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#214964 - lostminder
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(07/09/2016) [-]
Babysitting a kid with add, send help please.
#214963 - aleypal
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(07/09/2016) [-]
ive seen stuff on fj before about why this thought process is flawed, but I can't remember the arguments made for and against it. Anyone wanna enlighten me so I can respond to these guys?
#215005 to #214963 - confusedasian
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(07/11/2016) [-]
For the girl:

Go look up statistics and see just what race is killing black people the most. Go on.


For the black guy:

Africans sold other Africans to slavery.
#214959 - feelythefeel
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(07/09/2016) [-]
Is business admin a good idea for college?
#214962 to #214959 - anon
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(07/09/2016) [-]
If it translates to diverse job options, then yes it's a good idea.
#214928 - joshlol
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#214935 to #214928 - drastronomy
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(07/09/2016) [-]
You dont obtain
You take
#214934 to #214928 - platinumaltaria ONLINE
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(07/09/2016) [-]
That pic wasn't related at all!
Also you go outside and talk to other humans.
#214937 to #214934 - joshlol
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(07/09/2016) [-]
>That pic wasn't related at all!

pic related is you right now

:^)
#214975 to #214937 - minutes ONLINE
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(07/10/2016) [-]
You "just" have to be situational to meet new people. Put yourself out there (I know that this is basic tier advice), which just means that you actually do something in your free time that requires you to leave the house and move around people. Even just taking a bus regularly is basically putting yourself out there, you need chances to meet people and that can be pretty much anywhere. Create your own opportunities, if you find any way to talk to someone just do it. For example, you're in a very crowded bus (I am sticking to that example situation for now) and you get pressed against the wall just like others. There is a girl right in front of you, in the same uncomfortable situation. Now just make some random comment like "I wish some people would finally get off this fucking bus" or whatever. Bonus points if it makes the person laugh. Now if she reacts by talking back, do some small talk, start asking questions, telling stuff etc. normal conversation. Talk to random people like you already know them and they will usually like you. If that person doesn't want to talk it doesn't matter cause it's just one of endless opportunities to strike up a conversation and he/she is just as good as any other conversation partner since you know nothing about them.
Look at the situation, ask yourself what could be a possible way to start a conversation and if you find something that might work, try it.

Another bus example from my personal life:
I take the bus to university 5 times a week usually at 8 AM. There is a girl that is almost always there too at that time and it looked like she goes to the same university as me. So while waiting for the bus on the way back one day I am standing next to her. The bus is pretty much always late at this day and it happens to be late again. So I just glance at her and say "damn I wish that fucking bus could be one time just once". She smiles and we start talking about the bus lines, I make her laugh a bit and then just ask her what her major is, we talk a little and get along well. When the bus finally comes I just went in and sat somewhere. That way I give her the option to either sit somewhere else and end the conversation or come to me and continue. I am not pushing it on her by placing myself next to her, I give her a choice. And just as expected she comes to sit next to me and we continue. At the end of the ride before she has to go off she gave me her number. tata now you have a new contact to interact with. Note that I am by no means good looking and also am a fucking super manlet at 5'4.

If you never approach people, why should they approach you? Don't wait for others to make the first move, do it yourself. It's like any other skill, you suck at it first but through experience get a lot better at it. Good luck
#214979 to #214975 - joshlol
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(07/10/2016) [-]
my area isn't the nicest, busses here are full of druggies / criminals / old people
not the same as taking the bus in a nice area
besides I just bought a new car I'm driving whenever I get the chance

I regret not being more social while I was at uni, all those times slipped through my fingers now

I dunno man I just don't have the confidence to start talking to a stranger because I'll probably just be annoying them or they are busy with their own shit
#214980 to #214979 - minutes ONLINE
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(07/10/2016) [-]
The bus was just an example. Any situation with people works. Waiting in line at the grocery store, clubs, events, bars whatever. Just walking outside already would work.

Spend time in nicer areas then. Besides, even in shitty areas there are nice people. Where I live basically every second person is either a criminal or an idiot and it still works.

Confidence can be aquired, through more experience and positive reinforcement. Just think about it that way. If your boss told you to do some important analysis or whatever and you never did it before, you're not gonna be confident in your ability to do it. Now when you did it a hundred times you're not gonna feel that concious anymore. And with every single good conversation, with every smile you get you get more confident. Besides, you're a pretty funny individual. Yea I know meme humor isn't the same as real life humor. But if you can be funny here, you can be funny anywhere. Seriously dude. It's never gonna get better if you don't try
#214981 to #214980 - joshlol
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(07/10/2016) [-]
Are you american?
I think culture is just different over there, here we don't really talk to each other much when waiting in line

And I don't wanna be the guy who goes to clubs or bars alone, that would just make me feel like a loser

maybe I'll go out for a walk later today if the weather gets better but no one's going to chat to me
#214982 to #214981 - minutes ONLINE
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(07/10/2016) [-]
I am german. We don't usually talk much while waiting in line either. Doesn't mean people wouldn't want to. Some small talk is always possible and once you get along well with each other talking gets easy.

A walk is not exactly the best/easiest way to meet people but still possible. For example if you meet someone with a dog, you could pet the dog or something, ask a question about it or make a remark etc. and get to talking. stuff like that
#214983 to #214982 - joshlol
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(07/10/2016) [-]
I think that would work better if I had a dog too,
otherwise it might be seen as creepy
#214956 to #214937 - platinumaltaria ONLINE
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(07/09/2016) [-]
>>#214955
Josh you gots to stop beating yourself up.
#214957 to #214956 - joshlol
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(07/09/2016) [-]
#214958 to #214957 - platinumaltaria ONLINE
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(07/09/2016) [-]
pls be love.
#214938 to #214937 - platinumaltaria ONLINE
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(07/09/2016) [-]
If I looked like that I'd be a happy people...
Seriously man, you deserve happiness.
#214939 to #214938 - joshlol
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(07/09/2016) [-]
then why am I borderline suicidal
#214940 to #214939 - platinumaltaria ONLINE
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(07/09/2016) [-]
What's so bad about you anyway that you cannot acquire the females?
#214941 to #214940 - joshlol
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(07/09/2016) [-]
I don't know how to meet people
I can't approach people and start talking to them, it has to be the other way around
#214942 to #214941 - platinumaltaria ONLINE
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(07/09/2016) [-]
Well if you're decently attractive just go to a bar and drink on occasion. Females will eventually come up to you.
#214943 to #214942 - joshlol
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(07/09/2016) [-]
1. that becomes expensive
2. I just look like "that loser with no friends who drinks alone"
3. why the fuck would girls ever approach me when guys are the ones who are supposed to approach girls?
4. I'm average looking, no johnny depp or whatever
#214944 to #214943 - platinumaltaria ONLINE
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(07/09/2016) [-]
1. You only need to buy one drink ;)
2. So? People who think that aren't worth your time.
3. That's not how it always is, just most of the time. The reason women don't make the first move is the same reason you don't; cowardice. It's just that they can get away with it more easily.
4. If you aren't ugly then you're fine.
#214945 to #214944 - joshlol
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(07/09/2016) [-]
>The reason women don't make the first move is the same reason you don't; cowardice

this is wrong. the reason women don't make the first move is that they don't have to. They can just wait around and men will make the move. that's how it works.

I hate being the one person alone surrounded by people who are with their groups of friends or partners, it makes me feel like a loser.
#214946 to #214945 - platinumaltaria ONLINE
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(07/09/2016) [-]
Who's more pathetic, the guy sitting on his own or the guy who needs constant reassurance from other people?
#214947 to #214946 - joshlol
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(07/09/2016) [-]
the guy sitting alone, because he also needs reassurance from other people but doesn't get it
#214948 to #214947 - platinumaltaria ONLINE
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(07/09/2016) [-]
Why are you like this ;-;

Seriously man, why doesn't one of the (definitely not a girl)s on FJ date you? AY YO WOMEN, HOLLA AT MY BOY JOSH
#214949 to #214948 - joshlol
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(07/09/2016) [-]
why would they? I'm a boring bastard lol
#214950 to #214949 - platinumaltaria ONLINE
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(07/09/2016) [-]
prove it. protip: you can't.
#214951 to #214950 - joshlol
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(07/09/2016) [-]
well no one has taken an interest in me yet so I'm going to assume I'm not interesting
#214971 to #214951 - Elk
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(07/10/2016) [-]
**Elk used "*roll picture*"**
**Elk rolled image** You have a whole website full of people interested in who you are, so don't think that you're boring. I know that it's a lot different than going to people in person, but it's inside you already, so you just have to figure that out.

I know that it's not as easy as just doing it, but talking to loners is pretty easy sometimes.
#215002 to #214971 - yatush
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(07/10/2016) [-]
Thumbed cause Maynard James Keenan
#214972 to #214971 - Elk
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(07/10/2016) [-]
Figure that out = figure out how to do it in person.

I kind of skipped a beat. My bad.
#214978 to #214972 - joshlol
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(07/10/2016) [-]
it's easy to talk to people online tho
not so much in person
#214952 to #214951 - platinumaltaria ONLINE
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(07/09/2016) [-]
Well you rejected me so...
#214953 to #214952 - joshlol
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(07/09/2016) [-]
liar liar
#214954 to #214953 - platinumaltaria ONLINE
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(07/09/2016) [-]
What? Why would I lie?
#214955 to #214954 - joshlol
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(07/09/2016) [-]
to make me feel better
#214929 to #214928 - WATCHAGUNADOBOUTIT
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(07/09/2016) [-]
step one is to change your sexuality fam
#214930 to #214929 - joshlol
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(07/09/2016) [-]
wat
#214931 to #214930 - WATCHAGUNADOBOUTIT
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(07/09/2016) [-]
aren't u gay
#214932 to #214931 - joshlol
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(07/09/2016) [-]
no
#214933 to #214932 - WATCHAGUNADOBOUTIT
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(07/09/2016) [-]
o sorry i'm newfag
#214918 - gomugomuno
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(07/09/2016) [-]
i cant eat food with gluten anymore. so i need ideas on what the fuck i can eat for breakfast. i cant eat toast, cereal, or noodles. which has been my normal breakfast for like years
#215282 to #214918 - rurik
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(07/19/2016) [-]
Half my family are allergic to gluten.

Gluten free options(usually full of sugar).
Bake your own bread(takes getting used to but is pretty good).
Rice or corn based bread/products. Like puffed rice cakes and corn cereal with yoghurt. This also goes for food; rice and potatoes. You can ask for gluten free bread and pizza at restaurants. You'd be surprised to find a bunch have thought about that.
Bacon/sausage n eggs if you have more than little time. It's pretty fast once you get a routine of it.
SO many vegetables that could surely fill your stomach, since salads and fruits are light.

Look that shit up. Gluten allergy is pretty common so you could probably just google "gluten free breakfast" and get thousands of hits.
#214936 to #214918 - nsfwanon
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(07/09/2016) [-]
If you're in the UK, Tesco/Asda/etc will have a good range of gluten free options i.e. bread, it'll taste different but hey.

As for the pizza, Buff Dudes have a recipe for a cauliflower based pizza which is actually pretty damn good.

You can get gluten free noodles too, i.e. these ones from Tesco: www.tesco.com/groceries/product/details/?id=282458361&sc_cmp=ppc*sh*msh*bg*px_%7c_shopping_gsc_%7c_health_foods*282458361&gclid=COrYp8_V5s0CFQaNGwodrl0FTQ&gclsrc=aw.ds
#214919 to #214918 - platinumaltaria ONLINE
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(07/09/2016) [-]
Do you have celiac or are you just an idiot?
#214920 to #214919 - gomugomuno
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(07/09/2016) [-]
i have Dermatitis herpetiformis which is caused by coeliac disease. shit happens when gluten is in my small intestine.
#214921 to #214920 - platinumaltaria ONLINE
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(07/09/2016) [-]
Wow, sucks to be you. ARE YOU JEALOUS OF MY BREAD?

Though you could just eat bacon for breakfast...
#214922 to #214921 - gomugomuno
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(07/09/2016) [-]
fuck you. my whole life i had nothing to worry about other than getting fat i could eat whatever i wanted whenever now i cant even randomly go to a McDonald or order pizza at 3 in the morning cause the bread is not gluten free. for the last two days I've just been eating a bunch of fruits, couple of eggs and drinking some coffee and that shit doesn't fill me up i get hungry 2 hrs later. for lunch i cant just go out and buy a sandwich.
#214923 to #214922 - platinumaltaria ONLINE
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(07/09/2016) [-]
Man I am so sorry, t'was purely jest.
#214924 to #214923 - gomugomuno
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(07/09/2016) [-]
eh it not your faults. i'm just angry all the time now just need some time to get used to this
#214925 to #214924 - platinumaltaria ONLINE
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(07/09/2016) [-]
Hey, you can do dis.
#214917 - theguywhoaskswhy
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(07/09/2016) [-]
I ave plenty of money this week.
I never have money, and due to cultural differences and upbringing, I consider it somewhat shameful to spend said money.
So I need someone to tell me that its okay, I can totally buy that novelty pint glass in the shape of a human skull.
#214960 to #214917 - rokkai
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(07/09/2016) [-]
it's move than okay to spend your own money.
#214961 to #214960 - rokkai
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(07/09/2016) [-]
Click to show spoiler
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#214926 to #214917 - pawswurd
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(07/09/2016) [-]
why not save up for microtransactions on trendy mobile games?
#214885 - tealkangaroo
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(07/08/2016) [-]
just got a yugioh rocket warrior 2005 tin for like 30 bucks (sealed)

do i open it or keep it sealed :c
#214913 to #214885 - Elk
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(07/08/2016) [-]
Buy another one and keep one sealed.
#214914 to #214913 - tealkangaroo
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(07/09/2016) [-]
>>#214887, >>#214888, >>#214891, >>#214892, >>#214913,

I opened it. Got a couple nice pulls so no regrets. I probably wasn't going to sell it anyway.
#214916 to #214914 - tikitaco
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(07/09/2016) [-]
Hear rescue cat was broken. Imagine in years from now when that could have sold for big money
#214892 to #214885 - anon
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(07/08/2016) [-]
Open it
#214891 to #214885 - burpy
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(07/08/2016) [-]
Sealed
#214888 to #214885 - oxidoferroso
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(07/08/2016) [-]
Open it
#214887 to #214885 - tikitaco
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(07/08/2016) [-]
Keep it sealed
#214872 - thumbsdenied
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(07/08/2016) [-]
does over the ear headphones look tacky in public? Was thinking about buying marshall headphones. I really dont like earbuds.
#214883 to #214872 - Elk
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(07/08/2016) [-]
Yes, but you definitely should. Just ignore how other people feel.

I bought some Crocs the other day.
#214886 to #214883 - thumbsdenied
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(07/08/2016) [-]
they comfy as hell man. How ya been liking them?
#214911 to #214886 - Elk
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(07/08/2016) [-]
I like them a lot and wear them regularly. I just mentioned them because I think that other people look trashy when wearing them.
#214912 to #214911 - thumbsdenied
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(07/08/2016) [-]
They are knda lame, but comfy. I use them for yard work, beach and quick bathroom trips with my dog.
#214877 to #214872 - anon
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(07/08/2016) [-]
they don't.
#214875 to #214872 - anon
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(07/08/2016) [-]
TBH who gives a shit what people think. Wear what you want, fam.
#214873 to #214872 - kober
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(07/08/2016) [-]
Yes.
#214874 to #214873 - thumbsdenied
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(07/08/2016) [-]
Im getting the headphones anyway. Screw other people.
#214876 to #214874 - kober
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(07/08/2016) [-]
You do you, man.
#214871 - WATCHAGUNADOBOUTIT
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(07/08/2016) [-]
can someone link some inspirational videos on flirting with girls/dating? I need to get out of my comfort zone next year... But I don't want to embarrass the shit out of myself/cringe too hard.

I don't want to miss another opportunity for lack of trying again at least, fuck it if I fail but not for lack of trying
#214994 to #214871 - maxsexington
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(07/10/2016) [-]
Got you bro. It helps me when I think of a person as if I known them for years and speak to them comfortably and be observant. The channel has a bunch of other stuff too.

How to Make Small Talk With Strangers  The Art of Manliness

How to End a Conversation  The Art of Manliness

#214884 to #214871 - platinumaltaria ONLINE
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(07/08/2016) [-]
Stop being an idiot and do it already. If she likes you already, she won't mind that you suck at flirting. If she doesn't like you, it won't matter if you're great at flirting.
#214896 to #214884 - WATCHAGUNADOBOUTIT
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(07/08/2016) [-]
Yeah but girls expect you to make a first move, and every time I try and do that I feel like I'm just going to be pure cringe and embarrass myself
#214965 to #214896 - aleypal
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(07/09/2016) [-]
If you're really worried about being a cringe fest stop overthinking it. It doesn't have to be some complex flirting or process that you go through. Most of the time if you're friends or aquaintances with a girl it's as simple as "hey I like you, do you wanna go on a date? " boom, if she does great. If she doesn't, you're already not dating her so nothing is lost. And like the other guys are saying, just do it.
#214898 to #214896 - platinumaltaria ONLINE
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(07/08/2016) [-]
Then stop "feeling like" and JUST DO IT.
Seriously you have nothing to lose and everything to gain.
#214901 to #214898 - WATCHAGUNADOBOUTIT
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(07/08/2016) [-]
Tips on getting around that feeling? I can say I will do that now but I've done it before, and there's something stopping me.
#214903 to #214901 - platinumaltaria ONLINE
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(07/08/2016) [-]
Nope, you're just making excuses.
#214905 to #214903 - WATCHAGUNADOBOUTIT
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(07/08/2016) [-]
All right, I'll just go for it next time I'm interested in a girl. I'll favorite this comment and let you know how it goes. Hard to disagree with people when this is the only advice I get on the matter (that I'm a pussy)
#214882 to #214871 - sushininja
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(07/08/2016) [-]
Casually Explained Is She Into You
Casually Explained: Is She Into You?
#214881 to #214871 - lgninjaleetful
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(07/08/2016) [-]
>next year

holy shit dude, just do it NOW, whats stopping you? just go out and do it
#214893 to #214881 - WATCHAGUNADOBOUTIT
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(07/08/2016) [-]
College doesn't start until August and I have nothing to do at home because I moved after highschool and I know absolutely no one in this area.
#214895 to #214893 - lgninjaleetful
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(07/08/2016) [-]
go out and GET TO know some people, my friend
#214899 to #214895 - WATCHAGUNADOBOUTIT
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(07/08/2016) [-]
I know what you're saying though
#214897 to #214895 - WATCHAGUNADOBOUTIT
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(07/08/2016) [-]
Saginaw Michigan isn't the best place to do that lol
#214900 to #214897 - lgninjaleetful
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(07/08/2016) [-]
what? you got syrians runnin around fam?

carry a gun or something.

and fuck bitches
#214902 to #214900 - WATCHAGUNADOBOUTIT
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(07/08/2016) [-]
I chuckled, and yea that's true. Wish I was 21 it'd make things easier.
#214904 to #214902 - lgninjaleetful
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(07/08/2016) [-]
damn, the sand niggers are already a state away from me. I have enough trash here in ohio already.

Luckily I have a gucci as fuck AR-15 for the habbening

#214906 to #214904 - WATCHAGUNADOBOUTIT
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(07/08/2016) [-]
Not gonna lie, I really want that rifle. I'm still dependent on my parents, but when I graduate I want to get a handgun ( and an AR-15 eventually for fun).
#214907 to #214906 - lgninjaleetful
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(07/08/2016) [-]
ar-15s are fun, but they can be boring for some, because everyone has some. So if you want a *fun* ar, you might need to spend a lot.

I spent about $2,100 on that AR-15. and thats after all the accessories i put on it
#214908 to #214907 - WATCHAGUNADOBOUTIT
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(07/08/2016) [-]
2.1k enough to have fun?
#214909 to #214908 - lgninjaleetful
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(07/08/2016) [-]
yeah pretty good. But i still need to buy a red dot. Which will be another 600 ish

id of bought one already, but i bought an AKM and a lizard, so moneys tight at the moment.

my whims are killing me
#214910 to #214909 - WATCHAGUNADOBOUTIT
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(07/08/2016) [-]
hahah true, guns are expensive.
#214889 to #214881 - oxidoferroso
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(07/08/2016) [-]
probably starting college or something like that
#214894 to #214889 - WATCHAGUNADOBOUTIT
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(07/08/2016) [-]
good call
#214867 - anon
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(07/08/2016) [-]
So I've lived a ridiculously sheltered and censored life and now in 24 and have a severe avertion to touching my own genitals. Of course i masturbate but i cant touch myself without feeling extremely dirty like I've put my hand in shit. I dont know what it was in my life that imprinted it in my head that its gross and germy to touch your own dick but i know its dumb because at the end of the day its me, a part of my own body. Is this normal?
Skulls your hands be washed after touching your dick or balls?
I dont know of that's the norm or if ours the same as touching any other part of you and carry on doing every day things in luge afterwards.
Of course I've been too uncomfortable to ask and the older i got the more embarrased I'd feel to ask. I feel like touching your front end its as bad as touching your ass hole, but is that true or is it more the thing you can touch then touch your mouth or food like anything else?
#214878 to #214867 - anon
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(07/08/2016) [-]
The feeling you described is not exactly normal. You shouldn't be so disgusted by your own dick that you are hesitant to masturbate, even though genitalia is actually pretty gross when you think about it.
You should wash your hands after masturbating or directly touching your privates because it is generally dirtier than other parts of your body. It's not as dirty as your asshole though. You could carry on without washing your hands if you have to do something like adjust your balls or some shit, it isn't that dirty.
#214862 - piratelord
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(07/07/2016) [-]
Guys, I think I'm sincerely losing my mind, and I don't have anyone to talk to. I just went to an interview and will wait to see if I got the job, I'm halfway through my university career, my girlfriend has a 2 year old boy that reminds me every time of her past and makes me really uncomfortable, and I still live with my parents. I think I'm a little depressed and sometimes bad thoughts come in my head thinking it's too much to bare. Going to a therapist scares me thinning they'll say the same, "it's just a phase. You'll get used to it". And I feel it won't help. My biggest problem is my girl. I really do love her but at random times this image gets in my head thinking how her child was conceived and I start to see her differently. The worst part is that she's not my first, I've had over 16 other women just fucking but no emotional ties and she is my first love. She on the other hand only had two other guys but the last one never had a party hat and they used the pills but obviously one failed and she has his kid and I get weird thinking he came inside and a little jealous that I always took precautions in my past and sometimes regret doing so if I was to have a kid either way. I'm not jealous of anyone she talks to or gets talked to, but her past (specifically the father of the kid) gets me going. It's ficked I know, but if anyone has some advice or anything at all I would really appreciate it. I don't know what to do and sometimes I get the idea to cheat or do something but always always control myself and will probably never do such a thing, but I think about it.
#215283 to #214862 - rurik
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(07/19/2016) [-]
Talk with your dad or mum. They're people too.
#214865 to #214862 - anon
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(07/07/2016) [-]
I'm in the same situation, if you love this girl get over the fact that the kid isn't yours and that the father is a father because he didn't wear a party hat. If you really love her, it shouldn't bother you. My gf has a 7 yr daughter, it bothered me a little but its hard to find someone you'll truly love, I mean its just sex, in the end shes with you now right? So don't think too much about the past. Yeah sure he impregnated her but shes with you thats all that matters right?

My girlfriend was pregnant twice but the first time she had a miscarriage. She got pregnant again by the same guy and now she had a daughter a 7yr old one atm. I thought about it and it made me a little depressed but I stopped caring because she's the nicest person in the world to me. She's like the best person I'll probably ever date unless there is someone nicer than her which I've talked to a bunch of girls and no one can top her nice personalitiy. Your girl has had sex before you so it shouldn't matter. He came inside her, big whoop, I'm sure other guys have done the same at least once because maybe they didn't have a party hat on them and those things can break and what not. Who knows. Either way, don't think about it or think about it a lot. You love her so her past shouldn't matter tto much. She's had sex before, you've had sex before. Who cares. My gf's partners didn't have party hats so its just as worse or maybe even more worse.
#214866 to #214865 - piratelord
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(07/07/2016) [-]
You're right anon, she's the nicest person I've come across and I've been in love with her that's why she's my first actual girlfriend. My parents thought I was gay before they met her since I never brought any of the other lesser girls home. But I'm not her first love like she is to me. Like you said I have to get over that fact, it's not good for my health our relationship, I just don't know how.
#214858 - anon
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(07/07/2016) [-]
So my mum is moving away (leaving me to live by myself) but she is making me keep her dog. I don't like the dog, he doesn't like me. He gets left home all day cause I'm at uni or work. I can't walk him because he go's other dogs and people alike. He will constantly bark at or charge anyone that isn't my family if they come to my house and he kills the local wildlife. However mum refuses to acknowledge that he is all up a bad dog. How do I convince her we need to get rid of him/ make her take him?
#214864 to #214858 - anon
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(07/07/2016) [-]
Anon is right. If she's the one who wanted the dog first, you have no responsibility over it.

Threat her into getting it to a dog pound. If that doesn't work, asa she leaves, comply with your threat.
#214859 to #214858 - focalanemo
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(07/07/2016) [-]
Let her take it or tell her you will bring the dog to a dog pound. If she is really insists on keeping on the dog she should look after it and not the person who doesn't want the dog.
#214856 - yellowcardraiden
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(07/07/2016) [-]
Anyone know any good internet providers at California San Jose? Using ATT shit that drops 3 times every day and they can't do shit about it. And get 22 Mbs.
#214852 - anon
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(07/07/2016) [-]
So uh, my boyfriends parents might be getting a divorce. If they do go through with it is there anything I can do to help console him? (For context he's 18 and we're in an LDR) I just want him to be happy, but a divorce would really upset him.
Is there literally anything I can do?
#214879 to #214852 - anon
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(07/08/2016) [-]
Just be there for him if he needs it. Don't bring it up unless it is obviously bothering him. Depending on how your boyfriend likes to solve problems either try to distract him with fun stuff he likes or listen to him if he wants to talk about it.
#214890 to #214879 - anon
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(07/08/2016) [-]
Thanks other anon, that's what I was going to do. I just hope everything will be alright
#214849 - zincum
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(07/07/2016) [-]
Anyone know how can I get durex if they were banned in country?
#214870 to #214849 - charizarddad
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(07/08/2016) [-]
online? countries have specific laws usually. sometimes items can get through the mail and sometimes they are confiscated. your only option is to import really.
#214851 to #214849 - dreygur
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(07/07/2016) [-]
Why on earth would someone ban condoms
#214853 to #214851 - zincum
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(07/07/2016) [-]
Don't ask me.
To make me sad is my best guess.
#214854 to #214853 - dreygur
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(07/07/2016) [-]
Call your local government and tell them they're a bunch of fucknuts
#214855 to #214854 - zincum
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(07/07/2016) [-]
They said that they didn't pass some standards or test or shit like that.
So that won't bring me any closers to the goal.
#214861 to #214855 - sineztro
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(07/07/2016) [-]
Use other condoms
#214880 to #214861 - zincum
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(07/08/2016) [-]
Well I don't like them.
#214836 - flaminphoenix
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(07/07/2016) [-]
Anyone know a good solid quality, free video editing program? I cannot pirate either.
#214840 to #214836 - thumbsdenied
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(07/07/2016) [-]
You can get sony movie maker 13 on steam for 50-60 bucks. What are you planning on doing with the software? School work or youtuber stuff?
#214841 to #214840 - flaminphoenix
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(07/07/2016) [-]
Little youtube stuff. Not enough to buy something.
#214842 to #214841 - thumbsdenied
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(07/07/2016) [-]
Windows movie maker should still be free.
#214833 - imnotnewhereok
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(07/06/2016) [-]
the settings menu wont show the option to delete my account?
#214848 to #214833 - anon
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(07/07/2016) [-]
They changed it to "Log Out"
#214835 to #214833 - anon
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(07/06/2016) [-]
You're here forever.
#214834 to #214833 - dreygur
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(07/06/2016) [-]
Because that option doesn't exist anymore
#214829 - nigalthornberry
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(07/06/2016) [-]
Whenever I eat or drink sugary things like mountain dew I get a strong pain in my upper back right between my shoulder blades and have a little trouble breathing. Does anyone know what this is?
I'm only 18 and average weight so i don't think this is anything like a heart attack
#214868 to #214829 - hemming
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(07/08/2016) [-]
Go to a fucking doctor
#214839 to #214829 - thumbsdenied
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(07/07/2016) [-]
Pancreatitis?
#214826 - kunchuma ONLINE
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(07/06/2016) [-]
i've got this sleeping problem. i sleep 12 hours or more. it really ruins my lifestyle. i've missed parties, work and school sometimes. any advice on how to fix it.?
#214863 to #214826 - nsfwanon
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(07/07/2016) [-]
It requires leaving your PC on overnight, but go to onlineclock.net (or similar web-based alarms), then set your alarm and put your speakers to full blast. Just make sure you set the alarm to a foghorn or something.

I'm a notoriously heavy sleeper, my worst is 7 phone alarms, a bell alarm, and a few missed calls. I get up every morning with the above though; nothing like waking up shitting yourself at a fog horn or air raid siren thinking the world's ending. Trust me, it works rather well.
#214830 to #214826 - dreygur
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(07/06/2016) [-]
Set an alarm to wake you up 9 hours later. If you just fall back asleep afterwards, put the alarm on the other side of the room so you have to stand up and silence it.
#214827 to #214826 - ukobarrywewa
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(07/06/2016) [-]
see a doctor. sleeping 12 hours a day is not healthy