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#186271 - gharshi
Reply +5
(05/31/2015) [-]
How come girls smell so fucking good? Like there's this soft scent of fucking flowers coming off them all the time. When guys wear perfume it lasts for a couple hours and then they smell normal. But girls smell good no matter what, even if they aren't wearing perfume or other products.
#186961 to #186271 - fallenraven
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(06/05/2015) [-]
pheromones
#186384 to #186271 - owllynator
Reply 0
(06/01/2015) [-]
randy little bastard
#186288 to #186271 - supertanto
Reply 0
(05/31/2015) [-]
Hormones you cheeky fuck
#186277 to #186271 - shaunata
Reply 0
(05/31/2015) [-]
well Idk how true it is but supposedly you are most likely smelling the pheromones that the girl is putting off. Making you want to mate with her because her health is good or something like that.
#186279 to #186277 - gharshi
Reply +2
(05/31/2015) [-]
oh, good. it's nice to have a reassurance that I'm not gay
oh, good. it's nice to have a reassurance that I'm not gay
#186258 - brickfest
Reply +1
(05/31/2015) [-]
Man, fuck exams...I'm so tired I can't focus on studying anymore, while also stressed to the point where I can't really take a nap / relax.

FML...
#186265 to #186258 - womanexplain
Reply 0
(05/31/2015) [-]
Don't overwhelm yourself, you can always redo exams. Look at the curriculum list (topics covered on your course) and pick out the ones you really need to focus on and just focus on summarizing.
If you need a break, take one.
Try working for 45 min sessions and then take a 10-15 min break, try doing 4-5 of these sessions a day. I suggest splitting them into halves for morning and evening and giving yourself free time between those periods.
Exams are important, but not more so than your wellbeing, take care of yourself.
#186385 to #186265 - owllynator
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(06/01/2015) [-]
dont do exams, dont do any wellbeing
#186389 to #186385 - womanexplain
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(06/01/2015) [-]
Wat
#186391 to #186389 - owllynator
Reply 0
(06/01/2015) [-]
im sorry i cant today
#186407 to #186391 - womanexplain
Reply 0
(06/01/2015) [-]
Oh
#186264 to #186258 - supertanto
Reply +3
(05/31/2015) [-]
git gud
#186262 to #186258 - dudeheit
Reply 0
(05/31/2015) [-]
Know that feel when you can't relax because you constantly think about all the shit you have to do but sometimes a break is better for ya, so force you to do nothing for a while but not for too lang
Good luck with exams
#186255 - rereviven
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(05/31/2015) [-]
Im working one job and want to quit it to go into one that pays more. When do i actually put in my 2 week notice, before i send an application, when i do send one, when they want to interview me, or when/if i get accepted? I dunno if it is a great time to do it right now either, In 2 weeks ill be gone for a full week for a student government meeting and I'm worried that'll make them not hire me
#186962 to #186255 - fallenraven
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(06/05/2015) [-]
just tell them the circumstances man and be professional. most companies can accommodate you unless you talking about a low end job
#186259 to #186255 - mondominiman
Reply +1
(05/31/2015) [-]
Send your two weeks in after you get confirmation that you were hired. Just inform your new employer and they'll understand.
#186257 to #186255 - titsmccracken
Reply 0
(05/31/2015) [-]
Wait until after the meeting thing. Put in your two weeks when you get hired else where.
#186256 to #186255 - rereviven
Reply 0
(05/31/2015) [-]
Like, immediately going away for a week will convince them not to
#186254 - vetis
Reply 0
(05/31/2015) [-]
I'm having a really difficult time trying to find a hospitality company that originated outside of North America, but eventually expanded to North America. Tried google, but google sees fit to ignore the 'foreign' part and gives me a bunch of U.S. based hotels.

Can anyone give me few suggestions?
#186251 - shangrilathree
Reply 0
(05/31/2015) [-]
16 year old in need of money, or a job. I belong to a low income family (single mother, >£4000 per annuum) in Nottingham, UK and I need a job since I need to buy school supplies and clothes for college and I don't want to force mum to buy me anything.

Any ideas? Any advice would be very welcome.
#186386 to #186251 - owllynator
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(06/01/2015) [-]
drugs
#186293 to #186251 - lulzforalpsplane
Reply 0
(05/31/2015) [-]
Are you white?
#186295 to #186293 - shangrilathree
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(05/31/2015) [-]
I am white, yes
#186297 to #186295 - lulzforalpsplane
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(05/31/2015) [-]
Start handing out resumes for small stores in your community and big grocery companies. I had a job at 16 because I could lifeguard but you likely don't have the requirements.
#186298 to #186297 - shangrilathree
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(05/31/2015) [-]
Thank you, dude!
#186301 to #186298 - lulzforalpsplane
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(05/31/2015) [-]
I know that was sarcastic, I'm sorry I have nothing else to offer. I was just encouraging you to do that.
#186245 - anaphase
Reply 0
(05/31/2015) [-]
A friend of mine is extremely attractive and constantly has women swamping him. Every time we go anywhere, every second or third chick we pass gives him the eye.
Went to a party not long ago with a friend (Daniel, who knew everybody there) and as the 3 of us were leaving about 7 girls come out: "Bye Daniel! Bye Daniel's hot friend!" Nobody looked at me.

I'm pretty average looking but also fairly muscular, which I'm kinda proud of. I exercise and look after myself and try to do everything I should. No issues with social anxiety or anything; can talk to women just fine and I think I'm pretty interesting.
But it makes no difference; nobody's looked at me twice since my last relationship ended a year ago.

I'm at the point in loneliness where I'm now seriously considering joining a dating site. I've been through all the stages, including "owning the fact you're single", and am now miserable enough to consider giving it a shot.
Then I get a message from him saying he's in emotional shit because he slept with some chick but is in love with a different chick who's in love with him too, but who has a boyfriend, and now he feels guilty but ended up fiddling around with yet another chick so now he feels really bad. Or something. This from a man who lives exclusively on pizza and chinese take-out, who has never exercised in his life, yet has women hanging off of him nonetheless.

It just gets me down.

Pic unrelated. I think
#186347 to #186245 - wootshop
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(06/01/2015) [-]
Take this from the guy who has been in both your and your friend's situations (maybe not as extreme as the last part, but compared to a few friends I hung out with I was always the most popular of guys in the group, but I've also been the guy who don't get shit), a dating site is not bad. I know there is a lot of social stigma that says that it means that you're unattractive, but that's not true at all. It just means that you're in a dating rut with the people you know and you need a new area to meet people. On a safe site is a perfectly ok way to do that, along with other things such as joining a new gym (considering you work out, it's a good place to meet similar minded people). The best idea is finding a place either in real life or online where people have similar interests.
picture to cheer you up.
#186283 to #186245 - joshlol
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(05/31/2015) [-]
tries to impress girl by farting lol
#186249 to #186245 - sugoi ONLINE
Reply +3
(05/31/2015) [-]
Sounds like you gotta stop hanging around him when you're out picking up chicks.
Get another wingman.
#186242 - watermelloon
Reply 0
(05/31/2015) [-]
im drunk and my boyfriend is a cunt. what do?
#186387 to #186242 - owllynator
Reply 0
(06/01/2015) [-]
dump him like a sack of spuds
#186248 to #186242 - unitedabominations
Reply +3
(05/31/2015) [-]
quit being the cunt couple and work it out
#186244 to #186242 - sugoi ONLINE
Reply 0
(05/31/2015) [-]
Wear a chastity belt and laugh.
#186224 - flutterfire
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(05/31/2015) [-]
There's this girl that works at the theater I go to. She looks like she might be a few years older than me, but not by too much. I'm not sure what her name is, because I haven't been able to clearly read her nametag. I think it might be Elizabeth. The last two times I was there, she was at the concession counter and gave me my popcorn and drink. The first time she was smiling a lot and kept making heavy eye contact with me, and the second time, I was with my dad, and when he handed her a twenty to pay for the stuff, she looked at it and said, "Think this was used at a concert? It's got Bon Jovi and Journey written on it." She laughed, but she looked at me instead of my dad. My dad apologized, and she said, "No, I think it's really cool." Again, she looked at me instead of him. My dad then mentioned that a girlfriend once dragged him to a Bon Jovi concert, and she said, "That's so cool." Again looking at me, and not him. She then said, "Enjoy the movie!" In a really happy tone, still looking at me.
Also, both times, she kept looking at me while I was in the lobby, and then looking away when I looked at her.

Is she flirting with me or something? Should I talk to her the next time I'm there? Did I make a mistake not already talking to her? But what would I even say? Or am I just overthinking this?
#186234 to #186224 - titsmccracken
Reply +3
(05/31/2015) [-]
Maybe? She could just be awkward.
#186235 to #186234 - flutterfire
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(05/31/2015) [-]
Maybe. That would make me all the more attracted to her, since I'm really awkward myself.
#186236 to #186235 - titsmccracken
Reply +2
(05/31/2015) [-]
You will never know until you make a move. I vote ask her out. Worst case she says no.
#186237 to #186236 - flutterfire
Reply +1
(05/31/2015) [-]
I guess. Suppose it can't be that bad. Except being awkward about running into her at the theater if she says no.
#186231 to #186224 - braveblue
Reply +3
(05/31/2015) [-]
dude you are so in.
#186213 - gharshi
Reply 0
(05/31/2015) [-]
so I just acquired 1000 dollars. what should I spend it on? I have pretty much everything I need and I already got a bunch of money in savings account. What would you do with the money?

>inb4 buy an 8 year long brazzers subscription
#186284 to #186213 - joshlol
Reply +1
(05/31/2015) [-]
donate it to me
#186238 to #186213 - sugoi ONLINE
Reply +1
(05/31/2015) [-]
Buy a better computer.
#186232 to #186213 - CallMeCrisco
Reply 0
(05/31/2015) [-]
If I had $1,000 in my s&g fund I think I'd do a road trip.

But I desperately need to get away from my life, so that's probably got something to do with it.
#186239 to #186232 - gharshi
Reply 0
(05/31/2015) [-]
today is your lucky day, then, buddy. since you need the road trip so much, and need the 1000 bucks that I don't. I've decided something.    
   
   
   
 I'll give you advice on how to acquire the money. have you tried selling blowjobs on craigslist? heard some skinny younger guys making bank. good luck, fiendo
today is your lucky day, then, buddy. since you need the road trip so much, and need the 1000 bucks that I don't. I've decided something.



I'll give you advice on how to acquire the money. have you tried selling blowjobs on craigslist? heard some skinny younger guys making bank. good luck, fiendo
#186260 to #186239 - advice ONLINE
Reply 0
(05/31/2015) [-]
isn't that... illegal?
#186261 to #186260 - gharshi
Reply +1
(05/31/2015) [-]
only if the police catches you
#186223 to #186213 - makotoitou
Reply 0
(05/31/2015) [-]
invest in rare pepes
#186221 to #186213 - fukkentyranitar
Reply +2
(05/31/2015) [-]
Invest it in stocks or something. Either that or save until you actually need it.
#186215 to #186213 - anon
Reply 0
(05/31/2015) [-]
Just save it man. You might need that money in an emergency.
#186216 to #186215 - gharshi
Reply 0
(05/31/2015) [-]
yeah I've been really good with saving money for the past couple of years. thought I should leave the 1k for something fun, but since I've been saving pretty much all leftovers, I don't even know what I'd spend money on
#186218 to #186216 - anon
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(05/31/2015) [-]
A movie and dinner? A good leather jacket? A new computer? Those are things I'd get, but don't really need.
Is there something you should replace, like a recliner that a thousand dollars could get you a really good new one?
#186219 to #186218 - gharshi
Reply 0
(05/31/2015) [-]
there's a lot of cool shit out there that I'd want for my car. guess I'll look into that. thanks for inspiration, m8. I guess I'll cancel my order of dragon dildos then
#186211 - anon
Reply 0
(05/31/2015) [-]
Okay FJ let me start at the beginning

My gf was giving me a handjob and I came so I went and cleaned myself with a shirt after that I fingered her(my hands were clean) and after that she gave me a blowjob but before I could finish for a second time, we tried to have sex(I only got the tip in and we had to stop because it was hurting her)

My question is. What are the possibilities that she might be prego?

#186388 to #186211 - owllynator
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(06/01/2015) [-]
i would say a solid 9.5/10

probably go get a morning after pill young one
#186278 to #186211 - hoponthefeelstrain
Reply +1
(05/31/2015) [-]
how about don't have sex until you have condoms or another form of birth control. You sound way too young to have sex.
#186241 to #186211 - watermelloon
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(05/31/2015) [-]
also for the sex bit.... just shove it in. make sure she is wet. dont be gentle about it or ur just prolonging the pain. once the hymen is broken its broken and it'll be better for her to get it done quickly. expect a bit of blood and maybe her to flinch in pain and shit. she'll be ok. just be seductive and romantic after, hold her hand, hug her slightly, give her kisses. bitches love that shit.
#186250 to #186241 - anon
Reply 0
(05/31/2015) [-]
Don't listen to this guy. Please don't do that, for fuck sake.
#186493 to #186250 - watermelloon
Reply 0
(06/02/2015) [-]
im a girl and ive been there. going slow just makes this shit hurt longer and its stupid.
#186240 to #186211 - watermelloon
Reply 0
(05/31/2015) [-]
like 3.5% or fucking less. if she misses a period then u have to worry. (dont test just yet if ur worried. it takes like 6+ days for a prego test to work, so test once she has missed her normal period. that way you will have an accurate result and wont have to retest)

get her on the pill and buy some condoms. dont be a moron or ur gonna get herpies and fucking die.

How i know? im a google master and im a lady and stuff.
#186217 to #186211 - anon
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(05/31/2015) [-]
U dun fuked up m8. Eh, pretty unlikely unless you came inside her. It takes a big load to get a girl pregnant seeing as millions of sperm has to travel to get to the egg and most of them die along the way. Still would be cautious though.
#186220 to #186217 - anon
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(05/31/2015) [-]
Thanks man
#186210 - anon
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(05/31/2015) [-]
So, I am 18 and going to college this year. I never really had many friends and spent most of my life alone and doing my own thing and what not.

However I want to change that, but I am terrible with people. I can't converse with people very well, partly because I don't talk to people often and mostly because I don't do many things so I am not particularly interesting.

Never had a GF as you could imagine, several girls were interested in me sometimes but im a betafag so yeah. Apparently people think I am fairly good looking but im not sure as my self esteem is low

But yeah, general advice as to how I can start building my social life this year, as I have no one else but my FJ family to talk to it about. Much appreciated.
#186390 to #186210 - owllynator
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(06/01/2015) [-]
get drunk a lot, talk, dont rule out things you wouldnt normally do, and talk a lot
#186233 to #186210 - averagewhitekid
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(05/31/2015) [-]
Easiest one I can say, assuming that you are a video game geek like most of the socially awkward , is look for a fun video game related course that you can use as some random elective credit. They are usually a load of fun, and you can meet and make friends with plenty of gamers there that you can hang out with outside of class.

Other than that clubs are really great
And there are usually plenty of events around campus, even if you don't care about them or enjoy them half the time, they usually have free food which is sweet.
#186208 - hoponthefeelstrain
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(05/31/2015) [-]
I feel bad. I have my whole life planned out but in the whole schedule I see no time to start a family, not til I'm old and my eggs are all dust balls billowing in the wind. And that's not a huge problem because I don't want kids but I'm afraid I'll wait til I'm 50 to decide that I wished I was a mother. My current boyfriend doesn't want kids either but he's open to them. And I just don't know. Like I wanna pass on my genes and all that good shit too.

I think college breaks is when I'll do my whole "travel the world" thing, instead of waiting until finish 8 yrs of college and 2-4 yrs of residency. What do you guys think? it's so hard balancing a career with being a mom/wife and then enjoying myself too.
#186225 to #186208 - flutterfire
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(05/31/2015) [-]
Honestly, what you want now is probably nothing like what you'll want ten years from now. Think about what you wanted five years ago. Is that still what you want now?
#186226 to #186225 - hoponthefeelstrain
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(05/31/2015) [-]
pretty much yea, the idea of giving birth has always freaked me out, I still wanna be a doctor and I especially want no kids so I can spend lots of time with my husband
#186227 to #186226 - flutterfire
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(05/31/2015) [-]
Well, who knows? Maybe you'll change your mind, maybe you won't. If you ever want to raise a child, you can always adopt, and if you like the idea of your genes living on, you could look into donating some of your eggs.
#186228 to #186227 - hoponthefeelstrain
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(05/31/2015) [-]
wow I forgot about egg donation
fuck yes. Thanks fam
#186229 to #186228 - flutterfire
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(05/31/2015) [-]
Yay! I actually gave good advice for once!
#186204 - logickid
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(05/31/2015) [-]
>tfw no gf
Maybe this year guys it's not like I need it but it would be very nice to y'know have a companion for life
#186222 to #186204 - fukkentyranitar
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(05/31/2015) [-]
Find a fuck buddy or something.
#186209 to #186204 - welliguessitsaname
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(05/31/2015) [-]
Go outside.
#186189 - rereviven
Reply 0
(05/31/2015) [-]
So is working at Walmart bad?
I mean I'm working in a grocery store stocking right now earning $7.25/h but there's Walmart right across the street where i could do the same job, probably easier, and earn $9 and get my 10% discount, is it worth it?
#186190 to #186189 - sugoi ONLINE
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(05/31/2015) [-]
But you have to deal with the crazy customers though!
#186192 to #186190 - rereviven
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(05/31/2015) [-]
i know

The only downside im seeing is the cancer that is Walmart
#186193 to #186192 - sugoi ONLINE
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(05/31/2015) [-]
Well do you have a thick skin and shop at walmart often? If so then go for it.

Also something to take note, if you do work there, realize that whenever your family goes to walmart they will try to drag you with them to get that 10% discount.
#186194 to #186193 - rereviven
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(05/31/2015) [-]
How bad are the customers at wal mart? The place i work is just old people mostly, but Ive had some assholes to cater to
#186195 to #186194 - sugoi ONLINE
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(05/31/2015) [-]
I'm not from America so I wouldn't know, what I've seen is pretty bad but that's most likely just cherry picking.

Personally I'd stick with the grocery store, old people seem easier to deal with than younger people.
#186196 to #186195 - rereviven
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(05/31/2015) [-]
But muh $9
#186197 to #186196 - sugoi ONLINE
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(05/31/2015) [-]
It's so tempting...
YOU HAVE A TOUGH CHOICE AHEAD OF YOU.
#186198 to #186197 - rereviven
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(05/31/2015) [-]
I dunno i do hate these young little shits

Le im 15 and drink bud lite and hug my 11 year old girlfriend while in public cuz i am cool
#186199 to #186198 - sugoi ONLINE
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(05/31/2015) [-]
Is that worth the extra 1.75 to you?
#186188 - pinecest
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(05/31/2015) [-]
I just found out that my grandmother has pneumonia on top of her emphysema and COPD, and may have dementia, if not Alzheimer's. I fear that she does not have much longer to live, and I have never experienced the death of someone so close to me. I do not know what to do when the inevitable comes, and I just need help coping with her impending demise.
#186253 to #186188 - shangrilathree
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(05/31/2015) [-]
I have the exact same feeling. My mother also has COPD, and she has cholesterol problems, and every day I think "What if?"
You have to remember that you have family and friends around you, my friend. Everybody else will be just as upset as you will be, so this is the part where you stick together with your family, and remember that they are there for you, just as you are there for them. Death is a natural part of life. No matter what, death is inevitable for everyone and you have to remember that also. Many people that you are close to will die, and it is something you'll have to cope with head on. There is no avoiding it.

I hope everything goes well, my friend. Remember, you have family, friends, and even us faggots on here if you need anyone. Take care.
#186182 - drl
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#186181 - anon
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(05/30/2015) [-]
I can't seem to find anybody IRL that has the same interests as me. I had a boyfriend who had the same interests, we split up after two years and then got back together five months ago. I realised that I didn't miss him, I just hanging out with somebody who likes the kind of crap I like. He's a dick, who cheated on me and we split up a few days ago, and I don't want to go back into that. I'm just worried about going back into the state of being depressed and lonely, because I have nobody to talk to about my "weird" interests. I'd probably get back together with him again out of loneliness and fear of never finding somebody else. But doesn't everybody feel that way when they break up?
What can I do?
#186191 to #186181 - sugoi ONLINE
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(05/31/2015) [-]
Just talk to FJ about your weird interests.
As anon if need be.
#186183 to #186181 - drl
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(05/30/2015) [-]
dating sites
conventions
try to meet someone at a store that sells your intrusts
#186174 - anon
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(05/30/2015) [-]
My love life issues ,
Basically I like this guy irl, we met up early May and he kissed me and we hung out in a park. After that he came over with another friend and we hung out, exams happened so we didn't see eachother but we still talked, he was flirty as hell but never outright said he liked me. He always said we should meet up but never followed it up or forgot, or made an excuse. Last Thursday I think is when we last skyped.
He was acting weird too. My grandma died last Friday and so I had to come over to England, he still acted weird, he didn't ask how I was, he wasn't talking to me. Really unsupportive. So I called him out on it and we had a fight on Wednesday, And I was emotional, so I said too much but he didn't stop me and he was to blame for me being so upset, for neglecting me and being weird. He claimed that he didn't get comforted by his friends when his grandma died (he was 14 when this happened and is now 17) he was trying to say I shouldn't expect it either basically, and that to hold a grudge against him for being unsupportive was wrong. It's like that was years ago they were kids, and he understands my pain, they didn't. I also require different emotional support to him.
He had mentioned a girl a few days before, and had teased me about her, yet saying he didn't like her like that. Basically, we made up after our big fight, and he said he wanted to be my friend, And that he liked me. So I was pleased, the next day (so yesterday) he was being really flirty, And he said lets meet up when you get back. Then he said he has a confession, And I asked what, and he wouldn't tell me. So I made him tell me, I already knew he had met up with the girl a few days ago to study together, cos they both do maths, and I knew he had liked her pic on fb. Which made me really sad, because he hadn't liked mine, and because he had offered to come over when I was sad, but forgot and like he meets up with her and not me. So he admitted he's begun to like her, yet still has feelings for me. I told him forget it, that I wasn't going to be anyone's second. I wasn't going to fight for his attention, and I deleted him on steam. He always deflects, nothing is ever his fault.
Something my mum said 'I suspect he has low self esteem and confidence, and that she is 'easier' than you, but you want a mature relationship, and for that you need TWO mature people!'
Another part of this was that this guy really wanted to do shit with me, I'm 19, he's 17, and I told him I wasn't comfortable doing anything sexual without being in a long term committed relationship. I think this may have added to him being weird, he stopped asking to meet up after the first month of him supposedly liking me, and we talked everyday but he still fucked me around a lot...
I just feel really horrible, he knows I have major trust issues, I told him in the skype convo we had that I wasn't going to be anyone's second, that I wasn't going to fight for his attention or compete for him over this girl, and when you like two people at once you don't properly like either of the girls.
I just feel really hurt because if anything he was supposed to be a good friend, and he wasn't there for me when I needed him and he lied to me about liking this girl.
I told him we couldn't be friends anymore, because I would become miserable and paranoid about what he's doing if he's with her etc. and I know he'll get bored of her because she will not have the same connection we did (we had long ass conversations, and we played games together etc.) I just feel stupid for letting myself like him.
He's really immature, he doesn't understand my emotional needs, and he doesn't understand the harm he has done. I don't know if he had gotten off with the girl, I didn't ask because I was so hurt that he liked someone else. We cut off communication on Friday morning, and I feel sick about the idea of seeing him or them together.
Even if he was a dick to me, I don't have any other friends... I'm sad...
#186895 to #186174 - xXThatxOnexGuyXx
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(06/05/2015) [-]
Hi there. Sorry for the late reply, not sure if you'll see this with it being a few days late and all.
(I have no computer, and no WiFi. Only spotty Internet on my phone.)

First off, this guy is 17.
Age, like it or not, is a huge factor.
He definitely is immature and inconsiderate. He's only seeking someone to satisfy his needs, and he isn't looking to return the favor either; Not unless it's done in a physical way.

He just wants attention, at this point. He's in high school and it's honestly probably getting to him. I never fully grew out of the "I'm going to try for this 'thing' with this girl because immediate attention" phase until I was 19.

As everyone else is saying:
Drop him like a bad habit.

Yes, having someone to fulfill those relationship-esque voids that you have would be nice, but surely don't rush into things — and surely don't let your mind and emotions wander too far if a guy is super quick to rush into something. It's not always a good sign... If they can't take it slow and rush off to someone else then they weren't in it for the right reasons in the first place.
I hate to say that, but it's true.

Get to know them well before dating. Courting is always a viable option.

Being single sucks, but trust me on this one, waiting for the right person is worth it.
That guy you've been seeing just wants the first girl who will give him attention. This is almost every guy's mindset. They either want the first thing that comes their way that will take them, or they'll obsess and fantasize over one female. Not many guys really grow up and leave that phase. But there are guys out there that do grow up and realize women are much more than a thing that is their for their own pleasure.

He hasn't grown up yet. He isn't out of that phase.

If you find a guy who doesn't push too hard for a relationship and openly admits he's fine with being just a friend and proves it, then you've found one of the decent guys out there.

My fiancé and I dated for an entire month before I asked her if she'd like to be my girlfriend. I waited a week until I asked for it to he Facebook official. And it was a week after that when I asked to kiss her for the first time. The entire time we were courting, I was perfectly fine if it never advanced any further than a friendship, because I knew if I became obsessive about every aspect except her own personality, then nothing would go well at all between her and I.

Find a guy who will take things slow and let things just happen on its own, rather than forcing everything. It'll happen just be patient and go meet new people and take things slow.
#186896 to #186895 - xXThatxOnexGuyXx
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(06/05/2015) [-]
funnyjunk.com/advice/138251#138251

Some pretty solid advice from a friend of mine, although it's definitely from a guy's perspective.
Not all guys are mature.
Still pretty sound advice, though.
#186348 to #186174 - wootshop
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(06/01/2015) [-]
I was going to answer this, and then confusedasian got here and proved that he is not confused in the slightest.
Ultimately, yes, drop him. He is an immature and unintelligent 17 year old boy. While not all guys are like that, a lot of them are. But my key words are NOT ALL GUYS. Please, please, please for the sake of all of my well natured brethren and for your sake as well, know that not all of us are like that. I understand your trust issues. I, like many people all over the place, really have a problem trusting others. That is one of the reasons I have an account here. Nobody needs to know who I am and they can't mess with my actual life. However, I do have real friends that I trust, and I am awkward as hell. The key is finding people that you have things in common with you. If your school has clubs, or if there are any sort of groups around that you know about around your area that you could get into. Online friends are great, some of my best friends are from websites I have been on. But having real friends is helpful too.
A place where I have made a lot of friends is where I work. To be fair, I work at an indoor trampoline park. It's a nice place to work. But the main thing it has helped me with is forcing me to be in social situations. If you can find a job where it is important to talk to people, you actually get better at it in your day-to-day life, and it is a huge confidence boost. Plus, you can easily make some pretty good friends at work.

Now, when it comes to dating, sometimes you just get screwed. It happens. Now if it does, you just have to say "Screw him, he isn't worth my time." Because he wasn't. What is important is getting back up. There are better guys for you out there, ones that will care about you and your feelings. Ones that are mature enough to respect your boundaries and understand you. And you just have to put yourself back out there when you're comfortable and ready to do it. Ultimately, I believe that you will be happier taking some time to get some friends and looking for the right guy when it is time.

In the mean time, I suggest getting an account here. I like it here. There are just about all kinds of people here from everywhere. I'm sure you will make friends. And if you do join, feel free to add me.
Have a good day.
#186266 to #186174 - confusedasian
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(05/31/2015) [-]
Should get over him to be honest. If it's exactly as you said, he literally just sounds like he wants to pork you. You said you didn't have any friends, that's probably why you're more upset. I don't know the word.

Unfortunately, I've arrived late to the call so I can't really like extend my hand since you posted 20 hours ago and I kind of doubt that you're still around.
#186268 to #186266 - anon
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(05/31/2015) [-]
I am here, I bookmarked my comment, I'm just really sad about it I guess
#186269 to #186268 - confusedasian
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(05/31/2015) [-]
Why wouldn't you be? Sounds like you were attached to that guy. I'm guessing from the lack of friends, finally having one must have made you feel happy pappy. You and your mom are right. Look for someone mature. This guy is looking at two girls at the same time? Nah son. That ain't how it works. Maybe in some 3rd world shit hole where guys have 18 wives through forced marriage, but not here. You want some guy? Get someone that will respect you and treat you as his only. None of that "side chick" "main chick" business.

If I were you, I wouldn't even worry about guys though. I'm a guy, we ain't shit. No, if I was you, I would focus on fixing that lack of friends. Do you go out? College or something? Myself, I'm attending a small community college. I've met some people there. If you work, maybe talk to some co-workers? Don't even need to be in person. Take it slow if you're the shy type. Make online friends. A few years ago, I went to the forums of one of my favorite video games. Made a lot of friends that way. Just last year, I joined another forum and also made some friends. Read that you had steam so if you can find a forum for one of your games. Or if you want, I'll give you my steam. I'm from Florida though. I have an EUW account in league I made earlier last week too. Or make an account here on FunnyJunk. Become one of us. Become a cock munching faggot like the rest of us. Join us. Joooiiiiiiin uuusssssss.
#186300 to #186269 - anon
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(05/31/2015) [-]
I have a lot of online friends, it's just I have none irl and I really don't know how to make them... Everything you've said is right and it made me laugh and cheered me up, thank you for that.
I go to a sixth form (English school) but there are so many people and there aren't any clubs and we've basically ended our first year now, so summer will start soon and then the final year, I don't know who to approach or what to do... I made friends in class, but I didn't know how to move them to an out of class setting, or even if I should because what if I wasn't compatible? I'm really upset I guess because this guy had invited me to join his group of friends, and we had a great connection, however in the end he fucked me around...
I have really big trust issues and I tend to push people away pretty quickly, I have social anxiety too... I'm trying to fix this, but it's really hard.
I was out of school for 4 years with depression and other mental illness so everyone in my year at school is 16-17, whilst I am 19 nearly 20...
I do have a steam, and I'd be happy to add you.
Thank you for all your help.
#186247 to #186174 - womanexplain
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(05/31/2015) [-]
I want to answer this, but I have to go out so I'll answer it later, in the meanwhile...
confusedasian xXThatxOnexGuyXx
I can't think of anyone else who could help
#186267 to #186247 - confusedasian
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(05/31/2015) [-]
A girl knows me by my name.

I-I never thought I'd make it this far.
#186175 to #186174 - anon
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(05/30/2015) [-]
I told him I needed space/wouldn't talk to him again because I was really upset, and even though he wanted me to be his friend and was saddened by all this, I'm pretty sure it'll bother me far more than it will him, and this makes me feel stupid and incredibly sad.
I feel like he'll just get off with this girl and not give me a second thought, he even said 'even though I'll have her, it won't be the same, it'll be so lonely'
it's like wtf... I'm just so sad...
My mum said he's a typical 17 year old who thinks with their dick, and so that's probably why he's going after this girl.
Idk man...
I would also say that she is a pretty generic looking girl, she's not a great beauty, which makes me feel like it really could be for the reasoning that she's easier.
I've never talked to her either, but I doubt she's a gamer etc. This is jealousy talking I know...
I feel so weird and sad...
#186178 to #186175 - nachoiscool
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(05/30/2015) [-]
well just to clear things up not all of us 17 year old boys are like that. But keep your head up sometimes its best to move on and start fresh
#186180 to #186178 - anon
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(05/30/2015) [-]
I know, but where I live most are. Thank you.
#186154 - anon
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(05/30/2015) [-]
A question from a man who's thoughts have been gone over the white blue yonder.   
What are suppose to be a normal man's daily thoughts?
A question from a man who's thoughts have been gone over the white blue yonder.
What are suppose to be a normal man's daily thoughts?
#186203 to #186154 - logickid
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(05/31/2015) [-]
Success and happiness?
#186184 to #186154 - drl
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(05/30/2015) [-]
we do not open that door
that door remains locked and when people ask what our normal thoughts are we just say beer and sports
every person on earth does something like this because everyone has crazy thoughts
so keep that door locked
#186169 to #186154 - shaunata
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(05/30/2015) [-]
"ass and tities."
"im hungry, but what is there to eat. "
"I should probably do (X) but I dont feel like it
oh look videogames/phone/social media"

Thats a pretty good template
#186166 to #186154 - alexanderburns
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(05/30/2015) [-]
looks at girl's butts and think "butt"
#186158 to #186154 - supertanto
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(05/30/2015) [-]
Nigga do I look like fucking kierkegaard how the fuck am I supposed to know
#186156 to #186154 - friendofaf
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(05/30/2015) [-]
I'm sure everyones thoughts right now are 'why the fuck is that a gif?'
#186185 to #186156 - drl
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(05/30/2015) [-]
holy shit i did not even notice that
im dying
#186155 to #186154 - raeptiemx
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(05/30/2015) [-]
the three B's
Boobs
Beer
Bacon
#186150 - romuloid
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(05/30/2015) [-]
Future college fag looking for some advice: So I'm heading off to Michigan State in three months and I'm thinking of getting a Playstation 4 for my dorm. I've got the money, but the only issue is my parents. I respect them and want their approval, but my older brother had issues with video games conflicting with him going to class in college (almost to the point of dropping out) and not getting the best grades in high school. I'm really set on getting one (Cheaper alternative to buying a PC or gaming laptop) but I'd like some advice on how to convince my parents. I got much better grades than my older brother at the end of my senior year in high school and managed to control my video gaming much better than he did. My parents are kind of set on thinking that video games are bad and I feel that they think I'm going to end up making the same mistakes. How should I approach them on the topic? also any game recommendations? I'm going to get Witcher 3 and maybe another game
#186201 to #186150 - anon
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(05/31/2015) [-]
CMU beats MSU
#186202 to #186201 - romuloid
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(05/31/2015) [-]
You're an absolute madman for saying that!
#186205 to #186202 - anon
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(05/31/2015) [-]
Nah bruh
Their ASB program is the shit!
in all honesty I've worked with kids from their ASB program for the past three years and they've all been fantastic. Not only that but they have a VERY fun time while they're working with us.
#186186 to #186150 - drl
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(05/30/2015) [-]
well your first mistake was going to Michigan instead of glorious Ohio
#186200 to #186186 - romuloid
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(05/31/2015) [-]
U fuking wot
#186207 to #186200 - drl
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(05/31/2015) [-]
OSU 4 LIFE NIGGA
#186159 to #186150 - supertanto
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(05/30/2015) [-]
basically what mako said. Grow a fucking pair and learn to deal with your shit. MSU ain't a bad school so you can't be completely retarded. I already own a PS4 and my dad is buying me a new one to take to college with me in the fall so he has someone to play with online
#186151 to #186150 - makotoitou
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(05/30/2015) [-]
"ayo mam i'm like an adult so fuck you n' shit"
#186152 to #186151 - romuloid
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(05/30/2015) [-]
I'd definitely say something like that if they weren't paying my out of state tuition, which I am very thankful for