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#22 - arandomanon
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(03/07/2013) [-]
MFW my brother died before I was born and I didn't have the chance of meeting him.

MFW my parents won't talk about him because it's a taboo topic.

MFW the only thing I know about him is that he's dead.
#307 to #22 - manwithanopinion
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(03/08/2013) [-]
I'm sorry. I can't even thumb this up because i'm drowning in feels. I'm sincerely sorry.
#321 to #307 - arandomanon
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(03/08/2013) [-]
Thanks man but don't worry about it, it's happenned lot time ago. I just get sad sometimes but it's actually nothing. Here's a funny picture for you to help you out with your feels.
#270 to #22 - anon
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(03/08/2013) [-]
I know that feel bro :( I always wonder what my big bro would have been like if he wasn't stillborn. Would have been a lot less lonely :(
#280 to #270 - arandomanon
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(03/08/2013) [-]
At least you're here, it's something.
#200 to #22 - ascarecrow
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(03/07/2013) [-]
I know that feel all too well. My brother died before I was born as well. I wonder what it would have been like to have an older brother.
#225 to #200 - ascarecrow
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(03/07/2013) [-]
I hear the same, and nearly cry when I do. I hope that I will get to meet him in what ever afterlife is waiting for me.
#237 to #225 - arandomanon
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(03/07/2013) [-]
Only God knows.
#223 to #200 - arandomanon
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(03/07/2013) [-]
I wonder the same. Many people I've talked to think that having a brother's a pain sometimes (usually) but they say that they wouldn't change them for anything.
#180 to #22 - qazsa
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(03/07/2013) [-]
I'm sorry dude.
I'm sorry dude.
#193 to #180 - arandomanon
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(03/07/2013) [-]
Thanks, man.
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#130 to #128 - arandomanon
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(03/07/2013) [-]
hue.
How can you tell he was white by the way?
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#149 to #145 - arandomanon
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(03/07/2013) [-]
You're*. And yes, I'm white. But my brother was rather brown-skinned.
My mother is white and my father is brown-skinned.
#52 to #22 - JonnyFirecrackr
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(03/07/2013) [-]
I know that feel, i was supposed to have a twin brother. At the time my family lived right across from a hospital so my mom was checked on every day towards the end of her pregnancy. My twin brother died December 1, 1991. I was born December 2, 1991. My parents never had any other kids and I'm an only child.
#344 to #52 - datargumme
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(03/08/2013) [-]
Sounds a bit like the curse of twins from Vanpaia Naito
#301 to #52 - dayasalion
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(03/08/2013) [-]
good, you've absorbed him, you are now twice as strong.
#334 to #301 - JonnyFirecrackr
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(03/08/2013) [-]
not cool man =(
#330 to #301 - arandomanon
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(03/08/2013) [-]
Good one.
#329 to #301 - BroadSword
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(03/08/2013) [-]
You just made me happy after reading these depressing posts, thanks :)
#55 to #52 - arandomanon
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(03/07/2013) [-]
That sucks. All I know of my brother is that he died of a heart attack and that he was about 12 years old.
Do you what is the saddest thing on the story? I found out I had a brother because in a conversation, my mother said "birth pains aren't that hard" (I was born by caesarean section), I asked her how did she know it and she avoided the question. I investigated a bit, found my family record book and it said I had a brother. When I asked about him to my parents, they said "yes, you had a brother. We hadn't talked about him because we didn't find the time. He died of a heart attack when he was 12 and please, let us talk about something else." And that's the only information I've found.
#67 to #55 - JonnyFirecrackr
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(03/07/2013) [-]
They may have just been trying to protect you. My father's way of raising me was to be very open and honest and he taught me everything about life when I was very young which I am grateful for. I knew about sex and drugs and my father's past (which was filled with both of those things) way before my peers had a clue. Honestly I'm glad i was raised this way but some of the things I was told put a lot of responsibility and took a lot of innocence away from the kid I used to be. I was always upset that my brother died whenever my neighbors (two brothers) would gang up on me in arguments and I thought it was so unfair that I didn't have my brother with me to back me up.
#75 to #67 - arandomanon
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(03/07/2013) [-]
I think your parents did right doing that. My parents' education about "life" has been always rather conservative and scarce. They haven't talked me about anything like sex, drugs or things like that (I even had to learn how to shave by my own). They still switch channels when there's a sex scene and I'm 22 years old and I don't understand why do they do that but thanks to it, I feel kind of awkward when I'm talking about sex or things like it. I think they feel uncomfortable when they deal with those topics with me so I guess it's possible that not talking to me about my deceased brother is part of their discomfort. Or perhaps there's another reason.
#78 to #75 - JonnyFirecrackr
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(03/07/2013) [-]
I wish you the best in dealing with this man. Not many people understand how and why it hurts so much to lose a sibling even if you never knew them. I just opened up to one of my friends in college about my brother and she told me to get over it. As if it was that simple...
#84 to #78 - arandomanon
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(03/07/2013) [-]
I understand. I don't talk about my brother about anyone, in fact I think this is the first time I ever mention it to someone who aren't my parents. I don't know how people would react to it but I don't care. My feelings are only mine and I don't really care if they understand or not. To be honest, I rather feel nothing about all of this... You may call me a monster but I'm too worn out to care about anything... and sadly, this is one of the issues I don't care much about.
Sometimes I feel random sadness attacks but that's all.
#93 to #84 - JonnyFirecrackr
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(03/07/2013) [-]
I understand what you mean. Personally I always have to talk to someone about all the bs in my life and it really helps me. Maybe you should tell your best friend about it.
#97 to #93 - arandomanon
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(03/07/2013) [-]
I don't know.. last time I did, it didn't end well. I trusted someone once and she tore me apart. Anyways, I don't know if I actually have someone to talk about my stuff with.
#100 to #97 - JonnyFirecrackr
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(03/07/2013) [-]
Your best friend was upset with you when you tried bringing up your brother?
#105 to #100 - arandomanon
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(03/07/2013) [-]
Wish it was just that. But it wasn't about my brother but something else... well she ended up being a bitch. It's a long history and I don't wanna bore you.
#172 to #105 - JonnyFirecrackr
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(03/07/2013) [-]
Sorry, went on a Taco Bell run. Well do you have a grandparent or uncle to talk to?
#189 to #172 - arandomanon
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(03/07/2013) [-]
It's alright. No, since my grandmother died, my family became a crow bevy. Inheritance issues. Except for one or 2 I kind of get along with but I don't talk to much, whenever we (my parents and I) meet the others, we usually end up either with a violent silence or with shoutings and shriekings. Typical family, I guess.
#206 to #189 - JonnyFirecrackr
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(03/07/2013) [-]
Well then maybe you should take a chance and talk to that friend you mentioned earlier. Or maybe like you said earlier you are ok with it and you dont care. All I know is that i cant hold in in myself.
#220 to #206 - arandomanon
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(03/07/2013) [-]
Eh... I don't want to be rude but, why the **** would I tell anything to someone who's been a bitch to me? (as I stated above)
And it's not like I'm ok not knowing my brother but I don't usually feel too bad about it... just sometimes I feel like something's (someone) is missing.
#251 to #220 - JonnyFirecrackr
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(03/07/2013) [-]
I don't know what to tell you bud, maybe your parents will talk to you about it someday. Hope it all works out for ya.
#256 to #251 - arandomanon
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(03/07/2013) [-]
It's alright, I'll deal with it. Don't worry. Thanks for the chat though, it's been refreshing.
#269 to #256 - JonnyFirecrackr
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(03/08/2013) [-]
Hey man if you ever need to chat just inbox me and yes it was a good chat. Have a good remainder of your night.
#276 to #269 - arandomanon
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(03/08/2013) [-]
Thanks for the offer, I'll bear it in mind.
#86 to #84 - arandomanon
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(03/07/2013) [-]
Talk to anyone*. Sorry.
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#32 to #22 - rosietheamazon
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(03/07/2013) [-]
they'll open up one day
#56 to #32 - arandomanon
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(03/07/2013) [-]
Hope so.
#348 to #56 - rosietheamazon
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(03/09/2013) [-]
i went back to look at this conversation and i'm just happy you had some people to talk to about this.    
there's only a few times where some people on the internet can be kind and you started it.
i went back to look at this conversation and i'm just happy you had some people to talk to about this.
there's only a few times where some people on the internet can be kind and you started it.
#349 to #348 - arandomanon
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(03/09/2013) [-]
Yeah man, I didn't think people would show me so much support as they have. I'd like to thank you all for that.
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