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#202029 - paparaiderfanjr
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(11/12/2015) [-]
This is my third time posting here I'm sorry about that I probably sound like an idiot most of the time anyway I need help yet again I have absolutely no friends or anyone I consider a friend and I'm socially akward as hell but I do have a girlfriend but she's so problematic it really sucks but I don't wanna break up cause I'm afraid I'm gonna fall into a deep depression if I'm not in it already and shes really the only person ive got but shes very narciccistic so please could someone help? (Sorry for any grammar/punctuation mistakes)
#202157 to #202029 - platinumaltaria ONLINE
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(11/13/2015) [-]
Do you love her?
#202160 to #202157 - paparaiderfanjr
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(11/13/2015) [-]
Yes
#202161 to #202160 - platinumaltaria ONLINE
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(11/13/2015) [-]
No idea why if she's that bad. Leave if you want...
#202162 to #202161 - paparaiderfanjr
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(11/13/2015) [-]
Wish I knew honestly
#202055 to #202029 - redandgreen
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(11/12/2015) [-]
If your girlfriend is a narcissist (really) you should leave her.
#202136 to #202055 - paparaiderfanjr
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(11/12/2015) [-]
I've considered it but I have no one to talk to and I'll be all alone
#202137 to #202136 - redandgreen
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(11/12/2015) [-]
If she really is a narcissist she'll fuck you up. I was in a relationship with someone like that for a while and it really made me doubt my self-worth. Just be careful x
#202138 to #202137 - paparaiderfanjr
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(11/12/2015) [-]
Okay I'll be careful thanks man I appreciate it
#202030 to #202029 - confusedasian
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(11/12/2015) [-]
So what do you want? Like do you just want friends? Or do you need help with something else, but you don't have anyone else to talk to?
#202031 to #202030 - paparaiderfanjr
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(11/12/2015) [-]
I want advice for what I should do
#202032 to #202031 - confusedasian
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(11/12/2015) [-]
And what do you want to do?
#202033 to #202032 - paparaiderfanjr
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(11/12/2015) [-]
I just want to be happy everyday is the same routine and schools stressfull and I don't have anyone to talk to so I bury myself in work and just go through the motions and I'm just sick of this
#202034 to #202033 - confusedasian
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(11/12/2015) [-]
Working isn't so bad. Get things done and such, but I see what you mean. Well, what do you want to talk about? How's it going?
#202035 to #202034 - paparaiderfanjr
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(11/12/2015) [-]
I guess but that doesn't change the fact that I have no friends and my gfs a narciccist but I guess and I'd like some advice on what I should do and not that we'll honestly wbu
#202036 to #202035 - confusedasian
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(11/12/2015) [-]
What about those people you said you don't consider a friend. What's wrong with them? Do you just not talk to them often? I really don't know what to say. I met my friend in college (Haven't seen each other in quite a long time since we both parted ways and have different majors.). We were in the same english class and sat next to each other. We worked together and he engaged. He was quite the go getter. If you're in school, you can try to make small talk with come classmates, alternatively you can do it with people you work with as well.

I'm playing Witcher 3
#202038 to #202036 - paparaiderfanjr
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(11/12/2015) [-]
I just talk to then for class stuff never about personal life so idk and it's not easy for me to socialize with people
cool how is it I've never played it
#202039 to #202038 - confusedasian
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(11/12/2015) [-]
You don't have to talk about personal life. Even just asking about class is a start. Or you can complain about your work. I find a lot of people like complaining about their work, so you can use that as a common grounds.

The game is alright, but I worry about everyone. They don't tell me if the people I help got a happy ending or not. Or what happens to the people I was mean or whatever. Like I kicked out a faerie troll thing out of a house (it was for the better. The townspeople would have killed her if she stayed anyways.) and they just left it at that. There was another fearie troll thing in the swamp. Don't know if they met each other.
#202037 to #202036 - confusedasian
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(11/12/2015) [-]
Forgot to say, but small talk could go a long way. Imagine a snowball you made with your hand and you roll it around in the snow. Even better if you've played the game touch my katamari, you get my metaphor.
#202040 to #202037 - paparaiderfanjr
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(11/12/2015) [-]
Okay I'll consider it thanks man I really appreciate it and that sounds pretty interesting and I do know katmai I will forever imagine that now hehe
#202041 to #202040 - paparaiderfanjr
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(11/12/2015) [-]
Katamari*
#202007 - yourinvisiblegf
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(11/11/2015) [-]
must talk to girl, relaunch the conversation

throw some ideas at me FJ
D=
#202026 to #202007 - dreygur
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(11/11/2015) [-]
challenge her to a dick-measuring contest
#202014 to #202007 - anon
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(11/11/2015) [-]
challenge her to a duel.

establish yourself as the alpha.
#202015 to #202014 - yourinvisiblegf
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(11/11/2015) [-]
thanks for the inspiration
#202009 to #202007 - mondamini
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(11/11/2015) [-]
Just write 'sup'. Works every time
#202016 to #202009 - hsm
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(11/11/2015) [-]
"sup"
"do i know you?"


you lied to me
#202017 to #202016 - mondamini
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(11/11/2015) [-]
"Ye I'm that guy from that place you happen to know me from" "bitch" soz
#202018 to #202017 - hsm
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(11/11/2015) [-]
but she really doesnt know me, i've just been stalking her for 5 months without actual irl contact

help me master of romance
#202019 to #202018 - mondamini
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(11/11/2015) [-]
Need more info. How did you find out about her to begin ur stalking i will work my magic
#202020 to #202019 - hsm
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(11/11/2015) [-]
i saw her once in a mcdonald's and that's where it all began
#202021 to #202020 - mondamini
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(11/11/2015) [-]
"What? We talked outside McDonalds for like 20 minutes today then you added yourself on my facebook?"
#202022 to #202021 - hsm
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(11/11/2015) [-]
nice, but what if she is not a mentally damaged person
#202023 to #202022 - mondamini
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(11/11/2015) [-]
play the sympathy card like "Aw guess that girl gave me the wrong account, what a cunt" then follow up with something like "Was believable since she picked someone as cute as she was". I'm doin ma best here man
#202024 to #202023 - hsm
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(11/11/2015) [-]
thanks mr. master or romance
#202025 to #202024 - mondamini
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(11/11/2015) [-]
you are welcome mr. stalker of burds from McDonalds. how did you even get her name?
#202045 to #202025 - hsm
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(11/12/2015) [-]
one of her friends called her by her name, then it was only a matter of putting some filters on facebook like location and shit and boom, i got in
#202060 to #202045 - schurftinator
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(11/12/2015) [-]
use your super stalker skills to find out where she hangs out and 'accidentally' bump into her and strike up a conversation. it's creepy as shit, but still not as creepy as sending a random message to her online.
#202062 to #202060 - hsm
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(11/12/2015) [-]
o-ok
#201963 - cognosceteipsum
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(11/11/2015) [-]
Should one base ones self worth around external or internal things

Or just nothing, just feel like you're worthy all the time.
#202158 to #201963 - platinumaltaria ONLINE
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(11/13/2015) [-]
Just base it on whatever you think, that's what everyone else does.
#202004 to #201963 - hsm
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(11/11/2015) [-]
Loreal
because im worth it
#202003 to #201963 - dehumanizer
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(11/11/2015) [-]
only meems
#202001 to #201963 - paintskillz
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(11/11/2015) [-]
Self worth in modern society is a combination of those things unless you're a monk or something.
I personally judge my self worth as my physical appearance, random skills and hobbies, academics, social life nearly non-existent and my material possessions
#201973 to #201963 - anon
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(11/11/2015) [-]
something something psychology
intrinsic vs extrinsic rewards

my answer: both are important

feeling like you're worthy all the time seems arrogant
#201974 to #201973 - cognosceteipsum
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(11/11/2015) [-]
And it's naturally not gonna work for a lot of people
#201980 to #201974 - anon
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(11/11/2015) [-]
yeah, life is complicated

I think balance is key
#201970 to #201967 - confusedasian
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(11/11/2015) [-]
"I do what I want"
#201960 - cognosceteipsum
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(11/11/2015) [-]
What's the prio for you in a girl?

For me it's personality > hair > ass > face > boobs

There's a very fine line between each of them though because all of them is important. Oh, and hair is really important. Short haired girls make my dick slump like fuck
#202043 to #201960 - ferrettamer ONLINE
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(11/12/2015) [-]
body (ie not fat and not taller than me cause I'm insecure) > personality > face > hair > ass >tits
#202042 to #201960 - plantain
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(11/12/2015) [-]
personality > face > hair > boobs > ass
#202006 to #201960 - charizarddad ONLINE
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(11/11/2015) [-]
interests > dignity > face > hair > ass > tits
#202002 to #201960 - paintskillz
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(11/11/2015) [-]
Relationship with family > Does well in school > Shoe size
jk Face > personality > Ass/tiddies etc
#201964 to #201960 - confusedasian
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(11/11/2015) [-]
Hair > Eyes > Voice > Personality.
#201965 to #201964 - cognosceteipsum
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(11/11/2015) [-]
.... None of her.. ass n tits?
#201968 to #201965 - confusedasian
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(11/11/2015) [-]
No. Small penis, I have no right to judge them to begin with.
#201969 to #201968 - cognosceteipsum
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(11/11/2015) [-]
Ah right, you're azn
#201971 to #201969 - confusedasian
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(11/11/2015) [-]
I'm pretty sure I just have shitty genes, but okay.
#201972 to #201971 - cognosceteipsum
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(11/11/2015) [-]
Maybe it's a combination of both.
#201975 to #201972 - confusedasian
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(11/11/2015) [-]
Nah, other Asians I've seen are fine. Doesn't help that when I was younger, my mother's daughter would get in fights with me and she would always low blow me. I'm sure that stunted my growth, but whatever. It is what it is.
#201976 to #201975 - cognosceteipsum
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(11/11/2015) [-]
I see...
#201961 to #201960 - youraveragesupport
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(11/11/2015) [-]
I like for them to be breathing most of the time, but that's about it
But in all seriousness, they just have to be kind and patient with me and look better than a 4
#201954 - paintskillz
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(11/11/2015) [-]
Met some girl on tinder and we hit it off great and ended up sleeping with eachother. Problem is I ended up lasting 2 minutes and thats a generous 2 minutes . Are my chances for future intercourse ruined with her?
#202094 to #201954 - lgninjaleetful
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(11/12/2015) [-]
you cant go multiple rounds mate? weeeeeeaaak
#201996 to #201954 - redandgreen
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(11/11/2015) [-]
Try and make a joke of it! You might have a second chance if she likes you.
#201998 to #201996 - paintskillz
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(11/11/2015) [-]
Thanks man and I think I just wont bring it up and see how things go
#201984 to #201954 - dehumanizer
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(11/11/2015) [-]
kill yourself
#201995 to #201984 - paintskillz
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(11/11/2015) [-]
thank
#202000 to #201995 - dehumanizer
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(11/11/2015) [-]
>muh gfs
>muh smex

#202084 to #202000 - lgninjaleetful
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(11/12/2015) [-]
some virgin is mad doe
#202085 to #202084 - dehumanizer
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(11/12/2015) [-]
>implying theres is LITTERALY anything wrong with beeing a virgin
>in 2015
#202086 to #202085 - lgninjaleetful
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(11/12/2015) [-]
means you failed at your one true evolutionary purpose.

god knows you wont amount to much else faggot
#202087 to #202086 - dehumanizer
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(11/12/2015) [-]
nigga theres still time, im young
#202088 to #202087 - lgninjaleetful
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(11/12/2015) [-]
well, tomorrow you''ll wake up and still be ugly. same from a year from now and so on
#202089 to #202088 - dehumanizer
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(11/12/2015) [-]
how do you know if im ugly?
#202090 to #202089 - lgninjaleetful
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(11/12/2015) [-]
I don't im just tryin to put you down mate.

dont let me put you down mate.

also dream girl will never love you
#202091 to #202090 - dehumanizer
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(11/12/2015) [-]
pfft try your best

also are u the anon thats been harassing me for the past few months
#202092 to #202091 - lgninjaleetful
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(11/12/2015) [-]
>harassing on the internet*

breh, grow some skin faggot
#202096 to #202092 - dehumanizer
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(11/12/2015) [-]
so it was you you nigger cuck fag shitbag
#202099 to #202096 - lgninjaleetful
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(11/12/2015) [-]
I never confirmed nor denied shitter.

but yeah it was me
#202101 to #202099 - lgninjaleetful
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#202100 to #202099 - dehumanizer
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(11/12/2015) [-]
but why you do this
#202102 to #202100 - lgninjaleetful
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(11/12/2015) [-]
why do you shit post on advice?

no one knows mate
#202103 to #202102 - dehumanizer
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(11/12/2015) [-]
no its diffrent, i only shit post against normies because they should kill themselves,
troubled people like myeslf i try to help

however you double nigger have no reason to shit on me like this
#202128 to #202103 - lgninjaleetful
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(11/12/2015) [-]
what? maybe the people you shit post are troubled? how the fuck can you just call some normies and some troubled? you are just an asshole. you deserve nothing.
#202174 to #202128 - dehumanizer
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(11/13/2015) [-]
>muh girlfriedn

litteraly get out, they are the ones deserving someting and you are a fucking cuck for judging me
#201962 to #201954 - youraveragesupport
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(11/11/2015) [-]
If she enjoyed your company and she had a moderate time when you banged, you have a chance I think
#201997 to #201962 - paintskillz
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(11/11/2015) [-]
Yeah she wants to hang out again today so I think I'm in the clear. It's been nearly 3 years since the last time I had sex so the premature thing is probably expected. What didnt help is that we were both drunk so I'm sure that also factored in
#202028 to #201997 - redandgreen
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(11/11/2015) [-]
3 years? Wow. It's been about ten days for me and I'm about to gouge my eyes out.
#202050 to #202028 - misticalz ONLINE
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(11/12/2015) [-]
I feel u
#201945 - dingdongsingsong
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(11/11/2015) [-]
I hate being single, and I'm 80% the reason i am single, I turn down every guy who asks me for different reasons but i have that empty feeling a lot.
I just don't wanna say yes to a guy because im lonely.
wat
do
#202058 to #201945 - gameboyblue
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(11/12/2015) [-]
I'm lonely too but I wont go out looking for a girl. I feel like if it were a real thing we'd just fall into place with each other. So are you really lonely or just sad you haven't found someone you click with
#202010 to #201945 - joshlol
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#202011 to #202010 - dingdongsingsong
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(11/11/2015) [-]
for sure
#202012 to #202011 - joshlol
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#201985 to #201945 - dehumanizer
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(11/11/2015) [-]
suicide
#201957 to #201945 - confusedasian
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(11/11/2015) [-]
Aren't you muslim and you can't date anyone that isn't muslim? Think I remember it was you that said that a while back.
#201982 to #201957 - dingdongsingsong
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(11/11/2015) [-]
lmao
I am muslim but I'm not an extremist or anything, technically im not supposed to be dating at all but i just follow my religion with the important things, pray , no alcohol, no sex before marriage etc etc
#201956 to #201945 - yourinvisiblegf
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(11/11/2015) [-]
what's the stress? prefer to be sad and lonely? lol
there is no such thing as "soulmate"
maybe you think the guys who ask you out don't match your value
well then, get your fingers out of your ass and work just a little to find a guy who seems better by your standards
#201978 to #201956 - dingdongsingsong
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(11/11/2015) [-]
How does one "find"
#201986 to #201978 - yourinvisiblegf
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(11/11/2015) [-]
define your criteria
take interest in others
#201950 to #201945 - schurftinator
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(11/11/2015) [-]
maybe you just haven't met the right one yet, if you say you're turning them down for a variety of reasons. increase your search area? try online dating so you know their profile in advance so you can find what you're looking for?
#201951 to #201950 - dingdongsingsong
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(11/11/2015) [-]
What i want is so basic idk why i cant find it, i really just want someone to converse with laugh with, looks are only 40% to me, i've turned down a guy who was a model because his personality was kinda shit.
And online dating just seems sad tbh.
#201981 to #201951 - schurftinator
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(11/11/2015) [-]
I dunno, chatting up people online or chatting up people at the bar. I guess everyone has their own preference still though, probably the guy for you is out there and you just have to find one that clicks!
#201946 to #201945 - youraveragesupport
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(11/11/2015) [-]
Every guy that asks you isn't going to be good for you, you need to find someone who's right for you. It's hard to be single, but it's even harder to be in a relationship you don't like. You'll find the right one, just take the time to talk to them a lot, make friends with them, and make sure they'll make you happy.
#201947 to #201946 - dingdongsingsong
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(11/11/2015) [-]
My first and only relationship was over 2 years ago and it was a very unhappy one and im not one to care much for relationships or romance, just these days its kind of a void..
#201959 to #201947 - minutes
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(11/11/2015) [-]
If you can honestly say you don't care much for relationships, you shouldn't have one.
#201948 to #201947 - youraveragesupport
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(11/11/2015) [-]
Then maybe you just need a friend or something, someone who you can talk to whenever and all that.
#201949 to #201948 - dingdongsingsong
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(11/11/2015) [-]
I have tons of friends, close ones but there's still this fucking void, i even have someone i rely on emotionally but we cant be much because he's in a completely different continent.
I'm just never satisfied.
#201958 to #201949 - youraveragesupport
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(11/11/2015) [-]
Then it sounds like you just haven't found someone who you click with romantically yet. You could try just going on one or two dates with a couple guys, seeing if they end up working out, but otherwise, I think you might just have to take your time and find a guy who's right for you. It blows, I know, but it's a hell of a lot better than getting your heart broken
#201940 - anon
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(11/11/2015) [-]
I want sex and I want to cuddle but I don't want to have any contact with anyone. What's wrong with me right now?
#202027 to #201940 - dreygur
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(11/11/2015) [-]
Stop jerking off for a while
#201987 to #201940 - dehumanizer
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(11/11/2015) [-]
litteraly nothing
#202095 to #201987 - anon
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(11/12/2015) [-]
literally everything
#201991 to #201987 - anon
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(11/11/2015) [-]
Thank you
#201992 to #201991 - dehumanizer
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(11/11/2015) [-]
more users of this place should strive to be like us
#202097 to #201992 - dehumanizer
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#201994 to #201992 - anon
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(11/11/2015) [-]
Do you know who I am?
#202098 to #201994 - dehumanizer
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(11/12/2015) [-]
anon? FUCK NIGGER BE MROE PERCISE
#201944 to #201940 - schurftinator
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(11/11/2015) [-]
there's a difference between sexuality, intimacy, and romantic love. often they go together, and are not exclusive to one person, but not necessarily. which is why you can be in love and happy with someone, and still feel a sexual desire for someone else.

not sure if this is what you mean though
#201926 - mondominiman ONLINE
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(11/11/2015) [-]
I'm thinking of buying a japanese futon. I've slept on the floor for years parents have a small house and I slept in the living room, I just threw couple blankets on the floor and used those as a mattress. Not for fun but mostly because there was no room for a bed. I've had beds in the past but they've all been ruined or worn out. Since I move alot for work I decided to just go with a futon since they're portable and really cheap $600 for a good one vs a shitty bed for that price . I've been sleeping on a couch for weeks now and every morning I wake up with aches and cramps I'm getting real sick of it. My only problem is I don't know where to buy them or how they feel.
#201952 to #201926 - paintskillz
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(11/11/2015) [-]
Don't know where you live but I'm sure you have a furniture store within 30 miles. The fact that you don't have a bed suggests that you may also not have a car so transportation may be an issue.
#201955 to #201952 - mondominiman ONLINE
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(11/11/2015) [-]
I have a car, I'm not broke I just don't want to buy a new bed that I have to haul around every few months.
#201930 to #201926 - anon
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(11/11/2015) [-]
why a Japanese one?
#201931 to #201930 - mondominiman ONLINE
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(11/11/2015) [-]
Because a western futon is like a shit couch
#201933 to #201931 - anon
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(11/11/2015) [-]
they are meant to fold out you know...
#201932 to #201931 - confusedasian
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(11/11/2015) [-]
Not really.


Been sleeping on one for 'bout year and a half now.
#201913 - cognosceteipsum
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(11/11/2015) [-]
My iPhone earbuds are making this harsh wall noise each time some sound was supposed to be playing
#201988 to #201913 - dehumanizer
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(11/11/2015) [-]
>haivng a jewPhone

#201917 to #201913 - mondominiman ONLINE
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(11/11/2015) [-]
wall noise?
#201921 to #201917 - cognosceteipsum
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(11/11/2015) [-]
YouTube harsh wall noise
#201929 to #201921 - mondominiman ONLINE
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(11/11/2015) [-]
what the fuck is that and why do so many people want one?
#201936 to #201934 - mondominiman ONLINE
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(11/11/2015) [-]
I saw a video of some box with dials and it was emitting some awful sound but all the comments were asking where to buy one and admiring the damn thing
#201937 to #201936 - cognosceteipsum
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(11/11/2015) [-]
Ah, yes. Harsh wall noise is the genre itself, not the player. Hence why I was confused.

And that's how t sounds every time I play something with my iphone earbuds on
#201914 to #201913 - cognosceteipsum
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(11/11/2015) [-]
Oh yeah and how do I fix it or is it broke for life
#201915 to #201914 - anon
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(11/11/2015) [-]
they're fucked m8.

you should probably just buy some better headphones anyway.
#201916 to #201915 - cognosceteipsum
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(11/11/2015) [-]
They're quite good actuallt
#201918 to #201916 - anon
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(11/11/2015) [-]
sounds just leaks out the back and any other noise can be heard with them unless you deafen yourself by turn the volume way up. those come free with ipods for a reason.

over ear > literally anything else.

if you want to spend around $30-40 look at these. www.amazon.com/Panasonic-RP-HTX7-G1-Monitor-Headph

pretty good for the price.

also never buy skullcandy.
#201920 to #201918 - cognosceteipsum
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(11/11/2015) [-]
But alright, maybe I'll try them.

Do they hab a built in mic?
#201923 to #201920 - anon
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(11/11/2015) [-]
no.

you'll want gaming headsets for that, I know nothing about those. all I do know is avoid the big brands because you'll get ripped off.
#201935 to #201923 - cognosceteipsum
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(11/11/2015) [-]
lol what? The iPhone earbuds have a built in mic
#201919 to #201918 - cognosceteipsum
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(11/11/2015) [-]
Not sure what you mean by that actually.
#201897 - gibroner ONLINE
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(11/11/2015) [-]
Here's some unsolicited advice from your uncle gibroner. Do not drink a lot of beer on the same night that you eat a lot of yogurt
#201938 to #201897 - yourinvisiblegf
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(11/11/2015) [-]
post OC about it and do a stream
#201894 - studbeefpile
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(11/11/2015) [-]
Ask a worthless masochistic piece of shit anything.
#201898 to #201894 - gibroner ONLINE
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(11/11/2015) [-]
can I punch you?
#201899 to #201898 - studbeefpile
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(11/11/2015) [-]
Masochistic means I like to put myself through pain.

I guess you could, but I might punch you back.
#201903 to #201899 - studbeefpile
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(11/11/2015) [-]
turns out that's not the real definition of masochist. whoops. whatever.
#201901 to #201899 - gibroner ONLINE
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(11/11/2015) [-]
not if I punch hard enough you won't
#201902 to #201901 - studbeefpile
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(11/11/2015) [-]
I guess. If you know how and where to punch.
#201904 to #201902 - gibroner ONLINE
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(11/11/2015) [-]
right in the wind pipe
#201895 to #201894 - confusedasian
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(11/11/2015) [-]
What troubles your heart?
#201896 to #201895 - studbeefpile
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(11/11/2015) [-]
I'm fat and ugly, generally feel like a failure. Brother has always been the favorite. I've been in a couple car accidents, so I'm in a couple grand of debt despite only being 19. I've been paying off the debt, and getting less fat, but regardless of what I do, it's still never good enough for some reason. I've also been working on getting less fat. I've been lifting weights for the past 4 years now and I compete in Powerlifting. Honestly that's the main thing that gives me real drive in life. It lets me use the negative things that have happened to express my masochism in a way that's somewhat productive. It's easy to put myself through long painful workouts because I don't like myself. However despite having that drive, I had no idea what I was doing for the first couple years there, and as a result I made hardly any progress, and even got injured a few times. So really I'm nowhere near where I think I should be. So I continue to work hard and become better, but I still ultimately feel like I'm significantly less than everyone else out there.

Oh, I also have clinical depression, so that definitely helps.
#201999 to #201896 - dehumanizer
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(11/11/2015) [-]
>fat
i wouldnt really say that, maybe a bit overweight but seriously unless you are trying to impress some girl then it really does not matter
>ugly
cant really tell since i dont find men attractive but again unless you are trying to get a girl its really fucking irrelevant, maybe your hideous maybe you are goreous so what?
>feel like a faliure
its a bit too early for that, but yeah often times i feel the same way, i guess we shouldnt be so hard on ourselves
>debt
well shit, i guess it will go away eventualy
>19
well shit i though u were older
>feel like im less then others
yes i feel that too sometimes but then i remember i could probably smack these others around thanks to picking up heavy things and putting them down repeativly

#201939 to #201896 - schurftinator
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(11/11/2015) [-]
dude, you're making progress! that's awesome! there are so many people who are unhappy with their situation, but neither ever really feel like stepping up, taking control of their lives and making decisions to make themselves better. And you are. And that's very commendable and shows a lot of personality, more than a lot of other people can say. And you'll improve, you'll become better at it, you'll lose that weight and you'll pay off that debt and you did it for yourself.
You are, however, allowed to love yourself. You're allowed to lift and lose weight because you deserve to be a healthy, happy person. Keep that in mind, tell it yourself every day while looking back and seeing your process. If your parents prefer your brother, it just means they don't know shit because you're way more awesome.
#201979 to #201939 - studbeefpile
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(11/11/2015) [-]
My brother is the favorite because he's always just been objectively better. Smarter, more disciplined, wiser with money, less emotional, etc.

And I don't feel like I'm allowed to love myself until I've actually done something worthy of recognition. Until I meet some of the particular goals I've set for myself, my self-loathing attitude helps me push myself to reach those goals. I wouldn't be able to force myself to do what I do if I was content.
#201983 to #201979 - schurftinator
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(11/11/2015) [-]
and who says any of those things make him a better person? especially the emotional part, thinking that you're not allowed to be an emotional person, especially when you're a guy, is absolute bullshit. fuck that, seriously, and fuck your parents for thinking that way. you have your own worth outside of what people think of you, you are your own person.

learning to love yourself and doing these things for yourself, it takes a while to learn. it's a long process, but nevertheless something that you can achieve yourself. take care of yourself, forgive yourself for mistakes and be proud of what you've done. it's not always easy, but you can achieve it and find other ways to motivate yourself.
#201907 to #201896 - confusedasian
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(11/11/2015) [-]
>but regardless of what I do, it's still never good enough for some reason.

Why do you feel that way? Who has said that to you? And why do you believe your brother is the favorite?

> I still ultimately feel like I'm significantly less than everyone else out there.

Why? You don't need to compare yourself to anyone. You said yourself, you continue to work hard and become better. That's nice. When you first started lifting you said you didn't know what you were doing, that's normal. You just started. It's alright to be lost and hurt yourself. You could have quit there, but you've been going at it for 4 years. What about now? Do you still hurt yourself? If not, that's progress. If you have, that's still progress an even bigger progress because you learn more from failure.
#201977 to #201907 - studbeefpile
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(11/11/2015) [-]
No matter what, I have a tendency to fuck things up. Be it stuff with myself, my relationships with other people, or whatever. Stuff will go okay for a little while, then I'll do something stupid, or a person will find something about me that they really don't like - for instance the extremely masochistic attitude I have towards lifting. Apparently it's weird to most people how emotional I get with my training. In other words, most people like me until they get to know me.

I feel like I'm less than everyone else for quite a few reasons. One is because I'm pretty stupid. I have a really hard time understanding things that should be simple. I was a D to C student all throughout my education.

And I know I'm making progress. That's what keeps me going. I just feel alienated by almost everyone just because I'm so different - and not even in the cool 'unique' way that everyone circle jerks over, just in an off-putting way.
#201989 to #201977 - confusedasian
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(11/11/2015) [-]
I don't know about that. You're coming out a lot. If you don't mind me saying this since I'm a dude, I think this is all pretty cute. Like you're just a big weight lifting dude, but you feel alone on the inside. Makes you seem pretty sweet. I still stand by, and scruffy looks like agrees, that you shouldn't really be feeling down on yourself. Try making some short term goals. Write down what you want to do, and the rest should follow. Giving yourself small goals and completing them might help show you that you are progressing with something. Also works if you want something to improve. I see you have issues with grades. How would you improve that? Try thinking of some solutions and then doing them. Before you walk, you learn to crawl.
#201990 to #201989 - studbeefpile
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(11/11/2015) [-]
I stopped doing school a while ago. I have a HS diploma, that's good enough for getting jobs.

As far as goals are concerned, I'm finally getting close to a couple big ones. For years now I've been dreaming of having a 300lb bench and a 500lb deadlift, and now I'm closing in on those two. Maybe I'll feel better once I achieve those.

Thanks for the kind words, I appreciate it.
#201993 to #201990 - confusedasian
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(11/11/2015) [-]
The grades were just an example.

No prob tough guy.
#201888 - joshlol
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(11/11/2015) [-]
anyone got any tips on how I could make myself better looking?
#201908 to #201888 - mondominiman ONLINE
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#201900 to #201888 - gibroner ONLINE
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(11/11/2015) [-]
either get rid of the facial hair or don't sculpt it yourself go to a good barber if you must sculpt your facial hair
#201890 to #201888 - confusedasian
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(11/11/2015) [-]
Dude looks like he cut his hair and then glued those trimmings on his face.
#201905 to #201890 - braveblue
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(11/11/2015) [-]
Sauce on the gif?
#201909 to #201906 - braveblue
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(11/11/2015) [-]
I like the art style, do you recommend?
#201942 to #201909 - yibdiy
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(11/11/2015) [-]
It's in my top 3. Honestly? Probably too good for you.
#201912 to #201909 - confusedasian
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(11/11/2015) [-]
I have absolutely no idea. I just reverse searched, I don't actually have any clue what like 98% of my cartoon gifs are from.
#201892 to #201890 - anon
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(11/11/2015) [-]
that's exactly what he does.

there was a 4chan post.
#201893 to #201892 - confusedasian
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(11/11/2015) [-]
Oh. . .
#201891 to #201890 - dreygur
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(11/11/2015) [-]
Yeah... his hair...
#201884 - kegget
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(11/11/2015) [-]
Has anyone ever had a dog that's gone through chemotherapy?
My dog started today and he's acting odd, it's probably because he was sedated but it's worrying me. Will i be seeing much of a change in him?

if any super cool people wanna donate towards his treatment https://www(DOT) gofundme(DOT)com (FORWARDSLASH)buddybills
#201881 - thumbsdenied
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(11/10/2015) [-]
the top of my head hair is thinning out. My hair is blond and i hate how my hair looks, also very annoying swirls. being bald doesnt bother me, but my head shape is not ideal for shaved cut or buzz cut. Pretty much like a pear

What do?
#201875 - valourinfj
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(11/10/2015) [-]
Alright fellow fjers, I've been gone a while. I was assaulted at my home and forced to leave due to constant death threats and I'm currently staying at a homeless shelter working a minimum wage job and only getting 10 hours a week. Got paid recently, half of what I should've made and then he let me go for the day because "almost out of hours." He also didn't pay me for the extra hours I worked and gives everyone else 35+ hours while I'm bobbling around for any extra time I can, anyone have any Ideas on what I should do because im in a four month program here and 80 bucks a week won't cut it.
#201953 to #201875 - paintskillz
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(11/11/2015) [-]
Apply absolutely everywhere you can. Look presentable when you're there and call them as a followup a few days later. And if worst comes to worst you can start the process of joining the military
#201880 to #201875 - confusedasian
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(11/10/2015) [-]
What happened at your home? Like you got attacked in your own house, why did you get kicked out? Also where's your family? You can't come contact them to help?
#201883 to #201880 - valourinfj
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(11/10/2015) [-]
I was living with a family friend and his brother, his brother had a long history of deug and alchohal abuse and constant relapsing so of course that goes along with anger issues so...
#201882 to #201880 - valourinfj
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(11/10/2015) [-]
I didn't get kickex out, I was advised to leave and without the money to afford a place at a moments notice, I kinda had to leave. My family doesn't talk to me since they kicked me out when I was 16. I didn't need them. 14 years of abuse was enough.
#201876 to #201875 - valourinfj
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(11/10/2015) [-]
I also show up and hour or two early everyday and work off the clock just so I seem like I'm inveated enough to get some more work. If requested I can go ahead and post a few pictures of where I'm sleeping and what not for flavor.
#201877 to #201876 - valourinfj
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(11/10/2015) [-]
Invested enough*
#201870 - thumbsdenied
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(11/10/2015) [-]
Im so tired all the time, it takes me ages to fall asleep at night. I feel minor pain all over my body all the time and its so goddamn hot when im trying to sleep, i often wake up covered in sweat. Its not even that warm and i keep the door open when its close to freezing outside. I feel cold outside of bed normaly...and when i do fall asleep i wake up every few hours to pee, and just so dang thirsty from the sweating. ive tried those sleep aid pills, not the ones that knock you out. But i fight trough the pills even with a maximum dose. I feel undead at this point but i still cant fall asleep.

i take a nap in the day though, and then the bed feels so comfortable and cool, its just a 30min nap and i feel like im in heaven, i just insta blackout when my head hits the pillow, usually wake up in a puddle of drool. I know naps are bad, but ive fought trough a week without any naps and still the bed feels like satans ballsacks at night. It takes me around 3 hours to finaly fall asleep. i dont want knockout pills because of the bladder problem i have.

Why do i have so many issues at night with my bed, aches and sores, heat and just refusing to sleep, while i realy want to... While in the day time none of this is there to bug me? Im usually pissed after my nap because i really dont wanna get up but i know it'll mess up the sleep rhythm if i stay
#201878 to #201870 - anon
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(11/10/2015) [-]
go to your doctor.

also consider your diet, are you eating enough or too much even. maybe your not getting enough calories or sugars.
#201879 to #201878 - thumbsdenied
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(11/10/2015) [-]
I think i eat enough, i eat suprisingly little even though im a lard ass. I do have a weakness to sugary drinks.
#201889 to #201879 - thumbsdenied
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(11/11/2015) [-]
the pain in my legs are pretty bad atm, its almost 5am, ive tried stretching and doing abit of exercise, drank water in case it was dehydration.

pain has been going on for 6h now and im considering ripping my legs off.
#201839 - zonetransferrer
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(11/10/2015) [-]
hi, so i have 4 aluminum rods, which are 2.3m long and i want to build a tent from them, something like tee-pee would be kickass. I need 5 people to fit in, but i also want to make it as cheap as it can be. I will make walls out of textile which will be 1.5m wide and 2.3m long (one piece of this wall should cost me 240 monies) can any of you suggest me some designs how it could look like?
#201856 to #201839 - newbtwo
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(11/10/2015) [-]
:^/
#201827 - anon
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(11/10/2015) [-]
What sized condom should I be buying if I'm 7.5 inches?
#201837 to #201827 - joshlol
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(11/10/2015) [-]
extra small
#201835 to #201827 - yibdiy
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(11/10/2015) [-]
>penis
the fuck, are you a faggot?
#201828 to #201827 - yourinvisiblegf
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(11/10/2015) [-]
width is more important
all condoms are long enough
#201823 - jaytothadee
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(11/10/2015) [-]
ok heres the deal. I have these "friends" that I "enjoy" hanging out with but they are always negative. everytime I say something good about me they shoot me down...they are always arguing and picking fights over stupid shit and if you make a mistake they point it out and laugh over the stupidest things. They are the only people I hang out with at school and they can be the only ones...there are other people but they are really really weird or want to do me -_- and people who act childish...I could withstand my friends for a year but I cant take it Im trying to be happy and they bum me out. what should I do?
#201838 to #201823 - yourinvisiblegf
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(11/10/2015) [-]
you call those friends? -__-
find other peoples
you stick with them because you think you can't find others, but you can
#201830 to #201823 - schurftinator
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(11/10/2015) [-]
try to find new friends? telling yourself that they are the only ones you can be friends with doesn't really help. of course not, there are loads of people out there and plenty are also looking for friends! because honestly these people you hang out with don't sound like good friends at all.
#201820 - ilovehue
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(11/10/2015) [-]
Hi TL;DR should I text/call her to see if that chick is still coming home?

Have you ever met someone so similar to another one, you'd say they have the same soul? This new chick I'm impatiently waiting for right now totally reminds me of an older friend of mine. Tonight, what happened countless times with the other girl, is about to happen, i think: She said on the phone she'd come to my place, but she ain't coming. As i write this, she's 40 minutes late. I don't really know how to deal with this practically, let alone the feeling of being played.

I don't really wanna write a novel here. I'm more after practical advice: call: yes/no + what do i basically ask.
#201821 to #201820 - plantain
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(11/10/2015) [-]
Give her a call, what's the worst that could happen? Either she's not interested in you, in which case it really doesn't matter if she thinks you calling seems desperate, or something came up or she actually is just late, in which case it won't seem weird to her.
#201822 to #201821 - ilovehue
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(11/10/2015) [-]
Bah I called, no answer. I don't want to over-analyze it. de-dramatize. thx anyway ^^