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#206357 - anon id: db23e961

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(01/11/2016) [-]

I have pretty long hair and I've had it forever. I've styled it the same and kept it the same for years. I want to make a change but I'm kinda scared of doing it. Any suggestions to make it easier?

#206386 to #206357 - dasistwunderbar

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(01/12/2016) [-]

Cut your hair you filthy hippie. Source: I'm a filthy hippie.

#206360 to #206357 - plantain

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(01/12/2016) [-]

Post a picture so we'll know what will look good on you.

#206354 - victorsin

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(01/11/2016) [-]

My laptop is receiving 0.01mbps while this laptop and every other device runs at 65mbps. What is wrong with my other laptop? It is completely new I just bought it the past month and it has been like that since then. Is there something I can do in the Device Manager advanced options or something like that in the network card?

#206355 to #206354 - erikus

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(01/11/2016) [-]

Try to update your network card (the drivers I mean). It may be that the card is faulty, but if the laptop is brand new that's not probable (but not impossible, you may have to change it).

The best way to do it may be to dind out the brand and model of it, download the driver in other laptop with better connection, and install it from a USB pen.

Also try to connect an Ethernet cable to it. If it's still not working, it's with almost 100% probability that the Ncard is faulty as hell.

#206356 to #206355 - victorsin

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(01/11/2016) [-]

Thanks I really appreciate it.

#206353 - anon id: d8ce68c0

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(01/11/2016) [-]

How right is your provider when it blames you on faulty connection?

I get full bars on Wi-fi, all the time. We are suppossed to have 15 mega/s download, 4 upload. I get 10 and 2 respectively (good enough for me) right now, everything is working fine.

But this is not regular at all. Sometimes it will go slow, I get high ping and cannot even watch a video. You know how it is when playing online, 50 ms, everything cool. And outta nowhere 500ms for the rest of the game, and fuck you.

It's random as hell, sometimes I get good connection, sometimes I don't at all. And Virgin Media washes their hands of the matter, saying it's because I'm using Wifi and not Ethernet. Blaming the 802.11 channels too. Nice stuff.

Thing is, I cannot find anything cheaper or same price and worth trusting. What the fuck do I do?

#206378 to #206353 - anon id: a0f8427a

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(01/12/2016) [-]

streaming messes up ping

#206349 - mikeypooh

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(01/11/2016) [-]

can anyone help me with what i should write on my flyer for my business? should i just put my logo with the name and phone number?

#206351 to #206349 - ieatbengay

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#206350 to #206349 - drickz

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(01/11/2016) [-]

Services and prices, unless prices vary a lot, but at least services.

#206345 - confusedasian

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(01/11/2016) [-]

Update on my situation a while back. I'm not getting screwed by life anymore. I'd rather just move on though.

I'm still looking for a job, and I have to say when someone like Burger King doesn't hire me that really destroyed my morale. I've applied for Walmart now so wish me luck.

#206382 to #206345 - dehumanizer

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(01/12/2016) [-]

open a street chinese restoraunt, when the authorities confront you just call them racist

#206369 to #206345 - lgninjaleetful

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(01/12/2016) [-]

we believe in you

#206347 to #206345 - stokey

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(01/11/2016) [-]

you can do it :3

#206346 to #206345 - cognosceteipsum

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(01/11/2016) [-]

Keep up

#206341 - youraveragesupport

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(01/11/2016) [-]

Anyone here have experience with recurring dreams and how to fix them? Dream under the spoiler so you don't have to read if you don't want I dated this girl a while back, and she was crazy, but like certifiably crazy, like when I finally got her to see a doctor they diagnosed her with clinical depression and severe mood swings. She would often kind of become someone else for a while, and threaten suicide while saying horrible things to me while I tried to talk her down. That was pretty much every day for 5 months, sometimes a few times a day. Now, I keep having dreams that I couldn't stop her, and she actually did it, and I hate that, so I've been avoiding sleep as much as I can, what do people?

#206352 to #206341 - ieatbengay

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(01/11/2016) [-]

write down your dreams when you wake up, if they're long just include the details that stuck out the most

#206348 to #206341 - stokey

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(01/11/2016) [-]

do sports

#206342 to #206341 - icefried

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(01/11/2016) [-]

You could try practicing lucid dreaming, though that could take a while.

You probably feel a sense of guilt over leaving her, no matter how small or residual that guilt may be. I'd wager that after 5 months of talking her off the noose you developed the feeling that if you are not there to stop her she would ultimately end herself. Hence you're "failing" her every day and every day she dies in your dreams because you're not there to stop her in reality.

You need to find a way to resolve your guilt. Dreams are shaped by our subconscious, and powerful emotions like guilt, fear, love, anger.. etc. tend to be prominent. Talk to someone. Preferably a psychotherapist.

Alternatively, you can just wait it out. Sooner or later the dreams will stop..

#206644 to #206342 - anon id: 7d6a2b5a

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(01/15/2016) [-]

Sooner or later, all our dreams stop...

#206340 - canaritaugemileona

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(01/11/2016) [-]

Oi Advice i stuck my dick in crazy again but this time it was anal did I do good?

#206343 to #206340 - anon id: 51bb857f

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(01/11/2016) [-]

A for Anal, E for Effort

#206337 - anon id: 148d1f5f

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#206332 - borderlineparanoid

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(01/11/2016) [-]

I want to put a Polyester flag on my wall but it's brick.

what can I use to attach it securely so I won't fall off?

I tried electrical tape which was the strongest thing I had but it lost it's adhesiveness after a short while.

#206339 to #206332 - drickz

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(01/11/2016) [-]

If you use anything strong enough to keep it on the wall, there will be cleaning/refurbishing to do afterwards.

Either some super glue or duct tape will do. Remember to clean the surface first so there's no dust to make the sticking effect worse.
May I suggest a wooden or metal frame close to the wall to hang the flag?

#206338 to #206332 - machiavellianhumor

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(01/11/2016) [-]

hot glue gun.

actually toothpaste might work. it will stick to the brick. not sure about the cloth though

#206333 to #206332 - anon id: 000683fa

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(01/11/2016) [-]

Hammer and nail? The only other thing I can think of is sticky putty.

#206334 to #206333 - borderlineparanoid

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(01/11/2016) [-]

I should have mentioned it's a uni dorm room so anything like that is a defo no no.

#206335 to #206334 - anon id: 000683fa

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(01/11/2016) [-]

Have you tried using other type of tape?

#206336 to #206335 - borderlineparanoid

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(01/11/2016) [-]

I only have electrical and masking tape, both aren't strong enough.

I might have to get some duct tape by the looks of it.

#206329 - anon id: 2dde322a

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(01/11/2016) [-]

So FJ, i have come for your advice. Yes, its about girls. And its long as fugg. Skip if not your cup of tea.

I have come to realize that i don't like any of the girls that i know. Don't get me wrong, this isn't an "am i gay" question, but something else. I've just come to realize that all the girls i know, or at least see on a regular basis, just don't attract me in a "man, i should really try getting with her" kind of way. The farthest i go is having female friends inb4 hurr durr friendzoned neckbeard that are alright to be around with, but i wouldn't touch em with a ten foot pole. Its not that i live my life amongst gorrilas, ill admit that some of them are physically attractive, its just that i don't like the good looking ones because they're either really preppy or hardcore chain smokers, and the others because i just don't find myself dreaming of having sex with them. Now usually this is the point where you guys say "well anon, go out more, pick up chicks at the bar or club", but the thing is that i don't want to meet girls that way. I just want to get with a girl that i know as a person, so as to avoid having to judge a girl simply by how hot she looks to determine if i want to "hit that thing" before getting to know what kind of person she is. Now, usually, this is where at other times people tell me to find a hobby or sign up for something outside of uni, but the thing is i just don't know what. So, now that the scenario is sketched out, i have one question: what places would you recommend where to meet new people (preferably date-material girls) a bit of background, in case it helps: i'm from a city, i like history and (mostly old) movies, i go to art museums on occasion, i don't play a sport, and still virgin with no actual dating experience. Also worth mentioning that i work out at home, so gym is not that viable of an alternative.

tl;dr: where can i go to meet girls besides bars/clubs?

#206331 to #206329 - anon id: 000683fa

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(01/11/2016) [-]

Join clubs, community meetings, gyms, literally anywhere people gather to socialize. You won't look like a creep trying to strike up a conversation at these kind of places if you have an interest in the place. I met the last 3 people I've dated and a lot of good friends just going to the theater talking with people in the lobby and in between intermissions. You go to a place to find people who are interested in the same things you're interested in and form a connection from there. The key is to try and find friends first, then you can weed out the people you'd like to date and start asking them out.

#206324 - murrlogic

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(01/11/2016) [-]

I'm tempted to make a Yellow Diamond folder but...I was also tempted to make a Jasper folder originally

I'm not sure if its possible for me to love a fiction character that isn't Asami.

Especially something that has over 100 zetabytes of images of her.

#206314 - anon id: 2006b631

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(01/10/2016) [-]

I just feel get this feeling in the my head of being left out from her sometimes you know the feeling of the "Seen" Message and just being left out, I've told her that I feel this every now and then it I usually just get I sorry i didn't mean it back and the usual stuff that you'd expect. I want to tell her something about this too but I feel like im pestering her, I stayed up late with her last night playing games and i tried talking to her this morning she said she was going to the store to get some groceries and 4 hours later nothing so i asked her if we were still doing something tonight and she said no... I asked her what she was doing and it was just the seen thing again and I feel like saying what i feel but not at the same time....

#206319 to #206314 - drickz

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(01/11/2016) [-]

Let her breathe a bit. The way you're doing it now is pretty intense, and that can be seen as too demanding. Taking a no and leaving it at that is okay until next day or even the day after that. She has a life too, and it's not like she'll forget you.

Telling her can wait until both of you have time to chat 1o1 for a bit.

#206307 - murrlogic

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(01/10/2016) [-]

I have by the end of the day to get a letter of recommendation and my birth certificate to be brought into the head office by 8 AM!

Jesus fucking christ SAY just cut my nutsack off if you don't want me to keep working here so badly

#206316 to #206307 - dasistwunderbar

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(01/10/2016) [-]

You confuse me intensely. 8AM? End of the Day? For real though, continue being a productive member of society.

#206303 - mikeypooh

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(01/10/2016) [-]

what is the exchange rate for us dollars to filipino peso's? and how much would something cost in the phillipines like a can of coke or loaf of bread

#206305 to #206303 - anon id: 5c74853d

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(01/10/2016) [-]

www.google.co.uk/search?q=what+is+the+exchange+rate+for+us+dollars+to+filipino+peso%27s&oq=what+is+the+exchange+rate+for+us+dollars+to+filipino+peso%27s&aqs=chrome..69i57&sourceid=chrome&es_sm=93&ie=UTF-8#q=what+is+the+exchange+rate+for+us+dollars+to+filipino+pesos

www.numbeo.com/cost-of-living/country_result.jsp?country=Philippines

#206301 - anon id: 000683fa

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(01/10/2016) [-]

(Not my picture but looks similar to my hair) I got a bad haircut a few months ago which I thought just letting it grow out would fix but the really fine hairs along the side of hairline keep sticking out. Whenever I put my hair in a ponytail, they stick out and make my hair looks messy. Are there any hair cuts or hairstyles that could cover them up?

#206306 to #206301 - kegget

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(01/10/2016) [-]

I haven't cut my hair in 5 years and I still have them

#206304 to #206301 - anon id: 5c74853d

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(01/10/2016) [-]

Bangs.

#206294 - rereviven

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(01/10/2016) [-]

Is it worth getting a wrist rest for your keyboard and mouse for gaming? My wrist isn't hurting too bad, bu it feel like it would be a bit better than resting my wrist on a wooden desk edge.

#206320 to #206294 - drickz

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(01/11/2016) [-]

Depends on your wrist and what kind of wrist rest. If they're too hard, they might restrain the blood flow. Some more meat on the bones always helps.

#206308 to #206294 - kegget

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(01/10/2016) [-]

go outside

#206298 to #206294 - hargleblarg

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(01/10/2016) [-]

Well it certainly wouldn't hurt to get one. I have a mouse mat that has a padded gel edge for my wrist and it's actually really comfortable. It's old as balls so I'm sure you could pick one up cheaply.

#206286 - anon id: 2fc33646

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(01/10/2016) [-]

Ok, really hard question here that I'm sure will make me sound like an asshole, but that's why I'm asking because I want to know how to stop having these thoughts jump into my head.

Me and my girlfriend have been dating 5 months (both mid to late 20s) and honestly I think she might be the one. Met at church and we get along great and personality's, while very different mesh perfectly. Can definitely picture a happy life married to her, and I know she feels the same way. We haven't gone off and had a serious talk, but defintiely by the things one would start to say and then catch ourselves or use "we" when talking about future has made it clear for both.

But the one thing, is she isn't the most attractive. 6/10 if you made me put a number on it with an 8 face. Now, while we're along or even in public together this never bother's me. I definitely think she's pretty and it's never crossed my mind while making out or getting handsy or anything with her. The one thing that flares up is jealously when I see a guy whom I feel is a bit of a loser, has a better looking girl. And there's that brief flash of unfairness in my thoughts which I absolutely hate.

I feel like shit. The way I get around it for now is to just tell myself there's no way they have what we have. Which has got to be true with the way she and I feel for each other and interact.

Anyway to help me out bros?

#206325 to #206286 - anon id: 302c0069

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(01/11/2016) [-]

That's pretty shallow, tbh. You already said you think she's pretty. You're already attracted to her physically. Do you maybe think you deserve more? You already have it all. If you don't nip this is the butt, she's going to catch on and then she'll never feel like she's enough for you.

#206311 to #206286 - anon id: 75975858

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(01/10/2016) [-]

That's envy, not jealousy.
Secondly, you're acting like a little bitch about it and yeah, you sound like an asshole.

#206309 to #206286 - kegget

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(01/10/2016) [-]

Maybe those guys aren't the kind of people who meet girls at church.

#206302 to #206286 - anon id: 000683fa

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(01/10/2016) [-]

We're all going to get older, we're all going to lose what little good looks we have. So better to stop being petty about it now and be thankful for what you have than to grow old just thinking looks is all that matters.

#206300 to #206286 - hargleblarg

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(01/10/2016) [-]

You can't control your emotions, but you can control whether they influence you. If you feel jealous over some random people then there's nothing you can do about that, what matters is whether you act on that jealousy. If you're happy with this girl, and if you're genuinely considering marrying her in the future, then take comfort in that and don't focus on some stray emotions. Don't let the wrong focus mess up what you have.

#206313 to #206300 - anon id: 2fc33646

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(01/10/2016) [-]

Yeah, definitely not acting on anything and am genuinely happy. Like you said, just wish I could control my emotions to not have this happen. As such, I'm just doing my best to not dwell on it any time it comes up. Thus how I described them as brief flashes

#206287 to #206286 - cognosceteipsum

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(01/10/2016) [-]

Stop being petty and greedy

#206240 - cognosceteipsum

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(01/10/2016) [-]

AMA about social stuff, family friends and partners

#206315 to #206240 - dasistwunderbar

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(01/10/2016) [-]

What's the best way to discreetly tell a friend his girlfriend's a cunt?

#206317 to #206315 - cognosceteipsum

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(01/10/2016) [-]

Tough one. I'm sorry, I have barely eaten for 24 hours so I am not really in the mode to talk anymore . I'll get back to you

#206318 to #206317 - dasistwunderbar

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(01/10/2016) [-]

There's no rush, I already did it not-so-discreetly a while ago and am dealing with the fallout rn. Best to be prepared for another time tho.

#206275 to #206240 - sushininja

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(01/10/2016) [-]

Social stuff

I'm throwing a wave. What's important to have?

#206276 to #206275 - cognosceteipsum

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(01/10/2016) [-]

What's a wave

#206310 to #206276 - anon id: a0b062b4

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(01/10/2016) [-]

Off to a great start

#206312 to #206310 - cognosceteipsum

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#206281 to #206276 - sushininja

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(01/10/2016) [-]

Party usually involving drugs and alcohol.
It's code for people on social media when they want peeps to come but don't want cops/teachers to know there's a party.

#206283 to #206281 - cognosceteipsum

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(01/10/2016) [-]

How old are you?
Where are you from?
Got any dealers?

#206284 to #206283 - sushininja

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(01/10/2016) [-]

Getting things aren't a problem. But they're gonna be there.
But I've never done something like this before so what kinda alcohol should we buy and what's important for the party

#206285 to #206284 - cognosceteipsum

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(01/10/2016) [-]

Are you the single host?

#206288 to #206285 - sushininja

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(01/10/2016) [-]

It's my house, but I have 6 other friends who are willing to pitch in and are helping plan. There should be maybe 24 people at most

#206290 to #206288 - cognosceteipsum

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(01/10/2016) [-]

Also talk to everyone, make them feel at home but not too at home where they start thrashing your place

#206289 to #206288 - cognosceteipsum

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(01/10/2016) [-]

Your house? I'd advice you go out in some kind of abandoned building not too far off tbh, but I guess.

Uh, make sure so that you have at least one task for each person, make sure to be the one who gets drunk last so you can keep check of people

#206291 to #206289 - sushininja

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(01/10/2016) [-]

It's fine since this is a specific invite event.
Okay
What do you think about the kind of food?

#206292 to #206291 - cognosceteipsum

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(01/10/2016) [-]

I just gotta ask, do you live with your parents?

You said this was one of those events where you stayed over the night right?

#206293 to #206292 - sushininja

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(01/10/2016) [-]

Yeah. They're going overseas for the couple of days so we'll have plenty of time to clean up

#206296 to #206293 - cognosceteipsum

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(01/10/2016) [-]

Was this ok advice?

#206297 to #206296 - sushininja

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(01/10/2016) [-]

Yee. I may make an independent thread in a couple days to get more ideas from people though

#206299 to #206297 - cognosceteipsum

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(01/10/2016) [-]

That's cool, because I have never hosted or gone to a party lol. I just ran with what my intuition told me.

#206295 to #206293 - cognosceteipsum

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(01/10/2016) [-]

Ok dude. Get something really fucking tasty and a bunch of bread. Kebab, sausages, maybe ingredients for burgers. Also hangover food too. And some tasty desert I guess?

#206274 to #206240 - anon id: 5c74853d

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(01/10/2016) [-]

How do I invade Czechoslovakia without the UK declaring war on me?

#206277 to #206274 - cognosceteipsum

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(01/10/2016) [-]

Convince them that it will be in their favour.

#206271 to #206240 - anon id: bc0d7ad3

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(01/10/2016) [-]

How to ask out a girl who is in your group of friends

#206273 to #206271 - cognosceteipsum

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(01/10/2016) [-]

Start with focusing more on her when you're hanging out together. Then you talk to her on some online platform, speed things up from there on and ask her out

#206256 to #206240 - ghirahn

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(01/10/2016) [-]

How do I make myself more dominant? My GF has told me that she wants me to take charge sexually, but it escapes me on how to.

#206257 to #206256 - cognosceteipsum

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(01/10/2016) [-]

I have that streak where I could do it easily because I'm somewhat of a sadist and if she was enjoying it it would be even easier so I'm not really sure. You're a confident guy, righ?

#206258 to #206257 - ghirahn

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(01/10/2016) [-]

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH not exceptionally, but i am definately getting better. TBH i havent asked this girl out officially but she not only said that if i would she would say yes but the last time i was at her house, we almost got to sex.

#206259 to #206258 - cognosceteipsum

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(01/10/2016) [-]

Cocky rap music. Admire yourself. Lift. Cocky black metal. Go with the flow. That's how I do it.

#206260 to #206259 - ghirahn

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(01/10/2016) [-]

unfortunately i dislike rap. Im not sure how to put it eloquently but i basically did a mojority of what you need to for "exceptional" foreplay. she told me last night that i had made her so wet she needed to change panties afterwards.
i dont get why even though i can get these reactions and get to these levels, for some reason i am still scared to be with her at all.

#206261 to #206260 - cognosceteipsum

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(01/10/2016) [-]

Probably because you're afraid of not being able to meet the standards you set.

#206262 to #206261 - ghirahn

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(01/10/2016) [-]

An astute observation indeed. So then, how can i allow myself to feel like i can reach those standards?

#206263 to #206262 - cognosceteipsum

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(01/10/2016) [-]

Rap music, lift... I mean, when do you feel the most confident?

What you need to do is make that feeling more available. When you have a small well of confidence, it will easily turn into a creek, then a river, then a lake, an ocean and so forth. I'm somewhere between lake and ocean atm.

A bit like this. Push yourself to talk to X girl, then you will feel more confident afterwards. Then push yourself to talk to Y girl and it will be easier from then on ya know?

#206264 to #206263 - ghirahn

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(01/10/2016) [-]

Thank you, I shall try.

#206265 to #206264 - cognosceteipsum

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(01/10/2016) [-]

Do it for me. We're all brothers in arms here.

#206266 to #206265 - ghirahn

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(01/10/2016) [-]

Ill post here on thursday night, or friday if i end up spending the night, if i am still a wizard or not .

#206267 to #206266 - cognosceteipsum

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(01/10/2016) [-]

Don't do it to escape wizard status. Do it because you want to.

#206268 to #206267 - ghirahn

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(01/10/2016) [-]

I do want to , i just dont get why my body/mind is getting in my own way. this is something, she is someone, who i have liked since 4th grade. and all this is happening. i guess i never thought i would get this far.

#206269 to #206268 - cognosceteipsum

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(01/10/2016) [-]

It'll take some getting used to to be a normie Chad m8 but once you get the hang of it it's easy

#206270 to #206269 - ghirahn

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(01/10/2016) [-]

i hope so, honestly i had thought kissing her would spike my heart rate and stuff, but i was perfectly calm in the moment. and even after. i only get these nervous inclinations when im not with her.

#206272 to #206270 - cognosceteipsum

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(01/10/2016) [-]

Probably because you're afraid of not really being able to do it again that way. A bit same as before, but man, try not to think about her too much.

#206278 to #206272 - ghirahn

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(01/10/2016) [-]

i cant man, ts been over a decade of these feelings. Like at one point in the past i told her i was going to tell her something then hang up then call back immediately after and ask what she thought. told her i loved her and did just that. how in the fuck can i have been so retarded and it still works out?

#206279 to #206278 - cognosceteipsum

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(01/10/2016) [-]

Good question... How old were you?

#206280 to #206279 - ghirahn

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(01/10/2016) [-]

lets see it was around 2004 or '05 so like 12-13 i want to say.

#206282 to #206280 - cognosceteipsum

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(01/10/2016) [-]

That's nothing.

#206254 to #206240 - anon id: 5c74853d

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(01/10/2016) [-]

which retailers has the best deal on buying a gf?

#206255 to #206254 - cognosceteipsum

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(01/10/2016) [-]

Phnomh Phen in Vietnam. Next!

#206237 - ohhh

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(01/10/2016) [-]

I've never used weights, so I've started using 20 pound dumbbells. I'm certain i must be doing something wrong, i was informed that my muscles would hurt, which was how i would knew i was making progress. Yet only my tendons hurt (the one that goes across my elbow). Am i doing something wrong, or is this normal for someone beginning to use weights?

#206239 to #206237 - cognosceteipsum

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(01/10/2016) [-]

Well what are you doing with them? Also there's a fitness board that is a bjt more active

#206241 to #206239 - ohhh

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(01/10/2016) [-]

I don't know, just starting on simple things, like hoisting straight up, "curling" them, i think that's what it is called. And that weird bird wing flap thing people do with them. Also i get down on my back and push them up. I heard that works out your chest.

#206243 to #206241 - cognosceteipsum

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(01/10/2016) [-]

Test

#206242 to #206241 - cognosceteipsum

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(01/10/2016) [-]

Not sure what the bird wing flap is but I'mma film a video for you showing the movement

#206244 to #206242 - ohhh

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(01/10/2016) [-]

Well that's going above and beyond, thanks.

#206245 to #206244 - cognosceteipsum

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(01/10/2016) [-]

-.- video doesn't work. Anyway remember to keep entirely still with your elbows when lifting it. If you're lifting it with your whole arm you're doing it wrong.

#206246 to #206245 - ohhh

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(01/10/2016) [-]

That's exactly what i was doing. Thank you

#206247 to #206246 - cognosceteipsum

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(01/10/2016) [-]

The first or the second thing?

#206248 to #206247 - ohhh

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(01/10/2016) [-]

I was letting my arms go completely straight down with the arm curl thing.

#206236 - THISISNOTFUNNY

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(01/10/2016) [-]

Alright it's probably a terrible idea asking for advice from you autistic fucks but whatever you're family.
So the story starts two summers ago when I was living in Yellowknife. One day this girl came up to Yellowknife from Vancouver through a christian schooling program. She spent two months up there and we hung out pretty much every day talking, watching movies, and me driving around and parking and continuing to talk. The very first week she had said that she had feelings for me but because the school frowned upon relationships while you were in the program she couldn't do anything. So fast forward two months of wanting to kiss this girl every single day. she finally has to leave to go back to vancouver. At this time im struggling if i want to move to Vancouver or toronto. Vancouver is home but toronto has all my friends. I decide to move to Van, i get to vancouver and get in touch with her. We hang out and she seems distant and closed off. After we hang out i text her and ask if she has any feelings still she says no. I cry inside she moves to LA and we both dont speak for probably over a year. Two weeks ago i saw her sister at church and she asks me how tinder's going and i tell her i gave up on that, bunch of other small talk ensues. This past week she (the girl that came up) messages me out of the blue asking me how it's going, if im still dating that one asian chick (never dated anyone after last girlfriend, 3 years ago)and that shes back in vancouver and we should go see a movie. Well i just got back from the movie and all those feelings i had for her seem to have come back. When i was driving her home she asked about tinder, what my plans were for school and when the last time i smoked weed were.
So my question to you guys is, is it random that this girl i haven't talked to in over a year suddenly wants to hangout?
And her asking about my dating life, thats not something you nonchalantly just bring up after a hiatus of not speaking for such a long time.

#206322 to #206236 - drickz

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(01/11/2016) [-]

Actually not random. I mean, you hung out for a couple months. She's back in Vancouver and thought of you. She could have an ulterior motive, or it could just be small talk, because those questions aren't too intrusive for some people.

Treasure it while it lasts. You'll learn something along the way, eh.

#206323 to #206322 - THISISNOTFUNNY

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(01/11/2016) [-]

It's not that i find it intrusive, i don't it just seems weird to me that after not talking for a year those are the first questions she asks. I don't want to treasure it, not talking for a year made me forget i had feeling for her which was great. Now all these feelings came rushing back and i'm not ready for her to shit on my heart again.

#206326 to #206323 - drickz

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(01/11/2016) [-]

Well, you seem to know what to do.

#206327 to #206326 - THISISNOTFUNNY

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(01/11/2016) [-]

I need to out do bill cosby?

#206328 to #206327 - drickz

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(01/11/2016) [-]

idk. Whatever you feel is alright without breaking the law.
Ignore her, hang out with her, bang out with her(wouldn't suggest that, it's cold). Your feelings are already back so might as well see how far you can build on what you have.

#206330 to #206328 - THISISNOTFUNNY

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(01/11/2016) [-]

I want to hang out with her even if it's going to be "toxic" to me. We'll see where it goes, it can only really go south from here.

#206344 to #206330 - drickz

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(01/11/2016) [-]

Could go any way possible.

#206249 to #206236 - smartythechicken

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(01/10/2016) [-]

well, i dont know that much about human emotions and norms, so i can only answer the question "is it random that she blahblahblahs me over the phone".
well, my guess is that somehow the sister mentioned you the girl in a way that she wanted to talk to you, so she prolly said "omg (insert girls name), THISISNOTFUNNY is single and blah blah" but then again, i dont know shit about human conversation so theres that.
anyway, the reason that she talks to you is because you talked to the sister who you met randomly (i presume), so yes, it is sorta random.

anyway, i see three ways this gon play out
1. drama and whatever and you get back together. fuck do i know
2. she gon play you like a fiddle and friendzone you into low-earth orbit, making you her slave
3. you're still hurt, so you dont get back together.
4. you want revenge, so you get together with her sister, so you can get closer to the girl, so you can carry out whatever sick revengeplan you have.

also, i cant count

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