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#202198 - anon id: 243bdab8
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I think I might be Bi-Polar but I'm not sure.

I could go to a therapist but I don't want to waste their time if it turns out I'm just a normal person that sometimes feels good but sometimes feels bad.

anyone help me work out what are some signs.
only things I'm sure of is that sometimes I feel this incredible anger, it may be at something that is happening, something that might happen or something that has happened, it might also be just a feeling of anger at nothing. other times I feel hopeless and just realize I've gone wrong at everything and nothing goes right.
sometimes I get this feeling that I can do anything and I'm really interested in something, anything that I'm currently doing is amazing etc.

those are just things I can remember/know of.

Am I Bi-polar or are these just emotions that everyone has?
User avatar #202229 to #202198 - sphincterface
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I really can't diagnose you with anything man, I can't tell you whether you are bipolar or not. The most I can say is that you might be, and you might not be. See a doctor or therapist about this.
User avatar #202209 to #202198 - schurftinator
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no one here is qualified to tell you whether you are or are not though. it might not even be bi-polar but other anxiety, confidence issues, or general problems with your emotional stability that a therapist could help you with too. you're not wasting their time ever though, they're getting paid per hour and do this all the time, you could even just go a few times to see if it's useful for you
User avatar #202205 to #202198 - bubblypickles
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No one here is really going to be able to help too much. With that in mind, I think seeing a doctor, even if it's just your gp, is your best go. Many "normal" people see therapists often just to talk out their own problems, so don't feel you're wasting their time, it's their job
#202163 - anon id: fec4b9a5
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Became friends with German girl that came to my university (USA) on study abroad. Really cute, so I take her out to do lots of things and flirt with her a lot. Get to know her some more and start to like her a lot. Find out after awhile that she has a boyfriend back in Germany, so I back off and keep things as just friends. Still take her places and spend a lot of time with her and start to like her even more. I've completely fallen for her, and really wished that she could be mine. Two nights ago she stays the night at my place, stays in my bed, cuddles with me, and admits that she's got feelings for me too. Said that she wouldn't kiss me since it doesn't feel right. I took her out last night and we spent a while holding one another while looking out at the city. I asked her what she was going to do with her boyfriend. She said that she still cared about him, and while she's grown to really like me, she can't forget about him. Says that she won't break up with him. My heart is torn because just holding her feels like a dream come true, yet I can't accept being part of a half-way relationship. One of the toughest things I think I've ever had to say, but I told her that I don't want to do any of it while she's committed to somebody else. Agreed that we'd just stay friends and have no more cuddling.... I had wanted her so badly, and then got a piece of it. It felt so good and I'm letting go after just two days. I feel good, knowing that I did the right thing, but... it hurts. I'm in love with her.

Long story short: The girl I like likes me back, but she's still got a boyfriend she won't dump.

Feeling sad tonight. Would appreciate any encouragement or advice you can offer.
#202212 to #202163 - minutes
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What a fucking bitch. If I were you I'd run while you still can
User avatar #202197 to #202163 - schurftinator
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when you're travelling and you're away from your partner, it's easy to grow close to someone else (in this care, you) because you have a desire to be with someone. so her situation is understandable, she really cares about you but also cares about her bf. enjoy the time you had together and the great friend you made, but yeah you probably should move on. too bad!
User avatar #202171 to #202163 - confusedasian
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Stop getting in the way. She already has a boyfriend. You probably just haven't been with another girl, so when you started hanging around this one you became more and more attached. Like wise, she's away from her boyfriend and likely misses him so she takes comfort in you.

Dude move on.
User avatar #202167 to #202163 - nigerianprince
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Man that's one hell of a situation. I'm assuming she will be moving back to germany, when will that be?
#202168 to #202167 - anon id: fec4b9a5
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In about a month... doesn't really change things for me though. I know that I'd do what I could to see her again.
User avatar #202169 to #202168 - nigerianprince
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Oh i see, so that makes sense why she wouldn't dump her bf. Do either of you have the money/time to fly and see each other?
User avatar #202172 to #202169 - confusedasian
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Dude, don't encourage him. Imagine if you were the boyfriend. Your girlfriend is in another country and this happens. You're encouraging him to make her cheat on her boyfriend. Are you really okay with that?
#202170 to #202169 - anon id: fec4b9a5
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If we took that road, I think I'd be more interested in finding something permanent. I think it'd be easier for her to move here.
User avatar #202176 to #202170 - nigerianprince
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The best option in my opinion is to make this last month for her unforgettable. If she can't resist, she will come onto you. Make sure you get a way to contact her and just have a great time together, if it's meant to be you will be together.
User avatar #202159 - platinumaltaria
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Gender dysphoria, what do?
User avatar #202338 to #202159 - drastronomy
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step 1:
Suck it up. If not, move to step 2
step 2:
Admit you have a disorder, similar to autism
step 3:
Dont chop your dick off or take hormone treatments
step 4:
suck it up
User avatar #202213 to #202159 - yibdiy
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suck it up
User avatar #202214 to #202213 - platinumaltaria
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"oh you have cancer, suck it up lol"
#202216 to #202214 - yibdiy
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oh, you're a fellow shitposter
User avatar #202217 to #202216 - platinumaltaria
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I'm not a shitposter?
#202218 to #202217 - yibdiy
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#202208 to #202159 - elricross
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get off tumblr and be productive
and by be productive I mean hang yourself
User avatar #202215 to #202208 - platinumaltaria
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who hurt you?
User avatar #202206 to #202159 - sugoi
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I am going to dismiss you as someone looking for attention, hmph.

Serious though, what is there to do? Just act however you want to act, at least on FJ no one will give a shit, no one knows if I'm a girl or a guy and no one will give a shit either way.

Unless of course you're having problems in the real world in which case just go hide on a college campus or something.
User avatar #202195 to #202159 - schurftinator
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firstly I wouldn't use FJ as a place to talk about it, as the general community here is pretty trans/homophobic and will just dismiss you as someone looking for attention.
there are, however, a lot of other online communities that are much more supportive with people who are going through the same thing as you are. try to talk with different people, see what they've done and how they deal with it, and find your own way to feel comfortable with yourself!
User avatar #202253 to #202195 - lgninjaleetful
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I wouldn't call FJ homophobic.
User avatar #202196 to #202195 - platinumaltaria
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I only really have here.
User avatar #202199 to #202196 - schurftinator
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that doesn't make it impossible to find another place I'd google it for you, but you might want to look yourself what looks appealing to you. just don't let anyone here tell you you're sick or whatever, you are the way you are and that is completely fine.
User avatar #202200 to #202199 - platinumaltaria
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nah, most people here are fine, it's just a vocal minority.
User avatar #202201 to #202200 - schurftinator
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yeah true, still it can bring a person down from time to time.
thing is though, if you want to know what do to and what the options are you're going to want to talk with people who have been through the same. So I can't really tell you what to do. Unless you just want to talk about it! then I'm all ear
User avatar #202173 to #202159 - confusedasian
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Why do you feel "not yourself"? Is it just how you've been? Or do you feel like you're "pushed" towards something? Like, I don't know, lets say you're a guy and you like wearing women's clothes and you have similar interests to women. Do you feel like you need to change because of things being boy's and girl's? Or do you really feel like you weren't meant to be a boy?
User avatar #202175 to #202173 - platinumaltaria
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Why do people born without limbs feel bad about it?
I'm not pushed, I simply am this way.
No, my brain is for the most part myself, my body just doesn't match that. I'm a girl, the fact I was born with a penis is immaterial and upsetting.
User avatar #202177 to #202175 - confusedasian
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My questions weren't aimed at offending you. I was just curious how people like you feel. Like I'm very interested in how people like yourself feel, what they're thinking, etc.

Don't ask why, I don't even know. Just find people like yourself interesting.

Also, people without limbs might feel bad because they don't feel "complete" or the more obvious reason, bullying. I've met a kid with a missing leg and he was cheery (though very annoying his personality was.). One person doesn't speak for the rest I suppose.
User avatar #202178 to #202177 - platinumaltaria
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It's ok, no offence taken.

I don't feel complete, and I'm missing far more than a limb.
User avatar #202179 to #202178 - confusedasian
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How long have you felt that way? Have you talked to your family about this?
User avatar #202180 to #202179 - platinumaltaria
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Forever I guess. Yeah, but it's complicated.
User avatar #202181 to #202180 - confusedasian
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Things like this are almost always guaranteed to be complicated. Chin up. They support you though right?
User avatar #202182 to #202181 - platinumaltaria
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Not really, nothing they could do anyway.
User avatar #202183 to #202182 - confusedasian
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I don't think you understand how long I've been sitting here reading your reply trying to understand what you mean. I mean't support like, they're still there for you. Does your answer mean money wise? Cause therapy and all that other stuff is pretty expensive. Or do you mean like they're ostracizing you? I certainly hope that isn't the case.
User avatar #202184 to #202183 - platinumaltaria
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I mean they don't really get how much it hurts. They're trying, but it's a hard to understand thing.
User avatar #202185 to #202184 - confusedasian
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Oh, that's great. Keep talking to them about how you feel. It's nice having people with you.

What do you mean hurt though? Are you alright? Just going through a lot, I suppose.
User avatar #202186 to #202185 - platinumaltaria
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It's kinda hard, imagine being trapped in someone else's body.
User avatar #202190 to #202186 - confusedasian
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I'm not good with imagination, so I can't. However, I can lend an ear for you to talk to. It's not much, but it has its advantages. For example, other than our usernames, we're both anonymous. You can talk freely without the feeling of being judged.

I am going to sleep though. Good luck in what you choose to do. If you want to, come talk to me once in a while about whatever you want. Good night.
#202164 to #202159 - anon id: 243bdab8
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Find a therapist to talk about it with.
User avatar #202165 to #202164 - platinumaltaria
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I intend to.
User avatar #202143 - rereviven
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Is senior year of high school suppose to be horrible? Like everyone else is enjoying them selves but I feel depressed as fuck
User avatar #202191 to #202143 - youngneil
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For me, senior year was the same as every other year of school. Not horrible, but not necessarily great either.
User avatar #202146 to #202143 - sugoi
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You're bad at this highschool thing, good thing it's senior year, maybe you'll do better at the whole adult life thing.
#202142 - anon id: 8cfd0aff
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Going anon cause I'm embarrassed to have to ask this, but how do you kiss? What's the right way to it?
User avatar #202221 to #202142 - paintskillz
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I dont think there are any great ways to practice it except for actually doing it and learning through trial and error. Chances are the girl will be much better than you anyways so you can learn from observation. Don't go crazy with the tongue or youll just weird her out. Start light and go with the flow.
#202227 to #202221 - anon id: 8cfd0aff
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I'm the girl.
#202232 to #202227 - paintskillz
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My bad
Chances are the "guy" will be much better than you anyways so you can learn from observation. Don't go crazy with the tongue or you'll just weird "him" out. Start light and go with the flow.

pic semi related
#202248 to #202232 - anon id: 8cfd0aff
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Right, I thought it would make a difference if you knew if I was a girl or not. Thanks, I'll be sure to keep that in mind.
User avatar #202194 to #202142 - schurftinator
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don't stick your tongue too far in, it's like exploring not like you're trying to steal their gum. also just open your mouth slightly, kind of goes with the first part. it also helps to caress the other person's hair and face for the whole experience. and everyone messes up the first time so don't stress, just enjoy!
User avatar #202149 to #202142 - platinumaltaria
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You know how people say you'll know how when it happens? Don't listen to them, they don't know shit. Just put your lips on theirs and do what feels good.
User avatar #202166 to #202149 - scottmc
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Don't open your mouth until after your lips touch. Then it's just feeling the other person's mouth with your lips and tongue. Focus on how every little bit feels to you and then you won't go too fast.
#202148 to #202142 - joshlol
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#202147 to #202142 - confusedasian
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Imagine this except inside your girlfriend/boyfriend's mouth with their tongue as the chocolate bar.
#202139 - anon id: 417e3bf4
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I am crying in depression right now.

I found my favorite porn vid off all time, but accidentally trashed my history before making note of the title, and I remember absolutely no variables about said video. I tried to retrace my steps, and put in whatever search terms I had used, and follow thumbnails in the sidebar via deja vu, etc, but no luck.

I'm gonna have to start saving hiding porn to avoid this outcome in the future. I had gone through this is in the past, my only technique was to copy and paste links onto a word document, put it on a USB, and hide said usb in a small safe box hidden in a secret wall compartment. But I got too paranoid for that. Any good porn hiding techniques?
User avatar #202150 to #202139 - platinumaltaria
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Bookmark that shit under a heading no one would ever be interested in, go at least 2 layers down, and add some boring pages above it.
#202144 to #202139 - anon id: 06d0bc6f
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With my very own computer THAT I OWN, i bookmark all my shit and put the bookmarks into several folders based on fetish.

as for you, if you dont own the computer or people just generally use the computer you are using a lot, i'd say get a hard drive with that word document and just like, put it on your key chain or something, or hide it. it will work, no one is just going to find your shit or take your shit.

or you know, just find random stuff to fap too, be a fap nomad. browse whatever
User avatar #202141 to #202139 - joshlol
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contact your ISP and explain the situation and ask if they can provide you with some browsing history
#202135 - anon id: 307bcd9e
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so i started talking to this girl a few days ago and things were going fine, but she won't initiate conversations whatsoever. i've stopped messaging her for like 2 days to see if she starts a conversation, but she didn't . when we talked she showed a plenty of signs of interest, so i don't think im bugging her out or something. wat do
User avatar #202222 to #202135 - paintskillz
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One thing I've noticed is that if a girl is interested in you she will make it known through various ways including initiating conversations. It's not all encompassing to say that though because it may be that this girl is an outlier but it definitely is a general trend and you should prepare for the worst and hope for the best.
User avatar #202193 to #202135 - schurftinator
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sometimes people are busy, sometimes people are shy, sometimes people just don't chat a lot online (I always enjoy chatting with people when they start a conversation, but I rarely initiate)
if she sounds interested, just ask her out for coffee or lunch!
#202202 to #202193 - anon id: 307bcd9e
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I see, thanks. My fear is that if i keep starting conversations ill look like an obsessed creep, but whatever i guess
User avatar #202203 to #202202 - schurftinator
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yeah I know what you mean, it's tricky isn't it, there isn't really any online etiquette. I guess as long as you're not bothering her every hour, and keeping on sending messages when she's not responding, you can keep off the creep-side
#202301 to #202203 - anon id: 307bcd9e
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Success! I m meeting her tommorow
User avatar #202367 to #202301 - schurftinator
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gg!
#202204 to #202203 - anon id: 68ff731c
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Thanks alot. Guess ill just ask her out and see what happens
#202129 - enlightednatzie
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Should i cut my toenails?
#202290 to #202129 - anon id: 60503e70
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Consider the Vandenbos Procedure. I see your toenails look pretty cracked and brittle.
A lot of times it's caused by early stages of toenail fungus. It's a cheap as hell thing your doctor can do to fix it. Look it up.

Late-form fungus for reference. It'll end up making your nails brittle and easy to break.
User avatar #202140 to #202129 - joshlol
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I think you should have a foot transplant
User avatar #202187 to #202140 - enlightednatzie
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Thanks. (I was being sarcastic) My foot arent that ugly right?
User avatar #202134 to #202129 - redandgreen
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Seriously, WTF is wrong with you
User avatar #202189 to #202134 - enlightednatzie
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Natzing, i just wondered if yuo think cutting my toenails is a good ideah or should i wait so the grow longer?
#202131 to #202129 - anon id: 8cfd0aff
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Cut off your entire foot.
User avatar #202188 to #202131 - enlightednatzie
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Then i would die
#202127 - anon id: 8cfd0aff
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I've always felt like I'm second to everything else in everyone's life. I feel like I'm not worth anything and I haven't really be motivated to do much in my life because of this. I want to try and fix this but I'm having a hard time figuring out where to start.
#202309 to #202127 - epicextreme
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do you get the feeling you're an a.i in someone elses game?
you are the protaganist and this point in your life is just the lousy side quests before you are capable to do huge things and be the person you want to be
User avatar #202151 to #202127 - platinumaltaria
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Give them a reason to put you first? No one can change it but you.
#202133 to #202127 - confusedasian
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Start at the small things you want to improve. Imagine your burdens and troubles as a big building, okay? Buildings are held in place and together by a frame. Weakening and taking out the frames will cause the building to crumble. So if you want to change, start with small things.
User avatar #202113 - derpys
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I Fj. I really need your help. I have been together with this girl for 2 years, our relationship is pretty good, and if we continue i might marry her. But there is this thing that keep bugging me. I can't give her an orgasm. I know that it might seem silly, but it really borthers me. I have tried many things but none work, she keeps telling me that it's okay, but i can't do anything but to blame myself and my lack of skills. To never satisfy your partner is depressing as hell. Has anyone had the same problem? or is it just me that is way to awful?
User avatar #202192 to #202113 - schurftinator
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a lot of girls can't really get off on just vaginal stimulation. I mean, it's really cool that you're talking with her about it and she's ok with the situation, but I understand it gets depressing. There are tricks you can do to make it more stimulating for her, like putting a pillow under her hips during missionary, that helps sometimes (changes the angle of penetration, makes it more stimulating for her).

And else, if you're open for it, there are loads of sex toys you can try out! sex toys are not always only for kinky people, or for lonely folks, but there's a whole variety of them that also work great for two people, and different price tags. there are a lot of reviews for different things over at You need to login to view this link for example (not safe for work, but a very friendly website) so you can see what interests the two of you!
User avatar #202152 to #202113 - platinumaltaria
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Communication is key, ask her what feels good and do that a lot. Honestly it's somewhat her doing for not telling you what to do.
User avatar #202145 to #202113 - lgninjaleetful
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uhh, MLP and gf.

good one broski
User avatar #202121 to #202113 - psychadelicace
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>mlp avatar
>gf
yeah ok
User avatar #202126 to #202121 - mindor
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>second
User avatar #202120 to #202113 - youraveragesupport
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If you trust her, and you are pretty certain she's telling the truth, then it's okay. There are some girls who just have a hard time getting off by other people. Just make sure she has the best time she can.
User avatar #202123 to #202120 - derpys
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I kinda believe it. There is just some part of me, that tells myself, that it's just lies to keep me happy
User avatar #202132 to #202123 - youraveragesupport
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Tell that little part of you to shut up, focus on what people tell you. I've let that little part of me rule my life, and it's terrible.
User avatar #202118 to #202113 - joshlol
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User avatar #202119 to #202118 - derpys
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She would never do that. I would never do that
#202104 - anon id: b415bc04
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how the hell do you figure out where you want to live? you cant just google it cause everybody boasts about their state. and im going to guess that hating the state(or rather, area/city) you grew up in is normal? one thing for sure is that i dont want to live in one place forever.
User avatar #202153 to #202104 - platinumaltaria
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Find a job, or just pick a place that looks nice.
User avatar #202122 to #202104 - amazingzebra
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I encourage you to follow the jobs
#202125 to #202122 - anon id: b415bc04
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what if following the jobs leads you to a place you hate? and there's more than one place to follow the jobs, how do you pick?
User avatar #202106 to #202104 - joshlol
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Have you considered Chicago?
#202080 - anon id: 1f6c0b21
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what does it mean when i get reported at 4 chan?
User avatar #202093 to #202080 - confusedasian
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Means you're reported.
User avatar #202105 to #202093 - zonetransferrer
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but how reported? its anonymous site
User avatar #202107 to #202105 - joshlol
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your post was reported and if it breaks the rules it will be removed and you may be banned

what the fuck do you think it means?
User avatar #202108 to #202107 - zonetransferrer
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wtf man why so rude
User avatar #202109 to #202108 - joshlol
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it's just a prank bro

User avatar #202111 to #202109 - zonetransferrer
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#202114 to #202111 - joshlol
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I wonder what this link might be
User avatar #202117 to #202114 - zonetransferrer
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:/ this can be done?
fuken blue names they be knowin everything
User avatar #202124 to #202117 - confusedasian
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Chrome extension.
User avatar #202115 to #202114 - zonetransferrer
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User avatar #202110 to #202109 - zonetransferrer
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i'll show u a prank cracka!
User avatar #202075 - jaytothadee
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So I started to talk to this girl and weve been really good friends for three years. Only recently Ive looked at her in a romantic way and we went to the lantern fest. I think It went great Im not sure how she feels about it well Ive been texting her all week and looking back on it It was pretty cringy then the other day she sends me this "So I probably won't be contacting you for awhile cause things haven't been going well so don't feel offended when I don't respond" It took me by surprise and I have no clue what to do. Do I move on or do I wait for her to be ready again? and all I can think is how lame I was not to give her a goodbye kiss after the lantern fest. i cant help but feel like things would have been different but my lame ass couldnt muster up the courage to do it. I messaged her we should get coffee so we can sort things out but she hasnt responded obviously ):
User avatar #202082 to #202075 - youraveragesupport
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I would say give her some time, let her sort some stuff out, and when she comes back, tell her how you feel, but make sure to mention that you still want to stay friends if it won't work out. Honestly, I don't have high hopes that she likes you in the same way, unfortunately, but letting your feelings out will at least help you feel better
User avatar #202081 to #202075 - jaytothadee
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>>#202076, >>#202078, You guys have very different answers but I guess the only thing i can really do Is wait untill she is ready to talk need that be a month or so...I honestly dont care If I get friend zoned. As long as she stays a friend afterwards. I think the only thing that is bugging me is how long that wait may be
User avatar #202083 to #202081 - lgninjaleetful
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yeah, sometimes you just need to drop it and move on. I know it's hard for some people, but you have to develop into the person who can move on and take things a bit more lightly, or you'll end up like dehumanizier or whatever the fucks name is.
User avatar #202078 to #202075 - schurftinator
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aww man you had a great time don't regret that! she's probably in some difficult situation right now and needs some time. don't bother her to hang out, at most just ask something like 'hey, I hope you're doing ok, if there's anything I can help you with let me know!'
she probably won't respond to that either, but it's the thought that counts and you'll come across as caring!
User avatar #202076 to #202075 - paintskillz
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As shitty as it may sound, it is likely she doesnt see you in the same way. I also don't think you not kissing her would be the turning point for her putting you in the friendzone. As you've been friends 3 years that is probably what she sees you as.
User avatar #202071 - cognosceteipsum
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Ask a bipolar person anything
User avatar #202074 to #202071 - enlightednatzie
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My dad's bipolar, but he gets these medicines that takes care of it, which leads me to my qustion: which meds are you on?
User avatar #202079 to #202074 - cognosceteipsum
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Lithionit, levaxin and syprexa
User avatar #202072 to #202071 - schurftinator
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you ok?
User avatar #202073 to #202072 - cognosceteipsum
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As OK as I can be right now considering my circumstances. Then again, my circumstances are probably perceived worse than they actually are due to my bipolarity.
User avatar #202066 - babylien
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Hello. How do I remove the banner on my profile? Its too cringe
User avatar #202067 to #202066 - sugoi
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Go to profile
Edit Style
Header Image
User avatar #202069 to #202067 - babylien
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I found it. Thank you!
#202068 to #202067 - babylien
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This is all I get
#202070 to #202068 - sugoi
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Don't think I can help ya mate.
User avatar #202057 - rakogoki
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im a decent looking person, polite, used to be good at making friends, but after highschool ended a couple years ago ive had no social contact outside of family. now every time i even attempt going out im wracked with some crazy ass anxiety, heart wont relax, everything turns red, i cant even bare looking at other people in the eyes sometimes.
never used to be this way and its making life very difficult. how the hell does this happen and what are ways out of it?
User avatar #202154 to #202057 - platinumaltaria
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Get back into it. Make friends on here, then try going out a little, just walk around and shit. Get used to people.
User avatar #202061 to #202057 - enlightednatzie
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Happened to me too brah. The onoy way out of it is simply to talk to people more.
User avatar #202064 to #202061 - rakogoki
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any tips with, well, talking to people? i feel like an outcast to society now, and the rural area i live isnt exactly stuffed with the talkative folk.
User avatar #202065 to #202064 - enlightednatzie
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For me it was unemployment. I had to talk to alot of people to get a job and such
User avatar #202063 to #202061 - redandgreen
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Good for you
User avatar #202054 - drl
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im kinda sad
everything is changing around me
my best friend is going to the air force my other friend is off to college
my ex girlfriend is pregnant (not with mine)
im sad because its as if everyone is changing and going off in different directions wile i just stay the same
work in the same place go to the same bar week after week
everything is changing around me and i dont know what to do
i dont want things to change because im content with things the way they are but now i guess i am forced to
User avatar #202155 to #202054 - platinumaltaria
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If you don't want to change then don't, but don't expect other people to stick around, they always leave.
User avatar #202130 to #202054 - serhiy
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Keane - Everybody's Changing
User avatar #202059 to #202054 - schurftinator
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change happens and is not always nice, but can be really good if you make the best out of it. it's ok to be sad right now, but changes also open up new opportunities!
User avatar #202056 to #202054 - confusedasian
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Gary Jules - Mad World  ( With lyrics ) Change is inevitable. You've probably changed too, but you're too focused watching others. You're forgetting about living your own life.
#202051 - anon id: 11fa8c31
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Good sites to chat with random girls and meet up

?
User avatar #202112 to #202051 - joshlol
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funnyjunk

worked for posttwo
User avatar #202116 to #202112 - posttwo
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Eyyy lmao
User avatar #202077 to #202051 - paintskillz
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Not a site but Tinder works well if youre at least semi attractive
#202052 to #202051 - anon id: 243bdab8
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Wikipedia is pretty good for it

#202053 to #202052 - anon id: 11fa8c31
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**anonymous used "*roll picture*"**
**anonymous rolled image** thanks
#202044 - prototypedaytona
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I think I want advice pertaining to girls.

I am a 6'2" blond-haired, blue-eyed male, I am fit, and my acne is long gone. Objectively, I fit a basic mold of attraction, but I can't do anything with it. I feel like acne for so long destroyed my self-confidence and self-image forever, so now I can't be informal with girls in a potentially romantic setting. When I decide I want to have a thing with a girl, it becomes 107x more difficult to interact with them (which is to say, flirtatiously). I REALLY want to be, though. I want to go on dates and hang out and take risks without rationalizing them like SO many other people, my friends included, but I can't.

How do I go about being "normal"? I don't want my heart to jump out of my chest whenever I see my crush. When I see her, and can talk to her privately, it might as well be freezing outside because I'm literally shaking, as if I'm shivering. It's not supposed to be rocket science. It's all fairly basic human emotion and behaviour to form close connections with the opposite sex, and yet I might as well be a cyborg or something. It's killing me. I over-analyze and always choose the "safe" option.
User avatar #202156 to #202044 - platinumaltaria
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Here's a tip, you'll regret saying nothing waaaaay more than getting rejected. If you say something you potentially get laid, if not you just end up in the same place, but wondering. I myself am an expert on rejection. Take one chance.
User avatar #202049 to #202044 - psychadelicace
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Any proud german girl would be happy to have you
#202048 to #202044 - sugoi
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User avatar #202046 to #202044 - nigerianprince
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The best tip i can give, don't put the pussy on the pedestal, force yourself to talk to your crushes like you would to any other friend. Trick your mind into thinking you're just talking to a friend.
User avatar #202047 to #202046 - hsm
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>dont put the pussy on the pedestal

yee, its 2015, time to put to pussy on the chainwax
User avatar #202029 - paparaiderfanjr
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This is my third time posting here I'm sorry about that I probably sound like an idiot most of the time anyway I need help yet again I have absolutely no friends or anyone I consider a friend and I'm socially akward as hell but I do have a girlfriend but she's so problematic it really sucks but I don't wanna break up cause I'm afraid I'm gonna fall into a deep depression if I'm not in it already and shes really the only person ive got but shes very narciccistic so please could someone help? (Sorry for any grammar/punctuation mistakes)
User avatar #202157 to #202029 - platinumaltaria
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Do you love her?
User avatar #202160 to #202157 - paparaiderfanjr
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Yes
User avatar #202161 to #202160 - platinumaltaria
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No idea why if she's that bad. Leave if you want...
User avatar #202162 to #202161 - paparaiderfanjr
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Wish I knew honestly
User avatar #202055 to #202029 - redandgreen
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If your girlfriend is a narcissist (really) you should leave her.
User avatar #202136 to #202055 - paparaiderfanjr
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I've considered it but I have no one to talk to and I'll be all alone
User avatar #202137 to #202136 - redandgreen
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If she really is a narcissist she'll fuck you up. I was in a relationship with someone like that for a while and it really made me doubt my self-worth. Just be careful x
User avatar #202138 to #202137 - paparaiderfanjr
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Okay I'll be careful thanks man I appreciate it
#202030 to #202029 - confusedasian
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So what do you want? Like do you just want friends? Or do you need help with something else, but you don't have anyone else to talk to?
User avatar #202031 to #202030 - paparaiderfanjr
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I want advice for what I should do
User avatar #202032 to #202031 - confusedasian
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And what do you want to do?
User avatar #202033 to #202032 - paparaiderfanjr
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I just want to be happy everyday is the same routine and schools stressfull and I don't have anyone to talk to so I bury myself in work and just go through the motions and I'm just sick of this
User avatar #202034 to #202033 - confusedasian
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Working isn't so bad. Get things done and such, but I see what you mean. Well, what do you want to talk about? How's it going?
User avatar #202035 to #202034 - paparaiderfanjr
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I guess but that doesn't change the fact that I have no friends and my gfs a narciccist but I guess and I'd like some advice on what I should do and not that we'll honestly wbu
User avatar #202036 to #202035 - confusedasian
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What about those people you said you don't consider a friend. What's wrong with them? Do you just not talk to them often? I really don't know what to say. I met my friend in college (Haven't seen each other in quite a long time since we both parted ways and have different majors.). We were in the same english class and sat next to each other. We worked together and he engaged. He was quite the go getter. If you're in school, you can try to make small talk with come classmates, alternatively you can do it with people you work with as well.

I'm playing Witcher 3
User avatar #202038 to #202036 - paparaiderfanjr
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I just talk to then for class stuff never about personal life so idk and it's not easy for me to socialize with people
cool how is it I've never played it
User avatar #202039 to #202038 - confusedasian
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You don't have to talk about personal life. Even just asking about class is a start. Or you can complain about your work. I find a lot of people like complaining about their work, so you can use that as a common grounds.

The game is alright, but I worry about everyone. They don't tell me if the people I help got a happy ending or not. Or what happens to the people I was mean or whatever. Like I kicked out a faerie troll thing out of a house (it was for the better. The townspeople would have killed her if she stayed anyways.) and they just left it at that. There was another fearie troll thing in the swamp. Don't know if they met each other.
User avatar #202037 to #202036 - confusedasian
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Forgot to say, but small talk could go a long way. Imagine a snowball you made with your hand and you roll it around in the snow. Even better if you've played the game touch my katamari, you get my metaphor.
User avatar #202040 to #202037 - paparaiderfanjr
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Okay I'll consider it thanks man I really appreciate it and that sounds pretty interesting and I do know katmai I will forever imagine that now hehe
User avatar #202041 to #202040 - paparaiderfanjr
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Katamari*