Upload
Login or register
Newest
auto-refresh every 1 2 3 5 seconds
Online User List [+] Online: (5): deltaspace, ferrettamer, focalanemo, pnwgirlyy, shenro, anonymous(3).
asd
#176875 - anon
Reply 0
(03/04/2015) [-]
Made the fatal mistake of letting know a friend I'd do her because she though she was ugly and yadda yadda (reality is she's not).

Now she's slowly recovering her self-steem and she doesn't seem as interested as before in "getting me", as she already knows I kind of like her.

What can I do to get her interest back? She's a friend, not a bitch so it's not like it's gonna ignore me.
#176893 to #176875 - SOUL CRUSHER
Reply 0
(03/05/2015) [-]
lol you called her an "it" DUDE NO! I'm late to the thread but you've made big mistakes. You're a smart guy it seems and it sounds like you know where you've messed up. It'll take time because mostly likely now she just sees you as a friend. You gotta rebuild the attraction and create more mystery about you. Suddenly get act like you're busy, don't tell her exactly what you're doing though, maybe you're going shopping maybe you're meeting a chick.... the more I think about this ther harder i realize this is. Just give her a little space and make her think you're looking to date someone but not her for some reason. It's just... if you're already a friend it may be hard to change that.
#176885 to #176875 - lordbrauner
Reply 0
(03/04/2015) [-]
If you wanna ask her out, then ask her out. If not, don't be upset with her when she starts dating other people, otherwise you're only doing her an injustice as her friend.
#176886 to #176885 - anon
Reply 0
(03/04/2015) [-]
I can't ask her out because if she lost interest in me, things are gonna be awkward and not work fluently. I'd like to be chased for once in my fucking life too.

Asking out is part of the plan, but I'd rather ask out a girl who really wants to be with me than a girl who doesn't mind to. I've had enough of that.
#176884 to #176875 - sugoi
Reply 0
(03/04/2015) [-]
Stop being like, a yes man or an ego booster or whatever you want to call it and just be her friend.

Like act towards her how you would any other friend.
#176878 to #176875 - softdoritocat
Reply -1
(03/04/2015) [-]
Make her feel insecure about you and jelly. Tell her you started talking to that girl or a girl asked u out, something like that.
#176874 - codyxvasco
Reply 0
(03/04/2015) [-]
Any advice on how to make a cloak? Like something a hobbit would wear?
#176877 to #176874 - advice
Reply +1
(03/04/2015) [-]
buy curtains then modify
#176879 to #176877 - softdoritocat
Reply +1
(03/04/2015) [-]
Or a sheet.
#176891 to #176879 - codyxvasco
Reply 0
(03/05/2015) [-]
would a fleece blanket be too thick?
#176872 - anon
Reply 0
(03/04/2015) [-]
Due to my current situation I can't get out much. I'm cooped up all day. I used to have really amazing partners to role play with, but then they went out and got real lives. I am looking for work, I apply to multiple places per day. Well I get depressed and I write random and stupid things. Usually the dumber it is, the more depressed I am in real life. I'm not even sure why I do it, outside of I don't really have anyone to talk to. So I guess I'm asking if anyone knows any good sites to make a friend at, like one I could chat to on there, maybe email, that sort of thing?
#176901 to #176872 - noooooooo
Reply 0
(03/05/2015) [-]
you can talk to me if you want. i have a lot of time and nothing to do for a while.
#176865 - redandgreen
Reply 0
(03/04/2015) [-]
How can I encourage my flatmates to do their share of the cleaning? I've even washed some of their dishes because they were left for ages.
I know not everyone's idea of clean is the same but come on!
#176868 to #176865 - nimba
Reply +1
(03/04/2015) [-]
We use a rota in my place; somebody does all the dishes every three days and every weekend somebody cleans the mould out of the shower. There's 5 of us so it means we each only have to do the dishes once every 2 weeks and the bathroom less than once a month.
#176869 to #176868 - redandgreen
Reply -1
(03/04/2015) [-]
It's a good idea, I just need everyone to go for it.
#176870 to #176869 - nimba
Reply +1
(03/04/2015) [-]
You need to make sure everyone agrees to it - I made us all sign ours and stuck it above the sink. When somebody breaks it now I make a big pantomime "DO YOU SEE THIS? THIS IS THE HOLY CHARTER UPON WHICH WE AGREED THAT NO LONGER SHALL WE LIVE LIKE THE BEASTS OF THE FIELD. DO NOT THINK THAT YOUR TRANSGRESSIONS WILL GO UNNOTICED, WHEN WE STAND ON THE BRINK OF THE PIT OF INIQUITY I WILL ENSURE YOU ARE THE FIRST TO TOPPLE, KNOW THIS, OATHBREAKER" Like I'm doing an exorcism or invoking magna carta or some shit.
#176942 to #176870 - redandgreen
Reply 0
(03/05/2015) [-]
We had a flat meeting and I'm feeling pretty good about it
#176871 to #176870 - redandgreen
Reply 0
(03/04/2015) [-]
I might not use those words but I will try! Thank you
#176850 - Tyranitar
Reply +1
(03/04/2015) [-]
I've always been shy and antisocial, so I have problems talking to people. In school, where I was just about forced to socialize with peers, finding a few individuals with mutual interests was just about impossible, so I had a couple friends. But after graduating, most of them left or are still in school.

I don't much care for what few hang-out spots there are in this town, and I have absolutely 0 skill in beginning conversations with people I've known for years, much less strangers. So I guess I'm asking: How the hell do you get friends?
#176858 to #176850 - redandgreen
Reply +1
(03/04/2015) [-]
I'd join some Societies or Clubs, you can meet lots of nice people with the same interests that way
#176851 to #176850 - Phantomgal
Reply +1
(03/04/2015) [-]
Its totally fine not to be in to the local "hang outs" but just do things that you have an interest in, take a class in something you like, or volunteer someplace you find interesting, just try to make one friend, once you know them its likely they will introduce you to there friends and viola friend group. I literally had one friend in middle school thanks to some bulling and my shy nature, but eventually through that one good loyal friend i made more friends who i still know today. it gets better with time and you just have to relize, everyone needs a friend
#176839 - thedrgonzo ONLINE
Reply 0
(03/04/2015) [-]
Okey dokey folks, I guess this is as much a means to vent as a request for advice. I've basically figured that the universe has a sense of irony when it comes to me and ladies: I have two girls who I probably could date under almost any other circumstances, one is an ex who couldn't handle a long distance relationship yet maintains palpable sexual tension with me and the other is a girl who is very flirty with me, but is currently in a long distance relationship, like 1800 miles away. I dunno, it's some shit guys, is there even anything to do?
#176840 to #176839 - thatonesouthernkid
Reply 0
(03/04/2015) [-]
long distance relationships don't usually last, in most cases anyway, if you want to have the flirty girl rather than the ex just ask her out anyway. she might say yes. I don't know how good my advice is seeing as I can't manage to keep a girl, but I can get them fine.
#176841 to #176840 - thedrgonzo ONLINE
Reply 0
(03/04/2015) [-]
You are a fellow southerner, so I will definitely take that advice to heart.
#176843 to #176842 - thedrgonzo ONLINE
Reply 0
(03/04/2015) [-]
It's been kind of a shit-show, the ex goes to an SEC school and looks the part. while I go to a tiny ass liberal arts school with a sub-par female student body
#176844 to #176843 - thatonesouthernkid
Reply 0
(03/04/2015) [-]
i feel ya brother, but i only have one question: what does SEC stand for?
#176845 to #176844 - thedrgonzo ONLINE
Reply 0
(03/04/2015) [-]
South Eastern Conference, or am totally out of the loop on a joke here?
#176846 to #176845 - thatonesouthernkid
Reply 0
(03/04/2015) [-]
no, I'm just bad with acronyms.
#176847 to #176846 - thedrgonzo ONLINE
Reply 0
(03/04/2015) [-]
S'all good. Those are like UK, UGA, Bama, vandy somehow... big schools with a shit ton of people
#176848 to #176847 - thatonesouthernkid
Reply 0
(03/04/2015) [-]
ooooooh. i can see how that'd be a problem.
#176838 - thatonesouthernkid
Reply 0
(03/04/2015) [-]
well, I guess you could say I feel lonely. romantically available but tragically undesired. I work out, I socialize, I've made geniune efforts in the dating game. But none of it has helped me, i'm still alone and the last three girls i've tried to date, or at least attempted to, have cheated on me or dumped me. the rest have all just lead me on. where is the nearest hug station? because goddamn do I need one. the hell am I doing wrong?
well, I guess you could say I feel lonely. romantically available but tragically undesired. I work out, I socialize, I've made geniune efforts in the dating game. But none of it has helped me, i'm still alone and the last three girls i've tried to date, or at least attempted to, have cheated on me or dumped me. the rest have all just lead me on. where is the nearest hug station? because goddamn do I need one. the hell am I doing wrong?
#176890 to #176838 - WhereMehSammich
Reply 0
(03/05/2015) [-]
You have an understandable desire to find a companion, but you gotta live your life for yourself. It's your life for a reason. That being said if you want real dating advice even if this is a board for it, this site isn't exactly the greatest place for that. Now dating is hard no matter how much of a catch you are, especially if you're looking for someone marriage material. It seems like you have your shit together so all I can say is to keep trying and maybe even try online dating. With tinder and all those other apps/sites, online dating lost most of its negative stigma. Honestly you just have to keep looking until you find the right person. At some point it might just become a numbers game. The more girls you date, the more likely you'll find the one that's for you.
#176859 to #176838 - amonahan
Reply -1
(03/04/2015) [-]
You're not doing anything wrong. Dating is a womans market until 30 then it shifts over to a mans market. Evidence? You see lonely cat ladies but even the fat guys still manage to find someone eventually. Keep your head up, you're a late game character, prepare for it.
#176852 to #176838 - Phantomgal
Reply +1
(03/04/2015) [-]
IT takes time, and shes not gonna fall from the sky and love you, relationships are hard, hell i didn't even kiss a guy till i was 20, but you know what in that time alone Iv gotten to know myself and be happy about me. Just focus on you, do things you like, and try to make friends with a girl with common interest, they do exist. So work on you and dont worry about girls , and when they come into your life dont focus your whole self on them, you need to like you before other people will.
#176849 to #176838 - tsoper ONLINE
Reply -1
(03/04/2015) [-]
Stop right there, man.
There's millions of guys out there that are JUST LIKE YOU. That includes me. When you look at it from a big picture, it's mind boggling.

One thing you need to know is women look at income more than they do about looks. Sometimes theyd settle for personality but that only happens if you knew them for 4 years or so. Again, it's time consuming and I DO NOT recommend trying SO HARD for SO LITTLE.

In the end, they are just people, like you and me. Why do you need them? You dont need them. You just dont, ok? The sooner you realize this, the better.
You are not lonely. You have yourself and you have wifi. Do you know how preoccupied you can be? Very much so, but all you need is to find something to do. I suggest playing a videogame, or learning to make one.

Now look at it from the big picture, 50 years ago there was no twitter, instagram, fb, etc. These women literally could not gain any self-worth unless they had a bf or something to attach themselves to. Now they get thousand of likes a day if theyre pretty, their ego is inflated as fuck. They dont feel lonely at all, infact they are fed up with socializing and romantic relationships. It makes sense if you think about it.

It's a sad reality, but the only way to get bitches now is through money. That or dont get bitches at all and be happy like your funnyjunk pals.
#176861 to #176849 - anon
Reply 0
(03/04/2015) [-]
You remind me of my boyrfriend. He is a nazi too. hm. Funny.
#176881 to #176861 - tsoper ONLINE
Reply 0
(03/04/2015) [-]
im not a nazi. I just support your freedom to offend and be an asshole.

Take small doses of racist jokes and you eventually get immune to any type of hate crime.
#176853 to #176849 - Phantomgal
Reply 0
(03/04/2015) [-]
You have a sad outlook on life, im sorry someone hurt you.
#176880 to #176853 - tsoper ONLINE
Reply 0
(03/04/2015) [-]
No one hurt me. I hurt myself. The edge hurt me.
#176835 - thumbsdenied
Reply 0
(03/04/2015) [-]
Old lady next door in my apartment building got pissed at me for letting in a salesman. The door phones are pretty bad and its my first time living on my own so i dont really know apartment rules, but is letting in a salesman againts rules? Only heard something about cleaning so i didnt think much about it because in my old home we had a maid who came once a week.

Quess i should have figured out that they should own a copy of the apartment key though

Lady yelled at me "what the fuck are you letting in criminals, im gonna call the police" this apartment building is only 5months old, and we kinda moved in at the same time, but ive not once seen her outside the apartment, and this was the first time any social action has been between us. Ive heard some angry yelling from her apartment few times.
#176873 to #176835 - focalanemo ONLINE
Reply 0
(03/04/2015) [-]
Letting in people that aren't meant for you is never a good idea in an apartment building. Sometimes people will try to get inside with bad intentions and you would let them right in.
Don't think too much of that old lady though. I think that's just someone who is an aggressive person.
#176855 to #176835 - softdoritocat
Reply +1
(03/04/2015) [-]
Ignore, she's being an old bitch.
#176836 to #176835 - anon
Reply 0
(03/04/2015) [-]
what are you, some rich cunt?
#176837 to #176836 - thumbsdenied
Reply 0
(03/04/2015) [-]
upper middle class maybe. Mom and dad are busy being entrepreueners, dad dont so much except technical stuff at the house, while mom does laundry and such things. So we got a maid who comes once a week to do cleaning.
#176828 - ronjeremysweiner ONLINE
Reply 0
(03/04/2015) [-]
anyone here know much about Colorado colleges?
#176834 to #176828 - thatonesouthernkid
Reply +1
(03/04/2015) [-]
i heard you're still not allowed to smoke on campus.
#176808 - thisistheguy
Reply +1
(03/03/2015) [-]
Anyone here know anything about savings? Saw a video about making an account that does compound interest in high school and I want to start that before I get much older, but don't know where to start. Or any good investments really.
#176820 to #176808 - cpawsome
Reply 0
(03/03/2015) [-]
Well kid here's how I'm going about it.
I started saving money in Schools financial credit union a few years ago and I have slightly less than $600 in there.
After about 5 years saving they told me I qualify for a credit card.
Now this is where it gets weird. If I get the card I will owe them money in a checking account monthly, something like 10$ now that would be fine if that wasnt about 5% of my paycheck.
#176821 to #176820 - cpawsome
Reply 0
(03/03/2015) [-]
So I went to BoA and they are giving me free accounts as long as I'm a student and under 21.
However they are bad with customer service and will try to get you to invest in things.
The stocks are not going to make you any money and the fees involved in buying them make it not worth it.
However the people who assist you are all smiles.
#176802 - anon
Reply 0
(03/03/2015) [-]
What's up with this guys? I'm 21, at University in the UK, and EVERY girl I'm even mildly interested in has a boyfriend. Should I be worried about myself? Is this already the age to start committing to long-lasting meaningful romantic relationships? Will boyfriends/girlfriends at this age last?

Also, should I play the waiting game? It didn't seem so bad when just one or two girl I found attractive I later found already have boyfriends, but lately it really is like every girl I could see myself with has a boyfriend. I'm not really one for casual relationships, so should I just wait for the right person to come along and take my time, or should I use my early twenties to have casual relationships, have fun and not really take myself or dating too seriously? I'm just worried I might miss the window of opportunity and everybody will already be taken by the time I decide to get serious, or is it silly to think University relationships can lead to really serious relationships?

Sorry to throw so much out there, I've really been pondering this lately. Thank all of you guys for all the advice you gave me before!
#176832 to #176802 - rokkai
Reply 0
(03/04/2015) [-]
i've thought about that too. i was waiting for a girl who likes to do what i like to do and kinda one or two found me but i wasn't attracted to them so i tried to look and act more like a ...douche? with tighter clothes n shit and it took me 2 weeks to find a girl. we hooked up for like a month and i got bored i mean, i could have gotten more from her you know. but i didn't. because i wasn't eager to meet her outside of my place due to the fact that we enjoyed different things therefore there wasn't much to talk.
the point is, if you try hard, it's really easy to find an easy-going girl but i can assure you that you won't feel any better.
#176823 to #176802 - anon
Reply +1
(03/03/2015) [-]
Dude, don't give a single fuck about that. Start worrying after you hit 30. For now, enjoy casual relationships/friendships. I assure you, most of them won't last. You have absolutely nothing to worry about, in fact, time works for your advantage. Women start to seriously look for a guy in their mid 20s (after uni basically). They will look for somebody independent and with steady job. This is when you come along, 30 year old with a career going on. Trust me, as long as you're not a hideous fatty, you will drown in pussy.

Not sure if that's relevant to anything, but I'm a girl in case you wondered
#176822 to #176802 - amonahan
Reply +1
(03/03/2015) [-]
At the age of about 30 the game shifts in the favour of men. You hear about plenty of crazy old single cat ladies but not so much on single guys. Even the fat ugly guys eventually become viable. Have fun. DON'T COMMIT to anything while you're young. You don't wanna be fucked over by divorce papers/alimony/etc. and be completely fucked. Have fun, casual relationships work GREAT, and DON'T KNOCK UP any girls. You should do fine.
#176815 to #176802 - hirollin
Reply +1
(03/03/2015) [-]
Yeah man idk. I know a lot of single 18 year olds, but not a lot of single 40 year olds. You should be very worried. If you don't get hitched now you'll probably die alone.
Yeah man idk. I know a lot of single 18 year olds, but not a lot of single 40 year olds. You should be very worried. If you don't get hitched now you'll probably die alone.
#176806 to #176802 - thisistheguy
Reply +1
(03/03/2015) [-]
I wouldn't worry too much about the whole 'everyone making long-lasting relationships' if you're under 23-25. I guess I'd just make myself available to them but still look for other people, would feel shitty if I stole someone's gf unless he was a douche.
#176798 - sineztro
Reply 0
(03/03/2015) [-]
How to become inspired?
#176807 to #176798 - thisistheguy
Reply 0
(03/03/2015) [-]
The Proud Warrior [Sub BellyzbadHDdbz] Always helps me
#176809 to #176807 - sineztro
Reply 0
(03/03/2015) [-]
Best Motivational Speech ~Secrets to Success, How Bad Do you Want it? {Full Speech} skip till about thirty seconds in
#176810 to #176809 - thisistheguy
Reply 0
(03/03/2015) [-]
I love this one
#176795 - anon
Reply -3
(03/03/2015) [-]
I'm thinking of starting a fundraiser on the GO-FUND-ME SPAM LINKS ARE NOT ALLOWED DUE TO SPAMMER ABUSE. DO NOT POST THEM. site but it feels weird. I'd be raising money so that I can go on a cruise trip with my boyfriend in May. It'd be my first vacation trip without needing to be with family, and let me tell ya, my family is not close at all. In fact, my mom practically called me a whore when I mentioned this vacation with my boyfriend. Would it be worth a shot to start a fundraiser and post it on FJ or something? Cuz Facebook is kind of out of the question
#176830 to #176795 - delphine
Reply +2
(03/04/2015) [-]
Yeah, I've seen a lot of people raise money for things.
A friend of mine raised $3,000 to help pay the medical bills for a student of hers who was involved in a horrific car crash that left her paralized
A fellow alumni of mine raised money to pay for her son's post-natal care because he was so premature
Another friend of mine raised the money to pay for a field trip to the science museum for her classroom of inner city students.

FoFundMe is great for raising money... because people like helping those in NEED, for GOOD CAUSES. No one is going to give you money for your vacation. If you want a vacation, earn the money yourself like the rest of us plebes.
#176829 to #176795 - sugoi
Reply +1
(03/04/2015) [-]
I'm sure dehumanizer will be the first one to donate!
#176856 to #176829 - dehumanizer ONLINE
Reply 0
(03/04/2015) [-]
Yeah you're right! www.youtube.com/watch?v=s3337cj4sJQ Let the hatian children eat mud, we need to fund femanon's vacation!
#176857 to #176856 - sugoi
Reply 0
(03/04/2015) [-]
That's actually pretty cool to think humans can survive off dirt. Albeit dirt mixed with vegetable shortenings and salt.

Kinda crazy.
#176860 to #176857 - dehumanizer ONLINE
Reply 0
(03/04/2015) [-]
even more evidence why we should give our money to femanon
#176811 to #176795 - anon
Reply 0
(03/03/2015) [-]
of all the things i think will not happen.
this is one of the things that will not happen most.
#176796 to #176795 - fistfireace
Reply 0
(03/03/2015) [-]
Yes, because the people of FJ will pay for you to go a cruise trip with your boyfriend when they get nothing out of it.
#176799 to #176796 - anon
Reply 0
(03/03/2015) [-]
...that's the point of a fundraiser. Donate money and get nothing out of it
#176831 to #176799 - delphine
Reply 0
(03/04/2015) [-]
People do get something out of donating money though. People will donate money when they feel like it is a worthy cause, and they are helping people in need.

Sexy-fun-times with your boyfriend is not a "need", no one here is going to fun that. Especially since many of us on FJ who are functional adults are working our little butts off just to make ends me. When you're trying to rebuild your home after a flood, THEN you can come asking for donations. Until then, get a job. Welcome to life, sweetie.
#176800 to #176799 - fistfireace
Reply 0
(03/03/2015) [-]
No shit. I'm saying why the fuck would FJ users pay for you to go on a cruise trip?
#176801 to #176800 - anon
Reply 0
(03/03/2015) [-]
Because some people aren't assholes and might want to help someone go on a trip. Have you SEEN some of the fundraisers on that site?!
#176805 to #176801 - fistfireace
Reply 0
(03/03/2015) [-]
On that site? No, I didn't, because I don't go on there.
#176803 to #176801 - anon
Reply 0
(03/03/2015) [-]
There are more than 500 users here on this site. If every person who saw it gave at least 1 dollar, it's not that big of a deal.
#176826 to #176803 - anon
Reply +1
(03/04/2015) [-]
I can't think of a single good reason to give you my money when I have use for it myself too.

It'd be different thing if you were on a wheelchair, missing both legs, 1 arm, part of your body and had hard time speaking. Maybe then I would be ready to join.

#176789 - partially
0
has deleted their comment [-]
#176797 to #176789 - sineztro
Reply 0
(03/03/2015) [-]
Why?
#176813 to #176797 - partially
0
has deleted their comment [-]
#176816 to #176813 - sineztro
Reply +1
(03/03/2015) [-]
well i mean to me it dating should be more about finding out the personality first, so I dunno get to know them better, also like redandgreen said not describing them as ugly is a good way to start, if they shy away maybe you're making them uncomfortable or they genarlly do not wish to talk, just have a natural conversation with them and if they seem like a cool person ask them out
#176817 to #176816 - partially
0
has deleted their comment [-]
#176818 to #176817 - sineztro
Reply +1
(03/03/2015) [-]
don't assume that man, and hey man trust me girls like guys who are confident and all but not overly confident, like be sure enough to know what kind of color you want your romm in but not so confident that you won't stop and ask for directions you know?
#176819 to #176818 - partially
0
has deleted their comment [-]
#176814 to #176813 - partially
0
has deleted their comment [-]
#176790 to #176789 - redandgreen
Reply +3
(03/03/2015) [-]
Not describing them as ugly would be a start.
#176794 to #176790 - partially
-1
has deleted their comment [-]
#176793 to #176790 - partially
-1
has deleted their comment [-]
#176792 to #176790 - partially
-1
has deleted their comment [-]
#176791 to #176790 - partially
-1
has deleted their comment [-]
#176770 - anon
Reply 0
(03/03/2015) [-]
Guys, I have options... like a lot. Should i go out with the cookiest girl in the class, the smartest girl or the girl with the biggest character development ass and tiddies All three of them asked me out and i just wanna be friends with them
#176812 to #176770 - anon
Reply 0
(03/03/2015) [-]
i think you should go out with a real girl instead of your weaboo games.
#176772 to #176770 - redandgreen
Reply +3
(03/03/2015) [-]
If you just want to be friends then you shouldn't go out with any of them.
#176773 to #176772 - anon
Reply 0
(03/03/2015) [-]
but all of them are pressuring me into it and they keep blowing kisses at me and i believe all of them confuse admiration for infatuation. im in a really small class for this shit. People think im gay cuz i refuse to look at anyone with intentions of rene dekartas
#176774 to #176773 - redandgreen
Reply 0
(03/03/2015) [-]
It sounds like they're just messing about then.
#176779 to #176774 - anon
Reply 0
(03/03/2015) [-]
how can u be so sure?
#176780 to #176779 - redandgreen
Reply 0
(03/03/2015) [-]
If they're all friends in the same class and they're all blowing kisses at you and they all asked you out...... I'm sorry but I think they're probably just having fun.

#176782 to #176780 - anon
Reply 0
(03/03/2015) [-]
they aint friends, they come from completely different cliques and i have heard their friends constantly teasing them with my name whenever i walk by.
#176783 to #176782 - redandgreen
Reply 0
(03/03/2015) [-]
Oh OK. I still think you shouldn't go out with them though, if you just want to be friends.
#176785 to #176783 - anon
Reply +1
(03/03/2015) [-]
i may be anonexplains, but you are the one who explained me what to do
#176763 - anon
Reply -1
(03/03/2015) [-]
how do you draw y-5x=0
and could you tell me how you did it for future reference
thanks
#176771 to #176763 - softdoritocat
Reply 0
(03/03/2015) [-]
y-5x=0
what it tells you is that one x is worth 1/5 of y and one y is worth 5 x. Your graph must represent those 2 facts.
<-- This is how you draw it. 1 y is equal to 5 x, 2 ys are equal to 10 x and so on (it also works other way around, so 25 x is worth 5 y, because y = 5x).
#176761 - GhostSearcher
Reply 0
(03/03/2015) [-]
Ok, my account keeps getting "hacked" I think? Every few days I come to Fj and i'm logged out, when I try to log back in, my passwords been changed. what do. I've already changed my password many times
#176759 - anon
Reply +1
(03/03/2015) [-]
I feel the need to tell you guys about my failure
>Girl keeps saying she's cold
>Keeps saying how warm my jacket must be
>Dont give her said jacket
#176762 to #176759 - softdoritocat
Reply 0
(03/03/2015) [-]
But why? Why didn't you offer her a jacket?
#176776 to #176762 - nirja
Reply 0
(03/03/2015) [-]
then he'd be cold. duh
#176777 to #176776 - softdoritocat
Reply 0
(03/03/2015) [-]
and balls deep in that pussy. duh
#176778 to #176777 - nirja
Reply 0
(03/03/2015) [-]
I'd rather be warm
#176755 - gharshi
Reply 0
(03/03/2015) [-]
what do you do when you hit rock bottom? when it gets to a point where even breathing becomes a chore? when you know that you need help, but you're too exhausted to bother?   
   
I'm just really, really tired guys. I'm constantly on the verge of busting out in tears and I'm too weak to actually do something about it, and every day I sink deeper and deeper into this hellhole. this has been going on for the past 5 years. I really don't see a way out anymore.
what do you do when you hit rock bottom? when it gets to a point where even breathing becomes a chore? when you know that you need help, but you're too exhausted to bother?

I'm just really, really tired guys. I'm constantly on the verge of busting out in tears and I'm too weak to actually do something about it, and every day I sink deeper and deeper into this hellhole. this has been going on for the past 5 years. I really don't see a way out anymore.
#176765 to #176755 - phtholognyrrh
Reply 0
(03/03/2015) [-]
just talk to people; tell us about whats troubling you. you can pm me if you want, ive lived a pretty diverse life so i may be able to give advice or at least give you someone to talk to
#176775 to #176765 - gharshi
Reply 0
(03/03/2015) [-]
thank you for reaching out bro. though I wouldn't wanna bore you with my rambling   
   
I also don't really know in particular what happened that led to this. you know, usually people experience this after something traumatic, but for me it's just small events scattered all over my life that have pushed me deeper and deeper into this mess.   
   
I watch a lot of &quot;motivation&quot; videos that say that we need to step out of our comfort zone and reach out to get help, but my problem is that I don't &quot;want&quot; to go get help. I don't want to do anything at all. I really really wish I did but I don't know why I don't..   
   
you know the feeling when you have to stand in a really long and dreadful waiting room for hours? that's kinda how I constantly feel from when I open my eyes in the morning until I manage to sleep at night. imagine that feeling every day for 5 years. it's getting hard to keep pushing man. specially when you don't have the motivation or will to go on   
   
 sorry for still rambling btw
thank you for reaching out bro. though I wouldn't wanna bore you with my rambling

I also don't really know in particular what happened that led to this. you know, usually people experience this after something traumatic, but for me it's just small events scattered all over my life that have pushed me deeper and deeper into this mess.

I watch a lot of "motivation" videos that say that we need to step out of our comfort zone and reach out to get help, but my problem is that I don't "want" to go get help. I don't want to do anything at all. I really really wish I did but I don't know why I don't..

you know the feeling when you have to stand in a really long and dreadful waiting room for hours? that's kinda how I constantly feel from when I open my eyes in the morning until I manage to sleep at night. imagine that feeling every day for 5 years. it's getting hard to keep pushing man. specially when you don't have the motivation or will to go on

sorry for still rambling btw
#176833 to #176775 - rokkai
Reply 0
(03/04/2015) [-]
sometimes i don't feel like doing anything too. anything about my problems. i just listen to music, take a nap, take a walk or ride my bike anything to pass the time. that feeling will go away somehow. but the reality behind it will always be there if you don't do something about it. im a very lazy person too. but i do things if i have to. so for instance if you have to talk to someone, just do it. the rest will follow and you will feel so good.
#176781 to #176775 - phtholognyrrh
Reply 0
(03/03/2015) [-]
its no problem.

im one argument away from homelessness, unemployed, on probation for stealing to eat while i was homeless last year, and im addicted to the mary jane in a spiritual way. im never going to be happy untill i can toke all day like i want to; the stuff saved my life. but i keep moving. why quit? you never know whats going to happen; you never know who you might meet. if i had quit last year i wouldnt be engaged this year.

life is a matter of perspective and perseverance. you have to persevere through the doldrums, and through the storms. once you find your port, it will all have been worth it.

find something that makes you happy. doesnt matter what it is. find a hobby or an obsession or something but find a drive. mine is studying the rise of SJW culture: i observe and research.

find something repetitive to mark time. i use my youtube subscription list. when im not busy, im watching videos. taking notes. writing my thoughts.

it may seem pointless, or like you dont matter to anyone, but it isnt and you do. you may nor have found the point, or who cant live without you, but these things are out there. i promise you that
#176784 to #176781 - gharshi
Reply 0
(03/03/2015) [-]
I used to love drawing. now I hate the thought of actually getting all the way out of bed and putting the effort into finding the equipment and draw something. I feel like a whiny, lazy little bitch tbh. I hate how pathetic I'm being.. I've heard some good things about anti-depressants to get a kick start into getting back on track. what's your thought on them?
#176786 to #176784 - phtholognyrrh
Reply 0
(03/03/2015) [-]
honestly, i should be on meds but i refuse. for me, im to attached to certain things in my head to let go. for you, its worth a shot. if they dont work, and if you havent tried, weed does work wonders, and wont fuck your liver.

if you wanna try anti depressants, make sure you got to a psychiatrist and you tell them everything. EVERYTHING youre feeling, thinking, experiencing. each one has a different effect, and the wrong one will have the wrong effect. you can have NO secrets in this process. the counseling will help, however, if you give yourself over to it.

if you want to try weed or get back into it, or find what it was when you first started, i can guide you in that journey. i was my schools say no to drugs spokesperson, and that stuff changed me. there is a lot of potential for abuse, however, not of the plant but of the lifestyle it opens up to you. i would definitely recommend weed over pills, but this method, too, must be done right to avoid fucking up your life

#176787 to #176786 - gharshi
Reply 0
(03/03/2015) [-]
I do actually smoke weed occasionally. it does help me forget about all the shit in my life for a couple of hours. I actually got 1 g left from last weekend, may smoke it tonight.

thanks for the advice man, nice to have another perspective. the psychiatrist thing doesn't sound bad. never tried to get therapy, but now I might actually try it. after all, their field is specifically to handle people like me
#176788 to #176787 - phtholognyrrh
Reply 0
(03/03/2015) [-]
its worth a shot

and you should look into vaping your weed. not out of a shitty box, but out of a pen vape. youll vape 1/10th the herb and get just as high. buying an 8th will be buying bulk.

i used to blow 15 grams a day in blunts man, trust me this is a great way to get high, stay high, never get caught smelling like smoke and do it whenever wherever
#176764 to #176755 - anon
Reply 0
(03/03/2015) [-]
hey, look at the bright side. the witcher 3 is coming out in may

the little things count
#176760 to #176755 - goofcrackomega
Reply 0
(03/03/2015) [-]
No matter how bad things get man, they have to get better. It can't be all bad forever. The fact that you can come on here and share your feelings with us is a small step to a better life.

Don't keep it all inside. We're here for you.
#176769 to #176760 - gharshi
Reply 0
(03/03/2015) [-]
thanks for the support man, appreciate it. I have actually been telling myself that this is temporary for years and it kept me going, but in the past week I've really been on a whole other level. my only hope now the thought that college will be different
#176745 - anon
Reply 0
(03/03/2015) [-]
Send help
I'm sick, but like fucking turbosick, it's now 18 hours of vomiting with just little pauses, my stomach is long over empty yet my fucking body still tries to expel something with rib-crushing force.

What do?
#176757 to #176745 - skydiving
Reply 0
(03/03/2015) [-]
There's not much you can do. sorry. If you are violently throwing up to the point of not keeping down any fluids (if you throw up everything, even water after 24 hours), you'll need to go to the hospital to prevent dehydration right away.

Chewing ice chips is a good way that is really gentle on your stomach, and gatorade is a great rehydrator. Even if you feel awful about it, if you can keep it down, you need those fluids.
#176746 to #176745 - softdoritocat
Reply 0
(03/03/2015) [-]
Might be food poisoning. Did you eat anything that could cause that? Do you have a fever?
#176747 to #176746 - anon
Reply 0
(03/03/2015) [-]
yeah I have fever

i dunno about food poisoning, only think I ate prior to core meltdown was like some bread with cheese (freshly bought)
#176748 to #176747 - softdoritocat
Reply 0
(03/03/2015) [-]
It could be cheese or even dirty hands or you could have get it from somebody. I had same thing few years back, I ate a bag of crisps, went to sleep, few hours later I'm puking all over the place constantly for hours. If you don't feel too bad, just stay in bed and drink a lot of fluids, even if you don't feel like it. You should be better in a couple of hours, just don't eat anything. I remember that I was fine after 36h and puking stopped after about 24h. If you have diosmectite at home u should drink it (brand names are Smecta or Smecdral) or try to ask someone to get it for you if you can. It tastes like anus, but it basically absorb bacteria and viruses from your digestive system so it will stop vomiting and diarrhea. Doctors can't really do anything to help you with food poisoning, you just need to make sure to stay hydrated and wait this out. If you don't feel any better in a couple of hours, call a doctor, maybe it's something more serious.
#176749 to #176748 - anon
Reply 0
(03/03/2015) [-]
thanks for actually very helpful post, I shall endure this trial
#176756 to #176749 - softdoritocat
Reply 0
(03/03/2015) [-]
So, did you live?