve your self confidence look 'em up. and don't expect to be the head of a group just try to be a part of it. for example im 23 and im still extremely close with my high school friends. and i know im nobody's best friend there but im one of them you know. im not the first person to call but they're always there for me and im always there for them.
you can do it lil nigga.
#215642 - anon
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(7 hours ago) [-]
How do I stop being a hate-filled sad lonely piece of shit. How do I find the good in people besides being paranoid about them hurting me. How do I act like an average human being.
#215646 to #215642 - yatush ONLINE
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(1 hour ago) [-]
#215639 - micekill
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(12 hours ago) [-]
i just came back from a visit to the in laws. i have been dating this girl for 4 years now and it is quite a strong relationship we have.   
the thing is, i behaved worse than an italian spaghetti monster at her parents house. my pockets were constantly overflowing with mediterranean noodles almost 24/7. my voice cracked, i mumbled, i sweated like a mad man, made myself look like i was mad when i was just extremely embarrassed. how the fuck can i stop being such a fucking mess, it really seems impossible, i seem to really be stuck in a akward situation most of my life. i haven't made any acquaintances at college just because of this same shit. i used to be worse than this when i was in my teens, but i got better, for a couple of years, where i made all my friend and gf. now i am just back to square one and i can't seem to get over this. the worst part is, these people are nice, i want to be friends with them, but i can't talk when i want to.   
advice?
i just came back from a visit to the in laws. i have been dating this girl for 4 years now and it is quite a strong relationship we have.
the thing is, i behaved worse than an italian spaghetti monster at her parents house. my pockets were constantly overflowing with mediterranean noodles almost 24/7. my voice cracked, i mumbled, i sweated like a mad man, made myself look like i was mad when i was just extremely embarrassed. how the fuck can i stop being such a fucking mess, it really seems impossible, i seem to really be stuck in a akward situation most of my life. i haven't made any acquaintances at college just because of this same shit. i used to be worse than this when i was in my teens, but i got better, for a couple of years, where i made all my friend and gf. now i am just back to square one and i can't seem to get over this. the worst part is, these people are nice, i want to be friends with them, but i can't talk when i want to.
advice?
#215647 to #215639 - boeka ONLINE
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(33 minutes ago) [-]
Family > The one. The family doesn't have any say in wether or not you're seeing their gal/lad so relax and just see them as a necessary evil in the relationship. That helped me relax with the relatives. They mean nothing.
#215648 to #215647 - boeka ONLINE
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(33 minutes ago) [-]
Shit. ... I meant that the family is less than the spouse-to-be. Truly a comment to believe in.
#215638 - anon
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(14 hours ago) [-]
Posting as anon cause I was to stay anon
I just had bunch of shit about my family dropped on me. The biggest being that my mother had multiple affairs early in my parents marriage They divorced about 10 years ago Also my dad wasn't innocent in this either, he apparently also had affairs , one of these affairs she had ended up with her getting pregnant. In between my second oldest sisters birth and my third oldest sisters birth . My mother gave birth to a boy and signed him over for adoption before my father could get to the hospital Remember he wasn't my fathers son, but he didn't care, he still wanted to take care of him . Fast forward 22 to 25 years, my second oldest sister told me everything Everything I'm telling you and more that I pretty much don't want/need to talk about here . I have an older brother I never knew about for over 19 years.
Now everything that fucking happened during the divorce that I never really understood makes since now and I'm fucking pissed because I lost my relationship with my siblings and dad over all this bullshit I still saw them, but I drifted away from them because they wanted to keep me ignorant of it all .
My sister is getting married early September and I want to find my older brother before then and let him witness it.

I always saw the effects of what was happening in my family but I never actually knew why and I always chucked it up to "I guess this is normal for families that went through a divorce"
#215640 to #215638 - micekill
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(12 hours ago) [-]
i dunno about much of this, my parents stayed together all my childhood, but wouldn't it be strange for your brother to go to a wedding to someone they don't know, from a family that, from his point of view, abandoned him?
i am not against finding him, that is a great idea
#215637 - marmiteistasty
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(14 hours ago) [-]
Can I complain about delayed luggage? I don't really care that much and they actually delivered it eventually, I'm just wondering if I'm allowed any free shit
#215627 - anon
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(07/29/2016) [-]
can someone tell me why and how to fix something? basically i start sweating from the smallest amount of stress possible. if im on my computer and im chilling its fine but as soon as its remotely stressful like playing a difficult game or talking on voice chat my ass and armpits start sweating...yes its gross thats why im asking for help
#215629 to #215627 - platinumaltaria
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(23 hours ago) [-]
So, to get this clear, you're complaining about normal human body function? Go and see a doctor if it bothers you that much.
#215631 to #215629 - anon
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(23 hours ago) [-]
no not normal... at least i think so? it feels useless cuz its like 22 celsuius in my room and isnt sweatng used to reduce temperature?
#215632 to #215631 - platinumaltaria
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(23 hours ago) [-]
Sweating is also a response to exertion to maintain low body temperature during exercise...
#215633 to #215632 - anon
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(23 hours ago) [-]
ah well ty i guess
#215620 - ifailedmyact
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(07/29/2016) [-]
I think I've got an excessive for lack of a better word obsession with porn. I may watch it everyday, at least 3 times a day. Or if not 3 times a day or more, at least once everyday. It's only recently that I've been trying to stop it. I actually think I managed a whole 2 weeks without watching it, and then another few days after I broke that 2 weeks. It's really something I dislike and I'm not looking for someone to tell me to accept it or not see anything wrong with it, or that 3 times a day isn't really excessive or much of an obsession. Just wondering if maybe, on this site full of horny, sexually repressed degenerates, there might be one informed soul that can give me some advice on how to tone it down, if not just quit it all at once?
#215641 to #215620 - anon
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(12 hours ago) [-]
i used to spend all my time on porn. i found out that the best fix to that is just to occupy yourself with other shit, fun games didn't work for me as playing games made me more horny , going out with friends, doing exercise and sports this specially helps release that testosterone you may have that is making you more horny . you still should marsturbate, it is good for your body, do not get blue balls
#215635 to #215620 - rurik ONLINE
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(17 hours ago) [-]
Jack off without porn, if you just don't watch it. Stay away from it and go do something else once you feel the urge
#215630 to #215620 - platinumaltaria
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(23 hours ago) [-]
It's only a problem if it cuts into daily life. As for preventing addictive behaviour, just stop doing the thing. Yes it's really that simple, any time you start doing the thing, stop doing it.
#215634 to #215630 - ifailedmyact
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(18 hours ago) [-]
Yeah, I'm pretty sure if it were that simple, I'd have been able to stop right now.
#215626 to #215620 - anon
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(07/29/2016) [-]
everyone has their needs brah
#215625 to #215620 - rokkai ONLINE
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(07/29/2016) [-]
i think it's more than you should be doing. do something else and distract your mind off of it
#215605 - stoatsmcgoats ONLINE
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(07/29/2016) [-]
>I'd like to have an argument, please
#215617 to #215605 - platinumaltaria
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(07/29/2016) [-]
/hating/ is waiting.
#215606 to #215605 - anon
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(07/29/2016) [-]
no you don't.
#215607 to #215606 - stoatsmcgoats ONLINE
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(07/29/2016) [-]
I most assuredly do
#215608 to #215607 - anon
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(07/29/2016) [-]
I can assure you that you don't.
#215609 to #215608 - stoatsmcgoats ONLINE
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(07/29/2016) [-]
This is room 12a isn't it?
#215610 to #215609 - anon
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(07/29/2016) [-]
I've already told you.
#215611 to #215610 - stoatsmcgoats ONLINE
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(07/29/2016) [-]
No you haven't.
#215612 to #215611 - anon
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(07/29/2016) [-]
I did, just now.
#215613 to #215612 - stoatsmcgoats ONLINE
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(07/29/2016) [-]
You did not
#215615 to #215613 - anon
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(07/29/2016) [-]
I did.
#215616 to #215615 - stoatsmcgoats ONLINE
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(07/29/2016) [-]
Didn't
#215628 to #215616 - anon
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(07/29/2016) [-]
did