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#214180 - WtfStrawberries
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#214178 - anon
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(06/20/2016) [-]
Is it okay to give up hope and end my suffering?
#214192 to #214178 - platinumaltaria ONLINE
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(06/20/2016) [-]
No, log in and join the autism you slut. There is no escape.
#214188 to #214178 - sugoi
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(06/20/2016) [-]
As an anon go right ahead.
#214181 to #214178 - anon
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(06/20/2016) [-]
do a flip
#214166 - cognosceteipsum
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(06/19/2016) [-]
At this point I'm just kinda wondering, will any amount of joy really be worth the pain I've already been through? There could be immense amounts of pain waiting me, with a similar life to this one.
#214316 to #214166 - coolfuzzy
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(06/22/2016) [-]
probably, the more you put yourself out there the higher the chances you find both joy and pain. Lifes miserable, find people who make the suffering worth it.
#214317 to #214316 - cognosceteipsum
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(06/22/2016) [-]
thanks
is this far up on the page ?
#214318 to #214317 - coolfuzzy
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(06/22/2016) [-]
nah I think it was on page two when I saw it
#214267 to #214166 - enlightednatzie
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(06/21/2016) [-]
What kind of joy and what kind of pain are we talking about?
#214269 to #214267 - cognosceteipsum
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(06/21/2016) [-]
Not quite sure myself
#214249 to #214166 - anon
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(06/20/2016) [-]
have you ever tried resetting your psyche with large amounts of psychedelics?

ethnobotanist terence mckenna said that his early experiences with them showed him "that there was something there worth pursuing"
#214251 to #214249 - cognosceteipsum
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(06/20/2016) [-]
That's a good idea and something I've been thinking of. What you're describing is essentially egodeath.
#214215 to #214166 - anon
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(06/20/2016) [-]
reading thi thread, I'm gonna go ahead and say no
#214218 to #214215 - cognosceteipsum
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(06/20/2016) [-]
Nice one ugh anon
#214193 to #214166 - platinumaltaria ONLINE
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(06/20/2016) [-]
If you're going to be suicidal then at least have the decency not to whine about it, fuck.
#214196 to #214193 - cognosceteipsum
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(06/20/2016) [-]
Who said I am bitch?
#214246 to #214196 - platinumaltaria ONLINE
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(06/20/2016) [-]
>>#214245
If you aren't a theist you'll have no trouble denying the existence of god. After all it's only a sin if you believe ;) I'll wait here.
#214247 to #214246 - cognosceteipsum
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(06/20/2016) [-]
nah
#214248 to #214247 - platinumaltaria ONLINE
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(06/20/2016) [-]
Thanks for proving me right. Can we get to the part where you backpedal your accusations towards me?
#214197 to #214196 - platinumaltaria ONLINE
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(06/20/2016) [-]
Why not complain to someone who cares... like no one.
#214198 to #214197 - cognosceteipsum
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(06/20/2016) [-]
I'm not complaining you gargantuan retard. Fuck off, go shit up the religion board with your euphoria and your fake mental illness
#214230 to #214198 - platinumaltaria ONLINE
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(06/20/2016) [-]
>>#214229
Read: No u

You really are putty in my hands, aren't ya?
#214231 to #214230 - cognosceteipsum
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(06/20/2016) [-]
That's what I said you were doing you fucking idiot, I see your reading comprehension also sucks
#214232 to #214231 - platinumaltaria ONLINE
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(06/20/2016) [-]
Read: "NO U! FUCKING IDIUT"

Come on, you can do it. It's not that hard; just make one statement of fact.
#214233 to #214232 - cognosceteipsum
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(06/20/2016) [-]
You're a fucking retard

There's one
#214234 to #214233 - platinumaltaria ONLINE
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(06/20/2016) [-]
Nope, that's an insult. And wrong, I do not suffer from mental retardation.

Try again, with feeling!
#214235 to #214234 - cognosceteipsum
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(06/20/2016) [-]
Well, you admitted it yourself. While you say you suffer from mental retardation in the form of transsexuality, I say you're just plain autistic or something like that instead.
#214236 to #214235 - platinumaltaria ONLINE
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(06/20/2016) [-]
Mental retardation is a learning disability, it has about as much to do with transgenderism as you have to do with women.

You probably think that you're attacking a weakness though, so I'm gonna let you in on a secret. I get this shit literally every day. I am completely desensitised.
#214237 to #214236 - cognosceteipsum
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(06/20/2016) [-]
You too apparently considering it's bogus.
#214238 to #214237 - platinumaltaria ONLINE
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(06/20/2016) [-]
Yes, you got me, I made it up for attention. I even convinced the entire field of psychology to recognise it. In fact, I went back in time and inserted examples throughout history, and into ancient greco-roman myth.
#214239 to #214238 - cognosceteipsum
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(06/20/2016) [-]
More attempting to sound smart..
#214240 to #214239 - platinumaltaria ONLINE
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(06/20/2016) [-]
I am smart. Or more accurately, I'm smarter than you, I'd say I'm still probably only of average intellect.
#214241 to #214240 - cognosceteipsum
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(06/20/2016) [-]
Nice dunning Kruger faggot
#214242 to #214241 - platinumaltaria ONLINE
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(06/20/2016) [-]
Actually I was being modest, which is the exact opposite of the Dunning-Kruger effect.
#214243 to #214242 - cognosceteipsum
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(06/20/2016) [-]
You were being arrogant by presuming that you were smarter than me based on evidence pointing towards the contrary.
#214244 to #214243 - platinumaltaria ONLINE
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(06/20/2016) [-]
You believe in a magic man in the sky. I'd say I'm the smarter of the two.
#214322 to #214244 - platinumaltaria ONLINE
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(06/22/2016) [-]
>>#214244
This goes back beyond this one chain.
#214321 to #214244 - coolfuzzy
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(06/22/2016) [-]
You just assumed he was suicidal and started antagonizing him. Even if he was that's not the right way to go about that dude. Mr.Rogers saw better things from you.
#214320 to #214244 - platinumaltaria ONLINE
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(06/22/2016) [-]
>>#214319
No, he started this shit in the first place.
#214319 to #214244 - coolfuzzy
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(06/22/2016) [-]
hey man why don't you stop being a dick for no reason.
#214245 to #214244 - cognosceteipsum
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(06/20/2016) [-]
Nope. I never said that I do. Strawman I see..
#214199 to #214198 - platinumaltaria ONLINE
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(06/20/2016) [-]
Wow, you've got that edge that just won't quit!
#214201 to #214199 - cognosceteipsum
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(06/20/2016) [-]
Oh and your liberal atheist muh Christianity is stupid bullshit is not edgy? Damn, hypos gon hypo no?
#214202 to #214201 - platinumaltaria ONLINE
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(06/20/2016) [-]
I refute stupid shit. That's my thing. Christianity just happens to put out a lot of stupid shit.
#214204 to #214202 - cognosceteipsum
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(06/20/2016) [-]
So the existence of God is less likely than the existence of your faked attentionwhore mental disorder? Give me a break faggot
#214206 to #214204 - platinumaltaria ONLINE
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(06/20/2016) [-]
I'm going to say yes, because god doesn't exist and my "faked attentionwhore mental disorder" is real.

I've found that people who call other people 'faggot' are usually closet gays.
#214208 to #214206 - cognosceteipsum
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(06/20/2016) [-]
Meanwhile you can't prove that but you can prove God, nice one dunce
#214210 to #214208 - platinumaltaria ONLINE
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(06/20/2016) [-]
I can 'prove' it, because unlike your crap it's reality.
#214213 to #214210 - cognosceteipsum
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(06/20/2016) [-]
Edgy mcEdgerson there
#214217 to #214213 - platinumaltaria ONLINE
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(06/20/2016) [-]
*statement with zero edge.
#214221 to #214217 - cognosceteipsum
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(06/20/2016) [-]
Nope m8

Also, you give off that edge vibe so even the comments you make that are inherently neutral get an edge to them.
#214222 to #214221 - platinumaltaria ONLINE
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(06/20/2016) [-]
Read: I don't like you because you're smarter than I am.
#214225 to #214222 - cognosceteipsum
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(06/20/2016) [-]
You keep saying that but as with your mental illness.. Zero evidence for, plenty against
#214226 to #214225 - platinumaltaria ONLINE
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(06/20/2016) [-]
Read: zero evidence against, plenty for

You know the best part about being right; it doesn't matter whether I win an argument.
#214227 to #214226 - cognosceteipsum
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(06/20/2016) [-]
Nice no u
#214228 to #214227 - platinumaltaria ONLINE
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(06/20/2016) [-]
Read: I have no argument, so I'm going to shout childish retorts at you until you leave.
#214229 to #214228 - cognosceteipsum
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(06/20/2016) [-]
As you are doing eh?
#214200 to #214199 - cognosceteipsum
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(06/20/2016) [-]
Hey, who's edgy here? You're the one pretending to be a girl for attention.
#214203 to #214200 - platinumaltaria ONLINE
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(06/20/2016) [-]
Nigga I get enough attention just voicing my opinions.
Stop being a whiny cunt.
#214205 to #214203 - cognosceteipsum
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(06/20/2016) [-]
Lol. You're the one who whined about ACTUALLY being suicidal a while ago for a relationship you had for a week or something.

Again, hypos gon hypo. I'm not whining. You are.
#214207 to #214205 - platinumaltaria ONLINE
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(06/20/2016) [-]
If you say so champ.

>you literally commented first
#214209 to #214207 - cognosceteipsum
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(06/20/2016) [-]
Yeah but you missed the part where I wasn't whining.
#214211 to #214209 - platinumaltaria ONLINE
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(06/20/2016) [-]
"At this point I'm just kinda wondering, will any amount of joy really be worth the pain I've already been through?"
Fuck, I just cut myself... on the EDGE
#214212 to #214211 - cognosceteipsum
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(06/20/2016) [-]
Genuine inquiry and you jumped on the bandwagon hate as the herd mentality retard you are.

/Let+me+inside+one/funny-pictures/5618499/8#8
Meanwhile this? Lol
#214214 to #214212 - platinumaltaria ONLINE
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(06/20/2016) [-]
Oh we're digging shit up from a year ago. Tell me again how your not a salty bitch again?
#214219 to #214214 - cognosceteipsum
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(06/20/2016) [-]
Youre*
#214220 to #214219 - platinumaltaria ONLINE
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(06/20/2016) [-]
Wow, correcting me on grammar, that definitely detracts from you being an edgelord.
#214223 to #214220 - cognosceteipsum
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(06/20/2016) [-]
Use fancy words, that definitely detracts from you being a dipshit
#214224 to #214223 - platinumaltaria ONLINE
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(06/20/2016) [-]
I never used any 'fancy words'?
#214216 to #214214 - cognosceteipsum
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(06/20/2016) [-]
Lol
#214186 to #214183 - cognosceteipsum
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(06/20/2016) [-]
Stop missusing images
#214175 to #214166 - whitechino ONLINE
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(06/20/2016) [-]
Or you can realize someone always has it worse
#214157 - WATCHAGUNADOBOUTIT
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(06/19/2016) [-]
What's the best way to practice flirting with girls? Or at least show interest. I thought it would always come naturally, but I felt like I was just acting nice not flirting. I don't think she was interested anyways (talked a lot, she was awesome but very different outlooks on life, I don't think it would've worked). Made me realize though that I should really like not be a faggot in the future and it's time to be my own man kind of thing (if you know what I'm trying to say). Has anyone been in a similar situation and can help a brotha out?

I think my main problem is confidence. I have no problem talking to a girl, like none at all, but when it comes to actual flirting and complimenting the girl... I just feel like I'll creep them out or they will feel offended.. or something.

Just take my word that I'm not ugly and I'm not a loser.
#214268 to #214157 - enlightednatzie
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(06/21/2016) [-]
Same, thats why im not even bother to flirt with girls.
#214194 to #214157 - platinumaltaria ONLINE
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(06/20/2016) [-]
Don't put the girl on a pedestal. Build confidence by being more social (outside the interweebs)
Confidence is easy, just fake it.
#214176 to #214157 - whitechino ONLINE
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(06/20/2016) [-]
#214160
All that
-But Remember most of all be Honest, and be yourself.
-If she has siblings, be friends with them too.
-Be active, if she want's to be around you 24/7, let her know you'll put her in your schedule.
#214179 to #214176 - WATCHAGUNADOBOUTIT
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(06/20/2016) [-]
Yeah I try to do that at all times unless there's some reason for me not to... I found out that you shouldn't lie to others because then how can you be truthful to yourself? I'm in a phase right now if you can't tell lol
#214160 to #214157 - minutes
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(06/19/2016) [-]
Make fun of her in a playfull way
romantic/sexual jokes can be usefull sometimes
slip in a few comliments from time to time
gentle touches (like hands, arms and shoulders)
slightly longer eye contact
make her laugh
avoid boring topics like job, school, the fucking weather etc.
don't be clingy
go for the kiss if you feel it, don't wait usually you can spot the signs when she wants to be kissed: she'll make longer eye contact, will smile a lot and glance at your lips while looking at you

It's basically like normal talking. The topic can be anything, it can be anywhere just as usual. The only difference is that you do the stuff from above. Good luck
#214170 to #214160 - WATCHAGUNADOBOUTIT
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(06/19/2016) [-]
I wish I would've known this like 2 weeks ago... So fucking simple, I do this all the time, I'm just so polite to girls that I like... Other girls I'm just having fun with this is no problem...
#214169 to #214160 - WATCHAGUNADOBOUTIT
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(06/19/2016) [-]
The making fun/sexual jokes part I mean
#214167 to #214160 - WATCHAGUNADOBOUTIT
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(06/19/2016) [-]
What are appropriate compliments? Nice dress? I like your hair? I don't want to be cringey or needy, I see a lot of guys do shit like that and it's gross. I see the other points, very good ones at that. I do that with girls I do not like, which may explain a lot from my past lmao
#214171 to #214167 - minutes
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(06/19/2016) [-]
There is no guide for things that are appropriate, it's always different from girl to girl, situation to situation. You can basically say anything if you say it right. Body language, and vocalization make a huge part in this as well. There are sentences, jokes etc. that can only be said when you're able to be confident while saying them you know? But generally, nice cheeky stuff is always good. You shouldn't be too innocent and you shouldn't be too forward (most of the time, there are exceptions).

For example picture this situation:
She's eating a banana. Now you could say "Damn girl you like long thick things in your mouth? I bet you do! haha" which would be pretty cringy
or you could say
"Hey be carefull! Some absolutely perverted guys, totally not me though, like to watch girls eating bananas! maybe there is some stalker behind that bush over there! take small bites only!" sounds better right?
It's a shitty example I know. It's almost purely situational you know.. as long as it's funny and not too corny or maybe even insulting she'll be fine.
You shouldn't make these too often though. Just use them carefully or she'll eventually think you're a 12 year old. The most important thing is making her laugh and mocking her. Make fun of her, shove her around a little, show her that you're good at social stuff (even if you aren't). With some real life practice you'll get it in some time. Everyone developes his own flirting tactics, kinda. You'll too. Just try out some stuff and you'll learn what works and what doesn't. Mistakes are a good thing! If she gets up and leaves you alone you now know exactly what not to do.
Good luck
#214172 to #214171 - WATCHAGUNADOBOUTIT
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(06/19/2016) [-]
Delivery is pretty important, I'm pretty good at it though... I think my main problem is complimenting/physical contact. Also, I don't know how to interpret if the girl likes me back.

I met some girl on my study abroad trip who was just beautiful (personality and all) but she was one of those girls who laughed at everything and everyone. Completely out of my knowledge how to tell if girls like that have reciprocal feelings.. What is ironic is that these are the type of girls I like...

I honestly feel like I'll never find a girl that likes me back that I like... I don't want to be with someone who doesn't make me happy. But you don't care that much so I digress :^)
thanks for the advice though.. I'll probably need to actively think about these things until I get good at it.
#214165 to #214160 - yatush ONLINE
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(06/19/2016) [-]
That actualy sounds really helpful, I'm gonna save this for tough times.

Thanks.
#214158 to #214157 - alexanderburns ONLINE
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(06/19/2016) [-]
How to Pick Up a Girl in a Bar  How to Flirt With a Girl
#214168 to #214158 - anon
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(06/19/2016) [-]
I can't even watch a minute of that video to see if it's real or a joke, but that goatee tells me he has some thinking himself to do.
#214156 - anon
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(06/19/2016) [-]
am gonna graduate from 1,5 years of photography studies in next february, am not ready for the big world yet, will it be a good idea to go study car mechanics to get more education? it interests me but I'm not sure about anything anymore
#214173 to #214156 - nsfwanon
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(06/19/2016) [-]
I should graduate from an education degree next month... But I bailed on education and got a job in a semi-related field instead. I'll teach eventually, but hell naw am I ready to be an adult yet.

You're always learning, so why not do something you enjoy? If that's the mechanics course, go for it

#214159 to #214156 - alexanderburns ONLINE
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(06/19/2016) [-]
when is learning things ever a bad idea when you're not paying way too much money to do it?
#214174 to #214159 - anon
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(06/19/2016) [-]
nah it's not university, I think the term in english is college
#214146 - mechagodzilla
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(06/19/2016) [-]
Hey uh my little bro just got stung or bit or something by this and i'd like to know.

what the fuck is it?
#214153 to #214146 - magicjesuscf
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(06/19/2016) [-]
Possibly some type of leaf-footed nymph?
#214154 to #214153 - mechagodzilla
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(06/19/2016) [-]
That helps a lot, Thanks!
#214151 to #214146 - focalanemo
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(06/19/2016) [-]
he gon die
#214150 to #214146 - babasera
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(06/19/2016) [-]
give us more pics(if you have them),looks like a locust to me,but i'm not sure because i can't see the shape of the head
#214147 to #214146 - charizarddad
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(06/19/2016) [-]
do you have a better picture?
#214148 to #214147 - mechagodzilla
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(06/19/2016) [-]
I dont, this was texted to me.
#214142 - confusedasian
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(06/19/2016) [-]
Hey, what kind of hair cut is this? Getting a haircut tomorrow and I think this looks nice.
#214143 to #214142 - confusedasian
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(06/19/2016) [-]
All I know is that it's the "Dean Winchester" haircut.
#214144 to #214143 - confusedasian
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(06/19/2016) [-]
I'm sure there is a name for it. I like it, I think it looks nice.
#214161 to #214144 - minutes
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(06/19/2016) [-]
Just describe it dude. Shorter on the sides, a bit longer on the top, no hard transitions.
#214163 to #214161 - confusedasian
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(06/19/2016) [-]
I thought about showing the pictures like 10 minutes after I posted. I was just thinking, "Hey, I have all these pictures of Jensen on my phone. I can just show it to her."
#214162 to #214161 - confusedasian
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(06/19/2016) [-]
I just thought of showing the pictures instead.
#214164 to #214162 - minutes
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(06/19/2016) [-]
That would work as well
#214141 - thecancerthatkills
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(06/19/2016) [-]
Asking a mod for this but whenever I try deleting a comment the comment won't delete, can the mods on this site help fix this issue?
#214182 to #214141 - shadowkingdr
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(06/20/2016) [-]
Yeah admin dun goofed again, it will probably be working again sometime this week
#214139 - anon
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(06/19/2016) [-]
Honestly don't have enough will to live to last me for the rest of this summer. Got no friends to go out with and nothing to do, nothing to live for basically. What do I do to make it through this summer guys?
#214195 to #214139 - platinumaltaria ONLINE
Reply 0
(06/20/2016) [-]
Go out and get friends or make friends on FJ instead of whining...
#214149 to #214139 - babasera
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(06/19/2016) [-]
try to find out what you like to do,you can buy a pet and take care of it
try to get a job,just do something
most people who are depressed are at the same time unemployed and have nothing to do,too much free time means too much time to think about stuff,so if you are pessimistic shit can get bad for you

same thing happened to me,i had nothing to do and everything was boring,so i started working on the onion farm and when i was picking onions i had to focus on doing that,so i didn't have the time to think about depressing things,and in the end i felt better
#214145 to #214139 - sugoi
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(06/19/2016) [-]
Make an actual account on FJ and post so that we actually care about you ya filthy anon.

Go outside and get a job.
#214140 to #214139 - anon
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(06/19/2016) [-]
get off the internet. get so bored that you go out and do things.
#214129 - anon
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(06/18/2016) [-]
I got a friend, he is one of my best mates, I'm 19, soon 20, he's just gotten 18, he has much more stories to tell people, fun stories, I don't, I suck at that. should I worry?
#214152 to #214129 - focalanemo
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(06/19/2016) [-]
yes
#214138 to #214129 - sugoi
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(06/19/2016) [-]
no?
#214132 to #214129 - supertanto
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(06/19/2016) [-]
aye laddy
#214131 to #214129 - cognosceteipsum
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(06/19/2016) [-]
What?..
#214155 to #214131 - anon
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(06/19/2016) [-]
people don't like me very much
#214103 - smartythechicken
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(06/18/2016) [-]
dear weebs

what the fuck does senpai mean? it means something like teacher, right? so lets say i was a s"senpai", what would the person calling me senpai be called?
#214133 to #214103 - supertanto
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(06/19/2016) [-]
oh desu u r so baka
#214125 to #214103 - focalanemo
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(06/18/2016) [-]
teacher is sensei
#214105 to #214103 - synthane
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(06/18/2016) [-]
A senpai is basically someone who is more experienced or has been doing something longer than another person. For example, a highschool senior would be the senpai of a freshman, or someone who has been at a job for a long time would be the senpai of a new employee.

You would refer to the person calling you senpai as kohai. That is pronounced:
'ko' as in the 'co' in coke, followed by 'hai' as in "Hi, how are you?"
#214098 - gomugomuno
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(06/18/2016) [-]
wtf is this on the back of my knee
#214134 to #214098 - supertanto
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(06/19/2016) [-]
skin
#214099 to #214098 - gomugomuno
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(06/18/2016) [-]
here is a close up. am i gonna fie?
#214135 to #214099 - supertanto
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(06/19/2016) [-]
gross skin
#214104 to #214099 - synthane
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(06/18/2016) [-]
Looks to me like a chemical burn / bad response to a plant / allergy, basically like the other guy said. It looks like it has some goopy stuff on it. If that is the case, I would suggest putting an antibiotic cream on it. Might be a minor infection setting in. Not a big deal, should hopefully go away on its own, but the cream should help speed it up. I wouldn't suggest putting other stuff on it, though. Might be worth wrapping a bandage around your leg to stop stuff from agitating it, even just your pants rubbing on it might hurt it a bit.

So wash your hands thoroughly preferably with dish soap, often bathroom hand soap has weird stuff in it , make sure you get all the soap off your hands, put antibiotic cream on it if you have Q-tips rub it on with those rather than your fingers , wrap the bandage, then wash your hands again with dish soap. Take the bandage off at night and leave it off overnight to let it breath. If your pants rub up against it uncomfortably, might help to just sleep without pants on if that is an option for you. Just make sure your bed sheets are clean.

Ghetto version of my advice would be to wash it well with water and put one of those large bandaids on it, but the antibiotic cream and bandage would be better.

By the way, is that another smaller spot above it in the first picture, or is that something unrelated? Kind of hard to tell from the picture. If it is it would strengthen the likelihood of a touching a bad plant. If that is the case, definitely wash it thoroughly because the plant toxin could still be on it.

If it doesn't start to improve in a few days of doing this I'd suggest getting it checked out. Don't want it to get worse.
#214110 to #214104 - gomugomuno
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(06/18/2016) [-]
yea the little one on top is same as the big thing. at first i thought it was bug bite because there a little hole on that big one and the little was not noticeable. but i may have been a plant cause recently it walk around a wooded area. its just i was wearing full length jeans so i didn't think it could be a plant. the goopy stuff is not from that thing i put some lavender oil mixed with some coconut oil on there. its just that thing is really itchy and the oils makes it less itchy.
#214127 to #214110 - synthane
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(06/18/2016) [-]
Unless there is also a hole in the smaller one, I think you can probably rule out insects. Plants can be weird in how they get to you sometimes. I once had a rash from poison sumac show up on my upper arm, foot, and crotch. You have no idea how hard it is to explain to someone that you are walking funny because you have a rash in your crotch from plant toxin.

Anyway, some plant toxins can be absorbed into your skin in one spot, leave no mark, and then resurface in another area. Could be what happened to your leg. Lavender oil is a mild sedative when applied directly to the skin, which is probably why it feels better. It is forcing the skin/muscle in that area to relax, although it is not actually promoting healing. I'd still suggest some antibiotic cream because the coloring does seem like it might be mildly infected.

Does it feel like a burning pain, piercing, or just itchy? Round-about what region do you live in? Might help in identifying it.
#214128 to #214127 - gomugomuno
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(06/18/2016) [-]
uk south east england. and its just itchy sometimes
#214130 to #214128 - synthane
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(06/18/2016) [-]
Well, I don't know too much about nature in the UK and I haven't been able to find anything that looks quite like it from some basic searches. Although you England folks are obsessed about Lyme disease.

Something else you can do to watch its progress would be to trace the edge of it with a sharpie. That way you know for sure if it is growing or shrinking. Sorry, but that's about all I got for you. Keep it clean and if it doesn't improve soon get it checked out.
#214102 to #214099 - smartythechicken
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(06/18/2016) [-]
a tic, allergy, a nasty plant
#214095 - lgninjaleetful
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(06/18/2016) [-]
anyone have the other video like this one?
#214088 - paparaiderfanjr
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(06/18/2016) [-]
Same loser who's girlfriend lied to him about talking to her ex if you remember me that is turns out she lied twice and I'm hurt I guess idk I'm anxious all the time anyway shes desperate to fix our relationship and she said "I don't want our relationship to end because of my fuck up" so that's nice and I just don't know what to do i want to end it but we've been together for a year and a couple months and I just don't want to end that I don't know call me a pussy I guess but I want to trust her but she's lied twice to me about talking to her ex and I don't want to lose her to him or at all I'm paranoid please help I'd appreciate it
#214122 to #214088 - yatush ONLINE
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(06/18/2016) [-]
Leave her ASAP, She could've figured it on her own that it would hurt you, even if she didn't ACTUALY mean to cheat on you, and to think she'd do it twice.

Fuck her, my opinion is leave, don't look back.
#214111 to #214088 - anon
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(06/18/2016) [-]
"I don't want our relationship to end because of my fuck up" she's gonna leave straight away when you fuck up. also when shit like this happen in relationships most of them fail even after they fix everything.
#214093 to #214088 - sugoi
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(06/18/2016) [-]
So she talked to him again despite what happened before?
#214100 to #214093 - paparaiderfanjr
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(06/18/2016) [-]
Yeah
#214101 to #214100 - sugoi
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(06/18/2016) [-]
Bail the fuck out.
She can't be trusted.

Drawn a clear line in the sand and she crossed it, bail the fuck out and move on.
#214120 to #214101 - paparaiderfanjr
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(06/18/2016) [-]
Alright man will do thanks for the help I appreciate it
#214137 to #214120 - sugoi
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(06/19/2016) [-]
Good luck man stay strong.
I'll always be in advice posting random shit.
#214090 to #214088 - anon
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(06/18/2016) [-]
hypothetically, what if there was a girl you liked that you could dump her and then start dating her?
#214091 to #214090 - paparaiderfanjr
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(06/18/2016) [-]
1. That's shitty 2. Nope no one I could just magically get
#214089 to #214088 - paparaiderfanjr
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(06/18/2016) [-]
I'm also a fucking loner and have no one else idk I'm really lonely I guess and I liked her being around
#214084 - anon
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(06/17/2016) [-]
Anyone got some dating advice?

Been dating a girl for about 4 months. At first she was nice, all around good and we saw eachother about 2-3 times a week or sometimes once a week for the first two months. She went "gaga" for me and now wants to be with me every single day. If I say no she becomes moody or disappointed. Look, I really do like her okay, and I do wanna be with her, but I do want to want sometime to myself too. How do I let her know this without hurting her feelings?
Sorry for spelling errors if any.
#214096 to #214084 - rokkai ONLINE
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(06/18/2016) [-]
2-3 times a week isn't enough if you truly love her though. anyway, just talk to her man, tell her how you feel.
#214094 to #214084 - sugoi
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(06/18/2016) [-]
She's yandere
I'm sorry but you're locked in mate.

No but seriously the only way to do so without hurting her feelings would by lysing and saying you're busy and lying isn't that cool bro.

You always have the night by yourself don't you?
#214081 - anon
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(06/17/2016) [-]
yo if there are any girls here can you say how often do you fap... having an argument and i need statistics pls <3
#214136 to #214081 - supertanto
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(06/19/2016) [-]
*schlick
#214078 - synthane
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(06/17/2016) [-]
I'm in a bit of an unfortunate situation, I think. I already know that I should definitely not do anything about it, but I guess I just want to vent a bit.

Little bit of background info first, I suppose. I am a college student and never have had a girlfriend. Not for lack of availability, I am good looking and reasonably well liked, I just never really had interest. I have plenty of female friends and have had female friends throughout my entire schooling life, at least a couple of which I knew were interested in me. For whatever reason though, I just wasn't interested.

Until the past month or so. I am taking a summer class that involves medical properties of common plants, and part of the course is the class works together to make a garden out of medical plants in a local area that teaches about different types of plants to kids. One of the first things the professor asked was if anyone knew anything about how to take care of plants because she had no idea. I am big into gardening, so I raised my hand, and one girl raised hers. We looked at each other, eyes locked, and I don't know what it was about her but my heart skipped a beat.

After class as I was putting my stuff away planning to talk with her , she comes up to me and we talk a bit. We hit it off pretty well, and I swear that she seems as interested in me as I am in her.

Now I have had a sort of "list" of things that I am most interested in as far as what I hope for in a relationship as far as personality is concerned, and she meets all of them. Happy, cheerful, speaks her mind, jokes around a lot, and is comfortable with herself. On top of that, she is into gardening as I said, big hobby of mine , probably more so than I am, and she likes anime too. While it is significantly less important than personality in my mind, she also has what I consider the perfect body type. Please keep in mind that I am not letting this sway my opinions, as I mentioned earlier I have never had interest in relationships before. I have a very low sex drive. .

We figure out a time that we can both work on the gardening area and agree to meet up then. When I get there, I find that she got me lunch from a stinkin' fancy local organic grocery place, wasn't cheap food because she figured I wouldn't have been able to get food between my previous obligation and when we had agreed to meet up. Holy cow. I offered to pay her back for the food which she declined since it was her idea to pick me up something.

Moving along, we start talking as we get to work and are just talking about random stuff. Occasionally we talk about our personal lives and find out more about each other. If you tell me this is not how people get into relationships I do not know what is.

Everything is going pretty well, until she mentions her "hubby" and his son that she is raising. Wait, what? I don't make any pronounced reaction to it and continue the conversation as normal, but good lord my heart dropped. When I said earlier that we were talking a bit about personal lives, I wasn't kidding. She goes on to tell me that she is not particularly fond of raising his kid and that she can't pursue her own dreams as a result of the obligation, and that if she could reset her life she would not have got together with him at all, but she feels she can't abandon them at this point.

I honestly had little idea how to respond to this. Literal whirlwind of emotions in my head. She just kind of continues past it and moves on to another topic, and then the owner of the place we were working at comes out to talk with us a bit. Can't really bring that topic up again, and I still don't know what I would say anyway.

In any case, she still continues to seem interested in me, I still enjoy working outside with her and she has invited me into a small study group. I went to one session they met up and it was a nice mixture of socializing and study. Cont'd
#214079 to #214078 - synthane
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(06/17/2016) [-]
Reason I bring the study session up is because I was able to see that she does not treat other guys like she treats me. It is definitely not just how she is with everyone.

Anyway, that's where I stand now. There is another study session scheduled tomorrow that I will be going to, and I guess it'll just keep going as it has. I definitely enjoy hanging out and would like to keep being friends, but my gosh does it hurt sometimes. In any case, knowing she has a boyfriend she lives with she refers to him as her boyfriend or her hubby, so I guess they aren't actually married or something I will of course not be trying to advance the relationship beyond being a friend. It just kind of hurts, especially since I've never felt this way for anyone before and that she is quite literally the image of my dream girl.

I think that's about it. Like I said, I of course already know don't do anything about it. Just wanted to vent a bit. Hope you all have a good weekend.
#214080 to #214079 - synthane
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(06/17/2016) [-]
Wow this turned out longer than I anticipated. Sorry if it is a bit jumbled. With the whole venting thing I was just writing stuff as it came to mind.
#214083 to #214080 - anon
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(06/17/2016) [-]
Just ask her if she has a little crush on you or something. Least you'll be satisfied to hear if she likes you or not. Seems to me you really want to know if she has a thing for you or not. Just be blunt and ask her if she does infact have a little crush on you.
#214085 to #214083 - synthane
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(06/18/2016) [-]
I would like to, but that comes back to that she is with someone, and if I am mistaken I don't want to mess up at least our current friendship Well, that is a stereotypical concern. Jeez, I feel like I am the clueless main character in those cheesy holiday romance specials . I'll think about it.

In any case, thank you for the advice, anon. I hadn't thought about it, but I guess a large part of it is that I don't know.
#214087 to #214085 - braveblue
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Also, I think it shouldn't matter whether you lose your friendship or not, if she does continue to date her hubby or date someone else because shes not happy then you've missed your shot if she decides shes really unhappy with them. I mean I don't mean to sound like a homewrecker but if shes unhappy with her partner as you lead me to believe so then I think you've at least got a chance at her having a crush on you. Besides you'll always be wanting more or being depressed about it since you already had/have feelings for her. It's not healthy to be beating yourself over her because you can't have her. That's just how I'm thinking anyways. Sorry if you disagree but just my own thoughts.

#214092 to #214087 - synthane
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(06/18/2016) [-]
You do have a point, though I might give it a bit more time before I bring anything up. I definitely don't want to stay in a limbo forever, though. Whether that means completely putting away my feelings for her or going for it will be decided soon. The week before finals might not be the best time.

Blegh, it is impressive how much heartache women can cause without even realizing it. Anyway, thanks again for your advice.
#214086 to #214085 - braveblue
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(06/18/2016) [-]
No problem
#214064 - tazpy
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(06/17/2016) [-]
I'm planning on breaking up with this girl. And honestly, I really want to be a major douche with this. See, she cheated on me not just once, but twice. I know I should have cut her out the first time, but I was desperate. Later, I found her messaging her ex. Should have left then, too, I know. And just last night I saw her messaging her WoW friend, whom she also knows irl, that she couldn't flirt because I had arrived at her house. I've just had enough now. I can't stand her anymore. I was stupid enough to forgive her for cheating and shit, gave her so much of my time, and spent so much on her just for her to throw all that shit back in my face. Getting taken advantage of like this for three years has fucking destroyed me.

So, I kind of want to ruin her, too. Her birthday is coming up and I was thinking about getting her a happy birthday card and writing some really deep cutting shit in there so maybe I can make her feel just as bad as she did me. Is this a bad idea?
#214082 to #214064 - cognosceteipsum
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(06/17/2016) [-]
Drug her and rape her when she least expects you to.
#214076 to #214064 - thedudeistheman
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(06/17/2016) [-]
Don't be overly sensitive about it, but don't be mean. Be the better person.
#214068 to #214064 - yatush ONLINE
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(06/17/2016) [-]
Sounds like a complete bitch.

Take solice in the fact you're a much better person that's probably not going to be as miserable as her, and move on.

cut it off now, don't do anything cruel that doesn't need to be done, but allow yourself to be cold.
#214067 to #214064 - burpy
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(06/17/2016) [-]
As other guy said, just break up and move on. You should've done that much earlier, and it's smartest to just cut your losses at this point.
#214066 to #214064 - focalanemo
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(06/17/2016) [-]
no.
just break up don't be retarded
#214060 - anon
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(06/17/2016) [-]
college student here, never done serious relationships, nor do i have interest currently.

what are some easy ways to get fuck buds? male by the way, decent looks, decent enough personality.
#214058 - anon
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(06/17/2016) [-]
How do i stop my anxiety? ive had anxiety for awhile and i get bad moments at random points. it usually starts when i think about losing my girlfriend(we've been together for 9 months) i just fear on losing her and it gets to me. Lately we've been good we always talk everyday and hangout whenever we can but sometimes i feel like im not good enough for her. theres been moments where she seems off and i overhthink about it and believe im the issue. what can i do to make myself better and overcome this?
#214073 to #214058 - alexanderburns ONLINE
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(06/17/2016) [-]
care about shit a lot less
#214069 to #214058 - yatush ONLINE
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(06/17/2016) [-]
There aren't any real sheet instructions for that one, pal.

the best thing is can suggest is that you put in effot into being more social, and make yourself overcome your anxiety, however long it takes.