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User avatar #95746 - bladebites (09/16/2013) [-]
I don't know if you guys like writing, but I've got a piece that I would like opinions on. Don't sugar coat anything; I don't like this piece, but I can't put my finger on why, so criticism will help me more than compliments, even if it's harsh.
User avatar #95700 - bluzzerstream (09/15/2013) [-]
Is there anyone ere who can honestly say they've experienced lucid dreaming. I've tried and I'm starting to doubt it. Are there any easy actually working ways to learn i?
User avatar #95748 to #95700 - bladebites (09/16/2013) [-]
I do it maybe twice a week. I could try to explain, but it's a rather weird process;
I started off noticing black and white clowns in the background of my dreams, and it would make sorta notice that I was dreaming.
About a year ago the clowns stopped, so I started seeing bubbles, and when I saw the bubbles I would know I was dreaming and sort of "snap out of it" enough to lucid dream.
What I can't explain well is how the whole "noticing" thing started, which is kind of important. I guess it comes naturally to me, but I hope that was helpful. c:
User avatar #95765 to #95748 - bluzzerstream (09/16/2013) [-]
Yeah I've read about that and pushing your finger into your hand to see if it goes through and shit. I tried an app as the guy underneath me said. Tonight it didn't but I barely heard it when I woke up so it might be because I had to low volume
User avatar #95838 to #95765 - bladebites (09/16/2013) [-]
Also, if there are books, look through the pages. I've never tried that one myself, but supposedly the pages will be blank or gibberish if you're dreaming.
User avatar #95703 to #95700 - advicedude (09/15/2013) [-]
There are actually quite a few apps on it.
User avatar #95709 to #95703 - bluzzerstream (09/15/2013) [-]
android apps?
User avatar #95710 to #95709 - advicedude (09/15/2013) [-]
Yep.
User avatar #95711 to #95710 - bluzzerstream (09/15/2013) [-]
Oh shit, I actually found some, thanks I guess but I don't know if they'll work yet
+1
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User avatar #95704 to #95694 - advicedude (09/15/2013) [-]
Not as fast but fast enough.
User avatar #95692 - frozo ONLINE (09/15/2013) [-]
I'm writing a student council presidency speech (11th grade), and although I know it's a popularity vote in the end I feel like I could be the best leader of them all. I can argue very well (Captain in Varsity Debate) and I'm relatively smart. I'm not too popular however.

What should I include/say?
User avatar #95749 to #95692 - bladebites (09/16/2013) [-]
The student body likes funny but serious; think "funny teacher/professional". Funny professionals stay on topic, but can joke about the topic.
Be funny enough to keep your topic interesting, but don't rely on things that are normally funny to bail you out. You most likely won't be focusing on anything funny. Like let's say for example that you're doing a speech on math. Math sucks. Math is not funny. You have to make math funny. Don't joke about things that are not part of your topic, make what you're actually talking about interesting or amusing. People will actually want to listen to you, while also gaining information about your campaign.
I speak from experience; I was quiet as all hell in middle school, maybe three friends in total; I was voted class president 6th and 7th grade, and vice president 8th grade using this method.
#95691 - transgendered (09/15/2013) [-]
Hey. Long story short, I'm pretty sure I'm a little schizophrenic. Or at least just have psychotic symptoms. Basically, I think weird things that should sound completely stupid, but I still believe them.
And recently, I came up with a hypothesis. And I regret thinking this, coz its stuck. But theres this Girl I like called Aly. And for whatever reason, I think I've absorbed part of her personality. I dont know why I thought that, or why it happened, or why anything. I just know that to me, it is the truth.
Basically, I noticed that the faces I do and the way I act is exactly the way she does it... not with everything, but with quite a lot. Like when I start running, I instinctively put one arm across my chest to stop my boobs bouncing about... and I'm a guy. And my walk has changed too. I kinda like, swing my arms out as I walk.
and I know none of this makes sense, and I dont expect it Part of me just likes to get it off my chest. Part of me wants to ind a way to apologise for it without sounding too weird... but I'm sure I'll stop thinking about it soon enough either way...
User avatar #95696 to #95691 - thisistheguy (09/15/2013) [-]
How long have you known her? The more you get to know someone the more you mimic their actions.
#95693 to #95691 - transgendered (09/15/2013) [-]
And its scary because I'm not sure if its just her personality rubbing off on me, or I'm stealing her essence and killing her...
User avatar #95751 to #95693 - bladebites (09/16/2013) [-]
My ex and I did this to each other all the time, we called it "rubbing off on each other" and it was kinda a huge joke to us. He used to twirl his drumsticks, so I got into the habit of twirling drumsticks in my fingers when I actually had none. From personal experience, it was never harmful. Just subconscious, copying things we liked, I guess.
User avatar #95689 - thisistheguy (09/15/2013) [-]
Are there any programs I can download where I can mix music together into one big song? I wanna do something more or less like this - www.mixcloud.com/DJSharK/dance-dance-revolution-ddr-3rd-mix-3rd-mix-nonstop-megamix/
User avatar #95688 - harbingerwolf (09/15/2013) [-]
Sick of being alone and never having a girlfriend, 21 in a couple of months.
Wat do?

All my social groups arent much help and hardly do anything, and so i pretty much never go out. Feels like all there is to life at the minute is work, which is really really depressing at the minute.

Is internet dating worth a shot?
User avatar #95802 to #95688 - alphabethsoop (09/16/2013) [-]
You know you don't have to always be with your friends. You could go out and do something on your own to meet new people. Go to a show for a band you wouldn't normally see and talk to the people there. Its a great way to make new friends. You might even meet a special someone there.
User avatar #95732 to #95688 - thedudeistheman (09/16/2013) [-]
Yeah, I'd say it's worth a shot. I mean, there are many people who have significant relationships with people they meet on dating sites (some people meet on other sites just through the community, but I wouldn't recommend this as it's much riskier than a dating website).

I don't speak from experience, but sometimes you just need to hear outside thoughts about something.
User avatar #95731 to #95688 - advicedude (09/16/2013) [-]
I would try it. There are some good apps like Tinder and MeetMe. Other than that you can try online stuff.
User avatar #95705 to #95688 - advicedude (09/15/2013) [-]
How old are you?
User avatar #95713 to #95705 - awesomerninjathing (09/16/2013) [-]
>21 in a couple of months
#95687 - longboarding (09/15/2013) [-]
I'm 15 years old and I've gone through some experiences in my life that my psychiatrist describes as traumatic (Mom being alcoholic and drug abuser, dad getting diagnosed with cancer, going into a coma for 6 months, getting early onset dementia, mom leaving us 4 times and she's gone right now and has been for 3 months, etc) and now since my mom has left for the 4th time, my psychiatrist thinks I'm severely depressed. I'm bored constantly, I keep waiting for something to happen, I'm achieving significant goals but I don't feel gratification, I've lost interest in most of my hobbies, and I just look towards the future as the promise land. I'm just really confused because I'm really happy that my mom left, it's the best thing that's ever happened to me, my dad's gotten better because now he's taking all of his meds because my mom's not trying to keep him bed ridden or steal his pain medication, I can go places with out her shutting down all my plans because my dad lets me, I got to take driver's ed classes finally and earn my hardship license, and stuff like that that I couldn't do before. I just don't know why I feel like I'm in a purgitorial stage of life waiting to move on to bigger and better things. I've always had really big aspirations and I'm accomplishing all my goals that are stepping stones to get to them. I want to go to a great college like Stanford or one in the Ivy League and major in accounting, get my master's, and head off to wall street or snag a position high up in a bank that would take many years to achieve otherwise. I'm taking the highest level classes I can take as a sophomore, and I'm getting a 4.3 out of a possible 4.5, and I'm getting really high scores on my PSATs (184 as a freshman) and other standardized tests (top 1 or 2 percentile in everything) I have a lot of friends, I'm popular, I have a girlfriend out of my league, I just don't get why I feel like this.
User avatar #95752 to #95687 - bladebites (09/16/2013) [-]
"I'm bored constantly, I keep waiting for something to happen"
I feel this all the time. Like, 24/7. you have no idea what a relief it is to know it's not just me.
User avatar #95695 to #95687 - philliyoMLB (09/15/2013) [-]
>friends
>popular
>girlfriend
Why won't you go talk to them about it?
#95697 to #95695 - longboarding (09/15/2013) [-]
They don't need to deal with my burden.
User avatar #95698 to #95697 - philliyoMLB (09/15/2013) [-]
Yes they do, that kind of logic can make you lose friends. It's WAAAAAAAY better than asking a bunch of people on the internet what to do.
User avatar #95690 to #95687 - thisistheguy (09/15/2013) [-]
You just experienced some trauma at an early age, I'd say just give it time and you will feel better. Try to pursue the things that you love to do and work out, they will release endorphins making you feel better.
#95675 - laundrysmeller (09/15/2013) [-]
Hello Advice!     
My boyfriend and I have a 2 year anniversary coming up.   
And I could really use some inspiration, so I was just wondering.. what is your personal idea of a romantic day, gift, thing to do, etc?
Hello Advice!
My boyfriend and I have a 2 year anniversary coming up.
And I could really use some inspiration, so I was just wondering.. what is your personal idea of a romantic day, gift, thing to do, etc?
User avatar #95714 to #95675 - silverzepher ONLINE (09/16/2013) [-]
depends on what he likes, i mean you could always open the back door, butt that isn't the tip of the problem here. what does he like to do?
User avatar #95812 to #95714 - laundrysmeller (09/16/2013) [-]
I wish I knew.
when it comes to sex, i'm the one who likes to experiment the most.
I've asked him directly what he would like and not much of a response :/

He's the typical gamer/geek guy, like the most of the fj-community if that helps ...
User avatar #95706 to #95675 - advicedude (09/15/2013) [-]
Let him do that thing you never let him do.
User avatar #95701 to #95675 - drewshadow (09/15/2013) [-]
Well what does your boyfriend love doing that he rarely gets to do?
User avatar #95664 - beddeb (09/15/2013) [-]
Now I dont want to be the typical angsty teenager but how do you tell if you actually are depressed. I can go into more detail about myself in a pm if you actually feel like helping. If not, well, thats no news to me.
User avatar #95667 to #95664 - sadawedsa **User deleted account** (09/15/2013) [-]
You get bored easily
Disinterested in stuff you used to like
Living is a chore to you in some sorts, you are mostly not satisfied with life
You live day by day waiting for something to happen
User avatar #95760 to #95667 - bladebites (09/16/2013) [-]
All of those apply to me, but I still feel kind of stupid saying I might have depression. It seems like it's a much bigger deal than whatever's going on with me, and like it's insulting to people who actually have depression to say my angsty teenager bullshit is depression.
I dunno. Sometimes it goes away, but when it comes back it hits like a brick in the face, for basically no reason. Like, I could be about to do something I really love, like go on vacation or something, and be completely unable to feel "happy" about it for seemingly no reason. I can never come up with what's causing the shitty mood, and everything seems fine, but I'm just...sad. For no reason. And it doesn't go away.
It sucks.
User avatar #95681 to #95667 - bluzzerstream (09/15/2013) [-]
All those apply perfectly to me but I wouldn't want to call myself depressed...
I would add:
Constantly (really all the time) feeling down and hopeing for something better and never erally being happy
User avatar #95668 to #95667 - beddeb (09/15/2013) [-]
wonderful. all of those apply...
User avatar #95670 to #95668 - sadawedsa **User deleted account** (09/15/2013) [-]
I actually wanted to work out so much I ended up hurting my arm
User avatar #95671 to #95670 - beddeb (09/15/2013) [-]
I have goals and shit. like I want to play guitar and yes be fit too but Ill try them and then just keep failing, feel like shit about it, eventually try again, fail again and its just a vicious cycle.. also I just feel alone in a crowd and at parties I just dont have fun either. Nothing really excites me anymore. Food doesnt taste as good. Video games arent fun. Friends arent fun, considering they treat me poorly. The only thing I have clung onto this whole time is listening to music and sitting in my room.
User avatar #95673 to #95671 - sadawedsa **User deleted account** (09/15/2013) [-]
I know what that feels like. Currently my friends of 6 years are seemingly getting dull and boring to me...I guess I'll get other friends but its going to suck leaving my current friends. Just sounds like you've got a motivational problem. How do you fail at lifting weights or playing guitar? it just takes time and practice, and you've got to learn to be patient. This took me years to learn patience, and i wish someone would have told me this sooner. You wont get these things right away, because amazing things are not easy. Easy things are not amazing.
User avatar #95674 to #95673 - beddeb (09/15/2013) [-]
its just hard because you see all these people with their awesome and terrific lives handed to them on a silver fucking platter and turn out to be the shittiest, most immature people in the world.
User avatar #95676 to #95674 - sadawedsa **User deleted account** (09/15/2013) [-]
I know. I won't go into much depth in my experience for your sake, but people who earn it are always better than those who get it handed to them. I know that sounds cheesy but that is the truth. People who earn it know what it feels like to not have it, other than people who don't earn it.
User avatar #95677 to #95676 - beddeb (09/15/2013) [-]
I guess. Do you think it would pay to talk to someone like a therapist or something, do antidepressants even help?
User avatar #95678 to #95677 - sadawedsa **User deleted account** (09/15/2013) [-]
I never did any of those things. Though if you really feel like you need them, go ahead. It may give you a boost to start getting motivated, but don't depend on them. Is your problem just with failing at some things or is it bigger than that? I had to ask myself this question to find what i really needed to fix
User avatar #95679 to #95678 - beddeb (09/15/2013) [-]
I cant commit to learning something new so failing at stuff, nothing is enjoyable, everyone seems to annoy me, I feel guilty for a lot of peoples stuff even though it isnt really my fault, my friends and I are pretty much falling apart, I feel uncomfortable in big groups, I can never reciprocate the love my family gives me even though I want to, I am ashamed of my weight 190lbs, ashamed of being a virgin, ashamed of not having a girlfriend, ashamed that I cant fix my computer, ashamed that I cant even get myself to change so I can fit in with people I dont even like, ashamed that I have been set to do good things but cant seem to account for them [was selected to go to a state camp about leadership, government, etc, only a few go from school], ashamed in myself that I want to do fun stuff and be happy but can never get around to actually feeling it, disappointed that nobody really ever texts, calls, or messages me first in a conversation, ashamed that I cant take the initative to tell people how I actually feel about them and then losing opportunities to be in a relationship or actually just a good friendship..theres probably more but I cant quite think at the moment.
User avatar #95685 to #95679 - sadawedsa **User deleted account** (09/15/2013) [-]
Anyways I hoped I helped
User avatar #95680 to #95679 - sadawedsa **User deleted account** (09/15/2013) [-]
Yeah, I got some of those problems too. I try to get new friends, but I don't want to initiate every time because then It just sounds pathetic. I'm 110lbs at 16 years old. I am pretty much skinny as fuck. That's why I decided to change myself. I wont tell you some sob story that you wont care about, but you got to work for the things you want. You got to want these things. How badly do you want it? When you want to succeed as bad as you want to breathe, then you will get it.
User avatar #95669 to #95668 - sadawedsa **User deleted account** (09/15/2013) [-]
I just recently got out of my depression. All I really did was set a goal, mine was getting more fit and attractive (both physically and personally). These goals give me things to both do, and to look forward
#95657 - longboarding (09/15/2013) [-]
Does anyone else on this website have really expensive taste or just a general obsession with money? I don't know why but I do, all I know is I can't get enough.
User avatar #95761 to #95657 - bladebites (09/16/2013) [-]
I do. Tahnkfully my family makes a good deal of money and I can often buy whatever I want, but it's never enough. Like, once I get the thing I've been wanting, I go right on to wanting the next thing.
I also can't go out with less than a hundred dollars on me, it bothers me immensely.
User avatar #95707 to #95657 - advicedude (09/15/2013) [-]
I just love the smell. Window shopping is fun though.
User avatar #95682 to #95657 - bluzzerstream (09/15/2013) [-]
If it counts I like to watch blocket (swedish craig's list) for boats, like huge expensive boats I (once I get rich(if that ever happens)) can buy and spend the rest of my life on hehehehe
User avatar #95663 to #95657 - awesomerninjathing (09/15/2013) [-]
Yeah
I keep looking at clothes to buy and shit
#95637 - weirdalchemy (09/15/2013) [-]
I need a new tv show(s) and I hope you all can give me some suggestions. Dexter & Breaking Bad are ending. Burn Notice, The Killing & True Blood have ended. (TB is coming back for one more season next year.) Walking Dead, Homeland, American Horror Story, Supernatural, Vikings and The Americans aren't back yet. The Newsroom, The Bridge & Ray Donovan are good right now. (I'm still not sure how I feel about Low Winter Sun.) Can you suggest any show/shows based on the ones that I enjoy?
I spend a lot of time in the hospital and that's why so much tv. I watch it on my laptop if they don't have the channel.
Thanks!
User avatar #95750 to #95637 - thedudeistheman (09/16/2013) [-]
Freaks and Geeks
The IT Crowd
Arrested Development
Family Guy
Family Tree
Maron
Comedy Bang! Bang!
Firefly
Black Books
Spaced
Luther
Party Down
It's Always Sunny In Philadelphia
Scrubs

I know that most of them aren't similar to the shows you recommended, but they're all worth wacthing.
User avatar #95708 to #95637 - advicedude (09/15/2013) [-]
Freaks and Geeks
User avatar #95649 to #95637 - akkere (09/15/2013) [-]
Also, if you're into Roman pieces, Rome and Spartacus are pretty good ones too. Spartacus had to change the main actor however when the previous one died of cancer, which is why the last season might feel like it was a bit rushed, but it still kept it's power note.
#95659 to #95649 - longboarding (09/15/2013) [-]
THIS. SPARTACUS IS KICK ASS ME AND MY DAD WATCHED ALL THE EPISODES IN A FEW DAYS WHILE HE WAS RECOVERING FROM SURGERY
User avatar #95648 to #95637 - akkere (09/15/2013) [-]
(You probably should've posted this in Television; you might get better results there)
Boardwalk Empire is a good one. It can be confusing if you miss one episode or miss important details, so stay frosty, but overall it's a nice piece on the Prohibition Era and the rise of organized crime. And it has Steve Buscemi, so you really can't go wrong with it.
#95666 to #95648 - weirdalchemy (09/15/2013) [-]
I didn't realize there was a Television so thanks. That's good to know for the future. That sounds like a good one and I'm a Buscemi fan, so what could go wrong?
Thanks, man.
User avatar #95702 to #95666 - akkere (09/15/2013) [-]
No problem, man.
User avatar #95646 to #95637 - Timmietim (09/15/2013) [-]
Game of thrones is pretty good.
User avatar #95642 to #95637 - SuperSixONE (09/15/2013) [-]
I'd try Doctor Who, even though it might not go with all of your interests.
I would just download some of the earlier episodes, and start out with the ninth doctor.
#95672 to #95642 - weirdalchemy (09/15/2013) [-]
I've always wanted to, but I didn't know when I should start. Thanks for the suggestion of the ninth doctor.
User avatar #95628 - heraske (09/15/2013) [-]
Hey guys, got a fitness issue I'd need some help with.

My abs seem relatively weak. They do bust out when I do flex and seem large, but whenever I do crunches I can barely pass 40. It's been going on for a year now. My first guess are obliques, but I'm just exercising those due to lack of exercise (they are soft when flexed, unlike my abs which are rock hard.) I believe I have 175 lbs last time I weighed myself. I could be 180 but I tend to fluxuate between 175 and 180 (guessing it's the shitting.) I'm in relatively good shape, just need to work out on Cardio a bit. If i could have any good independent exercises that'd be great. Preferable ones without the use of weight lifting tools.
#95660 to #95628 - longboarding (09/15/2013) [-]
If you wear a belt when you lift, like most semi-serious lifters, that's why. My dad taught me everything I know about lifting and he always wore a belt, and despite a 400+ bench, 500+ deadlift and squat, and 7% body fat, he never had a six pack because he always wore a belt.
User avatar #95655 to #95628 - thisistheguy (09/15/2013) [-]
What's your body fat percentage? You can do all the crunches in the world but you won't see any changes unless you get rid of your body fat. I like doing side crunches and russian twists for obliques, and cable crunches, reverse crunches and try roman chairs for abs.
User avatar #95712 to #95655 - heraske (09/15/2013) [-]
I'd have to find that out man. Though they are slightly "popping" out. Even though I have approximately about an inch or two (between there) of belly fat. My arms don't have, probably a milimeter. I really only have belly fat.
User avatar #95715 to #95712 - thisistheguy (09/16/2013) [-]
Cardio would probably help too, that's gonna burn a lot more calories than crunches. Just keep doing ab work, get yourself in shape and don't eat too much shit if your body can't metabolize it well.
User avatar #95716 to #95715 - heraske (09/16/2013) [-]
Well think is I am in shape. I'm only 175 @ 6'2" and I can do 32 push ups with that one second hold and slow rise/descend. Same with 9 1/2 chin ups. I'm relatively in shape, if you meant me being a giant fat ass.
User avatar #95717 to #95716 - thisistheguy (09/16/2013) [-]
No I figured if you were 170-180 you were in good shape I meant just run or something that will burn calories instead of lifting
User avatar #95718 to #95717 - heraske (09/16/2013) [-]
Oh okay. I'm just not really exactly too worried about burning calories just yet. Once I get my driver's license I'll be driving to school early to use their indoor track while there's no one getting in the way of my running.
User avatar #95719 to #95718 - thisistheguy (09/16/2013) [-]
Yeah that'll work. That's the big problem with abs is that people can have crazy strong abdominal muscles but its just hidden behind a layer of fat and the only way to get rid of it is to lower the overall body fat, focusing on just abs doesn't work if you already have them.
User avatar #95720 to #95719 - heraske (09/16/2013) [-]
Well I do have abs, it's not the visual effect I'm worried about. It's just the lack of endurance I have for them. I plan on joining the CF reserves when I turn 17 and I believe it's like 60 sit ups in a minute (I can do 60 sit ups with my feet held down, it's just that I can't do the 60 crunches, I cap at 40 before I can't lift my self further.)
User avatar #95721 to #95720 - thisistheguy (09/16/2013) [-]
Try roman chairs or planks then
User avatar #95722 to #95721 - heraske (09/16/2013) [-]
Is 2:00 minutes for planking considered "in shape"?

Also, what are Roman Chairs?
User avatar #95723 to #95722 - thisistheguy (09/16/2013) [-]
You sit in a chair or platform with no back on it and lock your legs against something in front of you as you lean back and hold your body at a 45 degree angle. I've never done it because I couldn't find a chair for it but you can just make one I guess, it was Arnold Schwarzenegger's go to exercise for abs.
User avatar #95724 to #95723 - heraske (09/16/2013) [-]
Shit, really? I used to do that at one of my elementary school's picnic-style tables we had right next to the black top whenever I was bored LOL. I fuckin loved those, just never knew exactly how effective they were as i found them out by accident when I pulled the "matrix" to dodge a basketball.
User avatar #95725 to #95724 - thisistheguy (09/16/2013) [-]
Yeah he'd do them for 30 minutes and he said that was his warm up, they're supposed to be real good.
User avatar #95726 to #95725 - heraske (09/16/2013) [-]
Ah yeah... 30 minutes, the usual stuff. I think I might just work myself out and try to do maybe just above the average, like around 1 hour?
User avatar #95727 to #95726 - thisistheguy (09/16/2013) [-]
Whatever works, if you feel like you're improving keep at it. You know your body better than I do.
User avatar #95728 to #95727 - heraske (09/16/2013) [-]
But you have the chance to know my body better than I do. ;)
User avatar #95627 - gotbannedicusvile ONLINE (09/15/2013) [-]
Ok guys need some real talk. My parents are in a bit of a financial state at the moment and are very stressed. My dad works his ass of all week while my mom stays at home and,cleans,cooks, does taxes and pays bill ect ect.
I have been doing cocaine, speed and drinking almost every day and want to stop but Ive come to realize that like quitting smoking this is hard. I don't want bother my parents with this matter as they already have enough on there plate. I'm 17 and going to trade school in December. I just want to feel normal again. Any advice will help.
User avatar #95651 to #95627 - picamix (09/15/2013) [-]
whenever you feel like wanting to do drugs just do something else, like chew gum, each a carrot. something like that then everntually the habbit will be replaced by something better as your brain will link to that all the time.
User avatar #95650 to #95627 - akkere (09/15/2013) [-]
Replace the habits with something else; chewing gum, lollipops, etc. It's a pretty common way for people who suffer from addictions even as common as nicotine to help bridge themselves out.
Also, keep yourself occupied constantly. Don't stress yourself with work, but rather keep the work spaced out so you're constantly doing something every minute. The trick is to keep yourself from being idle so you don't think about the addiction and then begin to relapse.
You might even be able to help with your mother by learning how to cook and help cleaning a bit.
User avatar #95644 to #95627 - hargleblarg (09/15/2013) [-]
best thing to do is cut one out at a time, not all at once. Like anything it's a process. Cut out one thing from your life and wait until you're sure you wont go back before cutting out another one. Replace them with other activities like running or drawing or whatever you enjoy doing so that you're not tempted back to them.

Hopefully that will work, best of luck to ya dude.
#95621 - angrybulldogs (09/15/2013) [-]
**angrybulldogs rolled a random image posted in comment #208563 at Shin Anime Social Board ** im 16 and i have got my first girlfriend, so far the furthest we've gone is her topless and letting me finger and fondle her whilst making out. The thing is this has made me cum a few times usually twice each time we do it. (these sessions last about an hour, an hour and half). What does this mean? anyway to stop this? is this bad?
**angrybulldogs rolled a random image posted in comment #208563 at Shin Anime Social Board ** im 16 and i have got my first girlfriend, so far the furthest we've gone is her topless and letting me finger and fondle her whilst making out. The thing is this has made me cum a few times usually twice each time we do it. (these sessions last about an hour, an hour and half). What does this mean? anyway to stop this? is this bad?
User avatar #95608 - merrickz (09/15/2013) [-]
I've been so fucking cranky lately. Any advice to prevent this?
User avatar #95652 to #95608 - picamix (09/15/2013) [-]
eat more fruit and veg, move more (dont sit down and watch tv all day) make sure you're getting at least 8 hours of sleep a day
User avatar #95734 to #95652 - merrickz (09/16/2013) [-]
I'll try that, thanks.
#95631 to #95608 - advicedude (09/15/2013) [-]
more water
15-30 min nap
think about how you want to change and make people heppy
more cat/cute animal pictures
User avatar #95735 to #95631 - merrickz (09/16/2013) [-]
I have the cute part covered. I'll try eating more veggies.
User avatar #95736 to #95735 - merrickz (09/16/2013) [-]
And drinking water.
User avatar #95738 to #95736 - advicedude (09/16/2013) [-]
I recommend about half a gallon or more a day.
User avatar #95739 to #95738 - merrickz (09/16/2013) [-]
I don't drink water most of the days, but when I do I drink like two bottles of 600ml.

I hope that's good enough, I'll try to make it something daily.
User avatar #95740 to #95739 - advicedude (09/16/2013) [-]
Yeah you'll be surprised how much better things will be if you substitute water for everything. Sure a soda once a week but water is best.
User avatar #95742 to #95740 - merrickz (09/16/2013) [-]
Hmm. Sounds hard to do considering that water tastes too much like bleach to me. I guess that at least I'll be cleaner inside.
User avatar #95743 to #95742 - advicedude (09/16/2013) [-]
Yeah I used to hate drinking water but my dad made me. I eventually just slowly made myself drink water in school filling it up once in a while. Now I fill up after every period and love it. Don't get used to adding stuff to your water though. It won't make it any better in the long run.
User avatar #95744 to #95743 - merrickz (09/16/2013) [-]
I won't, don't worry.

Thank you.
User avatar #95745 to #95744 - advicedude (09/16/2013) [-]
Good luck bro
User avatar #95747 to #95745 - merrickz (09/16/2013) [-]
Thanks :>
User avatar #95623 to #95608 - fillelindome (09/15/2013) [-]
Exercise
User avatar #95737 to #95623 - merrickz (09/16/2013) [-]
That makes me sore and sore means no happy.

But I'll suck it up and try anyway, thanks.
User avatar #95610 to #95608 - davvi (09/15/2013) [-]
wait until your period is over
User avatar #95611 to #95610 - merrickz (09/15/2013) [-]
I don't bleed down there, I'm not a monster.
User avatar #95603 - anonsupporter (09/15/2013) [-]
anybody know if its possible to permanently attach a file to a usb flashdrive
User avatar #95633 to #95603 - advicedude (09/15/2013) [-]
Don't delete the file?
User avatar #95616 to #95603 - tmgrskat (09/15/2013) [-]
There's /videogames/ for a reason ( ͡° ʖ ͡°)
#95602 - catattacker (09/15/2013) [-]
I'm female and I've always been kind of into girls and so now I'm slightly older(17), i want to try out a lesbian relationship really bad. All my female friends are permanently straight or will only play around with the approval of their boyfriend. I'm really feminine but its hard to find a girlfriend who isn't butch.

It seems impossible to find a feminine girl i can relate to! Are there any places (offline and online) where i have a chances of running into one?
User avatar #95665 to #95602 - makotoitou ONLINE (09/15/2013) [-]
You could fuck me
#95699 to #95665 - catattacker (09/15/2013) [-]
And then can i find the perfect girl of my dreams? DDD
User avatar #95596 - KrissenKagamine (09/15/2013) [-]
so ive been gay for about 5 years of my life
and im in a relationship of about 9 months
my moms side of the family knows and is (mostly) okay with it
my parents are divorced so i dont talk to the other side of my family much, so my dad's side of the family has no clue
i am going to go visit them soon and they live in the US and my girlfriend wants to come with me and meet that side of the family
i dont want to tell her no, shes wanted to come to the US for a long, long time

what do?
User avatar #95632 to #95596 - advicedude (09/15/2013) [-]
Just do it and if your dad doesn't like it, screw him and go somewhere else.
#95622 to #95596 - angrybulldogs (09/15/2013) [-]
**angrybulldogs rolled a random image posted in comment #48 at Cosplay ** Make sure your girlfriend knows that your family doesn't know your gay cause that could cause a serious problem
User avatar #95612 to #95596 - davvi (09/15/2013) [-]
maybe give your family a heads-up though, so you won't have any very awkward moments when you're there with her
User avatar #95601 to #95596 - dragx (09/15/2013) [-]
nothing. Go with the flow. Nobody can tell that something will go wrong until it does, however if you mess with whats happening you may end up hurting yourself.
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