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#202135 - anon
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(11/12/2015) [-]
so i started talking to this girl a few days ago and things were going fine, but she won't initiate conversations whatsoever. i've stopped messaging her for like 2 days to see if she starts a conversation, but she didn't . when we talked she showed a plenty of signs of interest, so i don't think im bugging her out or something. wat do
#202222 to #202135 - paintskillz
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(11/13/2015) [-]
One thing I've noticed is that if a girl is interested in you she will make it known through various ways including initiating conversations. It's not all encompassing to say that though because it may be that this girl is an outlier but it definitely is a general trend and you should prepare for the worst and hope for the best.
#202193 to #202135 - schurftinator
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(11/13/2015) [-]
sometimes people are busy, sometimes people are shy, sometimes people just don't chat a lot online (I always enjoy chatting with people when they start a conversation, but I rarely initiate)
if she sounds interested, just ask her out for coffee or lunch!
#202202 to #202193 - anon
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(11/13/2015) [-]
I see, thanks. My fear is that if i keep starting conversations ill look like an obsessed creep, but whatever i guess
#202203 to #202202 - schurftinator
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(11/13/2015) [-]
yeah I know what you mean, it's tricky isn't it, there isn't really any online etiquette. I guess as long as you're not bothering her every hour, and keeping on sending messages when she's not responding, you can keep off the creep-side
#202301 to #202203 - anon
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(11/14/2015) [-]
Success! I m meeting her tommorow
#202367 to #202301 - schurftinator
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(11/15/2015) [-]
gg!
#202204 to #202203 - anon
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(11/13/2015) [-]
Thanks alot. Guess ill just ask her out and see what happens
#202129 - enlightednatzie ONLINE
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(11/12/2015) [-]
Should i cut my toenails?
#202290 to #202129 - anon
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(11/14/2015) [-]
Consider the Vandenbos Procedure. I see your toenails look pretty cracked and brittle.
A lot of times it's caused by early stages of toenail fungus. It's a cheap as hell thing your doctor can do to fix it. Look it up.

Late-form fungus for reference. It'll end up making your nails brittle and easy to break.
#202140 to #202129 - joshlol
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(11/13/2015) [-]
I think you should have a foot transplant
#202187 to #202140 - enlightednatzie ONLINE
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(11/13/2015) [-]
Thanks. (I was being sarcastic) My foot arent that ugly right?
#202134 to #202129 - redandgreen
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(11/12/2015) [-]
Seriously, WTF is wrong with you
#202189 to #202134 - enlightednatzie ONLINE
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(11/13/2015) [-]
Natzing, i just wondered if yuo think cutting my toenails is a good ideah or should i wait so the grow longer?
#202131 to #202129 - anon
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(11/12/2015) [-]
Cut off your entire foot.
#202188 to #202131 - enlightednatzie ONLINE
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(11/13/2015) [-]
Then i would die
#202127 - anon
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(11/12/2015) [-]
I've always felt like I'm second to everything else in everyone's life. I feel like I'm not worth anything and I haven't really be motivated to do much in my life because of this. I want to try and fix this but I'm having a hard time figuring out where to start.
#202309 to #202127 - epicextreme
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(11/14/2015) [-]
do you get the feeling you're an a.i in someone elses game?
you are the protaganist and this point in your life is just the lousy side quests before you are capable to do huge things and be the person you want to be
#202151 to #202127 - platinumaltaria ONLINE
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(11/13/2015) [-]
Give them a reason to put you first? No one can change it but you.
#202133 to #202127 - confusedasian
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(11/12/2015) [-]
Start at the small things you want to improve. Imagine your burdens and troubles as a big building, okay? Buildings are held in place and together by a frame. Weakening and taking out the frames will cause the building to crumble. So if you want to change, start with small things.
#202113 - derpys
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(11/12/2015) [-]
I Fj. I really need your help. I have been together with this girl for 2 years, our relationship is pretty good, and if we continue i might marry her. But there is this thing that keep bugging me. I can't give her an orgasm. I know that it might seem silly, but it really borthers me. I have tried many things but none work, she keeps telling me that it's okay, but i can't do anything but to blame myself and my lack of skills. To never satisfy your partner is depressing as hell. Has anyone had the same problem? or is it just me that is way to awful?
#202192 to #202113 - schurftinator
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(11/13/2015) [-]
a lot of girls can't really get off on just vaginal stimulation. I mean, it's really cool that you're talking with her about it and she's ok with the situation, but I understand it gets depressing. There are tricks you can do to make it more stimulating for her, like putting a pillow under her hips during missionary, that helps sometimes (changes the angle of penetration, makes it more stimulating for her).

And else, if you're open for it, there are loads of sex toys you can try out! sex toys are not always only for kinky people, or for lonely folks, but there's a whole variety of them that also work great for two people, and different price tags. there are a lot of reviews for different things over at You need to login to view this link for example (not safe for work, but a very friendly website) so you can see what interests the two of you!
#202152 to #202113 - platinumaltaria ONLINE
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(11/13/2015) [-]
Communication is key, ask her what feels good and do that a lot. Honestly it's somewhat her doing for not telling you what to do.
#202145 to #202113 - lgninjaleetful
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(11/13/2015) [-]
uhh, MLP and gf.

good one broski
#202121 to #202113 - psychadelicace
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(11/12/2015) [-]
>mlp avatar
>gf
yeah ok
#202126 to #202121 - mindor
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(11/12/2015) [-]
>second
#202120 to #202113 - youraveragesupport
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(11/12/2015) [-]
If you trust her, and you are pretty certain she's telling the truth, then it's okay. There are some girls who just have a hard time getting off by other people. Just make sure she has the best time she can.
#202123 to #202120 - derpys
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(11/12/2015) [-]
I kinda believe it. There is just some part of me, that tells myself, that it's just lies to keep me happy
#202132 to #202123 - youraveragesupport
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(11/12/2015) [-]
Tell that little part of you to shut up, focus on what people tell you. I've let that little part of me rule my life, and it's terrible.
#202118 to #202113 - joshlol
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(11/12/2015) [-]
#202119 to #202118 - derpys
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(11/12/2015) [-]
She would never do that. I would never do that
#202104 - anon
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(11/12/2015) [-]
how the hell do you figure out where you want to live? you cant just google it cause everybody boasts about their state. and im going to guess that hating the state(or rather, area/city) you grew up in is normal? one thing for sure is that i dont want to live in one place forever.
#202153 to #202104 - platinumaltaria ONLINE
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(11/13/2015) [-]
Find a job, or just pick a place that looks nice.
#202122 to #202104 - amazingzebra
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(11/12/2015) [-]
I encourage you to follow the jobs
#202125 to #202122 - anon
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(11/12/2015) [-]
what if following the jobs leads you to a place you hate? and there's more than one place to follow the jobs, how do you pick?
#202106 to #202104 - joshlol
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(11/12/2015) [-]
Have you considered Chicago?
#202080 - anon
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(11/12/2015) [-]
what does it mean when i get reported at 4 chan?
#202093 to #202080 - confusedasian
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(11/12/2015) [-]
Means you're reported.
#202105 to #202093 - zonetransferrer
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(11/12/2015) [-]
but how reported? its anonymous site
#202107 to #202105 - joshlol
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(11/12/2015) [-]
your post was reported and if it breaks the rules it will be removed and you may be banned

what the fuck do you think it means?
#202108 to #202107 - zonetransferrer
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(11/12/2015) [-]
wtf man why so rude
#202109 to #202108 - joshlol
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(11/12/2015) [-]
it's just a prank bro

#202114 to #202111 - joshlol
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(11/12/2015) [-]
I wonder what this link might be
#202117 to #202114 - zonetransferrer
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(11/12/2015) [-]
:/ this can be done?
fuken blue names they be knowin everything
#202124 to #202117 - confusedasian
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(11/12/2015) [-]
Chrome extension.
#202110 to #202109 - zonetransferrer
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(11/12/2015) [-]
i'll show u a prank cracka!
#202075 - jaytothadee
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(11/12/2015) [-]
So I started to talk to this girl and weve been really good friends for three years. Only recently Ive looked at her in a romantic way and we went to the lantern fest. I think It went great Im not sure how she feels about it well Ive been texting her all week and looking back on it It was pretty cringy then the other day she sends me this "So I probably won't be contacting you for awhile cause things haven't been going well so don't feel offended when I don't respond" It took me by surprise and I have no clue what to do. Do I move on or do I wait for her to be ready again? and all I can think is how lame I was not to give her a goodbye kiss after the lantern fest. i cant help but feel like things would have been different but my lame ass couldnt muster up the courage to do it. I messaged her we should get coffee so we can sort things out but she hasnt responded obviously ):
#202082 to #202075 - youraveragesupport
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(11/12/2015) [-]
I would say give her some time, let her sort some stuff out, and when she comes back, tell her how you feel, but make sure to mention that you still want to stay friends if it won't work out. Honestly, I don't have high hopes that she likes you in the same way, unfortunately, but letting your feelings out will at least help you feel better
#202081 to #202075 - jaytothadee
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(11/12/2015) [-]
>>#202076, >>#202078, You guys have very different answers but I guess the only thing i can really do Is wait untill she is ready to talk need that be a month or so...I honestly dont care If I get friend zoned. As long as she stays a friend afterwards. I think the only thing that is bugging me is how long that wait may be
#202083 to #202081 - lgninjaleetful
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(11/12/2015) [-]
yeah, sometimes you just need to drop it and move on. I know it's hard for some people, but you have to develop into the person who can move on and take things a bit more lightly, or you'll end up like dehumanizier or whatever the fucks name is.
#202078 to #202075 - schurftinator
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(11/12/2015) [-]
aww man you had a great time don't regret that! she's probably in some difficult situation right now and needs some time. don't bother her to hang out, at most just ask something like 'hey, I hope you're doing ok, if there's anything I can help you with let me know!'
she probably won't respond to that either, but it's the thought that counts and you'll come across as caring!
#202076 to #202075 - paintskillz
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(11/12/2015) [-]
As shitty as it may sound, it is likely she doesnt see you in the same way. I also don't think you not kissing her would be the turning point for her putting you in the friendzone. As you've been friends 3 years that is probably what she sees you as.
#202071 - cognosceteipsum
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(11/12/2015) [-]
Ask a bipolar person anything
#202074 to #202071 - enlightednatzie ONLINE
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(11/12/2015) [-]
My dad's bipolar, but he gets these medicines that takes care of it, which leads me to my qustion: which meds are you on?
#202079 to #202074 - cognosceteipsum
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(11/12/2015) [-]
Lithionit, levaxin and syprexa
#202072 to #202071 - schurftinator
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(11/12/2015) [-]
you ok?
#202073 to #202072 - cognosceteipsum
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(11/12/2015) [-]
As OK as I can be right now considering my circumstances. Then again, my circumstances are probably perceived worse than they actually are due to my bipolarity.
#202066 - babylien
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(11/12/2015) [-]
Hello. How do I remove the banner on my profile? Its too cringe
#202067 to #202066 - sugoi
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(11/12/2015) [-]
Go to profile
Edit Style
Header Image
#202069 to #202067 - babylien
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(11/12/2015) [-]
I found it. Thank you!
#202068 to #202067 - babylien
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(11/12/2015) [-]
This is all I get
#202070 to #202068 - sugoi
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(11/12/2015) [-]
Don't think I can help ya mate.
#202057 - rakogoki
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(11/12/2015) [-]
im a decent looking person, polite, used to be good at making friends, but after highschool ended a couple years ago ive had no social contact outside of family. now every time i even attempt going out im wracked with some crazy ass anxiety, heart wont relax, everything turns red, i cant even bare looking at other people in the eyes sometimes.
never used to be this way and its making life very difficult. how the hell does this happen and what are ways out of it?
#202154 to #202057 - platinumaltaria ONLINE
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(11/13/2015) [-]
Get back into it. Make friends on here, then try going out a little, just walk around and shit. Get used to people.
#202061 to #202057 - enlightednatzie ONLINE
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(11/12/2015) [-]
Happened to me too brah. The onoy way out of it is simply to talk to people more.
#202064 to #202061 - rakogoki
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(11/12/2015) [-]
any tips with, well, talking to people? i feel like an outcast to society now, and the rural area i live isnt exactly stuffed with the talkative folk.
#202065 to #202064 - enlightednatzie ONLINE
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(11/12/2015) [-]
For me it was unemployment. I had to talk to alot of people to get a job and such
#202063 to #202061 - redandgreen
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(11/12/2015) [-]
Good for you
#202054 - drl
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(11/12/2015) [-]
im kinda sad
everything is changing around me
my best friend is going to the air force my other friend is off to college
my ex girlfriend is pregnant (not with mine)
im sad because its as if everyone is changing and going off in different directions wile i just stay the same
work in the same place go to the same bar week after week
everything is changing around me and i dont know what to do
i dont want things to change because im content with things the way they are but now i guess i am forced to
#202155 to #202054 - platinumaltaria ONLINE
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(11/13/2015) [-]
If you don't want to change then don't, but don't expect other people to stick around, they always leave.
#202130 to #202054 - serhiy
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(11/12/2015) [-]
Keane - Everybody's Changing
#202059 to #202054 - schurftinator
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(11/12/2015) [-]
change happens and is not always nice, but can be really good if you make the best out of it. it's ok to be sad right now, but changes also open up new opportunities!
#202056 to #202054 - confusedasian
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(11/12/2015) [-]
Gary Jules - Mad World  ( With lyrics ) Change is inevitable. You've probably changed too, but you're too focused watching others. You're forgetting about living your own life.
#202051 - anon
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(11/12/2015) [-]
Good sites to chat with random girls and meet up

?
#202112 to #202051 - joshlol
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(11/12/2015) [-]
funnyjunk

worked for posttwo
#202116 to #202112 - posttwo
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(11/12/2015) [-]
Eyyy lmao
#202077 to #202051 - paintskillz
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(11/12/2015) [-]
Not a site but Tinder works well if youre at least semi attractive
#202052 to #202051 - anon
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(11/12/2015) [-]
Wikipedia is pretty good for it

#202053 to #202052 - anon
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(11/12/2015) [-]
**anonymous used "*roll picture*"**
**anonymous rolled image** thanks
#202044 - prototypedaytona
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(11/12/2015) [-]
I think I want advice pertaining to girls.

I am a 6'2" blond-haired, blue-eyed male, I am fit, and my acne is long gone. Objectively, I fit a basic mold of attraction, but I can't do anything with it. I feel like acne for so long destroyed my self-confidence and self-image forever, so now I can't be informal with girls in a potentially romantic setting. When I decide I want to have a thing with a girl, it becomes 107x more difficult to interact with them (which is to say, flirtatiously). I REALLY want to be, though. I want to go on dates and hang out and take risks without rationalizing them like SO many other people, my friends included, but I can't.

How do I go about being "normal"? I don't want my heart to jump out of my chest whenever I see my crush. When I see her, and can talk to her privately, it might as well be freezing outside because I'm literally shaking, as if I'm shivering. It's not supposed to be rocket science. It's all fairly basic human emotion and behaviour to form close connections with the opposite sex, and yet I might as well be a cyborg or something. It's killing me. I over-analyze and always choose the "safe" option.
#202156 to #202044 - platinumaltaria ONLINE
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(11/13/2015) [-]
Here's a tip, you'll regret saying nothing waaaaay more than getting rejected. If you say something you potentially get laid, if not you just end up in the same place, but wondering. I myself am an expert on rejection. Take one chance.
#202049 to #202044 - psychadelicace
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(11/12/2015) [-]
Any proud german girl would be happy to have you
#202048 to #202044 - sugoi
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(11/12/2015) [-]
#202046 to #202044 - nigerianprince
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(11/12/2015) [-]
The best tip i can give, don't put the pussy on the pedestal, force yourself to talk to your crushes like you would to any other friend. Trick your mind into thinking you're just talking to a friend.
#202047 to #202046 - hsm
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(11/12/2015) [-]
>dont put the pussy on the pedestal

yee, its 2015, time to put to pussy on the chainwax
#202029 - paparaiderfanjr
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(11/12/2015) [-]
This is my third time posting here I'm sorry about that I probably sound like an idiot most of the time anyway I need help yet again I have absolutely no friends or anyone I consider a friend and I'm socially akward as hell but I do have a girlfriend but she's so problematic it really sucks but I don't wanna break up cause I'm afraid I'm gonna fall into a deep depression if I'm not in it already and shes really the only person ive got but shes very narciccistic so please could someone help? (Sorry for any grammar/punctuation mistakes)
#202157 to #202029 - platinumaltaria ONLINE
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(11/13/2015) [-]
Do you love her?
#202160 to #202157 - paparaiderfanjr
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(11/13/2015) [-]
Yes
#202161 to #202160 - platinumaltaria ONLINE
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(11/13/2015) [-]
No idea why if she's that bad. Leave if you want...
#202162 to #202161 - paparaiderfanjr
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(11/13/2015) [-]
Wish I knew honestly
#202055 to #202029 - redandgreen
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(11/12/2015) [-]
If your girlfriend is a narcissist (really) you should leave her.
#202136 to #202055 - paparaiderfanjr
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(11/12/2015) [-]
I've considered it but I have no one to talk to and I'll be all alone
#202137 to #202136 - redandgreen
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(11/12/2015) [-]
If she really is a narcissist she'll fuck you up. I was in a relationship with someone like that for a while and it really made me doubt my self-worth. Just be careful x
#202138 to #202137 - paparaiderfanjr
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(11/12/2015) [-]
Okay I'll be careful thanks man I appreciate it
#202030 to #202029 - confusedasian
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(11/12/2015) [-]
So what do you want? Like do you just want friends? Or do you need help with something else, but you don't have anyone else to talk to?
#202031 to #202030 - paparaiderfanjr
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(11/12/2015) [-]
I want advice for what I should do
#202032 to #202031 - confusedasian
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(11/12/2015) [-]
And what do you want to do?
#202033 to #202032 - paparaiderfanjr
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(11/12/2015) [-]
I just want to be happy everyday is the same routine and schools stressfull and I don't have anyone to talk to so I bury myself in work and just go through the motions and I'm just sick of this
#202034 to #202033 - confusedasian
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(11/12/2015) [-]
Working isn't so bad. Get things done and such, but I see what you mean. Well, what do you want to talk about? How's it going?
#202035 to #202034 - paparaiderfanjr
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(11/12/2015) [-]
I guess but that doesn't change the fact that I have no friends and my gfs a narciccist but I guess and I'd like some advice on what I should do and not that we'll honestly wbu
#202036 to #202035 - confusedasian
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(11/12/2015) [-]
What about those people you said you don't consider a friend. What's wrong with them? Do you just not talk to them often? I really don't know what to say. I met my friend in college (Haven't seen each other in quite a long time since we both parted ways and have different majors.). We were in the same english class and sat next to each other. We worked together and he engaged. He was quite the go getter. If you're in school, you can try to make small talk with come classmates, alternatively you can do it with people you work with as well.

I'm playing Witcher 3
#202038 to #202036 - paparaiderfanjr
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(11/12/2015) [-]
I just talk to then for class stuff never about personal life so idk and it's not easy for me to socialize with people
cool how is it I've never played it
#202039 to #202038 - confusedasian
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(11/12/2015) [-]
You don't have to talk about personal life. Even just asking about class is a start. Or you can complain about your work. I find a lot of people like complaining about their work, so you can use that as a common grounds.

The game is alright, but I worry about everyone. They don't tell me if the people I help got a happy ending or not. Or what happens to the people I was mean or whatever. Like I kicked out a faerie troll thing out of a house (it was for the better. The townspeople would have killed her if she stayed anyways.) and they just left it at that. There was another fearie troll thing in the swamp. Don't know if they met each other.
#202037 to #202036 - confusedasian
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(11/12/2015) [-]
Forgot to say, but small talk could go a long way. Imagine a snowball you made with your hand and you roll it around in the snow. Even better if you've played the game touch my katamari, you get my metaphor.
#202040 to #202037 - paparaiderfanjr
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(11/12/2015) [-]
Okay I'll consider it thanks man I really appreciate it and that sounds pretty interesting and I do know katmai I will forever imagine that now hehe
#202041 to #202040 - paparaiderfanjr
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(11/12/2015) [-]
Katamari*
#202007 - yourinvisiblegf
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(11/11/2015) [-]
must talk to girl, relaunch the conversation

throw some ideas at me FJ
D=
#202026 to #202007 - dreygur
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(11/11/2015) [-]
challenge her to a dick-measuring contest
#202014 to #202007 - anon
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(11/11/2015) [-]
challenge her to a duel.

establish yourself as the alpha.
#202015 to #202014 - yourinvisiblegf
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(11/11/2015) [-]
thanks for the inspiration
#202009 to #202007 - mondamini
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(11/11/2015) [-]
Just write 'sup'. Works every time
#202016 to #202009 - hsm
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(11/11/2015) [-]
"sup"
"do i know you?"


you lied to me
#202017 to #202016 - mondamini
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(11/11/2015) [-]
"Ye I'm that guy from that place you happen to know me from" "bitch" soz
#202018 to #202017 - hsm
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(11/11/2015) [-]
but she really doesnt know me, i've just been stalking her for 5 months without actual irl contact

help me master of romance
#202019 to #202018 - mondamini
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(11/11/2015) [-]
Need more info. How did you find out about her to begin ur stalking i will work my magic
#202020 to #202019 - hsm
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(11/11/2015) [-]
i saw her once in a mcdonald's and that's where it all began
#202021 to #202020 - mondamini
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(11/11/2015) [-]
"What? We talked outside McDonalds for like 20 minutes today then you added yourself on my facebook?"
#202022 to #202021 - hsm
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(11/11/2015) [-]
nice, but what if she is not a mentally damaged person
#202023 to #202022 - mondamini
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(11/11/2015) [-]
play the sympathy card like "Aw guess that girl gave me the wrong account, what a cunt" then follow up with something like "Was believable since she picked someone as cute as she was". I'm doin ma best here man
#202024 to #202023 - hsm
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(11/11/2015) [-]
thanks mr. master or romance
#202025 to #202024 - mondamini
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(11/11/2015) [-]
you are welcome mr. stalker of burds from McDonalds. how did you even get her name?
#202045 to #202025 - hsm
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(11/12/2015) [-]
one of her friends called her by her name, then it was only a matter of putting some filters on facebook like location and shit and boom, i got in
#202060 to #202045 - schurftinator
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(11/12/2015) [-]
use your super stalker skills to find out where she hangs out and 'accidentally' bump into her and strike up a conversation. it's creepy as shit, but still not as creepy as sending a random message to her online.
#202062 to #202060 - hsm
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(11/12/2015) [-]
o-ok
#201963 - cognosceteipsum
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(11/11/2015) [-]
Should one base ones self worth around external or internal things

Or just nothing, just feel like you're worthy all the time.
#202158 to #201963 - platinumaltaria ONLINE
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(11/13/2015) [-]
Just base it on whatever you think, that's what everyone else does.
#202004 to #201963 - hsm
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(11/11/2015) [-]
Loreal
because im worth it
#202003 to #201963 - dehumanizer ONLINE
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(11/11/2015) [-]
only meems
#202001 to #201963 - paintskillz
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(11/11/2015) [-]
Self worth in modern society is a combination of those things unless you're a monk or something.
I personally judge my self worth as my physical appearance, random skills and hobbies, academics, social life nearly non-existent and my material possessions
#201973 to #201963 - anon
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something something psychology
intrinsic vs extrinsic rewards

my answer: both are important

feeling like you're worthy all the time seems arrogant
#201974 to #201973 - cognosceteipsum
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(11/11/2015) [-]
And it's naturally not gonna work for a lot of people
#201980 to #201974 - anon
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(11/11/2015) [-]
yeah, life is complicated

I think balance is key
#201970 to #201967 - confusedasian
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(11/11/2015) [-]
"I do what I want"
#201960 - cognosceteipsum
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(11/11/2015) [-]
What's the prio for you in a girl?

For me it's personality > hair > ass > face > boobs

There's a very fine line between each of them though because all of them is important. Oh, and hair is really important. Short haired girls make my dick slump like fuck
#202043 to #201960 - ferrettamer
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(11/12/2015) [-]
body (ie not fat and not taller than me cause I'm insecure) > personality > face > hair > ass >tits
#202042 to #201960 - plantain
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(11/12/2015) [-]
personality > face > hair > boobs > ass
#202006 to #201960 - charizarddad ONLINE
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(11/11/2015) [-]
interests > dignity > face > hair > ass > tits
#202002 to #201960 - paintskillz
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(11/11/2015) [-]
Relationship with family > Does well in school > Shoe size
jk Face > personality > Ass/tiddies etc
#201964 to #201960 - confusedasian
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(11/11/2015) [-]
Hair > Eyes > Voice > Personality.
#201965 to #201964 - cognosceteipsum
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(11/11/2015) [-]
.... None of her.. ass n tits?
#201968 to #201965 - confusedasian
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(11/11/2015) [-]
No. Small penis, I have no right to judge them to begin with.
#201969 to #201968 - cognosceteipsum
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(11/11/2015) [-]
Ah right, you're azn
#201971 to #201969 - confusedasian
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I'm pretty sure I just have shitty genes, but okay.
#201972 to #201971 - cognosceteipsum
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(11/11/2015) [-]
Maybe it's a combination of both.
#201975 to #201972 - confusedasian
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Nah, other Asians I've seen are fine. Doesn't help that when I was younger, my mother's daughter would get in fights with me and she would always low blow me. I'm sure that stunted my growth, but whatever. It is what it is.
#201976 to #201975 - cognosceteipsum
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(11/11/2015) [-]
I see...
#201961 to #201960 - youraveragesupport
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(11/11/2015) [-]
I like for them to be breathing most of the time, but that's about it
But in all seriousness, they just have to be kind and patient with me and look better than a 4
#201954 - paintskillz
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(11/11/2015) [-]
Met some girl on tinder and we hit it off great and ended up sleeping with eachother. Problem is I ended up lasting 2 minutes and thats a generous 2 minutes . Are my chances for future intercourse ruined with her?
#202094 to #201954 - lgninjaleetful
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(11/12/2015) [-]
you cant go multiple rounds mate? weeeeeeaaak
#201996 to #201954 - redandgreen
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(11/11/2015) [-]
Try and make a joke of it! You might have a second chance if she likes you.
#201998 to #201996 - paintskillz
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(11/11/2015) [-]
Thanks man and I think I just wont bring it up and see how things go
#201984 to #201954 - dehumanizer ONLINE
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(11/11/2015) [-]
kill yourself
#201995 to #201984 - paintskillz
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(11/11/2015) [-]
thank
#202000 to #201995 - dehumanizer ONLINE
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(11/11/2015) [-]
>muh gfs
>muh smex

#202084 to #202000 - lgninjaleetful
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(11/12/2015) [-]
some virgin is mad doe
#202085 to #202084 - dehumanizer ONLINE
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(11/12/2015) [-]
>implying theres is LITTERALY anything wrong with beeing a virgin
>in 2015
#202086 to #202085 - lgninjaleetful
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(11/12/2015) [-]
means you failed at your one true evolutionary purpose.

god knows you wont amount to much else faggot
#202087 to #202086 - dehumanizer ONLINE
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(11/12/2015) [-]
nigga theres still time, im young
#202088 to #202087 - lgninjaleetful
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(11/12/2015) [-]
well, tomorrow you''ll wake up and still be ugly. same from a year from now and so on
#202089 to #202088 - dehumanizer ONLINE
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(11/12/2015) [-]
how do you know if im ugly?
#202090 to #202089 - lgninjaleetful
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I don't im just tryin to put you down mate.

dont let me put you down mate.

also dream girl will never love you
#202091 to #202090 - dehumanizer ONLINE
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(11/12/2015) [-]
pfft try your best

also are u the anon thats been harassing me for the past few months
#202092 to #202091 - lgninjaleetful
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(11/12/2015) [-]
>harassing on the internet*

breh, grow some skin faggot
#202096 to #202092 - dehumanizer ONLINE
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so it was you you nigger cuck fag shitbag
#202099 to #202096 - lgninjaleetful
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I never confirmed nor denied shitter.

but yeah it was me
#202101 to #202099 - lgninjaleetful
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#202100 to #202099 - dehumanizer ONLINE
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but why you do this
#202102 to #202100 - lgninjaleetful
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why do you shit post on advice?

no one knows mate
#202103 to #202102 - dehumanizer ONLINE
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(11/12/2015) [-]
no its diffrent, i only shit post against normies because they should kill themselves,
troubled people like myeslf i try to help

however you double nigger have no reason to shit on me like this
#202128 to #202103 - lgninjaleetful
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what? maybe the people you shit post are troubled? how the fuck can you just call some normies and some troubled? you are just an asshole. you deserve nothing.
#202174 to #202128 - dehumanizer ONLINE
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(11/13/2015) [-]
>muh girlfriedn

litteraly get out, they are the ones deserving someting and you are a fucking cuck for judging me
#201962 to #201954 - youraveragesupport
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(11/11/2015) [-]
If she enjoyed your company and she had a moderate time when you banged, you have a chance I think
#201997 to #201962 - paintskillz
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(11/11/2015) [-]
Yeah she wants to hang out again today so I think I'm in the clear. It's been nearly 3 years since the last time I had sex so the premature thing is probably expected. What didnt help is that we were both drunk so I'm sure that also factored in
#202028 to #201997 - redandgreen
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(11/11/2015) [-]
3 years? Wow. It's been about ten days for me and I'm about to gouge my eyes out.
#202050 to #202028 - misticalz
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(11/12/2015) [-]
I feel u
#201945 - dingdongsingsong
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I hate being single, and I'm 80% the reason i am single, I turn down every guy who asks me for different reasons but i have that empty feeling a lot.
I just don't wanna say yes to a guy because im lonely.
wat
do
#202058 to #201945 - gameboyblue
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I'm lonely too but I wont go out looking for a girl. I feel like if it were a real thing we'd just fall into place with each other. So are you really lonely or just sad you haven't found someone you click with
#202010 to #201945 - joshlol
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#202011 to #202010 - dingdongsingsong
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for sure
#202012 to #202011 - joshlol
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#201985 to #201945 - dehumanizer ONLINE
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suicide
#201957 to #201945 - confusedasian
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(11/11/2015) [-]
Aren't you muslim and you can't date anyone that isn't muslim? Think I remember it was you that said that a while back.
#201982 to #201957 - dingdongsingsong
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lmao
I am muslim but I'm not an extremist or anything, technically im not supposed to be dating at all but i just follow my religion with the important things, pray , no alcohol, no sex before marriage etc etc
#201956 to #201945 - yourinvisiblegf
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what's the stress? prefer to be sad and lonely? lol
there is no such thing as "soulmate"
maybe you think the guys who ask you out don't match your value
well then, get your fingers out of your ass and work just a little to find a guy who seems better by your standards
#201978 to #201956 - dingdongsingsong
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How does one "find"
#201986 to #201978 - yourinvisiblegf
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(11/11/2015) [-]
define your criteria
take interest in others
#201950 to #201945 - schurftinator
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(11/11/2015) [-]
maybe you just haven't met the right one yet, if you say you're turning them down for a variety of reasons. increase your search area? try online dating so you know their profile in advance so you can find what you're looking for?
#201951 to #201950 - dingdongsingsong
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(11/11/2015) [-]
What i want is so basic idk why i cant find it, i really just want someone to converse with laugh with, looks are only 40% to me, i've turned down a guy who was a model because his personality was kinda shit.
And online dating just seems sad tbh.
#201981 to #201951 - schurftinator
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(11/11/2015) [-]
I dunno, chatting up people online or chatting up people at the bar. I guess everyone has their own preference still though, probably the guy for you is out there and you just have to find one that clicks!
#201946 to #201945 - youraveragesupport
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Every guy that asks you isn't going to be good for you, you need to find someone who's right for you. It's hard to be single, but it's even harder to be in a relationship you don't like. You'll find the right one, just take the time to talk to them a lot, make friends with them, and make sure they'll make you happy.
#201947 to #201946 - dingdongsingsong
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My first and only relationship was over 2 years ago and it was a very unhappy one and im not one to care much for relationships or romance, just these days its kind of a void..
#201959 to #201947 - minutes
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(11/11/2015) [-]
If you can honestly say you don't care much for relationships, you shouldn't have one.
#201948 to #201947 - youraveragesupport
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Then maybe you just need a friend or something, someone who you can talk to whenever and all that.
#201949 to #201948 - dingdongsingsong
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I have tons of friends, close ones but there's still this fucking void, i even have someone i rely on emotionally but we cant be much because he's in a completely different continent.
I'm just never satisfied.
#201958 to #201949 - youraveragesupport
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(11/11/2015) [-]
Then it sounds like you just haven't found someone who you click with romantically yet. You could try just going on one or two dates with a couple guys, seeing if they end up working out, but otherwise, I think you might just have to take your time and find a guy who's right for you. It blows, I know, but it's a hell of a lot better than getting your heart broken
#201940 - anon
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I want sex and I want to cuddle but I don't want to have any contact with anyone. What's wrong with me right now?
#202027 to #201940 - dreygur
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(11/11/2015) [-]
Stop jerking off for a while
#201987 to #201940 - dehumanizer ONLINE
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litteraly nothing
#202095 to #201987 - anon
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literally everything
#201991 to #201987 - anon
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(11/11/2015) [-]
Thank you
#201992 to #201991 - dehumanizer ONLINE
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more users of this place should strive to be like us
#202097 to #201992 - dehumanizer
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#201994 to #201992 - anon
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Do you know who I am?
#202098 to #201994 - dehumanizer ONLINE
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anon? FUCK NIGGER BE MROE PERCISE
#201944 to #201940 - schurftinator
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(11/11/2015) [-]
there's a difference between sexuality, intimacy, and romantic love. often they go together, and are not exclusive to one person, but not necessarily. which is why you can be in love and happy with someone, and still feel a sexual desire for someone else.

not sure if this is what you mean though