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#201552 - deckbox
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#201553 to #201552 - deckbox
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(11/07/2015) [-]
again it isnt all like oh i am better than everyone coz i dont see it like that at all just i dont want to appear cringey when I am not really like the company i keep.
#201539 - applerapist
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(11/07/2015) [-]
I lately have wanted to be in a relationship so badly when only a year ago I would never have even bothered, I've never been in one before and lately my feelings of depression and loneliness have only gotten worse as this continues. I have close friends who I love but I want a significant other and I cant shake this feeling. It has gotten to a point where suicide has trickled into the back of my mind but I havnt thought on it. All my friends talk about when we hang out is sex and girls and trivial shit and it doesnt help as I cant even bring myself to talk to them about this. Im afraid of becoming so introverted, or atleast more so than I already am, to the point of being unable to talk to the opposite gender. Sometimes I feel so overwhelmed and I have no idea where to turn to other than FJ. Sorry for the long rant but any advice/ help would be appreciated
#201712 to #201539 - rokkai ONLINE
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(11/08/2015) [-]
that feeling of solitary can be solved with any kind of relationship. you don't "need" to get a girl to feel loved. i had a relationship like this where all we did was fucking. and then i realized that im not that kind of a guy and also whenever she was coming over, i felt so fucking... trapped? don't force anyting. that'd be my advice for you.
try to make some friends or you can adopt a pet. especially a dog. they can help you quite a bit.
#201661 to #201539 - advicedude
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(11/08/2015) [-]
Seems like you don't know what you truly want. Spend time on school and focus on hobbies. Besides, girls like guys who have their shit figured out already anyway.
#201571 to #201539 - lgninjaleetful
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(11/08/2015) [-]
how old are you? not trying to be demeaning, just generally curious.

Back when I was in highschool I was thinking the same way, I really wanted to be in a relationship because I felt lonely and bored. I was in a relationship once before in my first year of highschool and I wanted something new.

But in reality, like womanexplain said, you need another source of happiness or feelings of being content. You need to get your mind off your sadness and just become more busy, keep your thoughts on your studies or whatever hobbies you have.

I'm in college and I work as well, I have no time to think about the petty shit I use to worry about, and now I feel genuinely happy with my life. You need to vent by keeping yourself busy. Go running, join a club, do sport.

Good luck memester
#201588 to #201571 - applerapist
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(11/08/2015) [-]
Im 19, close to 20 if thats any help, also thanks for the help it means a bunch.
#201589 to #201588 - lgninjaleetful
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(11/08/2015) [-]
I am 19 too <3

we both got a lot of life left, lets make the most of it.
#201547 to #201539 - dehumanizer
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(11/07/2015) [-]
" All my friends talk about when we hang out is sex and girls and trivial shit and it doesnt help as I cant even bring myself to talk to them about this. "

you see thats the problem, ditch your normie friends and hang out with the other losers

"to the point of being unable to talk to the opposite gender"
tbh females never have anything intresting to say

"I lately have wanted to be in a relationship so badly when only a year ago I would never have even bothered, I've never been in one before and lately my feelings of depression and loneliness have only gotten worse as this continues."

tbh have you ever been in a relationship? if yes kill yourself if no then how do you know its good, do not be decived by the jewsih romance movies and the normies, it proably sucks and its a waste of time, enjoy yourself man you dont need no stinkin quief machine to have fun
#201569 to #201547 - lgninjaleetful
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(11/07/2015) [-]
while i agree you should have fun without needing a GF, you are still a lonely faggot.

>probably sucks and its a waste of time

says the guy who hasnt been in a relationship.

dream girl will never love you
#201606 to #201569 - dehumanizer
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(11/08/2015) [-]
go kill yourself my man
#201573 to #201569 - anon
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(11/08/2015) [-]
this is dehumanizer you're talking to.

He just spews out r9k memes, you're wasting your time arguing with him.
#201560 to #201547 - womanexplain
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(11/07/2015) [-]
Your existence bugs me
#201608 to #201560 - dehumanizer
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(11/08/2015) [-]
your weight bugs me
#201640 to #201608 - womanexplain
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(11/08/2015) [-]
Cute
#201644 to #201640 - dehumanizer
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(11/08/2015) [-]
tbh atleast try
#201663 to #201644 - womanexplain
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(11/08/2015) [-]
nou
#201664 to #201663 - dehumanizer
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(11/08/2015) [-]
>friend request sent

for what purpose?!
#201665 to #201664 - womanexplain
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(11/08/2015) [-]
to be frondz
#201666 to #201665 - dehumanizer
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(11/08/2015) [-]
>for what purpose?!
#201667 to #201666 - womanexplain
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(11/08/2015) [-]
w benefits
#201670 to #201667 - dehumanizer
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(11/08/2015) [-]
so you would teach me how to get a qt 3.14 gf?
#201681 to #201670 - womanexplain
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(11/08/2015) [-]
idk if its possibru but we could try
#201682 to #201681 - dehumanizer
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(11/08/2015) [-]
tbh each day i get closer to beeing Eliot Rodger

i just finished watching Black Christmas and found myself sympathising with the psycho killer rather than the girl victims
#201685 to #201682 - womanexplain
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(11/08/2015) [-]
That is a problem, tell me more about your childhood
#201688 to #201685 - dehumanizer
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(11/08/2015) [-]


diffrent sets of close friends abandoning me to move with their families to biger towns, one of them was even my oneitis
#201689 to #201688 - womanexplain
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(11/08/2015) [-]
I see...





I think it's safe to say you have AIDS.
#201744 to #201689 - dehumanizer
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(11/09/2015) [-]
lol great advice
#201748 to #201744 - womanexplain
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(11/09/2015) [-]
No problem buddy remember to give me 5 stars on Yelp
Xxx
#201574 to #201560 - anon
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(11/08/2015) [-]
he does this all the time, he's not serious.

he'll just post the same things over and over again because "lol trolled u"
#201607 to #201574 - dehumanizer
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(11/08/2015) [-]
>im not serious

but i am you queer
#201612 to #201607 - anon
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(11/08/2015) [-]
hows r9k doing?

any fresh memes coming?
#201613 to #201612 - dehumanizer
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(11/08/2015) [-]
no its been shit since spring, obviously you havent been there in a while if you think im joking
#201615 to #201613 - anon
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(11/08/2015) [-]
Highschool is busy this time of year. :^)

best of luck in your exams.
#201616 to #201615 - dehumanizer
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(11/08/2015) [-]
could you atleast try to type coherently?
#201617 to #201616 - anon
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(11/08/2015) [-]
lol
#201618 to #201617 - dehumanizer
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(11/08/2015) [-]
tbh anon atleast be on point whyen you criticize me instead of just spouting random insults
#201575 to #201574 - womanexplain
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(11/08/2015) [-]
I know which is why it bugs me
#201545 to #201539 - womanexplain
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(11/07/2015) [-]
Firstly:   
NOBODY CAN HAVE A HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP WITHOUT HAVING A SOURCE OF HAPPINESS OUTSIDE OF THE RELATIONSHIP.   
   
It doesn't work. You need to be stable enough to start a relationship before you even think about the long term benefits.    
   
You seem like you need help if it's driving you to think about suicide, you should DEFINITELY talk to your friends about it, write them a letter if you're too anxious to speak out loud.   
   
I really suggest you try and seek professional help.   
   
Best of luck,   
Emily
Firstly:
NOBODY CAN HAVE A HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP WITHOUT HAVING A SOURCE OF HAPPINESS OUTSIDE OF THE RELATIONSHIP.

It doesn't work. You need to be stable enough to start a relationship before you even think about the long term benefits.

You seem like you need help if it's driving you to think about suicide, you should DEFINITELY talk to your friends about it, write them a letter if you're too anxious to speak out loud.

I really suggest you try and seek professional help.

Best of luck,
Emily
#201548 to #201545 - dehumanizer
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(11/07/2015) [-]
lol nice trolling, you tryina get this guy killed or something?

>talk to your friends
" bruh i totaly understand you i havent had sex in two weeks man i totaly understand you '

>I really suggest you try and seek professional help.
>proffesional
>help

lelele JUST B URSELF
#201559 to #201548 - womanexplain
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(11/07/2015) [-]
OK
#201536 - thatsnumberwang
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(11/07/2015) [-]
So i got hit in the face a couple of times about a month ago now (right where the jaw connects). funnily enough, it's not the first time i've taken a punch there. What concerns me is that it's been a month and i still get a sort of spongy, crunchy sensation when i move my jaw around. Is this something i should act on? can a doctor even do anything? or should i just ignore it and hope it goes away?
So i got hit in the face a couple of times about a month ago now (right where the jaw connects). funnily enough, it's not the first time i've taken a punch there. What concerns me is that it's been a month and i still get a sort of spongy, crunchy sensation when i move my jaw around. Is this something i should act on? can a doctor even do anything? or should i just ignore it and hope it goes away?
#201662 to #201536 - advicedude
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(11/08/2015) [-]
Lol how many times are people going to ask health advice. See a professional!
#201546 to #201536 - womanexplain
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(11/07/2015) [-]
Go to the doctor, it could get worse, if you can at least prevent it from getting worse that's more than enough.


Try not to get hit in the face in future.
#201537 to #201536 - anon
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(11/07/2015) [-]
yes go to the doctor.

they might get an xray if they're not sure.
#201527 - loopzoop
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(11/07/2015) [-]
Hey guys, I need some help
And no, this isn't life advice, it's with Steam
So basically, I'm completely fucking unable to buy shit on my Steam. I live in Turkey, and the system they use for payment is fucking horrible. I tried contacting steam about this, but they have nothing to say about it. Do you guys know any other way I can buy games for Steam?
#201590 to #201527 - kothaex ONLINE
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(11/08/2015) [-]
buy codes on g2a
they're cheaper anyway
just make sure it's compatible with your country and that you buy from a user with a high reputation
yes it's safe, only like a 0.5% chance of having an issue and they'll fix it
#201544 to #201527 - comradegeneral
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(11/07/2015) [-]
Have you tried paysafe card? It is realy easy to use and i never had bigger problems with it.
#201551 to #201544 - loopzoop
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(11/07/2015) [-]
Huh, never heard of it. I'll check it out
#201540 to #201527 - yibdiy
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(11/07/2015) [-]
stop buying on steam, don't let the jews win
your turkish ancestors are disappointed by your actions
#201541 to #201540 - loopzoop
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(11/07/2015) [-]
i'm not actually turkish, is the funny part
my mom's side comes from Mongolia, but they just moved over to turkey
#201542 to #201541 - yibdiy
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(11/07/2015) [-]
I'm sure mongols hate jews too
#201543 to #201542 - loopzoop
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(11/07/2015) [-]
eh, who doesn't
#201538 to #201527 - dragondust
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(11/07/2015) [-]
I had a problem with payment a couple weeks ago on steam as well. I would try to buy something and it would just say "purchase failed, you have not been charged" or something. I tried using paypal but it was only a temporary fix. Steam support was no help at all

So just try changing payment methods, and if nothing works, you could just use G2A.
Shit's usually cheaper there anyways. I've bought 2 or 3 games from there in the past year
#201534 to #201527 - focalanemo
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(11/07/2015) [-]
open a paypal account
#201530 to #201527 - charizarddad
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(11/07/2015) [-]
dont know if its really what youre looking for, but i use g2a a lot just because theyre cheaper than steam, i also havent had a problem yet
#201531 to #201530 - loopzoop
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(11/07/2015) [-]
Oh shit this site looks really promising, thanks for the suggestion.
#201522 - GnRNoD
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(11/07/2015) [-]
So, this is the deal, I'm trying to mostly just vent, but I'd appretiate any advice.
This sunday my relationship of 7 months, bare in mind my first "long" term relationship ended, thru the course of it a lot of shit happend at first I acted as an asshat and she talked me down from a lot of personal issues, that turned me to think she was very special (we started the relationship from the start, no dating or anything, we knew we liked each other) then three weeks in she allowed a guy to flirt with her all night, leading to him pressing her to a wall while se was subtly pushing him of, I decided to end things there, she begged me to forgive her and said she was too drunk to notice what was going on or else she wouldn't allow it. I am very temperamental, and strict with the people I date, I ask a lot of them and give a lot in return, so i complain a lot, constantly, I tried to talk things every time something bothered me. This lead to several discussions and arguments but all in all after that incident we had about a good month and a half wiht no big problems, then other stuff happend and it lead to us being on a strugle for power, I was constantly "ending" the relationship if she didn't agree to my terms which seemed logical at the time, she agreed to most terms tho did lie a litte and did some stuff I asked her not to, at this point 3- 4 months into the relationship she starts working things go downhill from here, she lives far away and can only stay at my place on weekends, I fuck things up with her friends so all except her best friend now dislike me, this translates to "I can't hang with you and my friends at the same time" = less time together. A lot of problems are constants and she has a strategy to elude agreeing on my terms on everything, like she's learned how to "fight" me, so now she just gets mad at everything I complain about even stuff that I'm entitled to complain about. After a month or so of this about entering our 5 month together, she fails me, like deep I needed her and she wasn't there for me, she even did something I asked her not to do (didn't tell me about it till this sunday tho) I start fucking things up big time, doing stuff I know she'll hate and even making out with a chick at a club once and arranging sex (tho I backed out later on) she did some shitty stuff too, and I start just doing stuff that I know will hurt her without caring about what she thinks, because I'm a little bitch that can't end the relationship (and she says she won't end it till she feels like ending it) so I basicly push my luck for an entire month till one day she has enough and explodes in anger and in a blaze of fury lashes out at me splurting hurtfull words and basicly breaks up with me, I ask her not to (because it was by phone) and tell her I want to meet, she agrees and bloks me the next day, I go to her house, she claims she lost her love for me and that she doesn't want anything else to do with me, she finally (and after exhausting all her options) agrees to meet me near her house I've changed my mind, I cry, I beg, she won't budge, she barely cries and gives it to me straight, things between us are fucking over. I ask her to talk to me the next day to sort things out, I'm still asking her to change her mind, telling her I've understood things, I realice we need some time apart, we've been talking all fucking week some days for an hour some days for hours, without the whole relationship husle, I can't ask much from her and she can't be that mad about what I did so we've been getting along great tonight after she went to a friends birthday I called her at 6:30 am(she was supoused to call me at 5) we talked a bit she was a bit dazed(high)and sleepy but she agreed to not hook up with anyoe for some time and see in a few weeks how we're doing, tho we're probably not going to see each other (except maybe tonight) but I plan to be High as fuck and partying and she's not going to budge so soon, my question, what should I do?
#201523 to #201522 - GnRNoD
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My friends keep telling me to end the relationship, they've been saying so for months, her friends say the same, we get along perfect but we argue over the smallest things, I love talking to her and she's perfect in many ways to me she's smart, but a bit dumber than me she's hot, she's pretty, she doesn't show off her body in public, I never get bored with her around, she accepts the fact that I'm a poorfag, there's a lot of pro's and a lot of cons, the negative side is , she lies a lot, she paints the story the way it suits her and she doesn't like to show the relationship in a public way (i.e. facebook or certain friends around), I know I should end it and suffer for a while and move on, but I'm afraid, I know I might find someone better to me than her, but I'll never find someone like her, today if she decides to come, it might mean the endof things or nothing or that things have a future, and I have to work soon and I'm driving myself up a wall...
advice or anything would be very apretiated.
#201623 to #201523 - dingdongsingsong
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(11/08/2015) [-]
End it.
This reminds me way too much about my relationship with my ex, he was kinda like you but he was borderline crazy, (don't text you friends when i talk to you, dont talk to guys etc) but the things shes great but you're two different people, you won't ever be less strict internally because it will always bother you, She will always know how you feel about it but its suffocating following rules, you two won't properly be happy , its almost scary how similar to my past just on different sides of the story.
#201532 to #201523 - dorkledumbs
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(11/07/2015) [-]
Bell Biv DeVoe - Poison No other way to put it

End it now or dig yourself deeper into the hole you're already in
#201528 to #201523 - robertolee
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(11/07/2015) [-]
End it. Completely sever all ties.

From what I've read you're both not grown up enough to handle an actual mature relationship, you don't get respect and trust in a relationship by laying down rules, your girl should respect you from the word go, this sounds like a complete disaster of a relationship and it would be better for you both to forget it and move on.
#201526 to #201523 - charizarddad
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(11/07/2015) [-]
just end it. all there is to it.
#201515 - jellyman
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(11/07/2015) [-]
I'm 20, I never got laid, and I haven't had a girlfriend in 5 years, and it makes me feel like shit. I only got head when I was 14 and that's it, and it sucks because almost all my friends got laid and had a girlfriend recently. I don't understand why it's so hard to just not be so awkward and go for it. The last time I tried to get with a girl she wouldn't let me, even if I was confident about it. I guess I need to lose weight and take some speech therapy since I'm fat and awkward and there's like barely anyone in my area.

I know I'm being very dramatic, but I had a couple drinks and it just got to me for some reason.
#201549 to #201515 - dehumanizer
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(11/07/2015) [-]
FUCKIGN SHIT MAN DONT BOTHER IT AINT WROTH IT
#201524 to #201515 - dudeheit
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(11/07/2015) [-]
What minutes wrote is pretty good. Every aspect.
I also recommend doing sports and reading about healthy nutrition. You will see results if you are determined, you will feel better naturally and the feeling you get when somebody says "hey, you've realy lost weight, your are looking good" is pretty damn good. Especially when it comes from one of the hottest girls you know.
Be more productive and constinantly improve your way of living. Be the person you love to hanging out with the most, learn to love yourself!
#201518 to #201515 - minutes
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(11/07/2015) [-]
I once wrote a huge paragraph for /r9k/ about this. Just ignore the stuff that isn't relevant to you, the message is still the same.

>1. Clean yourself, your house/apartment/room
Should be common sense, if you're smelling like shit people tend to avoid you. Shower at least every two days, brush your teeth at least 2 times a day and wash your hands after you used the toilet.
>2. Competetive mindset
This is the most important thing. Ever played any competetive game? It's basically about accepting your own mistakes. If you lose you can go into full autism mode and cry for life/the game being unfair, or you can take a closer look at what actually went wrong so you can do better next time. Learn from your mistakes, failure is nothing to be ashamed of. This applies to everything in life, as long as you try your hardest to improve you're not pathetic.
>3. Stop bathing in self pity
Life ows you nothing. Yes it is unfair that some chad just has to say hi to get into a girls pants while you have to do astronomical amount of work for the same outcome, but that's just how it is. Accept that life is unfair.
>4. Constantly stay busy
While it's incredibly comfortable to just shitpost on 4chan all day, you could use your time a lot more efficient. Do stuff you always wanted to do, do stuff you still have to do, don't turn on your computer until you have done absolutely everything else that comes to your mind.
>5. Try out new hobbys
This goes along with the previous point. Do new and exciting things, join a club or learn a new language, whatever. It really doesn't matter as long as you gain something from it. Bonus points if it requires you to leave your house. Try to be as interesting as possible, not for everyone else but for yourself.
>6. Force yourself to do stuff
I know it's hard to stay busy and do new activities, that's why you have to be able to force yourself to do things. Don't just put it off, do it. This sounds like straight out of the shia labeouf video, but it's actually true. Once you gain the ability to overcome your laziness, you'll make fast steps forward. Some dude invited you to his party? Go. If the alternative is that you sit alone at home you have everything to gain and nothing to lose. At worst you'll have a shitty evening, at best you find new friends or even the love of your life. Leaving your comfort zone is incredibly important.
>7. Talk to people
Now that you do all these new hobbys and stuff you'll meet a ton of new people, which is something good. Talk to them, maybe one or two of them actually aren't as bas as you think. If you autism out it's okay, you're trying. Social skills are the same as any other skills, experience helps you a lot. If you have troubles with texting, you might also try sites like omegle just for practice.
#201550 to #201518 - dehumanizer
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(11/07/2015) [-]
HAHAH AND JUST BEE YOURSELF RITE XD XDXDX
#201533 to #201518 - jellyman
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(11/07/2015) [-]
1. I shower every day, and put on deodorant that I think smells good before I leave somewhere. I want to try something else that can make me smell good like after shave or cologne, but that might be too much for something casual lol.
2. I played smash bros at a tournament once. I lost the first round, even at the losers match, but I thought it was OK because I had fun anyways. I know I'll do better next time.
4. I hang out with my friends everyday, and right now I just found a job so I can make more money to do more things.
5. I want to keep learning guitar, but that costs money too, but again I found a job so I'll save up and buy new strings and an amp. I don't think video games are a hobby though lol.
6. I went to Orlando with 2 friends to see one of our homies there. We met new people and it was nice. Of course we went to a club and I really didn't want to go because of my social anxiety. I barely talked when we were on our way, but I tried to have fun.
7. I'm fine with that sometimes. It comes naturally otherwise I'll sound like autismo.
8. I feel like if I ask a girl out when we just met, I'm taking it to fast. I don't know, it could be different cultures from a different state. Maybe if we have a good amount of conversations I can go for it.
I've been rejected constantly whenever I ask a girl out, so it hurts my confident and makes it harder to ask girls out.
9. As I said earlier, I found a job I just hope it's legit. I also want to start meditating as well as reading, but I have a short attention span when it comes to it.

I'm sorry if I sound stubborn, I just want to say my point of view and my experiences on the tips you gave me. I think those tips are very informative and could be helpful. It's just hard to maintain a better mindset when that alone won't work unless you put effort to it as well, which I don't have much motivation or I'm just lazy.
#201519 to #201518 - minutes
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(11/07/2015) [-]
>8. Take risks
This is one of the hardest things on this list. Even normies have problems with it. You're talking to a girl and are unsure about asking her out? Can't read the signs? Do it anyways. The whole concept of dating is to get to know each other better first. You don't wait till you already know each other, you go on a date for that exact reason. Also, if she rejects you straight away when you just met, chances are it's because she doesn't think you're attractive, which is not so bad is it? Attractiveness is something subjective. It doesn't mean you're ugly, it just means you're not her type. If you however wait till she already knows you, you're probably being rejected cause of your personality as well. That + the feeling of attachment you get after waiting for too long makes it a lot harder to deal with rejection . Doing it straight away is the best way to go. And don't forget, it's no shame to be rejected. Everyone gets laughed at in some point of their lifes.
A little thing to help you with this point - count to 10 in your head and think about everything that could possible go wrong before taking a risk, every little thing, the worst scenarios. But once you reach 10 you just do it anyways. Sound illogical but it really works. Yes this is from a scrubs episode.
>9. Constantly try to improve yourself
Got no job? Sent fucking applications. It doesn't matter how much you need till you get an interview. Even if you'd need to send 5000 letters, do it. Your goal should be to get better every day, at least a little bit. Read a scientific book, learn something new, do your drivings license if you still haven't, whatever. Baby steps still bring you forward.

Living like this doesn't guarantee you a gf or a perfect life, but I can promise you that you'll feel better about yourself. Everytime I've seen people around me getting into this kind of mindset, they also started to be a lot more positive and overall way more happy. It's hard work and yes, it's not easy at all, but that only makes the success taste even better.
#201516 to #201515 - confusedasian
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(11/07/2015) [-]
I'm 21 and never been on a date. You're doing better than me champ.
#201500 - scowler
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(11/07/2015) [-]
My Ring Finger is bending into my Middle Finger at the knuckle. How do I fix this before it becomes more irritating?
#201502 to #201500 - confusedasian
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(11/07/2015) [-]
What? Can you post picture? I want to see it.
#201503 to #201502 - scowler
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(11/07/2015) [-]
I can't. Dinosaur laptop.

It's bending into my Middle Finger slightly, it's at the point where every time I relax my hand, they end up rubbing together, or the Ring Finger rests on top of my Middle Finger.

It's very irritating.
#201504 to #201503 - confusedasian
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(11/07/2015) [-]
Only thing I can think of is that 1. a tendon is out of place or 2. a muscle isn't "relaxing".

Try some finger stretch excercises.
#201505 to #201504 - scowler
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(11/07/2015) [-]
No, this is a joint issue. I know that because it starts at the Knuckle.
#201506 to #201505 - confusedasian
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(11/07/2015) [-]
Can't think of anything else besides those two reasons. I looked it up and got a bunch of the palm reading hippie stuff.
#201507 to #201506 - scowler
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(11/07/2015) [-]
I got a bunch of drivel about Arthritis and Trigger Finger.
#201498 - anon
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(11/07/2015) [-]
So, is there such thing as gay people that don't like anal? Want to be in a relationship, but I'm pretty against anal sex.
#201499 to #201498 - spookyexplain
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(11/07/2015) [-]
go to /gay
#201501 to #201499 - anon
Reply 0
(11/07/2015) [-]
I can't anon, and I'd like to remain that way until I'm, well. . . comfortable.
#201509 to #201501 - anon
Reply 0
(11/07/2015) [-]
Make a dummy account.
#201510 to #201509 - anon
Reply 0
(11/07/2015) [-]
Why didn't I think of that before?
#201496 - formerspectre
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(11/07/2015) [-]
Does anybody know a sure way to get a fake ID within a week?
#201479 - anon
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(11/07/2015) [-]
I'm so sick of everything.

I wake up everyday filled with dread of whats going to come, simple social interaction pain me and I just hate talking to people. no one cares what I have to say nor do they care about me. I'm always wrong somehow, nothing goes right everyday is a kick in the teeth, I hate it at my university I have no friends and I hate my flatmates taking up all the space and making noise and shit.

I walk the same path every damn day, same scenery nothing different. I feel like everyone is judging me, the way I walk or the way I look.

I haven't done anything I truely care about in over 7 weeks.

I'm constantly tired, no matter how much sleep I get.

I hate myself

anyone feel free to say anything.
#201520 to #201479 - minutes
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(11/07/2015) [-]
Do you know about the Thomas Theorem?

en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Thomas_theorem

Your definition of the situation is what matters, no matter how unrealistic it is. If you think that your gf is cheating, it doesn't matter if she actually is or not, you'll treat her like she is unfaithfull which would possibly lead to a break up, even though nothing really happened. Same with your day to day activities. You wake up and start your day with the mindset that it's going to be shitty. Someone starts talking to you and you immediatly assume that they don't care about you, and because of that you're actually making it a real thing. I know it's not easy to fix this, but it's very possible.

Disregard everyone and just work on yourself for now. Study for your classes, do things you always wanted to do. Doesn't matter what it is, read books, join a club or go jogging, do sports, martial arts or start building furniture. Whatever makes you happy, do it. Bonus points if it requires you to leave your house and talk to people. The positivity you gain from this takes over the rest of your life. Soon you'll wake up and think about X, your day is less shitty from start on, you start to perceive your reality differently.

Good luck man. You can do it.
#201614 to #201520 - anon
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(11/08/2015) [-]
that's true sometimes but not all the time.
#201514 to #201479 - enlightednatzie
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(11/07/2015) [-]
Relax mate, no one actually cares about how you look or walk.
#201497 to #201479 - alexanderburns
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(11/07/2015) [-]
What do you truly care about?
#201484 to #201479 - confusedasian
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(11/07/2015) [-]
Hi.
#201489 to #201484 - anon
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(11/07/2015) [-]
hello.
#201491 to #201489 - confusedasian
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(11/07/2015) [-]
My name is John.
#201492 to #201491 - anon
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(11/07/2015) [-]
hello John.
#201493 to #201492 - confusedasian
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(11/07/2015) [-]
I'm lonely.
#201494 to #201493 - anon
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(11/07/2015) [-]
yep, me too.
#201483 to #201479 - thatonesouthernkid
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(11/07/2015) [-]
I feel relatively similar. but I am still in highschool. and group therapy doesn't seem to be working, I leave the room feeling worse than when I went in because I remind myself of everything that sucks about my life.
#201488 to #201483 - anon
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(11/07/2015) [-]
I've thought about going to some session that my uni might have but I don't want to show my face there because I know if anyone from my course sees me going to one, they'll spread rumours and people will probably treat me in weird ways.
#201481 to #201479 - dreygur
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(11/07/2015) [-]
It's an evil circle. You're negative about basically everything, which may not make you enjoyable company, which just makes it even worse. Remember that being positive is extremely important when socializing, and you can't expect people to want to deal with negativity.
#201486 to #201481 - anon
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(11/07/2015) [-]
I actively avoid people because I know that.
#201472 - notaking
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(11/06/2015) [-]
Best way to drink this.
If needed I can provide proof of ownership
#201529 to #201472 - dingdongsingsong
Reply 0
(11/07/2015) [-]
wanna play LOL ?
#201511 to #201472 - dehumanizer
Reply +1
(11/07/2015) [-]
>lol in the background

mix it with some bleach then chug it, JUST DO IT
#201508 to #201472 - anon
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(11/07/2015) [-]
Try with some redbull
#201480 to #201472 - yibdiy
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(11/07/2015) [-]
try mouth
#201482 to #201480 - notaking
Reply 0
(11/07/2015) [-]
I was going to use a bucket
#201477 to #201472 - anon
Reply 0
(11/06/2015) [-]
i tell everyone to try this, and its always gets positive feedback.
mix a shot with orange soda. drink that shit. tastes like amazing orange soda
#201478 to #201477 - notaking
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(11/06/2015) [-]
#201466 - joshualegitsky
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(11/06/2015) [-]
I like how theres always one person on here trying to fix everyone's problems, it can be a different person but that type of person will always be here for a time.
#201521 to #201466 - minutes
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(11/07/2015) [-]
I am here a lot. Some user here helped me in the past and it stuck with me. I still have my problems but I can relate to people here so I try my best to do for them what someone did for me.
And it also distracts me from my own life
#201468 to #201466 - confusedasian
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(11/06/2015) [-]
Is thatxonexguy here? I haven't seen him in like a year now unless you're talking about someone else.
#201525 to #201468 - dudeheit
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(11/07/2015) [-]
man xxxthatoneguyxxx or what his name was, was awesome - gave really good advice
#201535 to #201525 - confusedasian
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(11/07/2015) [-]
Now that I'm thinking about it, the advicedude was also really cool.
#201652 to #201535 - advicedude
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(11/08/2015) [-]
Thank you so much for the shout out. I feel terrible not being able to be on here as much as I used to but my most frequent times were when I was in high school and things are more complicated now :p I also thought I had it set up where I'd get an email every time something new was posted in this thread but it hasn't worked
#201469 to #201468 - borderlineparanoid ONLINE
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(11/06/2015) [-]
He's busy now. I talked to him quite a lot in the past.

He moved to a different town and was generally trying to get his life together.he hasn't been active since June but he appear in September briefly.
#201471 to #201469 - confusedasian
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(11/06/2015) [-]
Can't think of anyone else he's talking about. Only other person that I can think of is that scrofinator or scrufinator person.
#201458 - enjoigiggity
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(11/06/2015) [-]
Hello friends
#201517 to #201458 - captainfuckitall ONLINE
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(11/07/2015) [-]
Greetings.
#201556 to #201517 - enjoigiggity
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(11/07/2015) [-]
How are?
#201562 to #201556 - captainfuckitall ONLINE
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(11/07/2015) [-]
Are good

Et tu?
#201566 to #201562 - enjoigiggity
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(11/07/2015) [-]
Am tired, not long home from work so it's bed time soon! Said I'd get a little bit of internet in beforehand.
#201567 to #201566 - captainfuckitall ONLINE
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(11/07/2015) [-]
Haha, how nice. Well I hope you get a good sleep anyways. Doing anything special with your internet time?
#201717 to #201567 - enjoigiggity
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(11/08/2015) [-]
I got enough sleep to get through work today so it was all good. Just went through a few posts on the site was all. How was your weekend mate?
#201718 to #201717 - captainfuckitall ONLINE
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(11/08/2015) [-]
Haha, going well so far. Though if I may ask, what's the point of chatting with us like this?
#201719 to #201718 - enjoigiggity
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(11/08/2015) [-]
I was bored and my friends were asleep but I still wanted to talk to people
#201490 to #201458 - nim
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(11/07/2015) [-]
Hello there!
#201557 to #201490 - enjoigiggity
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(11/07/2015) [-]
How are you?
#201570 to #201557 - nim
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(11/07/2015) [-]
I'm alright! It's the weekend and i'm not working so all is pretty well. hbu?
#201715 to #201570 - enjoigiggity
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(11/08/2015) [-]
I'm not long back from work, but at least I'm finished now until next weekend! Time to make plans for the week. Do anything fun for your weekend?
#201813 to #201715 - nim
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(11/10/2015) [-]
Not at all, stayed in and played videya. Just got Fallout 4 so I'm about to spend a lot of time inside. Totally worth it.
#201467 to #201458 - confusedasian
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(11/06/2015) [-]
Hi.
#201558 to #201467 - enjoigiggity
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(11/07/2015) [-]
Hello, how are you?
#201563 to #201558 - confusedasian
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(11/07/2015) [-]
Bored. Working on programming, so that's a guarantee though.
#201565 to #201563 - enjoigiggity
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(11/07/2015) [-]
Yeah that is 100% a guarantee.. Are you working on it for a college assignment or something?
#201568 to #201565 - confusedasian
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(11/07/2015) [-]
Yeah, college. I've been working since 1 pm, but it's so boring and confusing that I've been doing other things. Mainly watching Punisher clips on youtube.
#201716 to #201568 - enjoigiggity
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(11/08/2015) [-]
Showing some fine examples of procrastinating! When's it due?
#201724 to #201716 - confusedasian
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(11/09/2015) [-]
Today. I finished it before going to bed.
#201457 - murrlogic
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(11/06/2015) [-]
>tfw I want to fap but have no new fapping material whatsoever

#struggles.
#201513 to #201457 - youngneil
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(11/07/2015) [-]
I drew you a picture of Korra being beaten by Salami. That'll be 500 shekels, please.
#201512 to #201457 - dehumanizer
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(11/07/2015) [-]
ur rather intresting fam tbh
#201465 to #201457 - joshualegitsky
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(11/06/2015) [-]
Click to show spoiler
#201459 to #201457 - enjoigiggity
Reply +1
(11/06/2015) [-]
Have you considered the Viola Bailey set? You need to login to view this link
#201460 to #201459 - murrlogic
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(11/06/2015) [-]
>Normal fag porn

NOPE
#201461 to #201460 - enjoigiggity
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(11/06/2015) [-]
Damn nigga
#201462 to #201461 - murrlogic
Reply 0
(11/06/2015) [-]
Needs more destruction.
#201452 - enlightednatzie
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(11/06/2015) [-]
Any ideahs on how to fasten a new number plate on an opel vectra 2000?
#201453 to #201452 - drastronomy
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(11/06/2015) [-]
suck its dick
#201456 to #201453 - enjoigiggity
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(11/06/2015) [-]
can confirm, best method
#201449 - Clonious
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(11/06/2015) [-]
All I wanna know is, is this a good $950 Gaming PC? Are there any real weak links in comparison to the rest?

pcpartpicker.com/p/fb4cXL
#201451 to #201449 - dragondust
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(11/06/2015) [-]
Definitely drop the pentium and get something better. It will be a huge bottleneck, and you won't be able to play much or do any kind of multi tasking really.

The 970 is very powerful. Maybe downgrade that to make room for a better CPU if you can. I reccomend the i5-4690.
#201464 to #201451 - rokkai ONLINE
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(11/06/2015) [-]
^ this. that cpu is one of the best budget pc cpu's around. drop that 970 to a 960. and if you still lack money, you can also downgrade that ssd to a 120gig one, that would do the trick too, since you're going to use hdd for storage.
#201463 to #201451 - Clonious
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(11/06/2015) [-]
Thank you (and Confusedasian) for your advice, I switched to an i5-4690 and downgraded to an MSI Geforce GTX 960. Both of these parts costs roughly the same, I've noticed. The build is still just below a grand, so I'm happy.
#201450 to #201449 - confusedasian
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(11/06/2015) [-]
Could switch out the pentium with an i5.
#201434 - anonymoussarcasm
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(11/06/2015) [-]
Alright so I got the HTC one M9 today in the mail and I'm doing all of the customization. I am really fond of Slick wraps but I'm stuck between a couple for the phone. I'm conflicted between the one picked here.
#201473 to #201434 - notaking
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(11/06/2015) [-]
Yo hit up d-brand
dbrand.com/shop/htc-one-m9
#201474 to #201473 - anonymoussarcasm
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(11/06/2015) [-]
Eh they don't have that many options
#201475 to #201474 - notaking
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(11/06/2015) [-]
Ahh fair enough buddy
#201476 to #201475 - anonymoussarcasm
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(11/06/2015) [-]
Thanks anyway mate
#201455 to #201434 - charizarddad
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(11/06/2015) [-]
first one IMO
#201437 to #201436 - yibdiy
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(11/06/2015) [-]
Does it smell like wood though?
#201438 to #201437 - anonymoussarcasm
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(11/06/2015) [-]
The cork one is actual cork but I wish the first did I had it for the M7
#201439 to #201438 - yibdiy
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(11/06/2015) [-]
Go with the bamboo one and say it's special edition from Japan.
#201441 to #201439 - anonymoussarcasm
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(11/06/2015) [-]
How can I claim that if it has not been folded one thousand times
#201442 to #201441 - yibdiy
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(11/06/2015) [-]
That only appplies to inferior superior japanese steel, just carve 同性愛 into it and everyone will get fooled.
#201485 to #201442 - thatonesouthernkid
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(11/07/2015) [-]
>doesn't know that the reason they folded it was because it was shitty steel
#201487 to #201485 - yibdiy
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(11/07/2015) [-]
That's what I said...
#201429 - anon
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(11/06/2015) [-]
I need help with Steam

Why is another account's games listed in my steam library?
at the bottom of my steam library, there's a label USERNAME's Games, and then it lists games from that accounts library. why? how do i remove this? I haven't signed up for any family sharing options.
#201445 to #201429 - schurftinator
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(11/06/2015) [-]
that's weird, I have those two with my partner but yeah we had to go through the whole family sharing thing (and there was a lot of stuff involved going back and forth to accept sharing). maybe you have it shared with people on the same IP?
#201420 - thewizsam
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(11/06/2015) [-]
you know what some good adive?

"no random stranger what is?"

joining this restarted ass kik group

"wow now i can what little life i have wasting my on a teenagers app!"

that's right random civilian, that i don't know, and all you ailment will dissipate. untell the chat dies in about a week.
#201421 to #201420 - thewizsam
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(11/06/2015) [-]
holy shit being up for like 2 day was a bad idea i cant even spel right to make a really bad joke
#201419 - jellyman
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(11/06/2015) [-]
So I have this idea for an anime, but it's only a plot and just an idea for now. Call me a weeb or whatever lol but just hear me out.

There is a mental disorder in which a person suffers from hallucinations of fear, whether it's rational, irrational, the person just experiences it for the first time, etc. For example, the person can hallucinate about an odd figure or anime being physically tortured while screaming painfully, odd, eerie music or noises, something saying in his head what that person fears or will fear, anything that the person finds or will find terrifying. It only occurs during the night and ends whenever the sun rises, and each night, the hallucinations intensify. Right now, there is no way to stop it, and if you fall asleep, you will only have nightmares, possibly even night terrors depending on the intensity.

What do you guys think? Again, this is just a fun idea just for now. I can use it in the future when the time is right.