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#192771 - anon (4 hours ago) [-]
I finished my period less than a week ago and today I woke up experiencing the heaviest period of my life, what's happening to me?
User avatar #192776 to #192771 - sugoi (4 hours ago) [-]
You missed an opportunity to have double twins.
#192775 to #192771 - unitedabominations (4 hours ago) [-]
The Blood Ritual begins. He is coming. But not this week.
#192767 - anon (6 hours ago) [-]
Got dumped about 4 hours ago. Any ideas on what to do now?
User avatar #192777 to #192767 - sugoi (4 hours ago) [-]
Mass Debating?
User avatar #192768 to #192767 - ohhh (6 hours ago) [-]
do this Rocky Balboa (7/11) Movie CLIP - How Winning is Done (2006) HD
#192770 to #192768 - anon (5 hours ago) [-]
It was a short relationship of just under 2 months, so I came here expecting to get some creative drinking ideas and stuff, but this was pretty uplifting.
User avatar #192761 - ferndizzle (7 hours ago) [-]
Help guys!! Best way to stream a movie...... go.
#192763 to #192761 - plantain (7 hours ago) [-]
**plantain used "*roll 1, 1-99*"**
**plantain rolls 12**
putlocker.is/
User avatar #192764 to #192763 - ferndizzle (7 hours ago) [-]
Every site I try tells me I need a free account do do anything then asks for a credit card number
#192765 to #192764 - plantain (6 hours ago) [-]
**plantain used "*roll 1, 1-99*"**
**plantain rolls 09**
This site doesn't require an account. In all fairness though, the movies aren't in the best quality possible and it has a bit of a problem with buffering.
User avatar #192752 - rockmanfan (9 hours ago) [-]
how am i more socially awkward on the internet than i am in real life? i feel like when i type things they come out wrong or are subject to incorrect interpretation.
User avatar #192756 to #192752 - yiffcario (7 hours ago) [-]
When speaking through text alone, you have to choose what you write carefully. There is no tone of voice, or body language to communicate with, so many things can be taken as sarcastic, or serious depending on what it is.
User avatar #192751 - sisterblister (9 hours ago) [-]
burnt my finger to nigger status playing with fire works any advice on the pain
User avatar #192766 to #192751 - sineztro (6 hours ago) [-]
Aloe with ice
User avatar #192759 to #192751 - yiffcario (7 hours ago) [-]
I don't burn myself often so all I have for you is ice, distractions, and I used a cream called Aquafor or that was the company, it didn't help much with pain, but was excellent for healing.
User avatar #192750 - swagasauruss (9 hours ago) [-]
Im considering divorcing my wife...We used to have a wonderful loving relationship but now she constantly accuses me of cheating and belittles me. I've been an honest and faithful husband. But I just can't take it anymore I dont know what to do...I love her so much but im tired of all the pain
#192773 to #192750 - anon (4 hours ago) [-]
I agree with the other guy that you should record it, but not for the same reasons. I remember reading about a woman who had become increasingly critical of and mean to her husband over really stupid things and didn't realize it until it was almost too late because she honestly couldn't understand that he simply didn't think the same way she did and she took every mistake he made as an act of passive aggression or complete apathy. Once she realized how wrong she was, she completely changed her behavior and became really appreciative of his genuine efforts and forgiving of his errors. If she still doesn't own up to her shittiness, leave.
#192774 to #192773 - anon (4 hours ago) [-]
So basically, record her and show it to her later. See how she feels about her behavior when she's not hysterical.
User avatar #192760 to #192750 - thematthew (7 hours ago) [-]
record her belittling you and all that, that way if you do divorce her you have the upper hand, other than that just find a proffesional for advice, you'll get a better chance off saving your marriage.
User avatar #192748 - mondominiman (9 hours ago) [-]
I used to enjoy visiting my friend but it's more a pain now since he got a gf. I mean I'm happy for him and everything but his personality has changed and he won't do something if his gf won't go. Not to mention I feel like a 3rd wheel whenever we DO go out since he's always draped over her and I'm just walking besides them.
User avatar #192757 to #192748 - yiffcario (7 hours ago) [-]
This happened with a lot of my bros. His gf is an important part of his life now and he wants to spend time with her but he doesn't want to grow distant from is friends so he tries to be with both at the same time. He wants his gf to become friends with his friends so you all can enjoy time together but he doesn't realize how he acts nor how you get treated like a third wheel. If you have other friends that feel the same way, you can, as a group, bring it to his attention and hope he realizes. If not, wait it out.
User avatar #192749 to #192748 - mondominiman (9 hours ago) [-]
Not jelous or anything but but take others in consideration.
User avatar #192747 - thematthew (9 hours ago) [-]
anyone know where i can find adblock, i'm getting really fucking tired of fucking sound ads playing every 30 seconds when i'm trying to watch a video.
User avatar #192755 to #192754 - thematthew (7 hours ago) [-]
thank you so much
User avatar #192746 - rereviven (9 hours ago) [-]
I have a big Manufacturing interview tomorrow for an apprenticeship. Last time I went for a different company, I completely fucked it up. How do i not fuck this one up?

Being honest, I don't want this apprenticeship at all. Im doing it because my parents want me to. It is completely outside of Computer Science, which is what I actually want to study
#192740 - anon (13 hours ago) [-]
I need some advice on where to find the gif(?) of the baby tiger(?) and panther(?) playing on the climbing frame/slide.
User avatar #192733 - hwangw ONLINE (15 hours ago) [-]
My friend is going through some shit and I don't know what to say to help her. She seems kind of depressed, feels like she's a terrible person, and unloved and undeserving and things of that nature. I know it's just a temporary moment. But I'd really like to help her through it, I don't like seeing her like this. But I have no idea what to say to her. I really need help. I'm so caught offguard and worried that I don't now what to say to her.
User avatar #192745 to #192733 - foreveranonymous (11 hours ago) [-]
From personal experience, I think what she really needs is a distraction. If you both have some free time get out of the house and just hang out. Plantain brings up several good points, volunteer work sounds especially good. I just know that when I was down in the dumps (especially after my mom died) I needed constant distraction to keep the sad/bad thoughts out of my head although no one was there for me so I had to play video games to distract myself
User avatar #192739 to #192733 - plantain (13 hours ago) [-]
Take her to do volunteer work with you. I'd suggest helping at a nursing home, as old people are almost always really nice and friendly and appreciative of your company/help.

Is her birthday coming up? Organize a surprise party. If she's not into that, take her and some friends to do something she likes.

If she doesn't seem to be getting better, especially if she's getting worse, talk to her family and ask if they can see about getting her some help.

Overall, just try to be there for her. Don't get overly pushy about helping, but make it known that you're there for her.
#192729 - voiic (16 hours ago) [-]
how can do i learn a language without mastrubating?
#192744 to #192729 - plantain (11 hours ago) [-]
Castration is clearly the only solution.
#192727 - yourinvisiblegf (16 hours ago) [-]
Things to do before you die:
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What's on your list guys? need inspiration
User avatar #192779 to #192727 - dreygur ONLINE (2 hours ago) [-]
>graduate in whatever I want to graduate in
>get a stable job and income
>get a partner, maybe kids
>make sure my retirement won't be shit
>hopefully die feeling fulfilled
User avatar #192742 to #192727 - youngneil (13 hours ago) [-]
>Learn how to drive without having panic attacks
>Move out of my mothers house
>Brainwash myself into forgetting that I once did the do with someone while I was dressed up as Hitler
>Finish my god damn RPG Maker game
>Become either an electrician or plumber

Basically everything I want to do is a short term goal. I tend to not think too far ahead because I don't want to think about how disappointing life is.
User avatar #192758 to #192742 - yiffcario (7 hours ago) [-]
Do you panic when you use a pencil? A wrench? A keyboard?
A vehicle is just another tool for you to utilize, don't be nervous when driving, just be alert. It's only an extension of yourself.
User avatar #192780 to #192758 - dreygur ONLINE (2 hours ago) [-]
It's a bit different when you're moving something and when something is moving you.
User avatar #192781 to #192780 - yourinvisiblegf (58 minutes ago) [-]
you'll get used to it

i hate driving in big cities with lot of peoples and vehicules around
drive a lot on empty roads
#192737 to #192727 - serhiy (14 hours ago) [-]
Main goals for immediate future

>do well in A levels
> pass driving licence
> become fully CCNA qualified
> take up a job lasting a year using said CCNA qualification and save up money
> go to uni and complete a computer based course

my long term goal is to earn more money than my parents combined within a year as I am very salty from all the shit they have talked to me for the last 18 years

> A side goal of mine is trying to get a woman
#192735 to #192727 - crimsonhazzard (14 hours ago) [-]
Have sex with a woman.
get my family to not be ashamed of me.
make enough money to just be able to afford a shithole apt and not starve
become respected on FJ

0 for 4
User avatar #192734 to #192727 - braveblue (15 hours ago) [-]
>Have kid(s)
>Get Doctorate in psychology
>Watch/Read the ending to the Anime/Manga "One Piece"
User avatar #192730 to #192727 - whathaveyoudone (15 hours ago) [-]
play videogames
play videogames
play videogames
User avatar #192728 to #192727 - alexanderburns (16 hours ago) [-]
Eat more ice cream.
Have more fun.
Be not underweight.
User avatar #192714 - joshlol (19 hours ago) [-]
no matter how hard I try, I'll probably never be happy
I'll probably never enjoy life

I could be rich living in a mansion somewhere and I'd probably still feel like shit all the time
I'll never contribute anything of worth to society, or do anything meaningful, if I died tonight, 2 months from now no one would remember me

I don't matter
I don't even deserve to be alive
I'm a parasite with no value
sometimes I think I should just sign papers to become an organ donor and kill myself so at least I can have given life to someone more deserving
User avatar #192769 to #192714 - joshualegitsky (5 hours ago) [-]
Same. Did some soul searching earlier and I didn't find anything. I'm taking that as an answer. If I have nothing then I'm going to give myself away for others. It would be dumb to kill myself just to hand off my organs though. I believe in God and that theres life after this one so I'm going to earn that life by helping people get their new life. I'm going to become an FBI agent and take someof the bad guys off the streets so people can live a good life without fear. Something that we don't have which allows us to make our own decisions. You can kill yourself. But you will become nothing. Every dream you had, every life that reached out to you, every day you decided to get up would be meaningless. It wasn't untill I realized this that I stopped being in my day to day phase. I got a grip on life. I found out that I don't have to find meaning in myself to have a meaning in life. I'm giving myself to the people I love. I'm giving myself to the people who need someone. I want them to accept me. I will keep searching for those people. You are one of those people. I want you to be happy with yourself and I think that starts with knowing that you mean something. And today you mean a lot to me and have meant a lot to God. I will pray for you and I will help you if you need me.
User avatar #192762 to #192714 - thematthew (7 hours ago) [-]
what do you find the funnest to do, if you don't find anything fun than just keep trying your best to find that one thing that clicks.

the hole organ doner thing isn't a bad idea though, it's another thing that makes you a great person.
#192731 to #192714 - durkadurka (15 hours ago) [-]
Something must make you happy bud. Do that thing, even if it's stupid and we'll make fun of you for it (because we do anyways).

Seriously though, maybe what you need to do is help others. Volunteering at soup kitchens and that kind of stuff. If you don't know how to make your life better than maybe just use it to help others.

Hell man, go hike up mountains or through state parks or whatever and see some cool stuff. This wouldn't cost you much at all and it's loads better than just sitting around moping.

You kill yourself and you're just taking the easy way out. Don't be that guy. We're all capable of so much more, the trick is just finding it.
User avatar #192732 to #192731 - joshlol (15 hours ago) [-]
I live in the UK, we don't have mountains and the weather is usually not great for walking around
sometimes I'll walk around lakes / parks and it's nice but doesn't make me feel happy
User avatar #192753 to #192732 - kegget ONLINE (8 hours ago) [-]
Where about in the UK?
User avatar #192782 to #192753 - joshlol (8 minutes ago) [-]
mk
User avatar #192717 to #192714 - sineztro (19 hours ago) [-]
What's up dude guy?
User avatar #192718 to #192717 - joshlol (19 hours ago) [-]
I feel like shit all the time
User avatar #192719 to #192718 - sineztro (19 hours ago) [-]
Oh shit dude wanna talk about it on Skype ?
User avatar #192720 to #192719 - joshlol (19 hours ago) [-]
I don't really know what more to say
#192743 to #192720 - sineztro (13 hours ago) [-]
Well I mean if you ever want to vent man just pm me and I'll listen
Well I mean if you ever want to vent man just pm me and I'll listen
#192711 - anon (20 hours ago) [-]
John Leguizamo stole my cookies and I can't prove anything, help me.
User avatar #192710 - zarnvendk ONLINE (20 hours ago) [-]
Hey Guys
I'm moving from Denmark to London from in my gap year (I'm 19) and I was wondering if any of you had any tips on starting on your own in a new country. I plan to work a lot but I don't currently have a job waiting for me nor do i have anywhere to live yet.
Also if any british Fj'ers need a roommate, know someone who might be hiring or renting out apartments please leave a comment.
Any help at all is greatly appreciated. Thank you
User avatar #192738 to #192710 - serhiy (14 hours ago) [-]
housing is incredibly expensive in london, even in a place where you're 100% guaranteed to get stabbed in the middle of the night, the prices of a room can still range for £70 - £100 per week.

Also be ready to be over qualified while doing a shit job if your doing anything that not IT related.
User avatar #192715 to #192710 - joshlol (19 hours ago) [-]
Hope you don't mind overpopulated shitholes, London is a small city with a population of like 150% of your country or so
User avatar #192716 to #192715 - joshlol (19 hours ago) [-]
I lived there for three years
2012 olympics was the worst time
User avatar #192721 to #192716 - zarnvendk ONLINE (18 hours ago) [-]
Thanks for the insight, man. I think i can live with the population density and i presume there's a lot of angry stupid people but it's part of the experience of living in any big city I guess. If you lived there for three years do you have some ins and outs on what to do? places you recmmend etc?
User avatar #192722 to #192721 - joshlol (18 hours ago) [-]
I recommend going to the top of the shard in the evening, it's only about £20 and the view is breathtaking
The city is beautifully lit at night, it's misshapen and mismatched but that adds to the beauty in my opinion

I also recommend doing a night bus tour if you can
User avatar #192723 to #192722 - zarnvendk ONLINE (18 hours ago) [-]
Noted and appreciated.
Thanks Josh
User avatar #192725 to #192723 - joshlol (17 hours ago) [-]
say, how come so many danish folks put "dk" at the end of their usernames online on websites / games?
User avatar #192726 to #192725 - zarnvendk ONLINE (17 hours ago) [-]
Made the account many years ago, turns it was never cool to have dk at the end. Now i've grown emotionally attached to my various accounts and i'm too cheap to change the name. It's mostly children and early teens who use dk.
#192709 - anon (21 hours ago) [-]
I gave my two week notices for a job but I need to leave immediately. Its a horrible job but I have no idea who would take over for me. I  wouldn't have a problem just telling the boss that I can no longer work there but I know them and we were friends  before I got the job.  How do I go about leaving immediately.
I gave my two week notices for a job but I need to leave immediately. Its a horrible job but I have no idea who would take over for me. I wouldn't have a problem just telling the boss that I can no longer work there but I know them and we were friends before I got the job. How do I go about leaving immediately.
#192708 - thereasonableperso (22 hours ago) [-]
All of a sudden the posts on frontpage are sorted by top rated in the past 30 days. How do I change it back to my original setting of top rated in the past 24 hours?
User avatar #192702 - muxammle (07/30/2015) [-]
Why is the images showing the O's at the bottom right corner? Or is it only me?
User avatar #192706 to #192702 - braveblue (23 hours ago) [-]
I'm pretty sure you are talking about the magnifying glass. If you aren't then I don't know what you're talking about.
User avatar #192707 to #192706 - muxammle (22 hours ago) [-]
No. There is a big red O like the Opera browser logo in the bottom of every image. But it is only showing in my computer. Not in my cellphone. Wierd.
User avatar #192712 to #192707 - braveblue (19 hours ago) [-]
I'm not sure what to tell yah. Sorry.
#192701 - anon (07/30/2015) [-]
Any ways to earn some extra money in college besides a job(like surveys n shit)
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