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#138410 - thecupoftea (06/13/2014) [-]
So, I have quite a bit of porn and stuff on my computer, and I'm thinking of buying a new computer.
I had a usb drive to back it all up, but for some reason it's messing up. It's saying there is nothing on the drive and that it has 0 space free.

So, does anyone know a fix for this?

If not, I'd prefer not to have to buy another usb drive which may or may not work. So is there any other options? Like somewhere to store all this online, without risk of anybody seeing the files?
Some are screen recordings of being on cam with people, so they include me. So I don't want any risk of anyone finding them, but I don't really want to lose them.

Is this possible or do I have to resort to paying out more?
User avatar #138412 to #138410 - xXThatxOnexGuyXx (06/13/2014) [-]
The drive could either:
Not work with your operating system. (Could be NTFS, and if you're on a mac....)
Have Write Protection on it. (Hard to get write protection on in the first place; Impossible to get it off.)

What size of flash drive is it?
Have you tried reformatting it? This will erase the flash drive's content.
#138414 to #138412 - thecupoftea (06/13/2014) [-]
Usually it doesn't let me reformat. I have no idea why. Then when it did, earlier today, it went back to normal for like a second. When I tried to put something on it it said it can't be done due to write protection (i never chose to have it on, so I don't know) and then went back to 0 free space.

It's 8GB.
(Thanks for the response)
#138418 to #138414 - xXThatxOnexGuyXx (06/13/2014) [-]
Check and see if there's any physical switch on the flash drive.
For SD cards there's a "lock" switch that will enable write protection. Check and see if the same is true for your flash drive.

If not, it's bricked.

There are ways to remove write protection, although it's a hit or miss.
Google around and you're bound to find a few 'fixes.'

I currently have a 256gb flash drive that has succumbed to write protection. I went through hours of support with Microsoft, and I shot down every attempt; They just stopped replying to me because there were no other alternatives to what could be done.
#138536 to #138418 - thecupoftea (06/14/2014) [-]
Yeah, no switch.
Man, that sucks. I hardly even used this, and it just dies for no reason?
Bloody hell.

Thanks, though.
User avatar #138542 to #138536 - xXThatxOnexGuyXx (06/14/2014) [-]
You can try this:

>Open CMD
list disk
select disk <disk number>
attributes disk clear readonly

Just be absolutely sure that you're selecting the flash drive. Quadruple check it.

Link to thread:

If that fails you can create a Linux DVD, restart the computer and boot into Linux via DVD, and reformat the drive there.

Aaand lastly you can crack the bitch open and double check that all connections are secure. Maybe the head of the USB stick is coming loose from the rest?
If you've run out of options, definitely crack it open and see what's up.
User avatar #138398 - larsfillmore (06/13/2014) [-]
Alright so i actually decided to read what she said on meetme
Guy: Just sitting here cuddling with myself since none of you want to
Her: Can i?
User avatar #138400 to #138398 - xXThatxOnexGuyXx (06/13/2014) [-]

Sounds like she wants the D.
User avatar #138396 - nigalthornberry (06/13/2014) [-]
Stomach hurts real bad for some reason
User avatar #138399 to #138396 - xXThatxOnexGuyXx (06/13/2014) [-]
Any way you'd like to explain the pain?
User avatar #138419 to #138399 - nigalthornberry (06/13/2014) [-]
Well I ate some sugar free gummy bears a few days ago
#138420 to #138419 - xXThatxOnexGuyXx (06/13/2014) [-]
oh shit nigger why would you do that   
 Just wait for it to pass.
oh shit nigger why would you do that

Just wait for it to pass.
User avatar #138427 to #138420 - nigalthornberry (06/13/2014) [-]
I thought it did pass when I was in the middle of a delivery the first time I felt it
#138355 - pringlez has deleted their comment [-]
User avatar #138415 to #138355 - ebbiecandie (06/13/2014) [-]
You're a shitty person and I hope your girlfriend leaves your ass
User avatar #138402 to #138355 - ScottP (06/13/2014) [-]
That's a pretty shitty thing to do to your girlfriend. I mean, it'd make her feel like she's worthless to you.
User avatar #138395 to #138355 - nigalthornberry (06/13/2014) [-]
Get rid of both unless you had a good reason for breaking up with your ex
#138366 to #138355 - xXThatxOnexGuyXx (06/12/2014) [-]
You can do quite a few things here, but explicitly asking your ex for nudes probably won't go too well.

Possible things you can do:
1) Google image search, get the app Burner, send yourself fake nudes.

2) Just dump your girlfriend.

3) Plot a better way for revenge.

4) Talk it out with your girlfriend. If you want the relationship to stay afloat, just talk to her about it.
User avatar #138375 to #138366 - xXThatxOnexGuyXx (06/12/2014) [-]
Scratch that...
Get over your ex or dump your girlfriend.
The only reasonable options to do here.
#138360 to #138355 - oborawatabinost has deleted their comment [-]
User avatar #138365 to #138360 - pringlez ONLINE (06/12/2014) [-]
No, my ex is. And I know it's not cool, believe me I do. But recently I've been feeling very much so attracted to her and I don't know what to do about it
#138369 to #138365 - oborawatabinost has deleted their comment [-]
#138339 - poorfaag (06/12/2014) [-]
my girlfriend just said next time we are together she will do anything sex related for me.

so what should we do? i'm completely lost of inspiration and got not that much sexual experience (neither does she) but she wants to try something new. so help out a bro?

pic not related.
User avatar #138488 to #138339 - kkitkat (06/13/2014) [-]
as a female i vote these things
oily massage back of body, butt and thighs
intimate nip play
clit play
I like guy on top but see what she reacts to best, the world is your oister
#138517 to #138488 - poorfaag (06/13/2014) [-]

i really needed that imput
User avatar #138518 to #138517 - kkitkat (06/13/2014) [-]
Hahaha no problem man
#138519 to #138518 - poorfaag (06/13/2014) [-]
someone who does understand thank you much
User avatar #138521 to #138519 - kkitkat (06/13/2014) [-]
Honestly no problem, i know my boyfriend was very worried about getting it right the first time so i know it must mean something to guys haha
#138523 to #138521 - poorfaag (06/13/2014) [-]
well its not our first time. but everyone on her thinks it. and yeah mostly since sex for guys is just nothing for 40 min and then coming in seks its far more enjoyable to treat your girl so she feels like she's in heaven.

but we done all the basic stuff and kind of want something a bit more. "More"
User avatar #138524 to #138523 - kkitkat (06/13/2014) [-]
well, i put all the things i enjoyed so i'm sure that should help at least a little bit have fun!
User avatar #138431 to #138339 - fuckya (06/13/2014) [-]
Don't worry dude, I bust a nut inside when she's on the pill w/ no condom. If you know she's clean, just go with it. 100x better raw than wrapped.
Make out, grope her, undo the bra-strap, hands down pants, finger her, then pull down her pants when it feels like your feeding a horse. Since she's new to this too, it'll be rough on her part and maybe a bit hard to slide it in, give it a little time and ask her to move it as needed, or just have her on top so she can control it.
Best of luck mate.
#138416 to #138339 - anonymous (06/13/2014) [-]

User avatar #138344 to #138339 - Timmietim (06/12/2014) [-]
do anal
#138346 to #138344 - poorfaag (06/12/2014) [-]
thinking about it. But i would like she would be able to sit afterward
User avatar #138350 to #138346 - Timmietim (06/12/2014) [-]
idunno some light bdsm then?
#138354 to #138350 - poorfaag (06/12/2014) [-]
nice idea. but not what i'm looking for.
User avatar #138356 to #138354 - Timmietim (06/12/2014) [-]
oily massage
#138358 to #138356 - poorfaag (06/12/2014) [-]
better idea.
#138340 to #138339 - ipostcp (06/12/2014) [-]
Make sure you clean yourself thoroughly if you haven't already. Also trim the hedges.
#138341 to #138340 - poorfaag (06/12/2014) [-]
implying i aren't already
#138343 to #138341 - ipostcp (06/12/2014) [-]
You are a casual.

Also make sure you have condoms that fit and aren't uncomfortable.
#138345 to #138343 - poorfaag (06/12/2014) [-]
she's on the pill motherfucker. are you even trying?
#138347 to #138345 - ipostcp (06/12/2014) [-]
So you're going to risk pregnancy? Use a condom every time. Every single time. One day she could of forgotten to take it and just say she did simply cause she is horny, then you are a daddy.

Use a condom you retard.
#138348 to #138347 - poorfaag (06/12/2014) [-]
something tells me you don't know how the pill work?
#138351 to #138348 - ipostcp (06/12/2014) [-]
Go free then. I'm just telling you what is smart and what is stupid.

How old are you?
#138352 to #138351 - poorfaag (06/12/2014) [-]
19 and mid education like her. making it stupid to get pregnant
>reason why she is on the pill
#138359 to #138352 - ipostcp (06/12/2014) [-]
You sound like you're 13.

Go fucking spend 10 dollars.
#138363 to #138359 - poorfaag (06/12/2014) [-]
User avatar #138368 to #138363 - ipostcp (06/12/2014) [-]
You're autistic as well.

I really hope she gets pregnant.
#138372 to #138368 - poorfaag (06/12/2014) [-]
are you all fucking retards?
#138443 to #138372 - womanexplain ONLINE (06/13/2014) [-]
What ipost is trying to say is, you can never completely know whether a girl is on the pill or not, just because she says she is doesn't mean she's telling the truth. Condoms also prevent STDS and of course make pregnancy absolutely impossible if it were in any way a possibility.   
I think if I were you, I would use a condom. It's just a much smarter route.   
Even if you watch her take the pill and know she's STD free, you never know. You lose nothing by just being safe. So why not? Just put a scarf on the snowman :&lt;... Eughhh.
What ipost is trying to say is, you can never completely know whether a girl is on the pill or not, just because she says she is doesn't mean she's telling the truth. Condoms also prevent STDS and of course make pregnancy absolutely impossible if it were in any way a possibility.
I think if I were you, I would use a condom. It's just a much smarter route.
Even if you watch her take the pill and know she's STD free, you never know. You lose nothing by just being safe. So why not? Just put a scarf on the snowman :<... Eughhh.
#138457 to #138443 - poorfaag (06/13/2014) [-]
in some parallel universe a girl is writing and says that her boyfriend uses condom and she feels safe and the other girls are saying "what if he doesn't put it on, you never know, what is it has a hole, what if it rips" And telling her to get on the fucking pill to save herself for a unwanted pregnancy
User avatar #138459 to #138457 - womanexplain ONLINE (06/13/2014) [-]
Ok, your point there is that people cam lie and using the pill is a good form of precaution, which is my point too, the pill is good, but use a condom too. I don't know why you're so against doing it to be honest... It's for your safety not ours, if you really don't want to, delete the thread...?
#138461 to #138459 - poorfaag (06/13/2014) [-]
You are really the first to bring op a point to this. But i asked what to freaky sex to do when i could. and then i'm getting sex ed from people who says the pill doesn't work. i'm not against condoms. i'm agains shortsighted people.
User avatar #138463 to #138461 - womanexplain ONLINE (06/13/2014) [-]
Your poor choices are your own to make, if you're looking for crazy sex ideas, google it. I suggest you delete this thread, because your stubborness and openness to risky sex is misjudged.
#138465 to #138463 - poorfaag (06/13/2014) [-]
"I suggest you delete this thread, because your stubborness" are you even trying?
User avatar #138476 to #138465 - womanexplain ONLINE (06/13/2014) [-]
no cos you're wrong
#138353 to #138352 - anonymous (06/12/2014) [-]
use a condom.

just use one.
#138361 to #138357 - anonymous (06/12/2014) [-]

are you serious?

like really?

I don't think you should reproduce.
#138364 to #138361 - poorfaag (06/12/2014) [-]
ain't no body knowing how the pill work? WTF
#138371 to #138364 - anonymous (06/12/2014) [-]
Enjoy fatherhood.
#138376 to #138371 - poorfaag (06/12/2014) [-]
do not get on sexual topics with Adv/ since the don't know anything about it anyway.
#138377 to #138376 - anonymous (06/12/2014) [-]
fine, don't listen to me, you run the risk.

better safe than sorry.
#138378 to #138377 - poorfaag (06/12/2014) [-]
the pill is like a Fucking Condom, use it right and it work just as well, don't take it (on) and shit hits the fan. a condom can rip, have a hole, and slide off if not fitted right. the pill doesn't work if it isn't taken the right time. ITS A FUCKING TRUST GAME
the other way around you could also "forget the condom" like she could for get the pill but that shit doesn't happen if you fuckinf remind eachother of it?

tldr: The pill and condom is the fucking same.
User avatar #138406 to #138378 - marinepenguin (06/13/2014) [-]
The pill is just as effective as a condom, you're right. But it's always better to be safe then sorry. 4 women out of 100 will get pregnant a year using only the pill, 1 will if you you a condom and pill. I like the idea of condom and pill better.

Plus it kind of isn't effective at all if you miss a day, and if you miss two, you're out for a fucking month.

Dated a girl who only used the pill for over a year, condoms gave her painful rashes (even non-latex). Had multiple pregnancy scares, it was awful.
#138362 to #138361 - ipostcp (06/12/2014) [-]
Somebody gets it.
#138367 to #138362 - anonymous (06/12/2014) [-]
how can anyone think the pill is the most secure thing?

jezzus cryst.

maybe we should let him fuck it up?
User avatar #138370 to #138367 - ipostcp (06/12/2014) [-]
Imply she even takes it.
#138373 to #138370 - anonymous (06/12/2014) [-]
if he comes back in 2 weeks and says "how do support a kid and my self"

I'll laugh.
#138330 - missviking (06/12/2014) [-]
This might be a long shot. Anyone here who would throw a piece of advice in to get started on DIY bladeworking?
User avatar #138403 to #138330 - xXThatxOnexGuyXx (06/13/2014) [-]
How a Buster Sword is built. How to Make a Knife with a Soup Can Forge How to Make a Soup Can Forge

There's bound to be a plethora of sources online.
If it's creating said blades, the videos above will help with that. If it's maintaining and general upkeep of fine blades, such as swords, googling around could get you pretty far.
#138323 - ipostcp (06/12/2014) [-]
How much is a general trip to the vet? Not an emergency though.
User avatar #138387 to #138323 - makotoitou (06/12/2014) [-]
I think like $20.
User avatar #138388 to #138387 - ipostcp (06/12/2014) [-]
User avatar #138389 to #138388 - makotoitou (06/12/2014) [-]
Don't quote me though, but it's not too much. Took my dog to the vet a week ago and it was like $200 for a surgery+the visit.
User avatar #138390 to #138389 - ipostcp (06/12/2014) [-]
Oh okay. My snake just needs to get some stuff lifted from his eyes.
User avatar #138392 to #138390 - makotoitou (06/12/2014) [-]
Yeah should be fine then. Small dog (Yorkie <10 pounds) swallowed a chicken bone and had to get it removed.
User avatar #138393 to #138392 - ipostcp (06/12/2014) [-]
GG, could of died the poor thing.
User avatar #138394 to #138393 - makotoitou (06/13/2014) [-]
Yeah, she's good now though.
User avatar #138326 to #138323 - laky (06/12/2014) [-]
hey its you again
User avatar #138327 to #138326 - ipostcp (06/12/2014) [-]
Yes, sir. How are you?
User avatar #138329 to #138327 - laky (06/12/2014) [-]
Pretty good actually. Thinking that I am gradually becoming an advicefag and am gunna start frequenting this board. How about you man?
User avatar #138331 to #138329 - ipostcp (06/12/2014) [-]
I browse here a lot and what not, but I feel that most people don't enjoy my advice simply, because of how crude I am about it.

I'm doing alright, I'm bored but that's about it.
User avatar #138335 to #138331 - laky (06/12/2014) [-]
Yeah i haven't been getting much replies either. But i guess that's just the way it goes.

I tend to joke around a lot as well. I can't really take much of the shit posted here seriously and I do have the anonymity, so why not be hurtfully honest?
User avatar #138338 to #138335 - ipostcp (06/12/2014) [-]
Also, gay as well, but that is beside the point.
#138336 to #138335 - ipostcp (06/12/2014) [-]
I can agree to an extent. Which is why I don't post here often. I generally only post on stuff that interests me, or I know the person. Oh well.
User avatar #138325 to #138323 - laky (06/12/2014) [-]
22 shekels
#138306 - anonymous (06/12/2014) [-]
hey dudes girl help. Basically i started dating this girl during the last 3 months of school, and we got pretty serious to the point she slept/live in my apartment for the last week we were together. First day gone ( we live about 300 miles away during the summer) she said how much she missed me, how she feels at home with me and all that. We were never official and didnt have that talk before we left so heres were it gets complicated, about a week in shes texting me like im almost bothering her, literally all day. I get its summer people get busy but all day? Sowe talk and she wants no obligation during summer, but were exclusive? weird. Things go well up untill last week. She was all lovey dovey sunday night after not hearing from her for about a day and she was concerneed whether or not i was mad. Said shed work on texting better.
User avatar #138407 to #138306 - marinepenguin (06/13/2014) [-]
After reading all of the comments, ignore her. She only talks to you and is around you when she needs you. Whenever she needs to feel wanted or whatever. Leave, let her come to you, let her pursue you, go after other girls. Make her jealous. If she doesn't get jealous and doesn't care, then there ya go, you can move on.
#138309 to #138306 - anonymous (06/12/2014) [-]
me again sorry for the long story :Now the weeks going on and she literally cant give me the time of day. Fast foward to yesterday, i went back up to my apartment and told her in advanced i was there, she said she cant she has work tomorrow night. I say come for the night and go home in the morning. That was tuesday. Shes active on social media and shit but hasnt texted me at all. Do i assume shes over me? texting and everything aside, if she really missed me as much as she says she does wouldnt she have made some effort to see me? Ive done everything to make this work and she just wants no worries because it summer. What do i do? Everytime i finally concinvce myself its over were not gunna be together during school, she does something to keep my hope afloat.
#138320 to #138309 - anonymous (06/12/2014) [-]
I should also add she slept with me as well, and also left multiple items in my room.
User avatar #138324 to #138320 - thatnigger (06/12/2014) [-]
Dude, she's toying with you. If she still does something to keep your hopes afloat as in she doesn't want to let you go but she's put you on the hook, as in she's mad at you. Obviously when she didn't text, she wanted to see your reaction, as in would you be worried that she never talked and she probably feels like you take her for granted. If you go up to her, tell her you just didn't get it and ask make it up to her by either taking her on a date or something, I'm sure she'll forgive you. Also pretty much say what you've said here, like how you miss her being lovey dovey and all. You pretty much pointed out all the problems and how to solve it when you asked for advice.
#138333 to #138324 - anonymous (06/12/2014) [-]
No i get shes toying with me, but shes the one who wants zero obligation. I thought what you said at first, so i did tell her this, one time she didnt text me for a while and she FREAKED and said i told you i want 0 obligation its summer, and i said i dont understand how she can miss me one minute and not the next, she goes idk sometimes im busy sometimes im not. It just burns me how i told her i was nearby and she just stopped answering me. Were not in highschool anymore, i shouldnt have to double text someone multiple times after i already asked her. Its more like a conveince thing. Ive told her i missed her, ive tried being there everysecond she texts me and none of it worked. Ive tried to set up days to call or skype but its "when she feels like calling me she will" I think she knows im hooked so shes manipulating me
User avatar #138337 to #138333 - thatnigger (06/12/2014) [-]
Try and get a lovey dovey moment going then, ask when she won't be busy and plan something really nice and tell her you're planning something but don't tell her what it is. If she says she's busy, tell her if she want make time for you, even if it's just a bit just so you can see her a bit more and tell her you'll make as much time as she wants from you. Tell her that if you're on the hook, you don't mind staying on it as long as she's not cold to you and you get the loving her back. Good luck with this all.
#138384 to #138337 - anonymous (06/12/2014) [-]
Yeah Im honestly going to probably just give up. Im way to obseessed with the girl and work at it way too much. It was 50/50 when we were at school it wasnt a force to get her to talk to me, but once she got home she was over me in about a week. She says she not going to hookup with anyone but itd honestly be better at this point. She chose summer and fun vs me. It could have been done if she really missed me and liked me as much as she said she did but i guess she thought she liked me more then she realized she did
User avatar #138386 to #138384 - thatnigger (06/12/2014) [-]
Don't give up until you ask her these things. If she is just playing and mad at you, then just hope it's over with soon and you can continue being happy together. If you tell her you want to spend more time with her and she's not listening and you tell her that you feel like she doesn't love you anymore and she doesn't listen, then you can give up. Until you know for sure that it's over, don't give up.
#138397 to #138386 - anonymous (06/13/2014) [-]
To me its just like, she went from texting me every day to telling me nothings wrong but she just is "busy" to text me. It fucks with my mind you know? Its like she could put a little more effort in but shes not even trying. I went from expecting a lot, to just expecting to hear from her everyday, im not sure if that was even too much ive never done the distance thing. She wants her summer i get that but she cant text me all day one day like shes in love with me, the next not even hit me back
User avatar #138401 to #138397 - thatnigger (06/13/2014) [-]
Nah, I get you man. I honestly think you just need to have a real talk kind of conversation with her, as in if your relationship if going anywhere and if you're both going to try and make this last and not just last as in holding by a thread until it breaks but last as in keeping it together and health. I understand it must be hard as she's sort of had a really split and drastic change when it comes to you, but I honestly think you need to talk it out properly. Ask her when she's not busy and that you really want to talk to her. If she thinks you're too clingy for asking her constantly, then she obviously doesn't want to be with you or is really taking this toying thing to a real extreme and so you can just call it off then or tell her you feel like she doesn't want you anymore. Obviously it's not easy on you, let her know that and stuff. If she'd rather not talk to you, then tell her that the zero obligation thing meant that she didn't want you.
There is another side to this though. Maybe she feels like this is the last summer she'll get to enjoy because college will be coming up soon and if you two are planning on being together here on out, maybe she feels like it's the last summer she can enjoy by herself. If it's true, then tell her that she has to at least talk to you once every 2 days or so, set rules that she has to at least keep in touch and hope that this is only temporary and you'll get the normal her back after summer or sooner if she gets bored during summer and wants to spend more time with you.
There are lots of things that could be going on in her head, so just try and find out what it is, tell her to give her hints, that you're on to her game and you need help in order to finish it. Hopefully she'll at least give you that, if not then I don't think it's worth it and you should do what you said and just give up, but hopefully she wants this to last as much as you do.
#138404 to #138401 - anonymous (06/13/2014) [-]
I never thought about the last summer. Maybe she is actually preparing. It is hard cuz i have told her it does bother me when she doesnt text me for extended periods of time, and i shouldnt have to initiate every conversation, it wasnt like that before you know? Theres a lot of over thinking on my part but ill just let it play out
User avatar #138405 to #138404 - thatnigger (06/13/2014) [-]
Good luck, hope things work out. Also, probably a lot of over thinking on my part as well.
User avatar #138302 - mrclorox (06/12/2014) [-]
I have some people over my house right now and we're trying to watch the Fifa world cup but i dont have ESPN i was just wondering where i can stream it

thank ye
User avatar #138301 - kkitkat (06/12/2014) [-]
Hi everyone
I really need a little rant and would also LOVE some advice with how to deal with some stuff so here goes
I am 17, my family (grandparents, mum, stepdad, step sister and sister) all live in one house. My step dad is the only one who works and my mum is trying to get a business going so income is low, but not low enough for bursuries and gouvernent help which is bad because it only takes into consideration gross income, not how many people live off that income etc. I also had a bit of a difficult upbring with father not paying for stuff, being violent and manipulative etc. So not the best financial position but enough to survive however with background problems.

Since i was little i had a dream of being a "photographer artist designer" and that is what i stuck with. To achieve this dream, i understood from a young age would be hard as i would need to be technologically advance and without money... you get the drift. So i saved up. For years. Just to get a good camera and other stuff to get me there. I can't find a local job anywhere so once again financial issues, i only got money on my birthdays and Christmas. Finally i got enough for a camera and bought it myself and took up so many volunteer jobs of photography to add to my CV. This was at the age of about 14, that year my mum also got me (cheap and small) graphics tablet and i can't tell you how happy i was, they have lasted me until today, however i feel the value of my tablet is restricting my growth so i was thinking of getting a new one that was better (out of my savings that had grown since age 14).

Gonna have to make a new post to fit all this in hang on
User avatar #138307 to #138301 - kkitkat (06/12/2014) [-]
So this "friend" of mine this year at college decided she liked graphics too and so i helped her in every way i could, she has a job, her mum has a boyfriend and she lives with her two other siblings, her biological father gave her £100 for her birthday which who knows where it went and she's under the income level so she can get free stuff, however ages ago she said she wouldn't because she could just save money from her job to do this.

Recently she announced to everyone that she was going to go on a bursary to get herself a graphics tablet.
This really upset me and i can't let it out on anyone because it sounds like i'm not happy for her or that i'm inconsiderate but it made me so sad that after i had spent so many years saving she could just turn around and get one practically for free.

Also i was clinically diagnosed with anxiaty and depression, recently i have noticed i have been crying and getting upset less however this has changed to anger, like really bad, i go red like a tomato and cry and want to hit things at the smallest things and angry thoughts follow me which leads to my final problem

These angry thoughts have been following me everywhere about this girl and i have found myself getting so angry at the tiniest mention of the subject and it's made cry easily and quickly and become embarressed about it

How would you guys stop this/deal with it?

I have tried counselling for a long time and it didn't really work too well so that's out of the question, just as a disclaimer
User avatar #138342 to #138307 - xXThatxOnexGuyXx (06/12/2014) [-]
It's Jealousy.

You thrived for the items that you have now.
She did not. She was 'practically given' the tablet.

I know exactly how you feel. And then some.
I would save up money from my crappy part-time job working in Fast Food to build a PC. Finally, I had $300 saved up over the course of a few months. Built my first gaming PC. The week after my friend is given his dad's "back-up build." In reality my friend was jealous I got a computer, and he just had to get one too. This happened with everything. I buy myself a pair of $25 headphones as a Christmas gift... to myself... His dad buys him a pair of $80 Sennheiser headphones...

It's material possessions anyways.
She'll never learn to truly appreciate the things she owns.
You have to come to terms with the fact that, sure some people "have it better" because they have more material items than you do, but in all reality, if they're bragging about a tablet then that should say a lot about them.
Either they worked hard and were finally able to afford it and wanted to share the moment with everyone, or they just want to shove it in other people's faces to hide what's really going on in their life.

Trust me on this one; Practically getting things for free, or just blowing excess money on material possessions doesn't make you happy.
Take a look at those who own smartphones.
I guarantee you, people who were just handed the phone are bound to end up breaking it real quickly.
People who saved up money and worked towards getting the smartphone, will not have a single damned scratch on it.
For instance, all of my spoiled friends have cracked their iPhones within weeks of getting it. Meanwhile my Android phone of 2 years looks almost as if it came right out of the box.

So what if your friend is practically handed expensive items?
She'll never appreciate it. It will have no value to her other than the price tag.
There are more things to life than material possessions and money.
User avatar #138449 to #138342 - kkitkat (06/13/2014) [-]
Thank you so much, now that you say it in that way it makes it a lot better actually ... i always thought it was just anger that i had to work hard for things, the same with the phone thing, she also has an iphone (cracked screen) and i have a 5 year old samsung genio touch that still works fine, no scratches so i guess you're right, which like i said, makes me feel a lot better... Thank you so much, i really appriciate you're advice and help.
I think sometimes you just need another perspective on things but i find it really hard sometimes, so as i said, thank you very much
User avatar #138332 to #138307 - laky (06/12/2014) [-]
You can try finding another counselor? I've gone through a couple and many of my friends have gone through even more. Just try to improve yourself and your situation any way you can.

As for your problem, I have no direct solution to it, but you can have some peace of mind knowing that this will make you a more complete person. Your suffering and struggling will build some character. It will make you tougher. You will also be more resilient to problems in the future. Overcome your jealousy and you will become a more respectable and profound individual.

Wish you the best of luck kkitkat. Hope this shit works out for you man
User avatar #138450 to #138332 - kkitkat (06/13/2014) [-]
I've been in and out of loads ever since i was little It just seemed to make things worse in the last sessions that i had this year which sucks..

I hope you're right, i hate knowing that i'm jelous because it sounds so self centred but xXThatOnexGuyXx helped me see that in a different perspective and you helped me to see it as just something that will make me stronger which is great thank you

(The people on this board are so good at helping other people i honestly didn't expect it to be this good all the time)
User avatar #138328 to #138307 - thatnigger (06/12/2014) [-]
Well, of course it sucks when you work hard and someone gets the end result with little to no work. Honestly, the only thing you can do is realize that what you did means more to you. It's like would you rather play a game from the beginning and put all this work in to get your character to max, or buy a max character. The end result is the same, but I honestly would rather work to get my guy to the top or as close to it as I could get.

Don't worry about it, just except it and keep working on what you like to do. Keep designing and try hard.
User avatar #138451 to #138328 - kkitkat (06/13/2014) [-]
Thak you so much, i can't do a long reply thankiing you right now because i need to go to college but believe me it means a lot to get so much support and i really appriciate it, thank you so much
User avatar #138453 to #138451 - thatnigger (06/13/2014) [-]
No problem, hope you have a good day. :3
User avatar #138299 - georgesmoustache (06/12/2014) [-]
How many points do I need for university?
User avatar #138310 to #138299 - kkitkat (06/12/2014) [-]
Depends which course and what uni

Generally it can be 2 B's and a C at A-level
User avatar #138315 to #138313 - kkitkat (06/12/2014) [-]
No problem
User avatar #138283 - skeptical (06/12/2014) [-]
how do no fap
User avatar #138432 to #138283 - fuckya (06/13/2014) [-]
#138298 to #138283 - anonymous (06/12/2014) [-]
But why do you not want to fap?
User avatar #138300 to #138298 - skeptical (06/12/2014) [-]
i have severe symptoms of sexual exhaustion and need to stop masturbating for around 6-8 weeks, and this is going to be unfathomably difficult as i a)am in a habit of masturbating 3-4 times a day even if no porn is available and b)have a large amount of unused time on my hands
User avatar #138293 to #138283 - thatnigger (06/12/2014) [-]
If you distract yourself with other things, you usually don't even think about it.
User avatar #138292 to #138283 - winners (06/12/2014) [-]
these 2 hot ass chicks just walked into our office to make an appointment. I wanted to bang the fuk outa them so bad
User avatar #138294 to #138292 - skeptical (06/12/2014) [-]
wel fak u to
User avatar #138286 to #138283 - ishallsmiteyou (06/12/2014) [-]
play the most addictive game you own.
User avatar #138288 to #138286 - skeptical (06/12/2014) [-]
cannot into vido gaem for resons
User avatar #138334 to #138288 - ishallsmiteyou (06/12/2014) [-]
watch all the stand-up comedians you can find. Avoid George Lopez.
User avatar #138284 to #138283 - xXThatxOnexGuyXx (06/12/2014) [-]
Well, if it's really bad you can just think of things that will occupy your mind.

And by that I mean:
Think about your grandparents.
Think about cringe-worthy stuff you did as a kid.
User avatar #138244 - haydentheviking (06/12/2014) [-]
If i get bad gcse's in like maths etc will it really effect my chances of a job or is that made up to scare people?
User avatar #138317 to #138244 - kkitkat (06/12/2014) [-]
Not really. A-levels are the main thing, however you will need them for university and to get into Alevels, it's usually a "c's in english and maths" barriar but if you do art etc, portfolios can get you in
User avatar #138261 to #138244 - vwanyama (06/12/2014) [-]
There are people out there with no decent grades and good jobs... and others who have years of uni yet can't get a job. Honestly don't worry about it. It is all scare tactics... worse comes to worse you can sit them again in 5th year or in college.
User avatar #138247 to #138244 - thatnigger (06/12/2014) [-]
A levels are really the only thing they look at most of the time, having good gcse scores only show how ready you are for A levels. That being said if you can do well in both, that's obviously preferred.
User avatar #138248 to #138247 - haydentheviking (06/12/2014) [-]
Cause i feel like im gonna get a g or f in maths and my school keep telling me "maths and English are the most important if you dont do well in them people wont want you to work for them" shit like that
User avatar #138249 to #138248 - thatnigger (06/12/2014) [-]
If you're not doing maths at A levels or at least a lower level maths at A levels then maybe, you can also retake if you're that bothered by it. If you are taking maths at a levels though, then it's fine. You do need maths though, and if gcse is the only maths you're doing then I guess you need to look for a field of work that's heavily English or whatever your best subject is.
User avatar #138250 to #138249 - haydentheviking (06/12/2014) [-]
i guess ill just go into labor like work...
User avatar #138252 to #138250 - thatnigger (06/12/2014) [-]
What were you planning to go into? If you want a office job, that's still possible I'd say.
User avatar #138255 to #138252 - haydentheviking (06/12/2014) [-]
thats the problem i dont know what to do
User avatar #138258 to #138255 - thatnigger (06/12/2014) [-]
Damn, well I mean you are only at gcse, not like you need to know just yet. You could go into teaching as well or just an office job. Lots of different jobs out there.
User avatar #138260 to #138258 - haydentheviking (06/12/2014) [-]
True...thanks man
User avatar #138243 - magicalsteve (06/12/2014) [-]
I heard about this bay that pirates meet at but I'm too uneducated. I'm pretty sure it's not allowed in america where i live but what are the risks of visiting these pirates?
User avatar #138433 to #138243 - fuckya (06/13/2014) [-]
uTorrent is a good torrent client if you don't know.
Actual risks? Some ISPs give you warnings and then eventually slow down your internet so torrenting is impossibly slow (Mediacom is a bunch of fucking Nazis in 'Murica, and will actually take away your internet).
Actually getting arrested? Only if you make a nice profit torrenting hundreds of GB of shit.
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User avatar #138251 to #138243 - nebuchadnezzaurus (06/12/2014) [-]
Are you being humorous or are you asking for serious advice on how to use torrents?
User avatar #138256 to #138251 - magicalsteve (06/12/2014) [-]
and legal risks, I'm 16 and not about to get a record for downloading a game
User avatar #138254 to #138251 - magicalsteve (06/12/2014) [-]
Serious advice lol
User avatar #138259 to #138254 - nebuchadnezzaurus (06/12/2014) [-]
Well I'm not going to advise you to go ahead and "break the law" (as dumb as it sounds when it comes to just downloading a game) because if I did and you did get into trouble for it, I'd turn out to be a huge douchebag. But as far as I know the chances of actually being arrested for it are very low.
User avatar #138257 to #138254 - nebuchadnezzaurus (06/12/2014) [-]
I don't know American laws but I've heard of some people being persecuted for using torrents, not sure about the details though. Anyhow that's a crime that's quite hard to prove you've actually committed, as there are many ways to keep you safe
User avatar #138241 - larsfillmore (06/12/2014) [-]
Well i decided what i want to use my voice for.
I will narrate every single shrek is love story there is.
User avatar #138242 to #138241 - malimrav (06/12/2014) [-]
looking forward to it
User avatar #138224 - drastronomy (06/12/2014) [-]
I have oral exam in 2 hours

wish me luck
User avatar #138237 to #138224 - drastronomy (06/12/2014) [-]
top grade

User avatar #138287 to #138237 - ishallsmiteyou (06/12/2014) [-]
#138230 to #138224 - Nameloc (06/12/2014) [-]
Good luck.
Good luck.
#138229 to #138224 - thumbaccountlol (06/12/2014) [-]
Good luck baby, i believe in you!
#138207 - dehumanizer (06/12/2014) [-]
>failed two exams
>asked the qt out again and she basicly told me to leave her alone

gee thanks guys, telling her was a really good idea!
User avatar #138263 to #138207 - Timmietim (06/12/2014) [-]
>ask her out again
didnt she say no the first time then?
And who cares she told you to leave her alone, she doesn't want to go out with you so why would you crawl back to her
#138264 to #138263 - dehumanizer (06/12/2014) [-]
because maybe she would change her mind

also because i got nothing better to do and getting attracted to grils is difficult
User avatar #138265 to #138264 - Timmietim (06/12/2014) [-]
why would she change her mind, you didn't change a thing

go to a fucking bar or something
#138266 to #138265 - dehumanizer (06/12/2014) [-]
i cant just get attracted to random succubi, going to a bar is too normalfaggy for me
User avatar #138267 to #138266 - Timmietim (06/12/2014) [-]
maybe the problem is you are ''special'' ahem.
#138268 to #138267 - dehumanizer (06/12/2014) [-]
but i know i am
User avatar #138269 to #138268 - Timmietim (06/12/2014) [-]
become a normalfag then
we have gf's.
#138270 to #138269 - dehumanizer (06/12/2014) [-]
let me guess, i just gotta be myself, right?
User avatar #138278 to #138270 - gandaalf (06/12/2014) [-]
that green block is a piece of shit
he should just turn sideways
#138279 to #138278 - dehumanizer (06/12/2014) [-]
he'd still get stuck
User avatar #138280 to #138279 - gandaalf (06/12/2014) [-]
he definitely wouldn't
my major was 'shapes and shit' in uni
#138281 to #138280 - dehumanizer (06/12/2014) [-]
whatever, he's not supposed to, you get the point the pic is trying to make
User avatar #138282 to #138281 - gandaalf (06/12/2014) [-]
i'm understanding a lower layer
some people can fit
if they change they're state of mind
the rest are fucked because life ain't fair
silver spoon coon ho
User avatar #138271 to #138270 - Timmietim (06/12/2014) [-]
pretty much the opposite, you seem like a fucking autist
#138272 to #138271 - dehumanizer (06/12/2014) [-]
dont think its autism, just too messed up in the brain, very depressed etc
User avatar #138273 to #138272 - Timmietim (06/12/2014) [-]
You seem pretty autismal m8
User avatar #138231 to #138207 - womanexplain ONLINE (06/12/2014) [-]
Maybe instead of obsessing over girls at your age, you concentrate on what's important, your schoolwork and exams and pursue women when you're done with that?
Then you wouldn't fail your exams and you wouldn't be having shitty relationships because you weren't in a happy place.
#138253 to #138231 - dehumanizer (06/12/2014) [-]
your age? nigga im 20, kids that were born after 9/11 had relationships
#138289 to #138253 - womanexplain ONLINE (06/12/2014) [-]
I'm 18. I'm in school. I'm not getting off with people or worrying about it, we're young, we have time to have relationships later on, if you really had any consideration for your education over getting laid, you'd buckle down with your work too and quit running after women. I am usually a sympathetic and understanding person, but your situation is just very irritating for me. You're not stupid, you just pursue stupid things then complain about shit.
TL;DR sex and shit can go fuck itself until you have a decent education. That or you're at a point where you can academically achieve and hold a relationship, which you don't seem to be able to.
#138290 to #138289 - womanexplain ONLINE (06/12/2014) [-]
Sorry for harsh reaction pic, I just needed a use for it.
You can't cure depression with women, you just lower your self esteem and make it worse.
Apologies for the image, it was a bit much.
User avatar #138295 to #138290 - thatnigger (06/12/2014) [-]
I don't see you around here much. You busy?
#138380 to #138295 - womanexplain ONLINE (06/12/2014) [-]
Yeah, I've had a lot of shit going on IRL, so I haven't had time to deal with other people, cos' I'm a bit stressed my replies are probably not as friendly as usual...    
I didn't think anyone had even noticed my lack of activity...
Yeah, I've had a lot of shit going on IRL, so I haven't had time to deal with other people, cos' I'm a bit stressed my replies are probably not as friendly as usual...
I didn't think anyone had even noticed my lack of activity...
User avatar #138382 to #138380 - thatnigger (06/12/2014) [-]
Hope it all goes well. You can always talk it out here as well if you want to relieve stress.
Honestly, it's because I joined this board and try to give out advice because of you. I saw you on /anime/ were I main, but then heard you come here a lot and give advice. I always liked to give advice but never really came here, no reason why really. So yea, when I did finally join here and gave out advice, I noticed you weren't really here so I thought something was up.
#138385 to #138382 - womanexplain ONLINE (06/12/2014) [-]
People notice that I do? I'm flattered that I'm even recognized to be honest...   
And nono my problems are nothing compared to others on here, it'd be selfish to bring them here, besides, I'm sure it'll work out.   
I'll be giving advice again after next Wednesday because it's the end of my exams.    
Thank you for asking.
People notice that I do? I'm flattered that I'm even recognized to be honest...
And nono my problems are nothing compared to others on here, it'd be selfish to bring them here, besides, I'm sure it'll work out.
I'll be giving advice again after next Wednesday because it's the end of my exams.
Thank you for asking.
User avatar #138391 to #138385 - thatnigger (06/12/2014) [-]
Honestly, this is an advice board for all advice. You can come here from what you should put on your toast to major break ups. I think it's sweet of you to think of others before yourself though, but people will help you if you ask as well, remember that.
Hope your exams go well then, good luck!
#138442 to #138391 - womanexplain ONLINE (06/13/2014) [-]
Thank you! And maybe, I'm just not the type to ask for help maybe :&lt;
Thank you! And maybe, I'm just not the type to ask for help maybe :<
User avatar #138444 to #138442 - thatnigger (06/13/2014) [-]
No problem!
Honestly, I know what you mean, but if that's the case then at least you've got it in your head that there is a place for you to ask for help if you need it. :3
#138445 to #138444 - womanexplain ONLINE (06/13/2014) [-]
Hmmm... Maybe I'll ask one thing.
Hmmm... Maybe I'll ask one thing.
#138446 to #138445 - thatnigger (06/13/2014) [-]
H-Hope my advice will be good then.
User avatar #138219 to #138207 - ipostcp (06/12/2014) [-]
You could turn gay.
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#138227 to #138219 - dehumanizer (06/12/2014) [-]
i dont wanna
#138212 to #138207 - xXThatxOnexGuyXx (06/12/2014) [-]
Trial and error.
What you missed on the exams this time you will have correct the next.

As for the girl; You need to move on.
Find some hobbies. Get a second job. Forget about her and move on.
#138214 to #138212 - dehumanizer (06/12/2014) [-]
but i have everything i need except for love, been moving on from girl to girl, nothing but heartake but i still want one for my own
User avatar #138215 to #138214 - xXThatxOnexGuyXx (06/12/2014) [-]
Some advice from a friend of mine:
"... Thing with the first girl is, if something is taken from you, it leaves a hole. The only way to fill up that hole is to replace it with a stronger bond. Many young girls respond to that by constantly forming a new bond. Before the 'comedown' of the current one. (IE constantly chasing the 'rush' of a new love) Once the 'new' wears off, she needs more. It's a wound that's created when you form a bond with someone, and it doesn't go the other way.

... If you're just isolated from your surroundings like most regular people, you'll never know what you're missing...

... I'm not Chad from across the street catching tins of diet coke mowing the lawn. I'm [just some scrawny white kid]. The thing is, such things make no difference in the first place if you have that kind of connection [with someone]...

... Look for that feeling of "too good to be true," The feeling you'd get when a really hot girl gives you her phone number and you think there must be something behind it. Instead of shutting it all out, try being absolutely gullible. Just assume lies do not exist. It'll leave you vulnerable and exposed, but also completely open to anyone truly looking for you and no-one else.

To put it in Youtube terms: "Broadcast yourself"

So in any case, if someone catches you 'off guard;' you won't want to shield yourself from those around you, neither should you shield off yourself. (As in, hold yourself back) If you think "I shouldn't say that" or "That'll just sound weird," just dump it all out; It's like natural selection, anyone that you DON'T scare off right away is nothing if not valuable to know. It's like the "be true to yourself" gag, but take it up a notch. Say it anyway.

Main thing is, try to shine out as much of 'you' as you possibly can. And if anyone at all is drawn in closer by that, you've at least found a valuable friend. You know, the kind that just sticks around without any "expiry" date."
#138218 to #138215 - dehumanizer (06/12/2014) [-]
thats what i did towards every girl and they all shut the door in my face
#159562 to #138218 - anonymous (10/23/2014) [-]
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User avatar #138223 to #138218 - xXThatxOnexGuyXx (06/12/2014) [-]
Then get some social hobbies over this summer, and follow the advice given above; Don't make a move on a girl unless you are 102% certain that she likes you back.

Then when you ask her out, start out with:
"Hey, you seem like a great person and I'd like to get to know you more"
Go from there.
#138225 to #138223 - dehumanizer (06/12/2014) [-]
but i consider a smile and a hi as a sign
User avatar #138211 to #138207 - alexanderburns (06/12/2014) [-]
can't advise one how to stop being ugly
#138213 to #138211 - dehumanizer (06/12/2014) [-]
but im not that bad looking, Elliot Rodgers wasnt too but look what happened to him
but im not that bad looking, Elliot Rodgers wasnt too but look what happened to him
User avatar #138209 to #138207 - alecbaldwinning (06/12/2014) [-]
Who wouldn't want to spend time with somebody as charming as you dehumanizer?
#138210 to #138209 - dehumanizer (06/12/2014) [-]
i knwo right? fucking women man, they is shit
#138206 - drickz (06/12/2014) [-]
Hey dudes

Since last October, I've exchanged weekly emails with this girl. We're both kinda bad at conversing, but astonishingly, it has gone smooth so far. It went so good, I added her on skype and we've talked almost every day for about two months now.

We started off as friends, I guess, and then with a couple playful moves and the amount of chatting, I've grown very fond of her. I've also thought about going abroad, and since she lives in one of the countries I've listed, why not hit two birds with one stone?
I suggested that to her and she was completely cool with it.

It's a distance of 6 hours we're talking, not too much, to be honest. It takes 5 hours to go visit my grandparents and best friend.

Even if I want to do it, it feels like such a weird thing to do. So far, she's just great.

Here's why: I have little faith in online relationships since they tend to fade after a while, because all you can do is talk and play games. Luckily, we both play games, comparable to my last flirt. She's pretty, and I like her personaily and humour.
But there's the distance, while at the same time, if I don't go see her, I won't know if we match completely. I rarely meet girls like her, and even more rarely befriend them, so I think it's worth a shot.

I just want an outside view of it, because you can stare yourself blind at someone.
User avatar #138222 to #138206 - xXThatxOnexGuyXx (06/12/2014) [-]
Should you go and see her?

It all depends on how much you like or love her.
The next thing you have to factor in is how much it will cost, and if you're willing to pay the money to visit her.

I would say, give it a shot.
If you really like her, what will it hurt to go and visit her?

I have a friend who met a girl on Omegle, and since then they eventually started an un-official online relationship. He, in Florida. She, in Singapore. Eventually, though, he was able to save up enough money to take a flight out to Singapore and spend a few weeks there with her. Since then, their relationship has grown stronger and stronger.
I'm pretty sure in the next year or two, one of them will move in with the other.
Now can you imagine his anxiety when spending $1,500+ on a round-trip ticket to Singapore for someone he met on Omegle?

Life is about taking chances.
If you don't take this chance, there is a heavy possibility the online relationship will fade away, as you've said. It'll leave you with a lot of 'What-Ifs.'
If you do, it'll only strengthen it and keep it lasting.
#138234 to #138222 - drickz (06/12/2014) [-]
@ thatnigger xXThatxOnexGuyXx
Yeah I definitely should. There's no strong infatuation, but rather just passion and dedication between us, at least from my side and seemingly from hers too.

The trip will cost about 200$ for travel, and then normal living expenses for living. I don't even have to save up for it, so it looks like it's 1-2 months away.

It'll be a nice trip.. we'll see where it goes from there
User avatar #138235 to #138234 - thatnigger (06/12/2014) [-]
Good luck!
User avatar #138216 to #138206 - thatnigger (06/12/2014) [-]
Go see her, and if you want an online relationship to work, you honestly need to have as much commitment as if you were married IMO. Takes a lot of work and if you can't handle it, you might as well just leave it at just talking over the internet.
#138204 - anonymous (06/12/2014) [-]
Hey guys. Recently lost my virginity and now having some trouble. I have zero sex drive and feel zero pleasure during sex, I'm in it for the emotional connection I feel with my bf. Tried masturbation a couple times to see if maybe I could figure something out on my own, it was uncomfortable and boring. We communicate honestly and openly about this stuff, but nothing seems to work. At this point, I'm thinking I'm maybe asexual, maybe just wired in a way that makes sex meh for me. I'm fine with it but it's really messing with my bf's head. No matter how much I reassure him, he still feels like a selfish asshole for wanting to have sex with me and it really hurts his ego that he can't make me feel good the way he's done with his previous girlfriends. Any advice?
User avatar #138245 to #138204 - watermelloon (06/12/2014) [-]
i think you should get checked out by a doctor, you could have a hormonal imbalance or something else medically wrong which can cause lack of "sexual pleasure" . Also speaking to a therapist would be good.

As for your boyfriend, i'd still have sex with him on occasion, even if you doent like it very much. Sex doesnt always have to be about an orgasm; it can be about touching one others body's, exploring the other person and being connected with the other person (plus making babies). Take it as an opportunity to express to him "physically" how he makes you feel "emotionally" (good emotions only. dont bite his dick off or something if he made you mad ahaha)

Also consider the possibility you are simply too young to have sex or be having sex, or that you are not emotionally mature enough. Or even that you need to feel a strong connection with a partner before being able to feel satisfied. or maybe he is just bad at sex.
#138275 to #138245 - anonymous (06/12/2014) [-]
Pretty sure he's not bad at it, I've heard from his previous partners that he's actually pretty hot shit. I'm 19 and I feel pretty secure being with him, I don't have any problem with having sex, I just wish he wouldn't be so bothered by not being able to make me feel good. It frustrates him because he feels like it's all about him when it's supposed to be mutual. Another thing, I staunchly refuse to do oral (bad experiences with an ex, lots of emotional and verbal abuse that made me wind up doing sexual favors that I regret more than anything). He's very understanding and I want to move on and feel secure in that too, but the bad feelings that went along with doing that are just very deeply ingrained in me.
User avatar #138221 to #138204 - thatnigger (06/12/2014) [-]
If you're sure you don't feel anyway sex drive, but are willing to still have sex with occasionally then it shouldn't really be a problem. Just tell him the whole, it's me, not you but you actually mean it. Not much advice I can give honestly.
#138276 to #138221 - anonymous (06/12/2014) [-]
I've tried reassuring him, but he still feels very shitty. He wants to have sex really frequently, but every time he asks me if anything felt different and I say no, he just feels worse. I think he might feel like he's using me, but I know he just loves me a lot (also, yeah, he's horny so that obviously plays a big role in it).
User avatar #138277 to #138276 - thatnigger (06/12/2014) [-]
Give him a hug after every time you do it and ask if he enjoyed it, if you really can't get off, then make sex about him if you have no problem with it. Also, sounds like you have a really nice relationship on you.
User avatar #138187 - swagasauruss ONLINE (06/12/2014) [-]
whats the url for flagged content?
User avatar #138217 to #138187 - ipostcp (06/12/2014) [-]
Somebody horny?
User avatar #138220 to #138217 - thatnigger (06/12/2014) [-]
Gore gets sent there as well, I don't think that'd be a good idea in any regard.
User avatar #138236 to #138220 - ipostcp (06/12/2014) [-]
Maybe he is into that. You don't know his life.
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