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#176345 - fuckyouthatswhy
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(03/01/2015) [-]
How do I tell my family that I've dropped out of college?
#176361 to #176345 - amonahan
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(03/01/2015) [-]
Be blunt. Tell it to their faces in person. And tell them your reasoning behind dropping out. Dropping out =/= flunking out. Honesty will take your further than dishonesty.
#176356 to #176345 - xXThatxOnexGuyXx
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(03/01/2015) [-]
Why did you drop out of college?
Just tell them that you did, and explain why.
They might be really mad at first, though...

If you were going to college and going into debt, then it wouldn't have hurt to finish college. If you're in debt might as well get something out of it.
Depending on how far deep you are into debt, you could look into joining the military and they could pay off your student loans...

That's honestly the biggest thing: Dropping out means all that time and money put into it is now wasted.
See things from their side, and if you can come to terms with your actions afterwards then your excuses are probably justified. If you can't, then you probably dun goof'd, tbh.
All in all, what's done is done. You can either re-enroll and join next semester, or forget about it altogether.
#176383 to #176356 - fuckyouthatswhy
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(03/01/2015) [-]
mainly because it wasn't what I expected (I mean the subjects were shit) and so I didn't study. It wasn't what I wanted to study and so it made me feel bad as shit. Family expected me to be a good student, ace the college come home with a degree and I was motivated but as soon as it started depressions came, I started feeling like shit, I wanted to drop out sooner but every time I went home family felt so proud about me, told me how happy they are that I'm studying and all that shit, so I stayed. Also no debt, out of money but not in debt and all this time I was spending my own money, not asking for a single cent from my mother. I thought about joining military but that would require at least one year of getting into shape. I might go work to Netherlands but that would require me staying away from my family for months.


Honestly I wouldn't even give a fuck if it wasn't for the family.
#176350 to #176345 - logickid
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(03/01/2015) [-]
Tell them you're a failure and waste money on fine arts and all that shit
#176336 - anon
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(03/01/2015) [-]
Anyone got a link to watch that new penguins of Madagascar movie online?
#176335 - anon
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(03/01/2015) [-]
How do I stop being the girl who's pretty enough to seduce and fuck but not pretty enough to actually date?
#176369 to #176335 - hirollin
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(03/01/2015) [-]
Find an activity you enjoy doing thats outside. if you're on tinder looking for a relationship then you need to reevaluate your priorities.

A guy isn't going to break into your house and present himself to you. You actually have to leave the confines of your home in order to find someone to date.
#176362 to #176335 - amonahan
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(03/01/2015) [-]
Don't wear make up for a while? See who's still attracted to you when you're "ugly"? idk just spitballing here
#176363 to #176362 - anon
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(03/01/2015) [-]
I don't wear makeup though. I'm just a very plain girl. Who guys say wow I could tap that but they don't care about my personality, they just see tits and ass, nothing else.
#176366 to #176363 - amonahan
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(03/01/2015) [-]
So, you're a homebody, who plays videogames, pretty, and doesn't wear makeup. You're basically FJ's dream girl (and let's be honest all of them are beta fags). You want a relationship and not just a fuck, that sound about right? If you want just a relationship look for guys on FJ, you'll get inadequate sex and a guy who's practically a slave. Or you can continue with the alpha fags who just want to fuck you.
You want something in the middle right? The attractive ish alpha fag, but the relationship beta fag. That right?
#176388 to #176366 - anon
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(03/01/2015) [-]
I just want a guy who will respect me and stand up for himself with the time comes. I'm not pretty I'm a 6 at best and maybe a 7 when I wear make up. I've been told this by countless people.
#176398 to #176388 - amonahan
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(03/01/2015) [-]
So you want a respectable guy with confidence? Sorry but it won't happen until later on. Beta fags MIGHT get confidence later on in life, and alpha fags rarely develop a sense of respectability. What you're looking for is the Unicorn of Men. Much in the same way a guy is looking for an attractive girl with a good personality. It doesn't happen. Except in rare cases. I could tell you that I'm a confident respectable person but let's be honest it's pretty unbelievable. That's just the world we live in.
#176439 to #176398 - anon
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(03/02/2015) [-]
god I just don't want to play games. "wait 3 days before texting/calling", "don't put out", "let them say I love you first". Like why can't we just be 2 adults and be upfront with our feelings?
#176459 to #176439 - MrKittyKat
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(03/02/2015) [-]
Yello there whoever you are anon, There are guys like that, that you want out there, I'm pretty confident and i'm not all about looks, i dated a 10/10 and the personality made me want to cry, terrible person in honesty There are plenty who love personality pls no whiteknight badge and a lot who will realize who you are and love you for what you are.

Patience is key.
#176448 to #176439 - amonahan
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(03/02/2015) [-]
Why would any guy do that? I mean, all guys think with their dicks. They're all perverts, and only care about sex. The ones who say they don't are lying or gay. I have to make sure I don't text a girl too much, otherwise i seem too needy. I don't want to "just get laid" because my past few relationships have basically been just sex for the girl but a relationship for me. They ended it, i got hurt. I moved on, and I learned. I don't want to say "I love you" because I know I'm the one who gets hurt by it.
Why can't people be upfront with their feelings? Because they don't want to admit that all they really want is sex? Because they're all too immature? IDK.
#176458 to #176448 - MrKittyKat
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(03/02/2015) [-]
"all guys think with their dicks"

how biased
#176456 to #176448 - anon
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(03/02/2015) [-]
alright thanks for the advice. I hope you find what you're looking for.
#176460 to #176456 - amonahan
Reply 0
(03/02/2015) [-]
You and me both.
#176355 to #176335 - xXThatxOnexGuyXx
Reply 0
(03/01/2015) [-]
Honestly, it's all based on your heart going into it and your intentions.
Change your heart and you'll see right through people.
Just stop using them for the physical attention they bring you. Seek a real guy.
#176367 to #176355 - focalanemo
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(03/01/2015) [-]
Since when are you back?
#176923 to #176367 - xXThatxOnexGuyXx
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(03/05/2015) [-]
When I have the time/ resources, really.
#176342 to #176335 - redandgreen
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(03/01/2015) [-]
Don't put out for them and they will either lose interest or they will be genuinely interested in you. If you like them then you can date them then.

#176341 to #176335 - sugoi
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(03/01/2015) [-]
People fuck people for being pretty.
They date people because they like their personality and can handle being around them for more than 10 minutes.

If you're "pretty enough to seduce" as you put it, you're already pretty enough to date, just gotta find someone that actually likes you.
#176364 to #176341 - anon
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(03/01/2015) [-]
Nope guys save all the romance for really pretty girls, 6's and under get dick occasionally but that's it. Being pretty is what makes them WANT to get to know you
#176338 to #176335 - focalanemo
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(03/01/2015) [-]
ehhh? It just sounds like you are in the wrong environment. If you go to stuff like nightclubs very often you'll only find people that want one night stands.
#176365 to #176338 - anon
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(03/01/2015) [-]
I don't, I'm a homebody and I play videogames. I don't like outside much.
#176368 to #176365 - focalanemo
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(03/01/2015) [-]
I guess you need to wait until someone likes your personality and is looking for a relationship or you can take the initiative and try to be around someone you like.
#176333 - giantorangutan
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(03/01/2015) [-]
yo i wanna start making some vids simple stuff you know like gameplay with some music what kind of video editing software can i get or best for this?
#176339 to #176333 - focalanemo
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(03/01/2015) [-]
Adobe Premiere for general editing, and Adobe after effects if you want flashy stuff with lots of options. That shit costs a butload of cash but if you are fine with torrenting stuff you can do that.
If you want to use free stuff, there is always windows movie maker but I don't recommend that.
#176340 to #176339 - giantorangutan
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(03/01/2015) [-]
thanks bud i got movie maker and im making a vid right now trying it out i mean its getting the job done kinda... imma look into gettig adobe
#176316 - lynix
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(03/01/2015) [-]
If a friend never starts any conversation and otherwise probably would never say anything for a day if you didn't start something, is that a sign that they don't really care?
#176334 to #176316 - redandgreen
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(03/01/2015) [-]
Some people are like that and you just have to know if you can love them even though they don't express their love in the same way.
#176331 to #176316 - pokemonstheshiz
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(03/01/2015) [-]
I'm kinda like that irl sometimes. I just don't really know how to start conversations without it being small talk, and I generally avoid small talk because it bores me. I can hang out with a friend playing vidya for hours and not talk much, but it doesn't mean they're not my friends or I don't care about them.

It's more of just a sign that they keep their thoughts to themselves for the most part.
#176322 to #176316 - lordbrauner
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(03/01/2015) [-]
No. I've actually been confronted on this before myself. Their world doesn't revolve around you, you have to realize that they have a life to live. Friendship doesn't mean contact every day of the week, so I think you're looking too far into this when it's probably just fairly innocent.

Give a guy some breathing room.
#176324 to #176322 - lynix
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(03/01/2015) [-]
good advice, thank you!
#176327 to #176324 - lordbrauner
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(03/01/2015) [-]
No problem! Hope everything works out between you two.

Sometimes I need my days where I talk to no one, but that doesn't mean that I don't care about them.
#176320 to #176316 - sugoi
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(03/01/2015) [-]
Maybe just maybe they're an introvert.
#176323 to #176320 - lynix
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(03/01/2015) [-]
that makes since. So would I be bugging them by trying to start conversations or is it good and then they just respond when they feel up to it?
#176328 to #176323 - sugoi
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(03/01/2015) [-]
Just hang out with them and prompt conversation when there is something up.
Best idea is just not to be forceful.
#176329 to #176328 - lynix
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(03/01/2015) [-]
thanks! It's just a weird situation.
I'm sure things will work out, but it's weird. Sometimes just having a little reassurance is all you need.
#176325 to #176323 - lynix
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(03/01/2015) [-]
sense.
#176318 to #176316 - sineztro
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(03/01/2015) [-]
Sometimes unless they're busy, like if they're in school they could be working on their studies a lot,
#176309 - anon
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(03/01/2015) [-]
so i've been gaining weight like crazy. does anyone know how i can lose it?
it may just be bloating cause i might be getting the . soon but idk
#176310 to #176309 - delphine
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(03/01/2015) [-]
Drink lots of water and stay hydrated. If you're bloating because of your period, water helps.
Don't drink soda or sugary beverages, they are all empty calories. Fruit juice at least has vitamins and shit. Stay away from high-sugar foods. A product may be labeled "fat free" but if it has a shit ton of sugar that gets converted into fat. Food companies will sneak sugar into everything. I don't normally buy Starbucks, but had a coupon for a free drink so I got a chai latte. I thought it tasted way too sweet, but drank it anyway because hey it was free. Then I started feeling really sick, so I looked up how much sugar they put into a chai latte... 42 grams of sugar!? How do they even fit that much sugar into such a small cup?
#176311 to #176310 - anon
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(03/01/2015) [-]
oh my god. i'm never drinking coffee again!
thanks so much. (:
#176332 to #176311 - thenextprodigy
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(03/01/2015) [-]
coffee is great for you if you're trying to lost weight! it boost your metabolism for you. just make sure you drink a lot of water after drinking coffee because it dehydrates you
#176313 to #176311 - delphine
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(03/01/2015) [-]
I drink coffee all the time! but I buy it unsweetened with a bit of milk, or I sweeten it myself with TINY bit of honey or molasses. At least those sugars have some nutritional value. But yeah, Starbucks is awful. If I order a chai latte, I expect chai tea with steamed milk. Not a liquid candy bar. I make my own steamed milk in the microwave now cause I don't trust coffee houses anymore haha.
#176304 - sniperfumbles
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(03/01/2015) [-]
Any recommendations on dealing with back pain, aside from taking tylenol all day? Too poor to get a bad, so you know.
#176351 to #176304 - logickid
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(03/01/2015) [-]
Live in a house with wooden flooring
like real wood
it's good for your back because something about vibrations
go to a doctor
wear shit for your back
lie down on the floor
sit up straight
#176315 to #176304 - notred
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(03/01/2015) [-]
There are pain meds specific for back pain that work very well. I have back issues and they work great.
#176312 to #176304 - delphine
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(03/01/2015) [-]
heating pack. Also, there are some really good stretches you can do to help with back pain. invest in good shoes, or at least find some dr. sholls inserts or something. bad shoes can lead to back pain.
#176302 - ohhitheree
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(03/01/2015) [-]
Hey, anyone here good at writing? I need some help proofreading some essays for a college app.
#176307 to #176302 - xXThatxOnexGuyXx
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(03/01/2015) [-]
When is it due?
If possible, email it to me and I'll take a look at it tomorrow when I can.
MrNameloc@ gmail.com
#176293 - thereasonableperso
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(03/01/2015) [-]
I do NOT like horror movies. My girlfriend forced me to watch Chernobyl Diaries.

I Am so on edge right now. Send help.
#176352 to #176293 - logickid
Reply 0
(03/01/2015) [-]
Watch Frankenstein's Army
#176297 to #176293 - megasharkman
Reply 0
(03/01/2015) [-]
Play a not scary rpg. You'll be engrossed in that instead
#176295 to #176293 - fuckya
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(03/01/2015) [-]
Does this help?
Does this help?
#176337 to #176295 - harbingerwolf
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(03/01/2015) [-]
Whats that from?
#176296 to #176295 - thereasonableperso
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(03/01/2015) [-]
Bruh
#176298 to #176296 - fuckya
Reply 0
(03/01/2015) [-]
But did it help?
#176299 to #176298 - thereasonableperso
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(03/01/2015) [-]
Of course it didn't you fuck.
#176300 to #176299 - fuckya
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(03/01/2015) [-]
Aww dammit. I thought scaring you with something else would work. Like in Major Payne.
That was a good movie.
#176301 to #176300 - thereasonableperso
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(03/01/2015) [-]
That was a good movie.
#176303 to #176301 - fuckya
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(03/01/2015) [-]
Watch Major Payne while slowly drifting off into a pleasant slumber. His yells of motivation will be your soothing lullaby.
#176294 to #176293 - gerikhero
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(03/01/2015) [-]
IS not that scary of a movie. Mostly a lot of tension. Brave through it!
#176291 - yoin
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(03/01/2015) [-]
**yoin used "*roll picture*"**
**yoin rolled image** So I'm heavily considering attending Michigan State University next year and was just curious if anyone currently attending had any tips or advice to share?
#176326 to #176291 - lordbrauner
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(03/01/2015) [-]
I've visited the campus, but not much else; however, I do have a couple of my absolute closest friends living in Lansing, so if you do decide to go there, I can put you in contact with them so you can have someone show you around. I'd trust them with my life.
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#176288 - bananaforlife
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(03/01/2015) [-]
so I have a message from admin saying I have 7 days of colored text, how does one use it?
#176289 to #176288 - fistfireace
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(03/01/2015) [-]
Check your items, you'll see one that says "colored text" and after you click it press apply, and then pick a color then press "Okay".
#176230 - ajrin
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(02/28/2015) [-]
>>#176085, >>#176116, >>#176088, >>#176150, >>#176155, >>#176171, >>#176126, >>#176132, >>#176178, >>#176139, >>#176135, >>#176157, >>#176146, >>#176163, >>#176216, >>#176168, >>#176199, >>#176183, >>#176189, >>#176191, >>#176186, >>#176210, >>#176192, >>#176205, >>#176222, >>#176228,

you all got shit tier advice
#176317 to #176230 - advice
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(03/01/2015) [-]
I have god-tier advice tho
#176321 to #176317 - sineztro
Reply 0
(03/01/2015) [-]
You are god tier advice
#176281 to #176230 - volksunion
Reply 0
(03/01/2015) [-]
i havent been able to use the advice yet
#176264 to #176230 - adrilazzaro
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(03/01/2015) [-]
gave*
#176265 to #176264 - ajrin
Reply 0
(03/01/2015) [-]
no
#176266 to #176265 - adrilazzaro
Reply 0
(03/01/2015) [-]
prove it
#176267 to #176266 - ajrin
Reply 0
(03/01/2015) [-]
prove that I'm wrong
#176268 to #176267 - adrilazzaro
Reply 0
(03/01/2015) [-]
guilty until proven innocent. your move mr law man
#176269 to #176268 - ajrin
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(03/01/2015) [-]
innocent until proven otherwise
#176270 to #176269 - adrilazzaro
Reply -1
(03/01/2015) [-]
nuh uh
#176271 to #176270 - ajrin
Reply 0
(03/01/2015) [-]
yeah
#176272 to #176271 - adrilazzaro
Reply -2
(03/01/2015) [-]
nope
#176275 to #176272 - ajrin
Reply 0
(03/01/2015) [-]
yes
#176277 to #176275 - adrilazzaro
Reply -2
(03/01/2015) [-]
no
#176278 to #176277 - ajrin
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(03/01/2015) [-]
yes
#176279 to #176278 - adrilazzaro
Reply -2
(03/01/2015) [-]
negative
#176280 to #176279 - ajrin
Reply 0
(03/01/2015) [-]
positive
#176282 to #176280 - adrilazzaro
Reply -2
(03/01/2015) [-]
nyet
#176283 to #176282 - ajrin
Reply 0
(03/01/2015) [-]
da
#176284 to #176283 - adrilazzaro
Reply -2
(03/01/2015) [-]
non
#176285 to #176284 - ajrin
Reply 0
(03/01/2015) [-]
baguette
#176234 to #176230 - lordbrauner
Reply 0
(02/28/2015) [-]
And you've got none. Oh well.
#176236 to #176234 - ajrin
Reply 0
(02/28/2015) [-]
I've posted here before
and I got god tier advice
#176239 to #176236 - lordbrauner
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(02/28/2015) [-]
That's nice, dear.
#176241 to #176239 - ajrin
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(02/28/2015) [-]
it really is thank you
#176232 to #176230 - dasistwunderbar
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(02/28/2015) [-]
If you're gonna get banned, at least do it with porn.
#176235 to #176232 - ajrin
Reply 0
(02/28/2015) [-]
but if I get banned for spam I get a 800+ hour ban
if I post nsfw I get a 24 hour ban

and I did this on /social/ before and I never got banned
and there were A LOT more people on /social/
#176238 to #176235 - dasistwunderbar
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(02/28/2015) [-]
tell me more.
#176240 to #176238 - ajrin
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(02/28/2015) [-]
I was extremely bored after a test
so I decided to go on /social/ and call everybody who posted there in the last 20 posts a wonderful person
so I did
I got lots of thumbs and friendly comments
not really much else to tell
#176242 to #176240 - dasistwunderbar
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(02/28/2015) [-]
go on.
#176245 to #176242 - ajrin
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(02/28/2015) [-]
or it was a history test if you really want to know
#176246 to #176245 - dasistwunderbar
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(02/28/2015) [-]
Captivating. Continue.
#176247 to #176246 - ajrin
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(02/28/2015) [-]
I got a B
#176249 to #176247 - dasistwunderbar
Reply 0
(02/28/2015) [-]
tell me more.
#176250 to #176249 - ajrin
Reply 0
(02/28/2015) [-]
the test wasn't that hard
#176251 to #176250 - dasistwunderbar
Reply 0
(02/28/2015) [-]
go on.
#176252 to #176251 - ajrin
Reply 0
(02/28/2015) [-]
go off
#176253 to #176252 - dasistwunderbar
Reply 0
(02/28/2015) [-]
tell me more.
#176254 to #176253 - ajrin
Reply 0
(02/28/2015) [-]
tell me less
#176255 to #176254 - dasistwunderbar
Reply 0
(02/28/2015) [-]
like did he have a car
#176256 to #176255 - ajrin
Reply 0
(02/28/2015) [-]
maybe
#176257 to #176256 - dasistwunderbar
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(02/28/2015) [-]
did it get very far
#176258 to #176257 - ajrin
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(02/28/2015) [-]
about 3 miles
#176261 to #176258 - dasistwunderbar
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(02/28/2015) [-]
reply limit reached, thanks for helping recreate Olivia Newton John's classic duet with me.
#176262 to #176261 - ajrin
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(02/28/2015) [-]
the pleasure was mine
#176259 to #176258 - dasistwunderbar
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(02/28/2015) [-]
was it love at first sight?
#176260 to #176259 - ajrin
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(02/28/2015) [-]
yeah
#176244 to #176242 - ajrin
Reply 0
(02/28/2015) [-]
I just told you there's nothing else to tell
#176231 to #176230 - haydentheviking
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(02/28/2015) [-]
I was mourning the loss of Dehumanizer you slut
#176228 - jerebear
Reply 0
(02/28/2015) [-]
Does this board help with comp problems?
#176347 to #176228 - anon
Reply 0
(03/01/2015) [-]
bro bro bro
if this is a new build and all listen here
1) shut down and unplug/discharge
2) take out the gpu
3) use mobo only video out (doesn't matter which, whatever works) to get into windows if you've got it installed
4) go into device manager and disable, NOT UNISTALL, disable the onboard graphics under display adapter (i think it's display adapter. it's the only one with a name like that)
5) now reboot to bios
6) set the preferred video source as PCIe instead of auto or default
7) shut down and discharge
8) plug the gpu back in and switch to the video out from it
9) reboot and you should be golden

Had this issue not too long ago
With the gpu in you can't use the onboard graphics and with the gpu out you can't get the drivers installed or anything. Was a real PITA.
#176358 to #176347 - jerebear
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(03/01/2015) [-]
This soubds like my last hope can you explain how to use mobo to get into the bios settings??
#176580 to #176358 - anon
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(03/02/2015) [-]
any luck bro?
#176614 to #176580 - jerebear
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(03/02/2015) [-]
Think imma have to call the geek squad, thanks so much for the help though.
#176613 to #176580 - jerebear
Reply 0
(03/02/2015) [-]
Unfortuanately mashing delete (read the manual it is for sure delete, i mashed f1 too to make sure) Both did not bring up the bios screen or any screen, just a continual no input from moniter.
#176378 to #176358 - anon
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(03/01/2015) [-]
When you're booting up mash delete (normally delete. some mobos have different buttons. just check your manual) to enter the bios. This occurs before you enter windows. Normally it will display the brand name of your mobo and will say hit (x) to enter bios; hit (x) to enter boot menu; hit (x) to enter q-flash(or something else). From there enter into the advanced settings or advanced mode and snoop around for it. You may need to consult your manual to find the exact location and be sure not to modify anything if you don't know exactly what it does.
#176229 to #176228 - ohhitheree
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(02/28/2015) [-]
I could take a shot at it.
#176233 to #176229 - jerebear
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(02/28/2015) [-]
Cool, whatever you can is much appreciated.
so problem is that I am constantly getting a no input detected on my moniter. Built the comp last weekend worked fine all through out the week. Last night screen froze and on reboot no signal. I have a gtx 970 graphics card. I 4790-k processor. Ben q 1080 monitor. I have already re seated everything and restarted multiple times. No input when connected to motherboard or graphics card. I have tried with multiple moniters and cables to no avail.
#176237 to #176233 - ohhitheree
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(02/28/2015) [-]
Try using another graphics card if you have one laying around. If that doesn't work, then sounds like something got mixed up on the motherboard.
#176248 to #176237 - jerebear
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(02/28/2015) [-]
Yeah I am thinking its my motherboard too, which is a bitch. I do not have another graphics card lying aroubd which is also a bitch. My processor has integrated graphics which I assumed would come back after the graphics card was dissconnected but alas...
#176263 to #176248 - ohhitheree
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(02/28/2015) [-]
Well from my experience you don't even need to unplug the graphics to use the integrated graphics. So probably the motherboard yeah.
#176222 - nonbenderinlife
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(02/28/2015) [-]
Me and my girlfriend are both 19, we're studying the same thing in her hometown and we've been together for around 6 months. Our semester ended and we have a 2 week vacation. I went back in my hometown and we've been skyping every evening most of the time. Now that Im back in my hometown I wanted to get together with my friends but Im afraid they made new friends and kind of forgot about me (We were 7 guys and only 3 of us are studying in another city). Aside from this, my girlfriend recently got a laptop and we set up a skype movie night . Before she got it (Like a day) she told me she would download a game so we could play together but when I helped her set it up and stuff and sent her the link of the game, she said that this isnt a gaming laptop and that she would take good care of it and I was really really annoyed at that. Later on in the evening I was feeling bad that I hadnt spent enough time with my family over the last 4 days (Instead Im in my room either playing on my pc or skyping with my gf) and I told her that I might go in the living room but she told me that we set up this date from the morning and that I shouldnt back out but then I felt bad for not respecting our plans and we ended up watching the movie. Today, in the morning, I sent her a link I found on a website saying how her laptop brand is made from cheap parts but sold really expensive (I dont know why I did that and I quickly regretted it) and she got a bit mad but calmed down after a bit. The thing is, whenever I think of all of that
1. Not spending enough time with my family
2. Not going out with my friends or even contacting them
3. Being mad at my gf without a good reason
I get really stressed and my stomach gets tied up. What should I do? Any advice is greatly appreciated
#176227 to #176222 - SOUL CRUSHER ONLINE
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You have the normal problem all normal fags have. How to balance love, friends and family. You need to figure out what most important to you.....but you do realize there are 24 hours in a day? Right? I'm sure you don't Skype your girlfriend 15 hours a day....So honestly you need to get up off your lazy butt and go to the ones you love, even if it's just half an hour. You're on break too. I knw you want to play games hang with us on FJ. I honestly see no reason for you to be stressed. If you can figure out how to prioritize this this now when you have lots of free time you'll have a rough time later in life.
#176223 to #176222 - focalanemo
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(02/28/2015) [-]
Say to your GF that you also want to spend more time with your family/friends. Just say to her that you can see her all the time when you get back and that you don't see these people very often. If you already have plans with her it would be rude not to show up. But don't make plans with her when you want to visit other people.
#176208 - joethebeast ONLINE
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(02/28/2015) [-]
Help FJ, I am cramming for an universal EPA 608 exam for a job, and I'm freaking the fuck out, has anybody else taken this? Any tips? And hints on the questions that are generally on it? Please?
#176202 - anon
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(02/28/2015) [-]
Guise, is this normal - I don't think I have autismo, I'm even pretty cool sometimes with people but with SMALLER groups of people I usually know really well. Whenever I'm in a situation where there's more people, some or most who I don't know from before, I automatically develop autismo and stay to the side of the main conversation, only sometimes throwing in some shitty comment. Is this a thing? I get that it's normal to be shy around people who you don't know really well, but what's jarring to me is the difference in my behaviour which goes from pretty funny with smaller groups to autismo in bigger groups. Is this common? Do you guys feel like this too?
#176205 to #176202 - iridium
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It's not that uncommon and it's not autismo, it's discomfort with a group of people you don't know. You don't know what makes them tick; what makes them laugh, what is and isn't acceptable, what they don't or do know about, and so on. If you're the type of person who likes to have a large chunk of a conversation it can be odd being in a large group where you have to share with so many as well.
#176346 to #176205 - anon
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(03/01/2015) [-]
That actually summed up my issue perfectly. Thank you I think I just needed to hear someone put it succinctly like that and that already helps heads. Good to know I don't have autism. Thank you buddy!
#176390 to #176346 - iridium
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(03/01/2015) [-]
Trust me as a psychology student and a student who spent many a year in primary school around actually autistic people: There's a lot more to actually having autism than being awkward in a group, especially if you aren't awkward around small groups of people.
#176206 to #176205 - iridium
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(02/28/2015) [-]
Also Autismo involves developmental disability, so you're way off.
#176192 - fuckberries ONLINE
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(02/28/2015) [-]
Hey Advice board, not sure if this would be better here or in /videogames/, but I have a little trouble with this Minecraft server I'm on. It's a low population server which I love because I can do my own thing without having to worry about anyone a) killing me, b) destroying everything I make, and c) a better sense of community. But the people on it are... well... Everything funnyjunk makes fun of. The owner of the server is a gay guy, nothing wrong with that I'm bi myself, but flips the fuck out if anyone so much hints at the word "fag." He's banned at least 4 people in the last month just because one person said it jokingly to a friend, and two others were trying to explain about how words only hurt if you let them. And trust me, the owner is a giant faggot, not because he's gay, but because he is just a faggot. He goes on to talk about how the music he listens to it the greatest shit ever, and puts down anyone else music interests. They're all SJW's, and a bunch of hypocrites at the same time. And just last night, #GamerGate came up and they were all about bashing anyone who supports it and how its evil and blah blah blah. Meanwhile I just have to sit there and hold my tongue because, I've never been banned from a Minecraft server before and I don't want these ass holes to be my first ban because I have a different opinion than them.

I guess what I'm getting at is, what do I do /advice/? do I stick through it? I'm in the middle of a large build, and there are a couple people on the server I do like.
#176210 to #176192 - lordbrauner
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If you're really intent on it, finish your build, but if the admin of the server is distracting you from actually enjoying yourself, then I recommend talking to the people you know about finding a new server that you all could use. If you have the computer for it, I'd even recommend starting your own. I did that a few years ago with a medium sized group of people, and it was much more peaceful not worrying about getting banned for this or that.
#176221 to #176210 - fuckberries ONLINE
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(02/28/2015) [-]
I wish I could run my own server, but I sadly lack the computer for it :/, Ever since getting minecraft years ago I've been server hopping trying to find a good one, nothing really works out. Either I find a good one, but it shuts down not too long after I join because the owner forgot about it, or it just turns into a shit fest where the staff are abusive and shitty.
#176273 to #176221 - fruzzinoid
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(03/01/2015) [-]
I used to play mc.endercraftbuild.com .
It used to have a tight community and a survival world. Plus a few other cool worlds, like a prison server and a zombie minigame.
#176226 to #176221 - lordbrauner
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(02/28/2015) [-]
Yeah, I know how that goes. I was on a small server with my girlfriend at the time, and we invested a lot of time into it. We both eventually got banned because she kept calling everyone racial slurs.
#176330 to #176186 - cloverhand ONLINE
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(03/01/2015) [-]
I never posted here but goddamn did I love reading your comments. I wish you luck on your quest for a qt gf, may you return safe and laid.
#176287 to #176186 - joshlol
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(03/01/2015) [-]
what
#176243 to #176186 - derpityhurr
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(02/28/2015) [-]
pls no
#176207 to #176186 - iridium
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(02/28/2015) [-]
I'm gonna miss your autism. It was the only thing keeping me down to earth around here.
#176220 to #176207 - dehumanizer ONLINE
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#176204 to #176186 - makotoitou
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god bless
#176191 to #176186 - haydentheviking
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(02/28/2015) [-]
Oh how ive missed you
#176193 to #176191 - dehumanizer ONLINE
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(02/28/2015) [-]
well get used to it because im not really gonna bother posting here anymore
#176194 to #176193 - haydentheviking
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(02/28/2015) [-]
But but...where will you go?
But but...where will you go?
#176195 to #176194 - dehumanizer ONLINE
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(02/28/2015) [-]
There is no point. I can never keep the normies away. I have failed at everything i ever took dire care for, and now my jihad is over.

I will go back to the shadows where i've always belonged. Alone, unloved and unwanted.
#176196 to #176195 - haydentheviking
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(02/28/2015) [-]
You tried your best, God speed good sir....may you never be forgotten
#176197 to #176196 - dehumanizer ONLINE
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(02/28/2015) [-]
maybe i will return one day,

maybe i would finaly find a cute loving gf, turn into a normie then come again here so i help others make the transition...

maybe I would stay broken and return torment this broad again posting feels, pee pee poo poos and REEEEEE threads...

maybe i would just die inbetween...


But for now, I have to leave.
#176198 to #176197 - haydentheviking
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(02/28/2015) [-]
The day you return is the day you get a cute gf    
   
I believe in you   
   
God speed you magnificent bastard
The day you return is the day you get a cute gf

I believe in you

God speed you magnificent bastard
#176185 - megafranco
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(02/28/2015) [-]
hey advice board, I don't really need any advice but I need help. I am doing a project about Adolf Hitler and I just wanted to know if you had any random or odd facts about him, I am asking because basically everybody in funnyjunk has a PhD on Hitler.
#176314 to #176185 - delphine
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(03/01/2015) [-]
Hitler never actually set foot inside any of the concentration camps.
He was nominated for the Nobel Peace Prize in 1939.
#176305 to #176185 - shaunata
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(03/01/2015) [-]
Hitler wanted to originally be an artist, and you can look up many of his paintings on google images.
#176274 to #176185 - anon
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(03/01/2015) [-]
10 Things You Didn't Know About Adolf Hitler Not 100% sure how legit these are tho, they give source but it's always like The new york times or so
#176218 to #176185 - iridium
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(02/28/2015) [-]
His claims of his religion and vegetarianism are heavily debated (whether he was religious or not, what denomination, whether he was really vegetarian), and that may be due to the tendency of people superimposing traits of people they don't like onto things they believe are bad.

Hitler had an awful diet for an over 55 years old leader. He would eat junk food all the time. It's probable that he would have died not too long after WWII. Supposedly he also suffered from a lot of different diseases and disorders (meaning we don't know if he really had any of these), from Syphilis to Parkinsons to BPD to tinnitus.

He hated smoking during his time as leader and supposedly offered nice watches as rewards to any of his closer associates.

The propaganda film made about him, "Triumph of the Will", was primarily made by a woman named Leni Riefenstahl, and she pioneered many camera, cinematography and use of music and direction techniques that we use today. In a way we owe a lot of what we do in film today to a German woman's film about Hitler and Nazi Germany.

Germans love to blame Austria for him, Austrians blame Germany for who he became.

Random trivia.
#176219 to #176218 - iridium
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(02/28/2015) [-]
offered watches to associates who quit*
#176189 to #176185 - redpower
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(02/28/2015) [-]
Hitler loved animals, first to ban smoking in public places and wanted Poland and Russia to be the Germans peoples bread basket to make sure that a blockade that led to the defeat of Germany in ww1 impossible to happen again. biggest fact though is that Hitler did nothing wrong
#176187 to #176185 - jedimage
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(02/28/2015) [-]
You'd have a better job asking /pol/.

Fact 1: Hitler did noting wrong
#176188 to #176187 - megafranco
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(02/28/2015) [-]
I prefer this site, but thanks for your suggestion. I am going to try that place