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#160554 - ilookatnsfwusing (10/29/2014) [-]
Is it true that white males aged 18-25 have harder times with college, (acceptance and scholarships), than others who are female and/or different races?

Can you provide any sources?
User avatar #160657 to #160554 - horroranime (10/30/2014) [-]
Getting into college is a pain in the ass unanimously. Except if your completely out of the country of the college you're applying for. SOO many foreigners in college that really shouldn't be there.
User avatar #160598 to #160554 - axeul (10/30/2014) [-]
If you are white or asian, you're gonna have a bad time. I wish I had a great great great great great great great great great Native American grandparent so I could put down Native American. Being considered asian sucks. It's worse than being white for applications
User avatar #160568 to #160554 - paintskillz (10/29/2014) [-]
Yes, especially if you are white and have a combined family income of over 250k.
>Be me
>Perfect grades 4.0
>also white and wealthy family
>no scholarships, no ivy league schools
User avatar #160563 to #160554 - makotoitou ONLINE (10/29/2014) [-]
ya since no monis bcuz muh affirmative action
User avatar #160541 - sweetellie (10/29/2014) [-]
I'm confused, when people talk about moving to another country and then needing to get a visa what do they mean by it? My debit card's a visa, is it the same thing?
User avatar #160550 to #160549 - sweetellie (10/29/2014) [-]
Why do they call it a visa when it's a different thing, that's so weird. Those links are gonna come in useful though, thank you very much.
User avatar #160551 to #160550 - xXThatxOnexGuyXx (10/29/2014) [-]
en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Visa

Visa Inc. is the company.
Visa is a government document allowing you to travel/ live abroad. Just like a passport, but it's international.

It's not completely rare to see two completely different things with the same name.
User avatar #160543 to #160542 - sweetellie (10/29/2014) [-]
Marvelous, thanks m8.
User avatar #160545 to #160543 - hoponthefeelstrain (10/29/2014) [-]
no in america it's always called a "green card"
User avatar #160546 to #160545 - sweetellie (10/29/2014) [-]
I'm confused now but ok haha
User avatar #160547 to #160546 - hoponthefeelstrain (10/29/2014) [-]
just google it bro
User avatar #160533 - rokkarokkaali (10/29/2014) [-]
It's raining, there's lightning and thunder, and there's loud booms every once in a while. Would school still be open? There's no immediate risk for someone getting harmed unless they're running around with a metal conducting rod 100 feet long. I don't want to head to school and ruin my few blue shirts (for uniform) just to get sent back home.
#160538 to #160533 - Womens Study Major (10/29/2014) [-]
no, schools do not close due to rain. if it were a hurricane then yes but just a bit of stormy weather is not something will close a school.
User avatar #160534 to #160533 - ScottP (10/29/2014) [-]
I would actually like some rain and thunder right now
It's been too bright and sunny outside lately. You can't appreciate the sun without getting some rain in there as well.
User avatar #160535 to #160534 - rokkarokkaali (10/29/2014) [-]
It was extremely hot all week and last week and all of a sudden it started raining like shit. What would be a good excuse as to why I didn't go? If I just said "weather was bad" they'd probably think I was bullshitting and that I just didn't want to go.
User avatar #160539 to #160535 - ScottP (10/29/2014) [-]
Just say you didn't go because the weather was bad. They'll give you the absence anyway. This sort of weather is common in Florida, especially during the summer. It'll be happy and sunny in the morning, but then as soon as a certain hour hits, it'll pour rain for the rest of the day.

The first time we drove to my campus, it was all clear on the highway and it literally changed into zero-visibility within a second. No exaggeration.
#160520 - metalcoldreaper (10/29/2014) [-]
My friends who play Dota 2 wants to rename the group from Bro-T (Bro-team) to something a lil more original. Idea's?
User avatar #160552 to #160520 - megasharkman ONLINE (10/29/2014) [-]
Gundam Shuffle Alliance
Chippington and the dips
Poopmist
Broseidon and the Brocean
Mount Brolympus
Mighty Brophin Swole Rangers
User avatar #160586 to #160552 - metalcoldreaper (10/29/2014) [-]
Hmm not sure on any of these.
User avatar #160588 to #160586 - megasharkman ONLINE (10/29/2014) [-]
Death Toasters
User avatar #160589 to #160588 - metalcoldreaper (10/29/2014) [-]
somehow i kinda liked that one.
User avatar #160590 to #160589 - megasharkman ONLINE (10/29/2014) [-]
It was the funniest one when chromehounds was still a thing imo.
User avatar #160635 to #160591 - megasharkman ONLINE (10/30/2014) [-]
Xbox 360 mech game with built in clan support
User avatar #160536 to #160520 - drastronomy (10/29/2014) [-]
The virgin squad

The celibacy group

The dwellers of the basement
User avatar #160585 to #160536 - metalcoldreaper (10/29/2014) [-]
I don't think they'd like the virgin squad.
User avatar #160532 to #160531 - rokkarokkaali (10/29/2014) [-]
get it, cause it's like BroTeam and Dota
User avatar #160512 - blasthardcheese (10/29/2014) [-]
Okay, I'm trying to get closer to this girl who I can really only Skype with (text and occasionally voice). I could spend time with her "irl" but that would like to get to know her more. My main reason for not straight up asking her out to the movies or something like that is because I'm quite the poorfag (still a student) and the last guy who asked out of the blue her got shot down hard.

The thing is, I find it quite hard to have a text conversation with anyone, let alone this girl. We do have common interests and stuff, mainly anime, music, and games, but its hard to start a conversation with her and to keep it going, so how do I make it easier to start and to keep the conversation flowing?

As I mentioned, its had to keep the conversation flowing. This mainly happens because she sometimes has quite closed replies. For example, I can't find a thing to continue the conversation. I can't tell if that's because she doesn't want to talk to me or if she isn't a great typing conversationalist either. (That being said, the few times we've voice chatted, it was quite easy.) Is there a way to tell if she's just not interested?

I know a potential way to solve the stunted conversation thing is to try to jump to a new topic, but I find that troublesome. First of all, I concerned that if I try to jump to a topic like "How's your day been?" or "Up to much recently?" or something similar, it might sound slightly creepy. Is it? Secondly, I could ask her if she wanted to play a co-op game or something it also concerns me that it might be creepy, or am I just being overcautious or some shit?
I could also buy a game that's actually on sale now that I'd quite like to get and I could play with her, but none of my other friend. I fear if I buy it, it might seem like I just bought it for the soul purpose of playing it with her. What do?


Thanks in advance for any help, and sorry for the stupidly long post.

#160608 to #160512 - genericnewfag (10/30/2014) [-]
if its hard to keep the conversation flowing she probably isn't into you. if a girl is into you she will talk to you.
if its hard to keep the conversation flowing she probably isn't into you. if a girl is into you she will talk to you.
User avatar #160609 to #160608 - blasthardcheese (10/30/2014) [-]
Yea, you're right, I should have drawn that conclusion myself, I'm retarded.
User avatar #160528 to #160512 - russianaesthetics (10/29/2014) [-]
She is not interested in you, sorry. Moreover, she's getting tired pf your "conversations" so you should just stop writing her or, at least, took a pause in it . Do it before she does it.
User avatar #160579 to #160528 - blasthardcheese (10/29/2014) [-]
Yea, as much as I thought. Thanks for your honest advice.
User avatar #160523 to #160512 - xXThatxOnexGuyXx (10/29/2014) [-]
Hang out with her in real life, man.
Befriend her. Don't ask her out immediately.

Remember, she has her own feelings too, eh?
Your not entitled to her love just because you love her.

Get to actually know her by being her friend first. Then if things are meant to be, it'll kinda just happen.
Otherwise, at the very least you'll have gained a good friend.

Don't solely contact her online; Try just being her friend in real life first. 'Else you'll probably come off as a creep and 'get shot down.'
User avatar #160578 to #160523 - blasthardcheese (10/29/2014) [-]
Yea, you actually make a great point. I'd like to befriend her, thats actually what I'm trying and not succeeding. Your point about gaining a friend is really great. As for the meeting her in real life thing, I have no idea how to go about that, she doesn't really go out that much. But theres probably not much point to trying, seeing as I'm just bugging her. Thanks for your help anyway.
#160513 to #160512 - Womens Study Major (10/29/2014) [-]
How long have you been talking to her? Is it you who always starts the conversation?

If she hardly ever writes first, then I'm sorry, but she's probably not interested. As for writing, well, there's no solution on how to be good at chatting. If you find oral conversation easier, why won't you ask her to speak to you on skype instead of writing?

I wouldn't worry much about sounding creepy, from what you've said it seems like regular questions and conversation style. As for a game, well, it's gonna be quite obvious that you bought it just to play with her so I'd find out if she's interested in you first.
User avatar #160517 to #160513 - blasthardcheese (10/29/2014) [-]
About 3-4 months. True, she's only started maybe one or two conversations. Does that mean I should give up?

I'd like to voice chat, but I'm cautious about asking in case I sound creepy (I think I see a god damn pattern). The way I've done it before is playing a game with her, but I'm afraid to ask her in case it seems creepy (holy fuckballs that's a recurring theme).

I'm afraid that I might be annoying her by trying extend the conversation, is there a way to tell if I'm annoying her? To be fair, I kinda do want the game because I did enjoy the last one in the series, and it just so happens she plays it, and we might at some stage play together, or is it still weird.
#160510 - Womens Study Major (10/29/2014) [-]
Not sure if that's the right board, but fuck it.

I'm with my boyfriend for 3 years now. We live together and we're both students (final year at uni).
My boyfriend is a quite outgoing person, contrary to me. He often goes out and I stay home. I really don't have problem with that. What I have problem with is him hitting on other girls. Through this 3 years I came across really weird messages he sent like "Hey, maybe I should come over?" at 4 am in the morning when he's on his way home from a club. Before somebody calls me a nosy bitch - I never deliberately went on his account (because these are fb messages) to read his messages. Sometimes I just wanted to check something on a computer and his conversation was open on FB so I just saw it. I don't know what I would find if actually read through the chat I often see him talking to other girls on FB. It's none of my business, I trust him so I never say anything, but it hurts a bit.

Cont.
User avatar #160548 to #160510 - hoponthefeelstrain (10/29/2014) [-]
everyone says the porn thing is normal, but he's imagining fucking his female friends and he lied about watching it. Which is dumb on his part. He's also messaging these girls at 4 am trying to hang out. Have a serious talk with him and see if he owns up to it, if not then I'd confront him with the evidence and ask him to stop. If he doesn't I'd say he's not worth it hun...
#160617 to #160548 - Womens Study Major (10/30/2014) [-]
Yeah, that's exactly what I mean. I have absolutely no problem with porn, I can even handle fucked up fetishes like scat or other shit pun semi-intended (as long as he doesn't try to force any of this on me). The part that gets me is him fapping to regular facebook pictures of his female friends and then hitting on them while drunk. It hurts, especially since he has nice collection of nudes that I send him when he's away.
I really tried to figure out the reason behind this, but I'm clueless. I didn't get fat, I'm nice to him, I do shit for him like cleaning and cooking, I'm not bitching about him spending time without me (playing/meeting up with friends/whatever) I have my own hobbies, but at the same time we do stuff together as well. We have sex quite often and it's half of the time my initiative, I try to keep it interesting as well dress ups, bondage, role playing etc., WHAT THE FUCK DO I DO WRONG?
User avatar #160813 to #160617 - hoponthefeelstrain (10/31/2014) [-]
he's taking you for granted and he's not appreciating all the nice things you do for him. You guys need to talk.
#160544 to #160510 - minutes (10/29/2014) [-]
The porn stuff is nothing to worry about. He's just imagening fucking other girls (- his facebook friends) while jerking it. Don't take that personal, that's just him being horny.

That message on the other Hand could be serious. What do you think was he going to do with her at 4 am? Hang out and play video games? sure as hell not.
User avatar #160556 to #160544 - hoponthefeelstrain (10/29/2014) [-]
if your girlfriend was imagining fucking other guys while she diddled herself would you be okay with that?
#160557 to #160556 - minutes (10/29/2014) [-]
Well I wouldn't like it, but I also get really jealous extremly fast. I don't think it's optimal of course, but it really is just about being horny, nothing related to actual feelings so it's not really a problem, get it?

The lying about it and the texting however, are serious.
User avatar #160558 to #160557 - hoponthefeelstrain (10/29/2014) [-]
I mean if it was just about being horny I feel like he would look at regular porn stars instead of fantasizing about fucking other girls that he knows and have been messaging late at night/early in the morning...
#160559 to #160558 - minutes (10/29/2014) [-]
As a masturbation expert I can say that just rubbing it to some porn star gets lame really fast. If you imagine stuff like this it's better and that has nothing to do with the person, it's really just a "being horny thing".
And as said serveral times, I agree about the texting part, no sense in mixing that up.
User avatar #160565 to #160559 - hoponthefeelstrain (10/29/2014) [-]
I just meant if he was texting them stuff he probably had feelings for them. Maybe horny feelings.
User avatar #160518 to #160510 - watermelloon (10/29/2014) [-]
"hey can i come over" ....is this to other girls at night? if so, He's fucking cheating on you (has cheated on you. or will do in the future. Pretty simple)

The porn thing well meh, its just porn. my bf does that and I don't really care. Its all natural.
#160618 to #160518 - Womens Study Major (10/30/2014) [-]
Yeah, it was to another girl. I know he never actually goes anywhere because I know what time he goes back home (and it was about 10 minutes after he sent a message so obviosly he wrote it on his way home) and maybe it's just a drunk fooling around but he shouldn't fucking do that.
#160511 to #160510 - Womens Study Major (10/29/2014) [-]
So here's the deal. I asked him couple of times if he watches porn and he always said no. I thought that's odd, but why would he lie about it? Anyway, 3/4 days ago he was playing a stupid flash game online and I was watching. Today I felt like playing, but couldn't remember the name of it so I just went to his browser history to check. He uses chrome, so to get to a link from couple of days ago u have to go through several pages. So I'm going through his history and I noticed "weird" titles of FJ content. Well, turned out he goes to FJ NSFW everyday. I thought that's funny until I've noticed another thing. Meanwhile browsing NSFW he also watches FB galleries of his female friends.

I really don't have a problem with him watching porn. I can tolerate him casually flirting with girls. But this felt a bit like cheating. In my view, just like rape isn't just about sex, jerking off to non-porn pictures of girls he knows in real life isn't just about fulfilling a horny urge. What do?
#160615 to #160511 - genericnewfag (10/30/2014) [-]
red flags erywhere. time for a break up.
red flags erywhere. time for a break up.
#160507 - mysteriouscake (10/29/2014) [-]
I'm a in junior in college and due to some shitty grades in courses I needed for my major, I would need to change my major to something else to graduate on time. I'm weighing my options but honestly an apprenticeship in a trade school is looking to be a better alternative than the extra years of school, and the thousands of dollars needed to continue college. Thoughts?
#160509 to #160507 - Womens Study Major (10/29/2014) [-]
Trade school is technically cheaper and gives you a better paying job immediately but that salary will not rise much if at all depending on the trade and if you plan on working for someone (benefits of working for someone already established means job security, disadvantages means less money). Another disadvantage means you will go in to retirement earlier than most because of the physical labor(You will get fit though). But if your wise with money and make good connections you might be fine. Again a lot of this depends on the trade that you want to go in to.
#160506 - derpinerryday ONLINE (10/29/2014) [-]
Well, the only girl I've ever actually loved just got engaged to another guy. I feel like I'm imploding here.

To anyone else who's been through something like this, how did you get through it?
User avatar #160537 to #160506 - drastronomy (10/29/2014) [-]
I know that feel

Try to become angry, then use the anger to fuel positive activities. Like lifting.

If not, wait and endure, and try to focus on other things. Love is not the most important thing in the world, and even if it is, love will find you again in the future
#160525 to #160506 - dehumanizer (10/29/2014) [-]
You wait and endure.
#160494 - ihaveablackfrend (10/29/2014) [-]
Need help!   
I am a college student taking a lot of classes. Practically 9am-7pm every weekday, except friday, I am either in class or at work. I have only a little time for homework.    
You would think I would be able to do homework after 7pm, right? I can't because my current ADHD medicine wears off by 6:30pm. In other words, I can not concentrate after 6:30pm. Homework is extremely difficult when my medication isn't taking effect.    
I've tried talking to my psychiatrist about getting a higher dosage of my medicine, but that is not an option because my insurance doesn't cover my medication if it is exceeding a certain dosage. Currently, I am at the maximum possible dosage for my insurance to cover it. If I were to exceed the dosage and ignore insurance, I'd be paying roughly 250$ a month for my medication instead of 10$ a month.   
I'm staying up until 2am each night strictly doing homework and it needs to end!
Need help!
I am a college student taking a lot of classes. Practically 9am-7pm every weekday, except friday, I am either in class or at work. I have only a little time for homework.
You would think I would be able to do homework after 7pm, right? I can't because my current ADHD medicine wears off by 6:30pm. In other words, I can not concentrate after 6:30pm. Homework is extremely difficult when my medication isn't taking effect.
I've tried talking to my psychiatrist about getting a higher dosage of my medicine, but that is not an option because my insurance doesn't cover my medication if it is exceeding a certain dosage. Currently, I am at the maximum possible dosage for my insurance to cover it. If I were to exceed the dosage and ignore insurance, I'd be paying roughly 250$ a month for my medication instead of 10$ a month.
I'm staying up until 2am each night strictly doing homework and it needs to end!
User avatar #160500 to #160494 - thisismyhandle (10/29/2014) [-]
What about Friday-Sunday?
User avatar #160502 to #160500 - ihaveablackfrend (10/29/2014) [-]
Those are the days where I get most stuff done, but then I'll have teachers that will give worksheets for homework during the weekdays, usually due the next day. Plus studying for test.
User avatar #160497 to #160494 - makotoitou ONLINE (10/29/2014) [-]
Would you be able to get different work hours? I mean you'd have to work when your medicine wears off but you have less distractions.
User avatar #160498 to #160497 - ihaveablackfrend (10/29/2014) [-]
That is a possibility on most days. The problem with that idea is that I'm currently dependent on bus transportation. The buses stop running after 10pm. The only option to get back after 10pm is to walk 5 miles, through a really sketchy neighborhood, at night.
User avatar #160489 - hauntzor (10/29/2014) [-]
I'm trying to get this one job. Nothing special, just kitchen duty at a sports bar and grill type of restaurant. One of my best friends works there and he's already referred me. I applied at the end of last week and called back today to check on my application. First time I called, they told me to call after 5 when their hiring manager was in, so I did so after that, but she still wasn't there and they said they would call me back when she was.

My question is, should I wait on them to do that, or continue to give them the benefit of a doubt and call them back first anyway in case they forget? I know that employers like persistence, but is there a fine line between persistence and just being way too desperate? I really need this job.
User avatar #160527 to #160489 - herbolifee (10/29/2014) [-]
Give them the chance first. If they still haven't called you one or two days after the point they said they were going to, just call them back again. This way you've given them room to respond while still being persistent (without being annoying).
User avatar #160492 to #160489 - ihaveablackfrend (10/29/2014) [-]
Wait for the call back for at least today. Call back after 5pm tomorrow if need be
#160488 - Womens Study Major (10/29/2014) [-]
never been on this board, don't really plan on returning unless i get advise, or perhaps a stranger i can confide in.

that being said, does someone mind talking with someone going through a colossal amount of shit right now?
User avatar #160501 to #160488 - xXThatxOnexGuyXx (10/29/2014) [-]
Sure. Send me a PM or comment on my profile?
I may not get to it right away, but I will respond.
User avatar #160487 - icanpaintyay (10/29/2014) [-]
Im writing a short about strange craigslist adds. does anyone wana review it when im done. i like feedback.
User avatar #160473 - mrxibir (10/28/2014) [-]
codesforfree.net

Legit or no?
Seems too good to be true
User avatar #160553 to #160473 - iceteaiceteaicetea (10/29/2014) [-]
Not legit. These never work; It's not like some random guy out of nowhere could find a way to generate tons of PSN, Xbox live and such vouchers
User avatar #160480 to #160473 - ilikethisusername ONLINE (10/28/2014) [-]
they probably want something in return; if not-its not legit.
#160472 - solrosen (10/28/2014) [-]
admin or anyone else, is there a way to see your nsfw favs? Cause it's a bit annoying when i find something interesting but then lose it since you can't see your nsfw favs...
admin or anyone else, is there a way to see your nsfw favs? Cause it's a bit annoying when i find something interesting but then lose it since you can't see your nsfw favs...
#160474 to #160472 - Womens Study Major (10/28/2014) [-]
bookmark it.
#160476 to #160474 - solrosen (10/28/2014) [-]
... I GUESS

No but seriously admin should make nsfw favs accesable, thanks tho
User avatar #160468 - mendelevium (10/28/2014) [-]
This is not me asking for advice, this is me giving advice.
This is mainly because all of you on here are looking for dating advice and I myself have dated many a women in my short lifetime thus far.

You all seem to hate the bitchey popular girls and wana go for the nice girls, the cute ones, the ones who are so adorable.

Dont

I'm telling you right now
Dont.
They may seem nice, but still waters run deep, and calm nice waters? Even fucking deeper.

The fucking depths they will go to is limitless.
The shy cute girl. She will love you forever, will always be with you and think your the best.

And then one day she may have a dream, or read your texts, or just even THINK something might be going wrong in this relationship.

Then she cuts off your dick in your sleep and kills herself.
Or fucks your best friend and poisons your dog.

Bitches girls may be bitchy, but they are smart, and they know whats what. And they arnt fucking crazy on the inside.

Trust me
#160524 to #160468 - dehumanizer (10/29/2014) [-]
Yes i fullheartly agree and belive there should be an imidiate gender war. Women should be put in camps and |ALL gassed.
User avatar #160471 to #160468 - askeletonsopinion (10/28/2014) [-]
Ite mate you need to take a step back and not publicize your own harsh opinions on women so readily. Whilst you may have been hurt before and I don't discredit that, far be it for you to equate your 'many a women' to the women the other people here pine after. Not only is your 'advice' deconstructive but it may actually be heard by someone and affect them, which is absolutely not what should happen.

To anyone reading mendelevium's piece and looking for advice, keep looking. Hell, send me a PM and I will speak to you about it. Anything and everything. Sometimes people need an ear more than advice and I am more than willing to help out any that need it.


#160469 to #160468 - xXThatxOnexGuyXx (10/28/2014) [-]
Shall I append to your advice?   
   
Before dating someone, before ever getting serious with someone, be sure you know them well.   
Never rush into things.   
If out of the blue they suddenly start getting jealous or start snooping around in your personal life, and if this catches you completely off guard -- Completely blindsided -- Then clearly you didn't know them well enough and rushed into things.   
   
This is why I never advise people to jump the gun and immediately ask out a cute girl they saw.   
Why?   
Because they don't know them. In that situation, neither parties know each other.   
   
That's why so many guys get 'friend-zoned.'   
They don't realize that they should become friends with said female first, so both can get to know each other really well and base their feelings off of each other's personalities, over basing their feelings off of physical appearances and infatuation.   
   
> "Tiefe Brunnen muss man graben   
wenn man klares Wasser will   
Rosenrot oh Rosenrot   
Tiefe Wasser sind nicht still"   
   
> "Deep wells must be dug   
if you want clear water   
Rose-red, oh Rose-red   
Deep waters don't run still"   
   
Understand what it truly means to dig deeps wells.
Shall I append to your advice?

Before dating someone, before ever getting serious with someone, be sure you know them well.
Never rush into things.
If out of the blue they suddenly start getting jealous or start snooping around in your personal life, and if this catches you completely off guard -- Completely blindsided -- Then clearly you didn't know them well enough and rushed into things.

This is why I never advise people to jump the gun and immediately ask out a cute girl they saw.
Why?
Because they don't know them. In that situation, neither parties know each other.

That's why so many guys get 'friend-zoned.'
They don't realize that they should become friends with said female first, so both can get to know each other really well and base their feelings off of each other's personalities, over basing their feelings off of physical appearances and infatuation.

> "Tiefe Brunnen muss man graben
wenn man klares Wasser will
Rosenrot oh Rosenrot
Tiefe Wasser sind nicht still
"

> "Deep wells must be dug
if you want clear water
Rose-red, oh Rose-red
Deep waters don't run still
"

Understand what it truly means to dig deeps wells.
User avatar #160482 to #160469 - ScottP (10/28/2014) [-]
I'm taking that advice and I'm not giving it back.
Unless you ask for it back, and then I'll probably give it back.

I'm actually liking just being friends with people
User avatar #160475 to #160469 - mendelevium (10/28/2014) [-]
guys dont worry.

the guy with 5 xs in his name on the internet knows how to get the bitches
User avatar #160481 to #160475 - ScottP (10/28/2014) [-]
So far he's given pretty sound advice.
User avatar #160477 to #160475 - hoponthefeelstrain (10/28/2014) [-]
he has 6 x's in his name.
User avatar #160467 - neverralonee (10/28/2014) [-]
Sup bros, been sick for the past week. Had a sore throat and stuff but now I got a bunch of cold sores infecting my gums and it hurts to chew. Ive lost 12 pounds in the past 5 days between a sore throat and my gums being infected. Anything i can do to get rid of the cold sores, or atleast bring down the inflammation in my gums so i can eat.
User avatar #160519 to #160467 - watermelloon (10/29/2014) [-]
diflam c is an oral solution that i used for a mouth piercing. it makes your mouth numb temporarily and is antiseptic and shit. got it from a pharmacy.

also. if u make jelly, wait till its about half set then mess it up with a spoon. U could drink it through a large straw.
User avatar #160466 - crampers (10/28/2014) [-]
Sup bretheren,

So i've started University with the big belief that was what i wanted - which i did right up to the point where i started (Have in mind it's not because i think it's hard, my illusion of it is just ruined - it has been glorified waaay too much for me). It's slowly killing me, my motivation is also disappearing faster and faster. The last two days i didn't even feel like getting out of bed, have planned a time with a consulter to hear some of my current option.

So does anyone have some advice as to what they think i should do?
User avatar #160529 to #160466 - icefried (10/29/2014) [-]
Everyone goes through that. Very rarely do people know for sure what they want to do in life, the rest of us have to figure it out.
My advice is that you stick with Uni for as long as you can. If in a few months you still feel like that, then think about doing something else.
On the other hand, if it was a temporary bout of anxiety, it will go away and in the end you will find that it was indeed what you wanted.

However, it's rarely just that simple. Weigh the cost of Uni life to your budget to your possible future income as a result of finishing Uni.
In this world you are worth as much as you can bring to the table, unfortunately we do not have the liberty of academically exploring the subjects which can't provide us with a financially stable future. Unless you're loaded of course.
User avatar #160470 to #160466 - xXThatxOnexGuyXx (10/28/2014) [-]
Well...
What's the problem?
#160461 - Womens Study Major (10/28/2014) [-]
"if you lower your expectations of everyone and everything, you can never be disappointed." ~Me 2014
User avatar #160540 to #160461 - nsfwcontent (10/29/2014) [-]
The person who says they can't and the person who says they can are both usually right.
User avatar #160522 to #160461 - xXThatxOnexGuyXx (10/29/2014) [-]
"Shoot for the moon, and if you miss you'll end up among the stars."
User avatar #160483 to #160461 - ScottP (10/28/2014) [-]
"Most people fail, not because they aim too high and miss, but because they aim too low and hit."

-Les Brown
User avatar #160465 to #160461 - crampers (10/28/2014) [-]
- Bill Watterson, Alexander Pope, Patricia McCormick, Stephen Hawking, Sylvia Plath, Also me.
User avatar #160462 to #160461 - sugoi (10/28/2014) [-]
Screw you I do what I want.
#160459 - Womens Study Major (10/28/2014) [-]
So I've probably earned bitch of the year award, but I really need some help. I've been feeling a bit meh about my boyfriend. We've only been dating for about 6 months and he is talking about wanting to settle down and have kids, etc. I just don't feel that way about him anymore. I liked the idea and romanticized it a little, but now I just want to do what I want to do. I broke up with him the other day, but seeing him cry and be heart broken killed me on the inside so I told him I would stay with him. I'm so unhappy being with him now, but I can't bare to see him that upset again... How do I end this? What do I do?
User avatar #160530 to #160459 - icefried (10/29/2014) [-]
Well, don't have kids with him for one, or settle down or you will be miserable for the rest of your life.

Bite the bullet and tell him how you feel. If he really cares for you he will understand and won't force you to stay with him.
If he doesn't understand then he is way to possessive and will just smother all the life in you.

Bottom line: If he makes you unhappy then leave him. Yeah, he'll be heartbroken but what can you do? Such is life.
User avatar #160508 to #160459 - paintskillz (10/29/2014) [-]
Damn usually its the girl that wants to have kids and get married so this is kinda new to me. But honestly I think you should just break up with him because pity isn't the same thing nor should it be pretended to be the same as love.
User avatar #160484 to #160459 - ScottP (10/28/2014) [-]
Oh yeah I heard that before. Around the same time too (6 months). You could tell him that you no longer feel the same towards him now and get it over with. I mean...it's unlikely that you'll really reignite that spark again, so breaking it off early would be the better choice.

User avatar #160463 to #160459 - sugoi (10/28/2014) [-]
Well you could break up with him or stay with him.
Sounds to me you've lost that "spark" in the relationship so you could try re-igniting it and all that junk, maybe do an activity together like dance class or something. Though quite frankly I don't think you got any of that "companionship love" going on so honestly I don't think it'll last either way.

Breaking up with him is hard because of the extreme pity you feel afterwards. All I can really suggest is to tell him and then give him a stern "Goodbye", turn around and walk away. Also watch out for that nostalgia affect where you miss him just cause the time with him feels like "The good ole days."
User avatar #160460 to #160459 - thatnigger ONLINE (10/28/2014) [-]
As much as it sucks to get broken up with, he should have respected your need to break up with him. It only leads to eventual resentment and if you're not happy, he should recognize this and let you find someone that will make you happy. Tell him that doesn't mean he never made you happy, just that right now you're not happy and want to move on.
Just break up with him, as much as it sucks for him, hopefully he'll grow and take something away from this that could make him mature and know for another relationship he finds himself in.
User avatar #160447 - comandante (10/28/2014) [-]
Need some advice on long distance relationships. What are some fun things we can do while making the best out of a bad situation? We had phone sex, which was awesome, but is there anything else?
User avatar #160490 to #160447 - hauntzor (10/29/2014) [-]
Kansas/Canada relationship here

Mailing each other stuff is pretty fun, be it candy, clothes or drawings or even sex stuff.
User avatar #160449 to #160447 - paintskillz (10/28/2014) [-]
The best you could do is facetime or skype so you can actually see each other but thats probably the best you're going to get.
User avatar #160451 to #160449 - comandante (10/28/2014) [-]
She was in a long term for two years before us, it was her bf that couldn't last. I know i could handle it, no question. Inb4 thats pretty homo, we are thinking of writing letters to each other, but never discussing what we wrote, almost like its own little world.
User avatar #160453 to #160451 - paintskillz (10/28/2014) [-]
that's pretty homo, jk my ex liked writing letters and shit like that too. I broke up with her after I went to college because we grew apart. I'm not they type of guy that likes talking on the phone/texting/writing letters, I'd much rather see someone face to face.
How weird would it be if you're now dating my ex gf? hahahahahaha It wasnt two years ago though but otherwise your story checks out
User avatar #160485 to #160453 - comandante (10/28/2014) [-]
Hm totally understandable. Idk man, i don't like asking for advice because the first thing i hear is "it won't work out man". And i don't blame people, they speak from experience. It is important to see them face-to-face.
User avatar #160504 to #160485 - paintskillz (10/29/2014) [-]
Yeah man that's why the best I think you can get with this is video chatting and maybe surprise her by visiting her some weekend
User avatar #160505 to #160504 - comandante (10/29/2014) [-]
Miami to wisconsin on a college student salary. I will sell plasma
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