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User avatar #206884 - giggagigga
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I am procrastinating hard how do I stop I can't leave my room and have hours to finish I fucked up
User avatar #206889 to #206884 - charlielkrei
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What exactly are you procrastinating about? Hard to give advice without proper context.
User avatar #206890 to #206889 - giggagigga
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hw book summary stuff
User avatar #206892 to #206890 - charlielkrei
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Procrastination about HW is a very common occurrence and I know of a couple things that have helped me.

1. Talk with someone about the thing you need to do, this can has the effect of giving you some inspiration to get it done.
2 Focus on the repercussions. Go far down the line of what things could domino into. When I was still in school I would do this to scare myself into doing it.
3. Stop complaining and just do it. It sounds harsh but it can really be the best way to get over it. Force yourself if you have to. Shit takes discipline but it gets the job done.

How much do you have to get done in what amount of time?
User avatar #206893 to #206892 - giggagigga
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Thanks I should be done in ten ill just cram
User avatar #206894 to #206893 - charlielkrei
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If you have trouble focusing, try melody based music. Happy to help.
User avatar #206871 - arrozconleche
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Need educational advice. I'm in the middle of Finals week so I'm essentially cramming the lesser known classes (who gives a fuck about US Government) What should I do to cram/study. typical methods have constantly given me Fs for tests, so I'm wondering if there are any experienced cram wizards out there that know their shit
User avatar #206879 to #206871 - machiavellianhumor
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music is proven to help retain more. play some melodic music that will help you keep things to a beat

also the best way is to take breaks. cramming doesnt work. your brain processes's information a lot when you're at rest. Especially when we sleep is when our brain downloads the days info. so you're actually still getting info as you sleep. But that's also why cramming rarely works cause your brain never downloads the information.

the way i study. I skim through the info once to get a broad stroke of all the information needed. I learn which sections of the material i really am lost on but don't spend too much time learning it yet. just get through it. then go through the materal again this time with a little bit more focus on the areas i know i'm struggling with.

flash cards and stuff is also a good way. but really the breaks are just as important as the studying. same as when you working out. you need rest days to let your muscles heal and bulk up
#206870 - murrlogic
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User avatar #206891 to #206870 - mondominiman
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That entire board looks like one giant circle jerk
User avatar #206877 to #206870 - alstorp
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Fucking preach, dude
User avatar #206876 to #206870 - sugoi
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Stahp
User avatar #206869 - kijajouteh
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Need fashion advice, what kind of jacket should I get that looks decent? I was thinking a peacoat. What's in style I guess?
User avatar #206880 to #206869 - machiavellianhumor
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honestly the biggest thing is what accessories you got with it. scarves and beanies and glasses means you're a hipster and work with a peacoat. if you a thug you don'tt want a peacoat
User avatar #206875 to #206869 - sugoi
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Yeah but everyone has a peacoat.
Get some abs and just go topless.
User avatar #206874 to #206869 - advice
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where do you live?
User avatar #206896 to #206874 - kijajouteh
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TN, so maybe more of a jacket tan an actual big coat.
#206860 - averagepenaus
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What do I do now?
Every time I talk to my ex-best friend I feel like shit. He makes me feel bad about myself and almost makes me want to cry. We both used to be very shy and not have many friends, but recently he got a lot of new friends and I'm still the same. I'm pretty bad at making new friends, but I do have a circle. He, however, is part of that circle too, and that's all I have. I noticed everyone in my circle started to not respect me or my opinion and ignore me more. Sometimes he's alright and we talk normally, but mostly he's just very toxic against me. I don't know what I did, never really made fun of him and always did him favors without asking for anything in return. Even used to hook him up with stuff that I did not need or use. I feel as if I don't have any real friends anymore. I've alienated myself from another circle that we used to get along really well for hanging a lot with him, and now I lost contact with them. I try to not let whatever he says or do get to me, but I just can't. It just ruins my mood for the rest of the day or even weeks. What should I do? At this moment I'm a bit down, sorry if I sound too emotional.
User avatar #206888 to #206860 - charlielkrei
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I feel like this comes down to the circumstances in the group of friends. Personally, the response differs one the subject on what kind of friends you're talking about. If they are online friends that you liked hanging around with a bit then it may be more prudent to try and make new friends, while trying to find someone from this group who feels the same way.

If they are IRL friends and they do this kind of shit in person then it becomes a bit harder to give advice about this. If the area you live is large enough you could probably make more friends eventually. But if you live in a smaller community these may be the only people who 'get you' so to speak.

The anon is right though, Toxic people should be removed from your group of friends and from your life entirely and without remorse. Even if it hurts to do at first, in the long run it will only help you. And if you need someone to talk to feel free to message me privately or give me some sort of third party medium to talk with you. I'm around quite a bit and love meeting new people, shy or not.
User avatar #206881 to #206860 - machiavellianhumor
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it's all about standing up for yourself "never asked him for things" that makes you a pet more than a friend. friendship is about give and take. Honestly it's about portraying your wants. And honestly if you don't have wants it's not really a respectable trait. And if you do show you have wants and he still doesn't support you then that's on him and you know he's a shitty friend. You gotta speak up man. Either 1. he will acknowledge it and change some things to make you feel more comfortable. or 2. he will not care and just call you a name or something. But at the end of the day taking action gets you respect. Wheather you are right or wrong speaking up gets you respect that you won't be played. Everyday you allow the disrespect to happen you look weaker. speak up, or beat his ass with a orange in a sock so it don't leave bruises. but doing something will make oyu feel better than how you feel now.

If you have to talk to the other guys in the group first to see where they stand so maybe they will have your back
User avatar #206867 to #206860 - giggagigga
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That happened to me. One group lets just call them 2 I barely spoke to the other 1 was growing away from me I had to go straight home so I couldn't hang out after school with them they got closer while pushing me away they added someone else who was such a
Fuckin asshole I stayed with 1 and always felt like shit so started talking to 2 we are now really good friends but its awkward to pass by 1 they act like they never knew me. You should just ignore them its better then being a backdrop to their conversations
#206866 to #206860 - anon id: 707f33da
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People like that are toxic and should be avoided.
If there's anyone in your group that you feel like they would listen to you, talk with them about how you're feeling. If they really are your friend, they'll try and help you. If not, you should cut ties with them and find new people.
#206858 - murrlogic
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1:30 in the afternoon guzzling a whole bottle of Coffee Creamer just to wake your ass up

Yes its as gross as it sounds. I have my 1st job interview for reappliance tomorrow. Gotta bring all this useless shit

>A resume w/ a cover letter
>A letter of recommendation
>A birth certificate
>Social Security Card
>Cali ID

Fuck off. Why do people even want to be grown-ups? The only enjoyable part of being a grown-up is drinking and after awhile it makes you wanna put a gun in your mouth.
User avatar #206916 to #206858 - topoftherock
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no one chooses to become an adult, aging doesn't work that way. humans are not parasites therefore it is not our purpose to leech off of others. get a job, start a business, or find a way to support yourself. otherwise you're a useless loser.
User avatar #206872 to #206858 - amonahan
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Its the real world. Its harsh and cruel and nobody cares about you. You gotta learn quick how to fight for yourself, stick up for those who cant do it themselves, and know when to do which. Schools out.
#206868 to #206858 - anon id: af85c25e
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>it makes you wanna put a gun in your mouth

you should
#206861 to #206858 - anon id: 1908218c
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wow, it's almost like your employer wants to know who the hell you are before giving you a job.
wow, it's almost like your employer wants to know who the hell you are before giving you a job.
#206851 - anon id: 707f33da
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What are you suppose to do when your boss doesn't trust you? I haven't done anything to make my boss feel like I'm untrustworthy but she still hovers over me and tells other employees to keep an eye out for me. She only acts this way with me.
User avatar #206873 to #206851 - amonahan
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Maybe she has the hots for you?
User avatar #206855 to #206851 - yourinvisiblegf
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your boss is a bitch?

talk with your coworkers
no need to insist on how good or not bad you are
just talk with them like a normal person (no austismo!)
and they'll realise themselves
#206853 to #206851 - saltybanana
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trust fall exercises?

just be yourself man. if you know you dont steal or do bad things in your work place. than there is no need to feel paranoid. just ignore the people watching you, and they will see that you're just there todo your job.

and if you are stealing shit, than just stay low for a time being.
#206859 to #206853 - anon id: 707f33da
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I haven't stolen or broken anything, I didn't even lie on my resume. I hate the fact that she's singled me out and I don't know why. I'm wondering if this is normal around other work places?
User avatar #206862 to #206859 - saltybanana
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are you the youngest one there in the work place? could be why

like i said just ignore it, shell slowly forget you, and pick someomne else. or someone pointed fingers at you saying you stole something
User avatar #206844 - jonandstuff
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I have never played a single metal gear solid, I was too poor when the firs tfew came up, however I am liking what I am hearing about the series. Is there a way to get the old games for pc? Are their hd remakes? Can I just start V without playing any in the past? Or should I read some wiki stuff so I can get caught up on the story before playing the new one? Basically, how should a guy hoping to get into Metal Gear Solid start? THis guy is me, and I only have a pc, no old consoles, they are packed away, somewhere.
User avatar #206848 to #206844 - focalanemo
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The Story of Metal Gear Solid in 7 Minutes (Until MGS V - The Phantom Pain) ➣ RagnarRox & ChaseFace Watch this and play V
The story in V is shit anyways and it doens't relate that much to the previous Metal gears other than some old characters.
User avatar #206863 to #206848 - jonandstuff
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I guess that's good for me, but kind of sad. Hmm.
User avatar #206865 to #206863 - focalanemo
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too bad they made V serious so we didn't get stuff like this Metal Gear Solid 3 HD - Ocelot Boss Fight - Gameplay
User avatar #206864 to #206863 - focalanemo
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Yeah but the gameplay is amazing! The missions are kind of repetitive after some time(definitely the side-ops).
But the fun is that are so many different ways to approach each mission and the game gives you a lot of freedom. Each mission also has secret objectives which are revealed after you have done the mission.
Next to that you have the multiplayer aspect of the game. Infiltrating other people's bases to make your own base better (this unlocks later in the game).
MGO online also released that is just the PvP deathmatch type in MG.

the only thing you really need to know for MGSV is that your private army which you build up in MGS Peace Walker with Miller gets destroyed. You want revenge for it.
#206846 to #206844 - drickz
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I heard you can watch Youtube compilation videos of the story from previous game to catch up to MGS:V.
#206835 - ieatbengay
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basic economics

how did they calculate firm B reaction function?
User avatar #206882 to #206835 - machiavellianhumor
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i think it's meant to say "if firm a produces 6 units for example"

#206822 - quilathe
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Hey guys, any tips on how to hire an escort safely? I am 21 and a virgin and need help.
User avatar #206883 to #206822 - machiavellianhumor
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tinder
User avatar #206843 to #206822 - jonandstuff
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So I saw you said you were ugly, if I may ask, why? Would you be willing to show me? I genuinely don't think ugly or pretty exist, no I'm not a white knight, but beauty is truly perception. There are people I don't find attractive, but I personally never say anyone is ugly, because I know there is always at least that one person who thinks that's nice.

It's also bravado, bro. Get some muscles, lose weight if that's an issue, not for the pussy, you shouldn't do it for that, that should just be a happy bonus. You do it for you, so you can look in the mirror and not look away immediately from the hate you feel when looking upon yourself.

Being a virgin at 21 must not be great, so I won't try to stop you from hiring a lady of the night, but I will say, as a guy who just recently had sex for the first time at 18 a year or so ago, I know how much it sucks, I kind of feel your pain. However, the best part of sex is getting it for a reason. Like if she loves you, if you smooth talked her, if she likes your style, or looks, or the kind of man you show yourself off as.

I have been in the boat of hating my looks, used to be 60 pounds overweight, now I am fit, and that fat was actually the only thing that made me unattractive. Once I shed it, I became a new man, I seriously have tons of girls who used to read and not reply to my messages now messaging me first. It sort of hurts though, you know, realizing that looks really matter to women more than men, but fuck it, any guy can be good looking with some work. Makeup is also perfectly okay, in my opinion. I've never done it, maybe some guy liner just for the hell of it when my friend wanted to practice makeup shit, but if women can fool you into thinking they are better looking, you can too. Fair play. Just don't make it obvious like women do. Natural skin colors, no reds or blues, black is okay if you are into the black look.

I will sound like some touchy feeley faggot here, but the best part of sex is the romantic connection, the love, the intimacy, when it's just a one nighter or something it's just the fucking. Some guys like that, bang, sleep, someone sneaks out while the other sleeps. Personally though, I like waking up to her in the morning, occasionally you will see her looking at you while you sleep, with love in her eyes. That will be the sweetest feeling. If yo uwant someone for a quick bang, I would actually say get a fancy call girl over some club slut, because that club slut goes home drunk with the first guy she fancies, no talk of "Hey, before I drunkingly let you plow me, are you clean?" . However, the fancy call girls, they are not hoes on the street corner, they are probably richer than you, their body is a gold mine, and their pimp also doesn't want his high class clients to get pissed and go elsewhere because he saw some infection or diseases. That pimp is going to make sure all those girls are clean as a virgin who lives in a bubble.

Hope this helps, however, if you could tell me more about yourself, if yo uthink my advice isn't shit but it isn't good for you personally, we can talk and I can give you some personalized advice. I can even voice you on skype, hell, I am better on voice, typing my thoughts is harder than speaking them.
#206838 to #206822 - anon id: 64ec9a3f
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try 4chan possibly /r9k/
people wont judge you for hiring one(maybe, actually they might) and some have experience with that sort of thing
User avatar #206834 to #206822 - sammiemoore
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Why would you hire a hooker to lose your virginity to? That's really sad...I can only assume you want to do it to lose your virginity because its "not cool to have it"...which is really far from the truth. It's not a bad thing to be a virgin. Just means you've never found the right person, and you will some day. Hopefully its with someone genuine and you're with for a long time.
I'm 22 and wish I was a virgin...lol Lost mine at 13 (yes, a young age) and regret it still lol. Don't rush it man. Good things happen to those who wait.
User avatar #206827 to #206822 - ieatbengay
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yeah do it the free way, it's cheaper and more satisfying, i can't see an outcome from hiring an escort that doesn't make your life more depressing, the sex is gonna be awful as it's your first time and it won't be worth the money

#206823 to #206822 - anon id: a08dcaee
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Why risk something Illegal when all you need is alcohol and a woman with questionable morals?

Just go to the bar and don't be a creep.
#206826 to #206823 - quilathe
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im ugly
User avatar #206832 to #206826 - dorkledumbs
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The alcohol will cure that temporarily
#206821 - murrlogic
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Having Comcast Internet in general is the end all be all definitive 1st world problem of all time.

Seriously why would Comcast think this is even remotely OK? Comcast employees are either in total denial their provider is fucking garbage or they know fully well their product is garbage and still expect you to buy it.

I can't even get maybe a cup full of bandwith in my room.
User avatar #206840 to #206821 - xXThatxOnexGuyXx
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Depends on your area, I'm assuming...

Where I used to live, Verizon Fios wasn't available and their DSL became literal trash. (Used to be good, then it just stopped working altogether.)

The only other provider was Comcast... Got the blast package... 120mbps/ 60mbps.
Never lost connection or had problems.

That was two years ago, though. I'm sure Comcast is trying to add in random fees just 'cause now...
#206816 - anon id: a0b83ce3
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I've been single for over a year, and even though I don't 'need' a relationship because I'm only 17, I kinda long for an emotional connection with someone. Somebody tell me something that will help me get over myself.
#206839 to #206816 - smartythechicken
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i liked to play online vidya and get friends and shit, and we would regularly fuck around. you can bet your bottom dollar that you can find someone with your humor on the internet, whether it be social media or GTAV
User avatar #206828 to #206816 - ieatbengay
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honest conversations with friends or relatives
User avatar #206818 to #206816 - sugoi
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Getting a waifu
#206815 - warofsodom
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Hey, guys! Right, Last few months I became obsessed with my height. I was 5'6-7" tall 3 months back, and now I'm 5'10". I had a lucky growth spurt, and done a lot of exercise. 5'10" was my goal, but I don't feel thrilled, I feel depressed. I now wanna push my self to 6 foot, which won't happen, and it all started with that stupid shitty post I saw on here about people under are certain height are unwanted. It got to me really bad. I know this may sound pathetic because there are people shorter than me, with similar concerns I just would appreciate some advice on how to get over this self consciousness with my height Similar ordeal with appearance, and other body things, but height is getting under my skin the most Any tips, or ideas on how to be less self conscious? Thanks in advance
#206847 to #206815 - drickz
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They're idiots. Your height is alright. People won't like or dislike you because of how tall you are.
User avatar #206841 to #206815 - xXThatxOnexGuyXx
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Mate, you're almost 6 feet tall.
You're taller than the average female. By at least 5 inches...

Also, not every circle-jerk on the internet represents life outside of it....
User avatar #206833 to #206815 - sammiemoore
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I have a similar issue, but its not height its weight.
Honestly if someone can't enjoy who you are and dislikes you, writes you off, for something so stupid and menial then they aren't worth your time.
Sadly for you its something more on the "non-changable" side.
For me, I get "lose weight then we'll talk, kk?"
If a guy points to that statement, he really isn't worth my time. So if someones writing you off for "being short", which you're not in my opinion, they aren't worth your time. People with a "set of standards" are usually shallow people who cry about not having a "good boy/girl", yet blow off someone genuine due to idiotic things.
Don't take it so hard hun, height isn't everything.
User avatar #206903 to #206833 - warofsodom
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You know what, that was actually really helpful, and a good point.
I'm sorry that you get problems for your weight, that's pretty harsh :/
I'm just trying to be a bit more positive in myself somehow. I really hope your positive about yourself, atleast
User avatar #206922 to #206903 - sammiemoore
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Shouldn't have to change yourself to please the desires of others. Looks are menial, they go away after years. The mind is a beautiful thing, and should be more desired then body or money. But again, people are selfish and only think about themselves when it comes to relationships.
User avatar #206920 to #206903 - sammiemoore
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It's alright.
I've dealt with it for years, the backlash for being heavy. It's something I am honestly used to sadly. lol I've had 1 guy say "I'd date you, but I have standards", but still want to fuck...but now that I told him I'm going to school and will be put into a weight-loss program, he's all of a sudden interested in dating WHEN I GET BACK. lol People are selfish, and only think of themselves when it comes to relationships.
I wouldnt care if I guy told me "your weight is an issue, it needs to be fixed", but its what they do about it is what tells me whether or not they're worth my time. I think if they honestly love/like me, they'll stay around and be a support then a hindrance to me losing weight. Not, "Lose weight then we'll see" like..you like me, like who I am, but my weight is the dealbreaker? really? > People are stupid lol

It's sometimes hard to be positive when everyone around you is negative. Think of yourself first, and what YOU want and what YOU feel comfortable with, before the desires of others and how they want you.
User avatar #206928 to #206920 - warofsodom
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People have there own views and desires, but there is no need to be horrible.
Sounds like you got some bad ones, dude. I'm sorry to hear.
I've only gotten "you're not tall enough" and "Can't stand long hair" to be honest.
I think in the long run, it's more important to lose weight for your health more than appearance, and you have a great point. They should stick through it with you, it would prove a lot, I suppose, and it's a positive all around. I had an ex- who help my Anorexia, and it was a great moral support.
User avatar #206953 to #206928 - sammiemoore
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Bah. Your height is fine, and long hair on a man is sexy as fuck. Lol
User avatar #206829 to #206815 - ieatbengay
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that's the problem with this kind of obsession, you're never satisfied, wish/try to do something impressive not just be tall
#206825 to #206815 - anon id: 1908218c
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the kind of people that care about something you cannot possibly change and act like it's your fault are not people you want to associate with.
User avatar #206819 to #206815 - sugoi
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Move to a country full of shorter people, maybe China or something.
Im pretty sure that short people hate thing is mainly focused around America and isn't that big of a deal elsewhere. I mean its a factor yeah but theres no outright hatred for short guys.
#206804 - anon id: 8c4f1b03
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Semi serious mostly joking question. Been out of a job since September. Fiancee passed away. Need to start getting out of the house again. Anyone know of anywhere hiring in the Houston area?
User avatar #206842 to #206804 - xXThatxOnexGuyXx
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Amazon Fulfillment?
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User avatar #206820 to #206804 - sugoi
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This is not the classifieds
User avatar #206799 - mion
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I need some words of encouragement please, fellow funnyjunkies because this day started okayish and turned pretty shitty within its span.

I'm a 21 y/o college student. I'm in debt at the students' loan bureau with about another 1.7k (I managed to pay off 700 by now). I have a part time job with 5 shifts changing each day, i.e. I could be night shift on day one and noon shift on day two. I also work very irregularly, i.e. sometimes 4 days a week, sometimes only two or so.
I'm stressed out A LOT. My doc has diagnosed me with high BP earlier last week, so now I'm on diet, too, since I'm a fatso (about 128kg), I pretty much am a stress eater.
At least he finally recognized my lack of iodine and gave me iodine pills again, I'll hope that I'll feel a little bit better once I started taking them again.
What really did it for me was the news that I have a sacrococcygeal fistula and need to get surgery asap. My orthopedician wants to cut it up and send me home, but since both my parents work in shifts as well, no one would be at home to take care of me for the first 24 - 48 hours, which means I need to go to the hospital and be tended there.
Which also means that I'm going to be expelled from some of my college courses due to compulsory attendance policy 2 weeks before my finals start.
And thanks to post OP, which might need up to half a year to fully heal and seal up again, I might not be able to work for that period, which means I can't pay off my debt and will probably get fine after fine until I payed all that shit off.
I'm just seriously stressed out at the moment because I've been trying really hard to pull my shit and myself together for the last six months, but I really just wanna give up on everything, curl up and bawl my eyes out like a little bitch.
User avatar #206830 to #206799 - ieatbengay
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tl;dr?
User avatar #206800 to #206799 - amonahan
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Cry. Allow yourself to cry and get it all out. Sometimes its through our tears that we find a better way. You will feel better and you can restart tomorrow.
User avatar #206797 - mikeypooh
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if a homeless person doesnt have a social security number in the us, can they still get one
User avatar #206805 to #206797 - cronos
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I assume it's for an adult. Minor details vary from location to location, but here's the general information you'll need.
www.socialsecurity.gov/ssnumber/ss5doc.htm

I got mine replaced about 7 years ago. Really easy process
User avatar #206808 to #206805 - mikeypooh
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your homeless?
User avatar #206809 to #206808 - cronos
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I was at the time.
User avatar #206810 to #206809 - mikeypooh
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what if they dont have an documents, like if his parents were able to build a house in the woods and was born there
User avatar #206813 to #206810 - cronos
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Are we speaking hypothetically? If this person went their whole life without proper contact with any form of government, then I'm pretty sure they're fucked, unfortunately.
#206791 - anon id: a08dcaee
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My mom is such a fucking cunt.

Tirelessly, everyday and without fail, she will just nag all day until i'm out of range. This morning, in a two minute span she called my name 30 times to get me out of bed. It was like 9 in the morning and she acts like i'm asleep all day. All day on saturday I was volunteering because she told me to, then I did it on sunday because she told me to, and then today I did all the fucking shit she wanted because the cunty piece of shit had a day off, and then she nags and complains that I don't have a full-time job yet, when she is the main thing preventing me from getting one. Plus I graduated with my bachelor's in december and she acts like i've been totally unemployed for a year. I already have a fucking part time job to begin with, but i'm looking for a career pertaining to my major. Her favorite fucking thing in the world is to promise people that she'll do a million fucking things, and then she passes off 80% of the work to me and she'll take credit for all of it. She is such a controlling, manipulative piece of fucking scum that I don't even know what to do with myself around her so I just leave and try to spend as much time at a friend's or the gym or just anywhere. One time In the summer I came home and just slept in the backyard just so I wouldn't have to fucking see her.


I didn't really need advice, just venting.
User avatar #206801 to #206791 - amonahan
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Work to getting a full time job and move out. Will it suck? Yes. But you will have 100% independance and you can live you life on your schedule and do what you want.
User avatar #206796 to #206791 - advice
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everyone needs a little of me ;)
User avatar #206792 to #206791 - animango
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Everybody has mommy issues and the only advice I have is that distance from her will help.
#206790 - anon id: 23d7864e
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I've been on fj for like two years and I don't have any internet friends how the hell do you get friends on fj do u know them in real life
User avatar #206831 to #206790 - ieatbengay
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i've been here for nearly 10 years and i don't have any friends 8)

User avatar #206802 to #206790 - amonahan
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Making friends on the internet is hard the same way online relationships are. There needs to be a physical presence for a relationship/friendship to truly last. Try to make an effort to meet FJers in your area and play games with them.
User avatar #206793 to #206790 - animango
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There's a friend request button that you should look into. But really internet friends are overrated, only .0001% of internet friends become super close and most of the time it's just people to play video games with. The loner life is where it's at.
#206789 - murrlogic
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This 3 day weekend has been fucking awful. January in general is one of the worst months the others being September and December.

Someone went over to VOICES and completely trashed the place. Garbage, Dirty Dishes, and Discarded food all over the fucking place. It brought back those fucking rats we’ve been trying to kill I know where the little bastards are hiding now they’re giving birth in the chimney. Billy Jean was closing captain on Friday and told me she didn’t know what I was talking about which means she did a shit job at closing the center or she designated some retard like Carlos to do Trash and he made an even bigger mess.

Then last night I had an ulcer attack from drinking too much alcohol. This was AWFUL! From Midnight-to 6 in the Goddamn morning I couldn’t do anything but hyperventilate in pure agony. I guzzled 3 bottles of Ginger Ale and all this accomplished was make my room sticky and disgusting.

Because of that incident I decided to skip the hiking trip I planned on Friday. I need to get anti-biotics to make sure this doesn’t happen again. And to make matters worse? My Ex finally figured out I’ve been telling my co-workers about her financial situation which she doesn’t need to be reminded of. For some reason she hates VOICES because they apparently fucked her over. No, quite the opposite she fucked herself over.
User avatar #206803 to #206789 - amonahan
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Life is a rollercoaster. You have shitty days. You have awesome days. Without 1 you wouldnt appreciate the other. Weather the bad days and celebrate the good ones. Keep your chin up and look for that good day, it could be right around the corner.
User avatar #206785 - thematthew
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User avatar #206845 to #206785 - jonandstuff
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It is context and how you say it. My mother says it, she is 38, not an old woman, and she pulls it off I think. It also depends on how you look and who you say it to. However, I am guessing since this is a poll you didn't need a written answer. However, I would say yes and no. Context.
User avatar #206786 to #206785 - thematthew
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tie breaker round