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#213699 - mrmelancholy
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(06/08/2016) [-]
You are one angry little man aren't you?
also; everyone have different ways of going about things. they worked hard and achieved what they wanted. that had nothing to do with luck or the topic at hand, so why mention it?

I'm just going off on what I've experienced over the years. and I've noticed that luck played much larger factor than any effort I ever put in. hell I even stated I'm a living contradiction. I'm constantly doing just that, contradicting.

(I only checked out your profile once to see if just acting like dick to just me because of what I said actually mattering to you, or because you're just cunt in general. but apparently you're just a cunt. so don't too highly of yourself. its embarrassing.) (go ahead, call me more names or some shit. I still end up on top cause your the one mad, while I just react to see you react)
#213700 to #213699 - sugoi
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(06/08/2016) [-]
Dude reply to me in person you piece of shit why the fuck are you posting separate comments? We haven't reached the reply limit and you don't even mention my name when you bitch about me.

If you wanna do that passive aggressive shit go the fuck to tumblr.
#213697 - mrmelancholy
Reply -1
(06/08/2016) [-]
Thanks for positivity man. also good point with the community college thing. I've actually been considering that 'just to get my feet in the water if you will.

though I don't fully agree with the the whole "you can do anything you want in the world" bit. I do genuinely appreciate the sentiment, so, thanks
#213690 - mrmelancholy
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(06/08/2016) [-]
Firstly; I dig how honest you are. no bullshit, just blunt honesty. I prefer this than sugar coating what a pathetic, shitty, loser person I am.

and secondly; I quite aware that I'm not going anywhere and it being my fault. your point being? I have a reasons (lack luster, sure) to want to become a lawyer. If I SOMEHOW get in, I am going to try. just not much. because if I do, I fail, without a doubt. (its really hard to explain it without making it sound totally ludicrous & delusional.)
and what I mean by "gain nothing" is that I don't gain complete satisfaction since I'm not in it for that, I'm not doing it to feel better about myself 'since I don't like myself to being with (though I do trust myself, and believe in myself somewhat)
and how can you not feel bad about failure; I'm just more optimistic about failure since I've failed so much in my life from either putting all my effort in, or none at all. giving me a warped view on it. (I'm not saying this for pity or agreement believe it or not. I'm just trying for once after a long ass time of being pathetic, okay? THIS-this is how I try...)

I always viewed my colors like as a splattered mess, just like everyone else.

a living contradiction if you will.

its so fucking annoying and confusing that it would make anyone mad or annoyed at me for even trying to explain it to them (I'm not joking, EVERY.TIME) and if they don't get mad or annoyed, they just get fed up and ignore my rantings or being to just humor me (which I fucking hate).

I'm aiming for Yale because (I THINK) I can, feel me? I may be a fucking idiot; but I'm a fucking idiot with the will to move forward. I just need some advice to get to my destination, even if its off a cliff due to my own stupidity. at least while I fall I can hope my retarded luck either barely saves my ass, or my that shitty luck kill me. Either way, I'm going out laughing 'knowing I lost (or won) trying to achieve the impossible.

not many people are stupid enough to say that. but I am.
#213694 to #213690 - sugoi
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(06/08/2016) [-]
You are delusional to think that trying = failure. You're even more delusional to base all your successes on luck.

People that don't feel bad about failure use it as a learning experience and motivation to prevent future failures, you wallow in it.

I know right now that when you finally grow the fuck up you will look back at this and cringe so hard your muscles will double in size from the physical exertion.
#213695 to #213694 - mrmelancholy
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(06/08/2016) [-]
Well consider most of my successes academically happened due to coincidences (which I call "retarded luck") I find it hard to escape delusion since that all I can see now these days.

and true I do wallow in failure. care to add anything new to that argument? I feel bad from failure, but I also grow from it like everyone else. I just grow sloppily. like a rough patch of grass.

and seeing how you comment on other things (i checked out your profile) you beat me to the cringe buddy.
#213698 to #213695 - sugoi
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(06/08/2016) [-]
Yes I'm sure the invention of nuclear power was complete luck.
Or the creation of the modern combustion engine was complete luck.

Luck only gave these people inspiration, give me one goddamn example of an invention created from pure luck, no further modification at all was made. Pow suddenly a product. Here's a hint you won't. Microwaves? Yes figuring out that we could use it to heat food was pure luck but you know what? they worked hard, and with more research and development they created an affordable version for every home.

Dude that was the first post of the argument, it was the opening statement, I know you're trying to sound smart but no, just stop. Don't give me that "I also grow from it" bullshit when you said yourself "I am going to try. just not much. because if I do, I fail, without a doubt." You said quite clearly you aren't going to try your best, that's not growth at all.

Oh so you're a stalker too? Nice to know you've been stalking my profile, if you wanted to see my previous posts you can scroll down on /advice/ you idiot.
#213693 to #213690 - anon
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(06/08/2016) [-]
Thing is, you DON'T have any actual will to move forward as I see it now. You don't have the will to work for it; to put your all into it. You are hoping to somehow skate through with minimal effort with you "retarded luck". If you're willing to put in for that, why not put in for a trade school?
Certified automotive technicians make great money.
Small engine repair technicians make great money.
HVAC technicians make great money.
And the cool part is, anybody can start a technical program. Go learn an actual skill set. Be productive.
TRY to do something with your life.
The fact that you're already at a point where you're saying that if you go out you'll be laughing is honestly sad.
I can appreciate that you at least say you want to try after having failed so many times, but you should still be realistic so as to not waste your time and money on fruitless ventures, and you need to be willing to put your all into WHATEVER you do.
#213696 to #213693 - mrmelancholy
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(06/08/2016) [-]
Very good point. revising my thoughts a bit, my will really doesn't really move me forward as it just, holds me up. as for laughing, I never said I'd be laughing joyfully or happily.
so yes, it is sad; nothing new to me.

and trade school huh? It has crossed my mind before, but somethings happened in my life and I sorta forgot about that. I can give a shot; nothings holding back after all. just hope people like "sugoi" don't kick me in the nuts on the way there.

thanks for something actually constructive, I was hoping for something like that. (oh! and one more thing. you REALLY don't know my luck. its not even funny anymore)
#213688 - warmbuns
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(06/08/2016) [-]
Just came back from Vegas and spent some money on escort... not worth it man. Don't do it. Trust me.
#213704 to #213688 - anon
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(06/08/2016) [-]
why?
#213728 to #213704 - warmbuns
Reply 0
(06/09/2016) [-]
It's over priced and the girls aren't actually worth it
#213689 to #213688 - sugoi
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(06/08/2016) [-]
I trust you.
#213686 - pokemonstheshiz
Reply 0
(06/08/2016) [-]
If anyone is having trouble with college homework
www.slader.com/
This site has worked out user answers to questions for a lot of textbooks. Just throwin it out there
#213667 - dsoapdropp
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(06/07/2016) [-]
Since i have some spare time and well do nothing while sleeping i was a bit interested in lucid dreaming. So could someone give me a link to a "legit tutorial" or give me some tips (if its even possible idk)
Thanks
#213666 - fantasticfox
Reply +1
(06/07/2016) [-]
Anything interesting happen in the past 2 weeks online of IRL
My internet and tv was down so I'm a bit out of the loop
#213671 to #213666 - anon
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(06/07/2016) [-]
2016 killed Muhammad Ali (Jim Carrie is next), nigglet fell in gorilla pond, and the feminist legbeard nest got mad over an xmen apocalypse billboard.
#213664 - platinumaltaria ONLINE
Reply 0
(06/07/2016) [-]
tl;dr version because typing is hard
I may have accidentally fallen for my gfs friend, simultaneously fudging said relationship and casting the friend deeper into an abusive relationship. What do?
#213669 to #213664 - icefried
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(06/07/2016) [-]
ya dun' goof'd
time for some damage control
#213672 to #213669 - platinumaltaria ONLINE
Reply -1
(06/07/2016) [-]
Suicide pact?
#213674 to #213673 - platinumaltaria ONLINE
Reply -1
(06/07/2016) [-]
Nah, I'm gonna try and fix shit, no idea how though.
#213675 to #213674 - icefried
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(06/07/2016) [-]
Well first you should evaluate the situation. How much damage have you done?

Can you salvage the relationship? Who got hurt the most? Can you help the girl in the abusive relationship?

I'd say try to patch things with your gf, but break up if you sense it's irreparable and then find a way to help her friend. Abusive relationships are incredibly dangerous and since you are responsible you have to do everything you can to help her.
#213676 to #213675 - platinumaltaria ONLINE
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(06/08/2016) [-]
Well honestly most of the damage was done by her liking me back very probably THE SIGNS WERE THERE

She's not vocally that hurt, and by that I mean she hasn't spoken to me in a solid week. Though tbf I do tend to be a clingly little shit, and she's busy so yeah... THEN AGAIN THE VOICES IN MY HEAD TELL ME THE WORLD IS ENDING
As for le gril I shall try oh so hard, but there's not much I can really do given that I can't actually talk to her.

Well I'm not responsible, she was already in it, it's just that the guy went fucking mental over it.
#213677 to #213676 - icefried
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(06/08/2016) [-]
Fuck all you can do then i'm afraid. Don't think you can un-goof this one.
#213678 to #213677 - platinumaltaria ONLINE
Reply -1
(06/08/2016) [-]
Nah, I can fuck it some more!
#213679 to #213678 - icefried
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(06/08/2016) [-]
That's the spirit!
#213680 to #213679 - platinumaltaria ONLINE
Reply +1
(06/08/2016) [-]
mfw this whole thing is like an iceberg of horror you don't know everything
#213662 - brownskin
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(06/07/2016) [-]
My dog loves footballs. Not quite full size, but certainly not those mini footballs. They're her favorite toys. She can even catch them from across my very large yard. She's a fucking pro with them.

However, she also like to chew them up. So she either tears up the laces on a legit football or pops one of the rubber ones. The laces thing isn't so bad as long as I make sure she doesn't eat them, but she still goes through then unbelievably fast.

Basically, I was wondering if anyone knew if there are any footballs for saw that are designed for dogs. I mean if I could find one with the leather skin, but without laces, that shit would last forever.

Every time I've looked online for a dog-safe football all that comes up are those rediculous dog football jerseys.
#213665 to #213662 - babasera
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(06/07/2016) [-]
you should probably search for balls made out of hard,dense rubber
#213658 - ljxjlos ONLINE
Reply 0
(06/07/2016) [-]
So, this is the closest thing I could think of right now because my doctors already closed, as are the pharmacies...

Is there anybody around here who has an idea about hot to ensure that a bandaging doesn´t stick to a fresh wound?
#213641 - hellomynameisbill
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(06/07/2016) [-]
a friend has fallen in love with me but i'm not interested, what do?
#213663 to #213641 - platinumaltaria ONLINE
Reply +1
(06/07/2016) [-]
Tell em ya jerkus
#213655 to #213641 - sugoi
Reply 0
(06/07/2016) [-]
Tell them this.
"I'm not interested."
#213654 to #213641 - thesunpraiser ONLINE
Reply 0
(06/07/2016) [-]
Just politely decline, say that you'd prefer to stay friends.
#213652 to #213641 - rokkai
Reply 0
(06/07/2016) [-]
listen to him/her and reject in a polite manner. don't go straight up "lol no sry"
#213646 to #213641 - icefried
Reply +1
(06/07/2016) [-]
Tell him/her no!
Seriously it's for their own good, do not lead him/her on.
#213643 to #213641 - juaneljalapeno
Reply +3
(06/07/2016) [-]
Best thing would probably be to just be honest
#213636 - mrmelancholy
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(06/07/2016) [-]
So I plan on entering law school and want/need to get a grant(s) and scholarship(s); I'm aiming for Yale because; if I'm going to fail, might as well have a good excuse as to why I didn't/couldn't get in.

If you can't tell already, I'm not really motivated on going to school. and that's because most of my life I've been fucked so hard in the ass by school system and the people involved with it (staff, teacher, students etc.) that I lost any semblance of hope for myself ever making something of myself.
but again, part of it was my fault for opening my fucking mouth and speaking out against forces and people that only saw me as a either a problem child or attention seeker
(to a certain degree, they were right. but that's a whole other story and topic for another time)

another contributing part being the shitty school system of my state (Nevada) like fucking chirst man, my middle school was pretty much prison. drug dealers, weapon bringers, fucking on campus, doing said drugs on campus, pregnancies, and staff doing a shit job managing it. I was suspended and sent to the deans detention more often than I spent in class. AND THAT WAS FOR ACTING OUT AGAINST THE FUCKS BULLYING ME, I didn't even start fights or shit, just speak out.

but being a young naive and (for a short time) pure hearted kid. I didn't know how to react properly. they just took me out of the way like I was the cause of it all. tired killing myself at least five time during those years. but either chickening out, or just failed (wanted to do it cleanly) last attempt was drinking what remained of some glass cleaner. not much, just hoped it was enough.

it wasn't.

after some sever stomach pains and shits so bad that I passed out once. I stopped trying. luckily no long term side effects, at least any that I'm aware of. my family wouldn't learn of these events until high school when I opened my mouth to the wrong people again. (another long ass story for another time. If any are curious about it, just ask and I'll tell ya. okay?)

and the last contributing factor being, my shit luck and my retarded luck. my shit luck gets me into, well, shit. and my retarded luck some how getting me out.
(and not getting me out on a good note either)

Hell, I only finished "high school" thanks to my retarded luck (same deal happened in middle school) oh, I added the quotation marks to high school because I was technically expelled around my second half of sophomore year, just never stated on paper. only "suspended" (again, long story). I only finished high school with one half being online & on campus testing, the other being adult-ed.
with adult-ed was almost being insultingly easy. but at that point I didn't care anymore, neither did my parents. but I have been disappointing my parents academically since fucking grade school; so whatever.

oh! and for some odd reason when I got into high school I noticed I got massive spike in my intelligence. like I could get A's without even trying (literally). to bad I never bothered getting them, just getting grades good enough to pass. funny how when you stop trying and caring 'suddenly everything is handed to you on a silver platter.

All of that together made a big "fuck you" cake delivered by the school system 'made by life.

The only reason I'm even fucking deciding to go back to the shit stain called school is because a few reasons good enough to get me moving. those being:
- I no longer want to be a burden on my family
- If I'm good enough with my words to get my school to "suspend" me and start falling apart because of it. might as well get paid for it.
- I wanna be a lawyer for my mom so she can finally be rid of my father, and so I can see his face when I take everything away from him. (money, home, things he owns in mexico)
and my final one being.
-see If I can actually do it. that being a broke motherfucka, with not goals, ambitions, or dreams. entering & graduating from Yale.
#213692 to #213636 - mexicaninja
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(06/08/2016) [-]
First off i just want to say fuck you to everybody else who commented, you guys aren't helping. Secondly, if you barely graduated hs then i recommend going to a community college or something similar in the area and then transferring to yale if you can. For right now though get a shitty job that pays very little and save up while you are going to a CC. Its not always about where you start, what matters the most is where you end. Its going to be a long and hard process but if you go through the motions and survive then you can do anything you want in this world.
#213684 to #213636 - anon
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(06/08/2016) [-]
Never go in anything to fail
Law in my opinion is only for a certain type of people. People who are willing to sit down and spend hundreds of hours on boring shit. It's not worth it if you don't have a passion. Life isn't a movie
#213685 to #213684 - mrmelancholy
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(06/08/2016) [-]
I agree completely. but I'm good at it and interested in it. don't like it though, but I can sit through it if I want to.

and I'm going in TO fail, I'm just EXPECTING to fail. you get what I'm say?
#213642 to #213636 - anon
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(06/07/2016) [-]
I have 4 friends all studying law to varying degrees of success, and based off of what you're saying: if that is your attitude, you will not thrive in law.
#213645 to #213642 - mrmelancholy
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(06/07/2016) [-]
That's what everyone keeps saying to me; friends, family, teachers, myself. but liked I said, my luck is retarded. like if it was written by people who write shitty action & drama stories and need an excuse for how their characters get out of situations they have no possible escape.
I can succeed (or at least survive, if just barely) BECAUSE of my attitude. stupid? yes, delusional? not unlikely, no. HIGHLY improbable? definitely.

But I at least wanna try. even if its half-assed. because that's kinda all I got left of my ass really.
I got nothing to lose, & no hope of gaining anything other than failure. and that's just fine; I have a shit attitude but a will that wont let me fall even if I wanted to with all my heart (which I have tried on multiple occasions, fall I mean) and luck so stupid that it if a train were going to hit me with no hope of avoiding 'it would derail because it hit part a dead animal 'missing me completely.

even if I can't thrive. I'll at least be a dry patch that at least tried to grow.
#213656 to #213645 - sugoi
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(06/07/2016) [-]
I don't believe you.

You will guaranteed fail with an attitude like that, believing solely on luck. Go send an application by all means but for gods sake don't put it up as some kind of last resort for happiness. There is a fuckload of other things you can do as a backup plan, just giving up after one failure is just gunna get you more fucking depressed.
#213683 to #213656 - mrmelancholy
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(06/08/2016) [-]
you did read what I said, right? I'm not in this for happiness. I just wanna make something of myself. even if fail, that's okay. I having nothing to gain or lose to begin with, I'll just be in the same place from where I started from.

nowhere.

and I'm asking how I can get some grant(s) and scholarship(s) to even think of achieving this. even if I'm going off luck; like religion, you gotta believe in something, even if it is nothing.

and thanks for not believing in me. that kinda why I can even think that I can succeed at something in life, 'cause there's no pressure or expectations for me at all. making it a whole lot easier for me in the longer.
(and I'm not being sarcastic with you, it was this kinda belief that allowed me the freedom to move to being with 'cause people weren't focusing on me and just expecting me to fail in the long run. and not seeing that I actually manged to drag my ass across the finish line.)

plus I do have some back up plans (though not great or easy/achievable mind you.) I stated them in my long ass post above.
#213687 to #213683 - sugoi
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(06/08/2016) [-]
Failure isn't a success you're acting like it is with the "at least i tried" attitude which is pathetic.

You have nothing to gain or to lose, just by saying that you should know you're an idiot. You gain access to a high class university and a chance to become a lawyer, you lose nothing but you gain a lot but apparently you didn't realize this? Or maybe you're just showing your true colors and again you're doing this just to feel better about yourself so that when people ask what you're doing now with your life you can say "well I tried to get into yale but I failed" and not feel bad about it.

You're going nowhere and it's all your fault.

By doing well in school your school would have recognized you and recommended you for scholarships and grants, now you have to search them out yourself most likely through google.

You're welcome.
#213638 to #213636 - alexanderburns
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(06/07/2016) [-]
This is probably a bit much to say to a person but I'm gonna do it any way.

Sentence two and on of this lead me to believe there is no fucking chance of you getting into law school.
#213639 to #213638 - mrmelancholy
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(06/07/2016) [-]
kinda figured. but hey. at least got try. even if my chances are impossible. if that makes any sense
#213637 to #213636 - mrmelancholy
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(06/07/2016) [-]
So if any one knows how I can get a full scholarship(s) and grant(s) to even achieve this it would be much appreciated. if law doesn't work out. than being a doctor, therapist/psychiatrist, detective, or physical/massage therapist would work too since I'm also good in those fields as well. got get that green somehow, right?

I'm also pretty good at writing. apparently. so any advice on how to start and work with that would also be welcome. and if you managed to read through all this ranting & raving shit.

Thanks.
#213633 - anon
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(06/07/2016) [-]
GIF
Guy I'm talking to is so overly emotional and will take a normal conversation and then just nose dive into some emotional bullshit. example:
Him: Hey
Me: Hello!
Him: what r u doing?
Me: Not much, just got back from practice. You?
Him: Thinking about how fucking dark my mind is sometimes and wishing I could escape. Its going to devour me whole one day.

Like what the hell do I say to shit like this???
#213670 to #213633 - icefried
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(06/07/2016) [-]
"join the club"
#213635 to #213633 - sugoi
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(06/07/2016) [-]
"That sounds nice."
#213634 to #213633 - alexanderburns
Reply 0
(06/07/2016) [-]
I think the best way to respond is probably to not
#213640 to #213634 - burpy
Reply 0
(06/07/2016) [-]
"Why aren't you responding? Are you just ignoring me?"
#213629 - yanksfan
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(06/07/2016) [-]
So, my 21st birthday is coming up on Saturday... and I haven't had any friends since high school (I'm shy and probably have social anxiety). I don't party, I don't go out and drink, I just work and go home everyday and sit in my room.

My mom of all people has offered to take me to a music studio that apparently has shows on the weekends and is BYOB.

I know it's lame and weird to go out with your mom on your 21st birthday to drink and see a band, but I'm kinda looking at it as a chance to get out of my shell. I'm pretty sick and tired of having the same routine everyday with no friends and no fun, but the idea of getting out of my comfort zone really makes me nervous to go out.

So should I take the offer?
#213844 to #213629 - thedudeistheman
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(06/11/2016) [-]
Hope I'm not too late for this one.

I'm very similar. Sometimes (more often then I'd like to admit), I have a hard time just asking my friends to hang out, or even talking to them in general.

Let your mom take you to the music studio for your birthday.

I've had a number of situations fairly recently where I had to do something simple and I just had to finally push myself to do it. I won't lie, there was some initial internal recoil, but once I began doing whatever it is I had to do, I realized it was for the better.

I won't pretend like I'm completely changed, but you can use this experience later on down the line as encouragement when you need it.

Have a good birthday!
#213653 to #213629 - rokkai
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(06/07/2016) [-]
the awkwardness will fade away in time. but you gotta get out of your comfort zone if you want something which is in that very zone.
#213631 to #213629 - sugoi
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(06/07/2016) [-]
"getting out of my comfort zone really makes me nervous"

You mean to say getting out of your comfort zone makes you uncomfortable? Color me surprised.

Just go.
#213630 to #213629 - zerositnator
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(06/07/2016) [-]
I think you answered your own question there, bud. Well let's look at it this way: if you decline, you don't have to worry about being embarrassed about spending time with someone who obviously loves and cares for you enough to see you happy and trying to get you to be more social and you can continue to be a shut-in and continue being an outcast.

OR

You can go out, have fun, spend some quality time with your mom and generally have a good time on your birthday. As a person who likes to think of himself as an introvert, the best thing you can do is try to put yourself out there as much as you can. You have social anxiety because you don't know how to be around people, and you can fix that by being around people more often. Also take note that it doesn't mean you'll just be hanging out with your mom. I'm sure there will be other people you can try to hang out with and click. Hell, maybe you'll find a date, who knows? You won't know until you try.

If you keep the mindset that you don't want to embarrass yourself, you aren't going to accomplish anything in life. As humans, we must go outside our comfort zones sometimes to truly see what our unlimited potential has in store for us. Give it a go, mate.


And Happy Birthday!
#213622 - thesunpraiser ONLINE
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(06/07/2016) [-]
I need help with a thing involving a girl. Before I type a bunch of shit out, I'm going to make sure it won't be a waste of time. If anyone wants more details, I'll explain further.
#213623 to #213622 - anon
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(06/07/2016) [-]
Go for it man, that's why people are on this board.
#213624 to #213623 - thesunpraiser ONLINE
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(06/07/2016) [-]
Thanks, anon. So there's this girl I've got feelings for, I really only see her twice a week. Thing is, she's impossible to get a read on. I like to think I'm pretty good at reading body language, but with her it's incredibly frustrating. I never know if she's saying what she means. Because of this, I don't know whether she reciprocates my feelings. I've been pursuing her for about a year now, we've got plans to go to a concert next month. I asked if I could give her a call so we could make plans to hang out sometime. She hesitantly agreed, saying she didn't know that we'd hang out. I'm absolutely terrible at approaching her, I get nervous and can't think straight. I guess I'm just looking for tips to make it easier to talk to her. Or something. Kill take anything, honestly.
#213647 to #213624 - icefried
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(06/07/2016) [-]
>1 year
it's too late.

For future reference, don't try to read them just go for it. The sooner the better.
#213648 to #213647 - thesunpraiser ONLINE
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(06/07/2016) [-]
I have tried to "just go for it."
Shit never works.
#213649 to #213648 - icefried
Reply 0
(06/07/2016) [-]
There's no guaranteed method sadly.
The good side about "just go for it" is that you can go through a lot of girls really quickly, eventually you're bound find one.
Bad side is it's basically RNG as to whether you'll find someone you actually like.

But what i know for sure doesn't work is being too slow about it. That's a guaranteed way to fail, especially in younger years.
#213650 to #213649 - thesunpraiser ONLINE
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(06/07/2016) [-]
Well, I appreciate you taking the time, mate.
#213625 to #213624 - thesunpraiser ONLINE
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(06/07/2016) [-]
I'll take*
Fucking autocorrect.
#213626 to #213625 - zerositnator
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Well it's obvious to me you like her if everything you said is true. That in it's own way is a good thing.

Now, if she truly did not think you guys weren't going to hang out, that could mean one of two things: she thought you guys were so different that there was no way you'd guys would do so or that she didn't want to hang out at all. I'm willing to bet she means the first option because no one is that cold to be option 2. And if she is, you should steer clear all together.

If you take all that into account, I say your chances are pretty good that you guys will be friends. A couple, no exactly. It sounds like to me you guys haven't passed the threshold of that yet. It's best to try and get to know each other first (or at least to the point to where you can read her body language sufficiently) and then you go all in and ask her out.

Just my take.
#213628 to #213626 - thesunpraiser ONLINE
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(06/07/2016) [-]
I appreciate your input. Cheers.
#213615 - lusir
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(06/06/2016) [-]
Hey guys, I am travelling to Norfolk, VA in two weeks and I am looking for advice in airport car rentals. We want to rent a car for 2-3 days. Is there anything I should look out for? What company is the best in providing reliable cars? It´s my first time in the states. Thank you a lot.
#213657 to #213615 - justamatt
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(06/07/2016) [-]
First time in the states and you choose Norfolk?
Sorry man... How did you get stuck here?
I'm in Suffolk just west of there. Traffic sucks. Crime sucks further east that way. At least there is some stuff to do, albeit not much.

I don't have much input in the way of car rentals, but if you need help on directions or some attractions let me know.
#213668 to #213657 - lusir
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(06/07/2016) [-]
I did not choose the location, I am just tagging along with my dad for work, we will be spending around 2-3 days in Norfolk. I am not looking for some special amusement, I just want to to go shopping and walk around the city to kill time
#213608 - bobvonbobby
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(06/06/2016) [-]
Hey everybody, I'm going to be studying abroad in france for a month. I was wondering if there were any native people here that could give me advice on the best way to enjoy my time there, or anybody who has gone abroad, what advice they could give?
#213659 to #213608 - ljxjlos ONLINE
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(06/07/2016) [-]
I´ve been working at a library in france for a while...can´t help much but some short tips:
If you want to make friends: Talk french. French people, even the nicest ones are rather elitist and a bit racist from my experience. Once they saw you trying to speek french you can ask them to speak english if your french isn´t good enough, but first you should always try french.
If you´re in paris: Keep your fucking eyes open. Thieves and criminals all around.
If you, like me, are used to a strict working schedule, you´ll be a bit shocked...very positively in my case, as I´m a german who hates and detests our ideas of work being imporant above everything else. The frenchies are goddamn laid-back. Even in the city hall, people came in half an hour later, did "work" for 10 minutes and started their first coffee break right then.
#213813 to #213659 - bobvonbobby
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(06/10/2016) [-]
Thanks for the advice. I currently know zero french, but I intend to cram some on my long ass flight to Paris. I've picked up some German from a couple college courses, but I doubt that'll help me much. Well, I'll be leaving in about 7 hours. Woo hoo!
#213822 to #213813 - ljxjlos ONLINE
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(06/10/2016) [-]
Good Luck/have fun, man.

Pardonez-moi? Parlez-vous l´anglais? Je ne parle pas plus de francais
Pretty sure I wrote this wrong and it´s probably not grammatically correct either but most frenchies should be able to understand that as "Sorry, do you speak english? I don´t speak france too well/ I don´t speak too much french" - which might be enough in some cases. At least you´ll seem polite
#213874 to #213822 - bobvonbobby
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(06/11/2016) [-]
Sounds good to me. I'm currently stranded in Sweden because my second flight got cancelled due to striking pilots. Ugh. This bull shit. Thank you, though.
#213627 to #213608 - zerositnator
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I've been to France before on a few trips whether it be by vacation or college function you know. And it really depends on where you go and what you're doing really. There are some parts where it really isn't different from anywhere in the States or Canada, outside of a few cultural differences and a lot for French. Then there are a few parts where it is a lot more conservative and stereotypically French, like they hate foreigners and such, but not everyone is like that. I can tell you that the French are some of the nicest and most hospitable people I've ever met, so you shouldn't go around like you own the place. It's usually quiet and rural, more than you think, so you should just be respectful of that.

I guess all in all, just don't act like a tourist and only be there for the souvenirs and patronize people. If you embrace their culture, they'll embrace you because, unlike the rumors, they are so unbelievably nice it gets sickening sometimes lol
#213603 - faggotishshit
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(06/06/2016) [-]
Is it worth it to just an hero?

Pros/cons
#213632 to #213603 - sugoi
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(06/07/2016) [-]
Are you fucking retarded?
#213644 to #213632 - faggotishshit
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(06/07/2016) [-]
Yes
#213607 to #213603 - burpy
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#213604 to #213603 - ltbeanie
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Pros - You're dead
Cons - You're dead
#213599 - anon
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I recently asked my partner why they don't want to do anything sexual with me they haven't wanted to for about 6 months and we've been together for around 1.5 years now and we've already had sex and they said that they just haven't been in the mood but what gets me is that it's been 6 months and I think it would nearly impossible to not have a sex drive and they got pretty agitated and annoyed when I asked. What should I do/say?
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#213613 to #213599 - anon
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Basically what the other users said, bruh. If your partner doesn't want to do the do anymore then fix yourself up a bit. If still no, then leave 'em. Despite what some people might say, sex is a pretty important part of a relationship, even if it isn't everything.
#213606 to #213599 - ltbeanie
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From the amount of porn and hentai I've watched it's possible she's getting railed by somebody else.
But what do I know? I just jerk off all day.
#213602 to #213599 - anon
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You're getting cucked
#213601 to #213599 - sugoi
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Go to the gym and clean yourself up.
What they're saying is you're physically undesirable or to simplify, you don't turn them on.
#213591 - ishallsmiteyou
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(06/06/2016) [-]
Stalker knows my address. Got my number changed, filed a police report, but I'm a Canadian minor so I'm a sitting duck in terms of home defense. She's not dangerous if she's taken head on, but if she were to get the drop on me (I.E. catch me sleeping) I'd be pretty fucked. I'm a light sleeper, but I know I wouldn't wake up if she were to bust a window upstairs, slip down into the basement and come into my bedroom, at least not before it was too late. How would you guys recommend I not get murdered?


Ideas? Before anyone says it I sleep with my hunting knife under my pillow
#213611 to #213591 - anon
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Scariest Stalkers  SERIOUSLY STRANGE 16 Watch this and look at the description for a more detailed "How to Deal with a Stalker" guild.

Keep your bedroom as locked down as you can manage if you're absolutely sure she'd try and get you while you slept. If you don't sleep on the second story of your home, start. It'd be harder for her to sneak into your room that way. Deadbolt your window shut if you can and get curtains to keep her from looking in. Keep a charged taser or pepper spray within arms reach of your bed. No knives or guns unless you know how to use them. Sorry but you said you're a minor and even if you're defending yourself, you'd still get in trouble for having deadly weapons.

This is a hinge lock, they can't be picked or broken on the other side of the door and very few people know about them. They're easy to install and I always have one on my front door. They're easy enough that you could put them on your bedroom door. www.atgstores.com/latches/first-watch-security-184-flip-lock-latch_6821394.html?gclid=Cj0KEQjwvtS6BRC8pcKn8OXIg_wBEiQAqtpiz2FliEoH33jsqnoKoXnpSFL1HIcb5lWCnQz1tVr9i2gaAuuP8
#213612 to #213611 - ishallsmiteyou
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that hinge lock seems like a great idea, the lock on my bedroom door is a piece of shit in-knob lock I got for like $20.00. And since my door frame is steel I'm gonna assume that lock is gonna be able to stop just about anyone.
#213597 to #213591 - alexanderburns
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(06/06/2016) [-]
preemptive murder
#213595 to #213591 - sugoi
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(06/06/2016) [-]
Get better locks and booby trap the house.
Better locks so she can't break in and booby trap as in get some fucking cameras installed and motion sensors to alert you when someone is walking around in your house, you can activate it when you're turning in for the day.

Some strings on a can is like, a really shitty version.