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#203962 - youraveragesupport
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#203977 to #203962 - yiffcario
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(12/04/2015) [-]
Thoughts like those should be discussed with a professional, you have problems you could explain and get an outside opinion on how to go about fixing them. Look into professional help, wild doing so, you could discuss your problems with friends or peers.
You're on the right track already, you don't want to do it, and you want the thoughts gone.
What troubles you?
#203974 to #203962 - lordbrauner
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(12/04/2015) [-]
Don't come to FJ seeking help with suicidal thoughts. Find a professional. Amateur advice, even if well-intentioned, can sometimes make the problem worse.
#203953 - anon
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(12/04/2015) [-]
i feel absolutely dead inside, theres so little keeping me from just ending myself. ive always been a honest nice guy, i dont want anything back from others than just a little smile. Im so absolutely lonely though, i do small tasks to strangers if i see them needing help. I want to belive in karma, and ive been blessed with a a great mom and dad, and them taking me around the world on holidays. Only reason im still here is because of my parents.
a strangers smile lifts my spirit, but what i really want is somebody to love and to love me back... And ive tried so hard to meet somebody, but i get rejected almost everytime. I wasnt blessed with looks, i can tell that much. Some women have given me their number but would not return texts or calls. The few dates ive been on quickly realized that we werent compatible.
Tried tinder for the heck of it and not one single like back after 500girls in a 80 km radius. But i understood most use it for one night stuff and ego boosting. Really hurt my self esteem though.
I dont really get enjoyment out of things, i wont do anything stupid aslong as my parents are still around, i would never do that to them. If i lost them i truly have nothing anymore and then nothing matters to me.

#204002 to #203953 - minutes
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(12/04/2015) [-]
I give this advice to everyone who talks like you. Listen up dude you're about to get a whole lot of sentences you will learn and live by from now on.

"I live autonomously and independently, create my life according to my own will and only follow rules and Principles that I located for good and right. I am proud of what I am doing and will never say sorry for what I am. An error is something that I by honest self-criticism, regardless of the opinions of others, have recognized. I appreciate and enjoy the presence of other people and feel well in their company, but I will never be depending on anyone, neither friends, nor affairs, nor of my partner. People who repeated to bring disrespectful and inappropriate behavior to me will be dismissed from the circle of my acquaintances immediately and permanently, after a one-time strong warning . I help my friends when they need help, but I know that each person is responsible for his own life and its problems. I am therefore neither Therapeut nor lawyer, nor servants, nor Clown for whomever."

If you live by this rules, you will get a lot more confident and happy over time. Whenever a situation comes up, ask yourself which reaction would fit under these sentences and act like that. It will be hard in the beginning but you can do it. This is not by any means uncompatible to being nice. You need to understand that a gf isn't the solution for people who don't have their life in order, it's a reward for those who have. The main thing you need to work on is self confidence, from then on it's cake. Live for yourself, imrpove yourself, for yourself, not for anyone else.

A lot of people have been there dude. It's rough and a long process. It comes with great disappointment and pain but it's worth it. In a view years you'll look back and wonder what the hell you were thinking. Trust me. You can do it.
#204033 to #204002 - anon
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(12/04/2015) [-]
to most people i seem to live a great life, i have decent amount of funds to live comfortably, i dont drink, use drugs or smoke. Im good at many things like cooking, art and designing. I live in a fantastic area with everything a man would possibly need just a rock throw away and its peacefull and quiet here too. I should be a man with no worries, but im just so lonely, and i cant find people to spend time with. Atleast who arent just using me for my good nature.
Ive tried many hobbies and clubs. I do like cooking but its not fun to cook for one, besides its cheaper to eat out. Videogames take the mind off for awhile, and movies.
#203982 to #203953 - dreygur
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(12/04/2015) [-]
What the other guy said. If you depend on others for happiness, your life can crumble at any moment, and you will most likely outlive your parents. Start by getting a job or your studies right, then think about your future with them. Get an enjoyable hobby, make friends. You can live your whole life without a partner and still be happy if you choose to do a lot with your life.
#203958 to #203953 - anon
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(12/04/2015) [-]
Stop living for other's sake. You're the one that matters most in your life and you need to start treating yourself like it. I get wanting to be nice to people but it doesn't mean shit if they won't do the same for you. Stop wasting your energy on other people, as cruel as that might sound, you need to focus that energy on yourself and making yourself happy.
#203951 - Kalas
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(12/04/2015) [-]
Okay guys I REALLY need your advice now; I had a bag of frozen shrimp in my freezer sitting for quite a while now, but when I started thawing them to start cooking them I noticed something between the shrimp, it looked like the head of some sort of fish, so my question is... Do you guys think I can sue? I already threw the bag away but I can go get it. I have pictures of the actual head, but you can't see the company's logo on them.
#204104 to #203951 - drickz
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(12/06/2015) [-]
Best you can try, and the morally right thing to do imo, is to just send them an email and complain about the product. They usually give you a coupon.
#203956 to #203951 - thumbsdenied
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(12/04/2015) [-]
you wouldnt win, its pretty common to find stuff that doesnt belong in the product. Especially with fish.
There was gasoline in my energy drink once, dont know how and didnt see any vandalism on the can before opening, still had fizz so should have been completely sealed.
#203957 to #203956 - Kalas
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(12/04/2015) [-]
Oh well, being a broke college student this seemed like a golden opportunity, but thanks!
#203952 to #203951 - Kalas
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(12/04/2015) [-]
The head
#203960 to #203952 - confusedasian
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(12/04/2015) [-]
I just thought of this, but stick your fingers in it and see if you can make it talk like a puppet.
#203959 to #203952 - confusedasian
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(12/04/2015) [-]
What the fuck kind of frozen shrimp bag is that? Looks like goo. Also, if they're selling shrimp, it's likely they sell fish as well. Things like that happen. You know how the ice cream shop they say "may come in contact with peanuts"? That's because the toppings are in the same general area and a stray topping can get mixed with the others. Same thing here.

But seriously, what the fuck kind of frozen shrimp are you getting that looks like mushed goo?
#203976 to #203959 - Kalas
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(12/04/2015) [-]
That part was thawing already that's why it looks even shittier.
#203954 to #203952 - anon
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(12/04/2015) [-]
Sue? No not unless you get a cocky lawyer. The most you could probably get away with is calling up the company and maybe get a voucher for a free bag of shrimp.
Unless the fish is poisonous or you're allergic to that type of fish, it's just a manufacturing error that harmless. The only way to get money from a company is if the error was endangering you in some way.
#203955 to #203954 - Kalas
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(12/04/2015) [-]
Well it did have "stingers" and I actually got stung with it by accident, but thanks, I just wanted to make sure.
#203935 - anon
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(12/04/2015) [-]
I'm going anon because of reasons.

My girlfriend, who is online and I plan on meeting her soon is somebody I adore a lot. Care about her future and just want to be around her. The thing is though, she had a rough upbringing. I wont go into details because it doesn't matter now, but it left scars on her life. She had to get a liver replaced and her body is... extremely skinny. I think she is attractive still, but it isn't healthy.

Also, her liver if it is true then she really shouldn't be around for more than 10 years, probably less. I just feel really shitty about the whole deal.

ITT: Any sort of advice you can give would be great. I want to help her so much, but it's so difficult to do when I know she probably wont be around when I'm 30.
#204029 to #203935 - joshlol
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(12/04/2015) [-]
>Also, her liver if it is true then she really shouldn't be around for more than 10 years, probably less. I just feel really shitty about the whole deal.

Liver transplant?
#203936 to #203935 - anon
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(12/04/2015) [-]
All you can do is be there for her and make sure she knows that you adore her as much as you say you do. Allowing her and yourself to be sad about the whole situation would just make matters worse. Just treat the "date" (or whatever you are calling it) as just you two seeing each other. Of course, if things happen and you talk about it then listen to her. Being there for her and listening to her are important but do not stress about it. Just enjoy your guy's time together. It is a nice thing to see the person you adore the most and just living life with them. I hope you have fun and enjoy it.
#203942 to #203936 - anon
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(12/04/2015) [-]
I just feel like... anything good that happens in my life seems to get taken away. That's all.
#203949 to #203942 - anon
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(12/04/2015) [-]
I am sorry anon. I wish I could make you feel better. The fact that you found love is beautiful in itself so please cherish it. Do it for her. Love can be an amazing feeling.
#203950 to #203949 - anon
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(12/04/2015) [-]
Yeah, I'll stay with her. It's not going to make me break up or something rediculous. I like her a lot.
#203918 - chaoticlaw
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(12/04/2015) [-]
Should I fuck my daughter? I know for a fact that the boys she'll meet when she's older won't give it to her right, so I've rolling it around in my head that I give her the dickin if her young life. If she ain't up for it, I stop. But if she's going with it full force, I feel it only right that I put my all in, you know?

Any thoughts on this?
#204105 to #203918 - anon
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(12/06/2015) [-]
No. You'll hurt her mentally. Also illegal.
#204107 to #204105 - chaoticlaw
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(12/06/2015) [-]
I'm hearing a yes, did you say yes.
#203922 to #203921 - chaoticlaw
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(12/04/2015) [-]
Is that a yes or a no, cause I'm getting mixed signals.
#203919 to #203918 - anon
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(12/04/2015) [-]
You are probably joking but if you are not then you are fucking disgusting and need help.
#203920 to #203919 - chaoticlaw
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(12/04/2015) [-]
No dude, for srs. I need some legit input on this, any sort will help.
#203926 to #203920 - anon
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(12/04/2015) [-]
>chaotic law

stfu you edgy rpg faggot
#203927 to #203926 - chaoticlaw
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(12/04/2015) [-]
Maybe just give her the ol' lickaroo?

I'm undecided so far.
#203914 - murrlogic
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(12/04/2015) [-]
ITT we give Murrlogic the flimsiest excuses to drink an entire bottle of Vodka tonight.

I'll start off. This picture.
#203965 to #203914 - youraveragesupport
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(12/04/2015) [-]
Drink it because I don't have any of my own to drink, so someone needs to drink for me
#203930 to #203914 - iflirtwithanyone
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(12/04/2015) [-]
If you don't who will?
#203915 to #203914 - chaoticlaw
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(12/04/2015) [-]
Drink it because I'm the only person who has ever loved you.
#203916 to #203915 - murrlogic
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(12/04/2015) [-]
> chaoticlaw will spend Christmas masturbating to Pearls tears
#203917 to #203916 - chaoticlaw
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(12/04/2015) [-]
You better fucking believe it, muchacho.
#203909 - arearea
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(12/04/2015) [-]
Can anyone tell me how to properly cut my nails?
I realize this sound retarded, im a male and have been doing it for 10 years now
(my mom did them for me till like 10), but nearly everytime i cut them, i get this fleshy buildup around the ends of my middle and ring fingers. sometimes i cut them off and sometimes not, sometimes those spots hurt like a bastard for a day or two, sometimes not .
what am i doing wrong, and how can i avoid that problem
#203911 to #203909 - anon
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(12/04/2015) [-]
Guy nails should be cared for just like girls nail (minus the paint, unless that's what's you're into)
1. Have a small kit that includes a nail clipper, a filer, a round tip pick, and cuticle scissors. They're easy enough to find in like a CVS or some place similar.
2. Soak your hands in warm water for about 5 minutes to soften up the dead skin around the nails. It'll be easier to remove.
3. Use the round tip pick to clean the dirt from under neath your nails. Be careful not to scrap too deep.
4. Trim you're nails with the nail clippers down to about the length you want, leaving enough so you can round it down with the filer.
5. Cut the dead skin around the sides of your nail using the cuticle scissors. Don't cut too much, just enough so you won't get a hang nail.
6. File down your nails until they're round and smooth.

Use lotion regularly, especially on the skin around the nails. Don't bite or chew your nails or the skin around your nails. Always, if possible, cut them with your nail clippers to reduce bleeding.
#203895 - anon
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(12/03/2015) [-]
Today I found out that I'm the other woman.
#203981 to #203895 - alstorp
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(12/04/2015) [-]
I've been that once, but as a man... And voluntarily. But either way you shouldn't take it too hard, think of it like this, why would you ever want to be with him anyway if he's willing to do something like that to you? Does human trash like that really deserve you kicking yourself for this?

One thing I can say is that you shouldn't have contacted the girlfriend, that was not a good idea, for multiple reasons.

Good luck, I hope you can get over it, whatever you do don't try to get back with him after this, you know a person that is capable of doing it will do it again.
#204003 to #203981 - rebexa
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(12/04/2015) [-]
Why shouldn't I have contacted the girlfriend? I couldn't leave her not knowing her boyfriend had cheated on her. Apparently this isn't the first time.

And I would never get back with him. If I never have to see him again, it will be too soon.
#203934 to #203895 - notred ONLINE
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(12/04/2015) [-]
I don't think anything anyone will say here will make you feel better, but that guy is a jerk for doing that. I know I felt awful when I was cheated on.
#203938 to #203934 - rebexa
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(12/04/2015) [-]
I hate feeling like I'm partially to blame for basically ruining someone's life.
#203940 to #203938 - notred ONLINE
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(12/04/2015) [-]
It was his choice, not yours. I'm sure you aren't the type of person that would purposefully get with a guy that is dating somebody else.
#203944 to #203940 - rebexa
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(12/04/2015) [-]
I literally messaged his girlfriend within 10 minutes of finding out to tell her everything. I've spent almost 24 hours being told what a terrible human being I am.
#203961 to #203944 - confusedasian
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(12/04/2015) [-]
Wait, the girlfriend is calling you out? Or the ex-boyfriend?
#203963 to #203961 - rebexa
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(12/04/2015) [-]
The girlfriend.
#203967 to #203963 - confusedasian
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(12/04/2015) [-]
Either she doesn't believe you (she thought that you were trying to steal him away from her or something), or she's retarded.
#203968 to #203967 - rebexa
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(12/04/2015) [-]
I showed her all the texts. She's in denial and there's nothing I can do about it and I hate it.
#203970 to #203968 - confusedasian
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(12/04/2015) [-]
If she continues to fumble in the dark after you've shown her the light, that's her own problem. You should move on.
#203971 to #203970 - rebexa
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(12/04/2015) [-]
I guess.... I know it isn't my fault because I didn't know, but also, I am part of the cause of her pain, and I hate that
#203973 to #203971 - confusedasian
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(12/04/2015) [-]
Is she your friend? I don't understand why you care so much about this woman. Try this (assuming the girl will still listen to you.), get her to come with you and confront the boy about it.
#203979 to #203973 - rebexa
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(12/04/2015) [-]
I've never met her in my life. But I'm overly caring about literally everyone. It's a blessing and a curse.
#204005 to #203979 - confusedasian
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(12/04/2015) [-]
Yes, you can't help and please everyone though. You have to accept that. I still care about people, but I've come to accept that. I'm not a superhero. I can't save everyone. That's the reality of things you need to face as well. At this moment, people are dying, getting raped, beaten, kidnapped, etc. We can't save them all. If there is a God, I don't understand why it would allow this to continue.
#204012 to #204005 - rebexa
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(12/04/2015) [-]
I know. Her best friend got involved as a neutral party and she's really nice so she's actually been checking in that I'm ok. But apparently the girlfriend is considering staying with him and that terrifies me.
#204015 to #204012 - confusedasian
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(12/04/2015) [-]
If she wishes to play with fire, one can also learn through pain. However, lets not jump to conclusions and give them the benefit of doubt. This ordeal probably made him change. Time will tell.
#204036 to #204015 - rebexa
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(12/05/2015) [-]
Except that this isn't the first time, apparently.
#204037 to #204036 - confusedasian
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(12/05/2015) [-]
That's sad.
#203947 to #203944 - notred ONLINE
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(12/04/2015) [-]
Well you aren't. You need to believe you did the right thing by telling her.
#203964 to #203947 - rebexa
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(12/04/2015) [-]
I know I did the right thing. I know I'm not t fault here. It's just such a shitty situation in general.
#203932 to #203895 - braveblue ONLINE
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(12/04/2015) [-]
Dump his or her ass and move on, find someone that wil treat you the way you want to be treated and then treat them how they want to be treated.

Or just naturally be a good person and it should all work out, if not who cares, you're not losing anything you started out with.
#203939 to #203932 - rebexa
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(12/04/2015) [-]
Part of the problem is that I'm too good of person and people walk right over me.
#203945 to #203939 - braveblue ONLINE
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(12/04/2015) [-]
Mmm, that was my mother's mistake for the longest time and still to this day, God I just hate people who take advantage of others. I use to do it but I definitely changed and turned into a better person I think. I mean, it's good that you're a good person but it's just gonna give you some heartbreak/troubles in the future, there needs to be a point where you stop being a good person and show people the word "no" and stand up for yourself. I guess it's kind of hard because you don't know if the person deserves it or not. Some people I just want to be good to all the time and sometimes not at all. Usually the people I respect I want to impress and not be a burden to them.

Wish I had an answer to the whole, people walk over me, because I would use it on my family as well.
#203966 to #203945 - rebexa
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(12/04/2015) [-]
I appreciate that. The problem is that I want to be there and be kind to the people who deserve it. I feel good when I'm able to see other people happy. Which makes this whole situation worse, because I know I'm part of what's caused this girl massive heartbreak.
#203924 to #203895 - rebexa
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(12/04/2015) [-]
Posted this anon because in the past I've had cruel jokes on the advice board. Thanks for being nice when it actually counts, guys.

Also, joshlol commented on this? Whatttt?
#203933 to #203924 - notred ONLINE
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(12/04/2015) [-]
joshlol isn't some famous guy.
#203928 to #203924 - joshlol
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(12/04/2015) [-]
hello
#203929 to #203928 - rebexa
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(12/04/2015) [-]
Does this mean I'm FJ famous now?
#203931 to #203929 - joshlol
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(12/04/2015) [-]
**joshlol shrugs**
#203901 to #203895 - confusedasian
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(12/04/2015) [-]
GIF
Time to leave and find someone that will make you his one and only.
#203925 to #203901 - rebexa
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(12/04/2015) [-]
I've been searching for that person for a long time.
#203941 to #203925 - confusedasian
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(12/04/2015) [-]
GIF
Then it's time to adopt a dog.
#203943 to #203941 - rebexa
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(12/04/2015) [-]
I would if I could. :/
#203946 to #203943 - confusedasian
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(12/04/2015) [-]
Then it's time for a tamagotchi.
#203969 to #203946 - rebexa
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(12/04/2015) [-]
My tamagotchi died when I was but a child.
#203972 to #203969 - confusedasian
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(12/04/2015) [-]
Then it's time to eat ice cream on the couch while watching F.R.I.E.N.D.S.
#203980 to #203972 - rebexa
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(12/04/2015) [-]
This I can do.
#203900 to #203895 - ilikethisusername
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(12/04/2015) [-]
that.....sucks....
#203897 to #203895 - joshlol
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(12/04/2015) [-]
>tfw I'm just the weirdo from theinternet
#203896 to #203895 - anon
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(12/04/2015) [-]
Damn.
#203894 - iflirtwithanyone
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(12/03/2015) [-]
Anyone in the Los Angeles or San Diego areas, any advice on moving to either of those areas? Places not to live, relatively cheap places to live, how good or bad the job market is for someone without a degree?
#203898 to #203894 - joshlol
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(12/04/2015) [-]
why would you want to live in LA? It's a congested shithole
#203899 to #203898 - iflirtwithanyone
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(12/04/2015) [-]
That doesn't bother me in the least bit honestly. I like super populated areas.
#203892 - xsirwafflezx
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(12/03/2015) [-]
I need some advice on something.
I've been ill for the last 3 days and as a result I've been off school, fairly standard, I've spent most of my time in bed or playing video games, not much other than that.
But here's the thing.
No one is talking to me, almost no one, not my friends, not my relatives, and it's got me on a downer. I feel as if the only real reason people usually talk to me is because I initiate conversation and they are obliged to do so. As if I don't matter to anyone.
Furthermore my parents seem to get progressively less supportive of me the longer I've been ill for, they start saying things like "Bunking off school again?" And "You're just avoiding a test, aren't you?"
What should I do?
#203978 to #203892 - yiffcario
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(12/04/2015) [-]
No one is obliged to talk to anyone, they might just be far more comfortable if another initiates, I know I prefer it. Often times, we overthink the situation and create problems in our head that aren't actually happening.
If you really have concerns that you want to address quickly, you could consider letting your thoughts be know to your friends and family, maybe they are brushing you off but don't even realize it, it could all just be coincidence if it's even happening. Life gets in the way sometimes and people forget to reply sometimes or mention something they would have liked to.
Don't get paranoid, you'll be worrying about nonexistent problems.
#203903 to #203892 - anon
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(12/04/2015) [-]
I think you are taking things a bit too personally. I seem to "ignore" a lot of my friends but it is not because I do not like them, do not care for them, or do not want to talk to them. The reason is that I just simply do not have the time or am too lazy to start a conversation. In other words, it is just me being a "bad communicator." I am sure your friends do not mind talking to you and still care for you. They are probably just like me and you should not judge them so harshly. Even my own friends can be the same way in terms of communication. Just remind yourself of that "nonverbal contract." The contract that states: just because we do not talk to a lot does not mean we are not friends. Relatives can be the same way. It is near impossible to talk to people everyday, even if you like them. Again people are busy, forgetful, and lazy.

As for you parents, I think they just do not see how ill you really are. It may seem way worse for you than it is for them. Parents love seeing their children succeed so when you are sick then you are not actually achieving much. So, forget them for a while and do not take their words personally. You know you are ill so be ill until you are not and go back to school working at full force.

I hope this helps. c:
#203902 to #203892 - anon
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(12/04/2015) [-]
Try and accept the fact that you, like most other people, could die and nobody would blink an eye.
#203937 to #203902 - meowtownhero
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(12/04/2015) [-]
Savage
#203886 - smartythechicken
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(12/03/2015) [-]
i need help.
dont read this if you dont like dead animals. you will get triggered. but only if you're a little bitch
so im making rabbits feet (the ones that give good luck, yknow?) and i am currently soaking the rabbits feet in isopropyl alcohol. i heard that i need to soak them for 48 hrs and afterwards soak them in a mixture of water and borax. does anyone know anything on the subject? what else could i use, other than borax?
#203885 - youraveragesupport
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(12/03/2015) [-]
So, after a really bad breakup a month ago, I re-made my tinder, and matched with this girl almost instantly.
She seems really cool, and I think I like her, but after that breakup, I just feel like I can't connect emotionally with people the same way anymore
Do I bite the bullet and try it with this girl? Or is this something I just have to take time to man up and get over?
#203888 to #203885 - rokkai
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(12/03/2015) [-]
i suggest you don't force anything yet. clearly you loved that girl and i think you should get over her first to fully commit another relationship. because i had something like this. i dated this girl for like 3 months but she seemed cold. i realized what was wrong and dumped her since she couldn't get over her ex.
#203890 to #203888 - youraveragesupport
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(12/03/2015) [-]
That's kinda what I was thinking. I'm going to tell this girl the truth, but do I say that I want to take it slow and be friends for a while, or should I just try to cut ties now?
#203891 to #203890 - rokkai
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(12/03/2015) [-]
well, you have two choices according to my past experiences;
1) just bang and act like you care hello darkness my old friend
2) or you do exactly what you said. talk to her. tell her that you have feelings and you can have something together but you need time to get over that last relationship.
#203874 - smartythechicken
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(12/03/2015) [-]
how the fuck do i get my discipline back?
#203875 to #203874 - anon
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(12/03/2015) [-]
Work for it.
#203876 to #203875 - smartythechicken
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(12/03/2015) [-]
i dont feel like it. its hard enough to get social energy, let alone do my hard homework.
#203882 to #203876 - icefried
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(12/03/2015) [-]
I'm struggling with the same problems. There's literally no other solution than forcing yourself.
Sounds simple but it's pretty hard.
#203884 to #203882 - smartythechicken
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(12/03/2015) [-]
thanks, i know. i used to have a great discipline.
the school started
anyway, thanks for telling, appreciate it.
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#203867 - enlightednatzie ONLINE
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(12/03/2015) [-]
Am i the only one here that wake up at like nine in the morning, then proceeds to do nothing at all for like 3-5 hours? Dont get me wrong, i am going to school every second day but today i woke up at half ten and i have been laying in the coach for the last 2,5 hours and i feel just glorius and satisfied with that.

Am i a lazy asshole? Like, i feel that i need to do some physical labour outside to be happy with myself but at the same time i feel just satisfied by doing nothing at all. And sometimes i hear from people that say things like ''oh man i would be so much more creative without internet lol'' but i know its untrue for me. Without internet i'd just lay in the couch reading a book all day.

I have been trying to do some productive things like calling my boss and see if i can work soon but his phone has always been off and now i have a functioning car so i dont really need a reason to fix with my old one because i need to go to my brother to find some parts for it and he comes home around 16:00 anyway.

I have gotten angry and depressed because i feel ike such a lazy asshole, i have no job and quite honestly i am too lazy to work out despite the fact that i have a gymcard.

But i have found out that all these feelings have been damaging to my personality, the reason i study is because thats my chanse for a stable wellpaying job so i dont have to take these per hour jobs wheere my employer can call me at ten in the evening asking me if i can work for 8-12 hours the day later as a garbage man, meaning i dont have enough time to sleep or buy food for that workday.

I have wierd habbit of setting unrealistic goals that has to be done in a really short time but to achieve these things i really need time, a long time that is. Anyone agreeing with me?
#203948 to #203867 - meowtownhero
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(12/04/2015) [-]
That cuts deep, all my goals are on hold because I've gotten addicted\used to work>Netflix/food/weed/video games>sleep repeat. I've been ditching school and ball practice for this routine I know will lead to becoming a lazy bum and I hate myself for it but its too relaxing and makes me feel so content. But within those few minutes when I'm not doing anything or in deep thought, I go through so much in my mind and remind myself what I really am and will end up as.

Just study man. Get a job thats needed like something in healthcare idek. You just gotta escape that mindset.
#203883 to #203867 - anon
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(12/03/2015) [-]
I feel yah man.
#203866 - crlmsonhazard
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(12/03/2015) [-]
>am wizard
>unemployed (too cringey socially to pass the interview stage)
>so ugly every dating profile I make looks like a cringe comp
>cant join army (cant do pullups)
>most of family is very successful and have disowned me due to my poverty
>no friends
>not allowed to own musical instruments or pets

Dad be like "why are you so unhappy?"
#203975 to #203866 - lordbrauner
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(12/04/2015) [-]
Join the military if it's something you wanna do.

Trust me, they'll put you in the Delayed Entry Program and make sure you can do what's expected of you before you even ship out for Boot Camp. I couldn't do a pull up either before I joined the Marines. I lost so much fucking weight that summer before I shipped.
#203904 to #203866 - anon
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(12/04/2015) [-]
One thing that my uncles told me helped them develop as people is joining the military. If you are really up for change then get motivated and learn how to do some pull-ups. That is literally what is holding you back. Make it your LIFE GOAL. You control very little in your life, so control what you can. Hit the gym and do it for yourself. Accomplishing a goal is a big confidence booster.
#203889 to #203866 - rokkai
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(12/03/2015) [-]
iif you can make just one of those things right, the others will come in your way.
one pullup-->two pullups-->5 pullups-->enough pullups to join army.
>your physique should be much better after duty.
>you look better so now you have confidence.
>enough confidence to meet new people or to get over your social anxiety.
>get a job
>get friends
>get a gf
>thank mr skeltal
#203887 to #203866 - darkbladept
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(12/03/2015) [-]
Workout mate, It'll do wonders to your mind and your body.
#203853 - haydentheviking ONLINE
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(12/03/2015) [-]
Im gonna start sleeping earlier as i have to wake up at 6-8 most days

am i alone or is putting a alarm on a really good idea to signal to sleep
#203859 to #203853 - confusedasian
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(12/03/2015) [-]
I have 5 alarms to wake me up, and even then it's still a struggle.
#203846 - tyrano ONLINE
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(12/03/2015) [-]
been two weeks living with my dad and i can't wait to move out
#203907 to #203846 - anon
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(12/04/2015) [-]
Awesome!
#203844 - mcdonaldsexplain
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(12/03/2015) [-]
ITS FUCKING DOOMSDAY!!! MY ERECTION CAN ONLY GET SO BIG!!!
#203878 to #203844 - anon
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(12/03/2015) [-]
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