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User avatar #164966 - theseventhmirror (12/03/2014) [-]
I've seen people doing some >># thing.
How is that done?
User avatar #164970 to #164966 - makotoitou (12/03/2014) [-]
User avatar #164967 to #164966 - teoberry (12/03/2014) [-]
open up the box to reply to their post, and then click the post number

User avatar #164956 - PedoNazi (12/03/2014) [-]
my economics class is doing this virtual stock market tournament and I need help fast, I need to know what stocks I can invest in by buying or shortselling, can anyone help me?
User avatar #164989 to #164956 - badsamaritan (12/03/2014) [-]
read the news, i jumped to the top spot in my class by buying tesla stock when they announced GM would buy them
User avatar #164973 to #164956 - bobvonbobby (12/03/2014) [-]
Depends on your time frame. How long is your project?
User avatar #165081 to #164973 - PedoNazi (12/03/2014) [-]
it ends in a few days
User avatar #164964 to #164956 - nigalthornberry (12/03/2014) [-]
Can you explain how you're doing this?
Are you using real stocks or what?
User avatar #165080 to #164964 - PedoNazi (12/03/2014) [-]
they are real stocks but the money is virtual
User avatar #164963 to #164956 - makotoitou (12/03/2014) [-]
tf2 hats
User avatar #164961 to #164956 - logickid (12/03/2014) [-]
look up the GTA V tutorial and you'll be good, and do research I guess idunno
#164959 to #164956 - ilikelizards (12/03/2014) [-]
Buy UVXY when low
Short Sell UVXY when high
User avatar #164960 to #164959 - PedoNazi (12/03/2014) [-]
so I'm guessing I should buy now
#164939 - Absolute Madman (12/02/2014) [-]
Anyone ever fall in love in a dream?
I know it sounds pathetic but i keep having this super mundane and realistic dreams where i meet a girl and feel really strong feelings and fall in love, something i have never felt irl and i've never had a gf, anyone else ?
User avatar #165033 to #164939 - ScottP (12/03/2014) [-]
Yep. I met this girl in a dream who seemed perfect. I was sure I'd never seen her before. I fell in love...you know, in the dream. And when I woke up, I just wanted to go back to that dream.

But that's why they're called dreams, right? They're things your mind makes up so that the real world doesn't seem so bad.
#164953 to #164939 - Absolute Madman (12/03/2014) [-]
yep. made waking up extremely painful. suggest writing down those dreams as soon as you wake up.
User avatar #164951 to #164939 - erikus (12/03/2014) [-]
It has happened several times to me.

Most of the times they're girls I have never seen IRL. And the sensation would fit with what you call "falling in love". I spend the rest of the day kind of sad and thoughtfull.

But it's been a while since I had a dream like that, it must be related to shit happening to you.
User avatar #164946 to #164939 - sineztro (12/02/2014) [-]
Once or twice but with someone in real life, why?
User avatar #164936 - badsamaritan (12/02/2014) [-]
Whats it called to be convicted of a crime due to the outcome of past trials? American here
User avatar #165018 to #164936 - silverzepher (12/03/2014) [-]
depends on what you mean, like someone going back into the system for giving over their proposition, or having a retrial, or having a case in civil court after an outcome that was unfavorable for one side due to lack of evidence in a criminal court.

expand, expand, expand, our merican freedom writtins say lots o' thins, need ta kno more for i cam say fo sure
User avatar #164944 to #164936 - xXThatxOnexGuyXx (12/02/2014) [-]
Double Jeopardy
User avatar #164945 to #164944 - xXThatxOnexGuyXx (12/02/2014) [-]
Hmm... Wrong thing, I think... Sorry
#164935 - thethrowaway (12/02/2014) [-]
okay, after some recent events, my mind has gone to some deep dark places and has forced me to go over all the things that are wrong with my life and the causes of It, and I need a place to vent and talk about it.

First of all is my family; my relationship with my family sine waves all over the place, they go from being bearable to "I want to kill them"
I believe my dad to be a source of the majority of my problems; he is a poor father, he blames all the problems he encounters on me, he is hypocritical, loud , judgemental and has shown many times his inability to say "sorry I was wrong". The thing is I can't say anything, not just because I fear he might go berserk, but because his periods of being a cunt is inter-spaced with brief periods of kindness, where he gives me things that are valuable and I want to keep, but more importantly he does pay the bills and help build the house I'm currently in.

Secondly there is my mum, she is definitely a better parent than my dad, and I will be the first to admit that over my existence I have given her and unimaginable amount of grief, But in the recent years I have noticed that she has become a severe push over, and nothing will impress her any more. I know I am fast approaching a critical part of my life, but this extra pressure is not helping me. I can reason with her better than my dad, but can't outright criticize her as she has done a lot for me.

Lastly there is my little brother, words cannot begin to describe how much I hate him. He is a clone of my dad, personality wise, except he has no good aspects what so ever. He will back stab you and spit in your face and then demand you do something for him. I can go through thousands of examples of his bullshittery but just trust me when I say this He is the moat unbearable prick you will meet.

(will continue in reply due to character limit)
#164938 to #164935 - thethrowaway (12/02/2014) [-]
And now to move on to a self analysis of my social abilities.

When I was young I was a weird kid, which was all right at the time as everyone thinks the same, but the problem was that I was slow to mature, which lead to bulling and alienation from year 8 to halfway through year 10, where after I forced myself to stay quiet and not say or do anything that would be a risk to my already poor social status, I carried on like this untill the end of my GCSE's.

I soon later learned that this was a bad Idea, as it lead to two years of stagnant social development, When I moved to a new school for a fresh start I quickly found that It was difficult for me to maintain a conversation with people, so I just reverted to being mainly silent, and people definitely noticed, It isn't that bad but people don't actively engage In conversation with me as they know it would lead to an awkward dead end.

I would like to blame myself for blocking out a social group of people nerds, smarter people, ect, what ever you want to call them as my wider knowledge that is relevant to such a group would of made it easier to maintain conversations.

And finally I come on to the "recent events " that kick started this thought process off. about a year ago I started going to the gym, to improve self image and self confidence, and In the summer I could clearly see I working, girls where actually actively talking to me, I had never experienced this in my life and for the first time in my life i was happy.
now here come the sad part at first these girls where interested but as time went on they just gave up, some just said "don't talk to me again". this happened 5 times within the last 4 months I don't blame anyone but myself, but fucking hurts man.

and that's the end of my vent session.
User avatar #165000 to #164938 - laky (12/03/2014) [-]
If you feel that you need to frequently vent or have a desire to improve yourself and monitor your changes in behaviour, try keeping a journal. It has helped me a lot in keeping my thoughts to myself and control them
#164949 to #164938 - xXThatxOnexGuyXx (12/02/2014) [-]
All I want to really say is:
Don't let the worst of you become the best of you.
And certainly don't live in your past.

• First of all:
Family will always be like that. There's always going to be some downsides to each person. Just don't highlight them and focus on them.

• Second of all:
You blatantly chose to improve your physical aspect over your personality.
Instead of flaunting your personality you chose to flaunt your body.

Of course you'll attract attention... The wrong kind of attention.
Once they get to know you, they'll realize your personality isn't what they wanted.
They meet your body before your personality. It's inevitable, but you can't choose to work on only one aspect of yourself and neglect the rest.

Go become more social. Yes, easier said than done, but the more you do it the more it'll refine you -- The less you do it, the more it'll dull you.

> "After some recent events, my mind has gone to some deep dark places and has forced me to go over all the things that are wrong with my life and the causes of It"

Your mind didn't force you to do anything you didn't want to do.
You chose to think about and dwell on such things. You put on blinders on yourself, so you can only focus on one thing. You're missing the bigger picture, here.
Stop focusing on how and why your life is so "bad," and start focusing on how you're going to better yourself and your future.
Stop living in the past. Stop focusing on negative things. Start focusing on your actions in the present that build up to the future. Every minute you waste dwelling on negative things is a moment in time that you'll never have back. Stop dedicating your time to becoming more bitter. Start dedicating your time to becoming more better.
User avatar #164934 - badsamaritan (12/02/2014) [-]
I need help forming a thesis. My weak area in writing
Its an easy 5 paragraphs for the Final exam.
The final is based off Crime of Compassion www2.bakersfieldcollege.edu/dbesst/English%201/Class%20Handouts/A%20Crime%20of%20Compassion.pdf
We are supposed to state if Nurse Barber is guilty or innocent of any crime.
Im missing a 3rd point to talk on. As well the two points below the Professor approved
1. Others were convicted to under the same law
2. She didnt have a consensus with the doctor or the family.

User avatar #165001 to #164934 - laky (12/03/2014) [-]
Not too sure what you are writing about but my post above might be a tad bit related to what you are doing
User avatar #164962 to #164934 - skulli (12/03/2014) [-]
There is one human right which states that no one should suffer tortures nor inhuman or degrading tratment. With this point, one person who is suffering a extremely agony and wants to end it, isn't it being "tortured" and forced to suffer, from his point of view? (I hope you understand mine)
(You'll have to research a little bit to know more about that article from the human rights, because i'm spanish and I'm reading about them in my native language, I'm sorry)

Good luck with your tesis!

(I apologize for my poor english)
User avatar #164965 to #164962 - skulli (12/03/2014) [-]
[...] end it,_ is him being "tortured" and forced to suffer, If we try extend his life-time,_ from the last statment? [...]

my mistake
User avatar #164947 to #164934 - sineztro (12/02/2014) [-]
maybe why her case is different from others? or her reason for doing the crime?
User avatar #164933 - aeaduzb (12/02/2014) [-]
My girlfriend and i have been dating for like 3 months now, i really love her (despite i never told her) and i think she does love me too. The problem is i'm always the one taking the first step. She won't kiss me if i don't lean onto her, she won't hug me if i don't put my arms around her first, she won't hold hands unless i tell her so. I get that she's insecure but i thought that after all this time together she would start to act normally around me. I'm suffering because she never shows her feelings (f.e. we never make out just for the sake of doing so) and i'm thinking about breaking up with her. I'm the kind of person who's looking for a passionate relationship, where both sides show their love, not just one side, not just me... What should i do? Should i wait another month to see if she'll change in that way or should i just break up with her?
User avatar #164994 to #164933 - aeaduzb (12/03/2014) [-]
I already talked things with her, told her what kind of person i am several times (i think in 4 ocassions) and she hasn't changed. Hell, we even broke up for a week because of this, but ended up together again because she told me she'd try her best to change, she'd stop waiting for me to take the first step, but she hasn't (almost 3 weeks have passed). When we broke up she told me that she's aware of me suffering because she's not the affectionate kind, and we should call it quits and have good memories about this relationship instead of starting to argue and turn the good memories into mostly bad ones. But as i said, we made peace (she came to me, telling that she'd change) and we decided to give it another try, nothing has changed since then. However she told me that she's happier now than before and i've grown more fond to her (not sure i used that expression right), but those are just words for me...
User avatar #164958 to #164933 - rokkai ONLINE (12/03/2014) [-]
my last relationship which ended like 3 weeks ago was just like this one. we dated for more than a month and it turned out that she still couldn't get over with her ex. so i broke up with her. it's best for you to end it my friend. there is clearly something that she has in mind that prevents her from loving you with a clear mind which is not a pleasant thing.
#164957 to #164933 - xXThatxOnexGuyXx (12/03/2014) [-]
Talk it out with her, and see where things go from there.
#164954 to #164933 - Absolute Madman (12/03/2014) [-]
could always try telling her to be more affectionate.
hinting at what you want instead of being direct about it is not gonna help you through many relationships.

you want something you gotta ask for it. if she makes an honest effort shes worth keeping around.
#164952 to #164933 - erikus (12/03/2014) [-]
Ok I can relate to this.

In fact my last gf wasn't affectionate at all, even if she wanted sex I'd have to notice it and ask her. And I'm the kind of person that likes the other one to come to you and show affection.

So let me tell you: She's not gonna change. I mean, you could always tell her and see if it was just a misunderstading, it'd fix everything and you could love each other until you burn all your passion. But I know it's not that easy. I'd bet she's just a distant girl that doesn't like that kind of things.

Don't want to be rough, but you're not gonna be happy that way. I'm sorry. She just may not be the one for you. Of couse you can love her nevertheless she's not gonna give you what you're looking for, and that will hurt at the end.

Sorry buddy, you gotta choose between love and happiness.
User avatar #164995 to #164952 - aeaduzb (12/03/2014) [-]
About the sex, it's almost the same. We only do it once a week, when we go to her apartment to "watch a movie" or "have dinner", things like that, but only in the weekends, and though we don't ever talk about having sex when we make the plans, we both know why we're going to her apartment...
#164932 - foreseeker (12/02/2014) [-]
Does anybody know of a website/app where I can learn the basics to latin?
Does anybody know of a website/app where I can learn the basics to latin?
#164931 - Absolute Madman (12/02/2014) [-]
Why is there a shortage of doctors if biology is one of the most popular majors at practically every college?
User avatar #164948 to #164931 - sineztro (12/02/2014) [-]
actually being a doctor is a lot tougher than getting a bachelors in biology
#164928 - logickid (12/02/2014) [-]
math is literal bullshit, don't know what the fuck to do in class right now, all I'm doing is going along, trying my best to catch up, teachers are blaming me, and they're offering help but not trying to directly reach out to me, also i'm a pussy ass bitch who has bad timing and trouble with girls.
#165005 to #164928 - dehumanizer (12/03/2014) [-]
step it up bro, beeing bad with girls i understand but beeing bad at math is not, put in some effort unlike getting a gf, learning math is all up to you so its 100% acheivable
User avatar #164909 - andrewlincoln (12/02/2014) [-]
i really wish someone could have warnd me of the extremely morbid part of funnyjunk thats the fuel of nightmares ........... and i love it
maybe i can have dreams again
User avatar #164913 to #164909 - sineztro (12/02/2014) [-]
care to tell me what part this is it sounds radical
User avatar #164914 to #164913 - andrewlincoln (12/02/2014) [-]
i dont know i came acroos it on accident but you could search for morbid or some shit
User avatar #164919 to #164914 - sineztro (12/02/2014) [-]
Thanks man
User avatar #165210 to #164919 - andrewlincoln (12/04/2014) [-]
you are quiet welcome have fun with the great night terrors XD
seriusly but they didnt work for me
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#164889 - ScottP (12/02/2014) [-]
Not really advice, but it's just something funny on my newsfeed. I think my friend is being smeckledorfed by his girlfriend. He has a job that pays him around $100 a week, and he's basically spent all of his money during this semester on gifts for his girlfriend.
#165007 to #164889 - dehumanizer (12/03/2014) [-]
what the shit, a Wii U and a tatoo? Are there people really this vain out there?

Tell him he's getting pimped and that buying her tons of things wont earn her love, but earn her greed, she will see him as a walking cornucopia.
User avatar #164901 to #164889 - jibao (12/02/2014) [-]
i love how they're blatantly writing about it
User avatar #164902 to #164901 - ScottP (12/02/2014) [-]
They're a blatant bunch
User avatar #164904 to #164902 - jibao (12/02/2014) [-]
definitely the worst bunch
have you talked your friend about it?
User avatar #164905 to #164904 - ScottP (12/02/2014) [-]
Yeah. I've expressed my concern with his spending habit. He just says "Yeah, I know, but whatever."

Oh well. To each his own. But damn...
User avatar #164906 to #164905 - jibao (12/02/2014) [-]
not much you can really do then except watch, especially since he got back together with her two days later after the break up. i guess those types can only learn the hard way.
User avatar #164896 to #164889 - erikus (12/02/2014) [-]
While I'd like to be told I'm being a fuckin moron, men during relationships tend to act naïve and think that things like presents and such are worth the gf or the fuck or whatever they get from the girl.

If it was my friend I'd tell him he shouldn't spend that much on her because partners come and go and some of them just are there for the $$$, but don't get your hopes high, the most likely thing to happen is that she'll dump him someday and he will learn the lesson about trusting women who want you to pay for things.

Anyway I'm not saying she is doing that, I can't know if they are being serious in that conv or whatever.
User avatar #164898 to #164896 - ScottP (12/02/2014) [-]
They are. My friend is pretty much constantly broke because he keeps buying gifts for her. I think for their anniversary, he bought her a $500 piece of jewelry or something? Keep in mind that we were in high-school at the time and that is a ridiculous amount of money for a high-schooler, even more now that we're in college.
User avatar #164899 to #164898 - erikus (12/02/2014) [-]
That's not good at all.

But well who's really to blame, she is taking advantage of him and he's acting in a dumb way. You're still young not that I'm older and ya need to enjoy life, so maybe have a little talk and tell the man to keep the money for himself?

That'd be also a test, if the girl starts complaning because he doesn't buy her stuff anymore, even a kid would tell what she's seeking from him, if she doesn't, we all were wrong and he can return to their previous state.
User avatar #164900 to #164899 - ScottP (12/02/2014) [-]
I guess only time will tell.

I do recall that she broke up with him near the end of high-school because her parents wanted her to, or something like that, and my friend was devastated. Then they got back together like...two days later.
#164888 - foreveranonymous (12/02/2014) [-]
Long story short, our dog scared the cat, the cat slipped on the floor, and now he's limping. It's his back right leg that's causing discomfort. I've never had a pet slip and hurt themselves before, so I'm not sure what to do. I was feeling around his leg to see where it hurt the most, and he didn't attack me, so I don't think it's severe. All he did was meow a lot, which he does anyway. His leg felt a bit... spazzy
We cannot take him to the vet, we don't have the money. Should I try rubbing it gently to massage it, or maybe slowly stretch his leg out, or is it better to wait and let him relax? I don't want to make it worse, but I don't know how to help. I tried googling it, but all it gave me was animal illnesses that involve limping. It had nothing about cats slipping
pic related, that's the injured cat
#165009 to #164888 - dehumanizer (12/03/2014) [-]
depends on how bad the damage is and if the nerves are still intact

he could still probably continue to live a semi-normal limping life, although he might not be able to scratch his neck anymore and thats where you come in

source: one of my cats was beaten near death no not by me, lol but he "kinda" recovered
User avatar #164940 to #164888 - kegget (12/02/2014) [-]
You really should consider saving up for pet insurance. Chances are, your animals will end up suffering without vet treatment in their lifetimes.
User avatar #164915 to #164888 - sineztro (12/02/2014) [-]
I'd suggest that if it doesn't get better try to gently rub the cat's leg both near and where it hurts and try to see if you can find some way to wrap it without bothering him to much
User avatar #164920 to #164915 - foreveranonymous (12/02/2014) [-]
That sounds like a good idea!
User avatar #164942 to #164920 - kegget (12/02/2014) [-]
Please don't do that. It could cause discomfort and restrict circulation. If it's an outside cat, keep it indoors. Try and restrict it's activity, give it lots of cushion places to rest, observe him daily and note improvement. If he's not better in 3-5 days he's gonna need a vet.
It's probably worth checking his paws too, see if they're cut or broken. If he's just showing discomfort, and not hostility nor pain then he's probably just bruised.
User avatar #164943 to #164942 - foreveranonymous (12/02/2014) [-]
Then I won't do that. He refuses to stay when I put him on something soft, so I don't force him. Both of our cats are indoor cats. His paws are fine. I'm keeping my fiancees mother updated and told her that after a few days if it's still bad he's gonna need a vet, but we are very poor. We live paycheck to paycheck and then some, we can't afford pet insurance or a vet. It doesn't help that we have 3 dogs and 2 cats, but this isn't my family, so that's none of my business.
User avatar #164908 to #164888 - xXThatxOnexGuyXx (12/02/2014) [-]
He sounds like he'll be fine, man.
If anything, and at worst, he could have sprained something. How old is he, anyways?

Does he react harshly, as if he's in pain, when you do touch/ feel around his leg?
If it's just spazzy, it could be from very mild pain to him being a cat and being ticklish/ sensitive/ reactive.
User avatar #164910 to #164908 - foreveranonymous (12/02/2014) [-]
He turned one in August. When I was first poking around he just meowed at me a lot. I later ended up finding where specifically he was hurt, and he hissed at me, but no violence. It's not spazzy anymore, and he isn't limping as hard. He managed to jump 2 1/2 feet into a bed, so he's getting better, but still limping
User avatar #164912 to #164910 - xXThatxOnexGuyXx (12/02/2014) [-]
Give it two more days.
If he's still limping the same way he is today, then I would worry.
If the limping subsides more and more, as it has done so today, to the point to where it's practically gone... Then I wouldn't worry too much about it.
User avatar #164917 to #164912 - foreveranonymous (12/02/2014) [-]
Alright, thank you!
User avatar #164892 to #164888 - notred ONLINE (12/02/2014) [-]
Just let him walk it off. You aren't a doctor so you don't know what you're doing.

The cat knows what hurts and what doesn't so let him deal with it. Just keep an eye on him.
User avatar #164893 to #164892 - foreveranonymous (12/02/2014) [-]
Good point, I'm just really worried. I'll let him continue sleeping and check on him occasionally
User avatar #164881 - sineztro (12/02/2014) [-]
Okay so I've been friends with a girl since grade six, we both go to diffrent universities should I ask her out or nah? Also how should I ask her out?
Yes i have had feelings for her for 4 years yes i am that ß
User avatar #164897 to #164881 - erikus (12/02/2014) [-]
Go for it champ.

If you both get along and talk sometimes that means there's a chance she'll say yes.

If you rarely speak I suggest to try to see her more often until you start talking about stupid shit, then confess.

I mean the worst that'd happen is that you two get distanced and sincerely, it's worse to keep the feelings and hurt yourself than just get a lil' distanced.

Also check she doesn't have a bf but you should already knou dat
User avatar #164918 to #164897 - sineztro (12/02/2014) [-]
Thanks man, would doing it over skype work? or should i wait till we hang out again?
User avatar #164922 to #164918 - erikus (12/02/2014) [-]
Over the years I've learned two things:

1. Never confess unless face to face.
2. Never break up unless face to face.

I know they may be exceptions and the last time I broke up with a girl was via telegram but sincerely, that's not the way. You have to see each other, feel her presence, look at her eyes. It may sound cheesy but it's not about the romance, it's about two people standing in front of each other, incapable of hiding the truth (may it be good or bad). Also it helps to decision making as you just can't walk away if someone asks you something.

So be alpha for the first time in your life and hang out with her, find the right moment and ask her out.
User avatar #164924 to #164922 - sineztro (12/02/2014) [-]
Thanks man, want me to update you later when it goes down?
User avatar #164927 to #164924 - erikus (12/02/2014) [-]
Sure thing buddy, that way you'll have someone to blame and also I'll see if my advices are shit or actually useful. Best of lucks mate.
#164878 - Absolute Madman (12/02/2014) [-]
i got drunk, and did a load of embarrassing shit in public
just as i was getting over it, i found pictures

now i just want to die

inb4 stop drinking. because i'm never drinking again and i'm deadly serious
User avatar #164992 to #164878 - ilikethisusername (12/03/2014) [-]
i'm curious but what the fuck did you do? and who took the pictures your friends or just strangers?
#164911 to #164878 - xXThatxOnexGuyXx (12/02/2014) [-]
Pride ends in humiliation, while humility brings honor.   
Proverbs 29:23   
Everyone does stupid things when drunk.   
You can't change the past. You can only change your future.   
Own up to it. Put it in your past. Learn from your mistakes. And move on.
Pride ends in humiliation, while humility brings honor.
Proverbs 29:23

Everyone does stupid things when drunk.
You can't change the past. You can only change your future.

Own up to it. Put it in your past. Learn from your mistakes. And move on.
#164868 - Absolute Madman (12/02/2014) [-]
My boyfriend went to visit his folks this Thanksgiving (something I was pretty pissed off about because around September his parents offered to pay for transportation when I said I couldn't afford it and they backed out last minute because they finally looked at the prices and realized they couldn't afford it). He came back yesterday and I kind of don't want him around anymore. I was so much happier when he was gone. When he wasn't constantly bugging me, when he wasn't sleeping on my bed and eating my food. He's also been working on getting a job since I told him he was going to have no place to live if he didn't get a job my January, but he's already stressing me out and I kind of want him to fail so I have a good reason to kick him out and dump him.

I'm not sure if I'm just being petty as fuck over the Thanksgiving thing or if I'm completely out of love with this retard.
User avatar #164993 to #164868 - ilikethisusername (12/03/2014) [-]
I get it you want to dump him.....but that is too fucking cruel man. Just break up with him, don't be so fucking cruel by insulting him like that. I'm not sure but I don't think he thinks like that about you....I mean what kind of a person are you...don't make him suffer like that just dump him. It'll be up to him where he decides to live.
#164907 to #164868 - fistfireace (12/02/2014) [-]
Just fuckin' break up with him, I'm sure he can do better anyways.
Just fuckin' break up with him, I'm sure he can do better anyways.
User avatar #164887 to #164868 - marinepenguin ONLINE (12/02/2014) [-]
Just dump the guy if you don't like him anymore. You're being a bit of a bitch about the Thanksgiving thing, but that may stem from the fact that you don't like him anymore and him being around is a burden on you.
#164869 to #164868 - dehumanizer (12/02/2014) [-]
i will shiv you
#164856 - notred ONLINE (12/02/2014) [-]
So I'm just posting here cause of the SJW shit on frontpage.

So like this shit is making me sad and crap. The internet is breaking and I guess ignorance is blissful.

Am I the only one here thinking this is fucking crazy what they do and shit? This is so much worse than 4chan ever was. I like to believe that people are better than that shit, but I guess not.

The riots in the street at ferguson are fucking crazy too over something that any police officer would do. Hell there are guns for hire to protect the stores there.

Ukrain, 12 year olds killing kids over something imaginary, ferguson and the constant SJW shit and plenty more. I just want to know if anyone else thinks the shit that's going on is fucking crazy like I do. All you can do is listen and do nothing either.
User avatar #164903 to #164856 - jibao (12/02/2014) [-]
the world has always been shit. it's just that with the help of technology, it's even more noticeable, but hey...because of that other people can adjust themselves to not act like those crazy fucks.
User avatar #164866 to #164856 - leadstriker (12/02/2014) [-]
people who do good rarely go around yelling "look what I did, Look what I did!!!"
so all your hear are the cruzy nut fucks
User avatar #164861 to #164856 - iridium (12/02/2014) [-]
Because that's exactly what the news is about. Fear and emotion. They broadcast the shit that will make you most agitated, the most frustrated, the most excited, the most afraid, because they want you to buy shit or buy into shit.

There is shit you should be legit afraid of, but that's so you get shit done that needs to be done like paying the rent. The rest is exaggerated by pop culture. And Pop Culture is a crock of shit designed to sell you shit. So don't worry so damn much, it's not showing you the side of life you'll learn from actually living it. Most of life is stagnant or boring in the eyes of the media, and that includes good deeds and shit that will actually make you smile for.

Don't worry so much man. There's not even any point to it unless it's getting you doing stuff. Next year it's going to be something completely different, and you'll still be just about the same. Last year it was the Middle Eastern Riots, the NSA, Syrian Civil war. How much do you even see about the first two any more?
User avatar #164862 to #164861 - notred ONLINE (12/02/2014) [-]
That just means that more stuff is going on. It doesn't make it any better.
User avatar #164864 to #164862 - iridium (12/02/2014) [-]
The news disproportionately shows you only the stuff thats supposed to make you react with negative emotion. It's overblown and really exaggerated in terms of its impact. Shit happens. That's life. Shit isn't suddenly happening more often just because there's more media coverage about it.
User avatar #164857 to #164856 - thebestpieever ONLINE (12/02/2014) [-]
I don't I understand what you're on about.
User avatar #164858 to #164857 - notred ONLINE (12/02/2014) [-]
I just feel sad that my idea of people being at least tolerant is gone. I thought that shit only happened once in awhile, but I feel like it's happening more often and longer. That's all. I'm venting.
User avatar #164859 to #164858 - thebestpieever ONLINE (12/02/2014) [-]
Yeah, I get that. I don't sympathise because I think people are shit, but I understand why you would feel that way.
User avatar #164854 - thisistheguy (12/02/2014) [-]
Does anyone know where I can find/buy any books about anything Mandalorian from Star Wars? I fucking have loved that shit since KOTOR
User avatar #164845 - thumbsdenied (12/02/2014) [-]
What to do when youre so lonely and dead inside. Been to therapy for 3-4 years depression started when i was 15, im 22 now.
Im lonely, but i cant think of a word to say in my own language, spent most my talking in english because i didnt have finnish people to talk to. So i found chat buddies online.
Im not bullied at school, people leave me alone. There isnt really much bullying in my school anyways, students are major pricks to the teachers though.
Im exhausted all the time, i feel sick alot and have pretty regular doctor check ups because my blood pressure is unusually high.
I dont really feel any excitement anymore, everyday feels like the same. holidays and game/movie annoucements dont trigger anything either.
Im not dangerous to myself or anybody else, no reason to hurt myself, especially no reason to hurt somebody else if i feel like shit.
Felt so dead and alone for so long, but i could never make my parents go trough the trauma of me just offing myself. all the work they had done raising me for nothing.

Maybe i wasnt meant to be happy. I just need somebody to be with, but it feels impossible. im nothing special.. Just some trash waiting to be picked up.
#164916 to #164845 - xXThatxOnexGuyXx (12/02/2014) [-]
Silence and Solitude will do you no favors with your depression; It'll only make things worse.   
You've found comfort in both. While you may not enjoy it, it's more pleasant than the fear of the unknown -- Than the fear of rejection.   
Make yourself uncomfortable. Go out and make friends. Live life for others, with others.   
Sure, it's easier said than done... but if you want to change your life at all, then you there's no other way to start than jumping right in and facing your fears head on.   
It's tough, man. I've been there.   
What got me out of it?   
Church. Made lots of great friends. Kept me social. Kept me focused on the greater things in life, instead of dwelling on the negatives...
Silence and Solitude will do you no favors with your depression; It'll only make things worse.
You've found comfort in both. While you may not enjoy it, it's more pleasant than the fear of the unknown -- Than the fear of rejection.

Make yourself uncomfortable. Go out and make friends. Live life for others, with others.

Sure, it's easier said than done... but if you want to change your life at all, then you there's no other way to start than jumping right in and facing your fears head on.
It's tough, man. I've been there.

What got me out of it?
Church. Made lots of great friends. Kept me social. Kept me focused on the greater things in life, instead of dwelling on the negatives...
User avatar #164929 to #164916 - thumbsdenied (12/02/2014) [-]
Went to the cat house today. Had been awhile since i went there. It made me kinda happy, relaxed atlest just petting the cats. Then i saw they needed temporary care takers so i thought id sign up for that. Helped strangers today too carrying stuff.
Soon you can sign up for all type of hobbies and i thought id try out sculpting and cooking, archery is also something i wanna try.
Religion isnt really for me. I cant belive in gods, but i respect the people who find peace in religion though.

I might adopt a dog, a friend who needs me and will help me back by taking me outside the house aswell.
#164871 to #164845 - dehumanizer (12/02/2014) [-]
quit the pills and stop going to therapy, they dont care about your wellbeeing, they care about their paychecks which YOU provide
User avatar #164882 to #164871 - thumbsdenied (12/02/2014) [-]
Actually therapy is free, and the pills cost about 30bucks for 3months.
#164883 to #164882 - dehumanizer (12/02/2014) [-]
User avatar #164885 to #164883 - thumbsdenied (12/02/2014) [-]
Our health care is funded by taxes and therapy is free for youth. Its not free for working adults but if you're in school you get it for free, i think a doctor can write you up for therapy sessions that are either free or very cheap. But we also have the doctors and phychiatrics that arent funded by the goverment and they are costly.
#164894 to #164885 - dehumanizer (12/02/2014) [-]
well you dont pay but the goverment does, doctor needs a job, doctor needs you to get gubvament monie
User avatar #164848 to #164845 - tubcat (12/02/2014) [-]
Are you on anti-depression pills?
User avatar #164860 to #164848 - thumbsdenied (12/02/2014) [-]
Yeah i have pills. Dont seem to do much
User avatar #164879 to #164860 - tubcat (12/02/2014) [-]
Can't you join group sessions, or day group sessions. What I mean with that is you follow a program at a mental care facility for half a day. I'd highly recommend it if it's available in Finland.

Goal of treatment is to better understand your psychological vulnerability, a place to
give to learn in your life and skills as independently as possible with the psychological
vulnerability to go. Day treatment can also help you get more relaxed in life
to stand.
Day treatment focuses on:
 Giving more tools to deal with stress and keep the psychological balance
 Support in structuring the day.
 Deployment of personal capabilities.
 Providing opportunities to get out of social isolation.
 Learning from each other's experiences.
 To learn practical skills to reshape everyday life.

Also if your medication doesn't work, report this to your doctor or your treatment provider, They can look at alternatives, or different medication. Maybe you lack serotonin in the brains, which causes depression. This can means you will need to take medication the rest of your life to fill in this missing substance in your brain.

I myself have severe depression for quite some years. Posting this from a Psychiatric hospital.
User avatar #164884 to #164879 - thumbsdenied (12/02/2014) [-]
Ive been to few group sessions and they do help alot, but they dont last that long, been to a cooking therapy group and one where we talked and did a bunch of diffarent stuff like arts, visited a farm to take care of horses, hot yoga wich was awefull.and such things.
User avatar #164886 to #164884 - tubcat (12/02/2014) [-]
Could be an option to do volunteer work. Or search for a long term group session.
User avatar #164847 to #164845 - awesomerninjathing (12/02/2014) [-]
seems like all you need is someone who isn't part of your family to tell you they love you
User avatar #164865 to #164847 - thumbsdenied (12/02/2014) [-]
That is pretty much what want. Just dont know how to get that, im super awkward trying to speak in finnish though, grew up watching english shows, and i speak english to all my net friends so my finnish is pretty bad. Swedish i understand but my brain wont remember any words when i try speak it myself.

User avatar #164850 to #164847 - notred ONLINE (12/02/2014) [-]
What happened to your mod status?
User avatar #164851 to #164850 - awesomerninjathing (12/02/2014) [-]
i've never been a mod?
User avatar #164852 to #164851 - notred ONLINE (12/02/2014) [-]
I must be thinking somebody else then.
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