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#208051 - rebexa
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(02/10/2016) [-]
My current roommate, who used to be my best friend, has been emotionally abusing me for a couple of months now. I finally had enough and called her out on it, and she is now doing everything in her power to steal all of our friends away from me. She's outspoken and charismatic, while I'm a nervous wreck with depression and trust issues, and I don't know what to do. I'm scared I'm about to lose everyone I care about...
#208068 to #208051 - braveblue ONLINE
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(02/10/2016) [-]
If you're friends listen to her and start avoiding you, they probably weren't really good friends in the first place. You should probably tell your friends that your roommate isn't really on good terms with you at the moment, tell them whats going on and what you think she might be doing. You might care about them, but in some cases they might not care about you.

It sucks but its hard to make good friends. I only really spend time with people that want to spend time with me. I don't know how girly friendships work out but with my friends for some reason, they care a shit ton about me and we all care for each other even if its pretty subtle. Don't let people walk circles on you, choose your friends carefully. Get to know them really well and you'll be able to talk to them about anything.
#208067 to #208051 - theguywhoaskswhy
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(02/10/2016) [-]
Step 1. Poison her coffee.

OR

Step 1. Gather all your friend together and tell them you're staging an intervention for your ex-friend. Tell them of this emotional abuse and tell them that you suspect it is due to drug use and that you "just want your best friend back". This way, your friends will see the caring and loving you, while taking her gossip (or however one generally thieves friends) less seriously.
Step 2. Carry out supposed intervention. One of two things will happen.
a) she's shocked and tries to argue, not convincing anyone due to her supposed drugged up state. ("No one lies like an addict" is a good phrase here), keep yourself composed but imminently concerned, if she pushes you away, try to appear even more concerned.
b) she's shocked and tries to argue, convincing everyone due to her "High charisma". And in this your reaction should be the same. Push for concern. This is not an aggressive thing you're doing. You are not seeking to harm your friend. You care about her and want her back.
Step 3. Regardless of the outcome of "the intervention", you have demonstrated to your collective friend that you are a loving human being, who has only the best intentions. And when your ex-friend tries to slander you, your real friends will remember when you showed her nothing but love.
Step 4. Continue as normal. If anyone brings up the intervention, remain vague, say "I've done all I can. Then rest is up to her." etc.

OR

Step 1. Go full on aggressive. Steal her underwear, all of it, and sell it online. Slash her tyres. Send her boyfriend a text as though it were she texting her "on the side" lover. Remove the toilet seat from all the toilets in the house. Eat all her fridge food. dye all of her work clothes "by accident". Kill her pets/siblings and start sending pieces of their corpses to her in the mail. Remove the battery from her car keys then fill the lock with superglue. Laxitives come in both solid and liquid forms, I suggest you make use of both. Hide things of hers in strange places around the apartment. Try old school pranks, bucket of water over the door, hand in warm water, Whoopee cushion. Scaring her through generic and over used means.
#208085 to #208067 - rebexa
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(02/10/2016) [-]
This is what I needed to hear today. Thank you.
#208112 to #208085 - theguywhoaskswhy
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(02/11/2016) [-]
I figured as much.
If none of that works, best advice would just to talk to your friend. Tell them how you're feeling, whats going on... And try not to bitch, coz thats what Bitchface No. 1 will be doing.
#208113 to #208112 - rebexa
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(02/11/2016) [-]
I've tried talking to her about it but she refused to listen. At this point I'm trying to remove myself from the situation, but I'm afraid that I'm going to lose my other friends in the process as well.
#208114 to #208113 - theguywhoaskswhy
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(02/11/2016) [-]
I meant **Talk to your other friends.
Bitchface No. 1 sounds like a lost cause until she gets her head out of her ass. And there's nothing you can do about that.
#208115 to #208114 - rebexa
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(02/11/2016) [-]
I should've caught that. Lol

The problem is that they're completely aware of the situation and haven't really done anything about it. They'd rather just keep things the way they are.
#208117 to #208115 - theguywhoaskswhy
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(02/11/2016) [-]
Alternately, go find some male friends (that don't want to fuck you) and never have this problem again.
#208138 to #208117 - rebexa
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(02/11/2016) [-]
For some reason this is harder than I've always expected. I'm anything but a flirt. I don't even know how to flirt. Yet all of my guy friends seem to fall for me at one point or another.
#208142 to #208138 - theguywhoaskswhy
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(02/12/2016) [-]
Possibly because you're adorable.
#208143 to #208142 - rebexa
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(02/12/2016) [-]
#208145 to #208143 - theguywhoaskswhy
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(02/12/2016) [-]
Well... If only I knew how to follow up a compliment.
#208146 to #208145 - rebexa
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(02/12/2016) [-]
Sorry, I'm bad at taking compliments. But thank you. I do appreciate it. Lol
#208116 to #208115 - theguywhoaskswhy
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(02/11/2016) [-]
Hmm....
Then I recommend alcohol. Lots of it.
#208139 to #208116 - rebexa
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(02/11/2016) [-]
This, I can do.
#208066 to #208051 - theguywhoaskswhy
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#208054 to #208051 - anon
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(02/10/2016) [-]
Tell them about the situation like you just told us or fuck off. If you want to keep your friends work for it and let them know. If you just complain about it and do nothing else nobody would be surprised if done of them left.
#208049 - notred
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(02/10/2016) [-]
I've had girls tell me they enjoy how confident I sound and how abrasive I am. They like how I don't have a filter and don't give a shit about what I say to people.

I feel like I'm one of those assholes that people resent.
#208073 to #208049 - alexanderburns
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(02/10/2016) [-]
wow no way
#208060 to #208049 - anon
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(02/10/2016) [-]
Nah. That's murrlogic.
#208050 to #208049 - anon
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(02/10/2016) [-]
CHAD LEAVE

REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE
#208047 - anon
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(02/10/2016) [-]
hey so I have to go to court because my mom called the cops on me for being an unruly child. It was just a simple argument,I didn't touch her or threaten her in anyway. what can I expect?
#208069 to #208047 - theguywhoaskswhy
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(02/10/2016) [-]
Expect to be treated like a criminal.
Don't act like one.
Speak only when spoken to.
At all other times, listen carefully and formulate arguments accordingly.
Don't shout, don't act like an asshole, and wear a fucking suit or at least suit pants and a shirt.
#208056 to #208047 - anon
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(02/10/2016) [-]
Why did she do it then?
If you don't know why that means one of two things. Either she is abusive and legit hates you or you're in denial about being an asshole in some way shape or form.
#208026 - jaytothadee
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(02/10/2016) [-]
Valentines day is coming around the corner....my parents are going out of the house and my brother is going on a date with his girlfriend all day. they want me to be out of the house with somebody...I have no friends and the friends i tell them about I lie because I dont want them thinking im more of a fuckup than i already am. Theres this girl that ive been talking to for a week. We click really well but its only been a week and its too early to ask her out.The only other person I could is someone i skype with every night but shes 7 hours away...Ive been thinking either ask this girl out or stay home and drink and be miserable...I know if I ask her out theres a huge chance she will say no but still should I take that chance?
#208119 to #208026 - jaytothadee
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(02/11/2016) [-]
>>#208070, >>#208040, >>#208045, >>#208048, welp I asked her out...She litterally didnt respond. ): and to make things worse turns out my dogs dying and I litterally just want to cry
#208120 to #208119 - confusedasian
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(02/11/2016) [-]
S-so, we're not gonna get together and play something?
#208182 to #208120 - jaytothadee
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(02/12/2016) [-]
Oh dood im so sorry ): we might be able to play leauge with a few kids from school...but some kids at school invited me out with them they were single too so i said why not
#208048 to #208026 - confusedasian
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(02/10/2016) [-]
Well, if you do decide to stay home, are you American? And do you play League or do you have steam? I also have Battleblock theatre, castle crashers, chivalry medieval warfare, counter strike global offensive (I suck dick though.), don't starve together, dragon ball xenoverse, saints row 4, I also have dirty bomb, but if you want to play that I'll need to reinstall it. I have skype too so we can goof off or whatever. I don't judge.
#208045 to #208026 - cycloneclone
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(02/10/2016) [-]
just be yourself : )
#208040 to #208026 - spaceking
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(02/10/2016) [-]
Ask her out dude, nobody wants to be alone on Valentines.
If she says yes, awesome, you got a date, if she turns you down, then you actually have an excuse to drink alone.
#208070 to #208040 - theguywhoaskswhy
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(02/10/2016) [-]
^ This is actually a brilliant plan. Because not only is the drinking justified to yourself, it can be justified to your family to.
#208029 to #208026 - sugoi
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(02/10/2016) [-]
Go for it.
#208033 to #208029 - jaytothadee
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(02/10/2016) [-]
The drinking or the girl?
#208038 to #208033 - lgninjaleetful
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(02/10/2016) [-]
go get the girl fam. what do you have to lose?
#208034 to #208033 - sugoi
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(02/10/2016) [-]
If you're really asking that question then it's already over.
Just stay home and drink.
#208020 - balor
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(02/09/2016) [-]
I need to delete my account.
Trying to quit all social media and curb my addiction.

How would I go about doing this?
#208103 to #208020 - icefried
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(02/11/2016) [-]
You can't delete your FJ account anymore.
#208098 to #208020 - theruse
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(02/11/2016) [-]
By deleting your account.
#208046 to #208020 - cycloneclone
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(02/10/2016) [-]
better to just off yourself completely : )
#208028 to #208020 - sugoi
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(02/10/2016) [-]
Post NSFW in SFW and get perma banned.
Or post something else that's illegal like CP links to drug websites or the addresses of several users.

Or just you know, download a shitty program that lets you block websites to stop you accessing them, better yet get some self control and do nothing.
#208025 to #208020 - braveblue ONLINE
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(02/10/2016) [-]
Cleanse yourself of the internet, block all your social media sites.
#208024 to #208020 - anon
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(02/10/2016) [-]
you can't for FJ.

best you can do is just make an impossible password and stop coming to the site.
#208014 - murrlogic
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(02/09/2016) [-]
I can't fucking believe it takes 25 minutes to get a fucking prescription filled

Get your fucking shit together target i'm dying here
#208094 to #208014 - flnonymousseven ONLINE
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(02/10/2016) [-]
here you go
/hating/
#208023 to #208014 - plantain
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(02/09/2016) [-]
Why don't you go vote for Bernie?
#208006 - notred
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(02/09/2016) [-]
I had a hook up yesterday night.

The thing is though, for most of my hook ups I really can't get my dick going. I mean, it works fine when I'm dating somebody, it's just that I can't for the life of me get it up for somebody I don't really know.

Honestly, it kinda makes me feel a little bit better about myself even though it was HUMILIATING yesterday night because I think that I unconsciously only want sex if it's an actual relationship.

IT's also a little humiliating to post here about it, but this place is anonymous for a reason I guess.
#208041 to #208006 - alexanderburns
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(02/10/2016) [-]
just think about adunsaveme
#208019 to #208006 - sugoi
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(02/09/2016) [-]
Viagra
#208021 to #208019 - notred
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(02/09/2016) [-]
shuddup
#208027 to #208021 - sugoi
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(02/10/2016) [-]
Hard up
#208030 to #208027 - notred
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(02/10/2016) [-]
you're just jelly cause I wont get it up for you.
#208031 to #208030 - sugoi
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(02/10/2016) [-]
I don't want anyone to get it up for me.
For you see I do not like wieners, someone getting hard up for me is the last thing I want.
#208032 to #208031 - notred
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(02/10/2016) [-]
well, that's pree normal.
#208007 to #208006 - notred
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(02/09/2016) [-]
I forgot to post my advice thingy.

ITT: does anyone here have the same problem as me? or am I the only one?
#208015 to #208007 - gabsmatags
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(02/09/2016) [-]
Regardless of how (un)common your "problem" might be, A LOT of girls will appreciate that. It's actually a pretty attractive thing to see someone who only has an interest in sex with someone they care about. Any future girlfriends you have are going to feel loved as fuck and attractive like all hell to know you can only get it up for them. You're gonna get your bones jumped on the reg if you let that be known in your next relationship.
#208016 to #208015 - notred
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(02/09/2016) [-]
No offense, but telling girls I can't get it up is the last thing I'll be saying to them lol.
#208017 to #208016 - gabsmatags
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(02/09/2016) [-]
Well ya don't just say "yo, I don't get bones lol." You explain that casual sex just isn't arousing and you only feel aroused when you're with your girl because you love her. It'll make her feel special or some shit, idk how to explain it really.
#208022 to #208017 - notred
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(02/09/2016) [-]
Honestly, talking about having hook ups with other girls to your current girlfriend sounds like a bad idea in general.

Maybe you wouldn't care, but most people would. nobody likes hearing about other peoples ex's.
#208008 to #208007 - anon
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(02/09/2016) [-]
Happened to me the only time I ever tried hooking up with a random girl. Like everything was fine until we actually started having sex and my dick was just like "You know what? I changed my mind. Leave me alone skank."
#208009 to #208008 - notred
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(02/09/2016) [-]
we were having fun and talking and everything got down the brass tax. and she was blowing me, but it just wouldn't get up.

I finished her off, but like, she isn't calling me lol.
#208010 to #208009 - anon
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(02/09/2016) [-]
Girl's take that shit personally.
#208011 to #208010 - notred
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(02/09/2016) [-]
I know. It's not like I did it on purpose.
#208012 to #208011 - anon
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(02/09/2016) [-]
Nah, no one does. Hopefully she's not a cunt and won't go sharing that with her friends.
#208013 to #208012 - notred
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(02/09/2016) [-]
she doesn't know my name and I don't know hers. lol
#208000 - smartythechicken
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(02/09/2016) [-]
also, i read something about trump is gonna nuke denmark. any thoughts?
#208001 to #208000 - sugoi
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(02/09/2016) [-]
4realz?
What's your source? 4chan?
#208002 to #208001 - smartythechicken
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(02/09/2016) [-]
its in danish tho
nyheder.tv2.dk/udland/2016-02-04-donald-trump-vil-atombombe-danmark-her-er-internettets-svar
as far as i can understand what its saying, trump claims that ted stole Iowa.
then ted claims that trump will nuke denmark
or something
fuck if i know
fucking childish politicians
#208003 to #208002 - sugoi
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(02/09/2016) [-]
He was making a metaphor.
"we are liable to wake up one morning and Donald, if he were president would've nuked Denmark."
Bruh....

Well I guess this is how Chinese Whispers starts.
#208004 to #208003 - smartythechicken
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(02/09/2016) [-]
oh
well you can fuck me running
#207998 - smartythechicken
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(02/09/2016) [-]
i dont know man
how many in here knows me, or have seen any of my comments? do you find them funny? should i just stop? am i full of shit?
any tips on how to improve?
#208039 to #207998 - spaceking
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(02/10/2016) [-]
I wouldn't take it so seriously. Only post a comment if you can easily think of something funny and/or relatable.
#207992 - murrlogic
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(02/09/2016) [-]
I want you to be realistic with me.

Would you fuck a user on this site? Deep down we all know that the one user EVERYONE wants to get inside of
#208044 to #207992 - misticalz
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(02/10/2016) [-]
YeahVinyl
#207997 to #207992 - anon
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(02/09/2016) [-]
Jeez, if you want someone to be your valentine all you gotta do is ask.
#207993 to #207992 - kimmu
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(02/09/2016) [-]
You
#207987 - mariopimpjr
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(02/09/2016) [-]
why dont people like childrens hospitals? everyone seems to dislike them and not want to help
#207988 to #207987 - anon
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(02/09/2016) [-]
and you're basing that off of what?
#207989 to #207988 - mariopimpjr
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(02/09/2016) [-]
i'm trying to help a childrens hospital, raise money, get people involved and they always have negative things to say and dont want anything to do with it
#207995 to #207989 - sugoi
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(02/09/2016) [-]
What are the negative things they say?
#208005 to #207995 - mariopimpjr
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(02/09/2016) [-]
like its good that theyre dying, they dont care that they die, im going to use money for drugs
#208018 to #208005 - sugoi
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(02/09/2016) [-]
It feels like you're pulling a strawman here but whatever.
#208035 to #208018 - mariopimpjr
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(02/10/2016) [-]
im not
#208036 to #208035 - sugoi
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(02/10/2016) [-]
Either they're lying to you or you're lying.

No one just says "I'm going to use money for drugs" for realzies.
#208037 to #208036 - mariopimpjr
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(02/10/2016) [-]
it was just one person that said it. he just thought i was going to
#208042 to #208037 - sugoi
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(02/10/2016) [-]
You do not use the word "people" to describe one person.
That is misleading maaaaaan.

People don't like childrens hospitals? you just asked one guy?
#208043 to #208042 - mariopimpjr
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(02/10/2016) [-]
i asked a lot of people, they all said screw the hospital in some way or said no
#208071 to #208043 - sugoi
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(02/10/2016) [-]
Maybe they just want regular hospitals.
Ones that treat both adults and kids.
#207990 to #207989 - anon
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(02/09/2016) [-]
if you're doing it via the internet, that's why.

People will think it's a scam.
#207991 to #207990 - mariopimpjr
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(02/09/2016) [-]
theres people getting over a million dollars on those funding sites though. mine would help save kids lives
#207986 - sweetbutteryjesus
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(02/09/2016) [-]
Senioritis hit me like a goddamn truck.
Went from an 89 in Calc to a 78 in the span of a month.
Send help.
#207984 - Churd
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(02/08/2016) [-]
How do you get jizz out of cat fur?
#207999 to #207984 - smartythechicken
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(02/09/2016) [-]
what the fuck did you do

use fire
-not on the cat, use it on yourself
#207985 to #207984 - justamollusk
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(02/08/2016) [-]
Baking soda and lemon juice.
#207966 - plantain
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(02/08/2016) [-]
With the primaries already underway, you should educate yourself on the current presidential candidates. If you don't have a clear idea of who you should support, check out this site:
www.isidewith.com/

I don't actually support Bernie or Clinton because the issues we agree on aren't as significant as others, and I just don't agree with a lot of their proposed policies/activities.

I'm a former Rand, now Rubio supporter.
#207972 to #207966 - jettom
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(02/08/2016) [-]
Ted Cruz. Though I'll still vote for Trump as I believe he has a higher chance of actually enforcing the politics.
#207973 to #207972 - plantain
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(02/08/2016) [-]
I'd support anyone over Cruz or Clinton: they're both snakes.
#207974 to #207973 - jettom
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(02/08/2016) [-]
Jeb did really well in the New Hampshire debate. If he had delivered like that from the start he'd be the shooting star everyone expected him to be
#207975 to #207974 - plantain
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(02/08/2016) [-]
Jeb seems like a really nice guy who actually has a plan. However, I'm afraid he'd just let himself be bullied by foreign leaders like he's let Trump and others do to him.

I prefer Rubio because he's a lot like Jeb, but he's just a stronger person. Plus, he's more likely to win.

Carson might also do well with foreign relations because I've never actually seen him stumped. He's just too calm to leave himself open to a devastating attack.
#207980 to #207975 - jettom
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(02/08/2016) [-]
I think Jeb would make a really good Vice-President. But he is a Bush and I expect that name alone would make the enemies of USA less foolhardy in trade with him, I also believe he'd try his best to live up to his Dad and Brother. In any way he can't be worse than the beggar in chief USA employs today. As it's been stated, Trump wrote the book on making a good deal. He'd get his way in Congress, the proper way. Cruz is non-negotiating and would just continue Obama's Legacy of Veto's.

I'm against Rubio today because he does not have the experience to be a President. He's the Crown Prince of Republicans and in 20 years from now the Rubio name will have more power behind it than Reagan for Republicans if he keeps this up, but as Chris stated, he's simply not educated enough. Chris shot down the shooting star that is Marco masterfully in New Hampshire. Rubio will make a fantastic President - in 2036.

Chris Christie DESTROYS Marco Rubio (Full Clip)

I don't think Carson would do well with foreign relations. He speaks without confidence. I honestly expect Trump to be the best among all the candidates when it comes to foreign relations. The man runs a company worth billions and has contacts in every nation. He knows more of what goes on in China, Saudi Arabia, Syria, Libya, Sudan and Iran than what any of the other candidates could hope to achieve as a result. And while it is true that many people in power across NATO, especially EU, is opposed to Trump today, there's a right-wing wave hitting all of the western world hard right now. In 2017-2018 most of the european nations will have their elections, and I believe every nation will change who sits on the throne. Especially the German people.
#207969 to #207966 - whitechino
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(02/08/2016) [-]
I'm for Bernie
-Let Woman and Children Syrians come.
-pro choice
-keep obama care
-gun rights are good, state should have huge data base
-fuk nasa
#207970 to #207969 - plantain
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(02/08/2016) [-]
-Same. I'm for refugee families being allowed to come into the States. In the case of single male refugees being allowed in, I would penalize them for not seeking some form of work, whether it be as an unpaid volunteer or a regular job. If they got a regular minimum wage job, I would allow them to use their salary as they see fit while still being provided wiht government aid due to their refugee status.

- I'm pro-Life and consider abortion morally wrong past a certain point, but I definitely support it in situations where the life of the mother is threatened (I believe even the Church allows this). In cases of rape, I would also support it being allowed. I realize it isn't realistic for abortion to be done away with, and I support funding Planned Parenthood so that they can provide alternatives such as birth control and reference to adoption agencies to reduce the record amounts of abortion in the U.S.

-I say to keep Obamacare but modify it. It's a good concept, but it requires work that Obama wasn't willing/able to do.

-Gun ownership should require a background check and full disclosure of mental conditions, unless it's just a situation of a dad giving his son his old gun. People on the No-Fly list should be denied gun ownership.

-Increase and continue funding for NASA. The U.S. was the nation that put the first man on the moon, and I think it would be shameful not to continue looking into the greatest mystery of our time, especially after all we've discovered recently.
#207971 to #207970 - whitechino
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(02/08/2016) [-]
We can agree on some things then. I never liked Nasa, Women should have a choice since you know, it;s their body and to me, baby's don't get a soul till they're older so fuck em till then
To me it's choice first, then constitution, then morals and money.
#207967 to #207966 - whitechino
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(02/08/2016) [-]
Is there a way to post all my choices for ya to shit on?
#207968 to #207967 - plantain
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(02/08/2016) [-]
Click on "Compare Answers" when you're done and it should display a list of what you chose.
#207965 - boeka
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(02/08/2016) [-]
Fighting almost daily with my GF of 1,5 years, 0,5 in long distance.

When is enough enough?
#207976 to #207965 - epicextreme
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(02/08/2016) [-]
Tough one, have you asked how she feels about the long distance?
#207977 to #207976 - boeka
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(02/08/2016) [-]
She's not exactly a talker. Where as I talk a lot. I mean a lot. I probably should ask.
#207978 to #207977 - epicextreme
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(02/08/2016) [-]
sounds like she doesn't make it much easier by not talking to you much, I'd say just ask her how she feels about it now that the long distance has been put into practice for some time now. Just be honest about these arguments, tell her you're finding it hard because she doesn't communicate much which should be important given the distance.
how much longer will you both be long distance if you don't mind me asking?
#207979 to #207978 - boeka
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(02/08/2016) [-]
The original plan was to manage long distance 2-4 years because of universities in different cities. Life's hard.
#207981 to #207979 - epicextreme
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(02/08/2016) [-]
dang, that's a long ass time. Well I hope everything works out for you both. If you want to talk about it I'll be free
#207983 to #207981 - boeka
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(02/08/2016) [-]
Thanks buddy. I'll keep you updated if I remember.
#207964 - murrlogic
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(02/08/2016) [-]
Am at hospital

Been here for over an hour waiting to get whatever miracle placebo they can give me so I can finally go back to work.
#207982 to #207964 - anon
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(02/08/2016) [-]
What you ill with?
#207996 to #207982 - sugoi
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(02/09/2016) [-]
Life
#207962 - anon
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(02/08/2016) [-]
Me and my ex got into a fight. We've had an on/off thing for a while now, and idk what to do anymore.

The argument itself doesn't matter, but if you want to hear it: Basically I said that rapists are to blame for their crimes, but we still have to teach women and men, a few tips on how to avoid, escape situations that will end in rape.

of course she said that i'm "victim blaming" even though I clearly said rapists are still to blame. Then she tried to give me shitty situations like "they don't teach you how to get shot!" and then I said "actually, they do offer classes that would include treating bullet wounds, and anyone with common sense knows how to avoid some situations that involve getting shot" and so on.

and i'm really condensing this 3 hour argument here, but basically she convinced me of nothing. Women should be taught common sense tips like trying to let someone know where you're going and when you'll be back or carrying mace. This does not equal victim blaming. she suggested teaching rapists not to rape, but that didn't work well with murder or literally any other crime.


Basically I want to find someone else, but I still kind of don't. She could very easily be fooling around with other guys already, and honestly nothing should be stopping me from doing the same with women.

I'm definitely an asshole and i'm hard to love, but there were definitely times in this relationship where I knew it wasn't my fault and it was all her. I feel like our relationship fluctuates between "total shit" and "just okay." There are a couple good times scattered here and there, but they're outweighed by the bad. Having said that, I still feel like it's wrong to just go and date someone else.

TL ; DR My ex and I had a fight, and idk if I should walk away or what
#207963 to #207962 - nigerianprince
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(02/08/2016) [-]
I never understood why people stay in relationships when they're clearly not happy. The only reason people stay is because it's "safe" and "comfortable". If you're not happy, fuck it and leave, you don't need that negative shit dragging you down.
#207960 - charizarddad
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(02/08/2016) [-]
1. I have a budget of $350, looking to get a guitar. I'm thinking about getting an Ibanez RG6003FM www.amazon.com/Ibanez-RG6003FM-Electric-Vintage-Na mainly for the wizard neck, and i like the style as well. My friend also suggested an Omen 6 www.amazon.com/Schecter-Omen-6-Electric-Guitar-Bla . I am still learning and just play guitar for fun, usually ranging from alt rock to metal/metalcore.

2. Where should I go to get my first car? I'm sick of getting bullshitted honestly, it's annoying how people always try to sell up the car when they are obviously overplaying it and using buzzwords and shit. I wan't to know the straight facts about the car. I'm still thinking about the budget, I have about $1500 now but will continue to save, I was going to look for something in the $2k range. Should I go higher? I would be willing to go higher but saving takes a while for me. I just need something to get me to work and the grocery store mostly(which are pretty close to me already) and won't shit out on me(as in I'd like to keep it for a couple years at least).
#207956 - murrlogic
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(02/08/2016) [-]
Last night my boss called and told me to not come into work today

Apparently the head water pipe broke and the entire ceiling collapsed with running water.

...Well I couldn't go in anyway since i'm STILL FUCKING SICK but fine...guess i'll just go to the hospital today
#207955 - thumbsdenied
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(02/08/2016) [-]
I keep getting cuts inside my ass while wiping after shits and theres always a quite alot of blood. The bowl looks like a murder scene. I use very soft paper, softest available. Still always get cuts.
Now... I have a upset stomach 24/7 for the past 8 years, IBS as they call it, i dispose quite alot of chocolate sherbet a day and serving most of them with strawberry sauce aint healthy because of the cut opening so easily.
Should i ditch paper for awhile and only use water to clean myself to let the cut heal abit? I dont want a infection and ive been to the hospital few times from this and they say i dont gotta worry about it. Also i rather dont like when the doctors little piggy goes to the market if you get my drift when getting it checked.
#207994 to #207955 - anon
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(02/09/2016) [-]
I think its a anal fissure
#207961 to #207955 - anon
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(02/08/2016) [-]
I think you should see a doctor.
#207957 to #207955 - anon
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(02/08/2016) [-]
You could use one of dem baby wipes instead of toilet paper. If you don't want an infection you should clean your area with water after pooping