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#214336 - anon
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(06/23/2016) [-]
There's this girl I've been seeing for a few weeks now and I'd like to get serious with her but there's one thing that bothers me that might be a deal breaker.

She's a firefighter and everyone she works with is a guy. I've been warned about women who only hang out with guys on here before and that what's made me paranoid. She hasn't shown interest in any of the guys she works with but I'm more worried about the other way around, if one of the guys starts to show interest in her.

Do I tell her this? I don't want to look stupid bringing this up to her if it's nothing.
#214372 to #214336 - minutes
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(06/23/2016) [-]
If she just hangs out with a lot of guys a lot or works with them it's ok. But if she has that one best friend she denies having feelings for.. run. Especially if she is oblivious to the fact that he's hitting on her or something like that
#214341 to #214336 - glasswall
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(06/23/2016) [-]
First dont tell her that, bad idea, second, are you totally sure she digs you? Third, dont be insecure, who cares if she works in a sausage festival all the time? If things work out that wont be a problem, dont think about it.
#214339 to #214336 - ifailedmyact
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(06/23/2016) [-]
Well, if she doesn't show any interest, then at least you should feel a bit more safe. It doesn't matter if another man anywhere, let alone the workplace, shows interest. If she's committed to you, then she further her relationship outside of work with any man. Really, it depends on her.

But I'd say, generally, it wouldn't bother her depending on how deep your relationship is with her if you asked her about how it is at work. You can ask her how she's being treated there. If to her it appears someone is chasing after her tail.

But in all honesty, if she her main circle of friends outside of work isn't all guys, and it's mostly you or her close friends, then don't worry too much. I know what it's like to work with a girl that constantly says "I'm better friends with a guys than with girls because bla bla bla...". You definitely want to avoid a girl like that if you're looking for something serious. Oh boy... Avoid it so hard.. So hard my friend.
#214340 to #214339 - ifailedmyact
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(06/23/2016) [-]
Then she wouldn't further her relationship with another man outside of work*
#214333 - thedrgonzo
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(06/22/2016) [-]
Gents, I may have been catfished... Pray for me
#214356 to #214333 - nockae
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(06/23/2016) [-]
Story?
#214335 to #214333 - anon
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(06/23/2016) [-]
Didn't waste any money on them I hope.
#214343 to #214335 - thedrgonzo
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(06/23/2016) [-]
I may have made money actually
#214359 to #214343 - sugoi
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(06/23/2016) [-]
I guess things turned out better than expected.
#214330 - dsoapdropp
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(06/22/2016) [-]
Any1 got tips for being in a club or going to a party (i.e. dancing, drinks...)
#214337 to #214330 - anon
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(06/23/2016) [-]
Don't drink anything you don't know what's in it.

Don't carry more than 30 buck in cash. Enough to get you through the night but not enough to really sink you if you lose it.

Always go with at least one good friend you can trust.

Carry condoms, even if you know you won't need them.

This is something I've started doing because it's useful to me, I have a piece of paper with part of my address and my roommate's number on it just in case things get too out of hand and someone needs to know who they can call to help me or call for my exact address. Don't put your full address like leave out any apartment numbers, just in case you lose the paper.
#214331 to #214330 - swaggerfiend
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(06/22/2016) [-]
Skip the tedious drinking and just bring a bottle of alcohol you can drink from. If you drink responsibly and don't pass out, the tipsiness should do the rest.
#214308 - flaminphoenix
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(06/22/2016) [-]
Ma's getting tired of her miserable job and wants to do something at home, maybe on the computer. Any tips guys?
#214309 to #214308 - coolfuzzy
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(06/22/2016) [-]
My mom worked from home for like six years, I think it was something related to workers comp cases or something.
#214329 to #214309 - flaminphoenix
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(06/22/2016) [-]
What kind of education or skills do you need to have for it?
#214362 to #214329 - coolfuzzy
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(06/23/2016) [-]
Not entirely sure, she went to nursing school but I don't think she completed it.
#214307 - WATCHAGUNADOBOUTIT
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#214305 - anon
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(06/22/2016) [-]
In a little bit of a weird spot with a girl. We don't date so let me get that out of the way here.
Her current Boyfriend is her ex that she just got back with, He cheated on her from the start and she also cheated on him with me This was all found out at the end... I also didn't know she was with him Anyway his excuse for doing it was because she spent more time texting me, working, and hanging out with me

He's already jealous of me once again, I texted her the whole time she was over there this last weekend and I think I had her attention more than he did. He told her not to talk to me again.... Then we hung out 2 days later and she told me all that.

I can't say all of what we've done that's made us this close but just know it's been a crazy ride. I don't know what I should think of him like try to be friendly or just let it go. He's only gonna get pissed because i bring her to work and if i have to pick her up from his house he'll get mad. From a few other people I've heard he's intimidated by me, Like my cars got blacked out windows and expensive shit on it, I look older and have a weird way of talking....
#214310 to #214305 - coolfuzzy
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(06/22/2016) [-]
ages?
#214328 to #214310 - nigalthornberry
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#214304 - rokkai
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(06/22/2016) [-]
i have a minimum of 1.5 years  next semester, classes will be giving me hell so im guessing it can be 2 years to graduate from university. and i was okay with that. but i found out that i can actually graduate next year if i talk to my professor and ask for some extra credits. both of my finals were decent and im sure i will pass them but that won't be enough. the professor is kinda tight on grades but i guess she likes me so i really don't know what's going to happen.   
   
the issue is that im feeling down thinking about not being able to graduate next year which is strange because i was completely okay with the way it was like a week ago but when i discovered that i can graduate earlier than i expected, it made me feel some type of way and i can't describe it. because normally im more of a laid-back type of guy and i think university is where a human being spends their most beautiful years in which they know what they're doing  most of the time  and they're free as adults which is a huge luxury in my opinion.   
   
i don't know how to feel.
i have a minimum of 1.5 years next semester, classes will be giving me hell so im guessing it can be 2 years to graduate from university. and i was okay with that. but i found out that i can actually graduate next year if i talk to my professor and ask for some extra credits. both of my finals were decent and im sure i will pass them but that won't be enough. the professor is kinda tight on grades but i guess she likes me so i really don't know what's going to happen.

the issue is that im feeling down thinking about not being able to graduate next year which is strange because i was completely okay with the way it was like a week ago but when i discovered that i can graduate earlier than i expected, it made me feel some type of way and i can't describe it. because normally im more of a laid-back type of guy and i think university is where a human being spends their most beautiful years in which they know what they're doing most of the time and they're free as adults which is a huge luxury in my opinion.

i don't know how to feel.
#214300 - megapepsifreak
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(06/22/2016) [-]
yo what places what places hire, that allow facial piercings and visible tattoos?

inb4 iyou are degenerate scum
#214369 to #214300 - misticalz ONLINE
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(06/23/2016) [-]
cafe's for sure
#214312 to #214300 - coolfuzzy
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(06/22/2016) [-]
also look at local businesses. I work at disc replay and there's like zero fucks given about any type of dress code, clothing or otherwise. It's even kinda encouraged at some places like hot rags, hot topic, skate shops, guitar center, even coffee shops are pretty lax about that sort of thing.
#214311 to #214300 - coolfuzzy
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(06/22/2016) [-]
I heard old navy hires people with tattoos and gauges but I didn't ask about face piercing. I feel like if you just have a nose ring or a couple studs you'd be fine.
#214306 to #214300 - charizarddad ONLINE
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(06/22/2016) [-]
>>#214303, cashiering places like hot topic and some other places like grocery stores can be okay with it depending on how much you have
#214303 to #214300 - alexanderburns ONLINE
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(06/22/2016) [-]
tattoo and piercing places
certain bars
sex shops
#214302 to #214300 - sugoi
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(06/22/2016) [-]
A piercing and tattoo parlor.
#214298 - UNIQUELOL
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(06/22/2016) [-]
excuse me while I go get my memes out of the oven
#214293 - ferrettamer
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(06/22/2016) [-]
i have the chance to go to my brother's hs grad and my oneitis will be there, it will probably be the last chance I have to see her, should I go
joshlol, I believe you have experience here pls help
#214299 to #214293 - magicjesuscf
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(06/22/2016) [-]
Forget the girl, go for your brother.
#214294 to #214293 - charizarddad ONLINE
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(06/22/2016) [-]
oneitis? so she is unrequited? why not just go for your brother?
#214295 to #214294 - ferrettamer
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(06/22/2016) [-]
er, well idk if it was unrequited, i never did anything about it cause i was an even bigger pussy in hs than i am now. she didn't seem to hate me at least

and i doubt my brother even wants me to go
#214296 to #214295 - charizarddad ONLINE
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(06/22/2016) [-]
this doesnt sound like a good time. unless you are going to ask her out, i wouldnt go.
#214297 to #214296 - ferrettamer
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(06/22/2016) [-]
yea you're probably right, i doubt i would even have the chance to talk to her. thanks for the advice, i'll probably just stay home
#214292 - anon
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(06/22/2016) [-]
thank you all for being there
it's very troubling times right now
won't always be komrades like this availabe
#214288 - shadowkingdr
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#214284 - anon
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(06/21/2016) [-]
How do you meet girls? I haven't really been interested in girls since high school (I'm a junior in college now) and after studying abroad I met this wonderful girl but she wasn't interested in me. But, I was fortunate for the experience because I learned some things.

Follow up question too - I'm sort of picky when it comes to girls... Not looks so much as personality. I don't know why but I'm really into fun, sweet, and adventurous girls (maybe to complement my introvertedness). How do you remain optimistic that you will find a girl whom you like? I'm not imagining a girl in my head, but I don't want to date a girl if I don't like her you know?

It's worth mentioning that I'm in engineering so time may be a factor, but I'm trying to get out more and study a bit less this upcoming semester.
#214287 to #214284 - nockae
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(06/21/2016) [-]
Just get yourself out there. I know the feeling of being an introvert and doing that, and it's really fucking hard, but unless you try and go to social gatherings, make new friends, etc. It could be quite hard finding somebody.
That said, sometimes things just happen as they will and you'll meet someone by chance, like you did while studying abroad.

And in terms of remaining optimistic, there's billions of girls out there, one of them has got to like you
#214285 to #214284 - anon
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(06/21/2016) [-]
I meant during studying abroad
#214289 to #214285 - sugoi
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(06/21/2016) [-]
By going to your fucking classes holy shit.
Also enjoy engineering you're probably gunna get like, 1 girl and 20 guys but hey go and make friends first and then go to parties with them and presto more chicks.
#214301 to #214289 - anon
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(06/22/2016) [-]
Going to classes doesn't really help because I'm in mechanical engineering and also my class sizes are fucking huge (Big ten uni)
But no I agree
#214278 - anon
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(06/21/2016) [-]
where and with whom do i celebrate my 18th birthday...(i live in an apartment so i cant really host a party)
#214290 to #214278 - sugoi
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(06/21/2016) [-]
At home drinking alone.
#214279 to #214278 - anon
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(06/21/2016) [-]
or a flat idk how you call it... 64 square meters
#214283 to #214279 - anon
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(06/21/2016) [-]
literally anywhere and with friends?
#214270 - anon
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(06/21/2016) [-]
my doctor gave me cream for my rash(its on my hands not on my dick) and i put it with some bagels but it tastes real funny. what should i do?
#214291 to #214270 - sugoi
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(06/21/2016) [-]
kys
#214277 to #214270 - burpy
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(06/21/2016) [-]
Just eat with a fork if you don't like the taste of creme
#214263 - mattythebeaver
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(06/21/2016) [-]
So I'm currently in the process of applying for placements/internships for my university course and there's this policy we have to abide by which is the first company we're accepted by, we have to go. Which is fine, usually. Not quiite now.
I applied for a placement with a company which didn't offer a job description until after you applied and got shortlisted. I thought this was fine as I'm fairly desperate for a placement right now because it's real late in the application process and I still haven't landed a placement. The job description came out today and it's literally customer service which is my idea of hell. I've got a Skype interview tomorrow and I really don't want to be forced into accepting this placement if I get chosen, and it's difficult to just say "nah, sorry m8 I don't fancy it" because our university is pissy about its reputation with businesses. Any way to flunk the interview without making it obvious I'm a shit candidate? Also worth mentioning the company put a heavy emphasis on strong english speakers, and everyone else on the shortlist has a foreign accent, so I've basically got a natural advantage.
#214282 to #214263 - babasera
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(06/21/2016) [-]
try to change your voice,because the first impression is the most important
most companies don't want people with shitty voices working at customer service
#214262 - jaytothadee
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(06/21/2016) [-]
So I finally landed a date with this girl. Atleast I think its a date. Well the other night we stayed up till four in the morning talking. After she passed out and I hung up, I messaged her "goodnight gorgeous, Im really looking forward to friday. I'll talk to you tommorow "The day after that she barely texted me. She said she was busy but I feel I fucked it up by sending that. Like we normally talk everynight but we didnt last night and now I am freaking out that I fucked up...Did I?
#214276 to #214262 - charizarddad ONLINE
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(06/21/2016) [-]
only time will tell. play it cool
#214265 to #214262 - nockae
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(06/21/2016) [-]
I don't think you fucked it up at all. Though I would like to know why you only think it's a date and aren't entirely sure.
There's one of two things that I would think would be going on.
1. It's quite possible that she is just as nervous as you to go on the date. Texting you could make her anxious so she might just be trying to get through the anxiety.
2. She's actually busy. I don't know how old you are, or what either of you do, but people are often too busy to text throughout the day.

If it is indeed a date, there's nothing wrong with what you said because a date would imply adding romance into the relationship at least on some level. Try not to worry about it too much, you're probably making it a lot worse in your head than it is in real life. Before you agreed to the date, if she was busy for a day I doubt you would have thought twice about it. But perhaps because of fear of rejection, you're more worried about it now. If things continue to be awkward, or she ignores you, just ask her why it is. Having dialogue about problems, in any sort of relationship (friendship or romantic), is what will make it successful.
#214271 to #214265 - jaytothadee
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(06/21/2016) [-]
>>#214264, >>#214265, The reason why I think it may not be a date is I just asked to get tea and meet up downtown. She said this before I asked her out though "Youre an extraordinary person You bet im going to be here a while, I cant learn all about you in one night. I guess Im just getting nervous that im going to fuck it up before friday.
#214286 to #214271 - nockae
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(06/21/2016) [-]
That's definitely a date man.
She definitely hasn't lost interest in you either. As I said above, she's probably just as nervous as you are, if not more.
And in regards to her not answering you right away: she could either be trying to play a game with you, though she doesn't strike me as that kind of girl. Or she could just be busy. Either way, you have a date so I really wouldn't push it too far to try and get her to answer.
You'll do great man, just relax and let things flow in the directions they will. That said, don't do that thing where people ignore people just because they're being ignored. Its fucking dumb.
#214272 to #214271 - platinumaltaria ONLINE
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(06/21/2016) [-]
That's a date... What do you think a date is if not meeting a person to chat?

Yeah she wants the D, not sure how more obvious she could be about that.
#214273 to #214272 - jaytothadee
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(06/21/2016) [-]
But like none of that has happened again. Like it seems different from the day I asked her out till now. Now it takes a while for her to respond and we havent really talked a lot. Idk it may be a date but she may have lost interest of me D:
#214274 to #214273 - platinumaltaria ONLINE
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(06/21/2016) [-]
People don't lose interest, either they are attracted to you or not.
#214275 to #214274 - jaytothadee
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(06/21/2016) [-]
I hope so
#214264 to #214262 - platinumaltaria ONLINE
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(06/21/2016) [-]
>girl says she's busy
>doesn't text
I think we can read between the lines... she hates you. God dammit man give her time
#214261 - alexanderburns ONLINE
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(06/21/2016) [-]
So, I'm new to craigslist.
Why don't any job posters have their exact location mentioned anywhere?
#214256 - brownskin ONLINE
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(06/21/2016) [-]
>>#214253

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