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#204919 - enlightednatzie
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(12/16/2015) [-]
Well, time to go to school lads!
#204910 - dvmaster
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#204909 - sweetbutteryjesus
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(12/16/2015) [-]
(American)
Going to college next year (class of 2020)
Any advice?
#204974 to #204909 - ieatbengay
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(12/17/2015) [-]
take part in a lot of things and make a lot of friends at the start

the later you leave it the harder it gets
#204917 to #204909 - confusedasian
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(12/16/2015) [-]
Don't believe those retarded ass kids who say college is expensive. There's a shit ton of free money out there, scholarships that are just there (example, a church near where I live gave out money to people going to college.), there's different ways to go and save money. All in all if you play smart, you'll do fine.

Money-wise:
First, unless you already got scholarships lined up, I don't recommend you starting a university. Start with a community college. Go there and get the general studies/pre-requisites out of the way. Also, community college is a nice way to "break into the scene" and get a feel of how things work in college.

Second, talk to your guidance counselors, they'll point you in the right direction, but don't take their words to heart. Lets say you're like me, okay? You're going for an associates in computer programming and analysis. I get set up with the guidance counselors, but after that I want to look for the tech department on the campus and talk to the advisers there. Guidance counselors can show me the way, but it's the advisers that will help me take the best road. You understand what I mean? Become good friends with your department advisers. If you're in tech like me, tech department. If you're in business, business department. There are different sections in college campuses, just like the different areas at your high school. Like math will be on one side, reading on another, so on so forth.

Third, community college is cheap. I'm literally getting payed to go to college because fafsa gives me just a tad bit too much money. But hey, I'm not complaining. Extra money to help pay bills or buy video games.

Fourth, fafsa. Absolutely try to sign up for it. Even if you don't think you qualify, it never hurts to try. If you need help with it, give me a buzz. I've done it numerous times. It's fairly straight forward, but triple check to make sure the information you're putting in is correct.

Fifth, read fafsa very carefully. First year when I just started, I accidentally agreed to a loan. Not a big deal. I only owe them $4500~ give or take, but you can bet your holy ass I am reading carefully everything I'm signing.

It's really not that expensive. Play smart and you'll be fine. You asking for tips is a great thing.


Education/class:
If you're still in high school and going immediately after you graduate, keep reading. If you're taking a break after graduating (I personally took a year off because of reasons.), skip this and go to the next paragraph. If you're going straight after high school, the classes are no problem in terms of work load. Of course, it all comes down to your professors (rate my professors is cool, but take their ratings with a grain of salt. One of the reviews I read complained that the professor was too relaxed. Yeah, take that site with a grain of sale.). Sign up for as many as you can handle, but don't exert yourself too much. Also, judge how much you can afford for that semester. Fafsa gives you money, but your college divides that money for each semester. Say, I get $3000. My school cuts that in half so that my fall semester, I have $1500 for classes. In spring semester, I get the other $1500.

If you're taking a break and then coming back, I would suggest a minimum of three classes. Not a whole lot to over whelm you, but it's enough to get you back into the flow of things. Now again, it also depends on the professors. I was fortunate enough to have some cool professors and a pretty relaxed work load. I personally took four classes.
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#204905 - murrlogic
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(12/16/2015) [-]
Sometimes I like to get shitfaced drunk and watch cooking videos on Youube. Today I tried to make a "spread" or a Garbage box. A Garbage box is mixing food together that doesn't sound great but turns out to be OK like Marshmallows and Hotdogs

I put Doritos and HashBrowns together...0/10 texture tasted like uncooked rice.

Meanwhile in other news I read through Jason Laqua's mail at work. He threw it away so he didn't want it. He's 10K in debt. Its all DUI's and unpaid allimony payments.

Dumb fucker needs to get his shit together he;s on strike 2. One more strike and its 20 to life.
#204959 to #204905 - anon
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(12/17/2015) [-]
"Dumb fucker needs to get his shit together"
I don't think he's the only one.
#204958 to #204905 - anon
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(12/17/2015) [-]
"Dumb fucker needs to get his shit together"
He isn't the only one.
#204911 to #204905 - anon
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(12/16/2015) [-]
>read through Jason Laqua's mai

fucking hell dude, you went through the trash?

that's private stuff you dense fuck, would you like it if I read through your mail?

do you ever re-read what you're about to post and think "wow, I'm a terrible human being, maybe I shouldn't post this"
#204912 to #204911 - murrlogic
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(12/16/2015) [-]
What mail?

I'm not under any sort of mailing service. + I have his service provider and chances are he's gonna deal his shitty Xanex in the center.
#204913 to #204912 - anon
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(12/16/2015) [-]
that mail isn't addressed to you bro, you can't do that, especially when he didn't give permission. it's not just the Postal service that isn't allowed to look.
#204914 to #204913 - murrlogic
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(12/16/2015) [-]
A- He didn't want it
B- Its my job to report what he threw away
C- It got shredded afterwards
#204915 to #204914 - anon
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(12/16/2015) [-]
even if it is your job to report it, why would you post it here along with his full name?
#204916 to #204915 - murrlogic
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(12/16/2015) [-]
Because it doesn't matter. I guarantee you he's gonna get his third strike and learn life doesn't cater to dipshits.
#204922 to #204916 - alstorp
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(12/16/2015) [-]
You're about to find that out as well.
#204921 to #204916 - dreygur
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(12/16/2015) [-]
SAYS YOU?
#204906 to #204905 - anon
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(12/16/2015) [-]
so what advice did you need?
#204952 to #204906 - darkbladept
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(12/17/2015) [-]
How to stop being a little bitch
#204899 - chocovich
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(12/16/2015) [-]
FJ serious dilemma atm and its making me feel sick.

Do I focus and work on what makes me happy, or focus on what makes me money but doesn't make me happy?
#204918 to #204899 - nigerianprince
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Coming from my self made millionaire mentor. Do what you are really passionate about. No matter what it is, if it's truly what you love and what you are passionate about, you will spend as much time possible doing that one thing. If you spend all this time doing what you love, you will become the best at it. And if you're the best at it, ill be fucking shocked if it doesn't make you wealthy.

If you know how to save your money and invest it wisely you can become wealthy doing anything.
#204908 to #204899 - karlKroenen
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(12/16/2015) [-]
I have a word of honest advice. If you are focusing on college and education...Major in something that will get and keep you a job, minor in something that you love. If your major completely satisfies both of those, then work twice as hard on that.
#204904 to #204899 - youngneil
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(12/16/2015) [-]
Money makes me happy and also helps keep me alive. I'd say money.
#204902 to #204899 - braveblue
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(12/16/2015) [-]
Do the things you don't want to do now, so you can do the things you want to do later.
#204900 to #204899 - anon
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(12/16/2015) [-]
Do what makes you happy. In the grand schemes of things money is nothing if you are not happy. Money is not going to stop you from feeling regret, remorse, or even suicidal.
#204901 to #204900 - chocovich
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(12/16/2015) [-]
But I need money to live. What makes me happy has a chance to make money but not right now, only later if things work out for me
#204881 - theruse
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(12/15/2015) [-]
I live in Virginia and it's so warm I can walk around outside with shorts and a t-shirt.

I am concerned. It's December, it should be frigid as fuck right now. Is this just a random freak occurance of weather or is something legitimately wrong?
#204903 to #204881 - badnewsanon
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(12/16/2015) [-]
Pennsylvania here. I saw a yellowjacket today. Its fucking crazy.
#204897 to #204881 - braveblue
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(12/15/2015) [-]
I know what you mean, I live in Ohio and I haven't seen snow yet.
#204887 to #204881 - plantain
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(12/15/2015) [-]
It's not going to be a white Christmas here in Virginia, I guess.
#204888 to #204887 - theruse
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(12/15/2015) [-]
Hey bro, you gonna go see Star Wars?
#204889 to #204888 - plantain
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(12/15/2015) [-]
My dad actually got invited to a private showing by a company whose computers he works on. Unfortunately, I have a dance on the same day and my cousin's coming over.

I guess I'll be going in January, and I might ask a girl I like to come with me. What about you?
#204891 to #204889 - theruse
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(12/15/2015) [-]
I'm going this Thursday to the Hampton Riverside IMAX. You gonna see it in IMAX or are you a casual?

If you can't see it in IMAX because of 3D, It's cool.
#204892 to #204891 - plantain
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(12/15/2015) [-]
The only good theater showing it in IMAX is in Brambleton, which is about an hour and a half away. I think the theater in the Apple Blossom Mall is showing it in IMAX, but that place sucks.
#204893 to #204892 - theruse
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(12/15/2015) [-]
Dude, go see it at the Smithsonian. Make sure you see it in a REAL IMAX theater, not at a fake one like Regal or AMC theaters have.
#204894 to #204893 - plantain
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(12/15/2015) [-]
I'll have to check it out, thanks. That's pretty far to drive (1:45), but it would be worth it.
#204895 to #204894 - theruse
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(12/15/2015) [-]
U bet ur ass it will. I will be driving an hour and a half to go see it.
#204890 to #204889 - theruse
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#204882 to #204881 - dorkledumbs
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(12/15/2015) [-]
Click to show spoiler
Probably both
Warning: Gore
#204883 to #204882 - theruse
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(12/15/2015) [-]
I think it will start ot get really cold in January and February, but it's never been this warm in December as long as I can remember.
#204884 to #204883 - dorkledumbs
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(12/15/2015) [-]
I'd assume it's a mix between climate change and this El Niño thing I keep hearing about
I'm no meteorologist though
#204886 to #204884 - theruse
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(12/15/2015) [-]
I looked it up, and apparently it IS El Nino making it warm. Out west there is cold and snow, but because of wind currents the way they are this year, it's making it warm. I'm not complaining, I like the warm, It was just a little concerning. OR maybe it's because I sleep in late and by the time I wake up the frigid morning air is gone, since I don't go to school anymore. At least we had our frost early this year.
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#204871 - dstone
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(12/15/2015) [-]
This is certainly an abuse of what this thread is for, as I should probably post in Austist...

About 2 years ago I found a magical server on minecraft, shit had custom classes, races and was hugely roleplay based. As in if you were talking out of character, you better have a good reason. Unfortunately it went down and I haven't found anything like it since. I've been hoping to start getting other people in RP MC like that but nothing so far...whatchu faggots think?
#204896 to #204871 - enlightednatzie
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(12/15/2015) [-]
Im a huge fan of griefing servers. There are no better joy than fnding an underground base full of valuable shit like diamonds to steal. Man, i nearly cummed my pants. Then i usually drew dicks or swastikas and put up signs with funny messages.

The best minecraft memory i have was when i was sneaking behind a dude in his wooden house and then killed him then stole his shit and then burned down his house. He was probably like 12 and hadnt realised that it was a griefing server and wanted me dead. Fun as fuck.
#204880 to #204871 - theruse
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(12/15/2015) [-]
I think you should find a new game to play that has RPing like an MMO.
#204869 - littlechickadee
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(12/15/2015) [-]
I am female and I literally can not make any female friends. I don't know why. I get a long with men just fine but I cant be friends because with guys anymore because I have trust issues from being stalked by some guy I tried to befriend. He knew I was in a relationship but still kept whining about how I friend zoned him.
I don't have much in common with a lot of females.
#204877 to #204869 - joshlol
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(12/15/2015) [-]
I only hang out with guys because it's less drama
#204875 to #204869 - anon
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(12/15/2015) [-]
I am a female too and owner of a vagina and I do not actively seek out friends of specific genders. Honestly, just make friends that you like. Fuck their genders because what matters is the friendship you gain from their company. Do not stress yourself out over the lack of having a female friend. It just does not matter. Focus on cherishing the friends you have. There is nothing wrong with you.
#204873 to #204869 - confusedasian
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(12/15/2015) [-]
"I am an owner of a vagina. I see that you too own a vagina. Let us talk about our vaginas."
#204867 - RADDDDs
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(12/15/2015) [-]
Da fok is wrong with me?

Every time, or most of the time, when my crush (3 years of knocking on her door) writes to me, I have to rush to evacuate to the bathroom.

Related but this was 1.5 yrs ago: When I saw her kissing someone else and sending him "qute I love you so much" videos I had diarrhea for 2 hours.
Is this something normal or I'm just what you would call "excited"?
#204878 to #204867 - anon
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(12/15/2015) [-]
same dude
what the fuck
minus the diarrhoea part
#204874 to #204867 - bosmerbooty
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(12/15/2015) [-]
I get the nervous shits too you're not alone.
#204870 to #204867 - anon
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(12/15/2015) [-]
that was a wild ride from start to finish.

you should probably see your doctor about it.
#204860 - fornowjr
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(12/15/2015) [-]
Someone please for the love of all that is holy, I need that picture where two people are in bed (a man and a woman). The man gets a boner, but then the woman gets a boner too. Then they start the epic battle.
#204862 to #204860 - anon
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(12/15/2015) [-]
>woman
#204864 to #204862 - fornowjr
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(12/15/2015) [-]
I love you, thanks anon.
#204857 - chewythewolftwo
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(12/15/2015) [-]
Looking for some business related advice. My girlfriend is an artist. She draws (Furries. Shh.) commissions to cover her rent. It goes pretty smoothly, but activity is kind of slow around the holidays. She already advertises on her main website, but what kind of suggestions would some of you business-oriented readers have to suggest?
#204866 to #204857 - shyyguy
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(12/15/2015) [-]
I'm assuming she has a Twitter account, right? If not, do that now. I've met 20-30 people in my industry through Twitter. Make sure to use relavant hashtags when tweeting, as well as browse the relavant hashtags and interact with other people's tweets.
#204868 to #204866 - chewythewolftwo
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That's a good call,she's got a twitter that she doesn't use much.
#204859 to #204857 - plantain
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(12/15/2015) [-]
HentaiFoundry and DeviantArt both frequently request commissions, but she'd have to put out some stuff for free before anyone would commission something.
#204861 to #204859 - chewythewolftwo
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Yeah, she's got a huge gallery already. I hadn't thought of HF, she's already got a DeviantArt and several other sites too
#204858 to #204857 - chewythewolftwo
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(12/15/2015) [-]
>Suggestions to suggest
GG, me
#204849 - rokkai
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(12/15/2015) [-]
okay i talked about it under somebody's else post but i think i need advice. here's the short version.
>girl added me on facebook because of my banter
>we were talking like we are friends fpr months even though we've only talked for a week
> want.mp 3
>girl's going on a student exchange program in a month
>wat do
in my opinion these things shouldn't be rushed but i really want to date her before she leaves for 5 months, and i got only 1.
any sound advices?
#204898 to #204849 - rokkai
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(12/15/2015) [-]
she doesn't speak to me if i don't say anything but if i bring out a random topic, she just speaks along and sends me selfies. why they gotta play games man
#204854 to #204849 - sushininja
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(12/15/2015) [-]
Ask her to go out. Movie then a dinner. Or ice skating if you're good enough. Other things.
If you only have a month idk if it could lead into a relationship, but if you want to at least go on a date then go for it
#204863 to #204854 - rokkai
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(12/15/2015) [-]
no i know what a date is. im sorry i should have mentioned that we haven't spoken in real life yet. which may make things awkward which is basically my biggest fear on this topic. still going to try though.
#204836 - platinumaltaria ONLINE
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(12/15/2015) [-]
So here's the fucking deal. Let's see if anyone around here can figure out a solution to this bullshit.

Dated a girl for a month, one day she ends it, no reason given or that anyone can see. Now, 8 months later, I'm still attached to her, even though I haven't seen or spoken to her. Everyone tells me to forget about her but I can't. And chances are she's going to be my last as well as my first. What do?
#204848 to #204836 - yibdiy
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A severe head injury should help with forgetting
maybe going through a very traumatic experience too

otherwise just wait till mid 60s and hope you'll get alzheimer's
#204850 to #204848 - platinumaltaria ONLINE
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(12/15/2015) [-]
I kek'd
Thanks for giving me a laugh
#204851 to #204850 - yibdiy
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(12/15/2015) [-]
I'll write it down as a good deed, santa better deliver
#204852 to #204851 - platinumaltaria ONLINE
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Santa is real
#204853 to #204852 - yibdiy
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(12/15/2015) [-]
well duh
#204837 to #204836 - sushininja
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If it's been 8 months then you definitely need to move on since you've never talked to her since. And unlesd you're an old man on life support, there's no way you're already on your last.

That's 8 months wasted where you could've worked out or improved yourself enough to the point where girls way more attractive than her would be asking you out.
tl; dr Move on. Improve yourself.
#204838 to #204837 - platinumaltaria ONLINE
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(12/15/2015) [-]
Yes but how doth one move on.
And I think you'll find I'm perfectly adequate...
#204839 to #204838 - sushininja
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I'd like to emphasize the point you made of 8 MONTHS. If nothing has happened in that amount of time, then there's no hope with this girl.
A normal person would have moved on by now, but since you're unique, you need to do the basics.
Delete all contact, photos, memorabilia, etc. You have of her. Out of sight, out of mind. From there, eventually the 8 months will come into play since you don't talk with her anymore. And then the end
#204840 to #204839 - platinumaltaria ONLINE
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(12/15/2015) [-]
Yeah that's already a thing, so clearly it isn't working.
#204843 to #204840 - sushininja
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(12/15/2015) [-]
So you already deleted her off of everything?
If you have talked to her in 8 months then I don't know what you have feelings for.
If you're still in high school or below then this doesn't matter.
Get a hobby or find something you're interested in like a tv show or video games
#204844 to #204843 - platinumaltaria ONLINE
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(12/15/2015) [-]
She blocked me on everything.
Memories are powerful things, Harry.
Well I'm not so yay.
>_> FIND INTERESTS
#204846 to #204844 - anon
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(12/15/2015) [-]
i was in a relationship with a girl for 2 years
she was my first for everything
i loved her so much still do
said she didnt love me anymore, and she was sorry
2 months later shes with my friend who didnt consult me about him liking her at all
fuck the world man i hate life
i started working out the other day. i am not fat by any means, im underweight, but id really like to gain so muscle. i recommend you do the same, improve yourself, and youll be more focused on doing those 15 reps then worrying about that girl
i know that in 8 months ill still probably remember my girl, but god i hope not
#204847 to #204846 - platinumaltaria ONLINE
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Improving myself isn't really an option, long story.
But the real issue is that I won't find anyone else. It wouldn't be so bad (I think) if there were ten other girls waiting for me.
#204855 to #204847 - sushininja
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Nobody's pixels on a screen here can make any more of a difference in your life. If you're alredy giving up without even trying then you're a waste. You're the one that needs to take charge and make a difference in yourself
#204856 to #204855 - platinumaltaria ONLINE
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(12/15/2015) [-]
No like it's more complicated than that though.
#204835 - anon
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(12/15/2015) [-]
What are the pros and cons of having private healthcare.
#204841 to #204835 - joshlol
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pro's - higher quality, faster, less hassle with parking, peace of mind knowing if you fall ill you don't have to deal with public system
cons - it costs money, if you don't get sick that money was wasted
#204826 - lordmandy
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(12/15/2015) [-]
I am fucking mad right now.
I was texting my girl, about why I couldn't see her tomorrow (backstory i'm fucking 18 and my mom still doesn't want me to see her more than once every 2 or 3 days even though i'm on vacations) and then after a while she told me she was sad, so of course I was like "Well no shit" to myself, but then she asked me to call her and.. let me tell you, anon, she was legitimately crying and sobbing like her dog had just died. She told me her mom had told her that "if a relationship makes her cry like that maybe she should end it", which is totally understandable in my opinion, I try my best but sometimes shit just happens. But anyways, she got mad, yelled at her, told her not to talk to her and told me to call her...
So now's the deal, what should I do? I was on the phone for about half an hour, 50% of the time i felt terrible but not guilty because it isn't really my fault, and 50% mad because god fucking damn it how is it such a big deal, right? I mean we can see each other next thursday or wednesday why the fuck is it that much of a problem?
I really love this girl, we've been together for more than a year and I care a lot about her, I don't want to break up with her... So what should I do? Talk to my mom? Yeah fuck that, you really think I haven't done it after one entire year of dating this girl? Talk to her? She keeps telling me she can be patient but for fuck's sake you're not fooling anyone... This has happened a few times and I really don't think I can put up with it much longer, I have my limits...
#204828 to #204826 - lordmandy
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(12/15/2015) [-]
I told her goodnight and she's been texting a bit... I'm not touching that fucking phone until tomorrow morning
#204832 to #204828 - linkofcourage
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(12/15/2015) [-]
Read it beforehand to be sure it's not important, and ask her why she was crying enough for her mom to say that. It's listening and understanding that are the most important things in these situations
#204824 - dalokan
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(12/15/2015) [-]
Is there a way to get a screenshot of the NJ Transit Bus pass?

I got past the buy the student discount one online, and it hurts to pay 91$ for a three zone one.
#204820 - anon
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(12/15/2015) [-]
I'm probably going to fail my first year at University with a course that I hate but I don't know what else I'm going to do. I don't want to be stuck here for another 2 years doing this dire course but I don't want to live at home and just get a job somewhere shitty.

I don't think it's going to get better.
#204827 to #204820 - lordmandy
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(12/15/2015) [-]
first year? Haha, look at this kid
No seriously, failing one course isn't that big a deal, people do it all the time. Just try to do your best the next time you have to do it and you'll do it. No point in feeling sorry for yourself now, you'll just have to try next year
#204830 to #204827 - anon
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yes but it's £9000 a try.
#204831 to #204830 - lordmandy
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Yes, we all know it. That's why you should do it on the first try. But it's not impossible, I never said it was going to be easy
#204823 to #204820 - anon
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Everybody has classes they hate. Buck down, get the shit down, and get it over with! You are better than some stupid course. Are you really going to let ONE CLASS prevent you from finishing school? Time is fucking money, kiddo. Get your shit together.
#204829 to #204823 - anon
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(12/15/2015) [-]
>one class

you mean, the only class.
#204813 - flamingpie
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(12/15/2015) [-]
I need advice, and a lot of it.
Backstory: Sophmore year this girl and I almost had a thing, she said all these promises and stuff but nothing followed through. We were still friends, even though shortly after telling me she was no longer interested in me some other guy asked her out and they were dating immediately. Needless to say, my now bestfriend has broken my heart before.

Fast Forward to now, it's both of our senior year and her and that guy are still dating. He lives in North Carolina now due to college, and will maybe get to see her a couple weeks out of the year. I love this girl and she knows it. Over the course of the last month we've gotten closer than ever, late night trips to the lake just the two of us, hanging out everyday, etc. But anyways, we talked and she told me that she liked me, but she still loves the other guy. That was two weeks ago, but unlike the last time I went down this road with her we actually kissed this time. Problem is her boyfriend came back for a week the day after and now she barely even texts me because shes busy with him. I really am in love with this girl, I just don't know what I should do about any of this. Please help
#204872 to #204813 - anon
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(12/15/2015) [-]
Get the hell out. That's my advice. I've been though (and currently going though) a similar situation. If she legitimately loves him (as she states) and is not tossing him away for you, then you should not be around.
If you want to be her friend be her friend. Not lovey dovey, no cherry blossoms, no kisses or love-hugs. Sure you love her but you stomach that if you want to be her Friend. (I had to do that, but hey, although I find my best friend now quite pretty and would deffo date her, I'm not lusting over her or madly in love or something, we're just quite good friends now.) Hell friend zone her, you can do it too you know. Say she's your best friend and you like her, etc.
If she ever breaks up with him and you still have a chance then, try and go for it. But Don't Make That Your Goal.
Don't get entangled in triangles no matter what you do. Someone's gonna end up broken hearted or worse: You're gonna swing back and forth clutching on to new hope and then breaking down in a cycle for a while. (And let me tell you, that's bloody torture.)
Know the consequences of leaving her out of her life vs staying in her life, if you stick around you'll also get yourself hurt because you know you can't get her and will look at her and wish. But if you are friends make a "teddy bear friend ship" or something and enjoy yourselves as such.
But as long as she loves someone else, even she loves both of you, she has to choose. She made her choice. Leave it at that. if she ever leaves him, who knows, maybe you can be there for her. but don't count on it.
And honestly? If you have any questions, feel free to ask.
#204814 to #204813 - anon
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(12/15/2015) [-]
You just got to drop her. She is playing games with you and it is unfair to your emotional well-being. You care about her and she likes that. She is leeching that attention from you. She is obsessed with the notion of your love for her. She loves the drama of it all, not you. If you two truly had a chance she would drop this dude and be with you. Do not fall victim to manipulative people. No matter how genuine their friendships are. They are not worth your time and you deserve far better.
#204815 to #204814 - flamingpie
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(12/15/2015) [-]
See but like, she isn't like that, that's why I'm so confused. She's my best friend like I know more about her than her boyfriend does. If it were truly that shes playing games I would have just dropped her already I'm not new to girls, I'm just new to THIS. I think she's genuinely confused I just don't know what to do about it.
#204817 to #204815 - anon
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(12/15/2015) [-]
Then what you need to do is sit her down and have a conversation. I know this sounds obvious but she needs to express herself to you a little more. Having you both confused about your feelings towards each other is just going to stress out both parties. Tell her your feelings and how you are getting mixed signals. Clear the air a little and be genuine. This creates an environment fit for productive, honest conversations.
#204821 to #204817 - flamingpie
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(12/15/2015) [-]
We've done all that and she still doesn't know what she wants, its such a shitty situation.
#204833 to #204821 - linkofcourage
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(12/15/2015) [-]
Yo, do something. I don't know what, but I was in your shoes last summer, and I missed my chance. Go for it, we don't all have to be heartbroken. At least you'll know in the worst scenario.
#204822 to #204821 - anon
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(12/15/2015) [-]
Dang I am kind of stumped. To me she just seems rude for doing this to you but I am just hearing your perspective. From what you are saying, she is leading you on a bit. It seems like the type of situation that you are just going to have to figure out blind, which sucks. I really hope things work themselves out. Remember that there is more to life than the love of another woman/man. You still have family and friends (hopefully) and more importantly, you have yourself. Know your limits and appreciate the little things in life that put a smile on your face. Be happy, my friend