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#155848 - ronjeremysweiner (09/21/2014) [-]
trying to figure out how to use pirate bay. im not the brightest



when i click on get this torrent it wants me to download frostwire or some shit
same if i do just the file
help
User avatar #155860 to #155848 - sirfiiddlesticks (09/21/2014) [-]
Download uTorrent, it's a program that lets you download torrents from piratepay. Then when you have it installed just click the link with the little magnet that says "get this torrent". It'll launch uTorrent and start downloading it.
#155858 to #155848 - dehumanizer (09/21/2014) [-]
get this torrent
User avatar #155849 to #155848 - sugoi (09/21/2014) [-]
DL torrent software like Utorrent or Bitorrent or whatever.
Then press the link
Then press okay to that prompt
Wait for it to finish DL.
User avatar #155846 - womanexplain (09/21/2014) [-]
Long time no see advice board. I know I'm not usually the one asking for advice, but I need it...
Basically, I started going to school again 2.5 weeks ago after not having gone due to issues I had at 14-15 years old for 4 years. I didn't go to school/socialise with people my age for said 4 years, so in conclusion I have crippling social issues.
I'm lucky because a childhood friend is in the year above me at school, and so I am able to hang out with her, she knows about my issues and we've always had a connection, so I'm able to let loose around her. My issues don't exist when I'm with her. However, she's in the year above me. (I had to go back 2 years) she's younger than me by a year.
Anyway, she'll be gone next year when I head into my final year, and so I need to make friends in my year. However as I said, I am unable to talk to people, when I do talk to people I worry about whether I said the wrong things, I worry about how to make jokes, if I'm funny or smart enough, if people will find me, my story or age weird...
It's also difficult because everyone at school dresses like they're going on a fucking catwalk and as a very self conscious person, I am unable to replicate this style. On top of this, many of my fellow peers knew each other from the schools of which they attended pre sixth form, so a lot of people came to school with a pre made set of friends. However seeing as I knew absolutely no one and have proximity issues/social issues with people (males in particular) I am in a tough spot.
People have tried making conversation with me but I'm too shy to let loose, and when I do for a little bit I feel like an idiot and close off again, sometimes I say things that could be interpreted poorly and I feel stupid again. So what I seem to have resorted to is keeping my mouth shut. I also have a bad habit of listening to other's conversations, and coming up with responses in my head but not actually participate, I often catch myself out on this. Pt.2 below
#155847 to #155846 - womanexplain (09/21/2014) [-]
People in my year are also often VERY immature, and because I made mistakes I have reflected on and learnt from, I find it very humorous to see idiots making said mistakes. A big issue I fear I will encounter with socialising is that IRL I'm very much so an introvert, and I also come off as very shy. I am very shy, but my humour is toilet humour, I love FJ humour, but the kind of humour I've dealt with IRL has been very PC the past 4 years, due to the fact that when I did speak to people it was adults.
As I said, with my friend I let loose, but that's only with her. I also have other issues that I fear people may notice about me and judge me for...
It's just one titty fuck of a situation.
#155859 to #155847 - thatnigger (09/21/2014) [-]
First of all, don't rush head first into talk to a group. I used to and still prefer to talk one on one with someone as opposed to listening to a conversation in a group and not contributing. I just find it hard to talk to everyone in a group conversation. Find just one person that you might be able to talk to and try and take it from them.

I've come a long way in just a year. Before I wouldn't even talk to many people online. I was very anti-social. Then I started to talk to people online and learnt how to deal with conversations and keep them interested. I was still shy and didn't know how to initiate a conversation IRL though, but during this internship, I started to become more confident and initiated a conversation with another intern and I had a lovely time talking to her, we even hang out one time after work and I was actually surprised and how good I was at holding a conversation with her. To top it all off, I was sat with this girl coming back home from my internship, she sort of semi initiated the conversation, saying like what am I doing this weekend, just small talk. We talked for the entire hour of the plane ride though and I was really, really happy at how good I've gotten at holding conversations and I guess making friends. Basically, I did nothing for my first year of Uni and don't really have many friends, I wanted to change that and now I think I have the confidence to go out and make friends. I don't know if this story will motivate you or help you, but I'm saying that you won't be like this forever. If you try, slowly but surely, you'll get this under control. Good luck! :3
#155872 to #155859 - womanexplain (09/21/2014) [-]
Niggy ;-;   
thank you.
Niggy ;-;
thank you.
#155851 to #155847 - ipostcp (09/21/2014) [-]
So you want to know how to deal with school and feeling like an outcast? Everyone is different in how they react to it, but how I did it was not giving a shit about others. I work hard to my goal and it worked for me.   
   
You just deal the hand your delt. You don't wonder if what you are doing is right or wrong, you just do it. If you make friends, then you make them. If you don't then you don't try to change how you behave, they either like you or don't. That is their problem and not yours.    
   
You work towards what ever your goal is. You set goals and meet them. Friends come and go. There isn't a need to get obsessed over them.   
   
If this is kinda off topic, which reading it over kinda does seem it, then I apologize.
So you want to know how to deal with school and feeling like an outcast? Everyone is different in how they react to it, but how I did it was not giving a shit about others. I work hard to my goal and it worked for me.

You just deal the hand your delt. You don't wonder if what you are doing is right or wrong, you just do it. If you make friends, then you make them. If you don't then you don't try to change how you behave, they either like you or don't. That is their problem and not yours.

You work towards what ever your goal is. You set goals and meet them. Friends come and go. There isn't a need to get obsessed over them.

If this is kinda off topic, which reading it over kinda does seem it, then I apologize.
#155873 to #155851 - womanexplain (09/21/2014) [-]
That's exactly what I have been doing, but I have anxiety issues in crowds and from how people see me and if I'm alone in a crowd of people I get paranoid that they're staring at me etc., especially if I'm alone.    
Like, we have a breaktime and a lunchtime, if I was by myself for either of those I wouldn't know where to go etc. I'd be nervous that people were looking at me and pitying me. I'm used to being alone and I really enjoy my own company but I don't like people thinking badly of me because of my shit so...   
I think also not having any friends for 4 years make me want them a little bit too.   
Also hi Miku.
That's exactly what I have been doing, but I have anxiety issues in crowds and from how people see me and if I'm alone in a crowd of people I get paranoid that they're staring at me etc., especially if I'm alone.
Like, we have a breaktime and a lunchtime, if I was by myself for either of those I wouldn't know where to go etc. I'd be nervous that people were looking at me and pitying me. I'm used to being alone and I really enjoy my own company but I don't like people thinking badly of me because of my shit so...
I think also not having any friends for 4 years make me want them a little bit too.
Also hi Miku.
User avatar #155898 to #155873 - ipostcp (09/21/2014) [-]
Hi, also friends will generally just be made randomly. Wouldn't worry about it.
#155842 - xxxsonic fanxxx (09/21/2014) [-]
My laptop has a virus, I'm genuinely not sure where its from but most likely from a porn site. Anyway, its called UTuabeeAdBllock spelled just like that. I uninstalled the device from my laptop a long time ago only to discover that its an extension in chrome. I went to remove it, but I can't. It won't let me. I even reset my browser settings twice but it remained. What do i do?
User avatar #155850 to #155842 - sugoi (09/21/2014) [-]
lmgtfy.com/?q=UTuabeeAdBllock+

Motherfucking first result, you even trying?
#155841 - xxxsonic fanxxx (09/21/2014) [-]
I'm a 16 year old female. I'm in love with someone who is 24. Is this wrong? I could get him in serious trouble and I'm scared. We're not together or anything, I don't think he even knows I have feelings for him. I don't want to confess in fear of being rejected for being a kid.
User avatar #155855 to #155841 - alecbaldwinning (09/21/2014) [-]
You're not in love, you're just a very young, very stupid girl. And that's not even an insult, it's just a part of being a 16 yr old girl. You're really, really stupid. I don't care if it hurts your feelings, it's true.

When you're 30 and you're looking back reflecting on your life you're going to wholeheartedly agree with me.

You have a crush. You don't even have the faintest idea of what truly being in love would feel like. Stop trying to grow up so quickly.
#155902 to #155855 - xxxsonic fanxxx (09/21/2014) [-]
While I agree with what you're saying, you shouldn't generalize so much. I started dating my now-fiance when I was 15. He was just turning 20. Sometimes things work out. All I'm saying.
#155870 to #155855 - xxxsonic fanxxx (09/21/2014) [-]
I understand. My feelings aren't hurt, using the term "love" probably wasn't the best way to put it. I guess I'll get over it eventually, aha.
User avatar #155844 to #155841 - womanexplain (09/21/2014) [-]
It depends on the country of which you live. I would say however, seeing as I'm an 18 year old who likes a 23 year old, that you should perhaps wait 2 years if your feelings are serious and use those two years to establish a special bond.
#155845 to #155844 - xxxsonic fanxxx (09/21/2014) [-]
Thank you. I'll do that.
User avatar #155824 - williamx (09/21/2014) [-]
Didn't admin ban phanact? Or was he just fucking with us?
User avatar #155825 to #155824 - sugoi (09/21/2014) [-]
He was just fucking you.
#155822 - xxxsonic fanxxx (09/21/2014) [-]
anyone know of any online shops that sell clothing made in good condtions, no sweatshop or slave house type thing. I don't mean stuff made from hemp and twigs but good clothing made by good workers in good working conditions. I'm having a kind of moral issue where I feel kinda dickish wearing sweatshop clothing.
User avatar #155835 to #155822 - TimUsher (09/21/2014) [-]
The only you're going to get good clothes not named in sweatshops is to have it tailored
User avatar #155826 to #155822 - sugoi (09/21/2014) [-]
No such things exist my friend.
Those clothes made in your own country? Made in sweatshops, shipped over, then have the label added, because it was 'finished' in your own country they can legally say 'made in NOT CHINA".

Everywhere else is pretty much the same. But seriously though go get those clothes, you're costing those sweatshop people jobs and they're poor enough as it is holy fuck.
#155890 to #155826 - xxxsonic fanxxx (09/21/2014) [-]
I guess.

Thanks anyway.
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User avatar #155818 to #155816 - derpityhurr (09/21/2014) [-]
**derpityhurr rolls 57**
User avatar #155819 to #155818 - derpityhurr (09/21/2014) [-]
**derpityhurr rolls 77**
#155821 to #155819 - honzo (09/21/2014) [-]
well good job but you didnt say anything so i guess im not saying anything yet
User avatar #155823 to #155821 - derpityhurr (09/21/2014) [-]
say "ur lame"
User avatar #155820 to #155819 - derpityhurr (09/21/2014) [-]
or naaaaaaahhhhh
#155817 to #155816 - honzo (09/21/2014) [-]
dubs decides what i say
User avatar #155812 - darealsnooki (09/21/2014) [-]
How do I get a lot of likes for my facebook page without advertising it on such places as here or 4chan?

If anyone here has been independent, and made their facebook page full of likes, please tell me how

My reason: I'm in competition with another page
User avatar #155839 to #155812 - xXThatxOnexGuyXx ONLINE (09/21/2014) [-]
Just having a lot of friends.
And money.
User avatar #155827 to #155812 - sugoi (09/21/2014) [-]
Take lots of revealing selfies.
User avatar #155828 to #155827 - darealsnooki (09/21/2014) [-]
That might be crazy enough to potato.

I am a guy with tits, so I should shave off my chest hair, keep my face hidden, and earn my way through ;)
User avatar #155829 to #155828 - sugoi (09/21/2014) [-]
Doesn't have to be your selfies.
User avatar #155830 to #155829 - darealsnooki (09/21/2014) [-]
Seriously though, that could work, but my page is a fanpage of a vidya game that is only majorly known in Japan
User avatar #155833 to #155830 - sugoi (09/21/2014) [-]
Offer Asuka Langley Soryu dakimuras in a comp, all you have to do is like favorite and subscribe.
User avatar #155836 to #155833 - darealsnooki (09/21/2014) [-]
Hot, but I need to keep my content on topic.

I was released from a facebook page about this game this whole thing is about. What happened was that I "badmouthed" one of the managers. I felt like I was telling the truth. All that manager did with the page I worked with, was neglect us, and whenever she didn't, she just posted something unrelated to what our page was about. I had enough of it, so on another facebook page, I said that she doesn't deserve that management spot because of that. Shortly after, I was released.

I hate it, because I had people who liked me as an admin there, and that manager just ignored that fact completely.

It got to me recently that what she did was very idiotic, because what she was managing was a non-profit facebook page that anyone could make for free, not some damn corporation, and even if it was, I would think that my boss and I would talk our problems out
User avatar #155834 to #155833 - TimUsher (09/21/2014) [-]
That would get me to favorite and subscribe
#155803 - xxxsonic fanxxx (09/20/2014) [-]
I've never had any problem cumming when I masturbate, but whenever I have sex, I just can't do it. No matter how long I have it in, nothing comes out. Has anyone else ever had this issue? It's really bothering me?
User avatar #155805 to #155803 - potffan (09/21/2014) [-]
Had the same problem with my current partner. It was all in my head, to get over it I tried to disconnect emotionally and focus on the primal I want you, just cause your so damn sexy. I took a few drinks for a courage and not had a problem since.

It was purely all my head fucking with me really. Not wanting to do something this girl i like so much might not approve of and embarrass myself.
User avatar #155811 to #155805 - ScottP (09/21/2014) [-]
I thought being emotionally connected was supposed to make sexual intercourse more rewarding and pleasurable? Doesn't it stimulate the hormones much more when you're emotionally invested in the situation?

I'm actually curious about this now. Hum...interesting
User avatar #155815 to #155811 - potffan (09/21/2014) [-]
I would agree with what you say now, once I have been in a relationship with the girl for 2 years. It is the best sex because it is more than sex, it is about two people bonding. However, at that point I had to get over the barrier of being embarrassed with the other person, and that is why I made my above comment about having to forget the emotions and see just the pure attraction your caveman brain screams about.
#155807 to #155805 - xxxsonic fanxxx (09/21/2014) [-]
Thanks. It bothers me because she's extremely pretty and really cool, but I just can't seem to get it out with her. Glad to know I'm not the only one.
#155795 - ilikelizards ONLINE (09/20/2014) [-]
The internet ruined me and now I assume every single female is a bitchy feminist who will take my money and leave me, what do?
User avatar #155856 to #155795 - thatnigger (09/21/2014) [-]
If you think like that, you're no better then the females that assume all men are assholes, etc.

Honestly, just get to know a girl, talk to them. If they're not the type that likes to talk to guys or are just unfriendly, then stop talking to them. Simple as that.
User avatar #155808 to #155795 - makotoitou ONLINE (09/21/2014) [-]
nigga they might be
#155798 to #155795 - xxxsonic fanxxx (09/20/2014) [-]
stop being dumb, you know all females are like that. stop thinking like that.

it's simple.
#155800 to #155798 - ilikelizards ONLINE (09/20/2014) [-]
oh no rip in peace my children
#155791 - haydentheviking ONLINE (09/20/2014) [-]
The girl ive been talking to for a bit has just told me that the guy she was talkivg to has stopped talkiivg to her she feeels really shit and sad do i bother going in and comfroting her?


sorry fotr the spelling just got back grom a gathering but yeah i feel really confused on what to do she is everything i would want but i am not what she would want

what do it pisses me off alot
#155869 to #155791 - dehumanizer (09/21/2014) [-]
Save your time and feelings by not beeing a beta oribiter.
#155874 to #155869 - haydentheviking ONLINE (09/21/2014) [-]
thanks dehumanizer for your words of wisdom    
   
   
love you xoxoxox
thanks dehumanizer for your words of wisdom


love you xoxoxox
#155884 to #155874 - dehumanizer (09/21/2014) [-]
*tips fedora*
#155793 to #155791 - xxxsonic fanxxx (09/20/2014) [-]
yes go and comforter her.   
   
the last thing they want is to be ignored.
yes go and comforter her.

the last thing they want is to be ignored.
User avatar #155794 to #155793 - haydentheviking ONLINE (09/20/2014) [-]
She went to bed she went "i feel so shit i need to go to sleep"


do you think its good to ask if shes ok tomorrow? comfort her?
#155796 to #155794 - xxxsonic fanxxx (09/20/2014) [-]
yes, why not?

don't over do it though.
User avatar #155797 to #155796 - haydentheviking ONLINE (09/20/2014) [-]
what do you mean by over doing it?


talking too much?
#155801 to #155797 - xxxsonic fanxxx (09/20/2014) [-]
well don't look clingy, just send a message asking how she is and wait. don't keep sending messages until you get a reply. so tomorrow, just ask her "how are you feeling today? do you want to talk?"

User avatar #155802 to #155801 - haydentheviking ONLINE (09/20/2014) [-]
ok ok ive been doing it right

Ill just ask how she is feeling and if shes alright


thank you anon
#155804 to #155802 - xxxsonic fanxxx (09/20/2014) [-]
ur welcom
ur welcom
#155806 to #155804 - haydentheviking ONLINE (09/21/2014) [-]
gonna recover right now from getting pissed so    
   
   
thank you anon love you
gonna recover right now from getting pissed so


thank you anon love you
User avatar #155792 to #155791 - haydentheviking ONLINE (09/20/2014) [-]
it really makes me sad and i dont know what to do
#155758 - honzo (09/20/2014) [-]
dubs decides what i say to this girl im friends with
User avatar #155765 to #155758 - fishinyourface (09/20/2014) [-]
**fishinyourface rolls 44** wanna go to a circlejerk with me?
#155776 to #155765 - honzo (09/20/2014) [-]
guess i'll post again when she responds ._.
User avatar #155790 to #155776 - youngneil (09/20/2014) [-]
If she ever responds to that.
#155814 to #155790 - honzo (09/21/2014) [-]
lol she didn't, so i just opted to tell her i wasn't serious
#155766 to #155765 - makotoitou ONLINE (09/20/2014) [-]
Comment Picture
User avatar #155763 to #155758 - awesomanium (09/20/2014) [-]
**awesomanium rolls 92** ayy lmao
User avatar #155764 to #155763 - awesomanium (09/20/2014) [-]
#nowaytoayy
User avatar #155762 to #155758 - marinepenguin (09/20/2014) [-]
**marinepenguin rolls 31** Devin, I.....
User avatar #155761 to #155758 - makotoitou ONLINE (09/20/2014) [-]
**makotoitou rolls 81** jews are ugly
#155759 to #155758 - dehumanizer (09/20/2014) [-]
**dehumanizer rolls 12**

Devon, we need to meet tommorow, there is something very important I have to confess to you.
User avatar #155756 - mightypower (09/20/2014) [-]
Yo, Germanfags, what is Germany's stance on websites such as project free tv? Or Firstrowsports? I am over in Germany for a year and don't want to miss my shows or any of my local sports. Vielen Danke in advance.
#155863 to #155756 - minutes (09/21/2014) [-]
Germany has ridiciolous laws concerning copyright. I don't know about the sites you mentioned, but cause of the GEMA, we aren't even allowed to watch all youtube videos, we sometimes can't use sites like pandora either, so.. You can still use a proxxy or go on kinox.to .
User avatar #155864 to #155863 - mightypower (09/21/2014) [-]
So am i able to watch any youtube videos? Or am I literally fucked for keeping up with some of my shows? I have yet to get a screen saying that I am on a illegal webpage for example. Thanks for the answers
#155865 to #155864 - minutes (09/21/2014) [-]
You can watch youtube videos, but some songs are banned. It's not illegal as in the cops will show up, it simply says you don't have permission to watch this from your location and will not play. If it plays and you are not on an illegal website, it's totally legal. Not to forget that just watching on sites like kinox.to is considered illegal, but the government chooses to ignore it cause they are busy tracking down the ones who actually stream and download stuff.
User avatar #155866 to #155865 - mightypower (09/21/2014) [-]
Ye i understand what you mean man. So for example, that project free tv site is simply a streaming service, but it is illegal. The videos are not hosted on it, but it links off to the sites to watch it. Well I may just try and get away with it for the year. I will play the card ' I am a tourist, I did not know'. I will not be torrenting videos/music etc. I will just be streaming them, so I will just take a chance. Thanks a lot minutes.
#155867 to #155866 - minutes (09/21/2014) [-]
No problem, streaming won't get you in trouble i think. I am doing this for years now and everyone I know is doing it too and no one is getting caught
User avatar #155868 to #155867 - mightypower (09/21/2014) [-]
Ye in Ireland we do and nothing has happened. I will just not torrent anything. Vielen Danke Minutes.
User avatar #155767 to #155756 - xXThatxOnexGuyXx ONLINE (09/20/2014) [-]
I summon thee: Minutes.
#155862 to #155767 - minutes (09/21/2014) [-]
Got my name notifications turned off :/
User avatar #155880 to #155862 - xXThatxOnexGuyXx ONLINE (09/21/2014) [-]
Dang, man. :L
I can kinda understand why, though.
User avatar #155754 - chimpaflimp (09/20/2014) [-]
1)Attempt to log in to Steam
2)Some bullshit called 'Steam Guard' appears and sends a 'security' email to an invalid address
3)Tells me to contact Steam Support
4)Try to send question; it freezes on step one.
5)Get angry because IT'S A FUCKING STUPID SYSTEM HOLY SHIT.
6)Repeat.
Any advice on how I can fix this bullshit?
User avatar #155768 to #155754 - xXThatxOnexGuyXx ONLINE (09/20/2014) [-]
Steam Guard is legit, though...

Contact Steam via Email?
User avatar #155780 to #155768 - chimpaflimp (09/20/2014) [-]
No idea how to. Can't find an address anywhere.
User avatar #155782 to #155781 - xXThatxOnexGuyXx ONLINE (09/20/2014) [-]
Stupid FunnyJunk threw in a space in there.
Take out that space inbetween @ and support
User avatar #155757 to #155754 - makotoitou ONLINE (09/20/2014) [-]
not use bogus emails for important things..?
User avatar #155760 to #155757 - chimpaflimp (09/20/2014) [-]
By invalid I mean on a service that no longer exists, not a throwaway.
#155748 - xxxsonic fanxxx (09/20/2014) [-]
which part of the air force do you apply to if you want to fly them really big bombers?

B52s and stuff like that.
#155771 to #155748 - usarmyexplain ONLINE (09/20/2014) [-]
You would have to apply for the air force academy, qualify, be accepted, then apply, and be accepted into the B52 bomber pilot training after graduating. After a good 6 to 8 years of training you MAY be able to have your hands on the flight yoke as a co-pilot.

Pic related, the B52, our largest bomber and it's standard loadout.
#155773 to #155771 - xxxsonic fanxxx (09/20/2014) [-]
thanks for that.

now I can go bomb some ruskies if it comes to it.
User avatar #155775 to #155773 - usarmyexplain ONLINE (09/20/2014) [-]
Glad I could help
User avatar #155769 to #155748 - xXThatxOnexGuyXx ONLINE (09/20/2014) [-]
I summon thee: USArmyExplain.
He might be able to help. I mean, when you take your ASVAB it'll kinda pre-determine where you'll best be suited for. (I think...)
User avatar #155770 to #155769 - usarmyexplain ONLINE (09/20/2014) [-]
Boom, I'm here, baby
#155746 - swiggityswooty (09/20/2014) [-]
how do you cook with bud?
User avatar #155734 - ScottP (09/20/2014) [-]
My dad has really high expectations of me. Because of the way his relatives have looked down on him his entire life - they've all gone to college whereas he wasn't able to - he feels less compared to them. I guess because I'm his oldest son, he feels that if I'm able to become a doctor or someone with an important job, they won't think so low of him.

I'd hate to disappoint him, but I really have no inclination towards medicine. He has high expectations for me, but I just want a simple life. I want to write, to draw, to make movies. But my dad has kinda' had his mind set on the idea that I'm going to become a doctor.

Because of this, it's been a really difficult few weeks in college trying to decide which path in life I'm going to take:

In one path, I put myself through hell to get a job so that I can put myself through hell every day until I die. In another path, I do what I'm good at and what I enjoy, but I don't get a stable job or a comfortable life.

Haha...why wasn't I born with the desire to be a doctor? Maybe in that life I would have made my dad proud.
User avatar #155788 to #155734 - dasistwunderbar (09/20/2014) [-]
Be careful here. as much as your dad is trying to push a career on you, you gotta know that he's doing this because he thinks you lack motivation for something else, an opinion that was backed up by your stated goal of having a 'quiet life'. I think your dad may be trying less to see you go into his business than merely try to get you to do something. If you're confronting or defying this guy, you need a counter-argument, tell him you want to be a journalist, or a graphic designer, or a goddamn gigolo, but show him you have the drive to make your own way in life. If you can make him feel like you can succeed without his help, your relationship will ecome ten times easier.
User avatar #155789 to #155788 - ScottP (09/20/2014) [-]
But the thing is...I'm not really sure what to do. If I pursue a career in film-making, I'd be risking everything for a small percent of success. I understand that I need a backup (which is why I'm thinking of getting a BSN in Nursing), but it seems that most of the things that interest me have very little to do with each other.
User avatar #155785 to #155734 - nought (09/20/2014) [-]
You have to do what you want to do. Even if you impress your dad you will not get any enjoyment of of medicine and you'll end up hating doing it everyday
There are tons of other options other than a doctor that are stable and comfortable, in fact being a doctor is a VERY stressful (but high paying) job
User avatar #155786 to #155785 - ScottP (09/20/2014) [-]
The main problem for me, I feel, is that few of my skills are really marketable and while I'd like to learn more things, I'm just not really sure where to focus in my life. For example, I'd like to learn Chemistry, but I'm not interested in becoming a pharmacist or a chemical engineer. Not that I'm any good at it, but it's something that I'd like to be decent at at least.

I'm just not really sure of where to go with my life.
User avatar #155737 to #155734 - makotoitou ONLINE (09/20/2014) [-]
Do what you wanna do. I think your dad wants you to succeed, and if being a doctor is gonna be hell you're not gonna succeed anyways.
User avatar #155740 to #155737 - ScottP (09/20/2014) [-]
A lot of people tell me that college is when you learn about different career paths that you never knew interested you. I guess I've been bottlenecking myself into medicine when I could try and see if there are other jobs that interest me. Maybe something in biology. I've only taken one biology class in my life and my teacher was pretty terrible.
#155707 - xxxsonic fanxxx (09/20/2014) [-]
does anyone know how to not be irritated about couples? I'm serious, it really sucks when you find your day getting ruined slowly the more you hear or see couples everywhere. I try my best to ignore it, I really do, but it just does't stop. I'm a girl, I'm 22, and I've never had anything close to a date. For the most part, my friends have been the same, but slowly they're all getting boyfriends and some even getting married or having a kid...I just got a text from one of my friends saying she met a guy and it just ruins my shit because...well it sucks, it just does. Everyone is going to find someone, and I'm just going to sit there alone. I never do this either, I never complain to anyone, I never let anyone know how I feel about this situation, and I never let on that I hate being around other couples because I know that self pity is terribly unattractive. So what am I doing wrong?
User avatar #155772 to #155707 - xXThatxOnexGuyXx ONLINE (09/20/2014) [-]
Alright, here's the thing:
Don't worry about it. Get yourself our of your comfort zone, meet some people, and have fun with life. Eventually you will find someone.

The greatest way to meet someone is by just being friends, eh?
Don't be desperate. Take things slowly. And when you do find someone, they'll be perfect for you.
If things are meant to be then things will kind of just happen. You don't have to force anything. If you feel like you and someone else are starting to make a connection then start hanging around them more; Get to know them.

How do you know if a guy is the least bit interested?
If he will hold a conversation with you for an hour (or longer). If it's just you two the entire time, and both enjoy the conversation/ the presence of the other.
#155838 to #155772 - xxxsonic fanxxx (09/21/2014) [-]
thank you, this was the most helpful thing I've read. I appreciate it.
User avatar #155718 to #155707 - novuss (09/20/2014) [-]
Go out more, put yourself out there. Meet new people. That way you might find somebody as well. Sitting around and complaining wont get you anywhere.
#155721 to #155718 - xxxsonic fanxxx (09/20/2014) [-]
I go to school, I work in retail, and I go out every once in a while with friends to bars and shit. What am I supposed to do, wear a neon sign? I don't just sit around complaining all the time, I'm allowed to complain this once because I don't know what to do, so please don't tell me to just not sit around and not to complain....
User avatar #155724 to #155721 - novuss (09/20/2014) [-]
Well you asked for advice, so don't tell people not to voice their opinions. Thats a bit childish.

You sound very pessimistic. Lighten up a bit. There is no guide to fixen your problem. You just need to be happy. See the positive in everything. Nobody likes to be around bitter people.

“You'll never find a rainbow if you're looking down”
― Charles Chaplin
#155731 to #155724 - xxxsonic fanxxx (09/20/2014) [-]
I only said that because it sounds as if you're assuming I do this all the time, and I don't, so it's insulting when someone says that to me. I know people who incessantly complain about this crap, and I stated I know how unattractive that is, so I never do it, so don't bundle me up with them.
lighten up a bit? I'm having a shitty day, that's why I'm posting on here; I'm not constantly pessimistic. thanks for replying anyway though, at least you did.
#155739 to #155731 - novuss (09/20/2014) [-]
Well you seem like a total bitch. Have a great life
#155741 to #155739 - xxxsonic fanxxx (09/20/2014) [-]
made me laugh actually
#155710 to #155707 - dehumanizer (09/20/2014) [-]
Caring and making it a problem instead of looking at the goodside and enjoying your situaton as best as you can.
#155714 to #155710 - xxxsonic fanxxx (09/20/2014) [-]
It's easier said than done. I have days where it's much easier, but I really hate being fake, and when I have to be, it takes a lot out of you. I know, I'm probably doing the "edgy emotional" bullshit people make fun of but it's true, it's mentally exhausting to go through life pretending. But If I didn't, I would have zero friends, and absolutely zero chance with anyone.
#155719 to #155714 - dehumanizer (09/20/2014) [-]
Well im pritty much like you but then i realised all of this relationship thing is overrated and that my loneliness comes from my introveted lifestyle. I do belive i might get a gf sometime but I realised that I am more imporant to me than a mysterious partner you know? What exactly are you faking?
#155722 to #155719 - xxxsonic fanxxx (09/20/2014) [-]
I'm faking being happy/interested when friends go on to me about their relationship, or how they met someone. And I do have the attitude about not needing a relationship, but once in a while I feel lonely, and something like news of one of my friends being in a new relationship just kicks you down hard when it's one of those times...
#155723 to #155722 - dehumanizer (09/20/2014) [-]
Yeah i know that feeling to well, especialy when you are jaleous they got a partner and you're still single but you also feel guilty about it...

Well just tell them you dont want to care or find some single friends. Its better if they're uglier and bigger losers than you. except when they somehow still manage to get a partner
#155727 to #155723 - xxxsonic fanxxx (09/20/2014) [-]
that doesn't work. sometimes I just can't help but wonder what's wrong with me? People just say "Oh, go out and meet people" well, thanks but fucking how? I don't know how, I'm already outside, I don't sit on my computer all day, glued to the fucking screen, I do go outside, I have a life...how the fuck do other people meet others? Is going to school, having a job, and going to bars with friends not enough?
#155733 to #155727 - dehumanizer (09/20/2014) [-]
well... shiit... neither do I...

Just... give it time or something... dont really know im in the same situation except most of my friends are single too and im not really trying to find a partner. Not that I know how to really, i just act like a total autistic sperg.
User avatar #155705 - Aethlius (09/20/2014) [-]
last few weeks i've been having anxiety because of thinking about death too much. it's the most scary thing i can imagine... i like being alive too much even if it's a fucked up world. does any one else have this? how do you deal with it?
#155778 to #155705 - xXThatxOnexGuyXx ONLINE (09/20/2014) [-]
What makes you think about death?
Why are you afraid of dying?

To fear is to have an over-exaggeration of something, man.
Realize that you're over-exaggerating things. If you die, then you die. You can't change that. When you die, nothing on this Earth will matter anymore.
A slow and painful death may be something to fear, but death in general is not.

What I find scary, is dying and coming back to life.
My mother once died; In which, while she was dead, she saw herself in a third-person perspective. She was spectating her body. In that moment, there were angels that came down and told her that it wasn't her time to go. Afterwards she woke up.
My sister has died twice. Similar scenario; Omit the angels. There was nothing to greet her when she died. She just watched over her body until she became conscious again.

I've personally come close to dying a few times, via suffocation. (Drowning, being strangled, etc.)
At worst my vision started to fade as my brain wasn't receiving any oxygen. I may have blacked out a couple of the times that I was suffocating. Can't entirely recall.

Anyhow, so long as you're not suffocating, being tortured, or burning alive, then there really isn't much to fear.
You only fear death because you're afraid of what may lie afterwards for you.
#155709 to #155705 - dehumanizer (09/20/2014) [-]
Why do you like living?
User avatar #155711 to #155709 - Aethlius (09/20/2014) [-]
i dunno honestly. i'm a curious person by nature maybe that attributes to it. it would just suck to not be alive anymore.. i hope they have the tech to be able to upload conciousness to computers soon lol
#155713 to #155711 - dehumanizer (09/20/2014) [-]
why are you not curious about what happens after death? Do you think babies know of the world outside the womb?
User avatar #155717 to #155713 - Aethlius (09/20/2014) [-]
i see what you're saying but i'm quite happy with how it is now. maybe in the future it'll change but for now i feel happy
#155720 to #155717 - dehumanizer (09/20/2014) [-]
Worrying about something you cant prevent wont do you any good, just embrace mortality and try to live a productfu healthy life.
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