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#207707 - mikeypooh

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(02/03/2016) [-]

when a apartment says High Speed Internet Access, does that mean that internet is included?

#207714 to #207707 - mrrandomness

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(02/04/2016) [-]

that most likely means that you should be able to get good speeds in that area. Im not sure but i've never heard of an apartment coming with internet.

#207708 to #207707 - anon id: 166c2164

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(02/03/2016) [-]

sounds like it does.

you should probably check with the landlord.

#207699 - murrlogic

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(02/03/2016) [-]

Oh god I am extremely hungover right now so I'll make this post quick.

I honestly believe my "shitposting" bothers probably the absolute minority who frequent FJ because judging from my posting all I seem to do is piss off the same 10-20 people over again.

If I am somehow pissing off the smallest demographic imaginable then I don't consider it shitposting.

#207746 to #207699 - spaceking

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(02/04/2016) [-]

Why did this comment get so many thumbs down when none of your other comments are thumbed at all?

#207758 to #207746 - anon id: 166c2164

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(02/04/2016) [-]

Putting him in his place.

#207710 to #207699 - anon id: 166c2164

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(02/04/2016) [-]

go away.

#207702 to #207699 - alstorp

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(02/03/2016) [-]

Shitposting isn't about pissing people off, it's about posting stupid and completely irrelevant things. No one appreciates that.

#207698 - twatter

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(02/03/2016) [-]

I need advice, I guess. I'm kind of in a hole.
I've been suffering from depression since I was like 13 and I just need some motivation right now.
What legitimately keeps you guys going? What makes you happy? I personally like to make other people happy.

#207730 to #207698 - jaytothadee

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(02/04/2016) [-]

same...I just shrug it off and force myself to think happy thoughts. I like to fix other peoples problems. That seems to help for me

#207724 to #207698 - alexanderburns

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(02/04/2016) [-]

I just really like doing shit that I enjoy

#207720 to #207698 - cowcubrub

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(02/04/2016) [-]

I have a list. I don't believe anyone is happy just watching TV, so I made a list of skills and other things I want to accomplish in the next year. I try to go for 1 physical, 1 mental, and one to aid me moving into the future. Right now I want to learn to box, learn to speak Swedish, and perform at least 15 hours of community service per month. Once they're on the list, these are the things that working toward let you pull happiness from.

#207709 to #207698 - braveblue

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(02/03/2016) [-]

I too like making other people happy, but only if I think they deserve it. I also help out people with their problems, or at least I can't ignore someone's problems if I think I can help them out. I guess my happiness comes from helping out people that I'm able to help out. You should help yourself out before you are able to help anyone else out.

So... I guess my goal in life is to help people out, there is no end to this goal which means I'll probably always be striving towards it. It's always really fulfilling hearing gratitude but also knowing you've changed someones life in a small or big way is also really awesome.

If you like making others happy, it's probably because you don't others to be like you, depressed. Personally if I can prevent it, I don't want anyone to make the same mistakes as I have. A little kindness goes a long way. Exercise is pretty good to keep your mind off of things, also music just zoning out in music is also pretty great at keeping things off your mind unless its something really big and you can't really zone it out.

Just be happy with what ever choices you make and make sure you don't regret anything.

#207700 to #207698 - sugoi

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(02/03/2016) [-]

Don't think about it.
Works wonders, I just focus on improving myself, coincidentally jogging apparently helps with depression so now I won't be a big ole tubby tubs and I won't be depressed.

#207697 - anon id: 2b3a7578

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(02/03/2016) [-]

A word of advice- hold off on expressing explicit sexual interest in a girl if you really lIke her, especially if you told her you do; keep it centered on conversation and getting to know her. I was having a great time engaging in conversation and some light flirtation with a guy I literally just met when he tells me all about a very sexual dream he had about me. It pretty much killed all the interest I had in him.

#207725 to #207697 - anon id: eda4a2c4

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(02/04/2016) [-]

I dreamed of a girl i liked more than any other for a long time.
Not once was it sexual.
She was just there with me, and i was blissful.

#207732 to #207725 - anon id: 2b3a7578

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(02/04/2016) [-]

Well that's incredibly lovely, I wish that was how people dreamt of me. Instead, I get an overly muscled divorcee baby daddy creeping on me over text after spending all of three hours together. And he seemed so perfect up until then...

#207701 to #207697 - sugoi

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(02/03/2016) [-]

That sounds hilarious and that guy sounds autistic.
One hell of a pickup line though "Hey wanna hear about that wet dream I had about you?"

#207703 to #207701 - anon id: 2b3a7578

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(02/03/2016) [-]

I'm actually his tutor and we have another meeting tomorrow night. I basically straight up told him that I'm down to flirt because he's super chill in person and it's harmless but there is like zero chance I'll fuck him and he started talking about how he "has a lot to learn from me about the "chase" anticipation" or some shit like that.

#207704 to #207703 - sugoi

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(02/03/2016) [-]

Sounds like he's been watching too many movies.

#207712 to #207704 - anon id: fca259b8

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(02/04/2016) [-]

Oh sorry he actually said "untampered with by Western ideology" whatever the fuck that means

#207736 to #207712 - sugoi

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(02/04/2016) [-]

Well I can see why you're tutoring him since he sounds completely retarded.
Does he own a fedora? maybe have a neckbeard?

#207759 to #207736 - anon id: 2b3a7578

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(02/04/2016) [-]

Not even close, he's actually ex military and super fit (actually too fit for my tastes but I was overlooking it because of how kind and interesting he was)

#207767 to #207759 - sugoi

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(02/04/2016) [-]

And yet he's talking about stuff like "untampered with by western ideology" and telling women about his wet dreams about him?

Sounds like a strange bloke, in fact, what are you tutoring an ex military? sounds like a bizarre scenario to me.

#207795 to #207767 - anon id: 2b3a7578

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(02/05/2016) [-]

He's getting a degree in kinesiology but needs to get some basic math requisites out of the way and he's gone beyond the level that he's comfortable teaching himself. He's SO FUCKING NORMAL and NICE and ENJOYABLE in person but over text he just gets so weird and horndoggy, it's confusing af. I just got back from tutoring him again and it went really great, I'm just hoping he doesn't get fucking creepy again.

#207796 to #207795 - sugoi

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(02/05/2016) [-]

Sounds like the bloke just has some inhibitions stopping him from acting it out in reality.
Maybe one of those normal but weird shit in the closet types.

#207798 to #207796 - anon id: 2b3a7578

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(02/05/2016) [-]

well thank god for those inhibitions, i really don't need him massaging my thighs or enjoying exploring me like he claims he did in his dream...

#207799 to #207798 - sugoi

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(02/05/2016) [-]

What kind of frame of mind must someone be to ever think it would be a good idea to text that?

#207809 to #207799 - anon id: e6f923e1

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(02/05/2016) [-]

Scratch that, he sent me the text at 7:30 AM yesterday and I met him at 6 PM the night before so 13.5 hours later.
Basically, when I met him he was absolutely normal and we had some really great little chats about a lot of subjects. Finished tutoring after two hours and I stayed another hour after that because we were having some really great conversation.
I go home, we're texting, he starts flirting and I flirt back until he takes it just a bit too far and I just tell him I like him but not THAT much (I actually said I was flattered but a prude because he wanted to "study me" which I took to mean he wanted to get his dick wet).
Next morning he starts texting me saying he gets it and likes my intellect BUT THEN PROCEEDS TO TELL ME THE SEX DREAM. I tell him I'm slow af to get physical with people and that's when he starts talking about the "chase" bullshit like damn dude did I say you were getting some? After that, I straight up told him I've only been with one person and it was after a very long time of getting to know and trust them. That's when he said the stuff about western ideology and ever since our conversations have been completely normal.
After tutoring earlier tonight, I stayed after again for another half hour because we were talking but we both had shit to do so I left. Oh also he introduced me to his mom. She's great.

#207808 to #207799 - anon id: e6f923e1

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(02/05/2016) [-]

Keep in mind that I knew him for MAYBE fifteen hours by that point.

#207811 to #207808 - sugoi

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(02/05/2016) [-]

Well you seen to be handling it fine so good luck i guess.
Hopefully he doesnt go weird again.

#207711 to #207704 - anon id: fca259b8

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(02/04/2016) [-]

Well if that's the case, those are some pretty explicit movies... now he's telling me how I seem "untampered by Western society" because I mentioned that I think shared experience is what defines the relationships people have with each other (which just seems like common sense to me?)

#207686 - boobiesnshitz

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(02/03/2016) [-]

I have trouble enjoying things. Depression doesn't help with this so what can i do to try and brighten up my day?

#207696 to #207686 - dreygur

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(02/03/2016) [-]

>>#207690, >>#207693,

It does wonders for the mind.

#207693 to #207686 - oxidoferroso

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(02/03/2016) [-]

Exercise

#207690 to #207686 - sugoi

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(02/03/2016) [-]

Go for a jog

#207688 to #207686 - misticalz

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(02/03/2016) [-]

Do what you want to do

#207678 - jbabco

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(02/03/2016) [-]

Where do I posts ideas for the website?

#207684 to #207678 - anon id: 166c2164

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(02/03/2016) [-]

You need to login to view this link

#207677 - jbabco

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#207679 to #207677 - anon id: d2e09399

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(02/03/2016) [-]

Not much you can do now but grab some snacks and watch a movie. The pages will still be there to read tomorrow.

#207680 to #207679 - jbabco

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(02/03/2016) [-]

I guess, but its for a group project.

#207676 - arrozconleche

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(02/03/2016) [-]

so then, I had a conversation with a girl I have had a crush on for about 1.5 years. and we were talking about what turns us on (yes that's actually the conversation we had) when she said that she loved me. The confusing thing is that she has a boyfriend. What do damnit.

#207682 to #207676 - anon id: e6465bd6

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(02/03/2016) [-]

Give it to her straight that you aren't having her cheat.
If she kept feels that way she needs to end it with her current bf before any kissing or dates or anything.

#207672 - scowler

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(02/03/2016) [-]

I'm not trying to sound lazy, but what exactly do I have to do - at the bare minimum - to submit a valid patent in the United States?

I tried finding out through the USPTO site, but that text-wall gave me a fuckin' panic attack. Being pointed to various paragraphs and subsections without hot-links will do that to you....

#207705 to #207672 - phtholognyrrh

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(02/03/2016) [-]

google.com is a great resource for patent applications

#207685 to #207672 - scowler

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(02/03/2016) [-]

Also, are digital drawings accepted when submitting a patent application?

#207660 - anon id: 98455609

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(02/03/2016) [-]

Question fj. It possible to miss someone you hate?.

#207671 to #207660 - sushininja

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(02/03/2016) [-]

If you miss what they were like before you hated them then that's normal. If you miss hating them then that's weird

#207662 to #207660 - sugoi

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(02/03/2016) [-]

Yeah.

#207658 - skeletorexplains

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(02/03/2016) [-]

one of my Monitors just died, I can either buy a new set of monitors (its honestly time for me to update the 2nd monitor anyways i think)

Or i can get my broken monitor fixed. I am not quite sure what to do or get at this point.

(Australia) So i'm looking at getting Two BenQ GW2470H 23.8in and i may need a HDMI to DP adapter. Currently unsure Got a GTX 760 GPU

Any thoughts?

#207674 to #207658 - scowler

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(02/03/2016) [-]

By a singe new monitor, then buy a second one of the same type after you break the first one in. If one of your monitors went, it's only a matter of time until the other one goes.

#207663 to #207658 - sugoi

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(02/03/2016) [-]

Most of the times the broken monitor just has a broken capacitor.
Open that sucker up and just molest every capacitor you see, any of them feel "expanded" and you know that's probably the problem.

Get another capacitor for a few bucks, solder solder solder, fixed.

But if it's not a capacitor then iunno I am not qualified for monitor types.

#207666 to #207663 - skeletorexplains

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(02/03/2016) [-]

i can't solder for shit..i think it'd just be more worth it to buy a new monitor.

From what i can tell, the backlight in it died. It works but you can't see shit in the monitor except very faint "Bright" images on it.

#207667 to #207666 - sugoi

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(02/03/2016) [-]

Might not be a capacitor issue then, my error usually involves not turning on or turning on for a second, flashing or something, then turning back off.

If it's too complicated then yeah better off getting a new one.

#207669 to #207667 - skeletorexplains

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(02/03/2016) [-]

Nah mine turns on its just..Dark as fuck, (There was also a metalic "burn" Smell after it went.)

But what do you think about the choice in monitors? I can get myself up to 3 monitors this time i think and when i get my new ikea desks i can have a TV in the corner for my consoles n stuff.

#207670 to #207669 - sugoi

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(02/03/2016) [-]

I am an absolute idiot when it comes to monitors I just look at them at the store think "yeah this'll do" then at the pricetag before buying it online for cheaper.

All I can advise on is to make sure it's got the connectors you need like HDMI or DVI-D

#207673 to #207670 - skeletorexplains

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(02/03/2016) [-]

Yeah i've been reading about those to see what i can fit into my PC.
1-HDMI
Dual DVI-I
DP
And Dual DVI-D.

Since the BenQ comes with HDMI cables i was just going to buy a HDMI to DP adapter to fix that problem. If not i'll probably get a Logitech C920 and a BenQ.

but i am also an idiot when it comes to this kind of PC stuff but i remember awhile back people were going nuts at me because my main screen didn't have 60 or w.e fps Or was it 100...was a month or so ago. I'm not the type to notice that crap honestly.

#207657 - victhree

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(02/03/2016) [-]

I just feel like there's absolutely nothing. I can't enjoy anything in life. There's no point to my existence. Death seems absolutely terrifying.

Every path is closed. It's game over.

Help?

#207664 to #207657 - sugoi

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(02/03/2016) [-]

Quit being emo and go get a job.

#207659 to #207657 - anon id: d2e09399

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(02/03/2016) [-]

Unfortunately, this is something you have to figure out for yourself because everyone finds their will to live through different means. You have to basically force yourself out there to be happy.

#207654 - rokkai

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(02/03/2016) [-]

1 whole year without a gf. moved in with parents because of financial reasons.
~~HELP ME~~

#207665 to #207654 - sugoi

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(02/03/2016) [-]

Really moving up down in the world.

#207656 to #207654 - alexanderburns

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(02/03/2016) [-]

oh man an entire year I can't imagine how hard that must be

#207694 to #207656 - rokkai

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(02/03/2016) [-]

well, you don't crave something you don't know

#207653 - harbingerwolf

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(02/02/2016) [-]

Anyone know of any safe places without having to sign up or download to watch Kung fu panda 3? Im a lil salty it comes out 2 months late in my country for some reason.

#207735 to #207653 - includable

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(02/04/2016) [-]

I gotcha.

Just make sure you have a-d-block installed and stuff.
Popups are annoying.

viooz.ac/movies/28917-kung-fu-panda-3-2016.html

#207681 to #207653 - anon id: d2e09399

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(02/03/2016) [-]

It just came out here so any torrents you find are going to have some shit video and sound quality. I'd say wait another week or so before asking again. I've been looking for it myself.

#207650 - murrlogic

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(02/02/2016) [-]

Back from my therapy appointment. I bitched about a lot of things I normally bitch about here. SAY wants me to go pick up my participation check in the 2 week sensitivity trainings I took part in...I don't get it can't they just send it over to Tomayo House its like 2 feet next to their building.

I'm hoping its at least $200+ because anything less means rent is going to be more and more difficult to pay at the moment.

Anywho, besides that I have to go to an SSI appointment to see if i can get some more government monies.

How's life lads?

#207683 to #207650 - anon id: e6465bd6

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(02/03/2016) [-]

Grown man working for an organization meant to help others while he has no sense of how to be financially responsible, an uncontrollable temper, an apparent drinking problem, and no sensitivity or empathy towards those around him...

You don't deserve to breathe the air of those around you. Fuck you, your blog posts, and your victim complex.

#207639 - AnFour

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(02/02/2016) [-]

Girl problem. Please help..

Making a long story short. Knew a girl that was virgin. I fell in love with her because she was the first girl to tell me she likes me and cried for me and fell in love with her because she was a virgin. I wasn't. I stopped talking to her for 6 months, a guy fucks her, takes her virginity and the guy's best friend fucks her later on too. the day we stopped talking, I fucked the girl I lost my virginity to. This happened 2 years ago and I still talk to her once in a while.

I've never had a girlfriend and I want to marry my first girlfriend. I'm 21. She comes back later on and tells me she wants to be with me. It really hurts and I cried for her because she's the only girl I truly loved. I see the guys that fucked her and my heart gets filled with rage and deep sadness. This feeling doesn't want to go away. She always cries that I don't want to be with her. it hurts so much thinking about this..

Don't tell me if I love her, be with her. I want to know logic/reasoning. What should I do?

#207668 to #207639 - sugoi

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(02/03/2016) [-]

Just bail out.
Look man I'm not gunna call you childish or shallow or any of that other bullshit the other guys are saying. I know you had a lot of emotional investment in that chick and that whole losing her virginity to other guys thing is more of a loss of trust than eww dicks.

But seriously just bail out, you obviously don't trust/like her anymore so just bail the fuck out before you get more emotional over her again. Just move on with life.

#207687 to #207668 - gabsmatags

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(02/03/2016) [-]

Just gonna say this- if he was really that emotionally invested in her, he wouldn't have fucked someone else and basically abandoned her for six months when she expressed her feelings for him. There's no reason for him to have lost trust in her when he was the one who bailed.

#207689 to #207687 - sugoi

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(02/03/2016) [-]

Do you guys just enjoy shitting on people?

You act as if all this stupid emotional crap is logical at all.

#207691 to #207689 - gabsmatags

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(02/03/2016) [-]

I just think his behavior was immature and his reaction is not only hypocritical, but self absorbed as well.

#207692 to #207691 - sugoi

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(02/03/2016) [-]

Oh absolutely, you're definitely right on that.

Still, it just feels like kicking someone already down to me.

#207695 to #207692 - gabsmatags

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(02/03/2016) [-]

True, but the fact is that he needs a goddamn reality check. The dude is absolutely not the victim in this situation and if he doesn't see that, he's only going to feel more and more entitled in future relationships. He has absolutely no right to her body and he shouldn't act as such. Sure, he can be hurt, his feelings are real and valid. But he shouldn't carry on as though his feelings are the most important thing here because I am damn sure she was the one wronged by him.

#207649 to #207639 - anon id: 166c2164

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#207644 to #207639 - gabsmatags

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How incredibly shallow and childish of you. I agree 100% with anon, you're not worth her time or efforts and definitely not the tears she has wasted on you. Let her go, it's the one kindness you can do for her. You really need to grow the fuck up and learn to care about people for more than the lack of dicks that have been in them because that's a dumb as shit reason.

#207645 to #207644 - AnFour

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(02/02/2016) [-]

I cried for her harder than she's ever cried for me. Before all this happened she told me she wasnt gonna lose her virgnity and she was so sweet to me, i didnt expect that to come from her. crushed me. What do you want me to do when I see the guy that took her virginity and the guy that fucked her too after and posts on instagram that he misses her. I cant do anything about it. What do you want to feel and think when I heard what they physically said to me what they did to her when they were fucking her? The words echoe in my head when I see her.

I really fucking love her.

#207652 to #207645 - anon id: 665b4ebd

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(02/02/2016) [-]

"Yeah, but I cried harder so she's in the wrong"
Being /that/ passionate about a girl being a virgin is creepy, it's absolutely 2016

#207647 to #207645 - gabsmatags

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(02/02/2016) [-]

I'm just really baffled that you would behave as if you had a right to her virginity when you were the one who left for no reason. It's her body and she can do with it what she wants. She had absolutely no obligation to you when you were the dumbest who left and fucked someone else the literal day you stopped talking to her. You have the emotional intelligence of a petulant child and are totally unprepared for a normal, healthy relationship.

#207646 to #207645 - gabsmatags

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(02/02/2016) [-]

Just like anon said, you are the one who walked out. She moved on like she should have and deserved to. You're the one who messed up, simple as that. Do the both of you a favor and let her go because obviously you'll never get over the fact that she's no longer a virgin.

#207640 to #207639 - anon id: d2e09399

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(02/02/2016) [-]

Get the fuck over the fact that she had sex with another guy. You had sex with another girl but you don't see that stopping her from wanting to be with you, you shallow prick.

The way you worded this is just infuriating. "The guy that fucked her" makes it sound like she didn't have a say in it, like she was raped and then passed onto his friend. Unless she actually was raped, she wanted to have sex just as much as the other guy and made that decision on her own.
You're the one who stopped talking to her. That's a clear sign that you weren't interested in her, so she left to find someone else. She did the right thing by moving on, why can't you? Why was her being a virgin so important to you that you had to bring that up first? Was her being into you and being a virgin the only reason you even gave her a second thought?

Honestly, for her sake, I hope you two don't work out and she comes to her senses and finds someone who'll treat her worlds better than how you've treated her.

#207638 - lazaman

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(02/02/2016) [-]

Idk, this isn't advice I'm seeking, more like general help with emotions.
So I've been dating this girl for a while. We are such an amazing match, like literally everything about us is similar.
She fucking sucks at video games, I fucking suck at video games, she likes anime, I like anime, we both like art, we both have this sarcastic and lazy sense of humor, we both like fucking , and so much more.
Well, we recently starting saying we loved each other, because its true, I love this person.
But when I think of her, I get the urge to cry. But its not like other times when I want to cry.
I just feel like crying, not sobbing, my eyes just water up and I feel like hugging someone.
Is this what "tears of joy" is? It feels kinda nice.
I told her how much and why i loved her, and I began to cry.

TLR, is crying when you think of how much you love someone what tears of joy are?

#207651 to #207638 - dalokan

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(02/02/2016) [-]

Tears of joy are acing the enemy team at baron and then ending in your promos

#207661 to #207651 - lazaman

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(02/03/2016) [-]

Darn

#207643 to #207638 - anon id: d2e09399

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(02/02/2016) [-]

Yeah.

#207621 - muffintime

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(02/02/2016) [-]

need relationship advice from non-autistic users
>Me and gf dating close to 2 years
>had its up and downs like every relationship
>lately she seems distant and always making excuses that shes tired from work and stuff like that and never really wants to hang out and she never really says she horny anymore like she used to
>doesn't seem interested in any plans I make, just says "maybe" or "we'll see"
>last time we hung out at my house she didn't want to cuddle and she got mad at me touching her and she refused to kiss me
>every little thing I do irritates her and she starts arguments over the stupidest things and says mean things

She's my first real serious girlfriend and I love her but from all the signs I think she's done with me? should I be expecting for the worst? how should I bring this up in conversation to figure it out so I can stop waiting time on someone who doesn't want me?

#207625 to #207621 - dalokan

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(02/02/2016) [-]

Has this been going on for a while, or has it started just recently?

#207627 to #207625 - muffintime

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(02/02/2016) [-]

the past 2-3 weeks

#207629 to #207627 - dalokan

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(02/02/2016) [-]

Seems like she's trying to break up.

Honestly, if you feel like the relationship is stagnating and is not making you happy anymore, just break up. It is not worth it to cling to stuff like that.

Personally, with what you said, I think she might be cheating on you, but I don't know her, so idk

#207631 to #207629 - muffintime

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(02/02/2016) [-]

I'm starting to feel that she's cheating on me to unfortunately. I still love her but she just disappears for hours when she's at home and when she responds to my texts it's just like "sorry I fell asleep" or something like that. I want to make it work with her but she just doesn't seem like she wants to and she doesn't care anymore. I'm going to talk to her next time she finally decides to spend time with me and I'm going to figure it out.

#207632 to #207631 - dalokan

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(02/02/2016) [-]

If you can't trust her, time to leave bud.

Having a relationship with trust issues never ends well

#207633 to #207632 - muffintime

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(02/02/2016) [-]

I've always trusted her before but it's the last 2 weeks when she's been acting this way is when it started to fall apart, especially since I saw a guys name in her text messages when I surprised visited her then when I saw her 2 days later she deleted the messages and there was no guys name in her texts.....

#207634 to #207633 - dalokan

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(02/02/2016) [-]

Yeah defo cheating

#207635 to #207634 - muffintime

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(02/02/2016) [-]

I guess I will confront her about it next time I see her.

#207636 to #207635 - dalokan

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(02/02/2016) [-]

post results

#207637 to #207636 - muffintime

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(02/02/2016) [-]

rather not

#207628 to #207627 - muffintime

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(02/02/2016) [-]

like it slowly escalated. in that order

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#207617 - thejusticar

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(02/02/2016) [-]

Yo funnyjunk just a quick question, I decided to make a youtube channel, but im still a little stumped on what content i should actually make for it. do yall have any suggestions?

#207626 to #207617 - dalokan

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(02/02/2016) [-]

Reaction videos

#207641 to #207626 - thejusticar

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(02/02/2016) [-]

I would rather kill ny self.

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(02/02/2016) [-]

ok, starting simple.

what do you like? hobby, subjects etc.