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#190861 - anon (07/12/2015) [-]
why is joshlol giving advice now?
User avatar #190916 to #190861 - mondamini (07/12/2015) [-]
becos hes kool
User avatar #190858 - shadowdoogen (07/12/2015) [-]
Can anybody send me a link to that one video of some guy beating the final level of Dishonored like a pro? I can't find it anywhere.
User avatar #190922 to #190890 - shadowdoogen (07/12/2015) [-]
Thanks man
#190862 to #190858 - anon (07/12/2015) [-]
for game related stuff.
User avatar #190923 to #190862 - shadowdoogen (07/12/2015) [-]
Sorry, I'll do that in the future.
User avatar #190844 - kegget (07/12/2015) [-]
is there any way i can lose weight really quickly without completely starving myself.

I don't have a job at the moment so i can work out like every day

to be really optimistic i'd like to lose 14lbs in a month.
#190909 to #190844 - bombadier (07/12/2015) [-]
I follow this and have done pretty well for myself.. www.royalnavy.mod.uk/custom/navy/trainingtool.html
User avatar #190867 to #190844 - joshualegitsky (07/12/2015) [-]
I'm doing the same thing right now. I'm losing fat fast. First, drink lots of water. Like till you piss every few minutes. Get hydrated and you'll see results fast. Second, eat 5 6 small meals a day full of protein. It will keep your metabolism up. Your metabolism will burn the most fat through the day. You can drink coffee or green tea to boost these. Third, get in the gym. Building muscle will allow you to burn even more calories a day.

Here's a diet plan. Intermediate fasting. I know you don't want to starve but this is only one day a week or more depending on your age and weight. Younger people should do one 24 hour fast a week or like two 16/8 which means you stop eating at 6. I've also heard of people only skipping breakfast everyday. What it does is boost your GH which means you'll burn fat and retain muscle easier. It also makes it where you'll be able to absorb protein easier. You'll have to tinker with your plan and see what works.

Main things to focus on is eating clean food. It looks clean. A chicken breast and some broccoli. Or some tuna fish. Also stay away from carbs. It's like energy that you don't want because you want to use the energy stored IE fat. Don't drink diet soda. It'll stop your metabolism from working properly. Cardio. Not for distance but bursts. Jog for 2 mintes, sprint for 1. That kind of stuff. When you're doing ab workouts you'll see your belly getting bigger. Don't be scared. It's your abs pushing out your fat, but that muscle will help you in the long run.

Stay strong. There's days when you'll just want to eat a whole pizza. Slow down and remember why you want this.
User avatar #190856 to #190844 - durkadurka (07/12/2015) [-]
Calories out > calories in = weight loss.

If you don't want to starve yourself, then the other option is to increase how much energy you burn. How you do that is up to you.
User avatar #190850 to #190844 - victhree (07/12/2015) [-]
Use your free time to learn how to cook healthy meals. You won't believe how much It helps stay healthy and fit (plus, it's really useful). Also, I've ways found running or cycling outside to be much more motivational than locking myself in a gym, but if you want fast results, it might be the only way.
User avatar #190852 to #190850 - kegget (07/12/2015) [-]
problem is that i eat healthy-ish. I have pizza once a week, but i don't eat junk at all. I drink shit tons of water and 90% of my diet is lean meat.

I used to be overweight but i lost it pretty easy and now i'm a healthy weight. Since i got my BMI to be perfectly healthy, it seems to be a so much harder to lose any more
User avatar #190860 to #190852 - hirollin (07/12/2015) [-]
Download Myfitnesspal, realize how astronomically unhealthy you really are. Adjust accordingly.
User avatar #190853 to #190852 - victhree (07/12/2015) [-]
Well, maybe it's time to turn "healthy-ish" into full "healthy". In all seriousness, I can only speak from experience, and I've never really had to struggle with weight, so don't quote me on this. I don't watch what I eat, but by pure chance I always end up eating lots of vegetables, plenty of carbs, some meat, and fruit snacks. This has worked wonderfully. If served properly, all of these things can taste just as good, therefore why I suggest you to learn how to cook. I'll understand if you don't like it, though.

As far as exercise goes, I have no idea. All I can tell you is to avoid those that get you jacked and concentrate on the ones that help you shed off fat. On some body parts, such as the abdomen, you do need to grow some muscles for the effects of being fit to show up.

I'm curious as to why you are so eager to lose weight when you're already in a healthy BMI zone .I've heard it's not the best measurement, but it can't be that far away. How much do you weight? Maybe your fat has just piled up in a few spots.
#190847 to #190844 - anon (07/12/2015) [-]
Well, if you workout regularly you should start to lose weight gradually. Running, swimming, bike riding are all free daily actives you could do. It's a slow process, but it will help you get adjusted to this lifestyle.
Unless you push yourself to dangerous levels like working out 8 hours a day, you won't lose weight quickly like you want. I wouldn't recommend doing this, seeing as it can cause more health problems rather than fixing them. As optimistic losing 14lbs a month sounds, you should really start off slow to ease yourself into this.
User avatar #190848 to #190847 - kegget (07/12/2015) [-]
i really dont care much about my health, i just wanna get skinny fast

I know how dumb it sounds but feeling fat and disgusting can't be good for my health either

since when is swimming free?
#190831 - amazingzebra (07/12/2015) [-]
How many dates should you go on with someone before its ok to bring them along to group based things? If ask her to go hiking with me and my friends (it is mixed genders so its not 1 girl and a sausage fest) then would that be weird?
User avatar #190859 to #190831 - thebestpieever (07/12/2015) [-]
Five to six.
User avatar #190834 to #190831 - joshlol (07/12/2015) [-]
sounds fine
User avatar #190839 to #190834 - letting (07/12/2015) [-]
Joshlol giving girl advice.

Dear god what are you even doing here?

He right tho it does sound fine
User avatar #190849 to #190839 - advice (07/12/2015) [-]
maybe he overheard some alpha's talking about it and remembered.

#190830 - anon (07/12/2015) [-]
So I met this girl who's like perfect for me, she's smart, funny, deathly sarcastic, and I can actually hold a conversation with her. Trouble is, she's ugly. Like, really ugly. I'm no adonis, and I understand I'm not going to find a dime who'll date me, but I'm simply not attracted to this girl. Am I being too shallow?
User avatar #190857 to #190830 - durkadurka (07/12/2015) [-]
No, you're not. Found myself in a similar situation and I just couldn't bring myself to do it.
This girl seemed to have her head in the right place, which honestly is rare these days, good upbringing, good morals/values, etc. But you just can't fake biological attraction.

You're not shallow for having the same biological impulses as the rest of us.
User avatar #190854 to #190830 - victhree (07/12/2015) [-]
I l'd known my crush for years before I fell in love with her. Beforehand, I'd considered her to be below average beauty-wise. Then one day, she suddenly seemed lovely, it was hard not to look at her when she was around. It didn't take me too long to realise I was in love with her.

Just be friends with her. If something's meant to happen between you two, you'll know it. Sometimes, the one we think would fit us best is not the one that steals our heart.
#190845 to #190830 - anon (07/12/2015) [-]
Do you have to date her? Just because both of you are single doesn't mean you guys have to date. Why not just stay friends? Does she have a crush on you?
#190840 to #190830 - anon (07/12/2015) [-]
First time i met my crush, and it pains me to say this, but i didn't find her physically attractive at all. Seriously i hate myself for even thinking about her this way because to me she's the most goddamn beautiful creature to walk this earth, but when i saw her i would give her a 4, maybe 5 (even this i may be embellishing since i feel so ashamed that i could think like that). Strange thing is, that's only in my memory now. I can't even comprehend how i could see anything but an angel when i laid my eyes on her. Maybe i'm just an asshole.
Not even long after we became good friends (Just like your girl, she's absolutely brilliant and funny) i fell absolutely madly in love with her.
All of her imperfections became strangely endearing, and the elements which made her beautiful started to stand out.
Now she's a perfect 10 for me. One day when i saw her after she had her hair done my heart nearly stopped. To paraphrase Oscar Wilde: To me she seems to be in every way the visible personification of absolute perfection.
A hundred years in the playboy mansion would compare to nothing if only i had 5 minutes with her.

Here's my advice to you. Ignore her physical appearance for now, and just be friends. Hell, if you think she's perfect for you, become best friends. As gay as this might sound, once you fall in love with her soul the rest of her will follow.
User avatar #190835 to #190830 - joshlol (07/12/2015) [-]
get to know her as a friend and in time her apperance may grow on you
if not, hey you have a friend
#190832 to #190830 - amazingzebra (07/12/2015) [-]
She sounds like a perfect friend
User avatar #190811 - fukkentyranitar (07/11/2015) [-]
My friend and I have been wanting to get into music recording and beat making but I don't have the cash for equipment and I've been looking for a job for 5-6 months now. My cousin was good at making rap and electronic beats but he was murdered recently and before we could really get the movement started. I feel so motivated to start writing songs and get shit going but I have no idea where the fuck to start. Any advice would help at this point.
User avatar #190878 to #190811 - cognosceteipsum (07/12/2015) [-]
Uhhh.. unrelated question but, are you black?
#190882 to #190878 - fukkentyranitar (07/12/2015) [-]
That seems extremely related to the topic if this is going where I think is, and yes, I'm black. Is this going where I think it is?
User avatar #190883 to #190882 - cognosceteipsum (07/12/2015) [-]
Not necessarily. Not going to judge you. It's just a bit stereotypical.
User avatar #190884 to #190883 - fukkentyranitar (07/12/2015) [-]
Its not really a stereotype as much as its a fact of life. Black people target other black people just as much as anyone else. That's why i want to do something with my life and get my family out of the shitter. Lord knows we could use the cash. Debts are pilling up and a funeral won't help matters either. Even if I can't get it started immediately, I want shit to work out in the long run.
User avatar #190897 to #190884 - cognosceteipsum (07/12/2015) [-]
Are you saying black-on-black violence is as common as anyone-on-anyone violence or black-on-black violence is as common as black-on-other people violence? I'm guessing the former.

Well good on you. I don't have anyone to get out of the 'gutter' so I don't really do a lot (except bring myself out it but it doesn't matter) but I wish you good luck
User avatar #190899 to #190897 - fukkentyranitar (07/12/2015) [-]
I appreciate it. And I was saying that black on black crime is just as common as white on white crime or latino on latino crime. People are just copies of the environment they're accustomed to.
User avatar #190836 to #190811 - joshlol (07/12/2015) [-]
can I buy your mixtape bro?
User avatar #190843 to #190836 - fukkentyranitar (07/12/2015) [-]
You'll be the first to know when i manage to make one.
#190837 to #190836 - anon (07/12/2015) [-]
Go back to autism you retard
User avatar #190838 to #190837 - joshlol (07/12/2015) [-]
say that to my face and not over the internet and see what happens bro
#190841 to #190838 - anon (07/12/2015) [-]
Shut up fattie
User avatar #190851 to #190841 - advice (07/12/2015) [-]
bruh he'll smoke yo ass like a fattie
User avatar #190817 to #190811 - muchname (07/11/2015) [-]
murdered? nigga tf? I think we need some context
User avatar #190820 to #190817 - fukkentyranitar (07/12/2015) [-]
He and my other cousin were leaving a house party and some bastards in a honda civic almost ran him over. When he called to them, they got out, chased my cousins and stabbed one of them with hunting knives. It was totally random. Happened last week thursday.
User avatar #190827 to #190820 - confusedasian (07/12/2015) [-]
Some fucked people out there. What the fuck? How is the investigation? Any suspects or arrests?
User avatar #190828 to #190827 - fukkentyranitar (07/12/2015) [-]
No arrests or major leads, but witnesses said the suspects fled in a silver 2002-2005 honda civic. The police are still looking for good samaritan who tried to help. I hope to god they find something.
User avatar #190829 to #190828 - confusedasian (07/12/2015) [-]
I'm with you too. Something like this and it doesn't get justice? That's not right. I hope the best with you and your family.
User avatar #190842 to #190829 - fukkentyranitar (07/12/2015) [-]
Much appreciated.
#190822 to #190820 - muchname (07/12/2015) [-]
sorry for your loss brother, you seem to be taking it well?
User avatar #190823 to #190822 - fukkentyranitar (07/12/2015) [-]
I'll be alright. I'm more pissed the fuck off than mournful. But my whole family is out of it now. The worst part is that it should have never happened. It was completely random and uncalled for. He wasn't fighting with anyone and didn't have any beef with anybody. He was just crossing the street to get to his car.
User avatar #190818 to #190817 - confusedasian (07/11/2015) [-]
Yeah, I'm with this guy. Sorry for your loss, but like what? Murdered? Why?
#190809 - victhree (07/11/2015) [-]
What are some nice places to see in southern England? I like history and rain. Lots of rain.
User avatar #190833 to #190809 - noneckcomics (07/12/2015) [-]
Depends where you mean by southern? Plenty of castle if that's your jam, recommend Windsor and Dover.
User avatar #190846 to #190833 - victhree (07/12/2015) [-]
Anything south of Oxford except Cornwall. We've already got some stops planned, so I'd like to hear places off the beaten track, from someone who's actually been there. Hidden sights in London would also be welcome.
User avatar #190874 to #190846 - noneckcomics (07/12/2015) [-]
Well I live in Cornwall, so not much use ha. Lived in Bristol for a while. Both pretty southern.
User avatar #190876 to #190874 - victhree (07/12/2015) [-]
Haha, it's ok.
#190804 - anon (07/11/2015) [-]
I've been thinking about suicide lately, in more of a "If I kill myself today, I won't have to go to work tomorrow" kind of way rather than a depressed suicidal thought and it's got me worried. I've talked to my friends about it and they all say they've thought that same thing before and it's normal but I'm worried it will escalate to something more. What if I do start to think about suicide in a more serious manner or what I do start getting depressed?
User avatar #190913 to #190804 - mondamini (07/12/2015) [-]

This guy is the best I've seen phrase it. The one thing to understand is at times killing yourself can seem trivial, or a small thing, but in reality its a big ass fuckin deal. Like I said, guy in the video can phrase it way better than me.
#190870 to #190804 - anon (07/12/2015) [-]
think about the thing you'll be missing
User avatar #190855 to #190804 - victhree (07/12/2015) [-]
I don't know how to deal with that, but you should repost this later. Getting an answer in this board is 80% luck, just try again later. Until then, don't let the fear of those thoughts getting worse grow on you. It's that way how something creeps into your mind.
#190803 - muchname (07/11/2015) [-]
I broke on of my friends drum sticks and one of mine has a crack on it, any tips for drumming/not breaking the sticks? other than "don't hit them so hard"
#190863 to #190803 - anon (07/12/2015) [-]
tape pipe foam around the handle ends so you can't get leverage and break them.
User avatar #190813 to #190803 - durkadurka (07/11/2015) [-]
Buy generic sticks in bulk. This brings your price per pair down to around $3-4 and leaves you with plenty of extra sticks.


If you hit hard, you're going to break stuff. That's just the way it is. It's best if it's your sticks breaking and not your gear.

#190814 to #190813 - muchname (07/11/2015) [-]
but I don't want to hit them hard, that's the thing, I want to jazz/metal drum like JP gaster or Bill Ward so it's more about how the drums are hit
User avatar #190815 to #190814 - durkadurka (07/11/2015) [-]
Ah then you gotta work on technique. I'm all about the heavy hitting so I've become very familiar with broken sticks.
User avatar #190816 to #190815 - muchname (07/11/2015) [-]
that'd be an awesome solo drum album name
#190806 to #190803 - anon (07/11/2015) [-]
I've never had any problem with breaking my sticks on the instruments, I've only ever broken one when I was beating the side of a wall. Are you using them on the drums or are you playing with them on something else?
User avatar #190807 to #190806 - muchname (07/11/2015) [-]
I use em on the drums, it may be that I hit them harder than the fucking pantera at sides to annoy my grammy ma
#190812 to #190807 - muchname (07/11/2015) [-]
what the fuck was my spelling there?
User avatar #190805 to #190803 - confusedasian (07/11/2015) [-]
Drum with your hands.
User avatar #190791 - imnotnewhereok (07/11/2015) [-]
What's an easy way to make a comic? I have to declare my love to someone.
User avatar #190796 to #190791 - braveblue (07/11/2015) [-]
You should make it on paper and with pencil and no matter how much it sucks just make sure it conveys the message really well.
User avatar #190799 to #190796 - imnotnewhereok (07/11/2015) [-]
I wouldnt know how to get it to her.
User avatar #190795 to #190791 - hirollin (07/11/2015) [-]
then a comic is probably the wrong way to do it.
User avatar #190797 to #190795 - imnotnewhereok (07/11/2015) [-]
how else am i supposed to tell Andra i adore her??
User avatar #190871 to #190797 - whathaveyoudone (07/12/2015) [-]
suck his dick
User avatar #190786 - rereviven (07/11/2015) [-]
How much German should I know before I go there? I've been using Duoling for about a week now and that's helped me a lot so far. I also want to try to watch movies and read books in german before I let myself travel there
#190802 to #190786 - oxidoferroso (07/11/2015) [-]
**oxidoferroso used "*roll picture*"**
**oxidoferroso rolled image**Nigger what? Duolingo is fine only for the write part of the language. You have to speak it and try to have some conversations... And you have only studied 1 week of it. Are you seriously planning to go to Germany with 1 week of language learned?
User avatar #190819 to #190802 - rereviven (07/11/2015) [-]
I mean one week as in, I've started a week ago and will continue until I feel comfortable with my level
#190873 to #190819 - oxidoferroso (07/12/2015) [-]
It's going to be a slow ride, that's for sure. It would be better if you could find some sort of academy/ tutoring and start thinking about it one year and half later. NOt saying you should stop with Duolingo, but German isn't exactly the kind of language where you can half speak.
And books and movies are always a good way to become comfortable with the language. Try some music too pic related
User avatar #190787 to #190786 - rereviven (07/11/2015) [-]
Go as in, live and study there though an English program for a few years
User avatar #190808 to #190787 - victhree (07/11/2015) [-]
Not the person who knows the most, but in Germany they require an excellent level of German in most areas. It's a very rigid language, IMO the best way to become better at reading it is taking a look at their newspapers.
#190793 to #190787 - anon (07/11/2015) [-]
Did you just answer your own question?
User avatar #190800 to #190793 - braveblue (07/11/2015) [-]
Are you stupid? He meant he's going to live there and study there for a few years.
#190926 to #190800 - anon (07/12/2015) [-]
That's cool.
User avatar #190927 to #190926 - braveblue (07/12/2015) [-]
I'm sorry. Can't you forgive me for calling you stupid? I didn't really mean it.
#190784 - anon (07/11/2015) [-]
How do i convince my boyfriend to see a doctor?
We've been together for 8 years and he's never been for a check-up in that time, it really worries me.
His lung collapsed this time last year, and he was supposed to see a doctor to check if his lung has repaired well but he never did because it feels fine.
We've never used protection, and I've never conceived so I'm worried about his sperm count too as i want children with him soon.
He also breaks into these cold sweats in his sleep, which apart from being very uncomfortable to sleep next to it's also could be a sign of something wrong.

I'm just so worried about him all the time, am i being crazy? I just want him to get checked up on every couple of years like any other person would.
User avatar #190798 to #190784 - hirollin (07/11/2015) [-]
"we is gonna see dah queen! right have you yes sir cheerio wat wat!"
User avatar #190785 to #190784 - foreveranonymous (07/11/2015) [-]
Make an appointment for him, tell him "we're going to Disneyland!", but then take him to the doctors instead of Didney
#190788 to #190785 - anon (07/11/2015) [-]
I think he may become suspicious of me driving him to Disneyland from the UK.
User avatar #190801 to #190788 - braveblue (07/11/2015) [-]
Then tell him you are going to the store and then take him to the doctors.
#190778 - anon (07/11/2015) [-]
So there's this girl Ive been good friends with for a while and the other day she told me she's almost ready to start dating (I like her and I've made that apparent) Anyway so last night we were texting and pretty much out of the blue she asked if I was a virgin and I told her the truth that I am. She also told me she is one which surprised me (also she's 21 I'm 20). We both have waited for someone we're comfortable enough with and who's specual I guess, I know dats gay haha. Anyway she's told me before how important I am to her and I would want to lose it with her. Does this seem like she's hinting at sexy time? Or is she just making it clear that she's isn't looking for sex?
User avatar #190824 to #190778 - paintskillz (07/12/2015) [-]
Just ask her out on a date and go from there, if she likes you and you like her then eventually you will bang and live happily ever after
User avatar #190782 to #190778 - awesomerninjathing (07/11/2015) [-]
>waiting for someone special
>"wow anon you're really important and special to me"

#190777 - anon (07/11/2015) [-]
#190774 - jettom (07/11/2015) [-]
I need more webms of war and missiles and explosions. Preferably by slavs.
User avatar #190877 to #190774 - oxidoferroso (07/12/2015) [-]
NOw taht I think of it, go to /k/, they usually have one thread up talking and posting Ukraine rebel's related tactics and videos
#190864 to #190774 - anon (07/12/2015) [-]
User avatar #190779 to #190774 - oxidoferroso (07/11/2015) [-]
Ukraine mercs are constantly recording and uploading shit to jewtube and liveleak. Search it yourself fagget
User avatar #190756 - vetis (07/10/2015) [-]
Anyone here know a nice website to get clothes from? I want a nice long sleeve shirt that isn't super expensive.
#190865 to #190756 - anon (07/12/2015) [-]
ebay sells clothing worldwide and not just used stuff, i get great deals on neat shit all the time.
User avatar #190875 to #190865 - vetis (07/12/2015) [-]
True, I forgot to check ebay, I only looked at Amazon.
User avatar #190760 to #190756 - thumbsdenied (07/10/2015) [-]
I like ASOS, tons of clothes there. Probly not the cheapest, but it has some pretty cool stuff
User avatar #190761 to #190760 - vetis (07/10/2015) [-]
Care to link me to their website? I assume it isn't as simple as asos.com
User avatar #190762 to #190761 - vetis (07/10/2015) [-]
...Well I'll be damned.
User avatar #190766 to #190762 - thumbsdenied (07/11/2015) [-]
Find anything ya like?
User avatar #190767 to #190766 - vetis (07/11/2015) [-]
Nah, not really. I searched Large long sleeves and got six results.
User avatar #190768 to #190767 - thumbsdenied (07/11/2015) [-]
Hmm, i get over 300 options for long sleeve t-shirts in large size.
User avatar #190770 to #190768 - vetis (07/11/2015) [-]
Oh I got it working right. I must have fucked something up before.
User avatar #190780 to #190770 - thumbsdenied (07/11/2015) [-]
no worries, its a good site imo, i bought shoes and a bracelet from there, gonna need a new backbag aswell and il most likely order from there.
User avatar #190769 to #190768 - vetis (07/11/2015) [-]
How strange... Well, regardless, most were $60+. I wouldn't spend more than $30 on a shirt.
#190771 to #190769 - anon (07/11/2015) [-]
Got 200 under 25€, you looked outside the sale?
User avatar #190772 to #190771 - vetis (07/11/2015) [-]
Lookin' now. Thanks mate.
User avatar #190764 to #190762 - thumbsdenied (07/10/2015) [-]
Aye, its asos.com lol
#190751 - anon (07/10/2015) [-]
Two months ago, I auditioned for a part in my community theater production Grease. I didn't get a role but I still wanted to be a part in the crew and stagehands so I put that down on my audition sheet "Willing to be crew member". My director said he'll get back to me when they start to need help backstage, which is usually during tech week before opening night. Well, after all that time without a word from him I figured he forgot about me or just got the help he needed already, so I decided to schedule my job and school for this month throughout the week without making any time for anything else. However, just yesterday my director calls me telling me that I'm the only crew who signed up and that I need to be there this weekend to help with tech. The play opens next week and I can't reschedule my work and I can't miss any more of my classes. I'm really nerves about all this and I can't think straight, can someone help me?
User avatar #190776 to #190751 - hirollin (07/11/2015) [-]
Here's my suggestion,
go to a drive in
lose yourself there, perhaps strand yourself
think about what the kids will say
monday at skewllllllllllllllll

No but seriously go to school because grease is done like 4 times a fucking year. There will always be more grease plays and its the bosses fault for thinking you'd be waiting on your hands and knees.
User avatar #190773 to #190751 - welliguessitsaname (07/11/2015) [-]
We can't help you based on that, Anon. Tell me more.

#190736 - closotezuka ONLINE (07/10/2015) [-]
Do you ever feel like you want more? Do you feel like one thing isn't enough?

I've finally got myself a boyfriend, something I was sure would finally make me happy, but it doesn't. I don't have many friends, so now my depressive thoughts are on the fact that I don't have many friends. Most of my friends just don't like me as a person (Only hang out with me cause I play the same games as them) and I don't even have any real life friends, in fact, my boyfriend is an internet relationship too (Although we're meeting up this summer)

I dunno what to do. No matter what I accomplish I still find a reason to be sad, and those sad thoughts overshadow everything else. It's gotten to the point where I'm seriously considering suicide because of how useless I am. No one wants to be my friend, I'm an autistic idiot who is unskilled at pretty much everything. And I get angry, a lot. No matter how much therapy I have or anything like that. I feel like I'm just a lost cause and I should give up. I'm slowly getting closer and closer to that conclusion.
#190872 to #190736 - anon (07/12/2015) [-]
You're over thinking, if your friends didnt like you they wouldn't be playing with you, if not like they couldnt ditch you and play with someone else.
User avatar #190866 to #190736 - novabird ONLINE (07/12/2015) [-]
honestly as someone who thrives on being a companion the only thing i'd ever want is a place i finally feel at home and family i can trust for once who won't lie to me(i have never felt at home where i reside yet have at other places), the one time i had a gf i was actually happy and content, aside the few things that make me happy i have no desires at all, however i'm mentally wired to serve a purpose at all times and to protect etc to an extreme level.
however there's a ton to explain as to why i ended up this way.
if i did find more to make things even better however i'd seek that as well as it's only logical.
User avatar #190810 to #190736 - fukkentyranitar (07/11/2015) [-]
I can somewhat sympathize with you feelings of disatisfaction. Don't take it as disatisfaction but rather motivation to do more. Lord knows we can all do better. Hopefully you can find something you're passionate about and feel motivated to get better at. No point sulking about shit you haven't tried, especially when you feel like you could do more. Its just that simple, throw more shit at the proverbial wall until something sticks. Maybe music or drawing.
User avatar #190759 to #190736 - thumbsdenied (07/10/2015) [-]
Im pretty good at many things, im good with art, am good at school and i was a hard worker, very clumsy because i broke alot of things hehe. But everything i should be proud of feels like "meh" to me. I get tons of praise from people and alot of people seem to like me, but i still come home to nobody.

We easily put ourselves down when we feel lonely, everything we do feels meaningles even tho we still matter alot for many reasons and many people. We just dont see it that way because we come home to nobody. we need that somebody whose words mean much much more than those who we work with or talk to over the net.

the boy you met might spark some joy if you two match outside the net. Love is tricky to know until you're face to face.
User avatar #190763 to #190759 - closotezuka ONLINE (07/10/2015) [-]
at least you know you've accomplished shit. i go to special school for retards and, today, for example, i did literally nothing. NOTHING. i dont have homework, exams, nothing. i have nothing to feel accomplished about at all

besides, knowing me, im gonna fuck up with my boyfriend and get angry and punch him.
User avatar #190765 to #190763 - thumbsdenied (07/10/2015) [-]
Well i was in special ed's the 2 first years of my school, because i didnt talk to people till i was like 8. These days i im in a vocational school whit everysingle person in my class acting like a entitled jackass. Besides i havent done anything for a month, usually too lazy to even keep my apartment clean because i dont really give a crap until my mom visits then i feel ashamed.
Sleep, wake up play games, check my plants, get food from somewhere like subway, crap and sleep. im 22 years old, aint got nothing to show for my life either. but i have potential for things, i know this. And i know you do too.

I also got anger issues, there isnt a day when i dont wanna punch my sister teeth in. the way she acts towards my parents is just horrendous. She will have no place in my life after she moves from my parents house. Id get a restraining order on her if i could because she is a sociopathic fucking cunt.
also people in my class.. I just wanna yell for them to fuck off. They only bitch when the school is completely optional too, and some people who actually deserved a spot in the class are sitting home or in a study they didnt want to because these fuckers got their spot.
Ive just learned to "shut down" and breathe calmly, till i feel okay. We all got anger its human nature, just learn what helps you calm down. Violence wont solve anything, just gonna cause more misery. Only reason i havent exploded like a rabbid chimp on my sister because i dont want to hurt my relationship with my mom and dad.
User avatar #190747 to #190736 - Sethorein ONLINE (07/10/2015) [-]
Suicidal ideation is pretty awful... are you seeing a therapist regularly? Does the therapist know that youve considered suicide?

No die pls.
User avatar #190750 to #190747 - closotezuka ONLINE (07/10/2015) [-]
yes. but she sucks dick. it's all the same horse shit. "oh no, you'll be fine, you just have to do what you enjoy and think about the future bla bla" like shit i couldve told myself that, i thought i was gonna get help from a proffessional not a walking talking google search.
User avatar #190752 to #190750 - Sethorein ONLINE (07/10/2015) [-]
Well if you're dissatisfied with what you have, fogure out what precisely disatisfies you and change it.
User avatar #190753 to #190752 - closotezuka ONLINE (07/10/2015) [-]
the thing is, i've been trying to change myself for the better. ive tried to not get angry at everything, ive tried to make new friends, it just DOESNT WORK, because im useless. this is why i feel awful
User avatar #190754 to #190753 - Sethorein ONLINE (07/10/2015) [-]
You shoukdnt have to try to make friends. You should interact nsturally with the world around you and through natural interactions, friendships should form.

I dunno what it is loke when youre autistic... but i tend to be a hobbyist. Hobby friends are better than nothing right?
User avatar #190739 to #190736 - kokanum (07/10/2015) [-]
Maybe you expect too much
True happiness doesn't come from others, it comes from accepting yourself and pushing yourself to do what's natural to you
User avatar #190740 to #190739 - closotezuka ONLINE (07/10/2015) [-]
what's natural to me is playing videogames and social interaction

but its hard when you're inept at both of those things
User avatar #190741 to #190740 - kokanum (07/10/2015) [-]
Video games are just simulators of your ability of skill
What video games do you normaly play?
User avatar #190742 to #190741 - closotezuka ONLINE (07/10/2015) [-]
stuff like csgo, tf2, and lol. i play them at a competitive level and have done for years on end now, but in all of them i am at the absolute most average skill level (MG, high-div, plat, respectively)
User avatar #190748 to #190742 - Sethorein ONLINE (07/10/2015) [-]
Play turn based games so you arent limited by reflexes but by your ability to memorize long term plays.
User avatar #190743 to #190742 - kokanum (07/10/2015) [-]
Who do you like playing as in CSGO and TF2?
User avatar #190744 to #190743 - closotezuka ONLINE (07/10/2015) [-]
whaddya mean?
User avatar #190745 to #190744 - kokanum (07/10/2015) [-]
What class and main weapon in those games?
User avatar #190746 to #190745 - closotezuka ONLINE (07/10/2015) [-]
well i play engie in tf2 and stuff, and i just roll with meta weapons in csgo like the ak and m4. where are you goin with this
User avatar #190749 to #190746 - kokanum (07/10/2015) [-]
Each weapon is use in different tactics
I think finding a hobby that helps your skill at a certain thing
#190738 to #190736 - confusedasian (07/10/2015) [-]
I don't have irl friends either.
#190735 - anon (07/10/2015) [-]
So i stopped taking my antidepressant medication about a week ago.
Apart from minor side-effects of me stopping like suicidal ideation there's one thing which is pissing me right the fuck off.

I cum in like nothing flat when fapping. Which is infuriating since it's stopping me from enjoying one of my favorite pastimes. 5 seconds is literally all it takes.
This is in contrast to when i was taking the meds and it took for-fucking ever and was exhausting.

How long will this last, it's seriously pissing me off.
#190737 to #190735 - confusedasian (07/10/2015) [-]
Enjoy multiple orgasms in one sitting. I don't see the problem here.
#190755 to #190737 - anon (07/10/2015) [-]
th.. um..

huh. Never thought about it like that.
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User avatar #190732 - dsendz ONLINE (07/10/2015) [-]
I think I may have broken my arm. It hurts to lift things. There is a large lump in the middle of my forearm. Should I go to the urgent care or the ER.
User avatar #190868 to #190732 - fukkentyranitar (07/12/2015) [-]
Get an X-ray when you can. Could be a muscle tear or a hairline fracture.
User avatar #190733 to #190732 - sciencexplain (07/10/2015) [-]
Well, it depends on multiple factors. Firstly, how severe is the pain? If it's tolerable and didn't happen so recently, don't be in a rush for emergency treatment. If the injury just happened and you feel pain, then get it seen to at the ER. That's your best bet, but if it's serious, they'll see you ASAP. If not, you're in for a wait. I recommend some powerful painkillers after you've told them, if they can confirm they won't give you any. They'll inspect you and tell you the problem. It might just be a tear or something that has caused swelling, but trust me, if it was a full break, you couldn't lift at all, and it would be screaming pain after the adrenaline has worn off.
User avatar #190893 to #190733 - dsendz ONLINE (07/12/2015) [-]
Thanks for the advice. It was a hairline fracture of the ulna.
User avatar #190734 to #190733 - dsendz ONLINE (07/10/2015) [-]
Thanks I'm going to go to the walk in clinic and get it checked out.
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