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#199229 - gingershavetrolls
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(10/12/2015) [-]
I'm 21. Left high school at 16. I have no real money, a shitty job and no real future prospects. I have just started on a course learning biology, chemistry and physics though. I hope to go to university upon completion of this one year course.

I'm just struggling a little with Chemistry. Can anybody offer help?
#199232 to #199229 - brashcandicoot
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(10/13/2015) [-]
do you have a diploma, or equivalent though?

where is it you're taking these courses?

are you American?

when I took Chemistry, aside from reading fundamental text, I went to this site a lot:
www.chemtutor.com/
#199224 - phenex
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(10/12/2015) [-]
Hello users of FunnyJunk,

How're you? I hope you're well, and having a nice day. I would like some advice on a story that I am writing at the moment. Also, just so you know, the formatting is really weird due to the fact that I copy pasted this from wattpad, and that website has shittyformating issues. I would like to know three things in particular about my story.
1. What do you, the reader, think of it?
2. What advice do you have for me?
3. What are some things that you did not like about the story?
I am open to criticism, however I do not always accept it easily. I am working on this so that I can improve. I really want to learn from this and get better.

Here is the link. pastebin.com/7XjJBEF4
#199236 to #199224 - brashcandicoot
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(10/13/2015) [-]
constructive criticism follows:

Amanda needs as much development as Akito, in the beginning of the story she reads as though she is a cartoon character moving from one area to the next.

The part where Akito is "born" could have a lot more depth. This is what makes the story, in a sense, believable. A cat is melting into a human both physically and metaphysically. I just feel that it was too quick, like you were in a hurry to get to the dialogue between mistress and akito.

Lines 359-367'ish... I have OCD and see a repetitive thing happening with him saying Little One at the beginning of each sentence. This is not a writing error I personally would like to see it broken up somehow, Line 363 maybe it starts " As he walks by (grandiose description of doors) the doors, "My abode, Little One." I liken it to when you see the word 'the' and it lines up with the next sentence and the next so you have a row of 'the's' one atop the other.

Honestly, pretty interesting read, i am invested in this sorcerer character already.

keep up the good work OP
#199225 to #199224 - phenex
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(10/12/2015) [-]
This is a link to chapter six, the chapter that I forgot to leave in.

pastebin.com/MrwP1jgj
#199221 - anon
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(10/12/2015) [-]
how difficult is it to move to another country moneywise,timewise...(for a job)?

p.s.-quick backstory: this country has no jobs so i embark on a mighty quest to find a new one(hopefully)
#199241 to #199221 - paintskillz
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(10/13/2015) [-]
Sounds like you answered your own question but I would suggest having a solid career plan in place before just showing up in a new country with no job plans lined up
#199237 to #199221 - anon
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(10/13/2015) [-]
Incredibly difficult. Honestly, if you're going there in hopes of finding one, chances are you'll have to wait a long time. I moved from the US to the UK last year and I'm still trying to find stable work.
#199206 - anon
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(10/12/2015) [-]
I am attracted to my sister, sometimes sexually, sometimes not. She is two years younger than me, but we are both at the age of consent. We also live together with out parents. Since our parents sheltered us from a very young age, the only way we were introduced to our sexual natures was through pornography. I think it would be mutually beneficial if we were to just shower together (sort of as a desensitization) and go nude in front of each other when no one else is present, or any of our friends, be they okay with it. I know she has been attracted to me in the past, but I think that if we did this, it would reduce the taboo placed upon nudity, especially one of family, and there would be a lessened sexual tension that I have developed toward her, and women in general, plus it wold build her trust in a man close to her to see her In an intimate state. My thing is to place a childlike freed inhibition upon that state of intimacy, there would be no tension. If nudist family's can go nude in front of each other (as was our natural state since quite a few Mellinia ago.) and family's who used to go to public baths together, and high schcool, collegiate, and professional sports teams can also do it, why can't we? Same deal, just act mature about it and it should be okay, right?

I'm just curious as to what are peoples thoughts on this idea, and how should I go about asking her, if indeed it is a good thing to do...?
#199270 to #199206 - lgninjaleetful
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(10/13/2015) [-]
I read visual novels about incest, but damn in real life, i'd like to think its a bit disgusting. but you know do what you want, just dont hurt anybody.
#199242 to #199206 - paintskillz
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(10/13/2015) [-]
No this is a terrible idea. Let's consider the scenarios.
A) (most likely) you tell her your idea and she thinks it's weird as fuck, telling your parents and friends. This ruins your life so gg no re. jk it was bg and now you have to seppuku.
B) (least likely) she says yes, now you have to keep the most socially frowned upon secret from everyone and if anyone finds out, well it was bg again so no re.

Also morals aside it is scientifically unfavorable to mate with close relatives.
#199228 to #199206 - gingershavetrolls
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(10/12/2015) [-]
nigga dont go in the shower with her

you gonna end up fuckin her with your perverted ass

just get out and get intimate with other girls

then you'll see your sister as your girl bro (because thats what she is)
#199222 to #199206 - dreygur
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(10/12/2015) [-]
Sometimes I wish I could give advice about stuff like this, but I have no way to relate as I don't have any sister or female cousin.
#199223 to #199222 - silverzepher
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(10/12/2015) [-]
doesn't mean your opinion wouldn't matter, the outside world is what most people fear about it
#199226 to #199223 - dreygur
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(10/12/2015) [-]
I honestly don't know if it's remotely normal to feel attracted to close family members of same age. There are only guys younger than 50 on my part.
#199227 to #199226 - silverzepher
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(10/12/2015) [-]
normal? maybe, in the us the first ones most experiment sexually with is cousins when you're a kid, all the "stories" of i accidentally dated my cousin.

close blood relatives tends to be different, and it is of course a taboo
#199216 to #199206 - silverzepher
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(10/12/2015) [-]
I'm not against the idea, I'm one of those people that say as long as I wouldn't throw the kid off the cliff, or I'd there wouldn't be kids who cares?
#199211 to #199206 - enlightednatzie
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(10/12/2015) [-]
Eeeeewww
#199209 to #199206 - ilikethisusername
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(10/12/2015) [-]
dude. nawh....she's your sister man. dude....that ain't right man.
#199207 to #199206 - anon
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(10/12/2015) [-]
good thing to do*

lol no
#199203 - ilikethisusername
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(10/12/2015) [-]
how do you move on from a girl. because i just cant.
#199273 to #199203 - lgninjaleetful
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(10/13/2015) [-]
stop being bitch
#199364 to #199273 - ilikethisusername
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(10/14/2015) [-]
oh k
#199230 to #199203 - joshlol
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(10/12/2015) [-]
same bro
#199219 to #199203 - nonbenderinlife
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(10/12/2015) [-]
Find ways to occupy yourself such as hitting the gym, playing games etc. The feeling goes away after a while and time is your best friend in this.
You can also eat one kiwi every day around noon and allow yourself for that moment only to think of her, after about 2 weeks stop eating kiwis and she will be past (the joke behind this is that kiwis give you the squirts and your brain associates her with that
#199220 to #199219 - ilikethisusername
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(10/12/2015) [-]
when i hit the gym i start comparing myself to her...how she hits the gym as well and if she saw me working out what she would think and all......

when i play video games i start thinking of how much of a loser i am because i'm playing games and i could be doing something productive...i dont know man i just compare myself to her in everything and she just doesn't seem to go away. every song i listen to connects to her somehow.
#199200 - superchrischan
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(10/12/2015) [-]
I'm tired of women begging to suck my dick. How do I stop this?
#199205 to #199200 - thesuperintendent
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(10/12/2015) [-]
Words can't even describe, nor pictures capture my perfect essence. girls fall to their knees, guys stand in awe at my perfection. I'm having trouble finding the woman who can match me. Girls seem to line up to date me, but none of them have any attainable qualities except giving birth. Why are my god given talents such a burden?
#199202 to #199200 - plantain
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(10/12/2015) [-]
Stop wearing your fedora outside of the home.
#199188 - cackrel
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(10/12/2015) [-]
Time to be a whiny bitch.
SO I just scored a 6 out of a 10 from my programming midterm.
Which I thought was pretty bad.
I flunked my calculus midterm.
And there's no midterm in physics. (thank god)
Right now, even though this is just my first semester in Programming then I'm feeling pretty unmotivated to continue.
What should I do?
Should I quit it and just get a job?
Should I switch majors? I was super psyched for this when I got accepted during the summer but right now, I just feel like shit.
#199201 to #199188 - yourinvisiblegf
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(10/12/2015) [-]
i'm thinking of learning how to code/ how to program
which language do you recommend?
what are you learning in your cursus? the matters?
#199204 to #199201 - cackrel
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(10/12/2015) [-]
Learn C++, it'll teach you most of the basics.
Java, C++, C are all "core" languages, the main difference between C++ and C is that C++ has "more" .
So pick a language and stick to that.
Regarding logic.
If, for, while and arrays.
You can start by learning those four.
They're what most computer science class I teach.
#199215 to #199204 - yourinvisiblegf
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(10/12/2015) [-]
thanks for answering btw =)))

i'm interested in programming because it seems to me there is a lot of opportunities
if i don't become a pro at coding, at least i'll have some skills that will put me above the others

i think you should keep it up dude
even with low or mid grades you'll still find a job, and then the work experience is a way higher validation than some diploma
#199214 to #199204 - yourinvisiblegf
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(10/12/2015) [-]
what about C# ? (see-sharp?)
i know very little still, but read/heard somewhere it's getting bigger

i'm quite at ease with Excel, does it mean i'll have it easy/not so hard? =s
#199218 to #199214 - cackrel
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(10/12/2015) [-]
Lol, excel and programming have little to nothing in common.
Try practicing with codeacademy.
Do mini projects.
Learning with Java is a book you could read.
#199199 to #199188 - anon
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(10/12/2015) [-]
You sound like a failure.
I'm sure your parents are proud.
#199192 to #199188 - kindofpractical
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(10/12/2015) [-]
Consider your happiness above everything else, if this is what you want, keep working at it. Everyone fails a few classes, well... not everyone, but fuck those guys. If you decide this isn't what you want, they stop fighting for something that won't make you happy, and find what will make you happy instead.

Most of my problems in my first two years of college were cause by me not talking to my advisor. Once I started talking to him, he was able to guide me to the resources I needed to do well in my more difficult courses.
#199193 to #199192 - cackrel
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(10/12/2015) [-]
Well, the problem is that the only thing I want in life, isn't to be a doctor, engineer or a nigger or whatever.
The only thing I want is to be happy.
And I haven't been happy for over fifteen years.
#199195 to #199193 - silverzepher
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(10/12/2015) [-]
Happy is subjective not objective.

Humans are designed to want more, to constantly want more. More comfort, more love, more food, more, more, more.

If you want to be happy, do more of the things you love, be more comfortable with yourself and others, easy more good food, do more things, see more stuff, go to more places.

Old men constantly complain that they wish they had done more while they had the time and energy
#199189 to #199188 - schurftinator
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(10/12/2015) [-]
nah man, I sucked balls when I just entered uni. for the first half year I kept on flunking half of the subjects, and barely passing the other half.

but it just meant for me that I had to study in a different way, I was working hard but doing the wrong stuff. don't let it demotivate you! there are loads of options (go to your student counciler, join a study group, talk with your professor about what you did wrong on your test and if he has any advice on how you should practice and study, do some online research on different study methods, etcetc)
#199176 - enlightednatzie
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(10/12/2015) [-]
Niggas, i am bored as fuck, fapped to all good porn, ate all my icecream and watched alot of seinfelt today. Is there any good drugs you can recomend? Like mushrooms?
#199178 to #199176 - sugoi
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(10/12/2015) [-]
Anime, it's a hell of a drug.
#199179 to #199178 - enlightednatzie
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(10/12/2015) [-]
already watched seinfelt
#199180 to #199179 - dorkledumbs
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(10/12/2015) [-]
Watch Bee Movie

Pretty good anime, written by and starring the guy who made seinfelt
#199181 to #199180 - enlightednatzie
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(10/12/2015) [-]
Yeah i've watched it when i was smaller. I am not very found of animated movies really.
#199182 to #199181 - dorkledumbs
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(10/12/2015) [-]
Give it chance plz
It like fine wine

Vinegar when old
#199183 to #199182 - enlightednatzie
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(10/12/2015) [-]
Uuuuhh... Nah, i remembered that it was kinda bad, i did not get the context of a human female falling in love with a fucking insect, it was really disturbing for me...
#199184 to #199183 - dorkledumbs
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(10/12/2015) [-]
That's what makes it truly an animu masterpiece
If you really aren't into it though I suggest Cory in the House
#199185 to #199184 - enlightednatzie
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(10/12/2015) [-]
Yeah i watched the trailer and i'll admit i laughed a little.
#199187 to #199185 - sugoi
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(10/12/2015) [-]
Cory is also anime.
#199186 to #199185 - dorkledumbs
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(10/12/2015) [-]
It's a party every week, baby
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#199169 - skygrok
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(10/12/2015) [-]
This is my first time ever posting here.
I really need a good advice to get me throught calculus class.
I always have been good in math in general until highschool, The teachers were bad at their job and really lazy about doing anything at all, This is where i start getting bad grades at math.
I always loved math and i do plan to become an engineer someday but i really need a good way (not an easy way) to get better at calculus.
I really hated how i get bad grades even if i try as hard as i possibly can, Still no good results.

Also my father WILL enlist me in military if i do not become an engineer/doctor and military is shit in my country and mostly filled with people who never got into college first.


I really do not want my life to fall down when i worked hard to shape it like that.

Gif unrelated.

#199190 to #199169 - schurftinator
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(10/12/2015) [-]
I just told this to someone in the other comments, but I'll repeat it a bit: sometimes it's the way you are studying and practicing that's the issue and not your own skills. try a different method, talk with your professor on what you're doing wrong and how you can improve, etc.!
#199194 to #199190 - skygrok
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(10/12/2015) [-]
Thanks, I'll talk to him as soon as possible.

#199175 to #199169 - anon
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(10/12/2015) [-]
**anonymous used "*roll picture*"**
**anonymous rolled image**Get help, if a traditional tutor isn't an option try some of the following: www.khanacademy.org/ (all subjects)
www.mathdoctorbob.org/ (Just Math)
www.wolframalpha.com/ (Computational Knowlage Engine)
Wolfram Alpha won't teach you anything but it's great for checking solutions. It wasn't until Differental Equations that I came across a problem you can't plug into wolfram and get an instant answer.
#199171 to #199169 - anon
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(10/12/2015) [-]
my math teacher was a complete retard and i graduated highschool with 18/20 average, sometimes blaming the teacher isn't the answer
posting as anon to not sound like a gloating douche
#199167 - anon
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(10/12/2015) [-]
I've posted here multiple times over the last year and a half about my problems with sex. I think I may have finally figured them out. I lost my virginity a year and a half ago to the first guy I've ever been really in love with. He was my best friend for the better part of a year before that. But, despite the fact that I was emotionally and physically ready for it to happen, not once did I ever experience sexual pleasure from it. He was caring and attentive, he tried everything he could think of. I spent a lot of time on my own trying to pleasure myself and nothing ever worked. Occasionally, I felt what I thought might be the bare beginnings of pleasure, but it would disappear almost immediately. I scoured the Internet for advice and found a lot of forums saying "just masturbate!", "get to know your body!", and "he doesn't know what he's doing!" At one point, I even mentioned it to my doctor and she immediately dismissed it as a psychological problem. Obviously, none of this helped. However, tonight I was looking into it once more and I stumbled across something. Sexual anhedonia. Apparently, this is a dysfunction in which the body experiences physical arousal and orgasm with no pleasure response from the brain. This explains the strange feeling I sometimes experienced during sex, it may have actually been an organ that my brain would not respond to. Apparently, in women it is believed to be a neurological disorder caused by low dopamine. As I have a history of moderate to severe depression, the low dopamine seems like the perfect explanation. I feel extremely hopeful for the first time in a long time that I may have finally solved this. Do any of you have advice on how to increase my dopamine levels?
#199238 to #199167 - lucifersmoose
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(10/13/2015) [-]
Dopamine can be increased by a lot of different things. Changing your diet is a huge one, you can look up dopamine boosting foods and you should be able to find tons of lists. But if that doesnt help and youve tried everything there is a lot of medication options too
#199231 to #199167 - joshlol
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(10/13/2015) [-]
Probably just need a BBC
#199253 to #199231 - enlightednatzie
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(10/13/2015) [-]
Kinky
#199191 to #199167 - schurftinator
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(10/12/2015) [-]
I'm glad you're coming closer to a solution! It sucks that often doctors don't really listen to your problems and just dismiss it.
Have you tried increasing your excersize? It helps in some people
#199213 to #199191 - anon
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(10/12/2015) [-]
Thank you for the advice, I'll definitely try that out. I also read healthy eating and certain medications could help. I'm really excited about this.
#199217 to #199213 - schurftinator
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(10/12/2015) [-]
that sounds great! good luck with it!
#199174 to #199167 - nonbenderinlife
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You should most definitely visit a neurologist then. They can diagnose you and prescribe the necessary medicine. I remember reading about your problem in here before and Im glad that you're one step closer to solve it. Keep it up
#199210 to #199174 - anon
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(10/12/2015) [-]
Thanks so much for the support, I really appreciate it and I'm very excited about what I've found out so far. I talked to my mom about it and she said she'll take me to the doctor again. I've read that healthier eating and daily exercise can help with dopamine levels so I'll try to take steps in that direction.
#199168 to #199167 - anon
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(10/12/2015) [-]
Also- I would prefer not to be on antidepressants as I have not experienced my depression over the last year.
#199138 - thatsnumberwang
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(10/12/2015) [-]
Its almost 4am and i have to be up at 7, is it better to sleep or pull an all-nighter?
#199146 to #199138 - thatsnumberwang
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(10/12/2015) [-]
Sleep it is. Thanks guys
#199145 to #199138 - anon
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(10/12/2015) [-]
That's a tough call, I'd choose the little bit of sleep over the all nighter. Unless you have work to do, in that case bust out the caffeine pills, pop one every time you feel tired until you can crash.
#199139 to #199138 - dorkledumbs
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(10/12/2015) [-]
Some sleep is better than none at all
#199141 to #199139 - thatsnumberwang
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(10/12/2015) [-]
But i have to pull my hungover ass out of bed?
#199147 to #199141 - anon
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(10/12/2015) [-]
If you're drunk that changes things, I wouldn't be able to get up until I completely sobered up durring the night. If you're drunk enough to have a hangover how are you navigating a keyboard?
#199150 to #199147 - thatsnumberwang
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(10/12/2015) [-]
I'm a talented drunk.
#199152 to #199150 - anon
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(10/12/2015) [-]
Replace alcohol with weed and trade you're hangovers for sleeping like a baby.
#199177 to #199152 - silverzepher
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(10/12/2015) [-]
530 ignite it homosexual
#199144 to #199141 - dreygur
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(10/12/2015) [-]
One night of little sleep shouldn't make it too difficult to wake up. If you've done this for multiple days in a row now, you're fucked either way.
#199142 to #199141 - dorkledumbs
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(10/12/2015) [-]
yes
#199130 - anon
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(10/12/2015) [-]
Hey guys,
My girlfriend and I moved in together a few months ago and it didnt work out, but we're in a tight finanancial situation so we've decided to continue living together.

We have been together for quite long so we said to still remain close friends and to help each other out with stuff.

But she got a package from her mom that was only delivered in another city so she's asked her ex to pick it up for her. She went there and stayed over the weekend and they ended up having sex.

Now, we're not a couple anymore, so she's free to bang whoever she wants, but i feel really horrible because i've always felt like they had unfinished business even though they haven't met in over 4 years.

She's now in a bed next to mine and i can't sleeep as i feel cheated because i have helped her out a whole fucking lot in the past few months and she still had sex with that guy. If she just wanted to have some fun, she couldve just had sex with me because we're still close, trust each other and live together, but i guess she didnt want just fun which hurts me a lot.

I need to talk about it with someone, guys, halp
#199163 to #199130 - hirollin
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(10/12/2015) [-]
Just find another place to live. You can move out too. She can move out. Go your separate ways. craigslist exists, multiple websites made for finding roommates exist. If you really want to move out you can.
#199132 to #199130 - dorkledumbs
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(10/12/2015) [-]
If it's really bothering you, anon, I suggest seeing if she can live with someone else or trying to find someone else to room with yourself.

Keeping it bottled up will only make you feel worse and confronting her about will yield nothing.
She obviously does not care about you in the same way she does about him, if at all.
You don't owe her anything and she doesn't owe you. Move on.
#199134 to #199132 - anon
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(10/12/2015) [-]
I cant afford to pay the whole rent here by myself, i only got this place so we could share the rent.
I can't move away from this place. She can, but if she does, she'll fuck me over big time and she doesn't want that either
#199136 to #199134 - dorkledumbs
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(10/12/2015) [-]
Well if that's the case I'd suggest spending time alone, or at least away from her.
Sort your thoughts and all or just not think about her at all.

Being in such close proximity to her in your situation won't help how you feel in any sense of the word.

Did she tell you about what happened when she left? How did you find out?
#199143 to #199136 - anon
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(10/12/2015) [-]
I had a gut feeling. Asked her and she admitted.

I would love to spend as little time as i can with her, but she's moved here because of me (i'm at university and she graduated), so she has nobody here besides me. She gets the train everyday to work so it's really hard for her to make friends with her co-workers.

She's going through quite and existential crisis, hence why i guess she had sex with her ex, so leaving her like that would only make it worse for her, and again, we still lovr each othrr.

Jesus, this is fucked up
#199149 to #199143 - dorkledumbs
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(10/12/2015) [-]
Indeed...

Listen, man. It's hard and it's going to be hard. If she really still loves you things may get better and if she does regret what happened things will be easier... Unfortunately from what little I know of your story that seems idealistic and misguidedly optimistic.

You've got to keep in mind that your relationship may be at the place it is now because of your codependence on each other at this point in time. Keep everything in perspective.

If she didn't tell you right away she either didn't tell you because you're only her ex now and she doesn't feel the need to tell you, she regrets it and doesn't want you to know in hopes that what you had is salvageable, or she just doesn't want to rub salt in a still opened wound.
My guess would be A or C.

I know how it feels to be in a complex place with an ex-girlfriend and to be absolutely entranced by her... The hopes that things may go back to how they were at their best... She doesn't feel the same way about him that she does about me...

Comforting thoughts, that's all they are.
Then again no risk begets no reward so trust your instincts.

Did she seem like she regretted it when you asked?
#199154 to #199149 - anon
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(10/12/2015) [-]
She's only regretted that it hurt me so much, not that she had sex with him. That's why she didnt want to tell me. But then i went for a smoke because i felt something was off, and i don't smoke, so she knew that if i do something foreign like that, she had to talk to me.

We will not get together again, i was certain of that even before this happened. So we said that we just need to work on what we have as friends so we can make the face that we live together into a pozitive experience. Both of us want somebody close that we can rely on especially when we re so far away from our families.

I just feel that she needs me here way more than her. I have always been able to get out of shitty situations whitout being affected to much, but she hasn't.
#199157 to #199154 - dorkledumbs
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(10/12/2015) [-]
There you go.
She needs you more than you need her and she doesn't regret having sex with her ex.

I don't know this girl, but I don't believe her to be a malicious person. She has good intentions when it comes to your relationship (as friends) and keep in mind that she does care about you because of the dependence you still have on each other.

Right now though remember that you owe her nothing and that you don't have to be her best friend. I'm not saying be rude, but if you just don't want to talk to her don't do it. Keep conversations short and to the point until the sting of the perceived betrayal soothes a bit.

Distance might help out, just being away from her for awhile. Since getting out of your apartment doesn't seem to be ideal maybe just sleep in another room or go out drinking if you drink or even just go outside and smoke.

It seems that you're all she's got where you're at right now so she might reach out to you every once in awhile. Again, don't be rude, but if you don't want to talk keep it short and let her know.
#199160 to #199157 - anon
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I am convinces that she didnt come here to financially latch onto me, and if she wants to leave, she can do it right now, but she cares about me enough not to do it.

We live in a shitty studio flat, so we only have one room because i'm doing an intership that pays just enough to live and she's so far only got a minimum wage 25hours ler week job.

I am probably going to tell her that i need some time to digest the whole situation and i am going to put this behind me so we can still function as friends.

And she's not mallicious. I've done some unbelivably stupid things to her that really hurt her and she has put that behind her and kept loving me. On the other hand, i am tired of doing things to help her out, like always doing breakfast for her because she has trouble sleeping and cant wake up in time.

Shit likw that got me drained in the past few months because besides my life, i also had to help her with hers, and i got sick of it. Before saying that i only do stuff for her, she has corrected dozens of bad habbits of mine.
#199161 to #199160 - dorkledumbs
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Definitely take that time. It'll make everything a lot easier
#199131 to #199130 - jettom
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(10/12/2015) [-]
What you're currently feeling is envy. Nothing less, nothing more. You're in the right to feel that way, but she's also in the right to satisfy her lust now that she's single.
#199133 to #199131 - anon
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The bit that i dont like is the fact that was her ex. If it were someone who shes get met and they had a spark, i wouldve backed her up.

But being her ex, it makes me questiom all years of realationship even though i know our love was geniune
#199135 to #199133 - jettom
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If she just had sex with him after a weekend trip, it's likely her relationship with that man was built on lust and not love. They got together as a result of sex, stayed together for sex and then went from each other when they both realized they desired move from their significant other.

Meanwhile, her relationship with you and the love you two felt for each other is good enough that you'd still share a bed after breaking up, you'd still help each other out and as you just said, you'd back her up if she met someone new. Is that not proof enough your relationship was built on love and trust, and the fact she even trusts you enough to make it known to you she had sex with her ex makes it clear that out of your relationship and her relationship with her ex, yours was the most genuine.

Ask yourself this, a year from now, if she asked for your help to pick something up and she decided to stay the night, would you try to get laid? I'd guess not.
#199137 to #199135 - anon
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She was alwayas saying that fj is a place where only virgins and betas hang out, but brother, you've said the best thing that i could have hoped for.

One more thing, why do you reckon she chose to have sex with him over me? She was saying that after they broke up she was sometimes thinking "what if we hadn't broken up", and said she doesn't like having those thoughts, so she went for it. But she's told me that before me and her met, he massively broke her trust with something so she broke up with him right away. I assume you wouldn't have sex with somebody after something like that
#199140 to #199137 - jettom
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Studying philosophy allows one to grasp the whole situation.

It's simple. her relationship with him was built on lust. She doesn't feel in the wrong to fuck him, as her heart was never in it from the first place.

Meanwhile her relationship with you was built on love, not lust. Would you feel in the right having sex with her now? Considering you've broken up and there's no love to be had? Of course you wouldn't. It'd be wrong, nothing less, nothing more. She feels the same way.
#199148 to #199140 - anon
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I've always been fucked up in a way with women's lust. On one hand, it turns me on like nothing else, on the other, i find its one of the most repuplsive things about a woman.

She's also been my only girlfriend, so i'm even more involved, not being able to related to her feelings about having beem with someone else.

It might have been just a blood rush when i've heard hrr say she had sex with him, but i also had a hard-on while being emotionally in pain (i used to get hard-ons when i was thinking that she has had sex with people before me). Is that normal or should i seek some professional help?

I appreaciate that might not be your are od expertise, but i need any sort of advice now.

Once again, Thanks a lot my friend.
#199151 to #199148 - jettom
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(10/12/2015) [-]
This is not my experience at all, but perhaps you're simply turned on by the idea of someone you love being fucked by someone else?
#199153 to #199151 - dorkledumbs
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I think he means that a woman's sex drive can be extremely alluring
Cuckolding clearly bothers him or else he wouldn't need advice
#199156 to #199153 - anon
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I absolutely hate cuckolding, but it just seems to get me physically turned on.

The thought of a threesome with a gf and someone else is exciting, but i don't believe that i could do it.

Now that i dwell on it, i might actually be fucked up just outside the "normal zone" so that i wouldn't be able to be in a relationship with someone who isn't a virgin. I am also quite a hypocryte as i am no longer a virgin but expect my partner to be.

My (now ex) gf had sex like 4 times before we met, and we've had way more than that, but i couldnt get past the fact that she did have even when we were madly in love
#199159 to #199156 - dorkledumbs
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I'll admit to being partial to virgins too, but at the same time you can't really fault someone for having had sex by their 20s

I'll also admit to not understanding your plight because my body feels the same way about cuckolding as I do. Absolutely disgusting.

I do sympathize with you on the threesome thing though, girl or guy I feel like I wouldn't be able to go through with it
#199162 to #199159 - anon
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It is only recent that ive noticed that i get arroused and disgusted by cuckolding. I'll definetely try sorting it out so i don't end up socially handicapped.

Another thing that bothered me is that the weekend she was with her ex, i had the possibilty of having sex as well, but i havent taken it because i didnt want her to feel like i do now.
#199155 to #199153 - jettom
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As I stated, really not my experience. And this bothers him as a breach of trust, he stated previously to me he wouldn't mind if it was a new person.
#199158 to #199155 - anon
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Or at least i believe i wouldnt mind it, it has never been the case. I have stated that because i find women's lust repulsive, so if she were to have a new boyfriend and a relationship based on love, sex would be a way of expressing love.
#199124 - anon
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#199120 - payseht
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(10/11/2015) [-]
Twitter
Google has been of no use but it's becoming an issue. Myself, like I'm sure many others, follow a lot of people, meaning a lot of things to scroll through.
Apparently I'm an oddity, but I go through them chronologically, so I scroll all the way down to where I was before I start reading anything... and that's where everything breaks down because if I accidentally or intentionally click on anything, it reloads and sends me back to the top, with everything I scrolled down to unloaded, so several times a "session" I'll watch a video while waiting for shit to reload by holding down PgDn... which is even worse on mobile since I don't have this alternative...
While I'm at the topic, any way of disabling the top-side thing that occupies a third of the site even though it's a page long..?

tl;dr: is there a "forced cache mode" option or something that doesn't reload the site and unloads everything I scrolled down to?
#199128 to #199120 - dorkledumbs
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(10/12/2015) [-]
Open in new tab?
#199129 to #199128 - payseht
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(10/12/2015) [-]
very iffy
Sometimes it does, sometimes it doesn't
And very impractical on the long run since I need to open in a new tab if I want to comment on anything...
Plus, on my phone, there's no such option, and I will eventually tap on something by accident trying to get to where I left off the last time I tapped something on accident
#199086 - alloutofusernames ONLINE
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(10/11/2015) [-]
Hey guys i need some advice... Last year I got together with this girl (first gf) and it was amazing (rarely ever fought, got along pretty well) well last month she broke up with me cause i wasnt making her happy anymore and i need to grow up and shit (didnt have a job or anything) this past month i got a job and started going to college and I was finally happy again since i got my life on track.. but just in this last week a friend who was "helping" me get her back to me just told me that they started dating... Told them that I never wanted to see or talk to them again.. and when i tried to talk to my parents about this they laughed at me and said "i told you so"... It all really hurts and i dont know what to do.. I need some advice
#199775 to #199086 - meowtownhero
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(10/18/2015) [-]
that sucks
#199126 to #199086 - alloutofusernames ONLINE
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Thank you all so much for replying.. It helps since i see you guys as my second family.. And Ill keep on going and try to move forward.
#199125 to #199086 - dragondust
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She's gone, and you have to accept that however you can, and do your best to move on.
The fact that your parents weren't sympathetic towards you is pretty sick, but use that as your driving force to move on.
#199121 to #199086 - gibroner
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(10/11/2015) [-]
alcohol will never leave you
#199108 to #199086 - silverzepher
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(10/11/2015) [-]
Keep that pain, let it drive you, pain is the best teacher and you have been given a lesson.

Keep moving forward, keep improving yourself, you know what happened to you hurts, so be the kind of who would never have others experience it.
#199103 to #199086 - dehumanizer
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(10/11/2015) [-]
>having a gf
>postin Wojak

you, you stop that !
#199208 to #199103 - anon
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(10/12/2015) [-]
stop your autism please
#199212 to #199208 - dehumanizer
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(10/12/2015) [-]
make me fuckboi
#199249 to #199212 - anon
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(10/13/2015) [-]
get over your faggotry faggot
#199251 to #199249 - dehumanizer
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(10/13/2015) [-]
yeah no
#199107 to #199103 - dreygur
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(10/11/2015) [-]
HE HAS A NAME?
#199164 to #199107 - dehumanizer
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you normies will never understand
#199097 to #199086 - schurftinator
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your friend is a dick and you're better off without him. parents often seem to trivialize problems that their children are having, which sucks. but you can get on track yourself, you can do it and you'll be a better person in the end!
#199089 to #199086 - anon
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She sounds like a selfish bitch who only thinks about what make her happy and not working on making your relationship work. Take it as a learning experience and grow from it.
Then get better friends and prank your parents with laxatives
Lion King - What did you do that for - the past can hurt
#199095 to #199089 - enlightednatzie
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(10/11/2015) [-]
this tbh
#199083 - anon
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(10/11/2015) [-]
Any advice to make a work day go by faster? I can't use the internet, or really do anything. My boss thinks/expects that during downtime I'll still be busy, and have stuff to do. I understand his point of view but this isn't a job where I'll be constantly busy. At best it'll be me going to the back once or twice to stock a few items and that's it. Which will take less than five minutes.
#199116 to #199083 - payseht
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if you can use headphones, schurftinator has it. A good podcast will melt the hours away.
If you can't, or aren't sure, consider a bluetooth headset that won't be easily noticed
if you have access to a computer screen, bring something from home like a book or a comic
if you have access to a computer that isn't connected to the internet, this is literally the last resort and for some works miracles, play the dinosaur game on google chrome...
#199099 to #199083 - schurftinator
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during boring parts of my job I listen to a lot of podcasts. it's learning while doing mundane tasks!
#199085 to #199083 - dreygur
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(10/11/2015) [-]
Grab a book or any handheld entertainment device
#199071 - Lawlergasm
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(10/11/2015) [-]
Hey y'all, I'm looking at buying a custom laptop but I'm pretty noob when it comes to this. I know enough that I managed to build my desktop, but I still don't fully understand what evreything does and where I can save and where I should spend. If you don't mind helping a guy out, I'd love to PM with someone to get advice.
#199109 to #199071 - silverzepher
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(10/11/2015) [-]
I thought vidya board was pc central on the site
#199066 - anon
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(10/11/2015) [-]
anyone have any advice about browsing on tor?
#199166 to #199066 - misticalz
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(10/12/2015) [-]
There should be a dark web wiki, with a link to a pastebin, with all the important links to important sites.
There is CP on this list, warning you
#199117 to #199066 - payseht
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(10/11/2015) [-]
don't
it's been unsafe for a while now and you should look into some alternatives
#199165 to #199117 - misticalz
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(10/12/2015) [-]
really?
how has it been unsafe?

What other ping networks could I use instead of TOR
#199170 to #199165 - payseht
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(10/12/2015) [-]
I've been out of the loop for a while so I can't name much from the top of my head
Visit 8chan's deepweeb section. There used to be an FAQ stickied and probably still is.
And it's unsafe because traffic is being monitored. There is no such thing as online anonymity, just making it hard enough for the other person to not bother.
#199110 to #199066 - joshlol
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(10/11/2015) [-]
expect about 50% of links to be dead and the whole experience to be slow as fuck
why are you wanting to use tor?
#199122 to #199110 - ferrettamer ONLINE
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(10/12/2015) [-]
cp ofc
#199062 - hellomynameisbill
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(10/11/2015) [-]
do you think that good handwriting is important in the modern age
#199123 to #199062 - ferrettamer ONLINE
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(10/12/2015) [-]
no.
#199118 to #199062 - payseht
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(10/11/2015) [-]
depends what your job actually is but more often than not yes...
#199111 to #199062 - joshlol
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#199234 to #199111 - brashcandicoot
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(10/13/2015) [-]
spelled strippers wrong
#199090 to #199062 - anon
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(10/11/2015) [-]
it will get you laid 100% of the time
well... if your handwriting is on a fat cheque book that is
#199072 to #199062 - dreygur
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(10/11/2015) [-]
Probably not essential, but it's very handy
#199063 to #199062 - enlightednatzie
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(10/11/2015) [-]
Yup. I still write my notes for school with mah hands because i hate writing on computers. Its a huge advantage of having a readable handwriting. I think that schools should focus a lot more o that since its really crippling to not have a good handwriting in the worklife.