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#212601 - gmaxx
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(05/09/2016) [-]
Okay, i need to activate my Windows 8. Keeps bugging me. I dont know what keygens to trust and i just bought a gaming PC, dont wanna crush it that fast
#212637 to #212601 - charizarddad
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(05/10/2016) [-]
if you are asking what to get, i used kmspico, its clean but i dont know a whole lot about it
#212600 - TheOldOakTree
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(05/09/2016) [-]
Is there anyone from Slovakia who can help me write a letter?   
My slovak grammar isnt the best, just some spell checks and overall composition
Is there anyone from Slovakia who can help me write a letter?
My slovak grammar isnt the best, just some spell checks and overall composition
#212643 to #212600 - goobyman
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(05/10/2016) [-]
try /int/
#212614 to #212600 - focalanemo
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(05/09/2016) [-]
You'd have more succes on a yahoo asks than here
#212616 to #212614 - TheOldOakTree
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(05/09/2016) [-]
seems like it
#212599 - toncheky
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(05/09/2016) [-]
Found a stray kitten. Didn't have the heart to just leave it there. Gave it some water and chopped up salami but it won't eat or drink. It meows, walks and has open eyes. It just hides but doesn't seem to scared, I can pet it, but still.
What do?
#212624 to #212599 - toncheky
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(05/09/2016) [-]
>>#212602, >>#212607, >>#212612,
He started eating and drinking. Meows for attention and calms down when he snuggles up with me. He'll be fine. Thanks for advice.
#212666 to #212624 - smartythechicken
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#212665 to #212624 - smartythechicken ONLINE
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(05/10/2016) [-]
WHAT DO YOU NAME IT
POST PICS
#212672 to #212665 - toncheky
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(05/10/2016) [-]
#212670 to #212665 - toncheky
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(05/10/2016) [-]
#212669 to #212665 - toncheky
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(05/10/2016) [-]
Haven't decided yet, maybe Felix.
#212680 to #212669 - missoracle
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(05/10/2016) [-]
Felix is a pretty awesome name.
#212689 to #212680 - toncheky
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(05/10/2016) [-]
Thanks, I'll probably leave it at that.
#212675 to #212669 - smartythechicken ONLINE
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(05/10/2016) [-]
what is his preferred profession?
#212688 to #212675 - toncheky
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(05/10/2016) [-]
Sitting in a box, being cute.
#212701 to #212688 - smartythechicken ONLINE
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(05/10/2016) [-]
WWWWWWWWWWWWWWWHHHHHHHHHHHHHAT
IS HIS FAVORITE COLORRRR
#212724 to #212701 - toncheky
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(05/10/2016) [-]
I ASKED HIM AND HE SAID BLUEEEE
#212735 to #212724 - smartythechicken ONLINE
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(05/11/2016) [-]
#212639 to #212624 - anon
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(05/10/2016) [-]
no, take it to a vet.
#212668 to #212639 - toncheky
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(05/10/2016) [-]
Taking it today for shots.
#212671 to #212668 - anon
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(05/10/2016) [-]
good boy.
#212673 to #212671 - toncheky
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(05/10/2016) [-]
is there a need for patronizing
#212612 to #212599 - thumbfortrump
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(05/09/2016) [-]
Do as anon said and take it to a vet.
#212607 to #212599 - smartythechicken ONLINE
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(05/09/2016) [-]
prepare yourself mentally, because the kitten might have to be put down.
#212602 to #212599 - anon
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(05/09/2016) [-]
go to a Vet and tell them what you told us, they'll tell you what to do after.
#212598 - warofsodom
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(05/09/2016) [-]
My drinking problem is coming back. About a year a go I was drinking a bottle of whisky on average, and it was rare to go a day without any alcohol without craving it like crazy. I cut down heavily this year, but now I'm drinking much more common again. Doesn't help that my friends always meet to drink, party, and go to the pub. I need to cut down, it's costing a lot, and I'm loosing a lot of weight as I drink, and then don't eat. Help.
#212628 to #212598 - whitechino
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(05/10/2016) [-]
You want to cut your drinking, try drinking something new every time you do.
It'll be less of a chore. If you're sharing drinks and cases with your bros, then tell them you just want to relax a bit. If you're losing weight, than it's not the liquor, it's you.
#212611 to #212598 - thumbfortrump
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(05/09/2016) [-]
Talk to your GP, he will be able to guide you. If you really want to get over it, that's the place to start. But the first steps to ditch the alcohol have to be taken by you.
There are also several hotlines to call in most countries.
#212606 to #212598 - smartythechicken ONLINE
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(05/09/2016) [-]
this is your fucking problem. noone is gonna sugarcoat this shit for you. get over it.

you want to stop drinking? then stop being a little bitch and stop drinking
#212610 to #212606 - thumbfortrump
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(05/09/2016) [-]
>"this is your fucking problem"

no shit, good advice. Keep it up fam.
#212609 to #212606 - warofsodom
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(05/09/2016) [-]
I'm cured. Thanks.
#212596 - anon
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(05/09/2016) [-]
How is it I can be so successful and have my family proud of me but still feel like such a shitbag? I have a decent job, I'm living somewhere I've always wanted to go and I've seen, done and achieved more than so many people I have known.Yet still I feel like dirt and can't even motivete myself to eat regularly. What the fuck is wrong with me?
#212748 to #212596 - anon
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(05/12/2016) [-]
You are trying to convince yourself that your troubles mean nothing because other people have it worse. Don't do that. Pain is relative, anon.
#212631 to #212596 - charizarddad
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(05/10/2016) [-]
do you have fun doing anything? do you have any hobbies?
#212605 to #212596 - smartythechicken ONLINE
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(05/09/2016) [-]
gotta look into yourself mane
psychological: if the prollum is psychological try askin yaself some questions.
why are you feeling like this? what is the origin? why is the origin like this? what can you do to fix this? have you gone through something like this before? is it because of romanticism/sex?

physical: maybe you ate something that fucked up your stomach bacteria. maybe you're on antibiotics and it did something to your brain, or it did something to a part of your body which, in turn did something to your brain. maybe you havent had the daily fap. maybe you went through some biological change and your taste buds have changed, meaning that you dont get the dopamine you need to want to feel good?

dont take drugs tho
#212595 - anon
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(05/09/2016) [-]
I often get angry and have feelings of depression when summer rolls around.

pls explain.
#212663 to #212595 - minutes
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(05/10/2016) [-]
Do you have very few social contacts? People tend to be more outgoing and happy during summer, if you are lonely that could affect you. Maybe you see all these people having fun etc. and subconciously get sad cause you don't have that. Implying that firs you ofc
#212706 to #212663 - anon
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(05/10/2016) [-]
yes, I haven't got any friends.
#212597 to #212595 - anon
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(05/09/2016) [-]
Seasonal affective disorder? Talk to your doctor, meet with a psychiatrist, just seek help so you can take care of yourself properly.
#212588 - anon
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(05/09/2016) [-]
#212587 - PopcornViking
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(05/09/2016) [-]
im really bad at talking to people one on one (with the exception of my parents and cousins)
even with bros

im great at group discussions and more often times than not ill lead them and if im not, ill always interject either funny or relevant comments

but when talking one on one i always get really awkward
like i have absolutely no fear of asking a girl out
but i fear of having absolutely no idea what to say if theres a silence whether it be on a date or just chilling
#212621 to #212587 - spaceking
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(05/09/2016) [-]
I have a similar problem. The easiest solution is just to ask the other person about themselves. Favorite band, sports team, hobbies etc. They'll appreciate how considerate you are, and all you have to do is listen to them. It's a win win.
#212594 to #212587 - misticalz
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(05/09/2016) [-]
understand that some times silence is okay
#212581 - kyleassante
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(05/08/2016) [-]
Inspirational AMV  This is how winners are made HD 1080p ignore the anime portion of this video, it's the only way I could find the audio, but my question is, does anyone know if there's something like this (audio wise) but done by a woman? I've seen hundred of men giving really inspirational and inspiring speeches in a forceful manner and I love it but I've never seen that done by women. I tried looking it up but all I can find is Oprah quotes and how to "build a nice booty"
#212586 to #212581 - thesuperintendent
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(05/09/2016) [-]
Spartan Ops Episode 1 Departure
Start at 3:54
#212584 to #212581 - thesuperintendent
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#212580 - anon
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(05/08/2016) [-]
Going anon for this.

Does anybody have any advice on how to deal with close relatives who are mentally ill/unstable but refuse to get help or admit to their problems?

I have an older sister who has been "crazy" our whole lives (using crazy since shes never gotten help or a diagnosis). She's been a horder for years and lives in squalor (maintains a steady job/has friends and a social life so shes kind of functioning as well).
She smokes weed every day and is a borderline alcoholic. And from what I see she gets anxiety fairly easily but reacts with anger and lashes out rather than removing herself from the situation. Just this friday she physically attacked me after we'd been out (not the first time).
She berates me often and usually tries to project her issues onto me if I bring them up, this has been going on since we were kids. She gets upset when I don't return her phone calls or withdraws from her life for periods but I don't know how many more years of this I can take. I don't even feel like I love her anymore, I'm so tired of dealing with all her anger and hatred. I just want her to go away.
At the same time she'll break down every now and then and cry cause I'm "all she'll have left after our parents are gone". I'm afraid of what she might do if I cut off all contact with her.

Does anyone have any relatives like this? What do?

TL;DR My sister is an angry, alcholic horder who takes it out on me. Can't deal. Help.
#212575 - shaunata
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(05/08/2016) [-]
This may seem like a little thing, but it always bothers me. I live in a part of new york where there are no dangerous snakes, and my neighbor that lives across the street from me, her and her kids will ignorantly kill it in various ways, like chopping it up with a shovel for example. I believe there is no need to recklessly kill wild life, so what should i do? Is there a law that forbids you from killing non venomous snakes in new york? Should I just catch and release snakes I find on my property to the local woods so my neighbor doesn't get to them first? Any advice?
#212583 to #212575 - sugoi
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(05/09/2016) [-]
Do nothing.
It's their business.
#212576 to #212575 - focalanemo
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(05/08/2016) [-]
animal brutality is already forbidden
#212574 - thumbfortrump
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#212567 - notsoninja
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(05/08/2016) [-]
Alright, i came up to see some old friends. We decided to head to a strip club for shits and giggles, friends younger brother was our designated driver He's 19 the club is a bit of a drive, about an hour or so. Half way there he nearly runs a red light, had to slam his breaks to stop in time.

Arrive at the club, all goes well drinks tits ect ect.

On the way back home hes complaining about how tired he is, but wont let anyone drive, One of the friends only had about 2 beers over 3-4 hours so he was still legally able to drive. so this kid fucking takes off of an round about onto a highway and guns it, topped out at 100mph with three people me and two other bros, screaming at him to stop he doesn't finally slows down after a min or two.

I'm fuming, strait pissed as well as another guy. after we arrive at the house i'm still salty i tell him off on my way out of the car. It was a rage. Told him that the only reason hes not chewing on pavement is the fact hes related to my friend he looks at me and smiles, loose my shit even more and smack the fuck out of him.

Now to recap, the driver's brother wanted us to go even though we were tight on money, so he paid out way in and for a lap-dance. Grand total of 35$ he also bought a pitcher, about 8$,

but i bought beer before hand and at the bar, a six pack for 8$ and 8 pack for 12$ and a couple pitchers for everybody, i also didn't take any more money from him throughout the night. i got my own singles and ended up running about 80$ total so i didn't break his wallet .

So now he's piss of coarse, i smacked his brother and he thinks i disrespected him because he paid my way in and for the night.

All because his brother was a reckless driver and put all 4 of my best friends at risk just because he fucking felt like it. now i lost one of my only friends because of it. Was i right? should i have just let it go? did i fuck up, or was it justified?

Sorry for the long read. any words would help i'm more sad than pissed at this point.

also sorry for the bad grammar/punctuation i typed this quick.
#212660 to #212567 - missoracle
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(05/10/2016) [-]
The asshole put not only you, but also your friends at risk, I'd say it's certainly justified to hit him. I'd have to. Your friends just being protective of his brother and chances are his brother is probably playing the victim.
#212578 to #212567 - charizarddad
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(05/08/2016) [-]
id say its justified.
#212573 to #212567 - thumbfortrump
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(05/08/2016) [-]
If he did what you says he did, I would've done the same.
#212572 to #212567 - braveblue
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(05/08/2016) [-]
I mean, smacking him was kind of the wrong thing to do, but chewing him out would have been good i think. I didn't think you had to resort to violence but i'd be pissed off if my life was put at risk because of someone elses stupid decisions. So maybe you put something into his head but I don't think you were wrong at all except for the violence thing,
#212566 - anon
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(05/08/2016) [-]
So my friends branded me about 3 months ago with a harry potter shaped s on my left pec just under my armpit and now theres a scar there im using creams and stuff and its getting alot better but my parents are bound to find out soon enough and ill be totally fine if i can come up with an excuse as to how an s shaped scar got there so if anyone can think of any ideas that would be great.
#212585 to #212566 - sugoi
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(05/09/2016) [-]
You got branded
Its a weird birthmark
It was a university hazing ritual
You've joined a satanic cult
You really wanna be superman but on the down low
#212553 - dehumanizer ONLINE
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(05/08/2016) [-]
"Just ask her out bro, whats the worst thing that could happen?, just be yourself"

(^:
#212661 to #212553 - missoracle
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(05/10/2016) [-]
This isn't satire? Well damn. Look dude, this is coming from a girl, this came across creepy as a shit. Seriously, this kind of thing comes across as stalker.

To get a girl, do not stalk them, lose the fedora and trenchcoat unless this is the 1950s and you're a detective and never compare them to another girl, also the worship for a stranger is very creepy and definitely stalkerish.
#212677 to #212661 - dehumanizer ONLINE
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(05/10/2016) [-]
the problem is that he is very probably very lonely and desperate and doesent know what to say, fuck he is a milion miles away from me because he even had the attitude to approach the girl
#212644 to #212553 - goobyman
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(05/10/2016) [-]
>trenchcoat, fedora
alright this will be a ride
#1 don't compare her to other girls.
#2 stop treating women like they are objects
#3 everything she said was correct. take it as advice, not sassyness. it's the truth.
#212678 to #212644 - dehumanizer ONLINE
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(05/10/2016) [-]
#2 stop treating women like they are objects
the fuck would this mean

#212681 to #212678 - goobyman
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(05/10/2016) [-]
objects as in something you can "own", or as an object of sexual desire. It's another person that you want to share your life with, and they should do the same for you. You share interests. you share ideas, ideologies. An object relationship is one, in which you are controlling, or trying "to have" someone.
You don't get a girlfriend by being pushy, you let it rest and give them time to respond. If they don't, ignore them and try someone else. Go outside, talk to people. Make friends. Find people with shared interests.
Go online dating. find someone as average as you.
Good luck
#212682 to #212681 - dehumanizer ONLINE
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(05/10/2016) [-]
well he is obviously desperate and socialy awkward, might aswell tell an alcoholic to "just stop drinking".
#212683 to #212682 - goobyman
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(05/10/2016) [-]
so why exactly did you post someone else's cringe post here?
it's not the same, brother. If people have psychological problems, go find a psychiatrist. not some fucking /advice/ or /adv/ board, it won't help
#212684 to #212683 - dehumanizer ONLINE
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(05/10/2016) [-]
because the "just ask her out / be yourself" tier of advice normies give is complete crap, that is an example why

first you are implying that i can afford a psychiartist, seccond that it would help and third is the whole finding part, like telling someone with broken legs they should just walk to the hospital
#212685 to #212684 - goobyman
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(05/10/2016) [-]
except... you know, it's more like telling someone who lives in a hospital to go to the hospital
you're online
try online dating. go through everyone you can find. spark a conversation. it's obvious to be yourself. no shit.
except, you know what: don't be yourself. don't ask her out.
Get to know someone online. then maybe meet up. go to coffee dates, go to the movies, walk in the park.
Stop sitting on your ass like that dude and going to fucking hottopic or whatever to pick up cashiers. it will not work. Go online, fucking sign up for online dating, and stop crying your bitch-ass out about how you can't get a gf because you're too fucking lazy to actually improve yourself as a person, or even too lazy to go online dating.
#212686 to #212685 - dehumanizer ONLINE
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(05/10/2016) [-]
except when you live in a tiny town in a small country, and remember cant meet people from other towns because no money
#212687 to #212686 - goobyman
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(05/10/2016) [-]
get a job. it'll take your mind off bullshit. now you have money. go travel.
and yeah, it is as easy as "getting a job". not a career. a job. summer job. Go help at the gas station. tech service. cashier. They'll hire anyone
#212690 to #212687 - dehumanizer ONLINE
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(05/10/2016) [-]
did i forget to mention high unemplyoment rates and the importance of knowing the right people?

no job can distract me from the feelings i get when i see cute girls irl and on the internet
#212691 to #212690 - goobyman
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(05/10/2016) [-]
it's not supposed to distract you. it's supposed to give you money. it's not a distraction, it's a tool to accomplish a task.
#212692 to #212691 - dehumanizer ONLINE
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(05/10/2016) [-]
fear of rejection and feeling of incompatence does not go away in online dating, bah talking to normies is pointless, you will never understand
#212693 to #212692 - goobyman
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(05/10/2016) [-]
ok. you are rejected. now, why exactly is this bad? why are you afraid of it?
#212695 to #212693 - dehumanizer ONLINE
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(05/10/2016) [-]
confidence is harmed, feel unconfident because never had a gf, never had a gf cuz of rejections and low confidence, repeat till infinity
#212696 to #212695 - goobyman
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(05/10/2016) [-]
jesus christ can you not be a sad sack of shit and get yourself together for 5 minutes?
Go online dating. find someone completely average. distance doesn't matter for now. Fucking talk to them. You can clearly talk to me. it's just text. Go make an online conversation. get to know them, then take the next step and meet up. it's not instantly "will you be my girlfriend". it doesn't work. you need to have at least some time meeting before that. It doesn't happen, relationships for over time. When you've gone out a few times, you can ask her to be your girlfriend.
#212697 to #212696 - dehumanizer ONLINE
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(05/10/2016) [-]
im not spaghetting because i dont plan to take you in a date and interacting with someone you like is troubling while interacting with someone you dont is EZPZ
#212698 to #212697 - goobyman
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(05/10/2016) [-]
just get used to it. of course it's troubling. over time, you'll get used to it. you will always be nervous, but as you get to know someone, you will be more and more comfortable.
Just fucking try, at least?
#212699 to #212698 - dehumanizer ONLINE
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(05/10/2016) [-]
niggar i am litteraly getting nervous just from obsessing over fantasies and hypothetical situations

online dating is shit, i want the real life stuff like the normies i see all the time
#212714 to #212699 - goobyman
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(05/10/2016) [-]
you are far beyond saving then, if you are this fucked in the head. If you truly believe it would not work, I can't and don't want to change you.
Good luck
#212715 to #212714 - dehumanizer ONLINE
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What i need is for 1 (one) qt girl, to show intrest and initiate contact, give me a chance, give me hope...
What i need is for 1 (one) qt girl, to show intrest and initiate contact, give me a chance, give me hope...
#212712 to #212699 - goobyman
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(05/10/2016) [-]
the whole problem is that you need professional help
#212713 to #212712 - dehumanizer ONLINE
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(05/10/2016) [-]
i doubt that would work
#212710 to #212699 - goobyman
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(05/10/2016) [-]
well, fuck this thread
i'm out of here
go move out and find new friends. just go fucking stand up for yourself. if you have a dating profile and others find it and make fun of you, so fucking what. who even gives a shit. can you stop being a dickless pussy for 2 seconds and just man up, get over it, and laugh with them.
good day.
#212711 to #212710 - dehumanizer ONLINE
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(05/10/2016) [-]
The whole problem is that it is irrational.
#212707 to #212699 - goobyman
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(05/10/2016) [-]
>>#212705
your loss then. If you don't want to, I can't help you.
You keep talking like this and it makes me think you have no friends. If you do, my apologies, but I just can't believe anything bad would happen even if you had a dating profile or a facebook

typical skinhead nazi as well :^) Too shy to talk to girls, yet proclaims to be such a great facist and oohh so scary and listen to me hitler was right :^)
#212709 to #212707 - dehumanizer ONLINE
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i do but they legit make fun of me for beeing womanless

i just have it to scare normies but "proclaims to be such a great facist and oohh so scary and listen to me hitler was right " is true
#212703 to #212699 - goobyman
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(05/10/2016) [-]
accept how you can't be a normie with the psychological problems you have. just do online dating. look for very average girls.
#212705 to #212703 - dehumanizer ONLINE
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(05/10/2016) [-]
nigga im too shy for a facebook and go through many lengths to keep my irl information hidden here, i can not bear to even register a dating profile
#212561 to #212553 - anon
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(05/08/2016) [-]
GIF
always a pleasure to see you post.
#212563 to #212561 - dehumanizer ONLINE
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(05/08/2016) [-]
Keeping it real, yo.
#212555 to #212553 - sugoi
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(05/08/2016) [-]
Asking her out does not mean to spaghetti everywhere like a spaghettonuke
#212557 to #212555 - dehumanizer ONLINE
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(05/08/2016) [-]
>"Just be yourself."

???
#212558 to #212557 - sugoi
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(05/08/2016) [-]
I never said that.
I say "Act like the man you want to be not the man you are, because what you are is a piece of shit filled with spaghetti."
#212559 to #212558 - dehumanizer ONLINE
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(05/08/2016) [-]
well thats just stupid
#212560 to #212559 - sugoi
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(05/08/2016) [-]
Well with my advice your picture there would not happen.
#212562 to #212560 - dehumanizer ONLINE
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(05/08/2016) [-]
there would be more rapes
#212564 to #212562 - sugoi
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(05/08/2016) [-]
I dont understand, are you saying everyone wants to be a rapist?
#212565 to #212564 - dehumanizer ONLINE
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(05/08/2016) [-]
Thats the only way a spaghetti can get a punami.
#212582 to #212565 - sugoi
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(05/09/2016) [-]
Good point.
I take it back, execute the spaghetti!
#212554 to #212553 - kober
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(05/08/2016) [-]
To be fair, the worst thing that could happen is rejection, which, if anything, is constructive and not a big deal.
#212556 to #212554 - dehumanizer ONLINE
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(05/08/2016) [-]
did you even read the post?
#212568 to #212556 - kober
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(05/08/2016) [-]
Yes, hence "to be fair," which typically precedes arguments opposing yours; quite frankly, it's completely moronic to assume that everybody, even Christopher here, acting like themselves is always going to be rejected based off of this instance. 'Kitty' was kind enough to provide insight as to why she was rejecting him thereby enabling our trenchcoat, fedora-wearing friend to learn part of his mistakes outside of not being Kitty's type. There's a girl out there for everyone, it simply wasn't Kitty for Christopher.
#212569 to #212568 - dehumanizer ONLINE
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(05/08/2016) [-]
your post was fine and legitimate untill >" There's a girl out there for everyone "

dude Santa Clause is more plausible than that statement
#212570 to #212569 - kober
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(05/08/2016) [-]
There are insecure females with incredibly low standards just like there are males.
#212571 to #212570 - dehumanizer ONLINE
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(05/08/2016) [-]
That does not mean they will hook up.
#212646 to #212571 - goobyman
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(05/10/2016) [-]
yes, they will. if you're ugly as shit, stop looking for the hottest of hotties. look for average girls. look for low average girls. you can't expect someone beautiful to like you when you look are wearing a fedora, trenchcoat, probably not well kempt hair and face, not showering. that sort of thing. Approach normal girls. Go on dating sites to look for NORMAL girls. no hot girl is ever going to like you, and that is what you think a girl for everyone is. guess what bucko, the real world doesn't consist of flowers and dandelions. girls are not objects, they are human beings.
#212676 to #212646 - dehumanizer ONLINE
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(05/10/2016) [-]
that obviously aint me and the whole issure here is not the looks but the attitude, some people have it, some dont
#212552 - anon
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(05/08/2016) [-]
I hadn't talked to anyone that wasn't a family member for about 3 months and recently I decided to start talking to someone that was/is a friend but I feel this almost guilt like feeling for doing it.

like I don't really want to talk or be social at all.

Is this me realizing I actually want to be alone?
#212549 - joshlol
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(05/08/2016) [-]
Is it better to embrace sadness or strive to be happy?

Is acceptance a form a happiness?
#212623 to #212549 - oxidoferroso
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(05/09/2016) [-]
Accepting your sadness will make you happy. But then you won't be sad no more, so you will have to stop accepting it, losing your happiness again. And then your will accept your never will be happy, thus becoming happy, but then
#212622 to #212549 - rokkai
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(05/09/2016) [-]
don't let stuff get to you but when they do, embrace it. you can't runaway from it and if you try, that would make things worse.
#212579 to #212549 - charizarddad
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(05/08/2016) [-]
it isnt that black and white. if you dont strive to be happy, then what is the point of living? you have to have hope somewhere.

no.
#212550 to #212549 - anon
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(05/08/2016) [-]
I don't know and I don't care.
#212540 - spaceking
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(05/08/2016) [-]
I got a job today guys! I applied for a back of the house position at a nice hotel in my town, and ended up getting hired as a server. I have restaurant experience, but never front of the house stuff. I feel like I'll do well, but do any waiters/waitresses have any tips and or advice?
#212539 - anon
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(05/08/2016) [-]
I don't normally post, but I could really use your guys' help.
To start off with, the relationship that I'm asking about has been going on for about a decade and there are kids. We have broken up and gotten back together gay purple horse, ce (but both times before we were married, and it was once each).
We've been having a bit of a rough time lately, just going through the motions in life and with each other. Affection has dipped down to two kisses a day and sex 1-2 a month, if that.
We've had a talk just a bit ago about how we both feel disconnected from each other, and that we're not really sure what to do about it. I have been questioning my own feelings for him for a few months now, but have been coming up blanks.
Now, for the first time in almost a year (and at my behest) he is spending a full weekend away. And I realized, when he called to check on how I was doing, that I haven't missed him at all.
Now, what I'm asking for help with is; Is it normal to not miss the person you're with when they're away? And, does it mean that I don't love him anymore?

All opinions and takes are welcome.
#212541 to #212539 - braveblue
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(05/08/2016) [-]
I honestly think, that you guys have just lost your touch with eachother and maybe you don't love him as much.
#212536 - anon
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(05/07/2016) [-]
How do I get rid of these forever alone feelings and insecure thoughts?

I sometimes think I'll be alone forever and it's crushing me all the time because I have nobody to talk to.
#212551 to #212536 - joshlol
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(05/08/2016) [-]
let me know if you find out
#212547 to #212536 - sugoi
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(05/08/2016) [-]
By getting a girlfriend.
#212546 to #212536 - dehumanizer ONLINE
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(05/08/2016) [-]
you dont, you are alone, welcome to forever
#212543 to #212536 - whitechino
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(05/08/2016) [-]
you can chat with me too, my dude.
#212538 to #212536 - rokkai
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(05/07/2016) [-]
it's probably because as you said, you have nobody to talk to. you can add me to your friends and hmu when you feel down, m8.