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User avatar #161102 - dizzleboy (11/02/2014) [-]
As a high school sophomore, I like this freshman girl who goes to my math and chemistry classes. She has the biggest tits I've seen for a 9th grader and she is the Ellen Page cute type of person. Five of my friends say that she likes me too but I don't have the dick with some balls to ask her out! What in the name of sweaty nipple god should I do?
User avatar #161178 to #161102 - retardizard (11/03/2014) [-]
"She has the biggest tits I've seen for a 9th grader" lel. Anyhow, if you already sit next to her in class you're doing great. Just start small talk with her for the next couple of days and that's how you can find out if she's interested in you (IE laughs a lot, smiles a lot, etc) you know those signs. Then you can pull the "hey can i have your number in case I need help on the homework" or something like that. If she doesn't then just do what sushiwins said. You can do it. Or maybe you can't. I'm not a psychic.
User avatar #161106 to #161102 - sushiwins (11/02/2014) [-]
Here is what you should do kiddo: after class is over and your teacher gives out homework for a new lesson, go up to her and say something like "did you understand the class?" get some small talk out of the way and while youre walking her to her next class before she goes in ask her for her phone number. say something like "well i was thinking i could get your number and work on it together after school" (you're in if she says yes you got her number and you get to hang out one on one)
User avatar #161103 to #161102 - makotoitou ONLINE (11/02/2014) [-]
post pics
User avatar #161107 to #161103 - dizzleboy (11/02/2014) [-]
I remember summoning you!
#161099 - drillaz (11/02/2014) [-]
I'm going part time to college and working part time at Mc'Donalds. I'm also taking 6 classes online to make sure I can graduate highshool (which I am severely behind on), I haven't hung out with my friends at all for 2 weeks and I cannot fucking sleep at night.

TLDR: I don't have time for things anymore.

Any advice on things to drop? Or make more time, or be less anxious, or anything really?

My priorities list:
1. College
2. Work
3. Friends
4. Online
5. Sleep
User avatar #161104 to #161099 - ihaveablackfrend (11/02/2014) [-]
Assuming part time college is 20hrs/week of total college work
Assuming part time work at Micky'Ds is 20hrs/week
You're practically a full time worker with the addition of 6 online classes.
I don't know how long your online classes take you per week, but I can make a suggestion.

Get a daily routine for weekdays. Always wake up at the same time no matter if you have classes/work right away. Doing this will make waking up much easier. At times you don't have work or classes, or college HW, do online class work. Save all the time you want to hang out with your fiends for Friday nights and Saturday. Plan things with your friends a week ahead. This gives you something to look forward to, and gives you motivation to drill through the weekdays.

In short, save all work for weekdays. Reserve time for friends on Friday nights and Saturday. (and work, but only if you have to).



#161187 to #161104 - drillaz (11/03/2014) [-]
I go to school for 6 hours a day = 30h a week
And they normally put me at the max for work being 32h
I'd like 8h of sleep at the latest = 40h
I'll take out 4h for travel time
leaving me with 62h

I can see splitting it up like:
30h online
25h with mah niggas
and 12h for 'other'
Fuck, it's a good thing I can't get a girlfriend

Thank you dude, seriously. Having it out like this is great, and I'll map it better when I'm less tired.

I really do appreciate the help
User avatar #161072 - ScottP (11/02/2014) [-]
Guys, I just had a great time at lunch with this girl and she seemed to really enjoy it. At the end, right before we left she told me that we should do it again sometime and that she was basically free anytime. Good signs?

It wasn't like an official date, but do you think I should ask her out officially? I'm starting to having feelings and she seems really cool and is into comics and stuff.
User avatar #161171 to #161116 - ScottP (11/03/2014) [-]
Well I'm gonna' ask her out on a date in a bit. I'm a little excited and nervous. Haven't felt this way about someone in a long time.


User avatar #161084 to #161072 - abowlofkitkats (11/02/2014) [-]
Why do you not already know the answer to that...?
User avatar #161091 to #161084 - ScottP (11/02/2014) [-]
I didn't want to be like reading too much into things
User avatar #161074 to #161072 - fistfireace (11/02/2014) [-]
Yes, considering she wants you too.
User avatar #161076 to #161074 - ipostcp (11/02/2014) [-]
I want you fist fire.
#161070 - fefe (11/02/2014) [-]
I LIKE BOLD TEXTDO YOU?
#161053 - fefe (11/02/2014) [-]
I lost a lot of weight and now I have stretchmarks. Do guys find them unattractive...?
User avatar #161105 to #161053 - ihaveablackfrend (11/02/2014) [-]
Who gives a shit? You lost weight!
User avatar #161057 to #161053 - makotoitou ONLINE (11/02/2014) [-]
pics?
User avatar #161055 to #161053 - misticalz (11/02/2014) [-]
Depends how bad they are
but if they're normal we probably won't give a fuck
but if you're insecure about them rub shea butter on them
#161058 to #161055 - fefe (11/02/2014) [-]
I still have a long way to go but I have stretch marks everywhere, breast and butt from when I hit puberty, same with my hips and a few on my thighs. My shoulders even have them.... My stomach is the worst but it's not awful.
#161066 to #161058 - fefe (11/02/2014) [-]
Stretch marks on an overweight person are gross. On a skinny person, nobody really gives a shit.
User avatar #161065 to #161058 - ipostcp (11/02/2014) [-]
Depends on how bad they are. If you want to know specifically you, then obviously you need to show us. Don't need to go full nude or anything though.
User avatar #161056 to #161055 - misticalz (11/02/2014) [-]
gratz on losing weight
#161052 - fefe (11/02/2014) [-]
can anyone who's taken the GED test tell me how hard it is?
#161043 - fefe (11/02/2014) [-]
rate me I met syndicate
User avatar #161054 to #161043 - misticalz (11/02/2014) [-]
6
probably because of the dumb face
also justin Bieber hair
I'm a straight guy so its gonna be low nigga
User avatar #161047 to #161043 - makotoitou ONLINE (11/02/2014) [-]
which fag es u
#161048 to #161047 - fefe (11/02/2014) [-]
left is me
User avatar #161051 to #161048 - makotoitou ONLINE (11/02/2014) [-]
kinda fag. I'd ask gay board
User avatar #161045 to #161043 - drastronomy (11/02/2014) [-]
both r fags lel
#161050 to #161045 - fefe (11/02/2014) [-]
left is me
User avatar #161023 - dalgaard (11/02/2014) [-]
I have this website popping up each time i start up my computer. I think it's from when i cracked a game and I have no idea how to remove it and google have been of little help to me.

Does anybody know how to remove things like that? I would appreciate it.
User avatar #161030 to #161023 - abowlofkitkats (11/02/2014) [-]
Along with those sites you should try AdwCleaner, and Hitman Pro (This will pick up anything MalwareBytes can't find.
User avatar #161039 to #161030 - dalgaard (11/02/2014) [-]
I fixed it, thank you.
User avatar #161028 to #161023 - brcstar (11/02/2014) [-]
You probably have some sort of Malware.
User avatar #161040 to #161026 - dalgaard (11/02/2014) [-]
I fixed it, thank you.
User avatar #161027 to #161026 - dalgaard (11/02/2014) [-]
I do have avast and it cant find anything and im trying malware out now, thx.
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#161017 - fefe (11/02/2014) [-]
So i'm 20 y.o. virgin.
Sick of it, and since i'm never getting laid conventionally, i've decided to get professional help.
And by that i mean escorts. Premiums here go from $200 to $300 an hour. Which i can spare considering i only need an hour.
My questions are how safe is this? Do these professionals take care of themselves even if they are independent? How safe are rubber-less blowjobs? And is an hour enough?
User avatar #161044 to #161017 - megasharkman (11/02/2014) [-]
You shouldn't do it. Use that money for a gym membership or p90x and it'll be easy. But if you do go, to a brothel in vegas. They get checked regularly.
#161073 to #161044 - fefe (11/02/2014) [-]
What would going to the gym accomplish? The problem isn't in my physical appearance, though it could use improvement.
The problem is in my character. I'm simply incompatible with other humans. Behaviors that comes naturally to other people are alien to me, and i've given up on ever having a romantic relationship.

And i'm way too far away from vegas. Like continents away. I only used dollars because most of you here are Americans.
User avatar #161075 to #161073 - megasharkman (11/02/2014) [-]
I once thought the same thing. You just need to look hard enough. The first few hated my personality. Just be confident. Use tinder or pof or something. Get abs and put a picture of it on a dating website and some girl will want u.
User avatar #161082 to #161075 - teoberry (11/02/2014) [-]
That last piece of advice was horrible
#161086 to #161082 - fefe (11/02/2014) [-]
it works, no matter how frowned upon this tactic is.
User avatar #161087 to #161086 - teoberry (11/02/2014) [-]
no, it doesn't. trust me, ab pics on tinder dont work unless op lives in a college town, even then its rare to get a good match. abs might get interest, sure, but you still need basic conversation skills
#161090 to #161087 - fefe (11/02/2014) [-]
while i agree you still need conversational skills, you got to remember OP is trying to get laid no matter what. That means he's 90% likely going to get some sketchy girls AKA whores who are find such qualities attractive.
#161081 to #161075 - fefe (11/02/2014) [-]
That's hardly a step above just paying a professional. Less hassle though, and you get someone who knows what they're doing.
It's not my personality that's the problem exactly, it's that i have zero to no grasp on how to talk to females with an intention. Flirting is beyond me.
And i can't stand the random bimbos that would go for ab pictures in any other way than i'd want to fuck them. If by some miracle i do end up with a girlfriend, i want her to be someone i would actually like at least a bit.
User avatar #161037 to #161017 - abowlofkitkats (11/02/2014) [-]
There's really nothing wrong with being a virgin at 20. Just because people around you are having sex doesn't mean you should feel like you should be doing it to. Before, people would wit till marriage to have sex, and now pretty much every kid has had sex at an early age, which is awful since kids today start learning about sex before love.

My advice would just be to find a girlfriend and not worry about stupid trivial things like sex. Also escorts are dirty, and you could contract a disease for the rest of your life, so don't do that.
#161041 to #161037 - fefe (11/02/2014) [-]
Peer pressure has nothing to do with it.
I just really, really want to fuck.
User avatar #161022 to #161017 - Tyranitar ONLINE (11/02/2014) [-]
I would not suggest trusting any sort of prostitution program, even if it is legal and professional wherever you live. And before you mention it, yes, paying for sex=prostitution.

On a different note, you should not be upset about being a virgin. I myself am 20 years old and a virgin, and I don't give a shit. It happens when it happens. If I gotta wait until I'm 30, then I'll wait. It ain't even a big deal until you decide you wanna have children. And if you don't want kids, then it's pretty much meaningless except for sexual pleasure, which I'd guess you have other vents for anyway.
#161031 to #161022 - fefe (11/02/2014) [-]
That answered exactly none of the questions i asked.
I don't care that it's prostitution, or illegal or the fact that some people see it as immoral.
Being a virgin after 20 is something that is absolutely not OK in my book, and i want to get rid of it as soon as humanly possible.
I'm just concerned about my health and safety and would like to know from anyone who has experience with such services.
User avatar #161069 to #161031 - cherobi (11/02/2014) [-]
I'm gonna be straight with you, little man. Escorting is something prominent in my family and my environment. My mother was one.
Don't go to an escort. Do not. They are disgusting and have more STDs than the average whore on the corner, no exaggeration.

There was this one bitch who would wash her pussy with Listerine mouthwash so the sores would stop leaking pus long enough to fuck the next guy.
User avatar #161032 to #161031 - ScottP (11/02/2014) [-]
If you do it, your dick will explode and you'll have no more fun times.
#161042 to #161032 - fefe (11/02/2014) [-]
Depends on the explosion.
#161014 - Tyranitar ONLINE (11/02/2014) [-]
My friend was going out with a girl, and everything seemed alright, although she always cancelled dates at the last minute. Eventually my friend got sick of it, and intended to break up with her next time they met in person. However, yesterday she broke up with him over a text, and began saying very cruel things about how horrible he is at maintaining relationships The girl that cancels every date or meeting, calling the guy trying to plan them a horrible boyfriend  and that he is disgusting and has no future.   
We later find out that this was all planned. His girlfriend was the friend of another ex of his, who he had thought had broken up with him on good terms. However, she was bitter, and had her friend go out with him, cancel every date to get him upset with her, and then break up with him and make him feel bad. And they tried to make this a fuckin' PARTY EVENT at their Halloween party, watching this guy send back desperate text messages. She even let her friends pitch in horrible things to send to him.   
However, she didn't count on the fact that she had made him so distant, that he found all of this hilarious. In fact, he never said a word to her after the first two texts. Myself and another friend were replying, and we had this multiple-personality thing going: I would be nice, my friend would send some insults, then I'd randomly say something else completely off-topic.   
I know what you're thinking: "Tyranitar, you fucknugget, what advice do you need on this dumb bullshit?" Well, here it is: My brother is friends with this girl and her buddies, was at the party, and was one of the people running this event. What makes me even angrier is that he is friends with my bro too, and deliberately took part in a plan to attack and embarrass him, because he wanted to fit in with these "cool" kids, even if it means going after his actual "loser" friends. How do I deal with this?   
   
tl;dr Brother stabbed me and his friends in the back to be cool, what do?   
YFW
My friend was going out with a girl, and everything seemed alright, although she always cancelled dates at the last minute. Eventually my friend got sick of it, and intended to break up with her next time they met in person. However, yesterday she broke up with him over a text, and began saying very cruel things about how horrible he is at maintaining relationships The girl that cancels every date or meeting, calling the guy trying to plan them a horrible boyfriend and that he is disgusting and has no future.
We later find out that this was all planned. His girlfriend was the friend of another ex of his, who he had thought had broken up with him on good terms. However, she was bitter, and had her friend go out with him, cancel every date to get him upset with her, and then break up with him and make him feel bad. And they tried to make this a fuckin' PARTY EVENT at their Halloween party, watching this guy send back desperate text messages. She even let her friends pitch in horrible things to send to him.
However, she didn't count on the fact that she had made him so distant, that he found all of this hilarious. In fact, he never said a word to her after the first two texts. Myself and another friend were replying, and we had this multiple-personality thing going: I would be nice, my friend would send some insults, then I'd randomly say something else completely off-topic.
I know what you're thinking: "Tyranitar, you fucknugget, what advice do you need on this dumb bullshit?" Well, here it is: My brother is friends with this girl and her buddies, was at the party, and was one of the people running this event. What makes me even angrier is that he is friends with my bro too, and deliberately took part in a plan to attack and embarrass him, because he wanted to fit in with these "cool" kids, even if it means going after his actual "loser" friends. How do I deal with this?

tl;dr Brother stabbed me and his friends in the back to be cool, what do?
YFW
User avatar #161024 to #161014 - xXThatxOnexGuyXx (11/02/2014) [-]
Honestly, it's all pretty stupid and petty, to me.
Not really going out if neither have been on a date. Nothing's official until it's Facebook official. Not even close if they haven't held hands.

It's pretty messed up that his ex, and her friends, would collaborate on such a thing.
Clearly you're all still in high school...

Honestly, the biggest take away from this, is to not rush relationships and make them out to be more than they really are.
Other than that, I can't really give advice when it comes to your brother. He was probably just in on it because Girls.
I'd second everything Minutes said...
User avatar #161033 to #161024 - ScottP (11/02/2014) [-]
Oh dammit. I'd forgotten about that "It's not official until it's Facebook official" rule haha
User avatar #161029 to #161024 - Tyranitar ONLINE (11/02/2014) [-]
Yes, I do agree that it's all rather stupid. I've been confused and clueless on this story since before the break-up even happened. I'm just disgusted that these people would purposely, no matter how stupid and poorly-executed it was, make a plan to try and attack my friend like that. And I'm even more disgusted that my brother, who calls this guy a friend too, would participate in that. I mean, people in the past have been driven to depression and suicide over "pranks" like this, and my friend isn't exactly in a happy life position to begin with right now.

And you're half-right on the high school bit. Myself, my two friend, and the first ex are newly graduated, the rest of those involved are still in school.
User avatar #161038 to #161029 - durkadurka (11/02/2014) [-]
I'm going to point to the obvious "if your friends would do these things to you, they aren't your friends" line. Your friend shouldn't maintain those friendships because they're basically worthless.

If it were my brother I'd make him well aware of how disappointing his actions are. There really isn't more that you could do.
#161018 to #161014 - minutes (11/02/2014) [-]
The best way to make someone feel shitty is the "I am disappointed" - treatment.
Sit down with him and tell him, in a calm matter, that this was the absolutely most disgusting shit someone can pull, that this is probably the reason he doesn't have much friends if that's true, just making an assumption here cause he wanted to be part of the cool kids as you said and that you have lost every respect for him.
After that, don't talk about it again but give him the cold- distant shoulder.
This will drive him insane, it's psychology.
User avatar #161015 to #161014 - sugoi (11/02/2014) [-]
Give him the silent treatment.
Lol jk, get a cream pie and slam it into his face at school.
User avatar #161011 - onefuckingskurut (11/02/2014) [-]
Anyone knows what are schemic notes? Like... What is a definition of these kind of notes.
User avatar #161013 to #161011 - sugoi (11/02/2014) [-]
Have you tried googling it?
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#160998 - fefe (11/02/2014) [-]
I've been in terrible depression for several years and it's really getting to me lately. I've never spent a day where I never thought about suicide or contemplated it. Sometimes I feel as if I should take out my 3030 and just end it right there, or take my built and hang myself.
I have no idea why I feel like this, and I don't have any reason to. Every day I go out and party with friends, I'm a growing artist, and training to be part of a big humanitarian company, yet I feel so lonely and dead.
Is there something I can do to overcome this?
User avatar #161088 to #160998 - sheeeeeeit (11/02/2014) [-]
My only advice for you would be to go and see a doctor.

Last year my girlfriend now soon to be wife was diagnosed with depression, after years and years of constantly going to the doctors (especially over winter and being told its the winter blues) with different but connecting medical issues they finally discovered what the problem was; an imbalance in hormone and serotonin levels. AKA clinical depression.
After taking a depression test, her score was 21/25. "normal" range is 0-5. they can put you in a loony bin if you get 23.
she had exactly the same issues as you, not knowing why she was upset all the time, feeling lonely, wanting to kill her self everyday.
it was a hard journey, but she had to be put on drugs that would fix that imbalance. Understand that depression isnt just feeling sad, its an illness that is treatable.

Please please please, if you are going to do one thing, seek out a good gp and tell them what is up.
User avatar #161089 to #161088 - sheeeeeeit (11/02/2014) [-]
just want to add, she is off the drugs and is now much happier within herself. you can stay on the drugs as long as you want but she wanted to come off of them so she felt like she had "beaten" the depression. no more feeling of lonliness, self doubt etc.
User avatar #161025 to #160998 - xXThatxOnexGuyXx (11/02/2014) [-]
Silence and Solitude will make your depression worse.
Life isn't just about the journey; It's about experiencing it with others, for others.

You're not with the right friends. Not if they're just as selfish as you.

And most importantly; You're comfortable with your situation and don't want to change it... Sure, you may hate being depressed... yet you're too comfortable to do anything about it.
User avatar #161008 to #160998 - makotoitou ONLINE (11/02/2014) [-]
killing self is bad, so unless you do drug don't do it
#161009 to #161008 - fefe (11/02/2014) [-]
that don't help much...
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#161001 to #160999 - fefe (11/02/2014) [-]
I'm not going into detail, but I can't get a therapist right now.
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#161004 to #161002 - fefe (11/02/2014) [-]
I'm pretty off from other people, and having aspergers kinda' makes it hard.
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#161111 to #161012 - fefe (11/03/2014) [-]
None, just hope that it gets better over time.
They believe I have a small bit still, just really small, where it's hard to talk to new people and a bit hard to relate to.
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#160985 - fefe (11/02/2014) [-]
I don't ever want to have kids because -
1:I hate kids as it is
2:I don't want to spend so much money
3:I don't want to compromise my life for the sake of having a kid
4:the world has 7 billion damn people on it, it doesn't need more.

am I a douche or is it alright to think these things?
are they valid reasons to not want kids?
#161100 to #160985 - drillaz (11/02/2014) [-]
In this time where underpopulation is not a problem and life is not for survival, but enjoyment, then it's your decision to have kids. If they would fux wit yo lyfe den 4get em
User avatar #161046 to #160985 - drastronomy (11/02/2014) [-]
I want to have children, as long as i have a successful life. Then the world would be better due to good genes.
#161019 to #160985 - minutes (11/02/2014) [-]
Not everyone has to have kids.
User avatar #161007 to #160985 - delphine (11/02/2014) [-]
Nope. As a teacher, I see what happens to kids who are born to parents that don't like children and are not good with them. So many people have babies because they feel obligated, or they think it will be cute, without realizing that you're really making another human being.

Every child deserves to be loved, but if you can't find it in you to love children, awesome! Do the responsible thing and take precautions to never have any. I have an older friend who absolutely hates children, and she's planning on getting her tubes tied when she's 30.
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User avatar #160997 to #160985 - sugoi (11/02/2014) [-]
Dude, you don't even need a reason not to want kids.
User avatar #160994 to #160985 - xXThatxOnexGuyXx (11/02/2014) [-]
Here's the thing:
When you have a spouse and settle down, you're entire view will drastically change.

Right now? Being between ages 18 and 25? Of course you're not ready for that kind of responsibility. No one really is, yet so many people end up having kids a little earlier than they wished, and got themselves a non-returnable ticket into Adult-Hood.

Personally, I fully agree with you.
However, when it comes time and I settle down, I'm sure as ever going to have at least one or two kids. Might one. Not sure. But I do know it's something that I do want part of my life. Not anytime soon, but most definitely in the future. When I'm ready. When my spouse is ready.
User avatar #160992 to #160985 - ilikethisusername (11/02/2014) [-]
nigga i can't agree with you more. marriage itself is a waste of fucking money. i say just get into a relationship, have fun but no kids and don't live together. the fucking end.
User avatar #161083 to #160992 - teoberry (11/02/2014) [-]
ohhhh sorry to burst your bubble buddy but that's not how the real world works
User avatar #161131 to #161083 - ilikethisusername (11/03/2014) [-]
i can agree and disagree on many arguments. but i rather not because i have more important things to do than argue on the internet. i respect your opinion though <3
User avatar #160990 to #160985 - nimba (11/02/2014) [-]
If you don't you are a genetic full stop; millions of generations of life, starting with your parents and reaching into the misty origin of life on earth, have been reproducing, perpetuating their biological imperative which is simply 'be'. You are the apex of a single chain of successes, of creatures who have never truly died but rather diminished and been reborn each time more ready to face the challenges of the world than before. Each of those ancestors are represented in your DNA, your parents, the historic culture of your origin, homo erectus, the lizard dog you were, that first animal to gasp air from the beach of some ancient ocean down to those first self-assebling fatty molecules and the RNA that compelled them. All of that is for naught if you do not reproduce. but yeah, college sure is expensive
#161095 to #160990 - fefe (11/02/2014) [-]
you're looking way too deep into it.
User avatar #161034 to #160990 - ScottP (11/02/2014) [-]
Eh...I'm pretty sure humanity can survive without one bloodline.
User avatar #161035 to #161034 - nimba (11/02/2014) [-]
it's not about that, if you don't reproduce you die.
User avatar #161036 to #161035 - ScottP (11/02/2014) [-]
But you die anyway. I mean yeah I guess for some people, having kids would be worth it, but for other people it's an optional responsibility that they just may not be suited to handle.
User avatar #161003 to #160990 - makotoitou ONLINE (11/02/2014) [-]
I hope you realise that evolution means dick shit in the modern world. Being an advanced species means we can overcome pure natural instinct.
User avatar #160989 to #160985 - ScottP (11/02/2014) [-]
I feel the same way. My mom keeps telling me that supposedly kids "bring a whole new meaning of happiness to your life." I've lived with myself. I can tell that that is not true.
User avatar #160987 to #160985 - braveblue (11/02/2014) [-]
They are all valid reasons. You know in my opinion.
User avatar #160954 - dustboy ONLINE (11/02/2014) [-]
Advice, I require aid..
If anyone wants to hear me out and help me out please respond, I'll give you the story..
User avatar #160955 to #160954 - sugoi (11/02/2014) [-]
Just post it.
User avatar #160967 to #160955 - dustboy ONLINE (11/02/2014) [-]
Sure.
Pretty much I RP on WoW a lot.
Met this girl, we roleplayed a little, and talked to eachother on skype and stuff.
We hit off, she was really sweet and seemed to be really depressed.
Once, while casually flirting with her on Skype through chat we were talking about her coming to the EU, she's quite a way away but she said 'I can crash with you 'randomsmiley'?' I agreed and she seemed to like it, and I just enjoyed the flirting.
Till she mentioned a sexchange, a male to female sexchange.
It kind of hit me as she never mentioned this, always called herself she, reffered to herself as female..
Acted EXTREMELY girly above all else, always typing like heyy~~
I still quite like her but the entire idea of it being a man seems to just freak me out.
She's still really sweet, and really wants to be a female, dresses as such whenever she can.
What do I do, I've kind of developed feelings which I really hate, but suddenly cutting all ties seems like a cunt thing to do.
User avatar #161123 to #161119 - dustboy ONLINE (11/03/2014) [-]
I wish she had one.
User avatar #161129 to #161123 - faguette (11/03/2014) [-]
fuck her in the butt until she gets a pussy
User avatar #161133 to #161129 - dustboy ONLINE (11/03/2014) [-]
That works.
User avatar #161134 to #161133 - faguette (11/03/2014) [-]
how passable is said person? tits or flat chest?
User avatar #161135 to #161134 - dustboy ONLINE (11/03/2014) [-]
flat
not sure if shes taking hormones yet
User avatar #161137 to #161135 - faguette (11/03/2014) [-]
if she's not even taking hormones yet i'd hold off, but that's just me

what's your family's stance on you technically being gay?
User avatar #161139 to #161137 - dustboy ONLINE (11/03/2014) [-]
not as theyre not informed
after i knew the mtf thing my feelings died down quite a lot as im attracted to females not males, im comfortable with my sexuallty and everything but the fact they want to be a girl..
User avatar #161143 to #161139 - faguette (11/03/2014) [-]
what about their stance on somebody being gay in general? chances are if they're anti-gay then they're not going to like it very much that you might be interested in a guy that wants to be a girl
User avatar #161144 to #161143 - dustboy ONLINE (11/03/2014) [-]
theyre probably fine with it as theyre cool with whatever i want to be, just aslong as i get them grandchildren
im probably not gonna pursue this as its just gonna end in shit
i was attracted when i thought it was a female but the fucking thing aswell is that she behaves just like a real fucking girl and i dont even think about her being male atm since she just behaves that way, calls herself female all that shit
User avatar #160970 to #160967 - sugoi (11/02/2014) [-]
Okay here's what you do.
-Cut down flirting to none at all.
-Drill these words into your head 'Everyone on the internet is a guy'. This rule can only be ignored if you meet the person you are talking to in person.
-Continue friendship as if they are a bro, not as if they are a potential girlfriend.

Important thing is to calm down and think things through, if they go through with the operation and become a chick and you're cool with dating a tran then go right on ahead. Just remember not everyone will be as accepting so try not to talk about it a lot.

But I'm getting ahead of myself here. Point is if you want to be friends then be friends, if not then bail out.
User avatar #160971 to #160970 - dustboy ONLINE (11/02/2014) [-]
That's pretty much what I've done, but the thing is, is that their personality hasen't changed since they told me, thanks for replying anyway and if you have anything else do let me know.
User avatar #160968 to #160967 - braveblue (11/02/2014) [-]
I think that's your call on this one. If you don't like the idea of your future spouse or fuckbuddy not being able to give you kids or at one time having a dick then I personally would steer away and make her into a friend.
User avatar #160972 to #160968 - dustboy ONLINE (11/02/2014) [-]
Suppose it is my call, and to be fair I'm pretty open and don't really mind her beings trans nor do I have a wish for children, though that'd be great to have some..
She's pretty much since a child wanted to be a girl btw.
User avatar #160975 to #160972 - braveblue (11/02/2014) [-]
You have to consider all the things before you try anything. Like take a night or two to think about it and you can always adopt which is nice.
User avatar #160976 to #160975 - dustboy ONLINE (11/02/2014) [-]
It is, but I want to try and keep the blood running in my family, dad would be very upset, and I wouldn't want to do that cause of shitty requiring dad approval syndrome.
I'll probably speak to her tommorrow when I can to talk about it since knowing she's really depressed and probably telling them I'm too weirded out and leaving might just worsen things for them, don't wanna treat people in a way I wouldn't want them to treat me, you know?
User avatar #160977 to #160976 - braveblue (11/02/2014) [-]
Yeah but you have to consider your own feelings not your dad's if you truly like this person then you should give it all.
User avatar #160978 to #160977 - dustboy ONLINE (11/02/2014) [-]
I do care, and it's not really my father I'm worried about, more of the entire not being able to have a family, since it's one of the things I want, my own child which I know I conceived and watched it come out of my own wife, you feel me?
User avatar #160979 to #160978 - braveblue (11/02/2014) [-]
Thus I said your own feelings. If it's something your REALLY MUST have in your life then I would avoid romancing with this person.
User avatar #160980 to #160979 - dustboy ONLINE (11/02/2014) [-]
Hrm, thanks for the input atleast man.
User avatar #160981 to #160980 - braveblue (11/02/2014) [-]
No problem but in all seriousness if you don't want to do it, you don't have to. Ultimately it's going to be all down to you.
User avatar #160982 to #160981 - dustboy ONLINE (11/02/2014) [-]
I know, and I honestly still like this girl, she's still sweet and nice, but the entire man thing kind of ticks me off, but then them really wanting to be a girl just comes back and clouds my previous judgement.
User avatar #160984 to #160982 - braveblue (11/02/2014) [-]
Some people are born with the mentality of a girl thinking they want to be a girl. Some people are born as the wrong gender. Ultimately if you think this is wrong then don't go along with it. Personally I wouldn't do it since I want kids of my own and want to have a lineage or w/e but thats just me. If you want to sleep with a dude that wants to be a girl then just go for it. If it doesn't urk you at all. Hell man it's all up to you. Just give it some serious thought LIKE REAL serious thought. Just don't live life regretting that you may have passed up on your "Soul" mate.
User avatar #160986 to #160984 - dustboy ONLINE (11/02/2014) [-]
I'm giving it serious thoughts, and if anything I'll wait till the operation comes around if I do manage to do this, I don't think it's wrong being born into the wrong body since I'm pretty open and accept whatever someone thinks, I just have a ton of mixed emotions right now and kind of want to talk to the person in question to maybe clear some of my thoughts.
User avatar #160952 - gibroner (11/02/2014) [-]
So I was trying to play Destiny on PS4 and I got to the title screen pressed x to start and two messages popped up saying that my account was restricted from using the chat and messaging features and user generated content and then I waited forever to login and I just gave up waiting. Does anyone have any idea what the problem is? Is it my wifi being fucky, is there a problem with Destiny's servers or the PSN? what's the deal?
User avatar #160956 to #160952 - sugoi (11/02/2014) [-]
Are you under 13?
Sounds like a kids restriction sorta deal.
User avatar #160958 to #160956 - gibroner (11/02/2014) [-]
nope I'm 20 years old
User avatar #160959 to #160958 - sugoi (11/02/2014) [-]
Is your account registered to a birth date that makes you under 13?
Other than that all I can think of is you got banned somewhere for harassment or some shit and that ban was just extended throughout all of PSN.
User avatar #160962 to #160959 - gibroner (11/02/2014) [-]
plus this just happened today it was working fine earlier today
User avatar #160960 to #160959 - gibroner (11/02/2014) [-]
It shouldn't be, and I never even use the chat feature on anything when I play online so I doubt it's related to harrassment
User avatar #160961 to #160960 - sugoi (11/02/2014) [-]
Well I'm outta ideas.
If it's really bugging you that much go harass their forum users, they probably have a better idea than me.
User avatar #160963 to #160961 - gibroner (11/02/2014) [-]
yeah well if it's still doing it tomorrow I will but I suspect it has something to do with my internet because it's been really fucky today
User avatar #160964 to #160963 - sugoi (11/02/2014) [-]
I guess that might be it.
Turn off your modem then turn it back on again. Wait like, 10 seconds.
User avatar #160965 to #160964 - sugoi (11/02/2014) [-]
Thats off, 10 seconds, then on.
User avatar #160966 to #160965 - gibroner (11/02/2014) [-]
I think I'll give it a try
#160951 - dentalplan (11/02/2014) [-]
Always have a dental plan!
User avatar #160953 to #160951 - kingalister ONLINE (11/02/2014) [-]
Lisa needs braces
User avatar #161005 to #160953 - makotoitou ONLINE (11/02/2014) [-]
dental plan
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User avatar #160995 to #160950 - xXThatxOnexGuyXx (11/02/2014) [-]
Really good.
You'd be able to download 1gb within 6 minutes. Chances are, it'll take less time than 6 minutes; I'm basing this off of my 126mbps internet speed. It takes me about 8-10 minutes to download 1gb.
User avatar #160988 to #160950 - ilikethisusername (11/02/2014) [-]
fucking amazing nigga wtf are you talking about what kind of a question is that nigga damn
User avatar #160983 to #160950 - thisismyhandle ONLINE (11/02/2014) [-]
Mine's normally 15-20 mbps and it's pretty fantastic.
User avatar #160974 to #160950 - brcstar (11/02/2014) [-]
It's awesome compared to my 5mbps.
User avatar #160957 to #160950 - sugoi (11/02/2014) [-]
I'm in Australia where we have like... 500kbps on a good day.
You are living the dream.
#160949 - joyguy (11/02/2014) [-]
Started to french inhale recently, any tips on how to have improve or other tricks?
Started to french inhale recently, any tips on how to have improve or other tricks?
User avatar #161006 to #160949 - makotoitou ONLINE (11/02/2014) [-]
drugs r bad
User avatar #160991 to #160949 - ilikethisusername (11/02/2014) [-]
here's a tip:
don't fucking smoke.

nah just kidding nigga blaze it up. and open your mouth a little bit more in the start, like let a huge cloud out first and then inhale with your nose immediately. and stop fucking making that face while smoking, that's fucking ugly.
User avatar #161049 to #160991 - joyguy (11/02/2014) [-]
But das not me, just got a random gif :/
User avatar #161059 to #161049 - ilikethisusername (11/02/2014) [-]
oh....well whoever it is, is fucking ugliest mother fucker on the planet.

but anyways, yeah. open up your mouth and let a small cloud out and inhale with nose immediately, and don't be late with that because you're wasting the smoke.
User avatar #161061 to #161059 - joyguy (11/02/2014) [-]
alrighty thanks dude, I have a good amount so wasting a bit of smoke is nothing big Washington rules
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