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#185668 - notred (05/27/2015) [-]
A dude is going to be visiting me for a week at the end of june. I'm trying to figure out things we can do to make the most out of the week. So far I've figured Canada's wonder land and a beach trip.

I live fairly close to the city of london in canada. Anyone wanna help me out?
User avatar #185728 to #185668 - yologdogtwo (05/27/2015) [-]
Fuck that. Buy paint ball gear and spend the week in some trenches trying to kill each other while surviving off combat rations.
#185700 to #185668 - unitedabominations (05/27/2015) [-]
So did my idea win or nah
User avatar #185673 to #185668 - ferrettamer (05/27/2015) [-]
If you're going to Toronto, the ROM and science center?
User avatar #185675 to #185673 - notred (05/27/2015) [-]
We may do toronto. I was considering Niagara falls as well since he hasn't seen it.

Although gas is expensive so we may not do that crap either.

#185669 to #185668 - unitedabominations (05/27/2015) [-]
Touch his wiener.
User avatar #185670 to #185669 - notred (05/27/2015) [-]
I'm not going to touch his wiener for 7 days straight.
#185671 to #185670 - unitedabominations (05/27/2015) [-]
Not with that attitude you aren't.
#185666 - nought (05/27/2015) [-]
**nought used "*roll picture*"**
**nought rolled image** i've been thinking about nihilism recently

and the idea is that there is no meaning to life but you can invent and create your own
#185667 to #185666 - unitedabominations (05/27/2015) [-]
Sounds pretty gay.
User avatar #185672 to #185667 - nought (05/27/2015) [-]
think about it
there is literally no purpose to living
there is no reason other than biological
there's no reason to do anything
#185674 to #185672 - unitedabominations (05/27/2015) [-]
You come off as a man with little friends, no job (or low-end job), and no significant other.

Try obtaining one or all of these things and stop being so edgy.
User avatar #185676 to #185674 - nought (05/27/2015) [-]
it is more than being edgy
i'm stealing right from Nietzsche here , without purpose people are left ultimately wondering and unhappy
ofc there are obligations in the real world (the purpose is job, supporting family friends) but that is not a purpose. you are the one who decides I will assign this meaning and society does too but I want more. that is the idea of creating purpose, saying this is why i exist?

sorry for being rant i am trying to write right now and it is spilling out
#185677 to #185676 - unitedabominations (05/27/2015) [-]
When is the last time you had a pp touch
User avatar #185684 to #185677 - nought (05/27/2015) [-]
if that means what i think it does, it's been several days now i need to get back
#185658 - anon (05/26/2015) [-]
Thinking of getting a job online as a transcriber, do I need PI insurance for that? the site isn't very professional and I only want it for a few months. Thanks for the help.
User avatar #185657 - thatoldhorse ONLINE (05/26/2015) [-]
i have no one to talk to my friends are all busy and i dont know where to go to meet people who actually want to talk to me (who are also my age)( 17)
User avatar #185665 to #185657 - sugoi (05/27/2015) [-]
Stick with talking to people online until some fancy event comes to town for you like a convention or some kids day or something.
User avatar #185679 to #185665 - thatoldhorse ONLINE (05/27/2015) [-]
i mean like it would kind of help to get out there and meet people in like,say a retail environment, right?
User avatar #185680 to #185679 - sugoi (05/27/2015) [-]
Then get a retail job.
Though I'm pretty sure it'll just make you loathe humanity since 90% of the time you'll be interacting with insufferable customers.
User avatar #185681 to #185680 - thatoldhorse ONLINE (05/27/2015) [-]
its better than wallowing in my own hate of myself
User avatar #185682 to #185681 - sugoi (05/27/2015) [-]
Maybe, self-hate or hate of others? but hey you might have a good time so I guess try finding a retail job.
User avatar #185683 to #185682 - thatoldhorse ONLINE (05/27/2015) [-]
i hate myself just because i care WAY too much of what others think.
User avatar #185659 to #185657 - fukkentyranitar (05/27/2015) [-]
Go outside. The mall maybe? idk, I'm on the same boat as you until I get my license.
User avatar #185660 to #185659 - thatoldhorse ONLINE (05/27/2015) [-]
i as thinking the mall but i find it reall odd to just talk to perfect strangers (irl) im super good at it on the internet. but in real life i talk like im having a stroke
User avatar #185661 to #185660 - fukkentyranitar (05/27/2015) [-]
Its really as simple as saying hi and asking how someone's day has been. I still kinda struggle myself but I just tell myself that its not that serious and power my way through it. Just don't pull a beta move and vomit or some shit like that. Maybe you should pretend as if you need directions to break the ice.
User avatar #185678 to #185661 - thatoldhorse ONLINE (05/27/2015) [-]
i just dont want to come off as creepy or anything and im very self-critical.
User avatar #185695 to #185678 - fukkentyranitar (05/27/2015) [-]
When in doubt, say fuck it. You have to force yourself out of your comfort zone. As soon as you get the ball rolling, it gets easier and easier. Eventually it becomes natural. As it should be.
#185656 - anon (05/26/2015) [-]
why is it everytime someone says i did something wrong i always feel so worthless about myself. (yes i know i have severe self worth and esteem isues.)
User avatar #185662 to #185656 - sugoi (05/27/2015) [-]
Because you have severe self worth and self-esteem issues.
I mean you pretty much got it figured out there buddy. When you do something wrong it usually isn't that big of a deal unless you messed up something like heart surgery. Gotta learn to brush it off, alternatively, learn from what you did wrong and just don't make mistakes again.
User avatar #185653 - silverzepher (05/26/2015) [-]
i'm broke and need to get a updated resume, anyone have a link to a free resume creator ?
User avatar #185663 to #185653 - sugoi (05/27/2015) [-]
Just google a template and write it yourself.
You got MS word? If not an open-source equivalent will do as well.
#185646 - anon (05/26/2015) [-]
I feel like shit guys
Have a horrendous cold.
the girl I took on a date yesterday is aloof to me like we never hung out in the first place.
Plus I failed a test.
Life really blows sometimes.
User avatar #185648 to #185646 - xXThatxOnexGuyXx (05/26/2015) [-]
I would suggest grabbing some DayQuil and NyQuil for that bad cold.

As far as the date went... Any further context you'd like to give?
#185650 to #185648 - anon (05/26/2015) [-]
It went great she seemed really invested in conversation! Thats why I dont understand why she was more distant than usual today. Practically avoided almost.
#185643 - demonologist (05/26/2015) [-]
How do you stop being self-critical? I know it may sound dumb but I want to know how to stop doubting myself, and how to develop greater confidence.
#185652 to #185643 - anon (05/26/2015) [-]
Work hard. Don't half-ass anything you do and always do your best. If you continue to do the best you can, you'll think higher of yourself and feel like you can do better.
User avatar #185642 - thefunnyside (05/26/2015) [-]
Is it strange to say: "I finger through my coat pocket and pull out a crumpled piece of paper."? Should I use the word 'search' instead? I'm writing a short story. Thanks, guys!
User avatar #185654 to #185642 - silverzepher (05/26/2015) [-]
User avatar #185655 to #185654 - thefunnyside (05/26/2015) [-]
Even better. Thanks!
User avatar #185647 to #185642 - xXThatxOnexGuyXx (05/26/2015) [-]
I would suggest switching the word.
Even if used in a serious context, anyone who is immature will not take it seriously.
User avatar #185649 to #185647 - thefunnyside (05/26/2015) [-]
I suppose you're right. I'll switch it. Thanks!
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#185628 - anon (05/26/2015) [-]
User avatar #185664 to #185628 - sugoi (05/27/2015) [-]
I don't think I know what that lineart is supposed to represent.
User avatar #185638 to #185628 - womanexplain (05/26/2015) [-]
das tru 10/potato
#185696 to #185638 - anon (05/27/2015) [-]
Have you ever lived in Michigan?

You look familiar.
User avatar #185699 to #185696 - womanexplain (05/27/2015) [-]
No haha, I've always lived in Britain.
#185710 to #185699 - anon (05/27/2015) [-]
I actually looked at your picture carefully, and you look a lot like someone I used to talk to, I actually thought you were her...

anyways, sorry for bothering you, sorry for your loss
User avatar #185729 to #185710 - womanexplain (05/27/2015) [-]
Sorry I'm not, and thank you.
User avatar #185626 - thefunnyside (05/26/2015) [-]
Anyone have advice on curing a canker sore? It burns pretty badly. It's just below my two lower front teeth, where the inside of my mouth is that part considered a cheek? and my gums meet. Thanks!
#185644 to #185626 - demonologist (05/26/2015) [-]
Swish warm salt water around in your mouth. I've done it every time I've gotten one and it works pretty well, even if it just dulls the pain. I'm pretty sure it helps to cure it too, though.
User avatar #185645 to #185644 - thefunnyside (05/26/2015) [-]
Thanks! I'll make sure to try that.
User avatar #185632 to #185626 - xXThatxOnexGuyXx (05/26/2015) [-]
There's stuff you can buy to help with that.
I got quite a few samples of different ointments and such when I got braces.

Not sure on the exact names of the stuff, but I am certain you could find it at any drug store, really.
User avatar #185634 to #185632 - thefunnyside (05/26/2015) [-]
Dug around my house and I managed to find something. Thanks anyway, mate.
#185621 - anon (05/26/2015) [-]
Should I apologize to this one girl for slapping her ass? I was feeling a bit rowdy just a few days ago, and I was in a rare mood, so I just went for it and slapped her ass when she was bending over to pick up something  I have a crush on her , I didn't really even think about it. She gave me a stern look and said "You shouldn't do that" but didn't otherwise seem TOO pissed and just let it slide pretty much. She didn't at all look happy about it, but didn't seem enraged either. It's been a few days since.    
I rarely do things like these, and I'm not sure if this was a mistake on my part that she is angry about but just isn't bringing up  who can read women anyway  We're both 24. Should I apologize or just not mention or repeat it again?
Should I apologize to this one girl for slapping her ass? I was feeling a bit rowdy just a few days ago, and I was in a rare mood, so I just went for it and slapped her ass when she was bending over to pick up something I have a crush on her , I didn't really even think about it. She gave me a stern look and said "You shouldn't do that" but didn't otherwise seem TOO pissed and just let it slide pretty much. She didn't at all look happy about it, but didn't seem enraged either. It's been a few days since.

I rarely do things like these, and I'm not sure if this was a mistake on my part that she is angry about but just isn't bringing up who can read women anyway We're both 24. Should I apologize or just not mention or repeat it again?
User avatar #185651 to #185621 - kegget (05/26/2015) [-]
If she's upset about it, apologize.

It's really degrading to be randomly slapped on the ass for some people. My boyfriend does it sometimes when he's drunk and it makes me feel awful.
User avatar #185641 to #185621 - awesomerninjathing ONLINE (05/26/2015) [-]

don`t apologize
User avatar #185639 to #185621 - womanexplain (05/26/2015) [-]
Apologize, and don't do it again.
Don't make a big deal out of it unless she seems genuinely upset however.
User avatar #185635 to #185621 - xXThatxOnexGuyXx (05/26/2015) [-]
I would apologize.
Talk it out with her if she still seems upset over it?
User avatar #185624 to #185621 - makotoitou ONLINE (05/26/2015) [-]
#185629 to #185624 - anon (05/26/2015) [-]
Means I'm worrying for no reason?
User avatar #185636 to #185629 - makotoitou ONLINE (05/26/2015) [-]
User avatar #185618 - gabemczombie (05/26/2015) [-]
I'm writing an argumentative speech, that i don't agree with, about why we should abolish media as a whole. I'm focusing on Social medias, Gossip-tabloids or whatever they're called and commercials.

Now, does anyone have a counter-argument?
User avatar #185627 to #185618 - thefunnyside (05/26/2015) [-]
Well, you can say that the media, like news and newspapers, can spread lies quickly or be manipulated by the government ?
User avatar #185631 to #185627 - gabemczombie (05/26/2015) [-]
But i need a counter-argument to my point, and my point was that we should abolish all forms of media
User avatar #185633 to #185631 - thefunnyside (05/26/2015) [-]
Say that it's a very useful way of communication, and that it's not always full of lies. Without it, we would never know what's happening in the rest of the world.
User avatar #185637 to #185633 - gabemczombie (05/26/2015) [-]
I angled the speech so that i was just taking about tabloids, social media and commercials.

The speech is alright, pretty eh.
#185611 - anon (05/26/2015) [-]
I'm in a bit of a low mood.
anyone have any methods of intense, temporary, skin-deep, pain that won't fuck me up long term?
#185617 to #185611 - anon (05/26/2015) [-]
Snap a rubber band on your wrist
#185598 - anon (05/26/2015) [-]
Could a 5'5 140 lb woman make a good firefighter? I don't care if comments are sexist, as long as you have a point.
User avatar #185608 to #185598 - xXThatxOnexGuyXx (05/26/2015) [-]
It takes a lot to make it as a career firefighter, though.

Follow your dreams and go at it as hard as you can and don't stop, and you'll make it...
Just don't give up.

If you aren't able to immediately go into career firefighting, I'd suggest going in as a volunteer, getting all of your classes and training out of the way for EVOC, EMT, EMS, etc. and working your way up from there. Just do as many classes and training as possible.

I have a friend who is a career firefighter; He had to try out to get into his position, since there were just so many people applying...
It's tough, but possible.
User avatar #185609 to #185608 - xXThatxOnexGuyXx (05/26/2015) [-]
In all honesty you're probably going to want to bulk up and build muscle.
Not only is it a physically challenging and demanding job, but if you're doing 911 calls in the back of an ambulance, you're going to come across a lot of people who might try to physically harm you.
User avatar #185606 to #185598 - machiavellianhumor ONLINE (05/26/2015) [-]
not anonymous ones
User avatar #185597 - xXThatxOnexGuyXx (05/26/2015) [-]
How worthwhile would you guys say a career as a Counselor would be?
Or even a Psychiatrist or Therapist?

Its an area I'm interested in, just not sure where to start, or if it's even an area I'd be employable at.
#185630 to #185597 - minutes ONLINE (05/26/2015) [-]
I don't know what it's like for your country, but in germany there are a few ways to become a therapist/psychiatrist.
1. Study medicine - specialize in psychiatry
2. Study psychology - get a master in psychiatry
3. Study nothing - pass a test to show that you're not a threat to society if you'd be doing this job

First 2 ways are hard as fuck cause you basically need perfect grades to get into these fields, third way could be achieved easily, but you won't get a job anywhere cause you don't have any qualifications. You would be basically forced to open up your own practice.

It's a good career path in my opinion. I wanted to do it myself but well, the grades thing, you know?
You gave great advice countless times on here. Being a psychatrist is a whole different thing obviously, but I guess it's a good start. I don't really know you ofc but I'd say it suits you.
#185599 to #185597 - anon (05/26/2015) [-]
Do you have a certain group of people you want to specialize in, like veterans or sports player?
User avatar #185604 to #185599 - xXThatxOnexGuyXx (05/26/2015) [-]
I'd prefer to work with people who are suicidal, "depressed," clinically depressed, etc.
Especially youth and young adults.

Essentially anyone who believes that they have problems that just can't be fixed, really.
I know I'm being quite broad with that, but anywhere around that general area would suit me.
User avatar #185607 to #185604 - machiavellianhumor ONLINE (05/26/2015) [-]
you can volunteer at a suicide prevention hotline for a bit. see if it's actually something you enjoy.
#185596 - anon (05/26/2015) [-]
I have a friend who treats women far better than his own sex. usually obsessing over ANY girl that crosses his path, obsessing over girls in anime, and always playing as a girl in video games. Does that have its own term or is it still categorized as sexism?
User avatar #185625 to #185596 - makotoitou ONLINE (05/26/2015) [-]
does he own a fedora?
#185601 to #185596 - anon (05/26/2015) [-]
Has your friend had a girlfriend before or is he going through puberty? He might just be lonely and desperately seeking some kind of female companion any way he knows how. I wouldn't call it sexism, just misplaced affection. He's just probably going through a faze that will end when he gets a real girlfriend.
#185603 to #185601 - anon (05/26/2015) [-]
He's been like this for the past five years; and nawh, he has never had a girlfriend.
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#185594 - juggernautchunk (05/26/2015) [-]
Hey guys, I've been composing music for the past year or so and I was wondering if anyone had some tips for me to make my music better or if there was anyone who could help me get my career in music start for when I graduate.
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