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#215271 - pawswurd
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(07/19/2016) [-]
what are the greatest ice breakers to making new friends?
#215306 to #215271 - spaceking
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(07/20/2016) [-]
I prefer these over most
#215286 to #215271 - platinumaltaria
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(07/19/2016) [-]
"You look so much better up close"
#215284 to #215271 - anon
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(07/19/2016) [-]
"there are many reasons why Hitler could have won ww2...."
#215281 to #215271 - packalpha
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(07/19/2016) [-]
Comparison of penis sizes.
#215276 to #215271 - vozel
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(07/19/2016) [-]
First of all, what's your "situation"? Are you shy/socially awkward (can't start conversations right), or are you just finding it hard to spark it with people?
#215277 to #215276 - pawswurd
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(07/19/2016) [-]
I consider myself a very social person, like i'll talk with strangers and kids in the neighborhood, but only for a brief moment. I've been playing Pokemon Go at the park recently and have seen it as an opportunity to make new friends, however talking about anything other than the game is just abnormal.
#215278 to #215277 - vozel
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(07/19/2016) [-]
Well, seeing that your original comment showed that your interested in having lasting relationships, try wearing something that shows your interests, or going to people that have your interests. My area is full of social people, if I go out wearing my Greatwolf Lodge sweater, I get people asking me about where I got my sweater. It helps to be equally approachable. When you see someone like that, just stay within what you think is the person's comfort zone, then open up a little more if you get comfortable. Ice breakers aren't needed, everyone is different.
#215273 to #215271 - sugoi
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(07/19/2016) [-]
Being forced to ice break together and having things in common to talk about.
#215270 - rurik ONLINE
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(07/19/2016) [-]
Swiped right a bunch of times on tinder. What happens now? Share your experiences please.

Stockholm / Straight / Dude
#215253 - thedudeistheman
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(07/19/2016) [-]
I got a big fucking rant coming in and if you guys have any advice to help me stop doing this to myself I'd gladly take it.

So last night I was hanging at my friend's house with a few other friends (one of them being his girlfriend, who I'll just refer to as D). It was his birthday and we'd gone out to eat earlier, so we were back at his place and it was probably around 11:00. Somehow we started talking about middle school, which is where I think most of us first met. I'd had a couple of classes with D and another girl, A.

I had a massive crush on A. I really, really, really liked her. She was smart, funny, gorgeous, and I always had a great time around her. D and A were pretty good friends back then, so D tells me that A also had a massive crush on me. She would apparently fabricate excuses to be around me. They were working on a project one day, and she knew I was having a garage sale, so she wanted to interrupt them so they (but really she) could come over. Back when I was still at least somewhat religious, I had a Bar Mitzvah, and she wanted to go. Nobody wants to go to a Bar Mitzvah service. I'm pretty sure people in the faith don't even want to go to the service. Yet she and D went. She would always text me from D's phone (she wasn't allowed to use her own for texting).

When D told me this, I brushed it off as best as I could. I mean, it was years ago (I'm in college now), there's no use in worrying about it. And at the time, I didn't worry about it. They brought up a few more things, and I finally mentioned that another girl, K, who was at the party after the service, who I was also friends, had overheard her saying something along the lines of how she liked me. K, who I was pretty friendly, told me this. She didn't know who it was, just that a blonde girl was talking about me and that she liked me. I basically just didn't believe her. I couldn't believe that A, this great girl, really liked me, who was all right at best (to this day I still have cripplingly low self-esteem).

A few months ago, A was on my mind again, and I had started connecting some dots myself. All her friends used to ask me if I liked her, and I always changed the subject or even said no. I was convinced A didn't like me, and that her friends would tell her, they'd all laugh at me, and then stop talking to me. I really didn't want that. So when I realized a few months ago what was probably going on, I again brushed it aside because this theory I had wasn't confirmed by anything. It was just me guessing based on this one observation.

I don't know what happened today that didn't happen last night. Maybe I was too tired for it to really register. Today, I'm really fucking pissed at myself. It is hard for me to convey how much I liked her. Before, and to my knowledge, my self-image problems had never really caused me serious problems as far as I could tell. This is important to me. This fucking blows. I could've been with a girl who made me really happy and I didn't because I just couldn't believe she would actually like me. D and her friend who was there last night, K (different K), used the word "obsessed" (I doubt in the crazy way, because it didn't continue after the year we had a class together). What the fuck, man. I have only really liked one other girl that much in the time span between then and now. I keep trying to tell myself it was a long time ago, but I just can't get over it right now.

So yeah, if you guys have advice to help me not hate myself over something I can no longer do anything about, I sure would like it because I'm fucking mad at myself.
#215264 to #215253 - alexanderburns ONLINE
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(07/19/2016) [-]
hate yourself all you want, just don't ever let it happen again so you might not have any reason to hate yourself in the future
#215267 to #215264 - thedudeistheman
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(07/19/2016) [-]
I don't want to let it happen again, but I have a hard time making bold decisions without being able to validate it internally. I need to be at least 90% confident, which is ridiculous and I'm trying to not do that all the time, but that's where I stand right now.
#215268 to #215267 - alexanderburns ONLINE
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(07/19/2016) [-]
just do what I do and not care about anything
works great
#215269 to #215268 - thedudeistheman
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(07/19/2016) [-]
I'm not wired that way.
#215261 to #215253 - thedudeistheman
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(07/19/2016) [-]
I've also realized that she liked me so much and probably thought I didn't like her as much, which is pretty shitty of me.
#215255 to #215253 - sugoi
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(07/19/2016) [-]
Well you could always move on and learn from your mistakes.
You know now you missed one hell of a chance, so why did you miss it? and don't say "my crippling low self esteem" like, where does your low self esteem come from?
Are you not very confident?
Are you chubby?
Are you stupid?

And just work out your flaws, who knows you might meet A again and this time you'll be confident and ready.
#215258 to #215255 - thedudeistheman
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(07/19/2016) [-]
I said why I missed it. I didn't think she felt the same way.

I honestly don't know where it comes from. I know how it manifests, but I really could not tell you a list of sources or even one thing that it could possibly stem from. I'm confident in some areas, not in others. I'm not chubby. I'm not particularly muscular or anything, and I'm not slim as a stick, but I'm not chubby. Clearly I was pretty stupid back then because it seems like I was the only one who didn't know, but I don't think I'm legitimately stupid.

I haven't really spoken to her in years and she's seeing someone. I'm not mad about that. It'd be even more stupid to be mad at her. I'm pretty sure the door's closed on that one. I'm just frustrated with myself.
#215262 to #215258 - sugoi
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(07/19/2016) [-]
You need to dig deeper you're just scratching the surface.
Why did you miss it? because you didn't think she felt that way.
Why didn't you think she felt that way after numerous people told you she did? Self esteem issues.
What is the cause of your self esteem issues? I don't know you go figure it out and fix them.

Make a list and work through them one by one, sure you're not chubby but being a stick isn't a good thing either, average or a bit toned is always a good place to be. But you know, physical appearance is just one point of many.
#215263 to #215262 - thedudeistheman
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(07/19/2016) [-]
Nobody told me until the other night. All those years ago when they were asking me if I liked her, I didn't realize it was because she wanted to know. I only had it confirmed 100% by D the other night. At no point in middle or high school was it explained to me. The only time something remotely like that happened was when K said someone she didn't know said they liked me.

I know I have to fix it, but my main focus right now is to stop beating myself up over it because it's been happening all day. I'm having much difficulty even stopping thinking about it.
#215265 to #215263 - sugoi
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(07/19/2016) [-]
Diverting attention is always a good way to stop beating yourself up over it.
I'm trying to push you more towards the focusing on things to improve yourself but like, video games works too.
#215266 to #215265 - thedudeistheman
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(07/19/2016) [-]
Thanks man. Doing most things brings my attention elsewhere. Hopefully I can sleep it off.
#215272 to #215266 - sugoi
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(07/19/2016) [-]
Rooting for ya dude.
#215250 - joshlol
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(07/19/2016) [-]
Protip: If she says she loves you, and then immediately proceeds to hook up with other guys and then ignore you for months, she doesn't love you
#215252 to #215250 - anon
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(07/19/2016) [-]
Come on, man. Give your mom a little credit.
#215245 - thumbsdenied
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(07/19/2016) [-]
How to be happy?
#215279 to #215245 - rurik ONLINE
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(07/19/2016) [-]
Choose the happy things in life. Choose the happy emotion.
#215256 to #215245 - sugoi
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(07/19/2016) [-]
Pokemon Go
#215254 to #215245 - burpy
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(07/19/2016) [-]
outdoor exercise
#215251 to #215245 - ferrettamer ONLINE
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(07/19/2016) [-]
heroin helps
#215246 to #215245 - anon
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(07/19/2016) [-]
Let me know if you ever find out.
#215243 - anon
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(07/18/2016) [-]
Help me lads. I'm stuck. I'm in a relationship with someone I like a lot and am really emotionally invested with. We've been together quite a few months already, 6 to be specific, but I'm just not feeling very happy. I blame myself for expecting too much of my partner. Sometimes I feel like our communication isn't as great as we want it to be, and we misunderstand eachother a lot leading to arguments. We've had some really good times, and they've made me very happy, but many times like now, I feel pretty much depressed about our current situations and feel like I should call it quits before we get worse in the future. I'm stuck and feel like my only option is to break up with them but I just can't. Thinking of it tears me to pieces. I want better for us but I don't know how to fix it and I blame mostly myself. It's one of those cases where we started dating and we were hitting it off really well but then later on we get to know eachother more and our faults and it starts to settle into a boring, frustrating pattern. What do I do? How can I talk to my partner about it? Should we just break up and how can I do this?
#215259 to #215243 - platinumaltaria
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(07/19/2016) [-]
Open your face hole and waggle your lips and tongue whilst blowing out air... Use your words mate...
#215247 to #215243 - anon
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(07/19/2016) [-]
Talk to them, bringing up the points you made in your post here. Give it some time. If it can't be resolved, then it's not meant to be.
#215238 - feelythefeel
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(07/18/2016) [-]
For years, I've been asking my parents about money that seemed to have been occasionally disappearing from my bank account. Every time they made me out to be some kind of money wasting idiot. It's only years later (After I've already moved out) that I discovered how they've been siphoning thousands of dollars from me and spending it on boxed wine. Fuck my life.
#215257 to #215238 - sugoi
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(07/19/2016) [-]
Dude even my fucking phone app tells me when money has been deducted from my accounts what the fuck how did it take you years?
#215249 to #215238 - anon
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(07/19/2016) [-]
I'd ask if you wanted some cheese with your wine, but it sounds like your parents drank it all.
#215242 to #215238 - kober
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(07/18/2016) [-]
Why did your parents have access to your bank account? Does your bank not provide transaction history?
#215347 to #215242 - feelythefeel
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(07/22/2016) [-]
They convinced me to make it a linked account. It was old af.
#215241 to #215238 - burpy
Reply 0
(07/18/2016) [-]
I think you went to the wrong board. Aside from that, what the fuck
#215239 to #215238 - GothicChi
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(07/18/2016) [-]
How did it take you that long to figure out?
#215240 to #215239 - feelythefeel
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(07/18/2016) [-]
I had a sincere and unquestioning affection for my family. Key word is "had".
#215237 - pianoasis
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(07/18/2016) [-]
hey does anyone have a copy of this book? it was linked here and there on 4chan a year or so ago but i can't seem to find a download that won't scam you
#215244 to #215237 - anon
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(07/19/2016) [-]
Yeah, I have a copy.

Here ya go, enjoy!
#215260 to #215244 - pianoasis
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(07/19/2016) [-]
i asked for a copy of the book not the title therefore you are an retard
#215274 to #215260 - anon
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(07/19/2016) [-]
"you are an retard"

I don't think I even need to address your reply. You pretty much slapped yourself in the face already.

Also, protip: this is a joke website. Expect a few jokes.
#215225 - anon
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(07/18/2016) [-]
>Finally found a girl that's like me both in personality and sense of humor
>Someone I can come home to after work and just talk about anything with
>Someone who's as messed up and damaged on the inside as I am
>Someone who compliments my crazy
>Been together for 3 years now
>On a date at an expensive restaurant
>Had to save up a bunch of money just to be here but it's worth it
>Have ring in jacket, nicest one I could afford
>Waiting for the right moment to ask the question
>Suddenly I realize something isn't right
>There's a weird sound off in the distance but I can't really figure out what it is
>After a few seconds it hits me
>It's my alarm clock
>Wake up all by myself in my cold little apartment
>The entire thing was just a very realistic dream
>Called in sick for work so I can just lay here and feel like shit all by myself

I don't know if I can do this anymore.
#215236 to #215225 - minutes
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(07/18/2016) [-]
Cut your "useless" time to zero. No more sitting at your computer doing nothing after work etc. Go to pretty much every social gathering you can, sports partys whatever and talk to as much people as humanly possible. Not only girls, but guys too. You might find friends that have nice girl-friends you know? Even after work, you still got some time to be productive in a gf finding sense. Just do stuff you always wanted to do, there has to be something. Like reading a book or learning a language whatever
#215229 to #215225 - platinumaltaria
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(07/18/2016) [-]
I mean you could just go out and get gf...
#215230 to #215229 - anon
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(07/18/2016) [-]
What part of my post makes you think I haven't already done that
#215231 to #215230 - platinumaltaria
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(07/18/2016) [-]
Well you're asking for advice...
#215233 to #215231 - anon
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(07/18/2016) [-]
Just to further clarify, the first line pretty much says it all.

>Finally found a girl that's like me both in personality and sense of humor
#215234 to #215233 - platinumaltaria
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(07/18/2016) [-]
So just talk to more girls. It's basic statistics, the bigger the sample the more likely it is that the sample contains your oneitis.
#215235 to #215234 - anon
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(07/18/2016) [-]
Well I've been in a few shitty relationships in the past and for the longest time I just wanted to stay by myself, but even today work makes it difficult to get out a lot.

I guess the dream I had last night kinda opened up a few scars so I wanted to share it. I normally never talk about this kind of shit.
#215232 to #215231 - anon
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(07/18/2016) [-]
Well I appreciate it anyway, but I'm not really asking for advice. I just kinda wanted to be heard, if that makes sense.
#215227 to #215225 - yatush
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(07/18/2016) [-]
c..christ anon.

#215224 - anon
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(07/18/2016) [-]
i just got a job and on paper, it's great. it's only a 5 hour shift and im a delivery guy which i like since i really like riding bikes n shit. but im kinda nervous. what do ;_;
#215248 to #215224 - thumbsdenied
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(07/19/2016) [-]
Its okay to be nervous, just do your best and eventually you'll feel comfortable.
#215221 - mmfan
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(07/18/2016) [-]
I'm struggling with the idea of superficial change vs. improvement. I try to stay in myself and what works for me, I'm not into going to the gym. That's just not me. Muscles for muscle sake seem useless. But i'm a martial artist, so that's my workout, i'm not in terrible shape. But then I see these guys sometimes that just seem like they are cut from stone, and a twinge of envy strikes me. Because they just seem like they have something I don't. I should've been dealing with body image issues when I was 18, barely passing high school and had a gf who I loved with a profound sort of soulmate love. Now that I've been single for a while at 26, and have a 3.6 gpa, I've come to realize I don't know how to interact with people in general. A's are no substitute for human companionship and love.
#215223 to #215221 - raideoactivepilot
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(07/18/2016) [-]
I can relate somewhat. I too have struggle with interacting with people. Its weird.... 2 or 3 years ago i there was not a day i went without talking to someone and meeting new people. But one day i just started to become withdrawn and just started getting harder to talk to others. Then when i tried to get back out there again.. Had a medical scare and made a shit loads of pity friends had no idea at the time thats what it was and when that issue was resolved they just disappeared. After that i have stopped even trying for a few years. Its really been starting to weigh on me heavily. The real issue is that when i meet anyone that seems happy most of the time i just start to resent and hate them for it. :/ idk if i can be of any help with you man, but i normally pop on here time to time so if you want to vent out bullshit or whatever im here. or not your choice really.
#215217 - glasswall
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(07/18/2016) [-]
So, my gf left me reciently im a lot better now, the thing is, im using tinder to meet new people, but as a betafag with pockets full of spaguetti, dont know what to say to start a conversation without being awkward, any good tips?
#215311 to #215217 - holymackarel
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(07/20/2016) [-]
Shitty pickup lines could work... if a girl responds either they have a sense of humor or they're desperate or want a free meal.
#215218 to #215217 - sugoi
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(07/18/2016) [-]
Just use shitty pick up lines you see on FJ until it works.
#215213 - brackgrapple
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(07/18/2016) [-]
Where to sell or just get rid of comic books I have no room for
#215219 to #215213 - sugoi
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(07/18/2016) [-]
Ebay, Amazon, Taobao
Just any online market really.
#215214 to #215213 - anon
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(07/18/2016) [-]
if you want to get rid of them just throw them in the trash.
#215215 to #215214 - brackgrapple
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(07/18/2016) [-]
It'd be a huge waste to just trash perfect condition 1st prints
#215216 to #215215 - anon
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(07/18/2016) [-]
well Ebay then.
#215206 - anon
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(07/17/2016) [-]
Stupid question time. No laughing.

I wanna try recording. Got a good mic and everything's all set up. Gave it a try and...
God. I know this whole "Nobody likes their own voice" deal, but that has never really been an issue for me. My problem is that my voice just sounds boring, plain and simple.

Are there any exercises for making me sound more... animated? Lively? Whatever the word is, or am I doomed to a bleak voice for the rest of my life?
#215228 to #215206 - babasera
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(07/18/2016) [-]
try imitating someone and then compare it
it takes a lot of practice,but in the end you will learn how to do it
#215208 to #215206 - burpy
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(07/17/2016) [-]
Having a boring voice isn't necessarily bad as long as you have something entertaining to say. Cr1tikal sounds extremely monotonous, yet a lot of people find him hilarious because of his jokes.
#215205 - anon
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(07/17/2016) [-]
For anyone that knows about investing, index funds, especially through Vanguard:

I've recently been reading about how great an idea it is to invest in index funds, especially through Vanguard. Im 20 years old and have a decent amount of money just sitting in a savings account so I was thinking about it.

Problem is, what I know about investing is the little I learned in High School and a bit of the Jcollins stock series. Will Vanguard be somehthing that I have to be more knowledgable about stocks to use. will I have to actively choose and change things? Will it be okay if I invest in a Vanguard index fund right now or should I wait and learn more?

Thanks in advance!
#215204 - muchname ONLINE
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(07/17/2016) [-]
can any art fags tell me what this piece is and where I can find more of things like this?
#215210 to #215204 - anon
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(07/17/2016) [-]
knight at the crossroads by Viktor Vasnetsov
#215203 - thesuperintendent
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(07/17/2016) [-]
PPPPPPPEEEENNNNIIISSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS
#215195 - notpolarpulse
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(07/17/2016) [-]
whats the kinda thing i need to look for when upgrading my graphics card

i know i have dual graphics cards with SLI but do i have to change my motherboard too? its a MICRO-STAR INTERNATIONAL CO.LTD MS-7380 (CPU 1). i know i probably have to change out my CPU too since its a Intel Core 2 Quad Q8200 @ 2.33GHz

or should i just buy a new desktop for 500 with the graphics card/cpu that im looking for that can have dual monitors
#215201 to #215195 - confusedasian
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(07/17/2016) [-]
The only reasons you need to change your motherboard is because 1. Your new cpu has a different socket and doesn't fit your old motherboard. Or 2. Your motherboard somehow got damaged.

Either way, just go the cheaper route if it's good.
#215194 - bludead ONLINE
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(07/17/2016) [-]
What pokemon team should i join.

All my friends are Valor but i've heard they're retarded
#215196 to #215194 - sushininja
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(07/17/2016) [-]
teams dont matter at all really. I join mystic because I liked articuno and blue.

Statistically more people picked Blue team. But if your friends are who you're going to spend majority of the time with playing GO, it's better to all be the same color.
#215197 to #215196 - confusedasian
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(07/17/2016) [-]
Can you change teams?
#215198 to #215197 - sushininja
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(07/17/2016) [-]
As of now no. And it's unclear if that's ever a possibility
#215199 to #215198 - confusedasian
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(07/17/2016) [-]
I see.

Once you go yellow, you don't turn towards another fellow.
#215185 - victorsin ONLINE
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(07/17/2016) [-]
I have to admit that I'm having a extreme hard time with work, gym, school, bills, paperwork and other shit like gf which I can't never see and family because dad is not even in my life. How do people stay motivated to not fucking kill themselves? Is it this hard fot everybody or will I just adapt? I understand that God has to make some obstacles, but this is ridiculous. I feel like some songs from blink 182, perfect plan and 21 pilots were made just for me. Please don't tell me it will just get better because I feel like an old person like 50 or 60 years old even when im just 22. Always tired, routine every God damn day and I just can't take this anymore. I feel like overwhelmed and I just want to drop all my shit on the floor and sleep all day. Im filling paperwork for my job right now, I got to do homework for Monday and I have a drug test that idk if I will pass before the 20th. I did weed about 12 days.
#215202 to #215185 - alexanderburns ONLINE
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(07/17/2016) [-]
I guess you either eventually find your own reasons to do whatever you need to do to live or you don't.

I'm 22 myself and it just sort of happened to me back in March. Played a video game that got me thinking about myself and a week of hard thinking and writing later, I had actual reasons to live rather than things I should do because people say so. It feels great. Do recommend staying alive just for the chance of gaining strong reasons to live.
#215220 to #215202 - victorsin ONLINE
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(07/18/2016) [-]
It's just that after graduating and having a bad time what's next? Should I keep studying, should I save all my money or travel a lot. I'm used to be different from my brothers. My brothers are like superstars and I'm just me. I don't care what do I wear. If I have sex or not. I just care about finishing my tasks and eating or playing video games when I'm back home. At a point that I think very often to myself if I'm sick or is it aomething that will fade away.
#215209 to #215202 - ferrettamer ONLINE
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(07/17/2016) [-]
stalking trannies on the internet isn't a reason to live
#215188 to #215185 - Residentpudding
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(07/17/2016) [-]
There's no guarantee that things will get better, but all the work you're doing adds up. You may not think so, but it does. If you need to take some time off of work, do so. Save up some money and go out and do something you want to do, have fun, do a little soul searching. If you need to slow down in life, do that too. Don't try to juggle so many tasks at once, you need to prioritize. Do the shit that needs to be done first and then you can move on to something else so long as you don't over do it.

I would find myself in your situation plenty of times before. Then a sort of mentor of mine asked me, "How do you eat an elephant?"
I said, "One bite at a time?"
He told me, "Start at the ass. Get the worst part of it out of the way."
#215191 to #215188 - victorsin ONLINE
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(07/17/2016) [-]
Last time I bought clothes was 3 or 4 years ago I can't remmber and because of the gym I got bigger so I need new clothes or do diet. I hate it.
#215190 to #215188 - victorsin ONLINE
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(07/17/2016) [-]
I'll try to do less hours at work and I want to finish school asap. Money has been always a problem for me and my family, but if I finish my program I will earn easily over $2000 a week and that would be enough to support my family and have a decent car and pay for my stuff (new clothes, car insurance, phone, utilities, rent, etc..)
I saw people dropping school working with me in Walmart or HEB in the night and they tell me if I'm still in school and they get mad because they just dropped it. Maybe it adds up. as you said, but lord I feel like I've been in school forever and that my job sucks. Thanks I will try to take a breath and go swimming or watch a movie.
#215187 to #215185 - sugoi
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(07/17/2016) [-]
Don't think about it and do less shit.
Split your problems and then into priority so let's see.
-Relationships
-Work
-School
-Bills
-Paperwork
-Gym

Now let's take out the things you have to to and continuously do so
-Bills
-School
-Relationships

Go out because there's nothing you can do about it so just don't think about changing anything there, this just leaves us with.
-Work
-Gym
-Paperwork

So you're feeling overworked and tired, I don't know what "paperwork" is but finish that off immediately so it's gone forever. Consider taking less hours at work if you're overstressed but if you don't want to then just cut out gym since you know, it's not something you absolutely need.
#215189 to #215187 - victorsin ONLINE
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(07/17/2016) [-]
I will try to eat healthy and do exercise when I can in my weekends like right now. I'm awake because I work in the night, but today is my rest day haha. Thanks I will see what I can take off my schedule and do better.
#215186 to #215185 - victorsin ONLINE
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(07/17/2016) [-]
I said dont tell me it will just get better because I have to keep this same routine of taking naps instead of sleeping for 3 more years. That if I dont fail my program and become what I want to.
Btw os there any benefit if I have my associates degree?