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#9 - Waltz
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(03/02/2013) [-]
put yourself first and be more assertive. Pointless to be all wimpy like that.
#7 - gemmerpants
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(03/02/2013) [-]
This is so sweet! I think you should tell her how you feel!
#8 to #7 - madnoob [OP]
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(03/02/2013) [-]
she kinda knows how i feel but i just told her to go with the guy that would make her the happiest..
#11 to #8 - gemmerpants
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(03/02/2013) [-]
Aww, that's really nice of you but try and prove to her that you can make her happier
#22 to #11 - madnoob [OP]
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(03/03/2013) [-]
ive been texting her for a while now and she told me the only reason why she said yes to the other guy was cuz she didnt want to hurt him but she wants to be with me instead cuz he is a jerk
#23 to #22 - gemmerpants
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(03/04/2013) [-]
Win!! Go for it! :) Really happy for you!
#24 to #23 - madnoob [OP]
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(03/04/2013) [-]
i hope she goes through with it and still likes me :(
#25 to #24 - multimedia
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(03/04/2013) [-]
Alright, this post is gonna make me look like a dick. I don't care.

Drop the self-pity, and drop it NOW. Girls don't like that ****. Some deeper girls will care at first, but it will get old. I know this. I've been on both sides of this situation. If she likes you, which she seems to, she will enjoy just being around you, and that will make her happy. That's all it takes. Breathing. Being there. If she really cares, that's all it takes to make her happy. So don't get so ******* down on yourself, alright?
#15 to #8 - rimjobmcgee
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(03/02/2013) [-]
I'm in the same situation, and there's nothing ya can do about it mate. Ya did what was best for her, now ya have to let her go so you don't slip and accidentally interfere. It sucks I know, but all there is to do is move on and hope for someone that makes you feel happy again to come along
#14 to #8 - lolwatthe
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(03/02/2013) [-]
Be her friend, wouldn't it be better to be in her life than not at all?
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#6 to #2 - madnoob [OP]
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(03/02/2013) [-]
think im going to let her go she already was confused enough choosing between me and him i dont want her to get hurt
#10 to #6 - Bion ONLINE
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(03/02/2013) [-]
A girl who can't "choose" between 2 guys is gonna have commitment issues. You're most likely best off with someone else. Even if she seems awesome. Try to get rid of your feelings for her, and keep her as a friend though. Should help you draw in some other girls of similar quality. (sorry if this sounds harsh/straightforward... I'm just being analytical).

If you let her go now, then NEVER take her back... cuz in the end, you're the second pick and the only reason she's gonna be with you, is cuz it didn't work with the other guy. Then the commitment issues come in at a later date, when she starts talking to other guys.

I'm not speaking bad of her, of course. I'm just... quite good at predicting the outcome of certain things.
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#27 - knemo
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(03/11/2013) [-]
You are a brave man. All I can say is stay strong. There's a girl for you yet. I feel it. :)
#29 - madnoob [OP]
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(04/05/2013) [-]
well its been a happy and amazing month with the same girl i won her heart and she is really what ive been looking for :) thank you for the support everyone!
#28 - weeeeeeeeeeee
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(03/13/2013) [-]
I've been in the same situation bro. But you have to tell her how you feel, if you haven't already. I begged my girl for a chance, and she ended up being happier with me. You never know until you try! Hang in there buddy:)
#26 - fanficscribbler
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(03/06/2013) [-]
I had someone like this, but vice versa. I was so scared of getting close to him and staining whatever pure thing made him him. I thought he would be content with others, content to simply live his life and I'd be content to be his friend.
I could be home, with him, my old friends and my family. I could be doing well in uni, and not get spiteful texts every once in a while.
Now, he hates me with a burning passion and has accused me of toying with him. I've thought it through a thousand different way and all I can think is that I wasn't assertive enough. I didn't tell him just how badly I'd fallen for him. It's possible that he doesn't like me anymore due to me falling back out of love with him.

Don't make that mistake. Tell her or you might regret it for years. Jump. See where you land. The worst thing that could happen is that she says no.
#20 - anon
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(03/02/2013) [-]
you did what was right, sir.
#18 - anon
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(03/02/2013) [-]
Love is over.
#1 - anon
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(03/02/2013) [-]
kill yourself
#3 to #1 - madnoob [OP]
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(03/02/2013) [-]
how so?
#4 to #3 - anon
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(03/02/2013) [-]
3 alieve
#5 to #4 - madnoob [OP]
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(03/02/2013) [-]
tried it... got gas
#13 to #5 - anon
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(03/02/2013) [-]
Bleach?
#19 to #13 - madnoob [OP]
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(03/02/2013) [-]
already been done
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